What To Do When A Woman Plays Hard To Get | #1 Tip You Must Know!
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- What to do when a woman plays hard to get! In this video, you will get everything you're looking for from two experts! You'll understand how to detect signs she's playing mind games, how to tell if a girl is interested in you, and how to know if a girl is playing hard to get.
Not only do we give you these tips but we demonstrate ways to move forward and what to do next when she's playing hard to get. Make sure you stay till the end because this bonus tip is a game changer! You can change the pace of this relationship and you won't be asking "how to know if a girl is playing hard to get".
This video is full of dating advice and relationship advice. I look forward to your comments below! :)
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Still have questions if the girl youre interested in is playing hard to get? Comment below! :)
Apollonia Ponti Apollonia Ponti I'm already in friend zone, what should I do? I love her so much but she doesn't like me as I want.
it's almost a year this girl and I were chatting with each other, we always seem to like to crack jokes and talk bout random stuff through phones ! so I meet her only this year and I told her that I like being around her and she said she likes it too. But nowadays she seem to delay my messages and I know she's ignoring me somehow . what is happening ?
She brings happiness still
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Apollonia Ponti i will like to ask you a questoin
What if she cancels on a date and then gets back to on a Sunday, and then she ghost you the day after.
If she plays hard to get. Get away from her and let her play her games alone. She's always gonna be testing you and you don't need that.
Tačno 👌👌👌
If she can't have the guy, she will eventually get bored and give up
Bojc facts fuck her
YEAH MAN
But that’s the point of them saying that’s the guy not to be. Just because we don’t get our way we get insulted and ego bruised and give up? That’s not a guy that’s going to appear attractive in her eyes because she is used to that but on the other hand when a guy responds cool and confidently and goes along with it patiently and slowly getting her attention now you have created an attraction in her eyes
What to do if she is playing "hard to get"? Well, you just walk away and never look back. Most often than not if a woman stonewalls you, gives you the silent treatment, or just goes cold on you to "shit test" you it means she is manipulative, passive aggressive and highly probable she is a narcissist that do not address your feelings. A decent and honest woman will not play head games with you or test you to see if you are interested. Actions speaks louder than words so if you are a solid guy with good intentions don´t fall for these unhealthy manipulative tactics from toxic and broken women. As soon as you spot she backing away...you do the same...permanently. And once you walk away, never look back. You´re gone.
respect! you said it all!
Amen brother
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I say you should go cold 🥶
I love this
If she plays hard to get then leave her be. Life is too short for silly games.
Amén
That is a fact
If a woman is playing hard to get, never chase her (or even approach her). Instead, show that you're the greatest man in the world, and let her chase you.
That is a fact
Or just drop her forever
Or when she finally wants to hook up tell her no I'm no longer interested . Talk about soul crushing.
@@bensherman8976 Women have no souls to crush tho. They have endless choices
When she plays hard to get, start playing never to get.
Lol
HhahahahahhH
Lmao 😂
Fr he's right
No need to listen to 8+ minutes. If a woman is interested in you, she will make it relatively easy on you. If a woman is playing hard to get, she is not interested, so don't waste your time. If she's playing hard to get because she has had bad experiences, then let her sort through her own problems before you try to date her.
you are damn right friend!
I like that... 😉. Do you sell books or seminars as well?!... Just asking.
Mmhmm, otherwise u may start becoming codependent.. 😬😬😬
So true
Not true: women will test you at some point, even in a solid relationship: dont panic. The hard to get one is during the courting stage, which is early.
Some older people (age thirties and upwards) dont have the energy and time to guess wats in the mind of their love interest, its fine wen u r young like early twenties, but we cant play cat and mouse everyday, if i say i like u then give me an answer (not on the spot of course), if u keep playing mind games then i dont know wat to say, i will slowly distance myself until i leave completely, never returning. Not even if she calls 100 times a day desperately. No matter how much i like or love her, if im done, then its done forever, too much stress, too much drama, u can cope with some of it, but then there is a limit everything.
As far as I'm concerned if a woman plays hard to get, your just wasting your time if you try to pursue this woman and hope to be with her but she never communicates with you. Back off and give her some space. If she wants you, she will let you know she wants you. Keeping it real.
You should definitely give her space
Let her go...She don't deserve a man the one who had feelings on her...There r many pretty woman available out der...
Vishwanath Reddy N no
Lool
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That’s true but all of them are no different
That is a fact
Gents don’t listen to this guy, that might work him with American women cause he has the French thing, but the rest of us it’s a waste.
The moment a woman plays games, cut to chase and tell you are interested but won’t beg - and unless she wants you to stop trying, she need to cut the crap and be more responsive.
Hard to get = hard to want. Stop the moment you see games. Deal with adult women, not immature girls.
This is true. I think when faced with this particular situation, it's better to just cut to the chase. I've come to realize that there are so many girls out there.
I agree hard to get is hard to want
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so true, after going no contactless i realise it's more amazing how as the time goes by - I don't even need them anymore and its not even an act - they come back and the attraction is already gone lol
Fact
The collaboration was great. Good to get both the male and female perspective. Excellent video. Thank you!!
From my experience girls/women will play hard to get for many reasons. But If a girl really likes a guy, is straight forward by nature, is honest and a confident person, then there are minimal chances of she playing hard to get. Or giving the guy a difficult time. I think and have seen girls that do play mind games are deep inside insecure people, dishonest, liars, manipulative and are not comfortable with feelings or emotions. The reasons could be are -
1) She is a player - Majority of the time, if a girl do play games, hard to get with you, she is also doing it with other guys as well. She is being difficult with other guys as well. She is a flirt, do casual dating , maybe sleeps around, but nothing much or more than that.
2) She is not ready for a commitment- She is on her career mode. Yes girls are multitasker, but in today's world a good career or job is a must for survival. She wants to secure her life, build her finances and not depend on a man for her survival
3) She likes the chase - She is doing that with you only, or with many guys. Chances of many guys are chasing her and not just you is high. She loves the attention. Her ego is boosted and so her self confidence.
4) She wants power and control in the relationship - Basically she is showing you indirectly she and her goals, time etc. is more important than you. If she is showing you she values her friends, career or family more than you, then the chances her high of she wanting to be the boss in the relationship. Because if you are willing to chase her and wait for her, it means you value her more than yourself, otherwise you wouldn't.
:- The more she is sexy, attractive, intelligent, smart and have male followers, friends and fans. She will definitely play hard to get. She will make you work more for her more than a normal or average looking girl. And especially if she is 18-26/28 Years old. By the time she reaches 28/30. Her games reduces.
In today's modern world, technology has made even a normal ugly woman beautiful and social media has made them mini celebrities or local celebrities just because of her looks. A guy, can only during his 20's and early 30's focus on his career, hobbies and on girls who are open, honest and easy going. Don't waste your time and energy on this so called hot women/girls. I personally have had affairs with women above 30/40 and have learned a lot about sex, life and about other stuffs. They are really good in bed and more sexual than a young girl. They know how to respect a guy. But, of course everyone has their personal choice. A man when he will build an empire and is financially very secure. His chances of getting any girl will increase. Age doesn't matter. I have seen many good looking girls marrying older guys than them. For money, security and status. Like you want her for hot sex, emotional support etc. Both of the gender has different needs. That's how it is. All we can do is go with the flow and enjoy our life. A woman cannot and should not complete us. We are complete on our own. Good luck!
Bro you really nailed it. Everything you are saying is what I am going through right now with a female co-worker of mine at work. She was playing hard to get with me. I asked about hanging out and she said text her and let her know and she never responds. At work I ask her about hanging out and checking out a TV series together and she didn't answer. Number 1,3, & 4 is really her. She'll go on dates with guys she meet off Facebook. Having them buy her meals and she would hook Up with some of them. I caught her attention one day when I bought her a birthday gift and her heart melted. She hugged and thanked me four times. Now she wants to talk to me at work and respond to my comments on Facebook and like my posts. Sometimes she will talk to me and sometimes she won't. Which is fine because I am trying to fall back but she is so clueless that she doesn't even know the difference in my attitude around her. Lol smh
Thanks for this! 🔥🔥
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every girl i date plays hard to get. last one I dated I walked away from her as she was playing mind games too. the girl im currently dating/ interested in is doing the same thing. shes definitely into me, ive caught her staring at me, hinting at places but then I call her and she doesnt answer. we've gone out before. I hate this all it is going to do is push me away. if you like me talk to me. im so busy in my career and I need to focus.
You should definitely walk away
Life is short and while she's playing these games and being indecisive you might miss out on someone that actually likes you and will meet you half way when it comes to showing interest and pursuing. As soon as they play hard to get let em go.
U should definitely let them goo
Most women play hard to get when they don't want a man who they are really feeling to know that they really like, love, want & are attracted to. Many times it backfires & it should.
That is a good point
What I dont understand what you said.
When a woman plays hard to get it: She is easier for me to forget.
hahahahaha yeah!!!!!!!! THIS IS WHAT I FEEL TOO
I say walk away
Just walk away that's all
Beautifully said!
Zeus exactly, don’t waste your time and money and sanity ... well said chief
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Going to do this.
Works every time😂🔥
Comment section makes more sense than the video itself
@Copypastable you damn right )))
Date 3 or more women at the same time, when you meet the right one let the other two go.
Games are for little girls , men make decisions and keep it moving
C Phillps don’t do this.
it works
1 of my friends told me that you should date 3 or more women at the same time , when you meet the right one let the other two go
If she plays hard to get, we won't get together since I'm hard to get too.
Bob Owen amen
Right on Bob!!
Opposite attracts each other
This was great advice in the past but it's 2021 and if she's playing hard to get she's hard to want. What I have is much harder to get, I'm the prize, so she does the work.
ok brad pitt
Thank you guys golden advices
After watch this, i came to the point that i'm doing everything right. Great job!
Me to bro
Apollonia this video is really an eye-opener. We know that we need a good lady to marry but when she gets harder to get we find ourselves stranded. You have given us the remedy.
That is a good point
I really enjoyed the innner action and perspective from both of you, this could be a winning couples advise show.
Thank you Hector.
Thank You this will help me in the future!
You're welcome!
My mantra is, as she plays hard to get, keep on accumulating more and more women. Never stop gathering.
This is an amazing video! The point of view from a man and a woman, both experts! And I love Alex's accent.
Thank you! His accent is pretty awesome! LOL
Katarina H. He speaks French I guess
Yes it is
My main advice to do if a woman is playing hard to get is don't force it.
Interesting commentary ! Appollonia , your channel rocks ☝️️
Thank you!
You are welcome friend👍💐
Great video very direct to the point answers, Thx
Thank you, Brad. :)
U R Welcome, please do more videos on how men can be more aware of subtle things women do and say when interested in a man. Thx
Good content
Thank you so much for your opinion on this one and I will be able to get it done.
Thanks again for your help and support ❤️ 🙏 for your help
Defiantly
Good Team!
Apolonia just wanted to tell, you are a great coach. I successuly changed friendzone to a relationship by your advices. A big like for you and thank you..
Im trying to get out of the friend zone
VERY PLEASANT VIDEO! GREAT CONTENT AND VERY PROFESSIONAL... THE GENTLEMAN CHOSEN TO ASSIST YOU IN THE DISCUSSION DID A JOB ALSO.... YOU COMPLIMENTED EACH OTHER VERY WELL
Defiantly it is
Another awesome video Apollonia!
Hi Christina
Did I react well ?
There is this girl playing hard to get. The other day I saw her at supermarket and I told her this is a peaceful month so you and I we should be in peace. She said yes , with no smile.
I said you look so moody. She quitely said " again complains and suggestions". She said it so quietly that I asked her to repeat it and I had to bend down to listen to her. There were people around us .
I said it is a peaceful time and walked away. This was during Easter week.
Did I do good or bad with this girl who was playing hard to get with me ?
Guess what princesses.... you're not special.
yeah I have a thing called a "fleshlight"
problem solved, lmao
#1 tip: walk away and never look back.
Compliments always work for me :) and yes confidence. Yes calling works.
I have a question miss,
Ive been talking to this girl on this dating app we were talking for a week then she told me to add her on Snapchat we talked then she stopped responding so I deleted her form Snapchat and than on a different dating app I matched with her again we started talking and everything.but each time I talk to her it's like she's holding back and she would reply hours after each message I sent her and it's annoying because I'm trying to build chemistry with this woman but she's not allowing it to happen by taking hours to reply.shes a really pretty girl so I have no doubt about it that she's getting constant messages on these dating apps,what I'm trying to tell u is how would I get her to open up a little bit and maybe get her to reply to my messages faster.
Confident dose work
This video had some really good points , especially understanding to not be so available to a woman she has to reciprocate that energy. Also understanding if she had a bad past she is going to be guarded in the beginning. Thnx Appollonia
Thank you! You are so welcome.
If her guard is up what do I do ?
Hello young Lady.
Nice video 😁! 👍👍
I've watched a few of your videos like 5, 6, or maybe 7.
I believe I commented once before.
I really like what you said at the end.
Which I completely agree with.
In fact, so much so.
Just last night, I spoke with a Special Lady I'd dated previously.
Funny thing is.
I told her the next Committed Relationship I get into, I want and am more than willing to wait until we're very close and actually know each other very well, before we get completely physical.
That's definitely going to be a
Tall Task, yes! With a Capital T too!
😁😄🤣!
If you find yourself valuable you won’t hesitate to give your time to others...regardless if there is interests there, it’s called humility.
That is a good point
How he looks when she says every woman is beautiful no matter what shape etc lol good video!
On point
Great video.
Thanks so much!
What to do when a woman plays hard to get........go find another woman.
That is what my friend told me
Can you make a video that can help us know when she is playing hard to get or that she is not interested in you? Thanks love your videos
Defiantly bro she should
One girl that played hard to get to me told me that she wanted to know me better and be sure what she is getting into. She changed my mindset for good. I always thought to move on was a good option.
Hi Khae74, so from what you said, i assume you "moved on" right? But afterwards did she come back to you ? If so, how did you entertain her?
Yes it was
Did I react well ?
There is this girl playing hard to get. The other day I saw her at supermarket and I told her this is a peaceful month so you and I we should be in peace. She said yes , with no smile.
I said you look so moody. She quitely said " again complains and suggestions". She said it so quietly that I asked her to repeat it and I had to bend down to listen to her. There were people around us .
I said it is a peaceful time and walked away. This was during Easter week.
Did I do good or bad with this girl who was playing hard to get with me ?
This is AMAZING!! I love the contrast between the two of you including the cultural difference. As for the BONUS TIP at the end... Nailed it! There's is nothing like a man taking control and honoring the process of getting to know one another. Thank you for this! You're both so insightful and so honest.
Thank you! That bonus tip as $$$ LOL! xoxo
That is a fact
I can't distinguish between playing hard to get or just simply not interested so I assume the latter and move on
if she calls the cops on me does that mean she is playing hard to get?
Would you ever want to be with one who gets you in trouble purposefully? Be extremely nice to her, and dump her breaking her heart. In this case, she is trying to intimidate you and mould you into what she wants. But, just dump her.
It means that she wants to lock ur heart away lol
Sunny, we need to talk
Na she is just taking you to meet her father
Whoever calls the cops on you ever. BIG RED FLAG, LEAVE HER IMMEDIATELY!!! You have been warned 🙂
Solution :
Once you are able to create a necessity for her, start backing off a bit. That's how YOU will play hard to get.
That is a fact
As you should Lol . Always getting hollered at .
the other option , you haven't considered-- the fact that she might be in a declining relationship with another man and she is putting feelers out there for other men. Good video
Fact
When they play hard to get I give them their walking papers .
how do i know if she is playing hard to get or she doesn’t like me?
Wish I watched this video b4 deciding to walk away. I need some serious advice from you as to whether walking away was the right thing to do.
Yes you did the right thing
What is auk up and whoman ?
I'm dating a girl who doesn't give much away, I think it's frustrating cause I don't know if she likes me the way I like her. She's not long out of a serious relationship which didn't end too well (from what I gather) but this video has explained that she may be unsure / treading carefully.
I'm trying best to keep my patience as I like her however I have other girls blowing up my phone.
Don't know what to do 🤔
I would definitely try to date ather woman
Hi Coach
I'm confused. On one of your other video you said to give the woman options. Here you saying no option. Please clarify.
2nd question. After I leave s message asking a woman out. How long should I wait for a response before letting her go? Thanks
On women who play hard to get. Couple years ago meet a beautiful Latino lady . Told her was looking for a relationship, she told me about all the violence in her life in Colombia. And wasn’t ready for anything, so I drive her too her apartment, shook hands with her and wished her luck in the future, a few days later she called me . And said I miss you. We dated for about 3 months. And then I moved home to Vancouver Canada, the long distance relationship didn’t work after couple years I decided to end it. . In hindsight should have ended it when I moved, but she is a beautiful Latino woman , and I like Latino women, may meet another one. Who knows. I’m actively looking to meet someone. High value, high quality lady. Chris
Thanks
You're welcome!
Great video but a shame there is a huge sound difference between both presenters probably due to microphone placement or microphone sound settings.
What to do if you guys talk but don’t text is tha a cut off ? Or what
What if She's Someone I've Known My Whole life and I KNOW She likes Me everytime we see each other it's ALWAYS Physically Intimate & We Both Want each other & Yes She Does Play hard to get I don't hit her phone I don't initiate No Contact We're Too Grown For these Games So I'll See Her When I See Her I'll Talk to Her When I Talk To Her
No offense, but if she's had "too many players" before, then she definitely doesn't deserve a LTR from a respectable man. She immediately gets put in the short fling box.
And if she plays too hard to get and acts like god's gift on earth, then move on immediately. I find most women have a very low ability to project themselves into the future and see the repercussions of their actions or behaviors, so a couple of weeks or years later don' t be surprised if you run into her with your new date or girlfriend and find that she's still miserable and alone trying to run the same dumb routine.
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what is LTR
@@MuhammadAliGOAT long term relationship
Volume?
There is this girl playing hard to get. The other day I saw her at supermarket and I told her this is a peaceful month so you and I we should be in peace. She said yes , with no smile.
I said you look so moody. She quitely said " again complains and suggestions". It was so slow that I asked her to repeat it and I had to bend down to listen to her. There were people around us .
I said it is a peaceful time and walked away. This was during Easter week.
Did I do good or bad with this girl who was playing hard to get with me ?
I like this guy
Well why do women blame men for being players when women play the game too and waaaay better. What a Man has to work weeks for a woman can have in an instant phone call. A woman can plan a man for each hour of the day if she wanted to. Women on talk shows always having confrontations with men and dont even know who the father is and have the nerve to call the man a Dog. She can have 5 boyfriends and each one will think hes the only one. And when you look at these woman's walls theres graffiti all over it from sleeping with all these different men. Then they blame the man for feeling hurt.
Because you can't be a player without being a hypocrite first
It would be cool if the French guy said “Mr Incredible”😂
I want someone who looks at me the way Alex looks at Apollo
Same her my friend
Remember this quote guys, "The degree to which a man is devastated when a relationship ends is equal to...the degree to which he has compromised his terms"
Women who play hard to get or they show interest to immediately make it difficult for you are women who know what they are doing. They learn this tactic when young. The purpose of this tactic is they want you to obsesses about them. They are low in self esteem and want to use you to built it. To have you chasing, texting, panic to boosts their ego. They will use your text to show off to their social circle. Women talk to each other! What to do? Delete her number immediately. Make sure you do not be where she is or staying in touch because the obsession will grow.
The moment you compromise your terms, you let go of your boundaries just because she's attractive for you to invest emotionally... and it doesn't work out....it will hurt you. It will eat you up. That's what these types of women want. Walk away immediately. That is YOUR power. To walk away like she isn't the only woman on this planet. Make sure you have 3-5 women you're dating. It removes that neediness. Have options.
Imagine, even if it works out with her, you messed up big time because now will never respect you. She's a player, who manipulates, for control, for power and moment she thinks she can, it will be tough coming back from that. She'll never respect you.
What do you do if she’s playing “Hard to Get”? Walk away.
You should definitely walk away
He's right 😂
Ok so I have a crush who is a security guard, and that I met 2 years ago one day I go up to her and tell her straight up that I like her and I can't stop thinking about her and she died laughing. If this has happened to you, can you please tell me what it means?
She knows what she's doing it makes me Desire and want her even more.
Apollonia I am jealous of Alex!
lol
@@ApolloniaPonti Well he is sitting in your area/aura right next to you and is close enough to feel your spirit/energy close enough to smell your essence!!
She plays hard to get when she's not so into the guy. She will then end up with a less attractive and less financially stable man...
there was this girl who was flirting with me and when i made the move, she gave me the cold shoulder. what do i do?
Tech Spooks Don’t express anger to her for that, especially right in the moment. It makes you look like a bitch and will end up terribly for you. Just keep talking to her and if she seems interested, make another move but not too soon. gl
VtochkaGtochka who hurt you haha?
I'm that kind of situation. Soon it will be two years. That we comunicating meeting. I asked her to be my girlfriend two times. And she always says same thing. I need time to think or I don't want to change nothing its good how it is. Don't know what to do
I love you, Ponti.
There is a women who doesn't want anything to do with me. I know that I should just move on. But I am totally into her. I am ready to face the truth that it will never be (even though it hurts so much. Just being truthful and humble) But I at least want to give it my best to see what I can at least accomplish before I throw in the towel. I would like to see a video of how to give it your best shot to see if it just might work and if not how to confront the fact that it doesn't. Please... Thank you.
Hello Job,
Thanks for your comment. I will do a video around this. Thank you!
Best,
Apollonia
Italian is great Alex girls are great
I have a question, i have a crush on my ex gf's friend and i know she has also a crush on me, i started liking her pics etc in Facebook Story and then she started writing cute quotes about me, one day i waved her and she saved immediately back, i wrote her a fucked up message and then started the ghosting thing, but she still posted stuff in her Story about me but she kinda needs her time etc..so more indirect messages to me. I know that now she plays a bit mind Games on me. But as far as i heared from people she is really gf/wife material and is actually a kind person, idk if true but she kinda messess with my head right now, any advise brothers?
My advice would be cut to the chase. Women like men who are decisive and know what they want. Simply ask her if she would like to go out sometime, if she doesnt give you a direct answer, move on. Alot of times if you just stop playing their games, they will fear losing you and will atleast give you a chance.
This guy speaks like a vampire...I LIKE THAT.
If she plays hard to get , it means She was Easy to get to someone before you 😂😂
Ha ha ha 😂 🤣
Look, that's fine, I'm ok with that. But there's one More scenario: When she's just a player.... That's kind of hard to see in the beginning... We men get hooked and then we loose... That's why I think we must get to know her better first, if she shows some doubt... Step back and try later... But always keeping control.
You definitely should get to know her 1st
i think im not her type maybe shes to good for me i give up
Right now I have a girl am so much in love with she keeps telling me she has a man in her life but my findings she has no man though she has a daughter that am not worried about but she keeps telling to kill my feelings for her and go for another but I can't get this girl of my head.today she will be ok the next day she is something else she tellings me things that breaks my heart but I can't stop thinking about her. What should I do am becoming confuse should I let her be or what should I go about please I need this woman please ?
Thompson Okuns 1 question do u feel she likes u to??? cuz if she does there could b a possibility that u can get her but if u feel that she doesn't like u or love I recommend to move on my advice
Delete her picture from your head and walk away!
Just walk away from her. I didn't have the time to play a woman's "hard to get" games. I got the lady who was not into playing games and I married her.
I'm in this situation I'm 22 years I like a woman who is 25 years old she's a teacher in my college we used to have Good conversations and I like her I know she liked me too so now I asked her number and now I'm texting her we aren't talking about personal stuff now she's playing hard to get :(
To MANY FISH IN THE SEA,don't waste YR TIME...NEXT UP!!! DON'T BE A COUCH DOCTOR and a SPONGE OF SORROW..MOVE ON!!!
What if I don’t have her phone number and can only see her in a certain place in a certain hour because I know that she is going to work ?? I knew her before as she lived in the same town I lived and we weren’t friends but there was interest between us. Now, after 9 months we missed contact as we both moved to another town, I could see her every Sunday morning when she goes to work or sometimes when she finishes work, but It’s too needy and too much to fake every time that “I’m there” when she comes back from work. Today I did it for the third time, after seeing her (and she saw me) more times naturally around and she found that also funny and laughed to me. Now that she has understand that I want to date her, she is probably playing hard to get. But my fear is that she has a boyfriend and could also be not interested ! What to do ?? There’s a small chance and even if it is only 5% I never want to give up and try until I know she does not want me or has a boyfriend. I think I will not show myself for at least two weeks and see what happens, hoping she will asks herself what I’m doing and where I am.... and then let’s see... what do you think ? Yes, it’s a little bit mysterious but I cannot even text her. But see it also as an advantage as she has to think about me if she wants me as we don’t have any phone contact. I want her so much and pray every day !
Hello 84#Beatles,
This is where you have to cut the attachment of getting her and put your best foot forward for yourself. I believe going no contact for 30-45 days will help her wonder.
Best,
Apollonia
Apollonia Ponti - Hi Apollonia, thank you for your answer. I will surely not look for her for a while and see what happens...
Yesterday I’ve discovered that she has a boyfriend since about a year. So, she wasn’t playing hard to get but she had a boyfriend instead and was only talking to me as we had some interest before we lost contact. Sometimes the events of your life play a too important role of your private life. I’ve lost my biggest love-chance of my life so far. I’m lost.
My daddy told me to never Chase buses or women you always get left behind
Plz miss Apollonia, invite Tim Venginga to make a video with him, he is the best dating coach in the Netherlands and his courses and content are very very effective. It would be super nice to see him next to you
That is a fact
Heloo, i walked into a McDonald's and she was taking the orders. When i stepped up i was stunned. I sais out loud. Wow you have such a beautiful smile. I was not open to meeting anyone unless it was there was a profound encounter. And it happened. The next day i went back looking for her whixh took some effort but well worth with a long step red rose and a note with a few words and my name and number. Last night after a few days she texted me. Im a lightworker on a mission and been single not dating for 8 yrs finding my calling. Could she be my twin flame i wonder. I can't stop thinking about her. Im 47 and have never had this sort of experience.
My advice would be to only use text messaging to set up a date. If you use messaging as a way to talk to each other she won't go out with you.
Text her you'd like to buy her a coffee on Saturday and see what she says.
My girlfriend has lied to me 3times about going for a date an I don't understand her is she the right one
She is not intrested
Is best you move on and try get more options
She is wasting your time
What to do if I'm friendzoned I really love her .... Please listen to me can I talk to you personally about my situation
I've already seen your friendzoned vedios....but here's something complicated situation
If I’m honest with you, if you’re friend zoned it’s hard to get out of there, You’re probably acting more so towards being a friend than towards a relationship, If she shows interest in you ( if she’s into you ) then work with the situation and give hints towards your feelings, if she’s not interested in that way then either stay friends and be yourself ( never pretend to be someone you’re not as the truth always comes out further down the line ) Or say how you feel and if she doesn’t like you the same way then don’t waste your time.. Good luck