How To Tell If A Girl Is Playing Hard To Get (Or Just Not Interested)

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  • čas přidán 24. 05. 2017
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    It's important that you don't waste your time and energy on girls who aren't interested in the same things you are, namely a relationship. So on this video you'll learn how to tell the difference between a girl who is actually interested in you and a girl who is just playing hard to get.
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Komentáře • 342

  • @jeroen_2001
    @jeroen_2001 Před 7 lety +139

    Thank you for all your advice! I just asked a girl out today by your advices :D. She said yes and now we go to a movie.

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  Před 7 lety +11

      Good job Neck.

    • @Barbarian646
      @Barbarian646 Před 7 lety +4

      Gabriel Mancha not a good place to talk it???

    • @mav1877
      @mav1877 Před 7 lety +4

      I agree with Andre. I've done two movie dates and it's tough because you can't talk. Especially on a first date. If you've been dating her for awhile and have kissed her it's fine, but not on a first date. She may just leave you after the movie ha

    • @AshTheDuke
      @AshTheDuke Před 7 lety +1

      Neck picnic is best

    • @jeroen_2001
      @jeroen_2001 Před 7 lety +1

      I did it i have a second date now :)

  • @Setrany
    @Setrany Před 7 lety +414

    if a girl is interested, but plays hard to get, i will walk away. dont play with me...

    • @SLITTHROAT13
      @SLITTHROAT13 Před 7 lety +54

      There are plenty of other good women, who do not do that. Life can be short, don't waste your time.

    • @benyamindavid8822
      @benyamindavid8822 Před 6 lety +5

      Exactly lol. I know what I bring to the table. Her loss

    • @johnathanjester1879
      @johnathanjester1879 Před 6 lety +1

      depends on if we are talking about some spoiled rotton Anti social unnapproachable hateful paranoid Crumby cheap
      American women of the usa most american women have a Boyfriend or a Husband as well as multiple sex partners on the side
      of that they meet on these dating sites with that being said this video your doing mainly conforms to American women and there abilities to treat most men as creeps and predators and fools do to the Depression most women of the usa are living with
      of the USA and there hateful anti social paranoid Attitudes you can be 6FT4 220lbs good Looking white male and clean and be rejected
      for probably well over 10 years then you can be that 5FT7 short white male with bad Genetics an still get the same exact treatment as your taller counterpart so whats even the point of this video considering you are an american women why didint you have your Face Blurred out of the video i am surprised you didint

    • @acharich
      @acharich Před 5 lety +1

      Bruh.. 💣

    • @lindavallot4685
      @lindavallot4685 Před 5 lety +2

      I feel the same. Women are confusing AF

  • @elijahbrown5089
    @elijahbrown5089 Před 7 lety +570

    My crush has blocked me on several different social Medias and when I stare at her through the window she called the police.
    I think she's playing hard to get.

    • @emeka3865
      @emeka3865 Před 7 lety +30

      ELI BROWN S yeah definitely mate

    • @michaelgostas4485
      @michaelgostas4485 Před 7 lety +1

      ELI BROWN S what the he'll are you thinking about as you are lucky they didn't lock you up for being a peeping Tom you never do that

    • @robertbrokaw8361
      @robertbrokaw8361 Před 7 lety +33

      ELI BROWN S she definitely wants to smash break into her house and go get her

    • @elijahbrown5089
      @elijahbrown5089 Před 7 lety +21

      Michael Gostas Here at exhibit B, we have another dense sucker who cant take a joke.

    • @Mike_Crone
      @Mike_Crone Před 7 lety +9

      she is playing hard to get ..keep staring at her

  • @Sugabullets
    @Sugabullets Před 7 lety +86

    Don't waste your time on a 'girl' playing hard to get, she will string you along. If you have an abundance of women already then go for it but in most cases its a waste of time.

  • @dh12.
    @dh12. Před 7 lety +93

    if a woman can't figure out that I'm interested because I'm standing right infront of her and engaging a conversation then i don't want her.

    • @bitumen83
      @bitumen83 Před 7 lety +7

      Faking right my friend !

  • @dudewat212
    @dudewat212 Před 7 lety +94

    *The simple Solution:
    WITHDRAW YOUR ATTENTION from her !!

    • @MauriceLeviejr
      @MauriceLeviejr Před 7 lety +1

      dudewat212 funny vid, really. Walk away every time if your gut says "too high maintenance".

    • @MauriceLeviejr
      @MauriceLeviejr Před 7 lety +12

      Never put up with drama

  • @solice8844
    @solice8844 Před 6 lety +48

    If she plays hard to get she should be careful what she wishes for because she will get to be alone as her reward for her head games. I don't have the time nor desire for manipulators adding BS to my busy days and wasting my valuable time. Either join the game plan and let's have fun or go waste someone else's time.

  • @hot_guy997
    @hot_guy997 Před 2 měsíci +2

    If you ask a girl to meet up next month and she cancels or says she has a bf she could be playing hard to get, how ever if you walk away she’ll message you or atleast show interest in you like a month later before the date, if she doesn’t do this she’s not interested and if she was interested in you before she no longer is!

  • @damianvallejos9493
    @damianvallejos9493 Před 7 lety +110

    women like play hard to get but, men are players?? women logic

    • @charlesverg2184
      @charlesverg2184 Před 7 lety +4

      Damián V to be fair when you're a player you're seen as a stud by many, but women who talk to alot of men are judged way more.

    • @damianvallejos9493
      @damianvallejos9493 Před 7 lety +6

      Carlos Valenzuela For the way i see it, seduction is a game, Love isn't. That's the confussion for men AND women. saludos desde argentina

    • @charlesverg2184
      @charlesverg2184 Před 7 lety

      Damián V saludos desde México!

    • @novaangelica5096
      @novaangelica5096 Před 3 lety +1

      If you don't want to play then don't .

  • @sonnyec
    @sonnyec Před 7 lety +6

    Make total sense. Thanks for the videos.

  • @sniper11n.d.34
    @sniper11n.d.34 Před 7 lety +4

    Good video Tripp.

  • @elswordsieghart5858
    @elswordsieghart5858 Před 7 lety

    best channel for advice ever!

  • @danielfallas4825
    @danielfallas4825 Před 7 lety +14

    Well explained Tripp, I'm in a situation like this with a friend who is unpredictable with text responses

  • @Shakerhood69
    @Shakerhood69 Před 7 lety +34

    Thanks for the info, sometimes it really is hard to tell if they are interested or not.

    • @FenderSchonJPX
      @FenderSchonJPX Před 6 lety +4

      It shouldn't be. If you can't tell, she's not. If you're trying to figure out if she's playing hard to get. Don't. Just move on. Anyone playing stupid games like that is not a woman, she's a child. An emotionally mature person can tell you are interested by asking her out. When on the date she can figure out if you are a gentleman who actually cares about her or not. If she doesn't have that much sense and needs to play mindless games, then she's emotionally immature and a terrible choice for anything but a pump and dump. Which ironically is all she will get with her stupid filter games. She's going to get the very thing she thinks she's trying to screen out. Everytime!
      She will do it over and over again, lather, rinse, repeat and then at 35 declare all men to be useless players and try to convince one of the guys she rejected years ago to come and get her sloppy 300ths along with her three kids from three different dads.

    • @Roland464
      @Roland464 Před 3 lety

      It’s only hard if you don’t know the sign I have a friend that say heyyy to me I was testing them with questions but didn’t answer only view Didn’t accept your phone number . This for me is based off experience

  • @Catman1987
    @Catman1987 Před 7 lety

    This video helped me out a lot 👌🏽

  • @ahmedGamal-pb3ug
    @ahmedGamal-pb3ug Před 7 lety +17

    Great advice Tripp. Although, when a girl meets with you and mentions her ex in conversation as a supposed jealousy-generating ploy, it could just mean she's hung up on him, and that you're the rebound guy.

  • @Yenseneo
    @Yenseneo Před 2 lety

    Great video!

  • @nosoup9146
    @nosoup9146 Před 6 lety +9

    But I think there is an exception for that rule if she don't want to meet face to face with you, In some cases a girl go out with a guy for a date or two and become not interested in that person.
    A piece of advice don't try to get a girl playing hard to get it's a waste of time just don't do it at all.

  • @alinares1996
    @alinares1996 Před 6 lety +2

    Everything you said is whats happening with me rn lol.. she acts like shes interested in me but she will not admit it.. like she tells me ik you want me and i say the same thing..she just says oh whatever lol idk what to do tripp!

  • @lion943
    @lion943 Před 5 lety

    Great video.

  • @jp_gamingonline2737
    @jp_gamingonline2737 Před 6 lety

    Great video

  • @Jackson-ec9py
    @Jackson-ec9py Před 6 lety +1

    Now I'm low key confused af cause she gives me one word responses ALL of the time but she still comes over and starts conversations and does this whenever possible

  • @davidbetancourt1of1
    @davidbetancourt1of1 Před 7 lety +1

    Thank you i did not know the signs of playing hard to get know i blew it.

  • @Boletodecinecom2011
    @Boletodecinecom2011 Před 7 lety +9

    interesting advice.

  • @TechFusionGuy
    @TechFusionGuy Před 5 lety

    Video is awesom.

  • @Croshiuz
    @Croshiuz Před 6 lety +1

    What if she is flirting at school or whatever but doesn't want to hang out personally or give one word answers over text or doesn't respond?

  • @berberingafieri
    @berberingafieri Před 7 lety +6

    thanks for the new 4k quality

  • @SLITTHROAT13
    @SLITTHROAT13 Před 7 lety +39

    Now how persistent should you be? Because you do not want to come across as a stalker.

    • @acharich
      @acharich Před 5 lety +5

      lol thin line init..

  • @tomasfuentes66
    @tomasfuentes66 Před 7 lety +4

    Very true, tops. ..

  • @kingchaos7522
    @kingchaos7522 Před 6 lety

    Hey tripp, I was gonna say the girl im trying to get with is playing hot and cold with me but never turns down a date or hang out even when the conversation is one sided or she is playing hard to get, she also says all of this stuff like im her favorite person to talk to and she comes to visit me at work most of the time its unprovoked like i dont even ask she just says hey im coming to visit but she also says that im friendzoned.... im so confused 😂😂

  • @shobhitt7996
    @shobhitt7996 Před 7 lety +1

    Hey Tripp
    There actually a girl I'm interested in and have talked on whtapp phone and know each other personally and she even responds 2 my flirty texts but she says she likes me as a friend and don't want to get into relationships saying it's not the right time, what do u think about this situation.

  • @thetank971
    @thetank971 Před 7 lety +1

    tripp: @ 4:13 is what happened to me, she messaged being so sorry and to reschedule. A week has gone passed and i came across this video lol. maybe i should spark it up again?

  • @thebootycheeks6230
    @thebootycheeks6230 Před 6 lety

    The girl im talking to asked me “we should hang out sometime” so I asked her how about Saturday she i cant i work and so then i said how bout Tuesday she had another excuse lmao tf

  • @JT-uy4jk
    @JT-uy4jk Před 5 lety +1

    I recently arranged for a date with this girl(we had 2 previous dates before that) but the night before she got sick and told me that she couldnt go because she hasnt recovered so I said ok. Fast forward a few days later she replied to one of my instagram stories and we had a conversation. It was going good and we were talking about clothes and she said in a joking way to go shopping with her and we joked around. After that I asked her out again and joked that she should come unless she wants to be sick again hahaha. Long story short, she saw my text and hasnt replied to it since. FYI its been 24 hours already. Is she still interested in me what should I do ? @Tripp

  • @joeledlund7196
    @joeledlund7196 Před 6 lety

    I’ve been snapping this girl for about 5 days and I decided to ask her if she wanted to go out this weekend. And she replied by saying that she had a full schedule this weekend. I respoded with a sad emoji and she just opened the snap and didn’t reply.
    What does it mean?? Help please :(

  • @iTzHeqqTic
    @iTzHeqqTic Před 6 lety

    so im talking to this girl over text rn and she talks like she likes me and thn talks like she doesnt.. n wont tell me if she likes me but tells me oh i have no feeling thn says i regret it n ill give u a chance thn goes to saying oh i dont feel it and thn says ill give you another chance... wtf does that even mean is she playing hard to get or what do i do?

  • @ab-ud8np
    @ab-ud8np Před 6 lety +13

    Guys don't have the pantience for these games, she gets validation from the attention

  • @konstantinelinakis4443

    I've been talking to this girl on fb for a couple of weeks now,we hit it off and after a couple of days we kept calling each other and talk for hours. She would even send me pics of her covering...well,only the best parts. So I started being needy and kept asking her when we'll meet and started losing my cool,you know,being needy basically. So obviously she now doesn't talk much,she replies with a couple of words most of the time,she will tag me on fb pics and stuff but then she won't talk.
    So I started taking it slow and considering not talking to her for a week or two. What do I do from here? Did she lose interest or is she still playing hard to get?

  • @princemccalman8503
    @princemccalman8503 Před 5 lety +1

    Tripp, what advice do you have for teens

  • @yesyow4294
    @yesyow4294 Před 3 lety

    What if shes busy but somtimes chat with you for hours but doesnt want to meetup

  • @felix64able
    @felix64able Před 7 lety +16

    WHY? what's with the fn mind games, if she plays with you, guarantee you she doesn't do it with guys she's really feeling I remember about 2 months ago a "lady" at work invited me to sit with her at lunch, we really hit it off, 3 days later we got together and bam! it was on. no mind games nothing....

    • @Barbarian646
      @Barbarian646 Před 7 lety +4

      gato felix If there attraction to you is 5 or 6 out of 10 then may play games and test you, in your case she was into you from the start - her attraction level to you was really high from the offset.

  • @junreaksaa
    @junreaksaa Před 5 lety

    Just what i needed. My hunting skills is tested right now. Im pursuing this girl but not the clingy or needy way. Sends me cgnal thats she likes me but repels some of my move.

  • @Pxrez07
    @Pxrez07 Před 7 lety

    What if she doesn't block u and likes your comments but when u hit her up she sees u text her but won't reply

  • @raphaelineh4778
    @raphaelineh4778 Před 5 lety

    It's important to test her first. So of she isn't interested you can reject her before she rejects you. It's more prestigious that way.

  • @aniyamartinez8914
    @aniyamartinez8914 Před 6 lety

    What if she's flirtin with you but says she dont like you but how do we know she dont like us if she flirts but then what if i invite her somewhere then she says she busy but says lets make plans for next weekend???
    Some one answer this plz.

  • @krismannfueled
    @krismannfueled Před 6 lety

    She immediately said she was taken the second i got her on snapchat, and than she teels me not to text her back. But than i go on and text her back and we end up having a convo and it started to make me feel like she was playin htg. Any advice?

  • @sammonsterenergy1982
    @sammonsterenergy1982 Před 4 lety

    So said to a girl let’s hangout, I have a fun idea we can do & she came back with ‘ha why what you thinking? I’m not sure how much free time I’ll have’ best way to respond?

  • @do-uc6xj
    @do-uc6xj Před 5 lety +1

    Problem with playing along with hard to get, is you waste valuable time that you can spend finding someone who doesn't waste your time with games.

  • @84beatles
    @84beatles Před 5 lety

    What if I don’t have her phone number and can only see her in a certain place in a certain hour because I know that she is going to work ?? I knew her before as she lived in the same town I lived and we weren’t friends but there was interest between us. Now, after 9 months we missed contact as we both moved to another town, I could see her every Sunday morning when she goes to work or sometimes when she finishes work, but It’s too needy and too much to fake every time that “I’m there” when she comes back from work. Today I did it for the third time, after seeing her (and she saw me) more times naturally around and she found that also funny and laughed to me. Now that she has understand that I want to date her, she is probably playing hard to get. But my fear is that she has a boyfriend and could also be not interested ! What to do ?? There’s a small chance and even if it is only 5% I never want to give up and try until I know she does not want me or has a boyfriend. I think I will not show myself for at least two weeks and see what happens, hoping she will asks herself what I’m doing and where I am.... and then let’s see... what do you think ? Yes, it’s a little bit mysterious but I cannot even text her. But see it also as an advantage as she has to think about me if she wants me as we don’t have any phone contact. I want her so much and pray every day !

  • @christianrimmer7222
    @christianrimmer7222 Před 6 lety

    Please help! My name is Christian and I'm a sophomore in high school. I have a crush on this girl named Mackenzie and I "THINK" she has a crush on me too because she glances at me all the time in the lunch room. We both get caught staring at each other at the same time and we both know it. I've tried starting a conversation with her like saying "Hey Mackenzie, I heard that you got braces last week, can I see?", and she will act rude and be like "um why?". But then the next day I catch her looking at me again.... What do I do?

  • @ActualSudsy
    @ActualSudsy Před 3 lety

    I have a question. She doesn't text too much, but she wants to talk? Help, plz

  • @BrotherTree1
    @BrotherTree1 Před 5 lety +1

    In my opinion, if she's interested in a man and plays hard to get. And the man loses interest or gives up whether or not he noticed the mind games, then it's the girl that stuffed up (by not being honest when the situation calls for it for the two to form a connection), not the guy. But that's just my opinion.

  • @RaphJonathanTan
    @RaphJonathanTan Před 7 lety +4

    Can you identify what's the key difference between friends or more? This difference and very very vague and hard to tell apart, please to a precise one, cos friends always wants to hang out, and probably one word respond because it's comfortable, and that's something some girl pursue. Friends teases you too but sometimes takes you likely because you're close. What's your thought in this?

    • @Barbarian646
      @Barbarian646 Před 7 lety +1

      R.Jonathan Tan well with more than friends the texing would be more flirty

  • @femsyfab4963
    @femsyfab4963 Před 7 lety +10

    so I have this new Co worker, I believe she had a crush on me. Few days after I met her, I asked her on a date. I want her to say yes or no, but her response was "maybe". Her response was such a pain in the ass. Even after the turndown, she still send me some pic. that are more like a nude, but not really a nude. I thought she's playing hard to get and I hate it when ladies does it. What's your advice?

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  Před 7 lety +14

      Why was her response a "pain in the ass"? Because you didn't get the answer you want right away? Slow your roll and take it easy. What "turndown". She didn't say no, she said maybe and she sent you semi-nude pics? It sounds like more of a yes than anything else. Let go of your expectations, relax, and have fun with her.

  • @James-4812
    @James-4812 Před 6 lety +1

    And yet, it's always a mystery that they appear to show every other sign that they are "interested" and are NOT playing hard to get then as soon as you say "Hey, fancy getting a coffee sometime" as natural as the experts tell you to do - they say no... and it always seems they meet up with every other guy no problem... Yep, I can easily say that I have met some horrible/neurotic females in my time...

  • @jesusburgos1858
    @jesusburgos1858 Před 6 lety

    she rejected me twice to hand out what should i text her??? Should i text her again? i asked her in person and in text? We hand out before and got her number. Any tips ideas

  • @blacktee31
    @blacktee31 Před 2 lety

    Well Im still a bit unsure tbh. She hasnt done any of these things to make me think she's uninterested but also in your other video the only way to known for sure is if we get physical. The logistics arent right for this however because I see her at work and usually I do a lot of moving around while she's fixed specifically to one truck. The only time we really get close enough is when I hop in the truck with her to help her out.
    I wanna get to that point but a bit unsure how to go about it.

  • @DarkArtDave
    @DarkArtDave Před 7 lety

    what if she flakes on you once then you have met up once and kissed twice that night and then she says she does want to see you again but then makes excuses (can't tell if bs or not) I'm just so confused

  • @MrAussiebrad
    @MrAussiebrad Před 5 lety

    I dont believe 100% that if they just send one word texts back that their not interested. I guess its depends on the question and if they know how to respond to keep the conversation going. I know girls that do that but still want to meet up.

  • @masonroper371
    @masonroper371 Před 4 lety

    So I've been talking to this girl and we work together when I text her it seems like she's very short and not really wanting to involve herself in the conversation but when we meet at work she talks to me like everything's fine

  • @biggmack915
    @biggmack915 Před 7 lety +1

    See this video just confused me more with the chick I'm talking to right now. See she does both. Sometimes she'll want to hangout but there's other times where she flakes. She's very inconsistent, now I know she's a mom and can't devote all her time to me. But I'm still unsure if she's interested or just wants a buddy? I've broken the touch barrier and I give her an awesome hug. But I'm still not sure. Btw Tripp love the videos they're very informative. Oh another thing with this girl is she does play with her hair a lot especially if I'm telling her a story. Another thing is once she did cancel a lunch date but made up for it by spending time with me in the late evening.

  • @allkinds6780
    @allkinds6780 Před 7 lety +2

    makes sense

  • @horizonkage
    @horizonkage Před 7 lety +17

    If the girls playing I'm not going to.

  • @Panda-lq7xy
    @Panda-lq7xy Před 6 lety

    Well i talked with her for first time and we laughed together and i knew from her friends that she talked about me, we text each other for short time but she was replying so fast, i told her once " what is you favorite chocolate ? is it bounty, M&M or what" and she said i really don't know"
    next day i bought all chocolates for her and i told her " you said you don't know which one you like that's why i got them all for you" she said omg and she laugh :D :D :D i was soooo happy until the day came and one of her friends came to me and said " if you talked with my friend again she will report you" i really don't know what happened she was interesting about my future plans and everything but know she talk to me like i stole something from her

  • @max_galingumas9409
    @max_galingumas9409 Před 7 lety

    notification squad

  • @pegasusfirefly9367
    @pegasusfirefly9367 Před 6 lety

    I'm so confused she was teasing me a lot but now she just avoiding me

  • @joffasco2453
    @joffasco2453 Před 7 lety +1

    But what if she's shy as well? It's a completely different ball game.

  • @fahimadelakib6141
    @fahimadelakib6141 Před 7 lety

    Hey Tripp (Don't get offended. If I knew your actual name, I would have called you with that), I have watched a lot of your videos so far, some of which I find quite helpful and amusing as well. There is one girl on youTube called Amy North who is sort of a relationship coach for girls. I thought why don't you two make a video together? It would be great to see the two of you, the two experts in understanding the psychology and taste of the opposite gender, in the same video sharing your perspectives and seeing if they match. Hoping to hear from you.

  • @jonathanharris6573
    @jonathanharris6573 Před 6 lety +1

    Hey Tripp,
    A girl I've known for a couple of months is coming to mine for the 3rd time to watch a TV show together... she has no problem hanging out at my place alone and her messages seem to be enthusiastic (with emoticons and extended vowels "yeeeeees 😊" etc), but she takes ages to reply and they're usually very short. Plus the two times she's been here before, I've tried to initiate some physical touching and flirty name calling etc. But I'm not getting much back! I'm confused, does she hang out with me just as a friend (I think ive made it pretty obvious that I like her) or is she playing hard to get, or maybe just very shy?

    • @prodigygaming802
      @prodigygaming802 Před rokem +1

      I’m in the exact same situation as you idk why woman do this I never tried physical touch yet but if she is ok with physical touch she’s definitely comfortable with you around her and trusts you and is definitely interested in you.

    • @Oche923
      @Oche923 Před měsícem

      Update?

  • @borrometino
    @borrometino Před 7 lety +16

    is a guy allowed to play hard to get? like i chatted with a girl for weeks (we already knew each other and we started to talk again, we kissed the first time i've met her and we kept in touch for a while but nothing happened) and we met for coffee. i always had to text her first, i always had to ask question (but she responded every time), after a while i stopped and from that point we never talked again. i mean ok, you might think that i see you as an "object" cause we kissed the first time we've met, but if after weeks you still play hard to get i'm not okey with that, i'm a person too and after a while flirting should be a peer to peer thing, as a person i deserve to have a little satisfaction to keep going... who does she think she is?

    • @MrShadowRage
      @MrShadowRage Před 7 lety +3

      Borrometino
      I know exactly what you're talking about bro..😔

    • @gregmoran8213
      @gregmoran8213 Před 7 lety +2

      a girl who lost interest.....that's who

  • @raphaelineh4778
    @raphaelineh4778 Před 5 lety +16

    No girl plays mind games with the guy she actually likes.

    • @greganderson2239
      @greganderson2239 Před 6 měsíci

      Not true, woman play mind games for several reasons mainly because they’re insecure.. also to test a guy.

  • @casualdinner8727
    @casualdinner8727 Před 4 lety

    What if she wants to meet up but she says, Let's me up as friends.

  • @BirgerLofmanOfficial
    @BirgerLofmanOfficial Před 7 lety

    Makes sense

  • @Immense1121
    @Immense1121 Před 7 lety +19

    Tripp what do I do if we have like the best and in depth conversation and it seems like she likes me, but she's different over texts and almost seems like she doesn't like me?

    • @hamiltonchampagne5025
      @hamiltonchampagne5025 Před 7 lety +15

      Matthew Mowry dude the reason why she doesn't seem as interested over text is because she wants to hear ur voice and be close to you when u guys talk, and anyway that's what we as a species are built for, we are here to make bonds and relationships in person and from connecting over each other with physical contact, because I'm pretty sure ur not gonna build a stable or interesting relationship over a couple of text messages, or, maybe sometimes just call her and talk on the phone instead of texting all the time, so just give her a more meaningful reason to be with u by being around her more often, if that's what she wants from u. So ya anyway just give her what u think she really wants from u, because we all need physical connections with each other to truly understand one another :)

    • @danielfallas4825
      @danielfallas4825 Před 7 lety +4

      Matthew Mowry I know the feeling bro, this one girl I'm friends with likes to talk to me in person, but will either respond or never respond to me via text.

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  Před 7 lety +14

      Have more deep conversations and don't text her as much. Develop your strengths, don't try to work on your weaknesses.

    • @laylowUlyH
      @laylowUlyH Před 6 lety

      Matthew Mowry she’s shy

    • @acharich
      @acharich Před 5 lety

      @@hamiltonchampagne5025 💥💣💥💣💥💣

  • @josey2490jr
    @josey2490jr Před 7 lety +4

    This girl at work likes me. sometimes she playfully hits me, and she laugh at my jokes, and seem very comfortable with me. Sometimes she is very flirty, sometimes not. One day she threw me off because I asked her out, and she put an excuse she was tired blah blah. Is she interested? Is that hard to get? Girls are complicated lol.

    • @orduni90
      @orduni90 Před 7 lety +2

      Jose Romero Ignore the bitch for a while. She's used to you talking to her and being friendly. let her miss that. at least a week

  • @anddrestorres7300
    @anddrestorres7300 Před 6 lety

    ....just be yourself 💪

  • @kallelundin2107
    @kallelundin2107 Před 7 lety +9

    Yes, there's a girl that I've met a few times during parties etc, but never 1 on 1. However whenever we get some private conversations, she likes to talk about her exes and so on.. I'm pretty sure that she's playing hard to get and want my attention. The problem is that I don't know how to ask her out or what to say in order to meet up with me since she seems a little bit shy. I know that we are having a connection. What does it mean when she uploads my story's on snap that could be about me and what does it mean when she blocks me from seeing a mystory but a few hours later unblocks me so I can see the story. What does these signals mean? She's trying to get my attention and whenever I've met her she have been playing with her hair and wanted to hug me etc. Dear Tripp, I need your help

    • @kallelundin2107
      @kallelundin2107 Před 7 lety +2

      Thank you so much for your reply. What I mean that she want to hug is that whenever we go to a party, she searches me up and starts talking to me. Then she says stuff like "I'm cold, can you warm me?" and stuff like that because she wants to cuddle with me and touch me.
      My goal is to have a strong relationship and I know that we have potential, there's just something between us but it feels like something is holding us back and right now it feels like we are waiting for someone to take the step and start a conversation on snap.
      We used to be really into eachother a year ago but I'm pretty sure I fuckked that up. Ever since, we've been texting with eachother every now and then. What I'm trying to say is that we've been started to snap eachother from time to time.
      I'm in the position where I don't know what to do, it feels like I've tried everything and what I've been trying lately is what tripp says in his videos, "have your own life and don't chase her". So I've been working out 6 times a week in the gym and just living my life, although nothing have happened between us.
      Lastly, It feels like she wants me to chase her and at the same time I've been trying to get her chasing me, this have lead to we both trying the same thing and nothing happens, should I just accept it and start chasing her and texting etc? or what is the best thing for me to do?

    • @samuelvitela4695
      @samuelvitela4695 Před 7 lety +4

      Spicy Degen
      I'd say go for it, make a move. This whole chasing thing has to stop. As a man you have to make a move, and make a move now before someone else does. Tell her that she's pretty and you like her, then if you have the balls tell her to be your girlfriend.
      Bro if she's telling you to warm her up, than God damn it's time to make a Move Now. Just go for it, seems she likes you. But do it NOW, before someone beats you to it.

    • @kallelundin2107
      @kallelundin2107 Před 7 lety +1

      Okay, but I need to meet up with her, I just don't now how to ask her out and how to do it in a confident and exciting way

    • @kallelundin2107
      @kallelundin2107 Před 7 lety +1

      I can't really make that move aswell, I don't know her well enough, only met her a few times and I need to meet up with her so I can start getting to know her?

    • @samuelvitela4695
      @samuelvitela4695 Před 7 lety +3

      Spicy Degen
      Now I think you're over thinking things. Here's the deal if a Girl REALLY likes you it shouldn't matter how you ask her out, also if she really likes you then she would want to meet up with. I wish you luck and hope you figure things out.

  • @soccerlube
    @soccerlube Před 2 lety +1

    If I am interested in a woman and actually make a move, and she plays hard to get, I will assume there isn't interest on her part and move on. If I find out (by her own admission) that she was actually interested but just playing hard to get and (as in the video said) I totally blew it, I'll take the L and cut my losses because that is better than trying to chase a girl who is immature and playing such a stupid and bullshit game as "Playing hard to get"

  • @F3rgus0
    @F3rgus0 Před 5 lety

    I like this girl an she always talk about bts being handsome and stuff and even called me ugly with a smiling face...but when i dm her she said that she was just joking then i said ohhh ok i thought you meant that but he said no...
    Does that mean she's playing hard to get?

  • @nextgenerationmarketing8279

    what if you are texting and getting along and she agrees to a date but it's 3 weeks out so you continue texting her and then she suddenly stops responding?

    • @aashutoshshah2847
      @aashutoshshah2847 Před 5 lety +2

      Happens all the time. Takes a second to flip them over to the other side

  • @zdubstv4115
    @zdubstv4115 Před 2 lety

    If you know you’re going to see each other again why would you even want to text in the first place lol.

  • @hassanoa6242
    @hassanoa6242 Před 7 lety

    but what if she always text you first and txt you one word answers

  • @mrgoldfish6746
    @mrgoldfish6746 Před 6 lety

    I was taking to this girl and she would look to me in the eyes laugh /giggle and i seen her blush a little so i thougth she was intersted i got her number we started text and she would text me so serous short answers so like now i'm confused

  • @kaylacoppe4412
    @kaylacoppe4412 Před 6 lety

    What if she’s almost constantly on her phone ( music, CZcams ) and has almost all the same classes as you, I’ve tried to get to know her first as a friend and then she half flirts, then is distant, I’m thinking like dayum girl make up your mind, I wanna be friends and maybe even close friends, not screw you around. BTW I’m sick and tired of chasing the mysterious girls ( which this one might be ) help I’m super lost, should I totally give up or keep trying, cause I’m sure there is something their, but not totally sure cause she’s hot and cold, also I asked her out as a friend thing and she got weird like I was hitting on her, dayum I live in a cruel world 😂 😂

  • @dosanjhdiljit5443
    @dosanjhdiljit5443 Před 6 lety

    Hey tripp how we can play a little hard get ;)

  • @dingadettachhangteofficial5091

    Is it possible that she is interested, but still play hard to get?

  • @unknowprofile8369
    @unknowprofile8369 Před 6 lety +2

    Women signs are not interested are :
    1)After 5 weeks you have not a sign from her-and this is unsure because she may be patient women who is waiting you
    2)she is unwilling to continue conversation

  • @sandydrexler259
    @sandydrexler259 Před 5 lety +6

    I love it when she calls the cops

  • @rabidda2645
    @rabidda2645 Před 6 lety

    If she flakes on the first date, is she playing hard to get ?

  • @ronnie2k685
    @ronnie2k685 Před 6 lety

    Never had a girl playing soo hard to get.. idk if she interested I mean we kissed and cuddled but like idk if she wants to be together. I mean I tell her let’s hang out she’s cool with it but like I’m sooo confused

  • @Danielm219
    @Danielm219 Před 7 lety

    Thanks Tripp. So question. I've gone over some texts and this girl I've been chatting too constantly gives me shit so I'm guessing she's into me. How do I give her crap back without coming across mean or turning her off?

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  Před 7 lety

      She's showing you how. Are your feelings hurt or are you turned off? No? Then do what she's doing.

    • @Barbarian646
      @Barbarian646 Před 7 lety

      Daniel Moore If she is "constantly giving you shit" then tell her to fuck off. What would James Bond do?

  • @MrShadowRage
    @MrShadowRage Před 7 lety +9

    I feel like I should back off but, I don't know.. I feel Like she want me to keep pursuing her... she told me, that she did not want a relationship right now.. yet she looked disappoint when I did not ask her out..

    • @hamiltonchampagne5025
      @hamiltonchampagne5025 Před 7 lety +2

      Freddy Zavala listen buddy just ask her out don't take too long because then she'll end up getting with some other guy and you'll just be sittin there wishin u had asked her out earlier just take ur chances man also if things are all ready going well with u and her just try to pick it up a little bit but don't rush into anything and don't take too long alright.

    • @MrShadowRage
      @MrShadowRage Před 7 lety +3

      Hamilton Champagne
      Thanks bro, I'll try it out and see where it goes, thanks for looking out bro.👍

    • @hamiltonchampagne5025
      @hamiltonchampagne5025 Před 7 lety +1

      Freddy Zavala no problem man I'm always here to help :)

    • @MrShadowRage
      @MrShadowRage Před 7 lety +9

      Hamilton Champagne
      bro it actually f****** worked😂😂.. I asked her if she wanted to go out, to hang out and eat. and she was excited and happy about me asking her.. so tomorrow after work we'll be going out on our first date😀😂. she called it a date..
      Once again, Thank you man. I wouldn't have had the confidence to take charge before someone else did.👊✊
      I guess sometimes all we need is for someone to keep it real with another.
      (Thanks for look out)😂✊👊👍

    • @hamiltonchampagne5025
      @hamiltonchampagne5025 Před 7 lety +4

      Freddy Zavala wow!!!! dude that's great man!!! I hope everything goes well with you and ur now called girlfriend man that is awesome, I am so happy for you and I'm glad I made a difference for you :) congratulations!!!!! :) you go bro!!!!

  • @kayboi619
    @kayboi619 Před 7 lety +1

    there is this girl i am chatting with she said she had a date last night after i asked her to meet up. how do i get her to meet up?

    • @aviewer390
      @aviewer390 Před 7 lety +6

      Kon Hiro she's not interested.

  • @irishstock2108
    @irishstock2108 Před 5 lety

    Tripp,this video was a brain cruncher,to say the least,we men operate mainly on logic,not emotions. But,then you go a bit deeper and restore hope. Next video. lol :)

  • @Matlockization
    @Matlockization Před 7 lety +3

    So when you approach her she's still not sure if your into her ? Oh but when she see's your persistent she gets a light bulb above her head ??? OMG. Ok you buy her some jewellery for her birthday but she think mmmmm does he love me, so I'll reject his gift hoping he'll get me something better ! He gets her something better. She thinks now he loves me. I mean these girls are high maintenance.

  • @carlel121
    @carlel121 Před 2 lety

    Ahhh a guy asked me out 4 times so far, and it seems he got tired, I want him to ask me out again and say yes! But I don’t know if that will happen 🤣😂🤣😂🤷‍♀️ I’m married and he is married that’s the reason! 🤦‍♀️😔

  • @ilaris66
    @ilaris66 Před 7 lety

    What if the girl says she will be coming over but she always cancels the meetings? Like saying "I'm out of fuel" or something.. Perhaps she's just playing with me..?

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  Před 7 lety

      First, that's a highly unusual hypothetical situation, so it doesn't really matter. And if that ever were to happen, then I'd say yes she's playing with you. I mean, has a girl ever said she was on her way over and then told you she "ran out of fuel"? I didn't think so.

  • @mandolinman2006
    @mandolinman2006 Před 7 lety +2

    Ok, what if she consistently and enthusiastically makes plans with you, flakes, acts like she just forgot, and starts over again? Enthusiastic until the time comes then bails without word, so to speak.

    • @prodigygaming802
      @prodigygaming802 Před rokem +3

      I’m in that exact same situation as you idk either why that happens or why the woman does that cuz this woman I’m talking to does the exact same shit and it’s ANNOYING AFFFFF!!!!!!!

  • @AshTheDuke
    @AshTheDuke Před 7 lety

    Agreed

  • @adriancx4934
    @adriancx4934 Před 6 lety

    Wha if you told her in text you like her but in person she doesn't make total eye contact but smiles and looks away sometimes but you make arrangemts and she cancels...and replies to your text when she wants too am leaves you un replied sometimes