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  • What to say to a girl you like. This is for the man that knows how to talk to a girl but when you find a girl you really like all that goes away. Sound familiar? I know! I talk about what to do in this video when you're figuring out what to say to a girl you like.
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Komentáře • 443

  • @mikesaldana4164
    @mikesaldana4164 Před 5 lety +172

    I wish I could download all this information and input it into my brain ... it’s hard for us shy guys 😔

    • @mikecrook8434
      @mikecrook8434 Před 5 lety +44

      When talking to a woman, pretend that she has a penis instead of a vagina. You'll be amazed by the drop in your stress level.

    • @mesaprime1299
      @mesaprime1299 Před 4 lety +2

      @@mikecrook8434 :0

    • @dgamer2185
      @dgamer2185 Před 4 lety +4

      @@mikecrook8434 lol 😂

    • @jakethemistake19
      @jakethemistake19 Před 4 lety +4

      Gay.

    • @zeldoncarpenter1046
      @zeldoncarpenter1046 Před 4 lety +4

      Bruh your not gonna die if you talk to a girl dawg. I use to be shy bro but after you start doing it you’ll feel better after it

  • @tgswartlane6317
    @tgswartlane6317 Před 5 lety +102

    Thank you Apollonia, i made a mistake few months ago when i went full force on a girl, after realizing my mistakes, i backed off, and she's now chasing me after noticing that i'm no longer after her, i'm now acting like i don't care. For that reason she's now after me, and i'm loving it, i'm making her work to get me now, hahhahahah, love you Apollonia.

    • @jl_galleza
      @jl_galleza Před 4 lety

      @Den Danske Helt hahaha 😂

    • @MnvGyl
      @MnvGyl Před 3 lety

      NICE MANNNN!

    • @reymarkgallinero
      @reymarkgallinero Před 3 lety

      Dude, this is what happened to me. I got rejected before we even get to date, because I told her I like her already. HAHA

    • @rejectwokeness1314
      @rejectwokeness1314 Před 3 lety

      I'm in the same scenario, rejected by this girl of my dreams. I doubt she'll ever chase me cos she's a toughie, but I'll do anything just for her to contact me again... 😢

  • @adamsvictor9671
    @adamsvictor9671 Před 5 lety +40

    Apolonia just gave me the cheat code.I really love this.Some pick up artist will just beat around the bush and never give you specific words to use.

    • @pmonk1177
      @pmonk1177 Před 5 lety +1

      It's not about the words. It's how you say it and your vibe.

  • @danhuskey2496
    @danhuskey2496 Před 5 lety +5

    I like the warm-up analogy.I've been the deer in the headlights and trying to overcome shyness.Thanks again for the pedestal emphasisis and the fact that we both want to work for something.Especially take your time and don't do the superficial compliments but the deeper heartfelt ones.Thanks again.

  • @SuperMrBlaze
    @SuperMrBlaze Před 5 lety +1

    Thanks Apollonia for talking about this 3 month long time period! It was very thought provoking!

  • @gnnaal
    @gnnaal Před 4 lety +3

    I’m new to your channel and have been watching your videos all day. It is chilling how you can put yourself in a man’s shoes and relate to educate. I couldn’t agree more with the mistakes we men make when trying to attract the girl of our dreams. We become inauthentic and lose the true authenticity we have. We become so bogged down on trying to “win” her over but lose sight of ourselves. Even your 4 minutes videos are enlightening and serve as a wake up call. You’re amazing. Thank you for allowing me to see all the potential I’ve always had.

  • @James-he4cr
    @James-he4cr Před 4 lety +4

    Your giving genuine great advice from a woman’s perspective. This information is golden. Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @joseartist9347
    @joseartist9347 Před 5 lety

    I don't know why I fall in love with you when I'm watching your videos.
    I put in practice all what you say in your videos.
    Thanks! Love ya

  • @johnroman4575
    @johnroman4575 Před 3 lety

    Right on point again AP💯 The “warm up” is the key! Without that do NOT say anything about “like”, she’ll run.

  • @ed9810
    @ed9810 Před 5 lety +1

    I really love your content. Thank you for your wise words. Forever learning!

  • @moisesblanco
    @moisesblanco Před 5 lety +2

    It's always nice to watch your videos. Thank you!

  • @ccjailen
    @ccjailen Před 5 lety +2

    Your info. Is coming from a women's point of view. It's golden! I didn't know this stuff.

  • @paulgonzalez2985
    @paulgonzalez2985 Před 5 lety +4

    Thank you so much!!! Where were you like 5 years ago!!! (I just started following you this year) 😜🤓 Thank you so much for all your wonderful advice. Your passion for your work with men, and our stumbling blocks in dating, is absolutely felt in all your videos. You are so appreciated. Thanks again from the bottom of my heart.

  • @c.1211
    @c.1211 Před 5 lety +5

    Wow! That was very convincing. I'm going to try this on my sister's friend. I needed this push. Thanks👍

  • @jaylopez1978
    @jaylopez1978 Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you!! Thank you!! This is so helpful.

  • @kingknottydread8711
    @kingknottydread8711 Před 5 lety +1

    This was crucial advice I definitely took something knowledgeable from this. I have had always struggled in toxic relationships

  • @lamarr85l.a96
    @lamarr85l.a96 Před 5 lety +4

    Good stuff.
    I'm learning patients through you thank you so much Apollonia.
    1love God bless

  • @peterhoatson
    @peterhoatson Před 5 lety +1

    Brilliant. Love it. Yes it's incumbent on us men to articulate what it is we truly like about this woman and why we like it . I'm getting closer to this point and hope to share my 'progress reoort' soon!

  • @CleberSantanaOficial
    @CleberSantanaOficial Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you so much for ur coaching... U did save me... I'm leaving for now but I'll sure come back when i need ur videos again... Ur amazing, thanks for all! ♥

  • @richardmcbride7096
    @richardmcbride7096 Před 3 lety

    Thank You So Much Apolliana!!

  • @samndambuki9005
    @samndambuki9005 Před 3 lety

    Nice tips Apollonia👍

  • @Flipapeeno
    @Flipapeeno Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you for existing! You have helped me soo much with myself!! Side note: it's sad seeing no trees in that concrete jungle 🙁

  • @fx_sammy4136
    @fx_sammy4136 Před 5 lety

    Thanks a lot for the lesson.....always warm up will do that first from now

  • @wheneaglesfly466
    @wheneaglesfly466 Před 5 lety

    Beautifully said.

  • @davidscott1827
    @davidscott1827 Před 4 lety

    I really appreciate your words Apollonia ,Your very knowledgeable in your profession Thankyou

  • @epsilonsaona9062
    @epsilonsaona9062 Před 5 lety

    I absolutely love and enjoy your experiences of relationship's. It's very real and informative....And thanks to you, I'm in a better position! You're the best Misses Ponti

  • @parveenkumar3208
    @parveenkumar3208 Před 5 lety +1

    Sister u changed my life i follow your advice it helps me thank so much

  • @wishbhaiatitkar1444
    @wishbhaiatitkar1444 Před 3 lety

    That was bloody straight up awesome...

  • @cristiandelacruz881
    @cristiandelacruz881 Před 5 lety

    Thank you Apollonia, you got my like.

  • @ponyericgt350
    @ponyericgt350 Před 5 lety +8

    Enjoy all your videos Apollonia, could definitely use all of your input after being single for so long

  • @nene90047R1
    @nene90047R1 Před 5 lety +2

    Richard Cooper and you are the best on CZcams in relationships advice. amazing information that I was clueless few years back.

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  Před 5 lety +1

      Hi Rudy,
      Thank you for your support!
      Best,
      Apollonia

  • @ubongabson4781
    @ubongabson4781 Před 4 lety +1

    You've blessed me with the key factor.

  • @DT-oh6gx
    @DT-oh6gx Před 3 lety

    I wish I could live where you live. Beautiful area that you’re filming. I love that you help guys who have no game like me. To get advice from such an attractive woman is Gold

  • @lewislipsey9722
    @lewislipsey9722 Před 4 lety

    You are Loved too, thanks for the help !

  • @MichaelJackson647
    @MichaelJackson647 Před 5 lety

    I am just starting to get over one, I definitely want to dive deeper into this when I feel more confident

  • @pianoLee-sx9dx
    @pianoLee-sx9dx Před měsícem

    Good advice here!

  • @cartunetv8728
    @cartunetv8728 Před 5 lety +1

    I’m good at the warming up part but when it comes to the big moment I seem to slip up thanks for helping me find out what I’ve done wrong 🙏🏽

  • @superstar-ok6ip
    @superstar-ok6ip Před 5 lety +13

    I’ve made that mistake before and I learned the hard way. To not force things with a woman. I did that one time with a girl I feel heels for. I went for the grand slam in baseball. Not taking my time to hit the pitch to reach first base. I pushed her alway. Mistakes make people better when they learn from them next time around. Making a woman laugh a lot is a powerful weapon. Through my experience it creates more affection and including flirting. Be a gentleman to any woman you meet and after you known her for a while. You can confess your feelings. And sometimes she will just tell you after having lots of conversations through time. Straight off the bat you pitching to her the baseball and letting her put her effort to hit the ball. And not going all out not giving her a chance to swing ⚾️ if you like a girl approach her period don’t look nervous or like a creep. Smile and maintain eye contact and ask her a question. If she doesn’t seem too interested in talking she’s not interested. But never be afraid to get rejected it makes you more confident and stronger. Let your motivation be that if I don’t approach her and talk to her. Some other guy will to make you go up to her and introduce yourself 💯

  • @hormatov
    @hormatov Před 4 lety

    Thank you coach.. appreciate all the advice !

  • @preludegold11
    @preludegold11 Před 5 lety +5

    Spot on, great advice presented clearly without a bunch of fluff! Thank you! :-)

  • @abednigojustin3508
    @abednigojustin3508 Před 5 lety +1

    This is awesome...it is really the unlocking code to a woman's heart.....

  • @louismar42
    @louismar42 Před 5 lety

    Cant lie this video is on point. For sure.

  • @varmaamla
    @varmaamla Před 5 lety

    Really good, practical, expecting more from you dear

  • @jimwilliams4088
    @jimwilliams4088 Před 5 lety

    Yes the warm-up is very important, because it gives people a chance to relax and feel confident with their feelings! 😃

  • @Thanio
    @Thanio Před 5 lety

    This is good stuff!!

  • @shrikanthnambanath
    @shrikanthnambanath Před rokem

    that was enlightening

  • @davekavanagh1989
    @davekavanagh1989 Před 4 lety

    I enjoyed this video too. Reading through the comments I find many men are confused about what sounds like conflicting advice and seeming confusion in some of the women they would like to know. It reminded me of the best advice I ever got. How to talk to any woman is ask her questions. Even a mom told me she was afraid of her own teenage daughter and I said just ask her questions, anything. That worked for them and it works for me too. The most beautiful women on planet earth will answer a question. Its a good way to start a conversation and if you can think of a question for her you can talk to her.

  • @jakeofalltrade140
    @jakeofalltrade140 Před 5 lety

    You're always so on point! Wish I found you like 5mknths ago, I probably would have played my cards right with someone I deeply care about who was initially attracted to me but guess she no longer feels that way. Anyhoo, now I get unlearn with you.

  • @zantigar
    @zantigar Před 4 lety

    I'm FAR from being successful with women, but I consider myself to be extremely keen on human psychology. And I must say you are incredibly sharp and precise about every aspect of the way people think and feel in the beginning of possible relationships. Wow you are GOOD!

  • @richardmcbride7096
    @richardmcbride7096 Před 3 lety

    Attract Quality! Period

  • @curtisharvin4134
    @curtisharvin4134 Před 5 lety

    Real Peace as always...

  • @vin605
    @vin605 Před 5 lety

    Thanks for sharing this vid you are always love too

  • @coryguzman6071
    @coryguzman6071 Před 3 lety

    Very helpful thank you

  • @triplea1629
    @triplea1629 Před 4 lety

    Nice presentation.

  • @DRGUANE
    @DRGUANE Před 5 lety +2

    Communication-a lost and overlooked skill. Express your PERSONAL experience you have with her.
    Hmmmm. Noted - Thank you for this one.

  • @patrickmeechan644
    @patrickmeechan644 Před 4 lety

    I said almost everything that You said in this video without even seeing it before and She was absolutely amazed. She said that She needs some time and I am going to leave Her alone and let Her be. I have always liked Her and She is the sweetest Woman I have ever known. She said that We can definitely hang out and of course with my luck the virus is going around and quarantine is going on. I just never saw or heard of this page and seriously searched for a page like this because I cannot screw-up with Her. I told her that She was a 100 out’ve 10 rating and that Her ex struck gold when he was with you and he was so stupid that he didn’t even realize

  • @babajideoladayo4541
    @babajideoladayo4541 Před rokem

    You are excellent and your ideas about approaching women light up the world.
    Please keep up the good work

  • @mig2cool982
    @mig2cool982 Před 5 lety

    I’m listening to you from now on

  • @Sancarah
    @Sancarah Před 5 lety

    Nicely articulated

  • @Jaikenz37
    @Jaikenz37 Před 4 lety +8

    The only time you should tell a girl you like her is when she's begging to hear you say it. That's when you know you ve got her. Make her earn those words. And even then I wouldn't flap out say "I like you" I'd say something like "why do you think I'm around you? "Your good company!"Lol

  • @go-goakins1489
    @go-goakins1489 Před 5 lety +3

    Remember the old line from a Van Halen song" well they love when you leaving , and they leave you when you stay. ..". I like your videos , appollonia! Keep up the great work 👍👏

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  Před 5 lety

      Thank you for your continuous support! Your comments are always so appreciated.
      Best,
      Apollonia

  • @garbajful
    @garbajful Před 4 lety +9

    I've told women "I like you" plenty of times on a first date.... It's all about how you say it and the vibe you give off. It's just truth, without any expectation of her saying anything in return. It usually works well😊

    • @SuperCabrito14
      @SuperCabrito14 Před 2 lety

      You have to follow up with "and I hope you feel the same way." If she doesn't feel the same then you're wasting both of your time

    • @shawnstephens6795
      @shawnstephens6795 Před 2 lety +1

      Its like saying "Quitting smoking is easy I've done it a hundred times."...that statement means you really aren't committed. Saying "Telling women you like them is easy I've done it a hundred times."...your liking them has no value because there's no commitment...it's meaningless...and they probably can sense that.

  • @kirukkuththamizhmagan6355

    Luv u Apollonia ponti

  • @docthebilly
    @docthebilly Před 5 lety +1

    Super solid advice.. better than alot of "surface" advice out there.. 😊

  • @fodaydukureh6113
    @fodaydukureh6113 Před 5 lety

    Very interesting Lovely ponti

  • @prashantshelke8185
    @prashantshelke8185 Před 5 lety

    very nice apollonia..

  • @secfeed6987
    @secfeed6987 Před 5 lety

    Exactly, never rush, and don't even try. You don't need to tell her you like her, she will know.

  • @artvision2175
    @artvision2175 Před 5 lety

    GREAT ADVICE I need 2 work on This!!

  • @josemartinez-og1bk
    @josemartinez-og1bk Před 3 lety

    Omg thank you so much

  • @danielsantana540
    @danielsantana540 Před 5 lety

    Great vid

  • @mindmybusiness4245
    @mindmybusiness4245 Před 4 lety +87

    I Swear Women are just TOO COMPLICATED For their own good

    • @macvena
      @macvena Před 4 lety +4

      Women are a challenge to be overcome...and so should you be her challenge. Make her work for your time and attention.

    • @Max-fr6ny
      @Max-fr6ny Před 4 lety +2

      And you too are complicated my friend.

    • @SaturnVII
      @SaturnVII Před 4 lety

      for what its worth so are you

    • @ejazdowler948
      @ejazdowler948 Před 3 lety +1

      True 🤝

    • @iamjanjel
      @iamjanjel Před 3 lety +2

      This is the reason why most relationships don't work.

  • @busyrand
    @busyrand Před 5 lety +10

    This is interesting and underscores exactly why I started to model how women behave in relationships. I'm naturally expressive with a big heart, but I realized I needed to recalibrate things after my fiance rarely verbally expressed that she liked me. Yeah, it was how she was wired [reserved intellectual], but she was a very honest person and made me realize that I may have been missing something in terms of pacing things at a rate to maintain female interest. Very emotionally expensive personal lesson...

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  Před 5 lety +3

      Great awareness busyrand - Apollonia

    • @Sooper_B
      @Sooper_B Před 4 lety

      Apollonia Ponti this is very very true. I am in this exact situation with a women. I had to pull back my emotions and openness somewhat to be at pace she can deal with.

  • @LaRueDuConsommateur
    @LaRueDuConsommateur Před 3 lety

    What's Appolonia said it's true. No warm commitment at first eyesight.

  • @mustaphadoaa1024
    @mustaphadoaa1024 Před 5 lety +2

    Thank you Apollonia. Your self degnity is very important as you keep saying Apollonia.
    By the way, I notice that you are a great fan of flowers, aren't you 😊?
    Allah bless you Apollonia.

  • @christianlopez1383
    @christianlopez1383 Před 5 lety

    Hi
    Apollonia, great as usual, never say those ordinary comments like " you're beautiful".. why? Cause she has heard that phrase all her life. It's monotnes. Abrigado, you are exquisite, chao

  • @gregpowell9985
    @gregpowell9985 Před 4 lety

    I wish I would have known this a month ago......told a girl I use to work with I had a crush on her...........results was cold shoulder status but it is what it is live and learn!

  • @navinshringi397
    @navinshringi397 Před 5 lety +1

    Hello, your Videos are Very Interesting and long. Is it possible if you can only give Tips based on do and donts...Thanks !!

  • @puffy_vegas7610
    @puffy_vegas7610 Před 4 lety +8

    Never never never tell a woman you like her before she ask you. Then only tell he the truth.

  • @KAYDENCODM
    @KAYDENCODM Před 5 lety +1

    From day one with you..

  • @elchinmammadov624
    @elchinmammadov624 Před 5 lety +4

    I believe you do not need to say you like her if you already go out together for 3 months and enjoying each others company. Things will develop naturally and you will notice that you are holding each other's hands already.

  • @CaiciedoMozelo
    @CaiciedoMozelo Před 19 dny

    It's interesting thanks

  • @wessamyoussef6082
    @wessamyoussef6082 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for this beautiful video I did all these steps to be honest on messenger I sent her video about my feelings after 2 months not 3 but she was too nice accepting my compliment & she told me after that it's complicated she refused to meet me she said .. we will be just friends !!!

  • @mountaincenang6537
    @mountaincenang6537 Před 5 lety

    Hi Apollonia. I like your videos and you are looking Ravishing today.

  • @Sanderteeuwen
    @Sanderteeuwen Před 5 lety +8

    Not too long ago I told a girl that I liked her and it was actually the first time I ever told a girl that I like her. She said she didn’t have the same feelings for me but for some reason our contact became better and she reached out to me more as I stopped chasing her and let her start the conversations. My hopes aren’t that high that a relationship will develop but who knows what will happen.

    • @Oreocycllo
      @Oreocycllo Před 5 lety +2

      She maybe felt bad for you

    • @issaccaballero3929
      @issaccaballero3929 Před 5 lety +1

      Oreocycllo just do yourself, make yourself mysterious to her and maybe she will fall ;)

    • @texasrebel7754
      @texasrebel7754 Před 5 lety +1

      You've been friend zoned. Don't bother getting your hopes up.

    • @acharich
      @acharich Před 4 lety +1

      How is it now..? 👀💭

    • @Python-xs2iv
      @Python-xs2iv Před 2 lety

      Hey bud, how's your relationship with that girl?

  • @crismabayo6915
    @crismabayo6915 Před 5 lety +1

    I finally knows how to slow down, thanks beautiful ponti

  • @tdjones4832
    @tdjones4832 Před 4 lety

    very good

  • @petermaina7111
    @petermaina7111 Před 5 lety

    To be honest...the way you pronounce "apollonia Ponti" I love the way you sound it ...

  • @mystyle4766
    @mystyle4766 Před 2 lety

    Thank yooou

  • @charlesr7144
    @charlesr7144 Před 5 lety

    Wonderful

  • @markrugman1435
    @markrugman1435 Před 4 lety

    Hi Apollonia
    Thank you for your information and tips because it's been three months since I have been dating with Sarah Avantika and she really wants to be with me and I have given her my heart and I have shared with her that I have been through women that had a lot of gossip and she has said the same thing to me about men and I told her that I wanted to meet her family and I told her that I would bring her to meet with my family and relatives before we get married.

  • @kutubokamaso924
    @kutubokamaso924 Před 4 lety

    Amazing

  • @BlackGove
    @BlackGove Před 5 lety

    Yes feed her mind!

  • @SunilSharma-iv3kw
    @SunilSharma-iv3kw Před 4 lety +1

    got it 🙏

  • @cartunetv8728
    @cartunetv8728 Před 5 lety

    All I gotta say is thank u 🙏🏽 you r a blessing to us men!

  • @michaelsmith9382
    @michaelsmith9382 Před 3 lety

    I will get warmed up I will correct a few things that I know I need to correct

  • @jimmiesmith8925
    @jimmiesmith8925 Před 5 lety

    Thanks Apollonia I think sometimes we end up telling a woman that we like her so the woman don't feel like we are attempting to play her or just running game on her. If she knows that we are into her then in some of our minds we think it gives her a since of peace to know we were transparent.

  • @juliocesarbmi9556
    @juliocesarbmi9556 Před 4 lety

    I came here because of the girl I love (i really do), but now apollonia is my crush

  • @jimkasianides5676
    @jimkasianides5676 Před 5 lety +1

    I like watching your videos but sometimes it seems like the women you talk about only exist in a perfect world,. Lol. Maybe one day there will be that one , I can only hope. Keep up the great work.

  • @DarpaSeven
    @DarpaSeven Před 4 lety +10

    The main problem is my crush also watching this...when i use this technic she'll shoot me

  • @anotherfool9278
    @anotherfool9278 Před 2 lety

    People do get in their own way but also people can judge way too harsh way too soon. Which is a lot easier to do on the receiving end.
    Really the best advice is either change or find someone like you. Either way you will be surprised how fast you forget about the person you were “in love” with. And how slow the other person forgets.