6 Tiny Mistakes That Make You Look Low-Status
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Be honest was that really Jing, or... say it aint so - you didn't use stock footage of asian guy XZY, RiiiiGHT? :) Good tips tho thx yo!
Do I get a case of Aquanet with the hair dryer?!
I like that statement- "Never underestimate how judgemental your fellow person is." That is so true! A man can be the kindest, most compassionate, and competent person, but there will be those who will judge him on outward appearance alone.
Because so many look for short cuts rather than get the information they need from the interview, meeting or other encounter.
yeah, it is amazing how many people never realise that they are actively damaging their careers by not considering what they are wearing to work and why. I mean, it is a low effort tweak. If you dress properly people will take you more seriously, at least you will not make people look down on you because of it. A career consists of a package of things, the easiest varbile you can affect is what you wear. People spend 4 years on sometimes pointless degrees, but they wont spend 1 day a year to shop decent clothing.
My decades of experience taught me it is inherently natural to base our initial opinion of someone by their appearance because animals do the same thing. Finding out what a person's character is has to be done through conversation and observations like how they react to situations, but appearance tells me a lot about their character right away.
So true.
1 wear closed lace shoes
2 wear charcoal suits for business, brown shoes allowed
3 wear black suits with black shoes only
4 trim your nose hairs
5 stay away from oversized logo shirts
6 find a signature fragrance/cologne
7 always dress up when youre outside/have a uniform
8 change up your appearance around people you know
9 try covering your skin to look more mature and professional
Nose hair!
thanks hittas, reading your text, I can do without the permanent advertising broadcast of him.
1, I usually wear shoes
2. I don't own a suit
3. I have no black shoes or suits
4. I do trim my nose hair
5. I stay away from all logo shirts
6. I do not use cologne
7. I dress down, not up
8. I don't change my appearance
9. I would prefer to have fur to cover my skin
#4 Actually…date a girl taller than yourself. 👍
I wear a black button-down with black slacks and brown shoes with white gum sole. I don't like the all black everything unless I'm going somewhere really formal.
I do remember that I went to an interview and I at first thought I was at the wrong place. People came in casual wear, some came in a shirt and t-shirt, I even saw the torn jeans style. I admit this wasn't for a suit and tie position but I came to the interview dressed up in a suit and tie. Looking very out of place. During the interview the very first question they asked was to thank me for taking the position seriously and was told out of the hundreds of people they interviewed I was the first to take care of my presentation and asked me why. I told them the first thing I learned from the military is that first impressions last and to dress to succeed. It did also surprise them that I actually came prepared with my own pen.
Interesting that you refer to "torn jeans style". I never thought of it as a style. I considered it more of a mental illness. It's mainly exhibited by women and teen girls. Conformity is a powerful force.
Did they give you a participation award?
Did you get the job?
I am 58 years old, I spent a long time in the shipbuilding industry and offshore oil platforms, I was foreman of crews of shipfitters, pipefitters, welders combo, I rarely had to attend job interviews, in my trade you build your reputation with the skills, quality and mastery of your work that you get over time, once they know you everyone wants guys like you in the yards and platforms. Having said that, in this trade the last thing you need is to go to job interviews dressed in a suit with a tie, shiny shoes, shaved looking like a new born baby and with cologne all over you smelling like woman on her wedding day, that is bullshit and employers in this trade know that.
@@AngelGonzalez-pd4cn100%! This vid is so BS. If that's how shallow an employer is, avoid like the plague! And this was actually IT!? And actually, if someone was from a 'Low Status' background, they're MUCH more likely be by far to be the best person for the job, having got that far, from a 'Low Status' background, in the first place, statistically! ffs!
I had a girlfriend whose dad was from England. Amazing guy! Taught me so much, bought me my first pair of real leather closed lace shoes that I still wear, great condition, as well as a proper leather belt I still have. Forever thankful for the connection we made and things he taught me 🤙
No one knows how to dress as well as an English gentleman!🙂
What brand was the belt? I'm looking into a pair
@@Cody___fossil for the belt. Honestly don’t go with a high end brand just make sure it’s proper leather and clean looking (no funky designs or wonky buckle) clean and crisp is the way to go 👍
If he taught you to ride a British motorcycle, then job well done.
@@jonyoung6405 he didnt... I grew up on them. Much of whats learned on a bike translates to a car or at least made it easier to understand... vehicle maintenance being one of the things it seems so few know about for themselves these days.
I remember back in 2004, when I was in the Army in basic training, my Drill Sergeant took a few soldiers aside and said, “If you dress professional, people will treat you professional.” I took that advice and ran with it. I really love these fashion tips. Thanks for the advice!👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
I agree 💯.
I was a drill instructor 🇦🇺 for 7 years and went through the basic training myself many years before that.
To this day, I still make my bed to military standard (hospital corners etc.), polish my shoes and press my shirts. I always get comments on my shoes and well pressed shirts.
Discipline 🟰 Success. (was saying this many years before I ever heard of Jocko Willinck).
I'm British and my second proper job was in a call centre. My overall boss was an ex British arm captain in the guards...his comment to me. " Gary how can you sound professional on the phone when you look like a sack of shit with string round". He was so right, I now am always, always the best dressed man in the room
Gawd bless Murica 🤓🖕
No joke, if you go to an Asian SPA dressed like a pro you will get waaay better treatment than if you go in shorts, t shirts and tennis shoes.
I was enlisted Air Force and always ironed my uniform shirt to within an inch of it's life. Some of the sergeants later mentioned I always stood out because my uniform was squared away. I have commissioned and still iron my uniform and follow grooming standards. It pays off!
It never hurts to be the best-dressed man in the room.
Reminds me of dress for the job you want.
What you wear says nothing about your experience and knowledge about your profession or line of work. The biggest con-artists and thieves wear a suit with a tie and shiny shoes.
@@AngelGonzalez-pd4cn The con artists wear that because they know how to impress.
The key is to look poor, but be rich af. Dont get it confused
As long as you don't start talking.
"The status comes from within". Great statement.
Most of this is spot on.
The exception is fragrance. It's a gamble if it is a chemical that triggers allergies. Vanillin is the only safe bet but you will smell like a cupcake... You might be good with that. You do you.
In office and formal settings, you should not have a distinct smell. It's not professional and is increasingly considered as offensive as it interferes with others getting work done.
Personally, l actually inform those I work with of my allergy issues and request they keep it in mind. Our employe handbook also mentions that strong smells are not professional.
If my eyes are watering when your egregiously lilac bottom opens that door, our meeting will be cancelled before you get across the room.
When I was still working, one of the guys I worked with was a smoker and used copious amounts of cologne to cover the stench of smoke in his clothes; I would nearly pass out when he walked by me. In several of my activities we are told "no scents!" In most things I do there is at least one or two people who are allergic to various smells and in a zendo scents are as distracting as loud breathing to others' zazen practice. I'm still searching for truly unscented aftershave lotion, deodorant, and bath soap.
I realized years ago that no one walks into a house and consciously notices that there's no dust, but they will notice if it's dusty.
The same goes with grooming. They may not even consciously realize it's been done when talking to you, but they'll definitely notice if it hasn't!!
thats a damn good analogy
Antonio, I must say I love your videos, you’ve an amazing approach, very captivating speech.
You’ve changed my life in many ways thanks to your advices, AND your videos that talk about mental health.
I can’t express enough my gratitude.
Always polish your shoes!!!
I came to terms with aging and the fur that runs in my family and I went and got laser hair removal for my ears. I was a little bit ashamed but it actually made the wife very happy when I told her about it.
How long does that last?
@@rjo8500 I'm getting a package which includes unlimited sessions and they're spaced out three weeks apart. So far I've been to 6 and the hair has been growing more scarcely and slower. I think it's working. 🤷🏻♂️
@@rjo8500 I've seen progress in the form of hair thinning and sessions being spaced out. They tell me that it'll probably be a year for the hair to completely not grow again.
My huge respect to you Sir. Thanks for sharing these vital tips.
As a teenager, my wise old dad often reminded me, "You seldom get a second chance at a first impression." Now, at the age of 78, I frequently receive compliments on my style. Contrary to popular belief, you don't need to break the bank for a polished appearance. Take, for instance, my collection of three pairs of Brogues, steadfast companions for over four decades. Then there's my Burberry raincoat, a treasured find from a high-end charity shop on Bond Street, London, acquired two decades ago for a mere £150. Astonishingly, it still boasts a pristine condition, a testament to both quality craftsmanship and timeless style, The most important thing, keep your posture in check.
I knew a startup, if you came with a suit like that, they immediately knew you were a bad engineer, because that's what bad engineers do, they compensate with their look.
And another thing, if you dont usually come with a suit, and suddenly you do, they start to worry you're looking for another job. It's very funny. It happened to me when i was in a BS project and they knew i was about to leave LOL.
1:59 when he finally gets to the first point
Always appreciate these videos. You helped me upgrade my wardrobe.
Great to hear! Thanks for taking my advice. 😁
Antonio, you are always right on point with your videos and guidance. Thank you, from guy who lives in your old hometown.
Suit up! Leveling up your style will make you Legen... Wait for it.... Dary. 😁
Ive been using this man's advice for a few months now and it hasade a huge difference on a few small lynch pin details I didn't know were that important.
Thank you and please keep up the good work.
I attend a language school abroad and the humidity is unbearable, but other students from various ages ask why I still wear long sleeve button ups in the summer. This video explains it well
I attend a language school abroad and the humidity is unbearable, but other students from various ages ask why I still wear long sleeve button ups in the summer. This video explains it well.
What language are you studying?
@@RedPandas3111 Japanese
Hi Antonio 👋, thanks for the tips which although were mostly familiar to me, now in middle age after many years in senior executive management roles and more recently operating my own business, I just wanted to thank you for pointing out what many young men now simply don’t know. Often basic fundamentals that if overlooked can be detrimental to a man’s progress in his chosen path. One point you made there I was fortunate to have my father teach me from a young age was the importance to always look after your shoes (which I assume came from his own father who was a highly ranked officer in the ADF🇦🇺) especially good leather shoes that not only deserve the respect and attention but as you point out, are far more important and noticeable in regards to first impressions. Just because they are right down below, doesn’t mean they should be any more ignored than you would your upper body traits. In fact, I’m in the middle of secretly renovating my father’s old wooden shoe polishing box that he used while in business most of his life, to present him as a Christmas gift). He’s now In he’s 80s but I owe him many things and one that I cherish now is my daily routine and importance I place in grooming and dressing myself “every time” I leave my apartment. Keep up the great content. 👍 🇦🇺
There was a kid in my high school. His parents were school teachers. He wore a white shirt and tie to class in high school in the 1960s. He managed to earn only one B in high school, the rest As. Scholarship to Harvard. Now on the faculty decades later at UCLA Law. His looking "serious" did a lot for his success. I taught my high school graduate brother-in-law about dressing. When he became a contractor, I had him always keep available a Brroks Brother suit and dress shoes, even to the point of having it hanging in the construction trailer. Today, he is on the train returning from Washington, DC from some dinners. Your appearance counts.
Great video never to old to learn grooming n dress code👍
Agreed! You're never too old to learn a new thing.
I agree that the smallest things will become the biggest criticism against you. Such an important point yet so ignored. The people who say they don’t want to be judged are sadly the ones being the most judgmental in life.
Taking note of these tips! Love the content that you make. Much love from Singapore Antonio!
When I went to work on Wall St my boss wanted, navy or charcoal suit, white shirt, blue, yellow or red tie, and black shoes (lace up’s. No Italian slippers). The amount you could deviate was determined by the amount of revenue you generated.
Its been a while since I watched your videos. Glad I found you again. You are so right, your dress is your uniform. When you are getting dressed, you are putting on that uniform that says I'm business. It also helps you get into the right frame of mind for what is coming during the day. BTW, I forgot about the "shorts" thing. Dress like a man, not a kid.
I love this video. It is very informative. I learned a lot! Thank you Antonio!
My wife is a rep for Tom Ford so I am lucky enough to have a ton of their cologne!
Dang man that is chill! I got some (Tom Ford) for my close friend because he is moving up in jobs/status and I was gobsmacked at the prices. But worth it for what it is for. Self investment.
@@HadrianGuardiola Prices are insane! lol But so worth it.
I had a girlfriend who worked in the high-end perfume and make-up department of the top UK chain pharmacists. I had the full range of sampler colognes, aftershaves, eau-de-toilettes. My favourite was Davidoff's 'Cool Water'. That would be my 'signature' cologne, if I was ever in need of one.
love the content you bring!!
Antonio, you are so right on your points here. Especially on the interview points. I think of issues that you mention as having a cumulative effect. While some of the clothing errors may seem small, but they can all add up quickly and then throw in one poorly answered question and you're toast.
Stumbled on this video today and I completely agree with it. I don't get people who rely on giant logos to look good.
I unliked my own comment
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That's what high-status men do
help
not a real men real style comment
Thank you for your service
Agree with everything after after the job interview part,especially the grooming of excessive body hair eyebrows ear & naisil hair,I notice it on people so im sure women do too & i know they notice a nice clean polished pair of shoes as I've been complimented on mine numerous times.
A good fragrance is very memorable without even being seen & draws people in!
oh really....is that what how your man got you????
I’ve seen many of your videos. Lots of good tips in this one. Thanks.
Good morning antonio! So I have a question I would love to have answered perhaps in a new video or even in this comment section so I work at my local Dillard's here in Southeast Texas and I am one of the fragrance specialist in the Cosmetics Department. What is a really really great way to convey that I know all there is that I need to know when it comes to selling fragrance by getting that point across visually on a customer's first impression? Right now I'm wearing a solid black 3 piece suit with fabric mixtures of silk and wool and the standard good old polyester. But with everyone in my department also wearing black suits how can I separate myself and how I dress from the rest of my co-workers? And again thanks Antonio for all your videos and everything you do all you do it's helped me out for a long time an identifying the person that I know myself to be!
Love the Buddy Ryan reference!
Mistake number 7: wearing fucking tennis shoes with your prom suit
Good point about not wearing shorts in a hot climate, also that is a great looking sports coat !
Great video - there is a thirst for this type of advice. I remember going through officer training in the UK's Royal Air Force - they inspected your wardrobe and gave advice on what it should contain and what to wear for different occasions. They was also heavy on courtesy and social protocol to avoid embarrassment at social events - it was an eye opener for a young officer cadet but has proved invaluable throughout my life.
Just wanted to say that turtleneck + blazer is 🔥
1980s.
Idk. There's litterly no visual difference between open and closed lacing. I mean yes... I can actually spot the differences. I have both shoes at home. But to spot the differences requires an electron microscope. If i got denied a call back for this. I don't need that job. Because the differences litterly don't matter. And my crappy choice of shoes will absolutely never be an indication of my ability to do the work. No matter how much someone wants it to be. Anybody judging otherwise is putting vastly too much emphasis on presentation. And virtually no emphasis on skill. So I don't want to work there. To shallow of a company. And they likely have no skilled workers. And I really mean that... apple. In a virtual interview. Nobody has asked to see my shoes.
The stuff with the unpolished shoes and shoes laces. Ok. That I agree looks slopy and can be distracting. I can understand where that might throw the interview rhythm off. But it shouldn't be a direct cause of interview failure. Baring something absolutely egregious. You should be evaluating skill not style. Unless your job is directly style related. Like I know rmrs would never hire me due to my lack of style. I'm ok with this.
Brown or tan coloured shoes with a black suit is the most obvious mistake.
Amazing information brother 👏🏻
So much vanity for so many millions of people on earth
It's sickening, isn't it?
This is the information most men out there need.
Thank you for the video 😊
My pleasure 😊
That last tip really hit home because it’s something I noticed a year or 2 back. Shorts look childish and long pants make you look far more mature and/or experienced.
Great advice DevilDog!
Tech companies are known to be often pretty liberal with their dress codes.
However,..large financial firms, investment companies, and banks ( especially those on the east coast and also here in Dallas) are still pretty conservative and require professional attire in the work place.
Great rule of thumb is to gather "intelligence" on how execs dress at whatever company your trying for and within your own financial abilities,..allow their look to inspire yours during any interview process.
Great advice DevilDog!
Tech companies are known to be often pretty liberal with their dress codes.
However,..large financial firms, investment companies, and banks ( especially those on the east coast and also here in Dallas) are still pretty conservative and require professional attire in the work place.
Great rule of thumb is to gather "intelligence" on how execs dress at whatever company your trying for and within your own financial abilities,..allow their look to inspire yours during any interview process.
The morning before my first day of work at a new office, I sat in a café outside my "new" office to check out the office dress code.
Great video! Thank you.
Just found his vids and i totaly agree with what he is saying...... It;s all good points
Thank you for your service. USMA MBA 🇺🇲 You are spot on Brother! I will subscribe.
Good content, great advice.
Semper Fi brother...thats where you got that NCO "eye"...one thing I have to say is my brown shoes only come out at the pub or blue jean Fridays.
First impressions are everything, it is very hard to change someone's opinion of their first impression and I always believed in overdressing your role. I am in the engineering field and can say that they really need to offer a grooming and etiquette class in school, about 75% of engineers NEED IT!
I agree with you 1000 %
Great video! Great tips!
I own that hair dryer. The best one I’ve ever had.
Best wishies from France. I have learn a lot about american clothings thancks to this vidéo....
And yes, I agree 100 % with its content.
Thank you 👍
This channel has changed my outlook on my whole wardrobe. Especially since I work at an offices the style is literally up my game. I got to send my message every seasons and I got complaints or phrases as to suppose to back then with shirts and tank top. Or, as my wife said, I went a full one 180. I went from men to yoga pants, facial hair with bids, and man bun with tank top toward long sleeve with cufflinks clean shaving trim beard jewelry and dress shoes (almost I wear dressy version of barefoot because it super comfortable af) even changing up my tie I started collecting watches as well that will go good with my anson belt or shoes and sometimes wearing a sport jacket. 10/10 every 7am when I come back I feel way to great. Even on my way out to work, someone who I haven't seen in years who is an opposite of me saw me leaving work with my bosses and couldn't believe his eyes who he was seeing. We spoke on the phone and he thinks I making mad money. When I'm not I'm just saving and investing on my next appearance or trips with the family. I love this Channel a lot that I even bought the cologne too. Also Justin treadeu not a rockstar..
Good information on this video
If this guy thinks his buddy didn't get a job because of his shoes, he hasn't actually worked in the business world.Pretty much every white collar job I ever had, people were clueless as far as fashion. Especially as it got to be more technical and specialized. In fact someone that was super fashion conscious would likely be passed over as the department would feel like he didn't belong.
Yeah I see business men with open laced shoes and a suit way more than anyone with closed laced.
Remember, the person doing the interview is probably not in the department that the person will be working in, ie tech or business. The interviewer is from HR, or even a 3rd party company, and probably very likely to notice and be put off by things talked about in the video because THAT IS their specialty field. Sure, if EVERYONE has the same unkempt issues, then it's not an issue. But, if everything is equal, the person who got the little details of grooming and style correct has an advantage. Again, the person doing the interview has the specialty of interviewing people not whatever the business actually does.
That's not fashion as much AS Grooming...polished shoes say something about you
@@alchemysticgoldmind4164 Yea that one's likely clueless as far as tech goes. I honestly have never met a techie that knew a thing about fashion. If there were a lineup of random unknown people, and I had to choose one to fix my computer, I would pick the guy with the worst fashion sense. Now if we're talking about sales, you might have a point, but for positions that require sitting in a cubicle unseen by outside customers, the unfashionable guy is more likely to be the better more valuable employee.
This is a good one.
I wouldn't say it is about status (anyone can dress any style), but rather about dressing like a grown up man or todlers, sending the right message (to the inside and outside).
I've just got to the part about non polished shoes. Hell yes. I'm English, I was interviewing a guy from a top British university...But he hadn't bothered to polish his shoes...I went to a school sooooo bad they knocked it down and changed it's name...less than 1/2% of my school year went to university...But they all knew about polished shoes!
Everything you said is bars 👍
I would like to hear your thoughts on the best ways to carry a cell phone. I don't like something banging around in my pockets but the belt holster doesn't look very good. Your ideas? Thanks
I work in tech and have done a lot of interviews on both sides. 90% of people show up in jeans and a T-Shirt. Confidence and technical knowledge are infinitely more important than style.
I'm not saying style doesn't matter in life. I just say it doesn't matter in job interviews as much as this video and many others are suggesting.
Excellent quality.
Ring on middle finger looks goofball in my opinion.
Great content
In summary: the tiny mistakes speak louder than the majority of things you're doing right.
Bingo! .. very well said, as this is the mantra for all of life.
I only wear Brut aftershave. If it was good enough for Henry Cooper, Barry Sheene and Kevin Keegan, then it's good enough for me!
antonio! you were in japan??? omg! i would have loved to have a coffee with you my man! i've been living in japan for the past 15 years and been watching your videos for nearly 10!
Watashi wa Tokyo ni sunde ita.
I wear that same blazer with a black mock turtle neck. The jacket is Oscar De La Renta and gets lots of compliments.
"All defense, no offense" - Buddy Ryan 😂
How do the new dress shoe tennis shoes figure into the mix when it comes to this? As long as the color is correct, do they safely go with a sport coat and tie? The salesman assured me that they do but of course he was a salesman and he was in his 20s I'm in my 50s.
When we talk about this kind of stuff, it's really about whether it's appearing that you're paying attention to details. Most interviewers aren't going to dock you because your shirt and tie patterns might be too close; rather it's that your shoes aren't shined, your belt mismatches your shoes, your clothes are ill-fitting or unpressed etc. Basic stuff anyone should know, and these are not esoteric items that are easily researched.
Great point on shorts Antonio! In NA they are acceptable but go to a place like England and that's what a school boy wears. I have some affordable lightweight golf pants for the warm weather when wearing shorts just won't cut it. Plus I can get replacements anywhere there is a pro shop or WalMart. I even use them in the winter if I'm going to be indoors and heavy weight pants aren't required. Save the shorts for the patio, pool, picnic or barbaque.
Your friend did do a major mistake. Shoes really matter, especially in a job that requires attention to detail. If you can't figure out your clothes, how are you going to figure out the complex problems with computer programs? (You probably can, but the image of your ragged, mismatched shoes blows all your credibility and image.)
You have to be appropriate to your setting.
I work the stage as a kid's entertainer. If I walk out in a suit and tie or the cliche tuxedo I've failed right there. I'm supposed to look fun and cartoony while performing my character.
When I'm meeting a client for a booking, I wear business casual, because it's business...not performance.
Know your setting and conform to fit in.
I don't wear sweatpants to work and I don't wear a suit and dress shoes to rake the leaves.
I am also not a walking billboard for a brand of clothing.
Look at the Sperry, Polo and Hilfiger original logos...very small and understated.(Although they did cave in to giant logos when they were a thing. They aren't a thing anymore!)
Same with the Levis famous red tab....no need for a giant tab the size of a recipe card, everybody on the planet knows what it is.
About to go to trailer for Xmas party, got any good ideas?
Always great advice.
Maybe do a show on EDC. For example, a stylish, small fixed blade knife vs the typical folding knife with a clip stuck in a pocket.
A Browning Hi-Power, 1911, or CZ75 vs a Glock or other modern pistol.
I also like the idea of an old S&W Model 10 or Colt Police Positive, or a S&W Model 19 or 66 with a 2.5 inch barrel.
Add to that the holster: a lovely leather holster vs a practical but not very sightly lured holster.
Let me guess, you saw that he was a retired Marine and thought it was a good idea comment this. Go to a gun channel, this isnt the channel for that.
@@Coinz8Nope. Nothing to do with him being an Ex Marine. Just like the look of classic and classy firearms combined with classic and classy clothing. 🤠
Of the many videos I have watched from you, I was able to sit down and actually zone in on everything you were saying. This video was very straight forward and didn't seem to stray away from each key mistake focused on. I appreciate the research analysis given from studies you found or have conducted yourself. Especially with how styling is viewed by cultures as well.
I didn't know about open lacing versus closed lacing until now. I've always preferred closed lacing naturally. Now I wonder if most shoes in stores are designed with open lacing. I always thought those didn't fit me right, and there might be something unusual about my feet 😐
Visible ink in a professional setting kills you. Shoes are the first thing people notice , spend the money and maintain them. Up close and personal, trim your nails and keep them cleaned all times. We eat with our hands. Scent and breath are always memorable . Be confident .
I Love my Signature Eyebrows!😮
I enjoy your videos; you have got to be yourself and know who you are. When I dress very conservatively, I look like my dad, (a career Marine Corps Officer) I have been a journalist, a salesman and now I am a working artist/art consultant. I incorporate some of my military style (Navy) in my wardrobe and then add the colorful pieces that are me. I like the canvas belts and wear them with either a USMC belt buckle (to honor my dad) or one of my Navy buckles, sometimes my old NROTC silver buckles. Then put it all together with a bright bow tie. Oh, and I am a recreational sailor, so my style is a bit sailboat preppy. I find that I pick up little bits from your videos that make my style better. Thank you.
truly high status people wear a suit with casual clothes.. so a suit with white trainers.. and their two top buttons undone.. they are casual with some offical clothes thrown on top :) I'm a firm believer in you making a connection with the interviwer.. if you can take the interviewer to a casual place.. if you can break the ice.. whilst at the same time looking like you have a lot of comittment to the thing you're interviewing for.. you will win! When I attend interview I get the job nearly 100% of the time.. I'm not good at everything.. but I am good at interviews! You can't attend an interview looking really rough.. all over.. but its a blend.. maybe you have a recent hair cut .. and a good jacket.. for example. But one or two casual items like shoes.. no problems.
Last interview I went to I was wearing hiking boots.. jeans and a casual shirt.. I got the job. But you do have to understand the enviroment; are the people dressed down / casual? Then.. you in all liklihood dont have to dress like you're going to a dinner party in 2024.. just my experience.. the tech industry is a casual dress industry.. generally.. having said that if you are attending interview to a traditional consultancy firm, then yes.. that's a suited and booted appointment!
I'm a BIG fan of your content and I love your energy. Have you ever considered opening a home-based virtual speaking business? I bet you could extend your influence even further.
I'm going to apply Cologne like that, catch with my face. Good laugh, great video
Don’t forget to close your eyes
When I first started my corporate job in the mid 80's I was told to avoid wearing a black suit and to stick with gray or dark blue. The reasoning at that company was that black suites were informally reserved for those who were director level leaders. Also double breasted suites were verboten as were loafers or shoes with tassels and only white shirts and no facial hair.
This reminds me of when I had just graduated from college. I'm dating myself, but Mallory's Dress for Success was the bible for getting the job. It was a must. I'm sure some things have changed, but everything you are addressing got covered in that book. Good on you for passing all of this along.
I was interviewing several recent male MBA students. We did not have any females apply. They interviewed well. One worn an earring another had visible tattoos. Neither were offered a second interview.
I once wore glasses with no lenses to an interview, because my boss at the time told me glasses would make me look smarter, but I don't need glasses and couldn't afford them. No one said anything or laughed at me, but I never heard back from them
They said something and laughed at you…
Probably just not in front of you. 😩
@@ugoeze7360 Indeed, they might still talk about me to this day and I'd never know it lol
I wouldn't hire you either! Hahahahah!
@@garettanderson6772 that seems obvious given I don't work at grocery stores
@@sqlb3rn Hey you're the genius that wore empty eyeglasses and thought it a good idea. You should be working Honey Buckets.
I work in the trades and I can tell you that when somebody shows up on a jobsite wearing gear that is not mandatory to their position, they are heavily judged by the crew. A project manager wearing a suit, dress shoes, with safety vest and hardhat. Like "go get back behind your desk." Let the foreman convey progress. Or do a job walk once the crew has wrapped for the day
When I was looking for my first job back in the 00's, a few of my fellow interviewees had their ties tied supper fat and short like schoolkids who were trying to be rebellious, now that look I though looked terrible even on schoolkids but it looked even less impressive on someone actually trying to look smart for an interview vs being forced to wear it for uniform requirements. That and some people actually just wore sneakers with their dress trousers and shirt.
I actually count myself lucky to have gone to a school that didn't have a uniform requirement, as it stopped me getting into bad habits just to be rebellious against uniforms and smart clothing, so when I dressed smart it was because I liked it and was interested in it.
My brother's only smart pair of shoes are some Derbys, and I intend to get him a pair of nice Oxfords for his birthday, but the least I could do for now was give them a pretty good polish.
Low income people tend to buy clothing with oversized logos, especially luxury brands.. luxury brands in general, not just oversized logos. I developed the idea back when I was a Teenager, the only way I'll wear your big logo what ever is if you paid me. I buy quality name brand stuff but nothing with be logos or at least I can remove the logos. I just bought a new car a few days ago and it has the dealers logo sticker on the back plus a license plate frame with the dealers name. They did not pay me to advertise, didn't ever knock the price down. So I will pull that off soon, going to pull the sticker off now and will remove the plate frame when I get my new plates. I did this to a previous vehicle years ago and when I put the vehicle in the shop to be serviced, they mentioned I didn't have their dealer frame plate name on my vehicle and asked if they could put one on it. I asked, are you going to pay me to advertise, give free oil changes? They said no, I replied, than the answer is no.
I was an electrical engineer that designed electronics. Interview without a tie. Always get an offer higher than prior jobs.
I just found you and am very impressed by your presentation so shall watch more of your videos before commenting in depth, given my related experience in both the subject matter and being on camera. I do have a request I consider important for men, given my age now. People dress horribly nowadays especially Left-Wingers but my request is for a video on looking good/stylish for retired men whether 50 or 70. The reason is I see HORRIBLE outfits on these men whether they have a great pension or are struggling with today's insane prices for essentials. The very wealthy men usually don't need this so showing expensive items isn't the best use of your knowledge. If you take this on, I suggest the approach of what to wear for different circumstances. There are the public appearances we all have in common like concerts and dining out. For my interests I have a school reunion coming up with a grad class who were very successful when students and we've never lost our competitiveness. I try to look my best when out shopping, at the gym and in the warmer weather I play tennis, cycle and walk a lot for both fitness and social walking like the Car Shows I attend. Those shows and similar events are where I see men dressed in ways that make a professional style maker like you break down and cry!