When I STOPPED Chasing Validation, Approval and Success THIS happened

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    Whenever you chase validation, approval, success or love, you might find that your desires feel more and more out of your reach. The chasing dynamic to any of these goals only causes resistance, suffering, attachment and frustration. For example, when you chase validation from the external environment- say for example a significant other or a parent- you'll probably feel even less validation for yourself. You are probably expecting someone outside of yourself to say or do something for you which makes you sort of "chasing" external validation. All this does is deplete your energy and make you feel even less validation from your expectation.
    When I stopped chasing validation, approval and success, I found that I stopped looking for those things outside of myself. Instead, I started giving myself validation, approval and embodying my version of success and it naturally manifested into my new identity and reality. When you stop chasing and start BEING, you shift to a whole new timeline of your identity and reality.
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Komentáře • 790

  • @AaronDoughty44
    @AaronDoughty44  Před 3 lety +68

    here is the most powerful meditation for For Feeling Worthy, Whole and Complete ➡ czcams.com/video/LGiJ51B0HGU/video.html

    • @Itslizliz
      @Itslizliz Před 3 lety +3

      Aaron Miguel, I like you and I love your energy! 😎

    • @zillahmills6549
      @zillahmills6549 Před 3 lety +1

      Aaron Doughty Thanks Aaron 🤗😘XX

    • @DigitalRav
      @DigitalRav Před 3 lety

      Aaron, Thank you for all that you do 💛

    • @WildStyleStayWild
      @WildStyleStayWild Před 3 lety +1

      You got my attention! 💯💋👍

    • @alyssawood6189
      @alyssawood6189 Před 3 lety +3

      This made me cry but I needed it lol thank you!! ❤️

  • @ICEcoldJT
    @ICEcoldJT Před 3 lety +621

    “There will always be someone who can’t see your worth. Don’t let it be you.” ✨

  • @HIXHAM
    @HIXHAM Před 3 lety +312

    “Your most important sale is to sell yourself to yourself.”
    Have a wonderful day y'all. Sending love your way ❤️

  • @MindNow
    @MindNow Před 3 lety +380

    *Sounds counterintuitive, but the more you let things go, the more it will come to you (abundance mindset)*

    • @johnje4285
      @johnje4285 Před 3 lety +3

      So true

    • @SheisChristin
      @SheisChristin Před 3 lety +2

      Where is it counterintuitive? Just wondering!

    • @HayleyNoelle
      @HayleyNoelle Před 3 lety +4

      So true!! Letting go is the biggest piece in not only trusting yourself but the universe as well ✨

    • @AaronDoughty44
      @AaronDoughty44  Před 3 lety +15

      I agree!

    • @SheisChristin
      @SheisChristin Před 3 lety +2

      @@AaronDoughty44 Complete trust. Attachment causes suffering.
      Whoa whoa.
      Trust nonphysical?
      Ehhhhh....
      Immense Trust.

  • @HayleyNoelle
    @HayleyNoelle Před 3 lety +72

    Friendly reminder that your worth is not determined by your output. You are already worthy, whole, and complete as you are ♥️

  • @betinaaksoz6246
    @betinaaksoz6246 Před 3 lety +116

    The reason why letting go is so powerful is because you are letting go of a structure of the false self🌟

  • @HIXHAM
    @HIXHAM Před 3 lety +124

    “Renew, release, let go. Yesterday’s gone. There’s nothing you can do to bring it back. You can’t “should’ve” done something. You can only DO something. Renew yourself. Release that attachment. Today is a new day!” -Steve Maraboli

    • @emilsmikulis
      @emilsmikulis Před 3 lety +3

      🙏🙏

    • @purposewithangelina7976
      @purposewithangelina7976 Před 3 lety +3

      Yess ❤

    • @TheMediumChannel
      @TheMediumChannel Před 3 lety +5

      Developing presence is the nucleus of the spiritual circle and we can develop outwardly from their..it is the highest expression of our own power and who we are as Spirit

    • @chauncey2311
      @chauncey2311 Před 3 lety +1

      I like that! 💯

  • @mindfulnessmedviktor
    @mindfulnessmedviktor Před 3 lety +31

    "If you exist you are worthy", I like that. Like Eckhart Tolle says "On the level of being you are already complete. There is nothing you need to become". That gives me a great relief. Then we can play with form and our purpose without the need that we have to achieve something to feel worthy.

  • @Thefreedomwithinyou
    @Thefreedomwithinyou Před 3 lety +104

    So many of us are trying create a life seeking to be "normal" but when we try to become this, we create a boring life where there are only small thrills coming from the validation we will never be able to fully feel and hold. The only way to capture that feeling of validation is by becoming who YOU are because you are validating you by being you and all the beauty of your uniqueness.

    • @emilsmikulis
      @emilsmikulis Před 3 lety +5

      Everything is already done, lets just tune to it🙏

    • @travis6694
      @travis6694 Před 3 lety

      I love how you wrote it. I understand this. It also reminds me of my narcissistic ex girlfriend who used and abused this mindset on why she was treating me terribly and being selfish. She called it being “herself” and “who she is”. But she’s really just a narcissist who lacks empathy and only self focused.

  • @purposewithangelina7976
    @purposewithangelina7976 Před 3 lety +80

    Being free, rich, successful and highly influential is normal for me. ☺

  • @janice9251
    @janice9251 Před 3 lety +55

    You're probably sick of hearing me say it but "you're such an inspiration to me"

  • @dudeboisupreme2621
    @dudeboisupreme2621 Před 3 lety +43

    “Less is more, more is less” - Dr Wayne Dyer

  • @rky5190
    @rky5190 Před 3 lety +10

    "You exist therefore you're WORTHY"❤️

  • @ConsciousnessAwake
    @ConsciousnessAwake Před 3 lety +18

    It's ALL about giving gratitude back to each other!
    Bringing positive vibes ALWAYS! Peace!

  • @LoveMoneySecretsTV
    @LoveMoneySecretsTV Před 3 lety +33

    Like fine wine you just get better and better everyday. I find myself looking for your videos every morning because it is so uplifting and high vibing. So much truth and authenticity you share here. Bless you brother.

  • @Checksixty
    @Checksixty Před 3 lety +19

    I’ve learned to stop chasing things ❤️

  • @CamilleAlane
    @CamilleAlane Před 3 lety +26

    Anybody else here just loves Aaron’s energy !!!! He’s so funny and comical !! Lol it’s the ending for me bro 😎

  • @kathy672
    @kathy672 Před 3 lety +25

    I was just gonna say your hair looks really nice😁. What your saying is on point, your not chasing it and I gave the complaint.

  • @dashama
    @dashama Před 3 lety +41

    your explanations are so
    funny and awesome 😅🙏

  • @allisenergy3309
    @allisenergy3309 Před 3 lety +9

    It's important to only live for one's self and not for someone else. Be you, be authentic and don't let other people influence how you live your life. Love and light to everyone!

  • @gooddreams8495
    @gooddreams8495 Před 3 lety +3

    You are worthy because you exist. Period. I needed to hear that. I hear you say it before but it sounds too good to be true..

  • @authentic_101
    @authentic_101 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I love this guy! He's sooo comfortable to be himself and silly at times 😛 that he inspires me to be my authentic self and enjoy being myself! Lots of love brother! 💛💛💛

  • @EdgarMartinez-ks1yl
    @EdgarMartinez-ks1yl Před 3 lety +10

    Broski is always coming out with high power knowledge 💯

  • @Krow9000
    @Krow9000 Před 3 lety +6

    Become the best version of yourself. Compare to only thyself for everyone else is in a different stage of their own journey. Thanks @Aaron 🙂

  • @christinalopez5606
    @christinalopez5606 Před 3 lety +4

    Another person's opinion is not your reality, and no one knows you, more then you.. 💕

  • @cassieholmes808
    @cassieholmes808 Před 3 lety +2

    Not chasing. Only receiving.

  • @inthethroesof
    @inthethroesof Před 3 lety +6

    This one should be watched daily. The talking, yelling, and flailing works for me and helps deliver the big picture messages.

  • @timpickard3946
    @timpickard3946 Před 2 lety +1

    Recently I had to part ways with a friend who I played in a band with. She adhered too much to this law of attraction stuff. She studied and practiced these teachings and even wrote a book with similar ideas. She was very guarded but pretended to be the authentic version of herself by being sparkly. We were friends until she started to push me away because I wanted to know her better as a person. My genuine interest in her was a problem. She called it needy energy. I did not need validation or her approval. Then I realized after seeing how she surrounded herself with as many superficial interactions with others as possible that I needed to go away on my own. She didn’t want anyone to get close to her is what I noticed just to live in the moment with bubbly personality. This attracted me and a lot of others to her. I parted ways because I didn’t want to have to compete for her time and interest to even be just friends. Asking a personal question was a big turn off for her. She didn’t care or just pretended to not care about a real friendship with me. Law of attraction repulsed me. I wish her luck but my journey with her went sour.

  • @elizabethmariaunlimited9870

    So weird this is what I’ve been looking at this week. I recently had a personal success and contacted several people to tell them because I was happy. One did not respond and I had to sit with the feelings this brought up. I initially looked at their part, perhaps they’re jealous or something, but then as the days progressed I began to look at my part and why I needed or sought their validation. A HUGE shift occurred in my development of consciousness...(this was yesterday) and then today you posted this video. God I love life’s synchronicity‘s and the nudges I receive from Great Spirit! Thank you so much Aaron for your service and dedication to helping others “raise their consciousness”!! I discovered your CZcams channel this past August. The first video I watched brought tears to my eyes and I’ve been watching ever since! Sooo, I know you aren’t looking for validation, 😉 but YOU effing ROCK! Love and light~ ❤️🌎🙏🏼☀️👁🍀🧙🏽🧚🏾‍♀️🎶😝🌚❄️🌲💫

  • @IntuitiveWanderess
    @IntuitiveWanderess Před 3 lety +2

    It’s been a pleasure to see your growth and evolution! Thanks for all of the insight you’ve shared. It’s valuable. What an amazing time to be alive!

  • @SingingTechniquesINT
    @SingingTechniquesINT Před 3 lety +2

    You have such a great gift of making complex concepts into bite-size and most easily comprehensible videos. Thank you. 💗

  • @thomascranor9505
    @thomascranor9505 Před 3 lety

    One of your best yet. Keep it up my friend. The world needs you❤️

  • @brendajohnson6481
    @brendajohnson6481 Před 3 lety

    I've been following your channel for years. Hands down this is the most helpful and real video I've watched of yours!

  • @michaelgoronsky
    @michaelgoronsky Před 9 měsíci

    This applies for literally anything including bliss and energy and vitality. Brilliant. 💪💪

  • @lovesstronger898
    @lovesstronger898 Před 3 lety

    I love you being you, it is so freeing. I was so proud of you when you actually addressed the issues at hand in a way that was straightforward. No glossing it with vague superficial approval seeking measures. I really started watching you more and more once I knew you saw through the bs. Thank you for your realness and helping us who are going through the same thing but not in the public eye. You are feeling solid! Much LOVE!!

  • @danellecaton5541
    @danellecaton5541 Před 3 lety +3

    I’m so glad I discovered your videos. I finally feel like I’m getting answers to the questions I ask myself. You are a breath of fresh air for me I’m going to tell all my friends that are struggling about you!

  • @debbyproulx3318
    @debbyproulx3318 Před 3 lety +3

    Your words, your laugh and your energy is so uplifting. Much appreciation.🙏🏼✨💖

  • @theInfiniteAwakening
    @theInfiniteAwakening Před 3 lety +1

    I totally felt like that at first when I started CZcams but now I think what video can I fun making the most! that people will enjoy too. I love how you're so open and transparent about seeking validation and letting it go. Cheers to your success and all those who watch your videos!

  • @ShelleyOurian
    @ShelleyOurian Před 3 lety

    Aaron, this is by far THE BEST video of yours that I've ever watched! I'm going through a period of trying to release attachment and control, especially in such a tumultuous year as 2020. I'm working towards giving myself permission to be myself and know that I'm worthy...thank you so much for the wake-up call! Very much appreciated.

  • @peacebyflash6743
    @peacebyflash6743 Před 3 lety +2

    This is so good,I appreciate how you broke all this down in the most simplest form!

  • @VerenaSatriani
    @VerenaSatriani Před 3 lety +2

    I really need this. Approval and validation isn't something to be chased. Thank you, Aaron.

  • @swim610
    @swim610 Před 3 lety +2

    This is beautiful Aaron, thank you. When I want to feel love...I put my hand on my heart and say out loud, Tonya....I love you. I'm flooded with love everytime. Peace.

  • @mariameditation621
    @mariameditation621 Před 3 lety

    you are a genius i discovered you via instagram, then your podcast and now your youtube. thank you for doing this thank you thank you

  • @purposewithangelina7976
    @purposewithangelina7976 Před 3 lety +1

    I put myself on the PEDESTAL. What I want, wants me! My superpower is being ME!

  • @Violetmoonflame
    @Violetmoonflame Před 3 lety +5

    “I’m just a flexible little noodle” - Aaron Doughty 😂😂😂😂

  • @Zav369
    @Zav369 Před 3 lety +1

    I really appreciate you for being so honest and transparent here 🙌🏼

  • @UwUnium
    @UwUnium Před 3 lety +1

    I'm so glad to hear that this is the version of you that decided to go all out.. I love your explosive energy and the jokes (and edits) and all the hand movements :3 ... I'm going trough a phase in wich I decide to give into my authenticity more aswell.. so it's inspiring to hear you talk about it like that!! Thanks for putting yourself out there.

  • @ankan8015
    @ankan8015 Před 3 lety

    I do not normally comment but the stage i am right now i seen your the video pop up i felt the urge to write. 8months ago I started to listen to your channel. My first ever video which I watched of yours was about the detachment. I was struggling in my relationship. I must have watched it amount atleast 500 times or maybe more to make my subconscious understand what needs to be done. I kid u not Aaron. IT HAS CHANGED MY LIFE. Evn tho it was originally to fix my relationship which I struggle with but it made me understand the whole prospects of my life and how detachment is the KEY to everything. IT IS HARD especially when you are attached but now because my subconscious has understood this very well. Anything i start in life now or had going on in my life i do not attach and it falls in my lap exectly the way i wanted or even better. I might have been listening to loads of other people but Aaron you will always be my guru who actually made me start this journey-of beautiful life without any control.
    This is how much you have been embedded in my subconscious when i talk to myself lol which i do alot i am like my own best friend lol when i am in hard times now do you know what i say? Ur words from one of your attachment video “ release it to the ether” . Literaly thats my mantra and my subconscious just let it go. Thank you once again for spreading this healing aswel as the magic of human life to help us develop and achieve our desires..

  • @MaayanLifshitz
    @MaayanLifshitz Před 3 měsíci

    Aaron your content is on a new level lately! I love the frame technique and it has been not less than life changing for me. Thank you!!

  • @lyly198
    @lyly198 Před 3 lety

    Aaron your energy is so uplifting and your content just gets better and better. Thank you for speaking your truth and for your service 🙏🏼

  • @MandyJRoss
    @MandyJRoss Před 3 lety +2

    This is a brilliantly articulated explanation of this topic. Appreciate you Aaron. Blessings to all who read this.❤️

  • @bjiwuoha
    @bjiwuoha Před 3 lety +2

    This was a dope video Aaron. Thank you for sharing. Keep doing what you’re doing brother. You really are making a difference 🙏🏾

  • @camila3694
    @camila3694 Před 3 lety

    your new look suits you a lot!
    thanks for the video aaron! ♡

  • @palapatraining6723
    @palapatraining6723 Před 3 lety

    love the way aaron explaining this way

  • @FLX9310
    @FLX9310 Před 3 lety +3

    You are an amazing person Aaron, thank you for being you. You inspire me and I really love to watch your vids. Sending love and positive vibes your way!

  • @kevinurbina5515
    @kevinurbina5515 Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks for this, Aaron. Just signed up in the 21 days challenge. I know I will be able to let acceptance go and be more of myself

  • @sonjaveda9832
    @sonjaveda9832 Před 3 lety

    I love how you've relaxed and are just enjoying being yourself. You are good value. You are literally helping me immensely.thankyou

  • @imdavidhammond
    @imdavidhammond Před 3 lety +7

    Awesome video man. Love the work 🙏❤️

  • @julsvern7779
    @julsvern7779 Před 3 lety

    I am so happy and excited for you Aaron that you have over a million subscribers. Maybe its been that way for awhile but I just was noticing that. You're getting your dream out there to the world. So amazing to have witnessed your journey in this way. Thanks for being here. Here's to raising vibrations! Much Love

  • @shaneyrose36
    @shaneyrose36 Před 3 lety +1

    Ahh I totally needed this video Aaron! I am not exactly where I want to be yet, but I am making those steps to get there. It’s so important to just enjoy the journey and love yourself while doing so.Thank you so much for doing what you’re doing and adding value to the lives of others! You rock!

  • @mysongbird1979
    @mysongbird1979 Před 3 lety

    You’re awesome Aaron you’ve helped me so much in my spiritual journey. I can definitely see your growth and you being your authentic self give other people permission to be their authentic selves. People may not always like what you do but people will always respect you more for being you. So keep doing you boo I think it’s beautiful.👌

  • @babymoon555
    @babymoon555 Před 3 lety

    Last video of yours I watched was in 2019. I changed since then and so have you. I'm digging this authentic content. This is what the world needs to know.

  • @SwordofDay
    @SwordofDay Před 3 lety

    Aaron, Ive been out her lurking and watching you grow. I'm growing as well and this was refreshing to watch you just be YOU. Keep moving dude. Loving it

  • @Lemzo19
    @Lemzo19 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for this video Aaron, i really needed to hear that.

  • @laurajubert3945
    @laurajubert3945 Před 3 lety

    This is gold Aaron!

  • @starbright144
    @starbright144 Před 3 lety +1

    I’m teaching friends this as we speak! Your spot on

  • @joannecobb-cupofjo4374

    I LOVE the transformation of you!! The unapologetic you is freakin incredible. Thank you for this channel.

  • @JessicaMillerNashville

    Excellent advice I will be using! And so true about different levels of success! Thank you for sharing!

  • @antjonesux
    @antjonesux Před 3 lety +1

    Love the energy. Keep producing content that you feel is right for the world. Thank you!

  • @jasminewhatchawaitingfor
    @jasminewhatchawaitingfor Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you I needed this! Going to stay advertising my coaching business and need to be mindful of my energy and intentions when putting myself out there💖

  • @lux.lamont9493
    @lux.lamont9493 Před 3 lety

    Wow Aaron I really love that video !! Thanks for your precious work !! And I love your long hair xx 😘 continue your great work we need that !!!

  • @emilsmikulis
    @emilsmikulis Před 3 lety +6

    Love is all there is, so follow your heart and it is done🙏

  • @vivieni7920
    @vivieni7920 Před 3 lety

    So thankful to have found his videos, because his videos are changing my life. Thank you so much, ily dude and sending you good vibes

  • @brieocea
    @brieocea Před 3 lety

    We love you Aaron!

  • @ScarlettLinLatt
    @ScarlettLinLatt Před 3 lety

    Whenever I want more energy toward working on my youtube channel, I watch your videos. They help me feel more aligned in doing what I love doing. Not just for the money or fame but simply for the fulfillment of helping others and being creative. Thank you so much for what you are putting out in this world Aaron✨💫

  • @ayshaaslam43
    @ayshaaslam43 Před 3 lety

    And one more thing. You have lots of energy. Love it! Keep making more videos so I can increase my esoteric knowledge. Take care and have a wonderful evening! Thank you so much.

  • @angely2291
    @angely2291 Před 3 lety +1

    Hi Aaron, I really like you being you💕 thank you so much for creating this wonderful video!

  • @lo.em1984
    @lo.em1984 Před 3 lety +2

    You have blossomed ♥️ you're more fun and more relaxing to watch now when you're completely yourself ♥️

  • @justme855
    @justme855 Před 2 lety

    Omg! I love your videos. You’re changing my life!

  • @ziad6010
    @ziad6010 Před 3 lety

    Hey man, just wanna let you know that your videos keep me going with my consntant depression that I feel comes from conditioned deprication. You help me remember to self-reflect a lot and not identify myself with the bad. Thank you.

  • @floramarc
    @floramarc Před 3 lety +2

    i agree with you Aaron, but I hope you could also enjoy and celebrate the playbutton as well with no guilt and be proud because you did it and it’s because you work hard for it and i think it’s an amazing achievement and you’ve been a blessing for that much people, you are nice! God bless you!

  • @Greekfeat
    @Greekfeat Před 3 lety +1

    Great video once again!
    "Do the work and let it go works wonders!"

  • @dawsonbradyart
    @dawsonbradyart Před 3 lety +1

    Aaron, I never comment but I love your videos. They’ve been helping me for so long. I’m manifesting my perfect physique, we need a workout routine!!

  • @ananyasarkar8773
    @ananyasarkar8773 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for the dose of positivity, Aaron 😊

  • @arvi2010
    @arvi2010 Před 3 lety +1

    The dog chasing it's tail.
    Your gems of knowledge are truly synchronised with my own individual experiences.

  • @Theperfectspotllc
    @Theperfectspotllc Před 3 lety

    I will forever support you!

  • @vaneesssaR95
    @vaneesssaR95 Před 3 lety +1

    I love the energy! Reminds me of myself! IF YOU ARE CREATED, YOU ARE WORTHY! PERIOD.

  • @crastics
    @crastics Před 3 lety

    Stella vid Aaron.. been listening to you for couple years (there is no one else) Everytime I turn to you for info.. it is always so relevant to my reality. Thanks man

  • @tristanconvert
    @tristanconvert Před 3 lety

    One of the best video on this subject.

  • @tarotwithtammy8793
    @tarotwithtammy8793 Před 3 lety +2

    I’ve watched you on your CZcams journey. I love all these examples, this is amazing advice!

  • @SeijoDee8
    @SeijoDee8 Před 2 lety

    Much love brother, you changing my life.

  • @ayshaaslam43
    @ayshaaslam43 Před 3 lety +1

    I understand what you are saying and it makes a lot of sense. I really needed to hear this video. I have been chasing things and people and that was the worst thing I have done to myself. I looked for approval. I am not doing that anymore. I have learned this lesson. You are right. I am a big girl!

  • @KC-or2sj
    @KC-or2sj Před 3 lety

    Spot on brother. The universe put this video in front of me for a reason. These reasons for validation and approval are exactly why I quit Facebook and other social media.

  • @ronytigoylo2194
    @ronytigoylo2194 Před 3 lety

    You seem so sincere the way you talk man,thanks!

  • @annmariedavis2401
    @annmariedavis2401 Před 3 lety

    Love your energy...followed you for over 3 years on and off and its great to see how you've grown and you always have amazing content 🙏😁

  • @KathryneMuller
    @KathryneMuller Před 3 lety

    This is by far my most favourite video of yours and I have listened to many 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @itzTobi11
    @itzTobi11 Před 3 lety +1

    Hair continues to shatter through dimensions .

  • @microdosingmagic7742
    @microdosingmagic7742 Před 3 lety

    Yes your energy and actually how you physically look is very drastically different! I appreciate you being so honest and open with your ego battles. Not something you find often in a spiritual community. You get famous by attracting fools, you gain respect from the wise ( authenticity).

  • @mattperreault3518
    @mattperreault3518 Před 3 lety +3

    This is refreshing to listen to real life being real life. Not playing along with the act of living! Thanks! And Cowabunga!!

  • @kayleegartino276
    @kayleegartino276 Před 3 lety +1

    Enjoying the process!!! Yes