NLP Techniques: How to Stop Seeking Validation From Others

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  • čas přidán 19. 01. 2021
  • NLP Techniques: How to stop Seeking Validation From Others // How to avoid seeking validation from others? Are you seeking validation in relationships or suffer from external validation addiction? In this video I teach some NLP techniques that will help you overcome seeking external validation self esteem so that you can learn how to stop seeking validation from others. NLP techniques or neuro linguistic programming techniques are powerful tools that help you create the life that you want.
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Komentáře • 55

  • @DamonCart
    @DamonCart  Před 3 lety +1

    Get your free PDF on how to elicit your values:
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  • @PaulOuzounov
    @PaulOuzounov Před 3 lety +15

    Love the video, I am reminded of what I tell my guitar students, that they shouldn't consider music hard to learn, that they should always consider it a new challenge and to look upon it with fresh, curious eyes. Works really well and my turnover is great but I am still having a lot of trouble getting more students. Thanks for the reminders Damon.

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  Před 3 lety

      You're welcome. Thank you for your comment.

    • @Lightflames85
      @Lightflames85 Před 6 měsíci +1

      take your own advice with the "lot of trouble getting more students". You have a big challenge finding new students. Be careful how you speak to yourself.

  • @Sirach-pv5xv
    @Sirach-pv5xv Před 3 lety +2

    Nice nature shot Damon. Love the content. you really give someone everything they need to get started in NLP. Loving the vids, well done 👍

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you for the kind words. Yes, even after nearly 700 videos I still find that I have more to give. I'm not sure if I'll ever run out.

  • @annep52
    @annep52 Před 3 lety +1

    Yet another valuable video. Thanks so much Damon for all the insightful moments.

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  Před 3 lety +1

      My pleasure. Thank you for the kind words.

  • @ivelinavelikova3726
    @ivelinavelikova3726 Před 3 lety +1

    I can't stop watching your videos! Thank you for all the info. I'm inspired!

  • @ianjayme23
    @ianjayme23 Před 3 lety +1

    Very valuable concept. Well explained too. Two thumbs for you, Coach!

  • @coupecruiser
    @coupecruiser Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you so much for this. I have issues with validation even though I’m a coach and I found this extremely useful. Once again thank you.

  • @belovebeyou6474
    @belovebeyou6474 Před rokem

    Thank you for sharing this excellent knowledge.

  • @akikohigashi5221
    @akikohigashi5221 Před 3 lety +1

    1. An awesome background!
    2. So many great nuggets in the video! I had some ah-ha moments while listening to you. One of them was re-realization of how important Value Elicitation is. I’ve been trying to figure out why one of the transformations wasn’t sticking. So this morning I decided to do a Value Elicitation around this quality/word. I didn’t think to do this before cuz it’s such a simple word, so the definition of this quality seemed obvious. But oh man, once I finished V.E. and got clear about what “I” needed to see, be, do to be this quality for “me”, the transformation work from before totally and instantly sank in and I felt so Q! I didn’t realize without this clarity, my locus of control was still outside, hence transformation didn’t really feel solid. Mind blown how a simple thing like this can trip up the whole thing!!🤯🤩✨ More examples flooded in too as the locus of control shifted to internal!
    A similar thing happened during Nate’s call week6 last night while tuning up my sure quality as well. As soon as I transformed my biggest CE with newly added resources, a huge realization hit me that I can decide when to be Q and when not to be using those new resources. And me not being this Q 24/7 has nothing to do if I'm Q or not. It is logically obvious but to actually feel this realization in my body was really empowering (Speaking of locus of control, this was an awesome personal win moment)! Ok, my comment got long, but wanted to say, Self-Concept is pretty amazing!!

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  Před 3 lety +2

      Very nice. You're really putting this to work for yourself and it's working!

    • @akikohigashi5221
      @akikohigashi5221 Před 3 lety

      @@DamonCart It seems so, slowly and surely! 🙏

  • @dzihanahajdarpasicmisirlic5347

    great video...it is so natural to feel down when rejected for job, fired etc.... at least the first reaction is hurt... but then through work on the matter, we will move the locus of control back to us... :)

  • @annemariepyke8881
    @annemariepyke8881 Před rokem

    Hi thankyou so much. So many lightbulb moments. I struggle with the constant need to please others

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  Před rokem

      You're welcome. Keep working at it.

  • @dannicolescu7921
    @dannicolescu7921 Před rokem

    Great content! P. S. Listening în România 💪

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  Před rokem

      Thank you.
      I'm heading back to Romania on Sunday.

  • @Rob-yt4ow
    @Rob-yt4ow Před 3 lety

    Very Very Very Underrated channel

  • @HansSchmidtUnfoldingStone

    Splitting wood is such good exercise! I miss it.

  • @chart2
    @chart2 Před 3 lety

    I may be interested in the self concept model certification.

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  Před 3 lety

      Are you a part of our Level 2 program currently?

  • @daredevil921
    @daredevil921 Před rokem

    ❤❤ from India sir

  • @FuckingHostile496
    @FuckingHostile496 Před rokem +1

    As a romanian I can confirm this is how rural backyards look like in our country.

  • @lesliesurette5010
    @lesliesurette5010 Před 10 měsíci

    what are the NLP techniques listed in the this video? I missed them somehow.

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Yeah I could have been more explicit about the techniques in this video. I go over Values & Criteria. I inserted some Meta Model Questions. And I talked about the Meta Program called Locus of Control.

  • @adrianagNeuroFit
    @adrianagNeuroFit Před 3 lety

    @Damon.. did you chopped all that wood??😉🤣🤪🤣🤣😁😁

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  Před 3 lety +1

      No but I did chop some wood, just not the wood in the video.

  • @adrianagNeuroFit
    @adrianagNeuroFit Před 3 lety

    By the way... What are the steps to get certified in the self concept model...😃😃

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  Před 3 lety +1

      When we open the training again you will need to take an assessment to see if you qualify. You don't need to have the model mastered but you need to be familiar with all aspects of it.

    • @adrianagNeuroFit
      @adrianagNeuroFit Před 3 lety

      @@DamonCart 👍👍🙌🙌

  • @mr.truththerealdeal2475
    @mr.truththerealdeal2475 Před 3 měsíci

    "It's Better To Have GOD Approve,Than The World Applaud...."

  • @gracieambrosio4967
    @gracieambrosio4967 Před 3 lety

    Only Indonesian subtitles available

  • @namuluna
    @namuluna Před 3 lety

    are u in romania?

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  Před 3 lety

      I was when I shot this video. I was in Romanian for the entire month of January, but I'm back in California now.

    • @robertbalassan
      @robertbalassan Před 3 lety

      @@DamonCart i hope you enjoyed your stay here :D thanks for your amazing and also proven helpful videos. ♥️

    • @DamonCart
      @DamonCart  Před 3 lety

      @@robertbalassan you're welcome.