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  • čas přidán 8. 01. 2021
  • One of the most important aspects of being human is the fact that we have feelings - all day long. From childhood we are taught to stop being sad or to hold in our anger. But these emotions always find a way to leak out, sometimes in the form of self-criticism or depression. We need to learn to acknowledge our emotions, and to be compassionate and kind to ourselves when these feelings arise. And you will learn an important lesson in life: how to reveal and heal what you feel.
    Given the anxiety that most of us are feeling given the state of the world, now more than ever, we need to find ways to share and express how we feel. So, how are you, really?
    All of our films are made possible through the generous support of our patrons.
    To be part of this journey : / greenrenaissance
    If you'd prefer to make once off contribution, our PayPal details are : paypal.me/greenrenaissance
    Who is Green Renaissance? We are Michael and Justine - passionate filmmakers, living off-grid and dedicating our time to making films that we hope will inspire and share positivity out into the world.
    This film features Elrieda Pillmann.
    Filmed in Botrivier, South Africa.
    Editing - by Jackie Viviers
    Sound mix - by Tamryn Breakey
    Music sourced from ArtList - bit.ly/2KfrAt2
    100 Stars Vanished - by Beneath the Mountain
    At Peace - by Roman P
    The Woods - by Kyle Preston
    Beyond Their Words - by Doug Kaufman
    Sunfrost - by Dear Gravity
    A huge thank you to these guys, who so generously gave of their to time to help with language translations:
    Arabic - by Mohammad Alkhudhair
    Catalan - by Pau Zabaleta
    Chinese (Traditional and Simplified) - by Pān Yung Chih
    Croatian - by Davor Bobanac
    Dutch - by Patricia Rossel
    Filipino - by Genesis dela Cruz
    French - by Natalia Hoffsteter
    German - by Tanja Pütz
    Hindi - by Nadeem Shaikh
    Hungarian - by Anita Máté
    Indonesian - by Ary Nuansa
    Italian - by Vincenzo Mocerino
    Korean - by Chloe Park
    Malayalam - by Vishnu Reji Haritham
    Polish - by Anna Konieczna
    Portuguese - by Jonatha Koeller
    Romanian - by Iulia Nastase
    Russian - by Assiya Marzhanova
    Spanish - by Marianne Carrere
    Turkish - by Ahsen Aygören
    Vietnamese - by Tam Do
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  • @florence1395
    @florence1395 Před 3 lety +418

    To the lady in the video cutting her flowers with her dog running around, thank you! I lost my husband in 8 weeks to the most horrendous pancreatic cancer ♋️ that spread like wild fire...........it’s just been 1 year without my beautiful man, a true gentleman. Been together forever ❤️ we adored each other. Now I’m like you, learning to live, alone. Sometimes I can’t breath & other times I feel a great achievement when my independence kicks in. Just wanted to say thank you 💜

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +34

      @Cece - We are very sorry to hear of the passing of your husband. And like Elrieda says, not every day is easy, for her there are still difficult days. But step forward, one day at a time, and allow the heart to heal. Hold the memories close to your heart. With much love to you xxx 💚

    • @florence1395
      @florence1395 Před 3 lety +17

      @@ReflectionsofLife Thank you so much, I subscribed because the video’s & true stories are liberating, thanks again 🤍

    • @cmoberg2036
      @cmoberg2036 Před 2 lety +12

      My heart goes out to you for this loss. We also have gone through horrible losses and the loneliness is real it's hard to go forward so I keep you in thoughts and prayers

    • @bridgetedwardsmentalhealth409
      @bridgetedwardsmentalhealth409 Před 2 lety +16

      So sorry for your heartbreaking loss Ma'm - my heart goes out to you. From personal experience, grieving is a unique journey that takes its own shape and form for each one of us. I've slowly come to the realization of accepting all that goes with grief and loss - the ups and downs, and instead of resisting, judging or critising how I feel, the acceptance of what I feel has been very helpful. May you find inner peace Ma'm 🌺💞🌺

    • @fortbumper
      @fortbumper Před 2 lety +10

      yes it take much courage but you are not alone ! ....

  • @tea98988
    @tea98988 Před rokem +62

    When I was just learning English, I remember my teacher taught us this; when people ask you “How are you? “ you just answer “I’m fine.” and don’t tell them how you really feel, nobody wants to know how you really are. This is largely true but over the decades, I learned those of whom that really care about you, will take the time to observe your face and emotion, and take the time to listen. I think it’s all about kindness to one another; even with a total stranger.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před rokem +1

      Thank you for sharing these thoughts and experiences. Yes, very often it is just a greeting, a custom. But some people really want to know, absolutely true. And it's good if we can share.
      Have you watched the first video with Elrieda, it's called ‘All In The Mind’. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @Msgordana
    @Msgordana Před 3 lety +267

    "You must cry because that´s good for the eyes and the soul."

    • @maryr6300
      @maryr6300 Před 3 lety +3

      Yes....love that.❤️

    • @CapriccioCello
      @CapriccioCello Před 3 lety +4

      True❤

    • @wilburshuman
      @wilburshuman Před 3 lety +3

      especially........................
      The soul.
      The eyes, are just the gateway there.

    • @shivanichoudhary9129
      @shivanichoudhary9129 Před 3 lety +1

      My mom always says that you should cry when u feel like it its good for your stomach 😄😂 ,all this after scolding me in my childhood.I feel lite after crying sometimes.

    • @ivywang416
      @ivywang416 Před 2 lety

      I'm crying right now.

  • @elephantshoes
    @elephantshoes Před 3 lety +444

    There is absolutely not one upload from this channel that I do not learn something from ❤ just phenomenal work.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +19

      Wow, thank you! Such a beautiful message. Hope to bring you many more.
      Thanks for inspiring us to keep going.
      Have a wonderful 2021.
      Best wishes from ,
      Michael and Justine

    • @sammuis01
      @sammuis01 Před 3 lety +10

      I'd wish I could go and visit this lady and that beautiful part of the world she lives in. It would be good for my soul. I have cried my eyes out. Thank you for this wonderful interview. 🙏

    • @donnaryan6711
      @donnaryan6711 Před 3 lety +2

      Said so well..this channel has stolen my heart and soul.

    • @adskifreeradicalvantonder5441
      @adskifreeradicalvantonder5441 Před 3 lety +1

      So true. Thank you

    • @mercedessamkhya3542
      @mercedessamkhya3542 Před 3 lety +4

      I love this Channel. I always learn something. Thanks

  • @deborahjohnson3876
    @deborahjohnson3876 Před 3 lety +545

    Watching her, I feel great respect and love for a person I have never met. Just knowing there are such people in the world makes it a better place.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +7

      Thank you.

    • @mirianansotegi649
      @mirianansotegi649 Před 3 lety +6

      Well said.

    • @nerildalima7008
      @nerildalima7008 Před 3 lety +3

      @@ReflectionsofLife your videos are inspiration for me. Thanks!

    • @wilburshuman
      @wilburshuman Před 3 lety +4

      She has to be, one of the Most Beautiful people (Inside and out).........
      That walk this earth today !!!
      What a Special person she is !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      It must be something in the water there, where you find all these
      Unique and wonderful people.........
      In this country, we seem to have lost this a good, 50 yrs ago..........
      As a young man, I knew many of them, most born before the turn of the last century, or just after.
      Thanks again, for all you do !!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @mariamijal6825
      @mariamijal6825 Před 2 lety +1

      Totally agree!!! Greetings from Argentina

  • @enaasica9109
    @enaasica9109 Před 3 lety +260

    I am so glad to see you visted this wise lady again! First time she talked about losing her baby girl, this time about losing her husband. How much pain and yet, how soft her eyes, how warm her heart, how loving her attitude toward everybody and everything! She is living example how one can live after properly done the inner work required. 🌸

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +23

      Well said! Despite all her loss, she is still such a beautiful soul. Such an inspiration to us all.
      We hope you have a beautiful 2021.
      Best wishes,
      Michael and Justine

    • @MadhanKumark86
      @MadhanKumark86 Před 3 lety +16

      So much wisdom in her words and compassion in her eyes., I like how this channel focuses on the lives of people with depth of perception and they have a way to present it poetically on the screen.., kudos to the team !

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +5

      @Madhan Kuppaswamy - Thanks for your very kind words x

    • @guilherminacarvalho5598
      @guilherminacarvalho5598 Před 3 lety +6

      I make your words mine, the first video of the channel I saw, was with this lady and immediately captivated me. What a beautiful soul

    • @enaasica9109
      @enaasica9109 Před 3 lety +5

      @@ReflectionsofLife Thank you Michael and Justine for all your great and inspiring work! Best wishes for the new year and love from Slovenia, Europe. Vesna

  • @stephanieagacita5288
    @stephanieagacita5288 Před 3 lety +15

    Promise me one thing, no matter what will happen guys, you will never remove this channel. Pls make more videos for us viewers. It make me relax and away from my anxiety. It's very calming & help me realize things more. I really love your channel. God bless you all who make these kind of videos possible.😢🙏❤️

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +7

      Thank you so much Stephanie, you have made our day.
      We promise never to remove this channel, we also really hope this is just the very beginning of a beautiful journey.
      Making these films bring so much joy into our lives.
      Have a beautiful day.
      Michael and Justine

    • @stephanieagacita5288
      @stephanieagacita5288 Před 3 lety +1

      @@ReflectionsofLife thank you so much. God bless u all. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @louieperryanderson5751
      @louieperryanderson5751 Před 3 lety

      that was a very good and excellent one and it's expiring I love this. Channel. It adds a lot to me even though I'm a show presenter!

  • @spmoran4703
    @spmoran4703 Před rokem +11

    She is a true philosopher . Life does go on no matter what . A person , has to live until they die. Love the fullest life possible , and that means having sad days too. People put on smiles and express that they are having a ball. But, actually they are crying and screaming inside . As a empath . I can feel the truth.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před rokem

      Thank you for sharing these thoughts Sue. We have a second video with Elrieda on our channel, in case you haven't seen it yet - ‘All In The Mind’. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @kimberlysunshine001
    @kimberlysunshine001 Před rokem +20

    I love this.
    "Give people time to just be with you, give them time to be."
    She's a beautiful soul.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před rokem +1

      So glad you enjoyed the message Elrieda shared, Kimberly. We released another video with her, it's called 'All in the Mind', maybe you haven't watched it yet. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @kimberlysunshine001
      @kimberlysunshine001 Před rokem

      @@ReflectionsofLife thank you so much ❤️ I will check it out!!

  • @ReflectionsofLife
    @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +241

    Thanks to Elrieda Pillmann for sharing her story with us x

    • @parry3231
      @parry3231 Před 3 lety +16

      Thanks! Elrieda Pillmann, you are a great blessing in your own unique life and the grace of being a guide for anyone who is seeking a life of love, appreciation, beauty, gentleness and wisdom. You display your love and your happiness in your honesty and it is a delightful experience for us to meet you .Thank you again for taking the time to speak and to share your thoughts and your life with us.

  • @yasminrahman5898
    @yasminrahman5898 Před 3 lety +170

    Nowadays when someone asks me "How are you" I always say "Fine". The sad truth is they really don't want to know. Wonderful video it made me 😢

    • @patjos7719
      @patjos7719 Před 3 lety +18

      I guess what matters is that YOU are one of the listeners, the ones who ask "How are you really?" Peace to you.

    • @alexandercove1194
      @alexandercove1194 Před 3 lety +9

      How do you know that that person isn't truly wanting to know how you feel? Do not assume that people are unfeeling...the fact that they ask you how you are is a gesture of kindness
      and maybe they might know just how it feels to be down....give our world a chance...reach out. You may get many a brush off but maybe you may be the saving grace of a person in great need...love you...keep your faith...relax and enjoy what life you have

    • @Noone-rt6pw
      @Noone-rt6pw Před 3 lety

      When I ask someone how they are, I really mean what I ask. Up until a bunch of low life maggots will script a scenario and act out drama bs, where a person naturally feels repugnance towards such animals that only think of tests and trials.

    • @lindawilson8434
      @lindawilson8434 Před 3 lety +5

      I guess the next question should be"no how are you really ?"

    • @beatereich5466
      @beatereich5466 Před 3 lety +9

      Dear Yasmin, ask yoursel " how are you" and then be honest. Tell YOUR SELF how are you realy doing. I talk to my soul.....she listens ALWAYS and she helpfull always. The First thing my soul gives me back is Comfort. I learned to to rely on others. And not to blaue them anymore because they realy often don't want to listen when you are not fine.
      It is not their job. My job is to listen to ME to my SOUL. THAT set me free more and more. I wish you all the best! Trust YOURSELF......trust your soul. She is always loving....giving.....in compassion and so much more🥰she is already with you...just look in her direction.....she is your LIGHTHOUSE. You can't get lost....you can FEEL lost and alone but you are NOT!! Never ever forgot this TRUTH.....your soul loves to help you🥰

  • @cozzy8910
    @cozzy8910 Před 3 lety +60

    When the elders talk, it hits everything. 💚💚💚

  • @tirzahlibert6379
    @tirzahlibert6379 Před 3 lety +18

    "People say more without saying something." 🙏💗

  • @thanhson1401
    @thanhson1401 Před 3 lety +117

    This is truly what I need at the moment, these days I often find myself come to your channel to find peace whenever I feel emotionally discomfort, and today is a day like that, so thank you so much for this beautiful film, thank you.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +7

      You are so very welcome, we hope your day and year is filled with brightness and love.Thanks for your kind words.
      Best wishes,
      Justine and Michael

    • @ranimvegas9085
      @ranimvegas9085 Před 3 lety +3

      There are also many uplifting channels that do have the same contents:
      Simple joys
      Happy zen life
      Lavendair ( with the chainese / American amazing girl)
      Aida

  • @claudiadeangelis8698
    @claudiadeangelis8698 Před 3 lety +7

    Seven months ago I lost my husband after a year with cancer. I felt and feel the same thing that this lady said, I got emotional and cried listening to her, because every day I laugh, and I seem to be fine, but I'm still grieving and honestly I don't feel well, but almost all the people who ask me how I'm doing , I say, I'm fine. But the reality is that I need understanding, words, or silences, but not live as if everything continues the same as before, because it is not like that, since it is very recent. Thank you for publishing these experiences of real people, in which we feel reflected, that make us think and feel, and embrace us from a distance. Huge hug for you.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you for sharing.
      We sending our thoughts and love back at you as we know that grieving does not just go away..
      Huge hug .
      From
      Michael and Justine

    • @patjos7719
      @patjos7719 Před 3 lety +1

      Sorry for your loss. May you find peace and may Love heal your broken bits and your heart. If I were there I would ask of you, 'How are you really?' and f you wanted to speak I would listen and if you wanted to be silent I would listen too. Thank you fro sharing, for reaching out. Peace,Love and Light to you always.

    • @claudiadeangelis8698
      @claudiadeangelis8698 Před 3 lety +1

      @@patjos7719
      Thank you very much for your words, they have touched my heart. Thanks for your wishes, too
      I wish you have a good year, especially healthy.
      huge hug ♥♥♥

  • @elodieleaf
    @elodieleaf Před 4 měsíci +28

    Dearest Elrieda❤Thankyou so much for your beautiful self🙏🏼Your beautiful words❤Your beautiful way of coping🌿🌷🌼🌻🌺🌹💐🌸

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Such lovely words, thank you. Glad you enjoyed the message she shared with us. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @elodieleaf
      @elodieleaf Před 3 měsíci

      @@ReflectionsofLife 🙏🏼💗🥰

  • @elijahgarcia5504
    @elijahgarcia5504 Před 3 lety +42

    Some old people have the most beautiful minds and hearts, they learn to grow through their painful experiences and make a good thing out of them and themselves. My deepest respect for them. Beautiful snapshots great job !

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you so much - we hope to bring you many more films in future. Have a beautiful 2021.

  • @tamiclose
    @tamiclose Před 3 lety +19

    Oh, to be intimate with, "How are you, really?" To hold time and space for this intimate dialogue. I've been challenged by this because I would have to be intimate with my own pain, but I truly believe what we're all seeking is intimacy under the disguise of accumulating things.

  • @jimmybiemans8264
    @jimmybiemans8264 Před 3 lety +56

    It is fine not to be fine. Experience it, embrace it, breathe, and whatever is going on inside of you will go when it has received the love and attention it needed from you. 😊💝

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +4

      So true.

    • @jimmybiemans8264
      @jimmybiemans8264 Před 3 lety +5

      I was so optimistic two months ago, I don't even recognise myself in this comment anymore. I wish I would still embody the wisdom I shared here that time. And it has just been two months since then...
      After 27 long years, I finally stood up to psychological abuse since it happened during the funeral of my grandfather last week. The reward for doing so, was more psychological abuse. I had to go to the police for protection, and they rejected my desperate cry for help beforehand without listening first. I feel numb, I can't even cry anymore...
      All I want is to be helped, even saved, but I have a hard time accepting a helping hand, because of the fear there will be a catch...

    • @thatswhatisaid8908
      @thatswhatisaid8908 Před 3 lety +4

      @@jimmybiemans8264 my dear boy, i wish i could help in some way. I know what it is like to be sent packing by policemen who don't believe your story. I hope you are safe now. Can you talk to a therapist? I hear that there are some now online if you can't see one in person. There would be no catch there. I am going to try your first wisdom, and i thank you for sharing. Love and hugs from Australia. 🇦🇺

    • @Chahlie
      @Chahlie Před 2 lety +4

      Jimmy, I understand you absolutely. I finally cut off my family, but that was just the beginning. The first time I went shopping and bought something for myself I felt guilty, looking around to see who was watching.
      Do not wish to be helped or saved. I was like that all my life, and now that I am gaining a sense of self I am not looking for a magic rescuer, and that's when you know you are on the right track. Evil people are always on the lookout for people looking for help.
      That being said, I found one of the hardest things to do is to accept and embrace and DEAL WITH fears. I used to repress them, almost physically, so as not to dwell and that didn't help in the long run.
      Best wishes to you :)

    • @jimmy-stevenbiemans1486
      @jimmy-stevenbiemans1486 Před rokem

      This is a different account, but the same person as the original comment. I am well again. I saved myself and I am currently living an autonomous life, free from abuse. I have a social foundation and hopes and dreams for the future. Thank you for the kind replies you sent me. I really appreciate your sympathetic empathy towards me 🙏🏻❤️‍🩹

  • @ingejustavanderhelm5208
    @ingejustavanderhelm5208 Před 3 lety +35

    "You won't see it grow" ... what an awful thing to say to Mrs. Pillmann. It made me cry for her.

    • @alexandercove1194
      @alexandercove1194 Před 3 lety +15

      If a person says "you won't see it grow". It is an example of someone who cannot see beyond their own horizon... it's not whether or not you'll see anything come to fruition...it's the knowledge that someone else will enjoy your efforts, your love and the caring you feel for the next generation....we have enjoyed all the efforts of others before ourselves.,..those people knew they were only here as a temporary home and yet they gave back just as we must joyfully do...here's to a great year of doing what we can and working within our own realm and making sure our children feel this is a good and loving world that belongs to us all....love to you and your family...keep the faith

    • @susantomkins8798
      @susantomkins8798 Před 3 lety +4

      It speaks of that person's lack of vision more than anything.

    • @ingejustavanderhelm5208
      @ingejustavanderhelm5208 Před 2 lety +6

      @@alexandercove1194 "A society grows great when old men plant trees whose shade they know they shall never sit in."
      - Greek Proverb

  • @amarynth100
    @amarynth100 Před 3 lety +165

    the sparkle in that lady's eyes is priceless .the realization has taken place within.... very beautiful video. deserves to be shared .thank you for the glipmses of wisdom on this chanel

  • @minser7516
    @minser7516 Před 3 lety +39

    "Fine is a cover." A common reply when deep inside is a struggling heart.

    • @tamiclose
      @tamiclose Před 3 lety +3

      It is indeed a cover. It always takes further inquiry into intimacy and this requires presence and time.

    • @thatswhatisaid8908
      @thatswhatisaid8908 Před 3 lety +4

      It is easier to pretend. I always imagine people freaking out and backing away if i said anything else.

  • @marieboutin9054
    @marieboutin9054 Před 3 lety +8

    I understand how you feel . You are sad, but keep doing small things like gathering flowers, taking care of your animals, taking a cup of coffee. Do the things that make you feel better. You know, you are not alone. Take care of yourself. Love from France

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety

      Thanks for these beautifully kind words of support for Elrieda's journey x

  • @annalocke7983
    @annalocke7983 Před 3 lety +86

    I am so glad I made the decision to support your beautiful films a few months ago! My heart and my spirit is always lifted with your uplifting messages. We need more 'good news' in this world.....especially now.....blessings

    • @Rojermans
      @Rojermans Před 3 lety +3

      try craing :)

    • @patjos7719
      @patjos7719 Před 3 lety +4

      Thank you, it is because of kind-hearted people like you that I can watch these beautful videos :)))

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +5

      Thanks Anne, we really appreciate everyone one who is on this journey with us. We are so humbled by the support and Justine and I will continue to bring you more films.
      Have a beautiful 2021.
      Best wishes,
      Michael

    • @bewusstsein3527
      @bewusstsein3527 Před 3 lety +5

      @@ReflectionsofLife thank you.. i cant support you guys financially but i can share this video just to spread awareness ..

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +6

      @music Of nature - Sharing with those who you feel need to hear our stories, that means the world to us. THANK YOU for all the support and encouragement for what we do. x

  • @sandothemando8924
    @sandothemando8924 Před 2 lety +13

    Green Renaissance is fast becoming my favourite CZcams channel. Every film fills me with so much love, hope, and faith in humanity. Thank you so much for every single video. They truly are all beautiful, glowing, radiant gems of life and wisdom...

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you for your kind words and encouragement, we appreciate it Sando. So glad the videos give you so much. Regarding this video, we had released an earlier film with Elrieda, it's called 'All in the Mind'. Have a look. 💚

  • @mosthighlyintrovertedlady3319

    I think that knowing that you can't control everything gives one a sense of relief that the world will do what it must and we only have to control ourselves.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +2

      So true.

    • @Carolmaizy
      @Carolmaizy Před 3 lety +7

      I learned that when I was told I had breast cancer. It was totally out of my control. But I could control my attitude and my response to the situation. I decided to learn what lessons I could from the experience, to be strong for my family's sake, to let myself shed tears when I felt overwhelmed, and to summon up courage when I felt nervous or afraid. I am cancer free for 9 months now, and am grateful for every day and for the family and friends who I share my days with.

  • @user-qp6vg9ho8u
    @user-qp6vg9ho8u Před 3 lety +18

    If there is one thing that isn’t a waste of time in this life, it’s planting a tree

  • @Denise-wj4yy
    @Denise-wj4yy Před 3 lety +22

    I cried my eyes out..I lost my love last year and I am always saying I'm alright..when deep down I am not..thank you for this I needed it .a good cry not even realizing I needed it..thank you 💜

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +2

      Thank you Denise for sharing.
      Sending you strength and love, grief is such a personal thing.
      Glad this little film was able to help in a tiny way.
      Thank you for sharing with us how you felt.

    • @patjos7719
      @patjos7719 Před 3 lety +4

      Denise, I hope that you can close your eyes and see us all right there with you, all of the Lovers, all of us together, holding one another in Peace, in Love, where we've always been. :)

    • @Denise-wj4yy
      @Denise-wj4yy Před 2 lety

      @@ReflectionsofLife ❤

    • @MESENJAH
      @MESENJAH Před rokem

      my blessings to you Denise 🙏 ❤️

  • @elgiealcordo7190
    @elgiealcordo7190 Před 3 lety +20

    "you must cry because thats good for the eyes and the soul"💔😪💗💗💗

    • @tamiclose
      @tamiclose Před 3 lety

      Tears are our natural water.

  • @akritichamola30
    @akritichamola30 Před 3 lety +63

    It's really good to see people heading values on CZcams rather than artificial, hollow 🤳 Instagram📷 society. I would like to stress on what her mother said to the other one that they are expressing their personality and will also accept other.

  • @peggysmith8346
    @peggysmith8346 Před 3 lety +31

    This has got to be one of the most beautiful videos I've ever seen. What a treasure this beautiful woman is for all of us.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +3

      We agree - she is such a beautiful soul.
      Hope to bring you many films like this one.
      best wishes,
      Michael and Justine

  • @forestgreen916
    @forestgreen916 Před měsícem

    "don't touch me, handle with care, this side up" powerful stuff...

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před měsícem

      Glad her message meant much to you.
      Not sure if you have watched the first video with her already but here is the link: ‘All In The Mind’ (czcams.com/video/9M74RcOW7Fo/video.html). Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @anuraglal1588
    @anuraglal1588 Před 2 lety +4

    Seeing these videos is a constant reminder to me on what is important in life. When we priotise things against their natural order of importance, our life becomes 'out of order'.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 2 lety

      Thanks Anurag, for seeing such value in these stories.
      Have a happy weekend. Justine and Michael 💚

  • @ReflectionsofLife
    @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +101

    And also a HUGE thank you to this team of incredible volunteers who assist with language translations on our films, helping to share these messages with a wider audience...
    Catalan - by Pau Zabaleta
    Chinese (Traditional and Simplified) - by Pān Yung Chih
    Croatian - by Davor Bobanac
    French - by Natalia Hoffsteter
    German - by Tanja Pütz
    Hindi - by Nadeem Shaikh
    Indonesian - by Ary Nuansa
    Italian - by Vincenzo Mocerino
    Korean - by Chloe Park
    Malayalam - by Vishnu Reji
    Polish - by Anna Konieczna
    Portuguese - by Jonatha Koeller
    Romanian - by Iulia Nastase
    Russian - by Assiya Marzhanova
    Spanish - by Marianne Carrere
    Turkish - by Ahsen Aygören

    • @genesisdelacruz9187
      @genesisdelacruz9187 Před 3 lety +5

      How may I assist in Filipino translations? 😁

    • @bewusstsein3527
      @bewusstsein3527 Před 3 lety +2

      @@genesisdelacruz9187 tagalog .. kaya mo yan

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +2

      @Genesis dela Cruz - YES, we would love your help. If you drop me an email (hello@greenrenaissance.co.za) then we can chat further about this. Thanks so much. Justine x

    • @genesisdelacruz9187
      @genesisdelacruz9187 Před 3 lety +1

      @@ReflectionsofLife Appreciate it!

    • @kingalakatos5742
      @kingalakatos5742 Před 3 lety +2

      I discovered recently that many films have subtitles! What a great news, so I can share these films with not English speakers too! (Hungarian and French especially) huge thanks for the volunteers!

  • @guyhamilton4496
    @guyhamilton4496 Před 3 lety +17

    Your films are a beacon of beauty and solace in an accelerated time of uncertainty. Thank you deeply.

  • @peacelove7872
    @peacelove7872 Před 3 lety +17

    Unfortunately some don’t care to hear more than “I’m fine” I’ve had to accept that and find those who do care to know more. ☮️💕

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +5

      We agree - surround yourself with people who really love and and care about you, no matter how you feel.
      Have a beautiful 2021.

    • @carolbrannigan-pavitt9564
      @carolbrannigan-pavitt9564 Před 3 lety +3

      Some don't care. However, sometimes people do care to know but they don't know how to ask that next deeper question or what to do or say with the answer. They haven't yet been taught or know that listening is all that is needed.....

  • @0JReynolds
    @0JReynolds Před 3 lety +17

    Watching these videos makes me think of a time when we appreciated our elders and learned from them. They have lived so much life and can impart knowledge and wisdom to us. Even from one elder to another 😘

  • @denisesousa5153
    @denisesousa5153 Před 3 lety +59

    Words of wisdom and guidance....

  • @lemer4778
    @lemer4778 Před 3 lety +1

    Danke schön, an alle Mitwirkenden für diesen tollen Film. Es tut so 👍

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety

      Thank you for your very kind words Lem.
      We love making these films.
      Best wishes,
      Justine and Michael

  • @katjawoell
    @katjawoell Před 3 lety +14

    She is so beautiful, I love her warm voice, she is gorgeous 😍 If I could visit her I would only sit there and watch the landscape and listen to her, she has so much to tell us🙏🙏 Thank you for this Video 🤗

  • @suzstancova4220
    @suzstancova4220 Před 3 lety +31

    This woman is an angel ! Loving your new film!

  • @mariamadsen7071
    @mariamadsen7071 Před 3 lety +10

    The most beautiful message from a very wise and profound lady. She warmed my heart!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you Maria, she is such a wise beautiful lady.
      Thank you for watching and being on this journey with us.
      Best wishes,
      Michael and Justine

  • @claritadeluna6609
    @claritadeluna6609 Před měsícem +1

    "You new leaves when the spring comes" ... ahhhh, how beautiful. That is life!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před měsícem

      Nice that these words meant much to you.
      We have another video with Elrieda, it's called ‘All In The Mind’ (czcams.com/video/9M74RcOW7Fo/video.html). Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @vIBEDoUT-Channel
    @vIBEDoUT-Channel Před 3 lety +36

    Ask your friends how are they really?
    Make sure ✌🏼

  • @gugumohed
    @gugumohed Před 2 lety +3

    When you lost someone you loved, God at the same time would give you another valuable things to make you happy! May the Lord bless you! Add oil🙏🙏👍

  • @rathore3371
    @rathore3371 Před 3 lety +22

    ✨🌼Beautiful & Soul touching Words 🌼✨

  • @11UncleBooker22
    @11UncleBooker22 Před 3 lety +11

    To those with ears, listen and repeat.

  • @fabioberte
    @fabioberte Před 3 lety +14

    Love your filmmaking!

  • @JGalegria
    @JGalegria Před 2 měsíci

    It's a great privilege to be able to plant trees on your own piece of earth and go on to spend your lifetime there watching them grow. Not many people are in that situation these days. Depending on what country you live in, where you grew up, what kind of occupation you have or had and your parents'occupations, partners etc. cost of living in your area, rates, land taxes, environmental conditions like fires and droughts. I live in Australia, in case you hadn't guessed. 🙏🧡

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 2 měsíci

      Thanks for sharing your views and experiences here with us. And so true, that in todays modern world, having access to land and a garden is a rare privilege. Elrieda runs a small farm, hence her ability to access land. And she takes the most beautiful care of what she has access to, tending to the land and allowing nature to flourish. She is a precious soul, caring deeply for all of life around her. Big love to you, across the seas from South Africa. Justine and Michael x

  • @zebu7493
    @zebu7493 Před rokem

    Oh,how I adore all those wise, elderly,soft spoken people. I wish I could sit with them for hours

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před rokem +1

      So kind, we are so pleased you enjoyed listening to her. We released a second video with Elrieda on our channel, ‘All In The Mind’. Enjoy. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @theartofnaturegermany
    @theartofnaturegermany Před 3 lety +72

    *It's amazing to hear about your wisdoms* 💚 *For me as a 22 years old your words are pure gold, thank you so much* 🙏🏼 *Also the film is very beautifuly crafted!!*

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +4

      You are so welcome. Hope to bring you many more films like this one in 2021.

  • @00pisani49
    @00pisani49 Před 3 lety +8

    Societies evolved and remained civilized thru listening to the wisdom of their elders. What we did for thousands of years. These videos are so important in giving a voice to the now voiceless elders, devoid of elders roundhouses,. . A world where people just entering into their adult life can spew out whatever dribble pops in their experience-less heads and they actually manage to "influence" people with this... It really is concerning. (I am a young person who knows she knows nothing...so maybe this is dribble too)

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +1

      @00 Pisani - Ah my friend, you know much more than you give yourself credit for 💚

  • @godofredo0409
    @godofredo0409 Před 3 lety +2

    I usually say "fine" because I can sense that people who ask me are not genuinely concern of how I am doing. In this world we are living in, few are those who are genuine.

    • @patjos7719
      @patjos7719 Před 3 lety +2

      So long as YOU are one of the genuine ones, that's all that matters :) Peace to you.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety

      We wish that 2021 is full of love and that you are surrounded my people who bring you joy.
      Best wishes,
      Michael and Justine

  • @patriciapankow1774
    @patriciapankow1774 Před 24 dny

    I listen to these vids when I need a lift. Especially, before I go to sleep. What a way to dream.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 23 dny

      That is so touching. We are so glad you find them uplifting.
      You might have watched the other video with Elrieda already but here is the link again: ‘All In The Mind’ (czcams.com/video/9M74RcOW7Fo/video.html). Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @gavincook4684
    @gavincook4684 Před 3 lety +5

    We are all tiny parts in the universe. Every good dead we can do is a little piece of magic.

  • @yvonnemiller7204
    @yvonnemiller7204 Před 3 lety +15

    I truly needed to see this...while I thoroughly enjoy all of your videos, and they mean so much to me, this is one that I really needed to hear. My dear husband is 11 years older than me, and we've been together for 37 years. We are so close, and are not only in love, but best friends. In the back of my mind, as we have grown older, I have worried about what I'm going to do if he passes on, which one day he will. I truly cannot imagine my life without him...but Elrieda has given me a bit of hope that I may be able to go on....the cycle of life...thank you for doing this video...

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +1

      You are so welcome. We agree Elrieda has given so many of us so much hope. We hope you have a beautiful 2021.
      Thanks for watching these films.
      Best wishes,
      Michael and Justine

    • @patjos7719
      @patjos7719 Před 3 lety +3

      His Love for you will make you strong. Peace to you and may your years together be filled with the Joy of Now. :)

    • @yvonnemiller7204
      @yvonnemiller7204 Před 3 lety +2

      @@patjos7719 Thank you so much...XOXO

  • @baansongjumhomestay6708
    @baansongjumhomestay6708 Před 2 lety +2

    This lady is so strong and accept her life and live her I’ve the fullest. I lost my only son last year. Only four months I broke in pieces and I don’t want to move on. I know my son would not agree and he will not let me live like this. She inspire me and I think I am not a Superman and I will not use the Fine to cover my feeling anymore. I am not fine and it is my answer to question how are you. I will move on and do my gardening and see the world.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 2 lety +1

      We are truly sorry to hear about your loss Baan Song Jum, thank you for sharing this with us. May you be able to heal, take courage and strength from e.g. videos like this one, by doing gardening, maybe meeting friends, etc. It takes time to heal and there is no time frame for as to how long it takes. We certainly wish you all the best for the road ahead. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 2 lety

      Another video which might help you is 'Through The Storm' (czcams.com/video/tB98ldnUcTE/video.html). 💚

  • @dudafolklore
    @dudafolklore Před 17 dny +1

    Elrieda, your soul is beautiful like a tree. 💚

  • @debra4313
    @debra4313 Před rokem +7

    I am grateful for your efforts to bring this valuable, heart touching, always timely and inspirational content. Many thanks for spreading the light.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před rokem +1

      Our pleasure Debra! Thank you so much for your kind words and your very generous contribution towards our project. We appreciate so much.
      And do you know about the first video with Elrieda? It's called ‘All In The Mind’. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
      Warm hugs, Justine and Michael 💚

  • @priyanjitabhowmick7733
    @priyanjitabhowmick7733 Před 3 lety +11

    Every single video touches my heart! This one has a specific tone of itself...the soft and experienced voice of the lady gave it that beautiful tone. I loved it! Please never stop making such amazing, inspiring, soul touching videos. We need these badly.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +2

      Wow, thank you!
      Justine and I really love making these films for you and and this beautiful community. We keep inspired by receiving messages like yours.
      We hope despite the challenges we all face in these times to keep filming.
      Have a beautiful 2021.
      Thank you,
      Michael

    • @louieperryanderson5751
      @louieperryanderson5751 Před 3 lety +2

      Yeah she's a genius and lovely touching stories

  • @angelinjohn5710
    @angelinjohn5710 Před 16 dny

    She is as beautiful as her flowers..
    Justine and Michael, you never fail to impress.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 15 dny +1

      Touching message in all aspects. Thank you.
      There is a second video with Elrieda on our channel, it's called ‘All In The Mind’ (czcams.com/video/9M74RcOW7Fo/video.html). Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @guineverebachelor6089
    @guineverebachelor6089 Před 2 lety

    “What does that person need today? … give them your full attention. Move the dirty dishes to one side. Give them a nice cup of tea. To give them time to just sit with you. To just be. Give them time to be.” The art of giving oneself. ❤️

  • @davechavezjr5399
    @davechavezjr5399 Před 3 lety +6

    The words of wisdom from this lady is awesome...simply awesome! “Crying is good for eyes and good for the soul” is grand advice! My wife shared this channel with me and I will in turn share it with my siblings, most particularly my brother who is a troubled soul.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety

      @Dave Chavez Jr - Thanks for sharing with those who you think could benefit from finding some connection to these stories. Hugs to you friend x

  • @sukhsingh664
    @sukhsingh664 Před rokem +2

    💚“Wear your heart on your skin in this life.”💚 It's beautiful as always 🙏💐

  • @neerajjoshi7639
    @neerajjoshi7639 Před 2 lety +1

    This channel always gives me a hope in depressed world of mine

  • @menwa296
    @menwa296 Před 2 lety +2

    Your channel calms my soul. I come to watch your videos whenever I feel lost. Thank you. Thank you so much.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 2 lety

      Your words humble us Menwa - thank you for seeing such value in these films.
      Hugs! Justine and Michael 💚

  • @lindaparisi74
    @lindaparisi74 Před 3 lety +6

    Oh, I LOVE her! This speaks volumes to how being familiar with one's own pain is a necessary qualification to know the value of being a present and intentional listener over a cup of tea. Lot of healing happening at that table of hers. Beautiful. Thank you.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you - we feel so blessed to have visited this wonderful lady again. She is a beautiful soul.
      Thanks for your kind words.

  • @mohmmedabdulrasoul3664
    @mohmmedabdulrasoul3664 Před 3 lety +9

    Thank you Green Renaissance for doing these films 💖

  • @Bearcub599
    @Bearcub599 Před dnem

    Wow what a gorgeous red car! Fantastic 👍👍👍😊

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před dnem +1

      So happy you enjoyed that.
      We have another video with Elrieda on our channel, it's called ‘All In The Mind’ (czcams.com/video/9M74RcOW7Fo/video.html). Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @Raven24444
    @Raven24444 Před rokem

    Beautiful People
    Beautiful Stories
    Beautiful Photography

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před rokem

      Thank you so much. We have a second video with Elrieda on our channel, ‘All In The Mind’. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @sarahbialik2580
    @sarahbialik2580 Před rokem +5

    Thank you to all the beautiful people in all of your heart and thought provoking films ! Your channel is a huge gift in this life .❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před rokem +1

      Our pleasure! We are glad that we can share these stories. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @martatorrente6940
    @martatorrente6940 Před 3 lety +5

    We are all vulnerable, that's a strength.
    Love the way she's done her hair up. Her eyes speak too.

  • @joseyndaba5076
    @joseyndaba5076 Před měsícem

    PROFOUNDLY TRUE and so comforting!🙏🏾❤️

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před měsícem

      That makes us so happy.
      We have a second video with Elrieda on our channel, it's called ‘All In The Mind’ (czcams.com/video/9M74RcOW7Fo/video.html). Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @annedunbar4598
    @annedunbar4598 Před 2 lety

    If someone would have told me moving & letting go would bring my joy back I’d have laughed. But that exactly what happened! recently we moved to a tiny A frame house on a lake Minnesota. We left the city and sold our family home. I had to let go of 70% of what I owned to fit into my new house. Wow was that hard yet freeing!! Letting go freed up my time & space to enjoy life. Clutter was gone. Which helped my mood & mindset. It was in the quiet of the trees in the forest I could finally hear myself think. It was there I felt protected and safe to dream. Dream for myself. I spent endless hours walk & hiking and I stopped counting my damn steps! 😆 I saw such beauty in the differently types of moss, ferns and birds. Happy to say that I am a recovering couch potato! So, I needed to get my balance back. I got out my old kayaking & bought a stand up paddle board. I fell more than I stood at first. Now I’m not bad. I found Just being near the water brought me such peace. Then the strangest thing happened. I began to WANT to wake up in the morning! This was huge! Because I dreaded mornings & was depressed a lot of my life. It was Under the stars and northern lights I realized how beautiful MY life could be. Gratitude welled up. I got rid of more than just my possessions when we moved. I left depression & anxiety. It turns out a quiet life & simple life was what was what my soul needed all along. It ONLY took me 51 years to find my inner peace & happiness. 😆🤷‍♀️ but I am So glad I found my way even it it’s taken a while.
    I just love these short films and they’ve brought so much joy to me. I feel a kindred spirit in these stories and the people in them.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 2 lety

      We appreciate your kind words and that you shared your experiences and thoughts with us - how you freed up space in your surroundings and within you to arrive at a very happy and content place. So wonderful. The place you are living at now sounds great. May your happy journey continue, it is so good to be united like this. Greetings to you on Lake Minnesota, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @barbaravallejos8324
    @barbaravallejos8324 Před 3 lety +3

    I didn't know I needed this video so much. It is so hard to feel all these wonders and mysteries when you live in a city full of concrete and people running from place to place.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety

      @barbara vallejos - Even in the city, we can find ways to slow down, to connect. It is more difficult, but we can all do our little bit to show and share more care for those around us. Warm hugs to you 💚

  • @prajaktaphadke2917
    @prajaktaphadke2917 Před 2 lety +3

    Absolute bliss... This channel will live on. You know why.. there is so much good here and this world that you are tapping.. It will feed itself

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 2 lety

      Thanks Prajakta - for believing so much in these stories, and the power of learning from each other. We send you love. Justine and Michael 💚

  • @NitikaRawat
    @NitikaRawat Před 9 měsíci

    "Like the tree, you will get new leaves when the spring comes." ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 9 měsíci

      Yes, such wonderful words. We are glad you enjoyed the video Nitika.
      We have a second video with Elrieda on our channel - ‘All In The Mind’ (czcams.com/video/9M74RcOW7Fo/video.html). Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @NitikaRawat
      @NitikaRawat Před 9 měsíci

      @@ReflectionsofLife Justine and Michael I love your initiative! I am a content marketer and I would love to help you guys. So, if you guys are ever in need of someone to help you with written work, don’t hesitate to reach out. It’s the least I can do to contribute. 💕

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 8 měsíci

      Thank you for your kindness. We will be sure to reach out if we can think of a collaboration opportunity in the months ahead. Sending you warmest of wishes. Justine and Michael x

  • @martinsapsitis4292
    @martinsapsitis4292 Před měsícem

    I love your stride Sis, and yes, planting trees for the good earth is something special.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před měsícem

      Glad you enjoyed this video.
      We have a second video with Elrieda on our channel, it's called ‘All In The Mind’ (czcams.com/video/9M74RcOW7Fo/video.html). Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @gentianharrison3992
    @gentianharrison3992 Před 3 lety +13

    There is a saying if you ask a dutchman how they are/ pull up a chair- - - Im half dutch /i say that, unless you want to hear don't ask that question how are you /its insincere and rude, go green renaissance !

  • @loriguercio4374
    @loriguercio4374 Před 3 lety +5

    What a sweet, sweet Woman ❤️ Thank u for your life lessons and also the tears, lol 🥰

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +1

      @Lori Guercio - The tears mean that the story reached deep into your heart and moved you. Thanks for giving it the space to do that. x

    • @loriguercio4374
      @loriguercio4374 Před 3 lety

      @@ReflectionsofLife True ❤️ God bless u guys!!

  • @TheRockynua
    @TheRockynua Před 3 lety +1

    Covid positive,Watching this channel since last three day. My house mates are saying you don't have any Covid symptoms.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +1

      @R Kumar - Glad that you have these films to keep you smiling. Stay strong!

  • @palvisharma4907
    @palvisharma4907 Před měsícem

    I admire this page a lot, the way it brings transformation into the lives of people by recognising and looking deep into the mundane is commendable. By sharing these stories, it is instigating humans to make the best of their lives. Also, responding to each individual separately and that too with such thoughtful compassion is what makes it the best. I am so grateful to the creators. May you keep growing and inspiring. 🙏🌻

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před měsícem

      Wow, your words make us smile. Thank you so much for writing to us, we appreciate it a lot, it encourages and inspires us to go on and release many more of these stories.
      There is a second video with Elrieda on our channel which we had released first, here is the link: ‘All In The Mind’ (czcams.com/video/9M74RcOW7Fo/video.html). With much gratitude and love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @ceciliamac4283
    @ceciliamac4283 Před 3 lety +2

    Simply BEAUTIFUL.

  • @isabelbelen6835
    @isabelbelen6835 Před 3 lety +6

    Thank you. Wise and a beautiful soul. Oftentimes, when someone responds with “ I’m fine”, they are not.

  • @littleegret3916
    @littleegret3916 Před 3 lety +2

    " You must cry because that is good for your eyes and your soul." Only the one going through the deep pain can tenderly comfort us with this wisdom.

  • @dianapaloma3102
    @dianapaloma3102 Před 3 lety +2

    BEAUTIFUL🙏🙏🙏❤️

  • @dipakganguli2027
    @dipakganguli2027 Před 3 lety +7

    "I can´t control everything." Why control. Does nature control, name one aspect of nature that controls. Just be and let it be, Just give your love and be loved .

    • @thatswhatisaid8908
      @thatswhatisaid8908 Před 3 lety

      We are all control freaks. Some of us are only wanting to feel in control of our OWN lives, though.

  • @veronicalidstromjoannides5786

    This woman is such a beautiful gentle spirit🌸🍃🌸🍃🌸And I love the way you film how you capture very moment and movement you feel as though your there🍃

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety

      @Veronica Lidström Joannides - Thanks for appreciating all the tiny details, the intimate moments xx

  • @IIVVBlues
    @IIVVBlues Před 3 lety +1

    I think I am almost always fine. Having a dog makes most days fine. My last one died in my arms about five years ago. He was fifteen. It was much more difficult than I thought it would be. My recent one is a 3 year old chocolate/ sable American Cocker Spaniel and I think he shall probably outlive me. At any rate, he is probably my last dog. Dogs are wonderful companions. I always get a warm feeling when I see people with canine companions.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety

      Hi John, you sound just like us.
      We chose not to have children but have 7 rescue fur "children" - four dogs and three cats. Any they really make our world a better place. Especially in the times we living through - they teach us about unconditional love.
      You might like this film we did about dogs - czcams.com/video/DYBzNyVh698/video.html
      Best wishes,
      Michael and Justine

  • @neenaghai5599
    @neenaghai5599 Před 3 lety +2

    Prioritise mental well being. Very good advice. Thank you.

  • @Simplyluvly
    @Simplyluvly Před 3 lety +7

    It's just so incredible and amazing as always that I learn from this channel. And the lady is awesome. As a survivor of covid-19, I felt lost and struggling a lot. My mental health is breakdown. And now I learn to keep my mental health to be better and watching this makes me cry suddenly without I'm realising it. And I feel better. Thank you for amazing work you've done.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety +1

      @Simply Slowly - Take good care of yourself. Covid has knocked the world on it's side, and we'll take time to recover and adjust. Be gentle on your body and your mind, and give yourself time to heal. We send you big hugs filled with love. Justine and Michael x

  • @tanjap2002
    @tanjap2002 Před 3 lety +8

    I just love this one... What truth the lady speaks, so much food for thought, so precious.... Thank you again! Yes, we need words/movies like this more than ever. Loving the written intro.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 3 lety

      You are so welcome! Hope to bring you many more this year.
      Have a wonderful 2021.

  • @bigh7972
    @bigh7972 Před 21 dnem

    In our lifetime we take much from the earth. Planting trees is giving back for future generations. We all need to think past ourselves at some point to balance things out.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 21 dnem

      Touching message, thank you. Glad we could share this video with you.
      We have a second video with Elrieda on our channel, it's called 'All In The Mind’ (czcams.com/video/9M74RcOW7Fo/video.html). Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @thazneem97
    @thazneem97 Před 3 lety +1

    beautiful. simply beautiful. beauty of life

  • @velmawallace9814
    @velmawallace9814 Před 3 lety +11

    Such a wise woman

  • @jessicalatorraca8507
    @jessicalatorraca8507 Před 3 lety +3

    This woman’s appreciation of the beauty and healing powers of our natural world really touches me. The day after losing someone close to me in death, I, too felt as if all the beauty in nature was speaking to me! Heightened awareness, despite grief. I felt a little guilty to feel both emotions (wonder, joy & deep loss) at the same time. It’s good to know sorrow & hope can go hand in hand. 🌈🍃

  • @danclovski
    @danclovski Před rokem +1

    Back in 2014, my mother took me to the Psychiatrist to see if I had ADHD because I told her I had troubles focusing on my lectures and classes. When I got to the Psychiatrist, he did his screening and it was all good until he asked me "are you happy?" I was confused. I didn't know what he meant. Growing up in a traditional Asian family, I don't think I've ever been asked how I was feeling better yet if I was happy. I had been struggling with my own identity and my relationship with my family for years prior to this appointment. I remember thinking and saying "well, I laugh sometimes" because I couldn't recall a time when I was truly "happy". To the say the least, I walked out those double not with ADHD but with a diagnosis of depression. My younger self genuinely thought this is how life was. I knew that a dark cloud followed me wherever I went but I had never questioned it. There was always pain so I never questioned it. It was always there, therefore it must be normal right? Last year, I learned what anxiety felt like and that I suffered greatly from it thanks to a friend. Again, I thought this is how everyone was too. I am 27 years old now and a few months ago is when I finally started getting better. Over the years I kept thinking wow.. I made it to 20, 23, 25 and now 27. I look forward to life now. My heart and my mind get stronger everyday. Life is beautiful. Life is easy. I'm lucky to know this. Now, all I want is to be that person, I wished was there for me when I needed it. Love yourself. Love everyone and everything around you. Life is not guaranteed but love can be if you choose to.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před rokem

      Thank you for sharing all your thoughts and experiences Danah. So wonderful that you got through these difficult times and life is beautiful now. Stay positive and enjoy every day on your walk through life. You can be a great inspiration to others. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @kathleenmcnally9583
    @kathleenmcnally9583 Před 3 lety +1

    So lovely and calm and worthwhile to view. Thank you beautiful lady💕

  • @dudafolklore
    @dudafolklore Před 17 dny +1

    All the videos on this channel have been, in different ways, a really great help for my mind and my soul. Thank you to all the people involved, God bless you all with a lot of love and joy! 🤍

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Před 16 dny +1

      Thank you for your kind words. We are so happy that the videos we share mean so much to you.
      We have a second video with Elrieda on our channel, it's called ‘All In The Mind’ (czcams.com/video/9M74RcOW7Fo/video.html). Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @rachaelsica4113
    @rachaelsica4113 Před 3 lety +1

    FINE =
    Feeling
    In
    Need of
    Encouragement