The Hidden Spiritual Power in Clutter Clearing
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- čas přidán 26. 08. 2021
- Rick Aster describes the hidden spiritual power in clutter clearing. This comes about in the second stage of clutter clearing when the decisions you make about your material possessions start to create the expectation of living your material life on your own terms.
#ClutterClearing
I always find that when I’ve finally cleared the clutter from an area, I can’t help taking a deep breath of relief every time I look at it. It is palpable peace. Amazing feeling.
Me too! It's a good feeling.
So true!🌺
Plato said one of the most important things to remember is that it's not important to have the most but to need the least.
I like that!!
What a gentle, quiet spirit this man exhibits. Very calming. Thank you, sir. ❤️
Hafta say, he is spot on. Started 3 weeks ago. Have hauled 3 loads to the dump and 2 loads so far to goodwill. Three rooms and half the basement cleared.I started exercising last week. I now enjoy that too!
Fabulous! Bravo!
I love to read this. Just keep moving 😄
I took 5 loads to the dump. Two 10 foot Uhaul trucks and three cargo vans full. Most of what I disposed of could have been useful to someone else or valuable enough to sell it but I couldn’t take having my home full and bursting out like it was I just wanted to be done. I was not feeling altruistic in my purging method. My husband was a hoarder and a doomsday prepper (was or still is?). We had literal tons of food. It’s gone now. I couldn’t take it anymore.
It raises your energy.
Emotionally, physically, and mental
I now have a rule. If I buy something new, I donate something old.
Fabulous! I like to call this the “replacement rule.” There are other names for it too.
Amen I like this. I'm working on decluttering. God is healing me everyday. Clutter is definitely a defense mechanism caused by trauma. You really start to feel a freedom.
If you empty a room - you can rent it, and have money instead of all that junk that you never use.
Why do U say it's caused by trauma . How does that work?
@@Add_Account485 Google it on CZcams. There's many videos that explain it.
@@Add_Account485 Having lots of stuff makes people feel safe - kinda like having lots of money (my understanding of it).
@@Add_Account485 For me clutter keeps me safe. I was abused by a family friend who was living with us when I was very little, he would sneak into my room late at night, I discovered if I left my toys between my door and my bed he would have a hard time getting to me and sometimes the noise he made would wake my parents. The more toys on the floor, the safer I was. This is something I am still dealing with as an adult. Thats how trauma caused clutter in my life. I hope that makes sense.
Only keep the things you will use. If you have stuff that is good but you don't need it, give it away to someone as "free stuff" or sell it.
Exactly!
A lot of people will treat you like you're a foolish idiot for giving things you don't want, use, or need away. How do I know this? EXPERIENCE.
@@kristinmeyer489 Then again, I have seen so many items for sale on OfferUp that say (ex:) “posted six months ago.” Or I see people who have a boatload of items for sale that say(ex:) “posted five days ago.” In other words, every week they cancel the ads and start new ones for the same unsold items so that people don’t think they’re hoarding the items in their houses for months on end. It also lets potential buyers know that the sellers can’t get what they want for the items. Me, I just want to get rid of the crap before it drives me nuts. Finally, if you want to get rid of clutter, don’t take up trashpicking. How do I know this? EXPERIENCE!
What helps me let go of stuff is imagining someone might find it at the thrift shop as the perfect gift for their mom or sister etc. Love how you mention how acknowledging your stuff kind of represents who you are. Very intentional ownership. Nice video, thanks.
Intentional or conscious ownership makes a big difference.
What a nice comment!
I do the same! The comments on this video are also really lovely. Good vibrations here 😊
Love that idea.
Thankyou Guardian Brother- resonates with me. Been decuttering for months off and on. Finally paying attention to myself, health home and family.
*other peoples stuff gone to charity.
* paperwork in cycling bin, private ones burnt.
* not allowing others wasting our time either.
* not inviting people over has been a blessing.
This is perhaps THE BEST explanation on the benefits and the psycological aspects of decluttering.
Happily a lot of us have seen and experienced the life changing magic of decluttering, but to watch your explanation takes it to another level.
Thank you so much, especially for the ones you motivate to start the journey ❤
Thank you so much for your advice - I wrote a note to myself - each day throw something out or give other things away. There’s no pressure only a simple task and it gains a momentum of it’s own . The lady at our op shop said “you always bring in nice things”, it made mr feel I was on the right road.
This is more difficult than I ever imagined, and goes so deep within. I’m looking forward to clearing my clutter and being free once and for all. I wish for everyone a clear mind and clear home moving forward. ❤
When I think about the times in my life when I was accumulating a lot of junk I didn’t even really want, it is obvious in hindsight I was functioning especially poorly spiritually and emotionally. I felt out of control of what was happening in my life.
Curating your things and having only what you need and value free you from the baggage in every context.
I imagine because I am at a final stage of clutter clearing your video popped up. I have had items in storage unit for over a year. I was always "afraid" to let it go because I may be "without". I have been "without" it for over a year.😅 It is a waste of money to store stuff. And ultimately you always will have what you need. It is so freeing. I donated everything to a local furniture bank for veterans an those in need.❤
Absolutely, save money and live a better life. You have neatly described the “fear of nothing” that I have written about elsewhere and the way it prevents people from letting things go. Thank you for that story!
Thanks for the video. This is something we have practiced for 5 or 6 years and as you say, it's empowering.
I provide care for a member of the family and working away from home was not an option. Downsizing, getting rid of things we haven't used in years freed up space and earned us money in some cases. Our smaller home feels larger because it's filled with essential items only. Our social life consist of a small group like minded friends providing a more stress free environment. We're saving more money, blessing friends and family more often and being overall happier🤠🤠
I don't use anything when I'm depressed I just sit like a bump on a log but when I'm not depressed I start tinkering and enjoying my stuff and I think to myself boy I'm glad I didn't get rid of this
Good observations. Try to find the balance that makes you the most powerful.
Well made video, I began decluttering last week and I am very proud of myself because indeed, it felt incredibly good getting rid of a huge amount of stuff that was unnecessary. I’m eagerly awaiting for Saturday in order to continue throwing out the rest! From now on I will be more careful of what I purchase or accept when offered. I want to live a more simple life! 🙏❤️
Inspirational! Last year I watched this video & donated some old books that I don't need /read anymore. Since, I'm getting rid of items I don't need. This really helps. I believe it clears bad luck as well. Thanks, Rick.
(Wed 21 June 2023 20h11)
Fantastic! I am clearing things out today myself! Bring on the future!
In 2018 I did a huge declutter. Around 60% of my items I trash or give away. That truly change my life in every way possible. I’m a big believer, that in order to welcome new things to your life (New Energy) you must let go of old.
Well done!
BINGO- let Go of the old to make space for the new.
* let Go of the abusive partner
* let Go of the jealous so called friends
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It takes energy to care for things. Release and feel the energy return
Thanks for this message. It was important for me to hear. I never had clutter until I began accumulating the emotional pain and inner turmoil from multiple toxic, abusive relationships and traumatic experiences over a period of years. It’s taking time to redefine who I am and what stays and what goes. I’m letting go bit by bit. I think we need to be patient with ourselves. Clutter can go deep at times.
Yes! Have patience. Clutter clearing can help create the certainty of self that makes the future more clear and makes decisions easier.
When Covid came,I cluttered. No one coming, what’s the point. Today, I am cluttered. I have started throwing out, will keep working.
❤ I looove this gentleman.
Thank you, friend, for speaking so slowly (& delightfully monotone).
Thank you ❤️. I have severe depression and ptsd. Current home life difficult. Strife between me and my elderly mom who contradicts me and criticizes me frequently. I begged her to go into counseling with me and she finally agreed. Still having a lot of conflict, but atleast we're in counseling. I love my mom, but not the conflict.
We have a lot of clutter in our house. I can only work on my stuff.
This will motivate me. Thank you dear sir.
❤Jen
Saw your post and had to respond. I'm in the same situation as you - living with elderly mother 87 y.o. and all she does is criticize me and contradict me. It is very depressing and is toxic. But I can't afford to move out. At least your Mom agreed to counseling - you're lucky. My Mom says SHE doesn't need to go - that'll give you a clue.
Oh my I'm so sorry I feel for you and your condition and situation I can relate and it's just plain horrible
@@JodyFidelis , hi Jody, so sorry to hear about your situation too. Sad when we try , but the other person rejects us and continues to manifest chaos, strife😞
A big supportive hug to you 🤗
@@tomtroy3792, hi Tom, I'm so sorry you too are suffering. It definitely is awful. I wish you the best, peace and a big hug 🤗☮️
Love from india.i pray to lord hanuman that your differences with ur mom are resolved.keep happy,keep healthy my dear sister.👍☺️❤️
Your outer world reflects your inner world, but inversely. The less stuff, the richer your inner world can become.
Thank you for your video. I've been decluttering for a little over a year. I had to start small and it was a little painful at first, but it's getting a lot easier. Once I hit that stride the relief was amazing. You are exactly right. It starts to affect the rest of your life. I'm seeing the clutter everywhere that has been in my life way to long. I've read a lot of the comments and I can hear the same relief I feel. It's liberating and cathartic. I hope you are doing well. Thank you for sharing.
Hello! This video just came up in my feed, and I watched it!
I have been on this journey -reducing stuff, choosing consciously the material things I need or want, making a point to simplify.
That was excellent the spiritual and self empowerment connection you made and brought into the conversation. Thank you!
I went to your channel. I looked up the Community tab ... great channel, appreciate your work!
✌️🫶💪Let there be peace on Earth and let it begin with me. Self-care will get you there! 🤗
Thanks for mentioning the Community tab, I had a look too, it is an awesome resource!
this is one of the deepest most meaningful messages I have ever come across on youtube - will listen again !! thank you so much ! be blessed
Thank you. That is high praise!
Helped me stop drinking
As without, so within ❤️
I love it! I used to be a minimal person then I went down the clutter path. Four years on and it’s pretty much gone. I am so happy with it so far!
Very helpful thoughts that anyone can accept. Organizationally challenged packrat here had my cleaning lady (sister, also school head custodian) fix that last month. Am now working to keep good habits in this area of my life.
Stay away from flea markets, garage sales, and thrift stores - save your money.
Truer words could not have been spoken 😊
This video came on time.
Good tips Rick!
perfect Timing!
It's true! Things I love best are, a japanese style simple garden, a neat car, a clean room, 2 bowls in the cupboard for 2 people, the choice of only ONE thing! :)
You have a great vibe! Appreciate your video. As I was listening to you, I just started tackling a small task that I have procrastinated for so long. Remarkable!
I believe it. Cleaned out my dresser & closest. I feel great ❤
Very timely, and very empowering. Thanks so much for sharing!
Amazing synchronicity, I've been in that second stage this last month and that feel soooo good. Didn't know why I was resisting so hard before... Attachmt is something here in this physical realm, right? "😅 thank you for sharing your wisdom🙏💖
That’s exciting! The way I see it, attachment and resistance exist mostly in the energetic realm, but as with so many things, you may find it easier to get started by putting your focus on the way they appear in the material realm.
Thank you so much for your gentle, compassionate approach to clutter clearing. You have given me hope that I can clear ALL the clutter from my house 😊
Simple and effective way to put it. Loved it.
Blessed Be Rick* Giving Thanks!!! This such a great and soulshine inspirational sharing. Thank~You!!! 😊🍀☀🧡🙏🎶✨
excellent video my friend😊
Living your material life on your own terms ❤ yes!
My decluttering came with downsizing to a smaller home. I had seen The Minimalists on Netflix. Life changing. I found its better not to tell others, tho. A lot of criticism and pushback for some reason.
I need to sell the old clutter in my bedroom and stop 🛑 buying so much unnecessary junk.
Try low buy or no buy for few months
@@PriyankaYadav-lt5ml thanks for following up 🆙
This was super helpful! Thank you!
Wonderful! Thanks so much. ❤
Yes amen. Less me and more Almighty God
So weird.. I have finally started this process a few weeks ago. It’s working much like he described
Thank you!
Good stuff!
Inspiring. Thank you.
Oh - did I need this!!! Thanks!!!
Just keep in mind, many businesses have gone out of business in the last 3 years. I can’t find some things I use to get easily.
Some foods, some non food items.
Might want to keep some things to barter with when the dollar and cash become useless as may happen some day.
Absolutely, knowing what your future is likely to hold is the secret to knowing what material possessions will serve you best.
Your the Man
Brilliant, brilliant and brilliant.
Thank you for sharing, God bless
That's awesome. Thank you
Thanks for your channel. Looking forward to looking at your card videos 🇦🇺❤️
How to get the strength to clear it in the first place is the real question..
Just subscribed ♥️🇬🇧
Welcome in!
Some say hoarding is a defense mechanism brought on by trauma. Can anyone please explain how that works?
The hoarding that psychologists talk about affects a small fraction of people, but clutter affects almost everyone. The two topics are not related in the way that popular culture would have you believe.
@@takechancespayattention thanks for the reply. In your view, there isnt a higher proportion of those who hoard among those with trauma compared to those without trauma? I would think there is, but I am trying to find out why.
Clutter and stress form a vicious cycle, but it is more useful to think of clutter as the cause of stress, more so than the reverse.
You pack a lot in in 3 min.!
I love taking out the trash
...has a secret thrift store and wants your stuffffffff.
Currently everything that WAS in my house is now piled on top of all my Mom's clutter in her house because my house became unlivable after mold infestation. The restoration company is run by a total narcissist ahole and they are dragging everything out on purpose to make more money. I hate lawyers but it looks like I have to go find one.
Thank you!