What We Wish We Had Known about Parenting (Part 2 of 2) | Episode 4
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- čas přidán 25. 10. 2022
- Do you ever feel like it’s “too late” for you to parent up to your potential? Or do you feel that you’ve made too many parental mistakes to fully recover from?
Although we wish it was as easy as 1-2-3, to parent perfectly, there’s just no simple formula to get it right all the time. But what we can do is help you learn from our mistakes.
This week on At Home with the Beveres, we answer some of our most frequently asked questions. Addison, Juli, John, & Lisa share some of their parental woes with transparency, giving some keen insights on what they would have done differently in retrospect.
Experience truly is the best teacher-but its lessons can come at a high price. In this episode, learn from their experience-the successes and the setbacks-on how to set the tone in your home!
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We love hearing from you! Drop a comment to tell us what spoke to you in this episode. If you have any questions you'd like us to tackle in future episodes, drop them in the comments as well, and we'll work hard to get to them!
I'm 2 days old on this channel and liking it to the bone. Thanks to the Beveres for opening your house and letting us join you at the table. Listening to all your perfect imperfections is very humbling. Thanks for sharing your vulnerability with us. I love the idea of the tweet of the week.
Thank you for sharing and for being transparent!
Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and imperfections. As a mom of a wonderful 8 year old and beautiful 6 year old I over analyze my parenting because of being a first generation believer. You are so right, when we listen to God and correct from a heart that is humble to his direction it's more about him and less about my ability. it was a gentle but firm reminder that he's in control and my kids will still know God even if I mess up a lot. Thank you for encouraging my heart to keep living well and not give up.
Love that: As a parent we never lose our POWER to pray over our children.
So many takeaways from this and I will surely watch this again a second time and take notes. Thanks for blessing me with this recording!
Thank you so much for this podcast! When Lisa spoke about speaking blessings over your children, it really hit home. I have a bad habit of pointing out negative things to and about my kids, rather than lifting them up. I have learned so much from every episode so far! I am excited to have this resource to help me. I truly can not tell you enough what this means for me and how much it has already helped me with how I am raising my four kids. I am married to a great man, but he is not led by God and sometimes that causes friction and can feel lonely for me. With this podcast, I feel like I have a partner in trying to raise my kids God’s way and it has made a bigger impact than you can ever imagine! ❤❤❤
Ummmm! - Brilliant and noteworthy statement, John.-@ 5:05, you said “ the longer you live, the more humble you should become “; humility is not weakness, it’s total dependence on God. I need to meditate on this for awhile.
Wonderful message! Thanks for sharing and being genuine ❤
Re-listening/watching this more than a year from the first time I've watched it... now as a first-time expectant mom, as I'm folding baby clothes! It hits even better and differently :') Thank you Bevere family for your wisdom and authenticity!!! Thank you Jesus for your amazing grace and power to use our brokenness to create beautiful generational legacies of faith and love!!!
I so love these episodes. Such a rich blessing
Wow! The power of a parents prayer❤
This is so wonderful to listen as a first generation believer. Explicitly speaking about how to do things is so very very very helpful. Thank you so very much
I absolutely love the relational aspect of this podcast, thank you so much for allowing God to work in you to help us walk better in our lives and live better in our homes
I LOOOOVE Lisa's practical tip, declaring the words you want to see and partnering with God's words because He always watches over his words. That's so powerful. Now I want to go and search for all the words to declare over my kids!
Me too! Isa. 54: 12 - 14
Highly blessed by both part 1 and part 2. I am single and striving to live a life fully reliant and satisfied in my Lord, however I am longing for a husband and a family. The examples I have of those in my life are very rocky and i recognise how much work I will need to do not repeat my parents mistakes. So blessed to get the wonderfull examples. Encouraged to continue fully rellying on Jesus for everything❤ thanks guys!
I love your family dynamic's and your authenticity. I am Spanish living in the UK for long time and I love your Italian heritage showing through. I really enjoy and learn a lot watching this podcast. What I would say, and I am really not trying to be legalistic, for the sake of the body of Christ (which different people are at different levels in their walk with God) , is that Lucifer was created to worship God, after he fell, he uses secular music against humanity. Specially nowadays, we don't want to open spiritual doors, which the enemy can come through. We should listen and do what glorifies God only. We live in the world but we are not part of the world. It keeps us safe. I thought just to share this with you 💝💝💝. God bless you always 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
The Northern Italians don’t use their hand gestures as much as the Southern. Just in defence of Mr Bevere (and in case his roots are from the Northern Italy) 🥰
Love you all guys and your ministry ❤🙏🔥
I so appreciate these conversations. Thank you so much for your honesty.
This is truly great! I binged the first 3 episodes! Thank you for making this and inviting us in, going through something here and I needed family dynamics for support.
I’d read any book Lisa writes on declarations over our children! :)
Thank you for all your wisdom!
An overly strict Dad was my trauma growing up. I'll never forget getting spanked as an older child just because my Dad's temper blew, I didn't even know what I did, it was rare but that one time hurt me so deeply. I think men need to work on their anger issues more than anything. They need the self confidence to discipline well without anger.
I love this channel sooo much!!! Keep sharing!! I love how you highlighted how important conversation is between spouses when they’re NOT experiencing a crisis! Same with counseling- we don’t have to wait until sh** hits the fan- it’s not about that- it’s about having tools in your belt!!
These tools are golden! THANK YOU for sharing 🔥
I enjoy listening to you.. sharing all this with my husband..praying he would "Listen 😅" as you said that receiving counseling doesn't have to be in times of debating
Hello!!! Thank you for this new channel! I love the concept of family conversations around the table to make each one of us grow! I am part of a wonderful church with awesome leaders (Pastor Nuño and Natalie Pedro) but we don’t have an active "family ministry branch". So, as a mom of a 2 yr old and a 4 yr old, my husband and I are getting parenting wisdom by looking at our Pastors' family and other parents from church who are doing family well. We feel like we need more knowledge as to the daily issues we face with our young kids and as a family in general. This channel is a really good resource for us, thank you again for putting that out 🙏.
I love the Bevere family, Lisa Bevere is such an inspiration for me since I started to listen to her back in 2017. She is the mom I want to be 🥰🫶! By the way, John Bevere got to preached at least twice I think at my church (Charisma Christian Church, Paris France). We love you guys❤!!!!
I can so relate to the way Lisa instilled a spiritual atmosphere in the home with worship and by living her faith before her sons… I also do warfare right in the middle of the living room with my toddlers playing around 🤪😬😅. I tend to become a morning person lately as a working mom, waking up at 5am to spend time with God, when nobody needs me and before leaving home with the kids to go out for our day at 7.30…
My husband and I are really busy at church (worship team, youth ministry and cell group) and at work (lawyer and IT project manager). Fighting for keeping my daily fellowship with God, I go to bed right after putting our kids to sleep (round 9pm). We don't have much time left for our us as a couple… we usually get back home at 7.00-7.30pm on work day…
Question: how can we keep quality time as a couple with tight schedule and young kids who need us?
Thank you
This is so so helpful thank you, each one of you!
This was lovely 💌
Love this new podcast thanks guys!!! ❤
Thank you so much for sharing. I love Lisa's sharing - praying Isa 54 over her children. Your advice on listening to our spouse and giving a chance to restate is something I will start doing right away! I would ask that you don't over value the "tweak of the week" bit. I appreciate you all! God Bless!
Thanks for the awesome episode and for doing this podcast! Can you dive deeper into why children are a gift from the Lord, versus what culture says? I just started dating a guy who wants to have kids, but I’ve been struggling with a lot of fear in that area. I don’t want to miss out on what God might have for me but it can be so hard to see things the way that they really are, ya know? Thanks, you guys are awesome!
Psalm 127:3 “Children are a heritage from the LORD, offspring a reward from him.”😊🙏
Hello! I really love these podcasts! I have two sons (9&2). Something I'm struggling with now is their age gap and how they can connect as siblings. Can you have a chapter on this? Thanks!!
I so wish youtube would list your episodes in order🎉 I feel like I miss a lot from skipping around but yall are doing great
Death and Life are in the power of the tongue
Your words have power. Don't curse your child.
I love your podcasts so much. Thank you for all of the heart, soul and energy you each put into these. ♥️
WOW!The tension that we feel means there is more. God is inviting us to step into new levels of authority, opportunities, a promise. Don’t run from it. Lean into it.
Thank you for being so focussed and prepared on every topic you guys are called to speak about. Sending love from Cape Town, South Afica
Thank you for this beautiful conversation. I sure tried hard to do all the right things but goofed up sometimes, too. Seven kids (and two. Others, for a time). Sure needed to hear that I’m not the only one who looks at my adult children with so much love, but also sometimes with awkwardness, since I’ve learned more as time has gone on and have matured in 34 years. I’ve never had a candid conversation to such an extent as you have had here.
Thank you, the Beveres, this is so beautiful. Your humility is incredible. Again, thank you for these teachings.
This is so helpful! Thank you for your transparency ❤️ thank you for not giving up when things got tuff! 💕💕💕
THANK YOU WOW Yesssss! 🔥🙏💪
Love the authenticity of your podcast guys! ❤
Thank you, I absolutely love this podcast!! I am cracking up, and getting revelation from the Lord at the same time! I was wondering what you did, or do, about Halloween? Do you let your kids trick or treat? Thank you again for all you do, and your humility and desire to grow the body of Christ!! Love y'all, Mark Newman
I have a friend that says - To be a lawyer you need a license, to drive, you need a license, to be a doctor you need a license, but to be a parent, any stupid person can be.
This is gold. Thank you Jesus
"How about we don't err" my favorite part 😂
I love this podcast. So excited about it. Juli you are so gorgeous!
Thank you so much! I can't wait for the next podcast/video 🙌🏻
This was sooooo good! Such great nuggets of wisdom and life changing advice!
This was wholesome and God inspired.
This episode is going to help so many parents.
Thank you all and learning my through life how now... 😢trust God's in all / situations/ 🙏🏽
Thank you! 🙌🏻
Thank you so much for sharing your imperfections in such in honest, humble way- such insights & wisdom. JB-how did you navigate gender identity issues w/ your sons? Greetings from Puerto Rico 🇵🇷!!! Thanks for sharing the authority of declaring the best over your sons in order to bring the best out of them. 😊
Thanks so much for sharing, you're all such wise warriors of God, I binge listen to all your different podcasts throughout my week. You've helped bring my marriage back together and help me to know how to raise my son in Jesus' footsteps.
Addison, THANK YOU, from the bottom of my heart. After watching this episode, I texted a 'Godmother' I had 13 years ago, who helped me through a really terrible place. We spoke last night and have reconnected as though no time has passed. Thank you so much, bless you.
I'm from Indonesia❤❤❤
So good ⚡️🙏🏽
So good ♥
Please advise where do I go to find part one of parenting🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Speaking of counseling....is it free to have counseling through church? Or there is fee for it?
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Im here watching this episode and am.wondering to myself " God where do i start from" ? My kids are 11,9 n 6. Ive overdisciplnied, over yelled, i dont insult them but ive said a few harsh words that i spoke out of frustration. Where do i start from?
Start with repairing, it helps tremendously, and God can redeem and help you rebuild trust.
Please leave me to how I can find episode one and so on and so forth. Thank you so much.❤
Hello! You can head on over to our channel by clicking on our name. There is a section that says "episodes" and you can watch all of the ones we have posted! Make sure to subscribe so you don't have to miss our latest uploads. :)
Tysm for replying to my q!
SO excited to go through All your, “at home”, videos🙏🏼🔥…And, I definitely subscribed and shared!!
Blessings x a million 🙏🏼♥️🔥to your families.
when you were talking about discipline, are you only talk about spanking because I know disciplining your kids doesn’t have to be spanking. Nobody talks about this in the church.
Lord help me.
12:00 Addison😂