What We Wish We Had Known (Part 1 of 2) | Episode 3

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  • čas přidán 26. 07. 2024
  • Wouldn’t it be nice if someone told you how to avoid their parenting mistakes and familial woes?
    Although we wish we could snap our fingers and give you all the answers, there’s no way of telling the future. But what we can do is help you learn from OUR mistakes.
    This week on At Home with the Beveres, we openly discuss what we wish we had known back then that we know now. We pray that these lessons will save you from the same pitfalls and help you set up your homes for success.
    So, buckle up as we dive into a two-part series on how to set the tone in your home!
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    0:00 - A Word from the Producer
    0:26 - Tweak of the Week Challenge
    3:05 - Your Question Answered: How to Set the Spiritual Tone in Your Home - John and Lisa
    14:17 - John’s Tweak of the Week
    15:42 - Equipping Your Kids for Another Age
    19:09 - Every Family Is A Small Church
    19:45 - How to Prevent Kids Losing Their Faith
    25:19 - In Ministry and Raising Kids: the Protection in Obedience
    27:57 - The Importance of Family Dinner
    31:15 - John’s Revised Tweak of the Week
    33:48 - Prayer for Patience, Grace, and Wisdom
    34:52 - Next Episode Tease
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    We love hearing from you! Drop a comment to tell us what spoke to you in this episode. If you have any questions you'd like us to tackle in future episodes, drop them in the comments as well, and we'll work hard to get to them!

Komentáře • 61

  • @nathantrujillo1
    @nathantrujillo1 Před rokem +45

    I love the way Addison’s wife looks at him with admiration and honor. She has so much joy in her countenance. I can sense God’s presence resting on her like a coat with a long train.

    • @Team_Blackledge
      @Team_Blackledge Před rokem +6

      And how John looks at him too, he’s so proud. He did a great job with his boys 👏

    • @theFIRMAMENTalist
      @theFIRMAMENTalist Před 3 měsíci +2

      I see Lisa, and how beautiful wisdom is on her, she wears it like a 👑
      She is radiant with the grace of Yah, having sons that bring her honor and a husband that loves her like Yeshua loves us.

  • @ronaynevisetoloa9324
    @ronaynevisetoloa9324 Před 8 měsíci +5

    “Every family is a small church” 🔥

  • @LetscookwithVanessa
    @LetscookwithVanessa Před 8 měsíci +4

    Lisa Bevere is soooo soo funny I can’t 😂 with the Italian citizen ship. I know John is Italian too and he actually looks very Italian too like one of my uncles!
    I love the honest and the humor. They are all so funny and entertaining.
    Lisa is a Sicilian sister❤ it’s all in the personality more than Anything!

  • @gealove3007
    @gealove3007 Před 11 měsíci +3

    This family is an inspiration. I hope to have a family like yours one day.

  • @samuelmartin2608
    @samuelmartin2608 Před 11 měsíci +10

    Watching my dad read his Bible every day either in the morning or at night was a HUGE influence on me. I knew where to find him every day at those specific times.

  • @amandakate1247
    @amandakate1247 Před rokem +4

    Every single family is a small church.🎯💯

  • @tslavens3092
    @tslavens3092 Před rokem +8

    I grieve that I didn't get so many things right. But I also know God can redeem the time. ❤️

  • @carissalynnpople5118
    @carissalynnpople5118 Před rokem +9

    This has me in tears and laughing and crying knowing I'm not doing things so wrong. I've tried to regiment devotions with 4 homeschooled kids and struggle but I have bible conversations with my kids in daily life. When something happens we read a scripture on it and talk about it. Walk the house praying and singing in the spirit warring over my family etc.

  • @Dee_legacy
    @Dee_legacy Před rokem +14

    I love the "protection is in my obedience" part. There is no perfect parenting as methods changes with seasons and what is going around you at the time but the word of God is what never fails!
    Thanks guys!

  • @airplane800
    @airplane800 Před 2 měsíci

    Juli is so charming with her beautiful smile that she does steal the show.

  • @charleanharriage9984
    @charleanharriage9984 Před rokem +4

    My protection for my children is my obedience to the Lord 😍 this

  • @HTB.5784
    @HTB.5784 Před rokem +2

    Love the happiness and spontaneity! your love and acceptance is thick in the room! thank you for allowing me into your family for the day

  • @dontfollowthecrowd5195
    @dontfollowthecrowd5195 Před rokem +3

    Thank you guys, I enjoyed watching this while I'm my online classes... this is my last day off from work. Love the blessings of a family of The Lord.

  • @Andi-O
    @Andi-O Před rokem +3

    Yes!!!! Have Grandma Kay speak a word of wisdom!! ❤

  • @tafraranda9724
    @tafraranda9724 Před rokem +1

    Thank you God for all of these people to share all there knowledge and wisdom to us. BLESS THEM FATHER!!! 🙌

  • @shonwalker344
    @shonwalker344 Před rokem +2

    I just want to say I am soo grateful for this episode. I served so and was away from my children so much that they became resentful, and I did not fully understand the disconnect, but I got my answer today. My life was segmented, and serving my leader was what "mom" did. I should have included them when the opportunity was there and created more family moments. Thank you

  • @crystallozano1079
    @crystallozano1079 Před rokem +13

    I am absolutely so grateful to you all for just being real and transparent, being human and so humble. Its amazing on how much i relate to Mrs. Lisa Bevere

  • @zivotsbohomWASABI
    @zivotsbohomWASABI Před rokem +4

    I have always loved you guys but now even more! you are such a great bundle, so authentic, so funny, full of wisdom and love. thank you for this. I needed it!

  • @dermanydelgado9043
    @dermanydelgado9043 Před 7 měsíci

    great example to show

  • @marielundstrom7694
    @marielundstrom7694 Před rokem +1

    Talk about the families that can not have dinner together because they have aspbergers or/and ADHD and they are not able to sit at the table. I had this thing to that a family have dinner TOGETHER. But I had to lay it down. There was to many fights. Gods grace covers these situations I believe🙏❤️

  • @rcz2023
    @rcz2023 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you

  • @paularegino6010
    @paularegino6010 Před rokem +2

    This is so precious! I loved it! Thank you for doing this.
    As a mom of 2 teenage girls, I need all the (goodly) advice and wisdom I can get!

  • @bethbatchelder932
    @bethbatchelder932 Před rokem +1

    Thanks for sharing! My husband and I have been married 43 years, 47 years total together. He's now in Jesus at peace, but I keep Jesus busy on another level along with worship, praise and thanksgiving he now, is the one that informs me where to find Stephen's things in the garage and in the house! Stephen's absence is huge, but we raised 3 beautiful daughters. Now, I have the honor of grandparenting a granddaughter and have 2 more gbabies on the way. What had me chuckle with this teaching was when John was telling the memory of his and Lisa anniversary get away. Only because no matter how long married, each experience situations differently🤣 Now I get to share our experience on my own without, ""hah, no, that's not how it happen"🤣
    I miss those dinners at the table! Conversations and tweaks on how to do things better. We have been blessed beyond measure!!! Thanks to Jesus and families like yours that keep us inspired to represent the Kingdom well

  • @raq_rivera
    @raq_rivera Před rokem +1

    Wow! What a blessing, thank you.

  • @hazelimali654
    @hazelimali654 Před rokem +1

    Amen 🙏🏾 I'm really blessed by these podcasts. I'm new here and I thank The Lord Jesus for leading me here! Glory be to Jesus!

  • @dermanydelgado9043
    @dermanydelgado9043 Před 7 měsíci

    you did good Lisa

  • @naomischober
    @naomischober Před rokem +4

    I started listening to the podcast on the podcast app, until you said you were on CZcams, and I had to watch the tweak of the week! Lol! I love tuning into this. It’s so real and authentic. Thank you for making me and my family feel normal!

    • @heygracetran
      @heygracetran Před rokem +1

      SAME! Hahaha. I love the fun in this family. Gives me vision for my future family as my husband and I continue to grow and pray about breaking generational cycles. Fun (and God) was not the norm in our families.

  • @SBAL21
    @SBAL21 Před rokem +1

    This is so beautiful. Thank you so much for teaching this. It’s raw, vulnerable and fun to watch. This is so timely for myself, husband and our 5 boys 😊.

  • @theodoraekwevugbe6752
    @theodoraekwevugbe6752 Před rokem +2

    This is beautiful. Keep it up. So helpful 🙏

  • @dermanydelgado9043
    @dermanydelgado9043 Před rokem +1

    so great to hear it's the thought that count

  • @angelfaulkner3993
    @angelfaulkner3993 Před 6 měsíci

    🙏🏼🔥🙏🏼❣️🙏🏼❣️🙏🏼🔥
    This is SO COOL!!!
    … “dad” just said, Johnathan Edward’s said,”each family is a small church !!
    God”s been praying threw me, during this 10 day fast(1/3-12) w my 4 teen boys, He prayed through me….“bless your body, the body of Christ”. When I prayed this I was referring to me and my boys I kept stopping myself, bc I thought to myself, WHY DO I KEEP praying this…only for me to be redirected bk to praying that same line…. Now it ALL MAKES COMPLETE SENSE🙏🏼🔥. All bc “dad” said this👆🏼
    TYSM!!! U defined the dynamics in this prayer The Lord kept praying through me, before and after our night of fasting.
    ♥️🔥♥️🔥♥️

  • @Brianna-yh7iy
    @Brianna-yh7iy Před rokem +1

    So thankful for this new podcast!!! I’m so excited for it

  • @dermanydelgado9043
    @dermanydelgado9043 Před 7 měsíci

    it's important my dad did our family

  • @craigcummings1348
    @craigcummings1348 Před rokem +1

    I was watching John while he was talking (time stamp: 13:36 -14:13). He was talking with his hands at table level. I believe he needs a reprieve or a "Credit". LOL

  • @wiankawolvaardt732
    @wiankawolvaardt732 Před rokem +1

    Wow Awsome insight and Wisdom

  • @dermanydelgado9043
    @dermanydelgado9043 Před 7 měsíci

    great news

  • @nanaaddae8623
    @nanaaddae8623 Před rokem

    Living it ,best model ❤

  • @aliceowulo9816
    @aliceowulo9816 Před rokem

    This truly blessed me

  • @isabelsanchez3919
    @isabelsanchez3919 Před rokem

    I’m listening from Texas

  • @pendulepcha5584
    @pendulepcha5584 Před rokem

    Wow this Family ❤️

  • @ronaynevisetoloa9324
    @ronaynevisetoloa9324 Před 8 měsíci

    “There’s a-lot of protection in obedience”

  • @dermanydelgado9043
    @dermanydelgado9043 Před 7 měsíci

    understand

  • @jessicaladd85
    @jessicaladd85 Před rokem

    You can see the proud dad moments when Addison talks.

  • @melinza5417
    @melinza5417 Před rokem

    i was listening via podcast but i realize i need to relate more by watching instead. :)😅

  • @dermanydelgado9043
    @dermanydelgado9043 Před rokem

    yes

  • @nanaaddae8623
    @nanaaddae8623 Před rokem

    Dear Lord, pls help me model this kind of love and family oneness in my own home. Help dear Lord. Give me the wisdom to make it right with my family in Jesus name amen ❤

  • @emilyg.8898
    @emilyg.8898 Před rokem

    Question 1: How to not allow heaviness to infiltrate or influence your home /personal devotion to God.

  • @dermanydelgado9043
    @dermanydelgado9043 Před 7 měsíci

    right

  • @jatonhardy5093
    @jatonhardy5093 Před rokem +1

    How do you set a positive spiritual atmosphere in your home when your spouse is struggling with their walk with God?

  • @mistytrone4598
    @mistytrone4598 Před rokem +1

    Is there email address I can send questions?

  • @Ryderamazing
    @Ryderamazing Před rokem

    What is the family devotions you guys mention in this.

  • @amandaacton8995
    @amandaacton8995 Před rokem +1

    So my question I would love to hear a response to is how do you help foster sibling relationships? We have done studies on the blessings of siblings. How did you handle sibling squabbles?

  • @dermanydelgado9043
    @dermanydelgado9043 Před rokem

    food

  • @dermanydelgado9043
    @dermanydelgado9043 Před 7 měsíci

    nothing wrong with that

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 Před rokem

    Secular music is music that dishonors God
    Dishonors God- does not glorify God, does not Amen the Word of God, antiChrist

  • @dermanydelgado9043
    @dermanydelgado9043 Před 7 měsíci

    great news

  • @dermanydelgado9043
    @dermanydelgado9043 Před 7 měsíci

    understand