The СRАZІЕЅТ Саtfish Love Triangle that led to DЕАDLY МURDЕR | Danielle Kirsty

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  • @DanielleKirsty11
    @DanielleKirsty11  Před 2 měsíci +119

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    • @mousemd
      @mousemd Před 2 měsíci +8

      I believe this is an old case. You are doing a good job not giving things away until the appropriate time. I just listen to too much of this type of content. You do this for people who only follow you. I will catch you on the next one.
      Take Care Danielle ❤

    • @QueenofChaos80
      @QueenofChaos80 Před 2 měsíci

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    • @QueenofChaos80
      @QueenofChaos80 Před 2 měsíci +3

      I would love to hear your thoughts on a case out of Ohio. There is a documentary about it called ‘Goodnight Sugar Babe: the Killing of Vera Jo Reigle’. This case will enrage many people bc the ‘mastermind’ behind it all, never faced charges.😡😭

    • @georgeeTHL
      @georgeeTHL Před 2 měsíci +7

      It doesn’t seem to be available in the Uk?

    • @duchessofhazjack4878
      @duchessofhazjack4878 Před 2 měsíci +6

      @georgeeTHL it bugs me when UK true crime CZcamsrs pander to US viewers , even using US words and phrases like "trash" and "parking lot" and US only sponsors.

  • @lorahawkins0
    @lorahawkins0 Před 2 měsíci +2013

    I will never understand why Mary wasn’t charged with child endangerment and possession/distribution of child *orn

    • @user-rv9vz4hg5l
      @user-rv9vz4hg5l Před 2 měsíci +40

      Right like what I couldn't believe it

    • @jessicavasquez4331
      @jessicavasquez4331 Před 2 měsíci +111

      For a mother to do this to her own child. She put her daughters life in danger just so she could get her kicks. She needs to be serving prison time, for everything she played a role in

    • @MelAtlNP
      @MelAtlNP Před 2 měsíci +7

      👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @hms101092
      @hms101092 Před 2 měsíci +30

      That last part was exactly what I was thinking. I feel like if it had been someone other than her mom, that child *ornography charges would have been pressed. Unless there's some legal loophole here, I feel like the justice system failed this poor young girl. Wow, just wow...some seriously messed up people who destroyed so many lives.

    • @MyCraftyStyles
      @MyCraftyStyles Před 2 měsíci +9

      I totally agree 😢.

  • @pumpkinpatch2203
    @pumpkinpatch2203 Před 2 měsíci +642

    Insane to think that a strange woman(Cindy) cared more about 18 year old Jessie, than her own mother did

    • @Me11e22
      @Me11e22 Před 2 měsíci +27

      So true! Cindy could have looked at Jessie as the 'other woman' and been totally furious with her... but clearly she is a good woman. I hope she is doing well and stays clear of her husband who gets out in just two years.

  • @barbaramcastro
    @barbaramcastro Před 2 měsíci +507

    Mary and Thomas looked old as heck when they were in their forties.

    • @vivianaestremera5381
      @vivianaestremera5381 Před 2 měsíci +82

      They literally looked like they’re in their 60s 😂 my man is 45 and doesn’t even look close to them

    • @barbaramcastro
      @barbaramcastro Před 2 měsíci +30

      @@vivianaestremera5381 right? Time was not kind to them 😂

    • @epicpotato8507
      @epicpotato8507 Před 2 měsíci +5

      Totally

    • @chellybean27547
      @chellybean27547 Před 2 měsíci +16

      They look like smokers

    • @mialammy
      @mialammy Před 2 měsíci +7

      Maybe it was the 80s or early 90s😂😂😂😂😂dang they look old

  • @ddhaley
    @ddhaley Před 2 měsíci +164

    To violate your own daughter like that is a whole other level of disgusting. What is wrong with these people😩

  • @Maricelizz
    @Maricelizz Před 2 měsíci +1556

    The fact that she sent explicit photos of her daughter to another man blows my mind 🤯

    • @goodbher9244
      @goodbher9244 Před 2 měsíci +133

      MULTIPLE men. Her poor daughter had so many random men looking at her naked without her knowledge or consent. It's so gross.

    • @KrissyBean10
      @KrissyBean10 Před 2 měsíci +24

      Internet sickos freak me out I remember pogo chat

    • @crissalianne
      @crissalianne Před 2 měsíci +22

      No way..as a mom…that makes me need to puke!!!!🤢🤮

    • @bioshockinglyreal2290
      @bioshockinglyreal2290 Před 2 měsíci +23

      Here's something scarier. There was an episode of catfish that was very similar to what Mary was doing. She took her daughter's pictures and sent them to males. The males were teenagers also. She even talked to a guy on runescape and that guy is the one that called catfish

    • @duchessofhazjack4878
      @duchessofhazjack4878 Před 2 měsíci +29

      What I don't understand is if a MAN did that to his daughter he'd be charged and put on a bloody register (justifiably so!!) how did authorities decide "nah it's cool off you go" arghh. Haven't been so mad at a case in ages!

  • @lisapaxford7973
    @lisapaxford7973 Před 2 měsíci +2093

    I am Mary’s age and my daughter is Jessie’s age and what Mary did has actually made me feel physically sick! Absolutely sickening 😡

    • @dsmusicbird
      @dsmusicbird Před 2 měsíci +105

      Seriously! What Mother would ever even consider doing this to her daughter. I’ve no respect for her. She’s worse than the creepy man. Sick!
      Made me feel sick as well! Disgusted.

    • @sabrinajohnson7611
      @sabrinajohnson7611 Před 2 měsíci +26

      Exactly, sick 😫

    • @rachelrae860
      @rachelrae860 Před 2 měsíci +14

      I agree with you all 💯.I was late watching so I just made my comment and the whole thing makes me sick and so pissed off. And I wrote a readers digest version of what I wanted to comment but in one part I why mommy dearest was doing this to her and that's disturbing disgusting and heinous thing you could do to your daughter. She literally was messing with these boys head and I'm so heartbroken 💔 for Brian I started watching it at 10:00 holy moly it's way past my bedtime I'm going to fall asleep and trying to make comments so I'm not going to do that lol

    • @lemonielala3080
      @lemonielala3080 Před 2 měsíci +13

      Same. 🤮
      My daughter is 13 and I'm 40 and the thought that I in five years would do something like this to her is completely inconceivable to me...... She will always be my baby and I couldn't imagine hurting her or even risking her being hurt...

    • @erilanez
      @erilanez Před 2 měsíci +9

      I absolutely luv ur channel as much as I love how beautiful u do ur makeup !

  • @KateTheMama
    @KateTheMama Před 2 měsíci +55

    Props to Danielle for reading the spicy messages😂 it was very disturbing i wouldn't have been able to say all that out loud

  • @Mclellanmanor
    @Mclellanmanor Před 2 měsíci +54

    This is disgusting! I’m actually shocked that Jessie wasn’t informed by authorities before finding out in an article!!

  • @Sawk_King
    @Sawk_King Před 2 měsíci +1276

    I feel so sorry for the daughter. Imagine finding out your own mother has been doing that behind your back. You’d never trust anyone again! Vile 🤢

    • @hrafna777
      @hrafna777 Před 2 měsíci +9

      My thoughts exactly

    • @janehargrove3651
      @janehargrove3651 Před 2 měsíci +29

      this!!
      at least he was sending his own old photos
      not saying he's the good guy here, but that's HER DAUGHTER

    • @Sawk_King
      @Sawk_King Před 2 měsíci +5

      @@hrafna777 you’d be scarred for life.

    • @Sawk_King
      @Sawk_King Před 2 měsíci +24

      @@janehargrove3651 i know I can’t explain how it makes me feel. Sexually exploiting her own child to hundreds of men. Surely there’s a law against it. She needs locking away.

    • @pandorahunter
      @pandorahunter Před 2 měsíci +9

      Her dad had her back 💯 and that relationship will help her always have him and his example. Blessing to them both as the manage through this

  • @shmupe2312
    @shmupe2312 Před 2 měsíci +1067

    20 years is NOT enough for killing a man in cold blood. It was premeditated and carried out by a stupid man preying on a “CHILD” when Jessie was 17. Mary should also be in prison for using and abusing her daughter in this way. SICK.

    • @goodbher9244
      @goodbher9244 Před 2 měsíci +67

      Tom and Mary were perfect for each other. They deserve each other. They're so gross. 😂

    • @hoppyfamforhopkins699
      @hoppyfamforhopkins699 Před 2 měsíci +28

      I agree I don't understand why Mary was given no punishment! 🤷‍♀️ What she did was criminal! But I feel like having your daughter never want to speak to you again, and your hubby instantly divorce you would be punishment enough. 😬

    • @its_Emily384
      @its_Emily384 Před 2 měsíci +8

      I was legit going to defend him with the online games,as in any lonely marriage you learn to make your own fun…… But said “teenagers” … No way! My empathy totally disappeared!

    • @danicalindsay303
      @danicalindsay303 Před 2 měsíci

      Definitely not enough the mother should be on a register and should be in jail for child porn and distribution of it .​@@hoppyfamforhopkins699

    • @9418
      @9418 Před 28 dny

      Only 20 years instead of life without parole is such an insult to Brian’s poor family. Additionally, Mary won't face any consequences as a result of this! I am infuriated by this case on so many levels just because it's so senseless.

  • @arrianegee7628
    @arrianegee7628 Před 2 měsíci +95

    Seeing Brian's photo with a cat breaks my heart more.

  • @lemonielala3080
    @lemonielala3080 Před 2 měsíci +54

    Imagine not knowing how many men out there has been catfished BY YOUR MOM using your photos and your address, and not knowing if one of them is going to suddenly show up at your house. Never feel safe anywhere.
    And then imagine doing that to your child.
    Also, Mary didn't get any punishment for this, so who knows if she is still doing it 🤷

    • @elizabeththorpe4334
      @elizabeththorpe4334 Před 2 měsíci +6

      WILD! I don't even post pictures of my daughter online because I'm so worried about keeping her safe. Couldn't ever imagine doing what she's done, it's so sick.

  • @sunna8476
    @sunna8476 Před 2 měsíci +863

    Additional danger is that when sending these love letters she's given a stranger on the internet her address, where her daughter also lives at, anyone could have shown up looking for her daughter. Absolutely unhinged woman.

    • @duchessofhazjack4878
      @duchessofhazjack4878 Před 2 měsíci +61

      I cannot believe she can't be charged with child endangerment and identity theft. It blows my mind.

    • @fionamcgroddy1178
      @fionamcgroddy1178 Před 2 měsíci +20

      EXACTLY what i was thinking. Any strange man could have assumed she knew him and hurt her

    • @LexiDaBestie
      @LexiDaBestie Před 2 měsíci +12

      ​@@duchessofhazjack4878 she should've been charged w child p as well as she was a minor at the time too

    • @duchessofhazjack4878
      @duchessofhazjack4878 Před 2 měsíci +6

      @LexiDaBestie 100%. Doesn't matter what she was using it for, she was creating it and putting it out online!! Not been as angry at a case in ages.😡

    • @rebekahjimenez2808
      @rebekahjimenez2808 Před 2 měsíci +3

      I am constantly trying to educate and protect my kids from exposure to dangers online. I can't imagine doing this to them. She is so sick. I am furious and heartbroken for that poor girl. She deserves so much better.

  • @saddlerrye6725
    @saddlerrye6725 Před 2 měsíci +432

    Who on Earth uses their DAUGHTER'S pictures to message random men???????? That's actually sick.

    • @Gitchagoat
      @Gitchagoat Před 2 měsíci +4

      𝓜𝓪𝓻𝔂

    • @lorahawkins0
      @lorahawkins0 Před 2 měsíci

      I feel the same way you do it is absolutely sike

  • @darkstraylily1477
    @darkstraylily1477 Před 2 měsíci +96

    Hold up how the fuck was the mother not charged for distribution of child pornography???? Wtffff

    • @kayleigh3648
      @kayleigh3648 Před 29 dny

      Unfortunately her daughter had turned 18 by the time she started sending the pics… You’d think she’d still get a vouyerism charge or possibly a defamation, or SOMETHING 😠

  • @juli_uchit
    @juli_uchit Před 2 měsíci +40

    The “mother” should be held accountable for she’s done, what the hell, it makes my blood boil

  • @meshiab5983
    @meshiab5983 Před 2 měsíci +478

    This mom is just absolutely disgusting, to exploit your child like this is a different level of sick .

  • @heatherwallaert5165
    @heatherwallaert5165 Před 2 měsíci +298

    Okay, I do not understand how children who take indecent photos of themselves can be sent to prison for cp but a mother can take indecent pictures of her 17 year old daughter which is also cp and not get any prison time? What the heck

    • @graceyoung3771
      @graceyoung3771 Před 2 měsíci +13

      Valid point!

    • @amberfitz-randolph392
      @amberfitz-randolph392 Před 2 měsíci +13

      Born and raised in Texas US here, right outside Ft Hood Army base. Yep our kids can catch charges for teens sending each other nudes although that does not get prosecuted often without some other crazy backstory. Technically it IS legally child P if you as a high school kid send your high school boyfriend your own nudes, so you can get CP possession or distribution.

    • @shutterlovr
      @shutterlovr Před 2 měsíci

      It honestly should be considered trafficking. Further proof that the US system is a disaster.

    • @GoodnightJLH
      @GoodnightJLH Před 2 měsíci +6

      Were any indecent photos sent before Jessie turned 18? It is disgusting either way but it isn’t CP if the person is 18.

    • @Brownnrice
      @Brownnrice Před 2 měsíci +4

      @@GoodnightJLH yes when she was 17, she took photos of her.

  • @kopipanda9070
    @kopipanda9070 Před 2 měsíci +41

    Brian died not knowing he was fooled not just by tommy BUT worst by MARY. He died thinking it was because of Jessie. I pity Jessie how she was used by her mom and how she was exploited.

  • @marionsimpson9566
    @marionsimpson9566 Před 2 měsíci +20

    It confuses the hell out of me how these people get into these relationships without meeting each other. Why would you get into a “relationship” with someone you’ve never met?

  • @khaleesiaprilbingham7060
    @khaleesiaprilbingham7060 Před 2 měsíci +353

    You are a straight G for reading that action straight faced and without vomiting 🤢🤮 . I freaking love you for really giving us the dirt no matter how uncomfortable it makes us all . This shouldn't be palatable and comfortable ,it's shocking and terrifying ! Stay aware folks and check your kids DMs , kids check your parents and your grandparents !

    • @annaelizabzth
      @annaelizabzth Před 2 měsíci +27

      Idk how she read it without laughing hysterically because I would 😭

    • @khaleesiaprilbingham7060
      @khaleesiaprilbingham7060 Před 2 měsíci +13

      @@annaelizabzth I couldn't have done it . Straight up . She is legendary for that !

    • @duchessofhazjack4878
      @duchessofhazjack4878 Před 2 měsíci +8

      I almost had to FF that bit. Yuck on another level!!

    • @4rebs
      @4rebs Před 2 měsíci +7

      @@annaelizabzthLOLLL forreal!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I was laughing so hard! But out of discomfort, kind of like a wtf type of laugh 😩😭

    • @kateyoung7929
      @kateyoung7929 Před 18 dny

      ​@@duchessofhazjack4878I did 😂

  • @Darth_Draconus
    @Darth_Draconus Před 2 měsíci +248

    Both catfishes are unbelievably disgusting... But I'm just imagining the Olympic level mental and psychological gymnastics needed to use your daughter like this. Was it as twisted as rationalizing it by thinking “she's my child, I birthed and raised her, so I should be able to use her however I want"? 'Cause if so.... First of all, gross AF, and secondly, getting flashbacks just thinking about that possibility. I hope her daughter understands that none of this is on her, she did not have anything to do with this whatsoever. I wish her the absolute best, she certainly deserves as much.

  • @daniellehughes8693
    @daniellehughes8693 Před 2 měsíci +12

    It’s really heartbreaking for Brian. He was a good guy, who was even trying to protect a girl he thought had been groomed. He just got trapped between two monsters.

  • @LaLuna82
    @LaLuna82 Před 2 měsíci +20

    As a 41yo mother to a 19yo this is absolutely disgusting 🤮 poor Brian 😢

  • @Ariesgirl8403
    @Ariesgirl8403 Před 2 měsíci +140

    Kinda hoping "Tall hot blonde" was an undercover cop...

  • @NoudlePipW
    @NoudlePipW Před 2 měsíci +216

    The second I heard "tall hot blonde" i was like, ok... so *DEFINITELY* not a young, tall, 'hot' blonde🤣

  • @jadeakgun1024
    @jadeakgun1024 Před 2 měsíci +26

    But Imagine how they would’ve reacted if it was a father taking pictures of his daughter ???

  • @alishavillard689
    @alishavillard689 Před 2 měsíci +26

    What a story. They are both despicable. That "mother" is a sorry excuse of a human being. I feel for her daughter and hope she finds the happiness and healing she deserves, far from her egg donor.

  • @mary1412
    @mary1412 Před 2 měsíci +314

    Lemme tell you, I’m 33 and back in the day on AOL and yahoo chat rooms. That ish was insane. All we’d say is “asl?” And people could say WHATEVER and we would talk to them and say all sorts of stuff. I was a preteen-teen and I’m sure I was talking to older people but never even knew. Chat rooms back then were so creepy and crazy. There was no social media… you could just pretend to be anyone and they couldn’t look you up on FB or IG. Gah it’s so crazy how it used to be. So dangerous!!

    • @Camey71073
      @Camey71073 Před 2 měsíci +10

      Second husband was caught sharing cropped old photos of him and I to just him and while I had all 6 kids and my MOTHER on a trip, I came home to find out he had meet women in chat told and Even on the phone.

    • @CarpeNutella
      @CarpeNutella Před 2 měsíci +17

      And why did these people share their real physical address with complete strangers online lol

    • @mary1412
      @mary1412 Před 2 měsíci +20

      @@CarpeNutella people were crazy back then and didn’t realize the danger for real. It was all so new

    • @goodbher9244
      @goodbher9244 Před 2 měsíci +20

      45/T/Fiji
      What's up? 😂

    • @amy-leigh7126
      @amy-leigh7126 Před 2 měsíci +9

      I'm older than you and I relate so much. However, it was very different then. We were "safe" online through dial up (that noise!) we didn't have to be taught not to share personal information. We just knew not to. I worry about my children now. Back then it was so easy, so innocent and nearly everyone in our chat rooms, we knew. Or it was a friend of a friend etc. Ahh easier times!

  • @racheljane_
    @racheljane_ Před 2 měsíci +570

    Tbh I think Mary Sheila is even worse because she was exploiting photos of her OWN DAUGHTER to do this. Whereas Thomas used his own photos from when he was younger.
    Her actions are more gross to me.
    Editing for people who cannot comprehend; I am obviously comparing the two catfishing scenarios here in isolation. When it comes to the catfishing (as stated), Mary’s is worse.

    • @jendee1260
      @jendee1260 Před 2 měsíci +80

      yeah, and then you add onto the fact that after she was warned by his wife, she got off on the joke and continued it even further.

    • @donnasulja6038
      @donnasulja6038 Před 2 měsíci +53

      I agree with you. Mary should be in jail. Except don’t forgot innocent Brian lost his life and a whole family lost their loved one. I have an 19 yr old son and my life would stop without him. It’s a heartbreaking case all around. Very sick and sad.

    • @arbitrary_raspberry
      @arbitrary_raspberry Před 2 měsíci +27

      And she also thought she was talking to an 18 year old boy and catfishing him

    • @LizzyHuntDsm
      @LizzyHuntDsm Před 2 měsíci +1

      Agreed 👍

    • @Erika-pq7ip
      @Erika-pq7ip Před 2 měsíci

      Trueee i agree with you both​@@jendee1260

  • @jaziwatts2882
    @jaziwatts2882 Před 2 měsíci +12

    Thats 2 grown adults acting like they are in middle school.... So not just creepy but incredibly childish and ignorant. I feel so bad for that poor guy, Brian didn't deserve that. It's so sad, people suck! And yet still do this kind of crap daily. And idk why they couldn't charge her because her daughter was a child when she started taking pics without consent.

  • @DarkFire1536
    @DarkFire1536 Před 2 měsíci +7

    Omg Danielle, when you said, "GO AND JOIN AN ART CLASS!" I laughed so hard! 😂 You're awesome!

  • @truthseeker6370
    @truthseeker6370 Před 2 měsíci +133

    Poor Jessie. I can't imagine her shock, dismay and hurt upon learning what her mother had done. Such a betrayal.
    Society has become beyond sinister, corrupt and lacks personal responsibility.

  • @arlenewehrle7007
    @arlenewehrle7007 Před 2 měsíci +98

    The fact that she got away with everything she did blows my mind

  • @violet-jv8ok
    @violet-jv8ok Před 2 měsíci +5

    my mom did the same thing with me, i found out about a year ago and it crushed me, she's very religious and she always called me all sorts of bad names like a sl*t for no reason and she made me believe i was, then i found out she was using my pics online to talk to men and even took pics of me naked and just around the house, i can imagine what jessie felt its horrible

    • @idaliaswietlikowska4468
      @idaliaswietlikowska4468 Před 5 dny +1

      i'm so sorry that this happened to you, it's awful and i can't imagine how you must have felt... i hope you can heal from it

    • @violet-jv8ok
      @violet-jv8ok Před 5 dny

      @@idaliaswietlikowska4468 thank you but it’s okay, at least now i know for sure i dont want her in my life anymore

  • @amanda.j422
    @amanda.j422 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Rest in peace, Brian. 🪦🕊️

  • @evamarie2336
    @evamarie2336 Před 2 měsíci +395

    I seriously give you props for not censoring your language on youtube, thank you. Its so annoying when true crime channels are constantly muting out every other word.

    • @vivianaestremera5381
      @vivianaestremera5381 Před 2 měsíci +22

      I think they do it because CZcams might take down the videos I’m guessing

    • @amberfitz-randolph392
      @amberfitz-randolph392 Před 2 měsíci +19

      Thats not by choice when we do that on youtube or tiktok, certain things get demonetized for bigger creators and even folks like myself doing military stories that DONT earn money ours get removed. I say self-unalive not suicide, killing or homicide instead of murder, SA instead of rape or sexual assault etc. I feel like a moron doing that bc we ALL know exactly wtf im trying to say yep, but if i want to share on certain platforms thats what we got to do.

    • @GerardHavok
      @GerardHavok Před 2 měsíci +6

      That's what I don't get
      Algorithm or to not trigger people
      I immediately think rape and molestation when I hear SA so what's the true difference

    • @beckybodaschweri9215
      @beckybodaschweri9215 Před 2 měsíci +2

      ​​​@@GerardHavok
      "that's what I don't get, algorithm or to not trigger people"
      what? I don't understand your question... Are you asking why do they (CZcams) bother requiring censorship of words like these since they make you think of the other ones you mentioned anyway, so what's the point?

    • @GerardHavok
      @GerardHavok Před 2 měsíci +2

      @beckybodaschweri9215 Yes that's what I meant

  • @wiktoria7430
    @wiktoria7430 Před 2 měsíci +125

    I literally screamed when you revealed that twist halfway through... like genuinely screamed/ gasped and laughed with disbelief, like what?? how??? what is wrong with people

    • @carolbelyeu8748
      @carolbelyeu8748 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Same!

    • @wiktoria7430
      @wiktoria7430 Před 2 měsíci

      @@carolbelyeu8748 it was so funny because when I put on the video I asked my boyfriend if he wanted to watch it with me and he said no, and after my reaction he came running over :')

    • @rosesanders1972
      @rosesanders1972 Před 2 měsíci +4

      In the beginning I was thinking it was maybe going to be his wife or one of his daughters, not knowing it was him 😅 until she said he sent younger pics of himself. Whew this video has been a rollercoaster ride

    • @wiktoria7430
      @wiktoria7430 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@rosesanders1972 rollercoaster ride is the best way to describe it, it sounds like something out of a psychological horror movie honestly

    • @Annie-pu9cg
      @Annie-pu9cg Před 2 měsíci +3

      I guessed that "Jessie" was also a catfish but the fact that it was her own mom using her identity and putting her in so much danger sharing her address and everything absolutely floored me. I feel so sorry for that poor girl, I can't imagine how horrified and betrayed she felt when she found out.

  • @SuzanneCasey-dx4qo
    @SuzanneCasey-dx4qo Před 2 měsíci +10

    Omg wait a minute was she stealing her daughter’s underwear and sending them too? 🤢 this case is just disgusting

    • @kritzkrieg14
      @kritzkrieg14 Před měsícem

      I'm not sure if it was hers of her daughter undies. I really hope it wasn't her daughter's.

    • @keeperofthe7keys1987
      @keeperofthe7keys1987 Před měsícem +1

      @@kritzkrieg14I think he’d know if it was Mary’s undies. I mean, they’d be considerably larger.

  • @eastcoastbabe97
    @eastcoastbabe97 Před 2 měsíci +1

    This whole case is wild. I graduated high school from the same school as Jessie. I'm a few years younger. Jessie is married now & lives a quiet life elsewhere. She deserves that & to heal. As for her mother, I have no idea as to what happened to her.

  • @ash_tray
    @ash_tray Před 2 měsíci +211

    It’s actually so infuriating that the two most innocent people in this case were the ones hurt the most. Brian was the only one being himself in this, the only one telling the truth about who he was, but he died. And then, Jessi, I can’t imagine how fucking traumatized she is knowing not only that her mother did all of this terrible stuff pretending to be her but because a man LITERALLY DIED for her pictures. And then also, so many random men over the Internet now have her intimate photos, some of which she didn’t even know were being taken. It is so messed up in so many ways and I’m just so heartbroken for Jessi, her dad, “Tommy”s family and Brian’s loved ones.
    These childish, horny ass losers deserve each other, and I wish that they would have just found each other for who they really were instead of dragging everybody else into their bullshit.

  • @rooroo1704
    @rooroo1704 Před 2 měsíci +73

    Brian didn't even get to know who he lost his life for. At his last moment he thought he was being murdered for Jessie. He'll forever be completely cluless. It's unfair and sad.

    • @andreanikcole6449
      @andreanikcole6449 Před 2 měsíci +8

      He knows now in the big picture. Poor guy though. Hope he's doing good in heaven.

  • @zombiechicken7114
    @zombiechicken7114 Před měsícem +4

    How lovely was Cindy to try to help Jessie. Her own mother pimped her out online and yet a stranger having found out her husband was having an affair, just wanted to save the young woman. Poor Jessie.

  • @samanthahunter1759
    @samanthahunter1759 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Rip Brian and i hope Jessie is living her best life now

  • @yoonqie8731
    @yoonqie8731 Před 2 měsíci +285

    Connected my switch to my tv, playing Dreamlight valley, surrounded by my cats, and waiting for my Chinese food. This episode is going to hit perfectly 🫶🏼

    • @snowy9971
      @snowy9971 Před 2 měsíci +32

      You are living the life, my friend.

    • @stevenellison3128
      @stevenellison3128 Před 2 měsíci +10

      God that sounds amazing

    • @emmacollom4336
      @emmacollom4336 Před 2 měsíci +10

      My cats also watch with me I think they like her voice 🤣😂

    • @AuntyLeelee
      @AuntyLeelee Před 2 měsíci +5

      Sounds like my kind of night! Top notch my friend! 😊

    • @GrimzyShake
      @GrimzyShake Před 2 měsíci +5

      You’ve got it all figured out my friend!

  • @dionnedevillierssmith9582
    @dionnedevillierssmith9582 Před 2 měsíci +66

    How sad this is. Two young people’s lives destroyed for what? They’re bored??? We are so doomed. Thoughts to Brian and his family, and to Jessie. I hope she can get the help she needs to recover from this. ❤

    • @pinkfeet518
      @pinkfeet518 Před 2 měsíci +1

      literally because they were bored and horny 🙄 i don’t understand how the mom couldn’t be charged

  • @caitlin6273
    @caitlin6273 Před 2 měsíci +2

    So confused as to why the police didn't inform Jessie of the situation, considering she was living with someone who had been taking advantage of her and putting her life at risk.🧐 Plus, the fact that other men had been deceived and had knowledge of her address then it still put her at risk, as who knows what Mary was saying to these other men!! 😡
    Mary 100% should have been held accountable for her actions that led to the murder of Brian and for causing lifelong trauma to everyone involved in this case.
    ❤❤Also, Danielle, your coverage of cases is top-notch!❤❤

  • @amelia_xx4037
    @amelia_xx4037 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Completely unrelated but I love how Danielle matches her makeup to her nails every time it’s so aesthetically pleasing

  • @VB-lc4xz
    @VB-lc4xz Před 2 měsíci +41

    Two old perverts killed a kid... So sad!!!

  • @beataszoboszlai7920
    @beataszoboszlai7920 Před 2 měsíci +74

    Mary should be sitting in jail.There has to be a punishment for preedators like her - abusing and using her own daughter! Her actions are truly criminal. I hope her daughter and husband can have a normal and happy life after the chaos that Mary has created. Thomas did not get enough time in jail and he also wrecked his wife and childrens' life. Not to mention the pain that he inflicted on Brian's family by killing him. That pain will never leave his family. Thomas deserves to rot in jail. But no, he'll be out after 20 years and Mary was never really punished. It is all so unfair.Two very sick people that left nothing but pain in their wake for others to have to try to rebuild the lives that were absolutely destroyed by these two monsters. This case makes me so angry and sad Danielle. I can't stop writing. Sorry, I am just destroyed thinking about the innocent people that became the victims of these two morally depraved subhumans.

  • @nidasayyed6723
    @nidasayyed6723 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Bruh imagine sending images of your daughter to creepy men and watching them enjoy and drool over her OWN DAUGHTER!! I don’t wish something like this on my worst enemy.

  • @roxannemoreno
    @roxannemoreno Před 2 měsíci +3

    This case literally blows my mind!! I can’t believe I’ve never heard of this case before. Thank you Danielle for your amazing story telling! I just stumbled across your channel and Im binging all the cases❤️

  • @kairi982
    @kairi982 Před 2 měsíci +24

    There’s an episode in the show Catfish, that a mother plays a video game online with a kid and keeps a relationship with this kid for years. He grows up and asks Catfish producers to help him find out who the “gamer girl” he met online was. Then he finds out all this about this woman using her daughter’s photos also.

    • @aishaibrahim2795
      @aishaibrahim2795 Před 2 měsíci +5

      I have also come across that episode , so sad 😢

  • @nikolaa1625
    @nikolaa1625 Před 2 měsíci +73

    Why in the world would you send compromising photos of your baby to other people?! I know she was a teenager and I’m not a mom, but I imagine your child will always be your baby in your eyes, you’ll always do everything to protect them, at least that’s what I imagine a good mom would do. What Mary did is so sickening and sending messages to an almost 50 years old man, when Mary knew very well he was 50…
    And also how can Thomas threaten someone, who he thinks is his daughter’s age, he’ll send people to rape her?!

    • @lemonielala3080
      @lemonielala3080 Před 2 měsíci +12

      I have two teenagers and a pre-teen and yes, they are and will always be my babies. A normal person would not even contemplate doing something like that to their children. Mary is VILE.

  • @DebraThomas-bj5es
    @DebraThomas-bj5es Před 2 měsíci +2

    This is so sick,why would anyone put their own child in such danger? And I believe that both of them should be locked up forever for causing the death of an innocent young man that had no idea what was going on. SMH, so so sad...

  • @staceymarie5125
    @staceymarie5125 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I’ve heard this story so many times but you’re the first to explain it from Thomas perception first, you’ve done this so well

  • @montanagirl3835
    @montanagirl3835 Před 2 měsíci +62

    As a mom to two daughters, this is especially sick to me… I can’t imagine even thinking of flirting with somebody if my daughters’ images were involved.

  • @KathiLou1980
    @KathiLou1980 Před 2 měsíci +56

    Mary should be in jail. She set this all in motion and is sick as. ..

  • @FaithinChrist3x
    @FaithinChrist3x Před 2 měsíci +2

    Ironically, these two truly belong together. Both liars. One lacking morals enough to abuse her own daughter and not care about threats. The other lacking morals to go after an underaged kid and murdering another kid. The perfect match. Sad that a child had to loose his life in between

  • @LetsBeCivilShallWe
    @LetsBeCivilShallWe Před 2 měsíci +1

    Danielle, you did an amazing job telling this story, in fact, I don’t think anyone else could have told it as well as you did. Catfishing, double-cross catfishing (I made that up), internet love triangles, stolen identities and coworkers falling for the same catfisher in a different state?! I resigned myself to possibly not finishing this one due to sheer confusion. Instead, I was almost literally on the edge of my seat, went through an entire can of Pringles and a full bottle of soda, and was enthralled the entire time. Kudos!

  • @limiwa
    @limiwa Před 2 měsíci +75

    Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. This case is wild. As the mom of a teen daughter I can't imagine doing that to her. The whole time listening I was afraid I was going to hear the daughter was also murdered. Poor Brian. And Mary really should have served some time.

    • @anonymoose116
      @anonymoose116 Před 2 měsíci +5

      I have 4 kids, two of which are young teens.
      I'd be out for blood if I found a grown ass man talking to them online. I couldn't imagine putting my own child at risk like this.

  • @samanthaokeeffe1181
    @samanthaokeeffe1181 Před 2 měsíci +27

    How the hell is Mary not in prison for the distribution of child p***ography? That makes me sick! 😢

  • @oldsoul2701
    @oldsoul2701 Před 2 měsíci +2

    All i could do was shake my head throughout this video.
    Absolutely sickening.
    Thank you Danielle.

  • @AndiLovesMolly
    @AndiLovesMolly Před 2 měsíci +1

    This is one of the best videos on CZcams. Aside from the one very sad and horrible tragedy, I was cracking up. Love the way you told this-- perfection. I was riveted and laughing the entire time. Excellent.

  • @constanzaflv
    @constanzaflv Před 2 měsíci +87

    I have to say I almost died laughing when you were reading the “sexy” chats between the couple of creeps 🤣🤣

    • @user-oz9lt1zv5k
      @user-oz9lt1zv5k Před 2 měsíci +9

      The level of secondhand cringe was insane 😂

  • @baileyobrien8045
    @baileyobrien8045 Před 2 měsíci +121

    this case is always mind BLOWING. will never get over it.

    • @Morbid.Injustice
      @Morbid.Injustice Před 2 měsíci +6

      My first time hearing it!!

    • @red-xpn
      @red-xpn Před 2 měsíci +3

      i was so excited when i saw it even watched the movie about it

    • @ytrewq12345
      @ytrewq12345 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Sorry, I'm more baffled by your justice system.
      A teen kills people and dies, his father gets arrested because the teen uses his gun. But a mother pimps his daughter online, a dude died, and is fine.
      🙌

  • @krissybee123
    @krissybee123 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I recently watched an episode of Catfish that was similar to this. No murder was involved, but a guy thought he was talking to some girl and it turned out it was actually the girl’s mom pretending to be her. She would send him explicit photos that she stole from her daughter and even take secret photos of her daughter while she was sleeping. The fact that there are actually people like this is so disgusting.

  • @siriuslysami
    @siriuslysami Před 2 měsíci +1

    I hope you’re feeling better Danielle! You sound so much better this week! Thank you for covering another case for us!!! This case is crazy!! Can’t wait for next week!

  • @kyraschultz4836
    @kyraschultz4836 Před 2 měsíci +36

    U said "she sent multiple g strings" and I was like "where is her mother" OH 😅 absolutely foul

  • @Julianne11227
    @Julianne11227 Před 2 měsíci +23

    How did Thomas only get 20 years for murder?? And mommy dearest Mary didn’t get charged with anything??! Unbelievable...thank you Danielle...you are one of the best CZcams content creators!! 👏 🎉❤

  • @_bluephoenix_
    @_bluephoenix_ Před 2 měsíci +1

    This just highlights for me that even when two narcissists play each other - there are always innocent people that get caught up in the manipulation. I feel so much for the families of these two selfish pos.

  • @annahbell1229
    @annahbell1229 Před 2 měsíci

    There are such sick people in this world. Who does that to their own child? Absolutely disgusting.

  • @mickeylombardo1529
    @mickeylombardo1529 Před 2 měsíci +28

    That dude is 45??!!! I'm currently 45 and he looks 20 years older than me.......🤮
    As a mother of a teenage daughter, I am horrified.

    • @melissamoonchild9216
      @melissamoonchild9216 Před 2 měsíci +2

      yeah he looks awful. I mean not to just mean about someone's appearance but he aged really poorly

    • @mickeylombardo1529
      @mickeylombardo1529 Před 2 měsíci +3

      @melissamoonchild9216 I feel being mean is justified in this case .....

  • @infinitygirl92
    @infinitygirl92 Před 2 měsíci +30

    The fact that Mary got away with it is disgusting. She's a child predator, at the least. Jessie was a minor when she started to exploit her. Why is that not a crime in the police's minds? Taking explicit photos of a minor without their consent is harassment too. I hope Jessie is doing ok now and she's in a better place. I can't imagine how it would feel to be betrayed like that by your own mother.

  • @lamb92
    @lamb92 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Only recently discovered your channel and am completely hooked. You go into such detail that I always learn something new and watching you apply your beautiful make up is mesmerising. Would like to see you do the Mitchelle Blair case, the Edlington Brothers case and the Adelaide "Family" Murders as I haven't seen much on any of these. Can't wait until Sunday!

  • @carolinalogan
    @carolinalogan Před 2 měsíci +1

    so good to see you this week, danielle! hope you’re on the mend + feeling better 🫶🏻

  • @crazydaisyog3984
    @crazydaisyog3984 Před 2 měsíci +49

    This case was so insane, I remember an old movie about this. You told it better. I cannot believe Mary didn't get charged with anything!! Tom is a sickening creature, 20yrs is not enough. Brian lost his life over 2 middle-aged psychos, pathological liars. Jessie is also a victim of this heinous crime. How horrible she found out by reading an article about it!! Her "mom" betrayed her and preyed on her in so many ways. She left Jessie so much trauma to deal with. 💔

    • @georgecyp.4581
      @georgecyp.4581 Před 2 měsíci

      Yes,it was a Hitchcock story, no ? Catfishing has been around since the beginning of time, starting with Jacob! New technology just makes it easier!

    • @crazydaisyog3984
      @crazydaisyog3984 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@georgecyp.4581 no I think it was a movie on the lifetime channel.

  • @karencooper3428
    @karencooper3428 Před 2 měsíci +187

    We're calling him out, but Mary is a million times worse

    • @yianna147
      @yianna147 Před 2 měsíci +18

      I agree. He’s obviously a predator but Mary is on another level. I wouldn’t be surprised to find out she’s still doing stuff like this.

    • @goodbher9244
      @goodbher9244 Před 2 měsíci +11

      They both got called out. The only good people in this story are Cindy and the daughter (who were both not involved).
      It should be a crime to use your underaged daughters pictures for weird sex shit online.

    • @fleacythesheepgirl
      @fleacythesheepgirl Před 2 měsíci +9

      Big nope 👎🏼 Murder is much worse!

    • @bigbootyboy420
      @bigbootyboy420 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@goodbher9244Wb poor Brian

    • @alexisandrews216
      @alexisandrews216 Před 2 měsíci +10

      I’m tired of seeing this comment. Murder is objectively worse than using someone’s pictures online.

  • @pavlovasupernova1013
    @pavlovasupernova1013 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Oh no... those cybersex bits we're very disturbing. Props on your for going the distance for us to enjoy your story telling even more!

  • @pixiepunk25
    @pixiepunk25 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Poor Bryan. Such a good-looking kind young man.

  • @YoUrcr34t0r.13
    @YoUrcr34t0r.13 Před 2 měsíci +13

    Rest in heaven Brian you didn’t deserve this 🕊️

  • @milly-te2tq
    @milly-te2tq Před 2 měsíci +80

    my grandad died today and i’m currently in the middle of a messy split with my baby daddy, it’s little things like this that take my mind off all the shit in my life right now

    • @shitneyb5562
      @shitneyb5562 Před 2 měsíci +5

      Are you okay?

    • @annaelizabzth
      @annaelizabzth Před 2 měsíci +2

      Sending you good vibes 🤍

    • @kinzeesh
      @kinzeesh Před 2 měsíci +2

      🙏🕯🫂 sorry to hear about your troubles... I hope you have loving support around you. Breathe. Allow yourself to grieve in your own time. Peace and love 💕

    • @djsioux2265
      @djsioux2265 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Sending love ❤

    • @rosyvilla6141
      @rosyvilla6141 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I send you a big hug. My condolences.

  • @Nobody-s824
    @Nobody-s824 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Danielle is getting so close to 1M subs!

  • @skynrbec
    @skynrbec Před 2 měsíci +1

    You did so well at getting all the details out for this case and making it easy enough to follow still! What a pro 🙌🏼

  • @dummysoup
    @dummysoup Před 2 měsíci +22

    So two predators were talking to each other thinking they were talking to 17-18 year olds tf

  • @crystalstone4071
    @crystalstone4071 Před 2 měsíci +29

    I can't believe her mom exploited her like that and didn't get any charges whatsoever that is absolutely disgusting and it sickens me and I understand why this case gave you a headache because it did me to you what the hell

  • @psychokittyletsplayandmore8589
    @psychokittyletsplayandmore8589 Před 2 měsíci +1

    This case made me really sad. Brian looked like a really good guy and I am worried about the cat in the picture. It was just so senseless! That poor man and that poor girl, Jesse. 😔

  • @user-cn4wp1ht3x
    @user-cn4wp1ht3x Před 2 měsíci +1

    😢 Danielle, outstanding 👏 coverage of this horrific case! My ❤ heart and prayers are with Brian and his family as well as Jesse and her rough road to recovery 🙏. You've outdone yourself my friend! ❤ As always, love you and look forward to your next video!

  • @elannatoughill2780
    @elannatoughill2780 Před 2 měsíci +33

    I appreciate your reading of the explicit chat logs out loud 😂 had me rolling and laughing. You always go the extra mile!

    • @DeniseM9077
      @DeniseM9077 Před 2 měsíci +1

      😂 I felt so bad for her having to read that garbage

  • @tinishiacarter7062
    @tinishiacarter7062 Před 2 měsíci +66

    When I say I RAN to this upload!! The only thing getting me through my 2000 word essay 😂

    • @baileyjade9296
      @baileyjade9296 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Sammmeeeee

    • @dionnedevillierssmith9582
      @dionnedevillierssmith9582 Před 2 měsíci +4

      Ah yes, the subtle art of procrastination… I know it well.

    • @rachelrae860
      @rachelrae860 Před 2 měsíci

      I'm so sad I missed her upload but watching now. Tanisha you literally made me laugh out loud 😂😂😂. I'm sorry I know I didn't spell your name right so I'm so sorry

  • @courtneybrowning1357
    @courtneybrowning1357 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Your hair looks amazing! I hope you're feeling better, thankyou for your hard work ❤

  • @JupiterN624
    @JupiterN624 Před 2 měsíci

    I so appreciate that you do not make excuses for these monsters. You call them out on their perversion. Wrong is wrong.

  • @Tm-nh8vg
    @Tm-nh8vg Před 2 měsíci +25

    My jaw dropped when you revealed the twist. I did not see that coming at all! This case is mind blowing beyond belief🤯

  • @sandydee8148
    @sandydee8148 Před 2 měsíci +22

    This case also gave me a headache half way through! Not from your story-telling, Danielle, but from these absolutely psychotic people! Poor 'real' Jesse, I can't imagine this for a second. She lost her mom & probably trust in people in general. I also feel terrible for Brian & HIS family, my son's not too much older than Brian. This case sickens me. Great job covering it, Danielle, what a ride this one was! ❤

  • @rightshoe21
    @rightshoe21 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Holy bananas ! This story is bonkers 😳😳😳

  • @jennifertwede7142
    @jennifertwede7142 Před 2 měsíci +82

    I’m a fairly new, now obsessed listener! I love your unique touch and all the work you put into your cases ❤ Oh, and now at age 50, I’ve enjoyed learning and putting into practice new make up techniques, and the compliments have been coming since, so thank you for teaching this old dog new tricks! ☺️

    • @shitneyb5562
      @shitneyb5562 Před 2 měsíci +3

      You look incredible

    • @nemaaniw7652
      @nemaaniw7652 Před 2 měsíci +3

      so gorgeous omg

    • @ktrudy1
      @ktrudy1 Před 2 měsíci +4

      Same here girl I’m 51. If we only had CZcams in the 80s. lol

    • @ihaterhiannon
      @ihaterhiannon Před 2 měsíci +2

      omg you look so beautiful!!!❤

  • @kaileymo
    @kaileymo Před 2 měsíci +73

    No 17yo refers to themselves as “tall hot blonde”

    • @starlinguk
      @starlinguk Před 2 měsíci +2

      They absolutely do. A former friend of mine was arrested for having sexually explicit conversations with children online (a 14 and a 15-year old). He said the girls told him that they were adults and that they were very explicit, and the data and conversations they found on the server proved it. I mean, the guy was absolutely in the wrong (he had a wife and child), but these girls had catfished him. Teens can be rather raunchy.

    • @smuglumine9379
      @smuglumine9379 Před měsícem

      ​@@starlinguk i agree some teens are so unhinged on the internet😭 i(17) like making friends online and this one girl who is 14 kept trying to make the convo sexual and it was so weird like ..??? I said im too old for her to talk to me like that and she said "thats even better" i cant even make this up. She kept trying to hit on me so i just blocked💀💀

  • @cm_zima
    @cm_zima Před 2 měsíci

    OMG! I cannot believe that a mother would do such a thing. My heart goes to Jessie and I hope that she is safe and well.
    And poor Brian was involved in this sick and twisted online relationship and lost his precious life for nothing. I hope his family is okay and that they found peace.
    Thanks Danielle for your hard work, lots of love and support!

  • @jaxdisanto2059
    @jaxdisanto2059 Před 2 měsíci +13

    I just turned 18 and if I found out all this stuff about me was online because of my very own mother, lets just say she wouldnt have ANY online privacy either. I cannot believe that Mary would do something like this, I think she should have been charged with at the very least endangerment of a minor.