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  • @DanielleKirsty11
    @DanielleKirsty11  Před 3 měsíci +1244

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    • @sarahn7068
      @sarahn7068 Před 3 měsíci +17

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      @MissGucci.x Před 3 měsíci +7

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    • @yorkiegrit
      @yorkiegrit Před 3 měsíci +8

      Thank you so much for your hard work! We appreciate you! ❤🎉

    • @Isla008
      @Isla008 Před 3 měsíci +23

      hey danielle!
      ive requested this case lots of times but please cover the case of my cousin - glen corner (from south shields)
      he was murdered on his 16th birthday trying to protect his friend. it is so sad but i think it is so important to raise awareness of knife crime in teens.
      i really hope you see this!!!!!!🙏
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      @abercrombiebrd02 Před 3 měsíci +1

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  • @adoeandfawn
    @adoeandfawn Před 3 měsíci +971

    Toilet paper, warm coats, hygiene, and food are literally her job to provide. They are not privileges to be earned. Every child deserves these things.

    • @technolemonade
      @technolemonade Před 2 měsíci +28

      the coat thing really irritated me. an appropriate consequence would, at most, be doing a small extra chore to make up for the added errand for mom/dad-i personally would just make sure they understood and were thankful for the privilege they have to be able to get a new coat and go skiing

    • @nuyd
      @nuyd Před 2 měsíci +31

      YEa especially when it's the kids who earned their money coz obviously she monetized her kids and she's NOTHING AND EARNED NOTHING without her cute children.

    • @adoeandfawn
      @adoeandfawn Před 2 měsíci +7

      @@nuyd so true

    • @Proverbs31Ministries222
      @Proverbs31Ministries222 Před 2 měsíci +2

      👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

    • @LeahDyson-kq4bd
      @LeahDyson-kq4bd Před 18 dny +2

      ​@@technolemonadecoat thing made my mind go to the no wire hanger thing in mommy dearest lol

  • @fr0zenmunky
    @fr0zenmunky Před 3 měsíci +1094

    My wife and I have been through 2 failed fertility treatments, a miscarriage and 20k worth of our life savings trying to start a family. It makes me sick that wastes like her get to have 6 beautiful children, just for her to abuse them, it's disgusting.

    • @shondacasselman1979
      @shondacasselman1979 Před 3 měsíci +52

      Keep your chin up it will happen. I never thought I would have children of my own. I am now the mommy of the most sweetest beautiful 6 year old boy who is the apple of my eye. I don't know what I would do without him. I'm so thankful he chose me to be his mommy. My prays are with you as you continue to try and have a baby. Much love to you both. ❤️❤️💋💋💋💋🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

    • @Anavaami
      @Anavaami Před 3 měsíci +34

      Best of luck you two; luck will smile at you guys soon in shaa Allah.

    • @jendee1260
      @jendee1260 Před 3 měsíci +10

      it costs a lot more than 20g to maintain the life of a being.
      good luck!
      🍀🤍

    • @devynhayley6411
      @devynhayley6411 Před 3 měsíci +30

      The world is not fair and is horrible. I’m so sorry! I was adopted and I think it’s super amazing to give kids who may end up abused the life they deserve by adopting

    • @edanridge3023
      @edanridge3023 Před 3 měsíci +24

      Have you thought of adoption?

  • @anitaevanger8068
    @anitaevanger8068 Před 3 měsíci +465

    She was screaming that the principal didnt protect kids from a song..... lady what you did to the kids was 1000x worse then the song.

    • @sandrastribling9397
      @sandrastribling9397 Před 2 měsíci +25

      I was thinking this too! She’s over here crying over a song that the principal purposely edited to not be inappropriate. And she has the audacity to say “you will pay for this” “because what you’ve done is sickening”
      Like WHAT she takes plenty of selfies, does she not have a mirror? Does she genuinely think she’s a great mom? Makes me so upset and sad for the children.

  • @spokenme08
    @spokenme08 Před 3 měsíci +467

    The fact that they sent Chad to the abusive troubled teens camp and preferred being there over being home and he gained weight which is uncommon.That is a big flashing red flag.not to mention the LDS influence.

    • @coffeecrimegal5968
      @coffeecrimegal5968 Před 2 měsíci +10

      There a huge difference between the LDS & The FLDS and Jeff Warrens!

    • @user-bn2st5kx8h
      @user-bn2st5kx8h Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@coffeecrimegal5968yes but still...and she eventually ended up at this psychologist the church send ppl to..who thought nit believing in God. Masturbation.drinkinng alcohol are sins and soul rape

    • @satinbeesade1654
      @satinbeesade1654 Před měsícem +1

      The LDS ( Mormon Religion) did not have one thing to do with this!

    • @fantasea114
      @fantasea114 Před 16 dny +3

      @@satinbeesade1654Maybe not but i know a lot of LDS members that mistreat their children.

    • @thisisausername.595
      @thisisausername.595 Před 4 dny

      @@satinbeesade1654why are there so many lds abuse cases in recent years hm?

  • @nicoleschoen3043
    @nicoleschoen3043 Před 3 měsíci +1845

    Her laughing because she’s “stalling” in taking her daughter to the ER is sickening. Cleaning the bathroom? What a monster.

    • @katattack907
      @katattack907 Před 3 měsíci +90

      I'm so confused about how she justified those actions to herself and her followers. She's literally admitting to stalling for time before she takes her child to the hospital. Why?? What?

    • @allidolnet429
      @allidolnet429 Před 3 měsíci +18

      There aren’t adequate words in the English language to accurately describe these 2 ,extreme “parenting “ to a whole new level.

    • @srrealism1530
      @srrealism1530 Před 3 měsíci +59

      That is what true sadism looks like. Taking joy and pleasure from causing or prolonging suffering.

    • @Summer09824
      @Summer09824 Před 3 měsíci +16

      It’s beyond bizarre behaviour esp for a mother..

    • @mestillme3026
      @mestillme3026 Před 3 měsíci +37

      My mother is also a narcissist. Narcissists have a thing about not providing their kids with medical care. The only reason my mother would ever take us to the doctors is because someone else told her to. Even then she'd stall as long as possible until she's satisfied that she's made us sweat for long enough. Ruby is a narcissist with extreme control issues.

  • @6crazycats
    @6crazycats Před 3 měsíci +1681

    The father should be arrested too for leaving the kids with those monsters. Total neglect on his part too.

    • @heiginn
      @heiginn Před 3 měsíci +66

      seeing the kind of mentality and parenting they build up I think his mindset is that the mother takes care of the children 😅 so he doesn't even keep himself accountable

    • @TheMeloettaful
      @TheMeloettaful Před 3 měsíci +73

      Totally agree 100%! Where the hell was he in all of this during Ruby & Jodi's horror show involving HIS KIDS 🤬!! Does he really get to walk away from this scott free no consequences???

    • @Grogu01
      @Grogu01 Před 3 měsíci +54

      @@TheMeloettafulthat’s exactly what I’m thinking where the f *%%£^ was rhe dad??? A real man would have demanded to see his children or call the police is she denied him

    • @courtney9899
      @courtney9899 Před 3 měsíci +41

      He was 100% an accomplice bc he did nothing abt it

    • @hannah3146
      @hannah3146 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@TheMeloettafulnope but probably enjoying all that YT money! Alot of white men espeically get away with alot

  • @yangiemouie
    @yangiemouie Před 3 měsíci +277

    This is crazy, as a full-grown 38 year old woman, I’ve forgotten my own lunches at home, my jacket at work, etc. it’s ridiculous to expect so much from young children when adults are fully able to make the same mistakes.
    Also, the father needs to be held
    accountable as well. It is always HIS responsibility to keep
    his children safe.

  • @gamingweasel4633
    @gamingweasel4633 Před 3 měsíci +117

    As someone who's always been introverted, forcing your kids to be on camera nearly 24/7 seems like abuse to me.

    • @TsundeRea
      @TsundeRea Před měsícem +9

      It is. Family blog channels shouldn’t be allowed. Children can’t consent to it and it’s harmful as we’ve seen time and time again.

    • @Rebecca_Bailey
      @Rebecca_Bailey Před 29 dny +3

      I’m extremely introverted as well, I don’t put my daughter on camera and if I do, I definitely don’t show it to the world because I’m not going to exploit her like that, I will wait until she is old enough and able to give permission before doing that sort of thing

  • @boobburger
    @boobburger Před 3 měsíci +1125

    the neighbour crying on the phone, what a kind and caring man, i hope he gets everything he's ever wished for.

    • @shiannecostello6228
      @shiannecostello6228 Před 3 měsíci +74

      I had been holding it together pretty well until I heard the neighbor's voice crack and start crying.

    • @DenGirl12
      @DenGirl12 Před 3 měsíci +31

      A truly genuine man. ❤

    • @jenniferrivera1265
      @jenniferrivera1265 Před 3 měsíci +21

      Yes heart breaking 💔

    • @shellthorpe9817
      @shellthorpe9817 Před 3 měsíci +19

      He seriously had me in tears too. You could tell seeing that boy role his heart

    • @dianamgallagher
      @dianamgallagher Před 3 měsíci +29

      That guy was heart broken, Russell went to the right stranger for sure.

  • @justsobrandi1142
    @justsobrandi1142 Před 3 měsíci +1338

    She literally filmed herself being a horrible parent.

    • @lethamullins125
      @lethamullins125 Před 3 měsíci +35

      Yeah, it's soooo bad. Narcissistic/abusive mothers somehow seem to get away with it way too often. My mom did a lot of these same things, or versions of them when I was growing up. For example - I was responsible for how I ate and how fat I was in a house where I had to feed myself from her kitchen stocked FULL of trash food. She wrapped me in saran wrap, put a jogging outfit over me, and put me on the trampoline to jump for 30 minutes. She removed the latter and stood there timing me...while on the phone with her friends telling them everything...AS SHE ALWAYS DID. I'm not saying "Look at me," I already had my time to recover from all of this the best I could... I'm just another example, except I lived... but I'm not really alive, to be honest. So many children have life ripped out of them and then are expected to function after literal TORTURE. I hate this planet.

    • @sierram5458
      @sierram5458 Před 3 měsíci +14

      ​@@lethamullins125 I'm so sorry to hear about the abuse you endured. I wish you so much happiness and healing😊

    • @lethamullins125
      @lethamullins125 Před 3 měsíci +3

      @@sierram5458 Thank you, love

    • @oceanwater2wave
      @oceanwater2wave Před 3 měsíci +9

      She had millions watching her?
      Scary as hell!

    • @LauraOfTheValley
      @LauraOfTheValley Před 3 měsíci +6

      Still boggles my mind that she documented herself behaving this way.

  • @Dubhaltagh
    @Dubhaltagh Před 3 měsíci +69

    the wall sitting is LITERALLY a torture tactic used in North Korean prison camps. Truly despicable..

  • @nadineschmitt-horlock706
    @nadineschmitt-horlock706 Před 3 měsíci +49

    One time in 3rd grade I kept forgetting my lunch. Not on purpose, I just kept forgetting it on the counter. After the 3rd time, my mom said since I forgot it I wouldn’t get lunch that day. So when lunch time came, I sat in the cafeteria and didn’t eat. As I was coming back to class, my mom came up to me and gave me a slice of pizza so I could eat something. I didn’t go hungry but I learned my lesson and never forgot my lunch again. The huge difference is I was 9, not 5 and had been packing my own lunch for about a year at that point. Forcing a 5 year old to provide for themselves in that way is unrealistic and cruel.

  • @Ceciel_
    @Ceciel_ Před 3 měsíci +1484

    The poor kids saying ‘I don’t have any friends’ is heartbreaking

    • @user-bj2ub8tv1d
      @user-bj2ub8tv1d Před 3 měsíci +68

      when Chad said that he just told his friends to not hang out with him anymore :( he most likely didnt see the point of making sure they were still in his life

    • @Alicia_the_short1
      @Alicia_the_short1 Před 3 měsíci +19

      It is. I'm wondering how many friends the kids lost..

    • @tinkercat8268
      @tinkercat8268 Před 3 měsíci +21

      her lack of response to that revelation was very telling

    • @irishhoopers6899
      @irishhoopers6899 Před 2 měsíci +7

      Social skills are so important for young people, friends are such an important part of growing up, they shape your memories and how you grow. That was robbed from all of her kids and replaced with guilt and shame, she doesn't deserve kids.

    • @Ceciel_
      @Ceciel_ Před měsícem +4

      @@irishhoopers6899 Covid was bad enough for everyone, so I can't even imagine how they must've felt...

  • @sarahklein4268
    @sarahklein4268 Před 3 měsíci +767

    Russell is a hero. He was so scared and so brainwashed into thinking it was all his fault and yet he was still brave enough to get out. At 12 years old, he saved himself and his sister when no one else would. He is a HERO. All I want is for those kids to recover to the best of their ability and go on to live a peaceful, comfortable life. They deserve nothing but peace and happiness. I hope they find that some day.

    • @Velvettyy_
      @Velvettyy_ Před 3 měsíci +42

      the fact that Russell did more to save himself and his sister than the adults (not counting Shari bc she did try to help them too) in their lives who failed them is just sad

    • @lizardog
      @lizardog Před 3 měsíci +9

      Your comment convinced me to continue watching past the halfway point.

    • @nguyenkh2002
      @nguyenkh2002 Před 3 měsíci +13

      Especially considering the fact they hogtied him and probably beat him after he ran away the first time. He knew what would happen if he tried again, but he still did it for his sister.

    • @John_36
      @John_36 Před 3 měsíci +3

      ​@@Velvettyy_ I don't think they could. I think they are so broken that they were not able to do this

    • @solitarymystic4672
      @solitarymystic4672 Před 2 měsíci +3

      He is! Sweet boy ❤

  • @olenahartzler2897
    @olenahartzler2897 Před 3 měsíci +62

    My Parents adopted me and my sisters from Ukraine. My parents took parenting advice from Jodi too. We were treated the same way as Ruby treated her kids. They would also punish us for years for the smallest things, for one instance I made my mom 15 minutes late to work, and she took 45 dollars from me and made me do all my mom's chores for a whole year. When I got home they would make us sit facing the wall with hands hands interwined and siting criscross apple sauce position for hours. So many other thing. Jodi ruined our family. Before all this, being with my family was bearable. After this, me and my sisters started to hate our parents. at age 18 my parents kicked me out and kept all my money. when I called cops on them, they just used PTSD and Depression and adoption against me. They told everyone I ran away. It isnt true. I was homeless for 2 years. Finally am getting on my feet. Jodi praises parents and does everthing she can to destrong kids. ME and my sisters have nothing to do with our parents. ALSO my parents would also VIDEO us getting punished and shamed, then share it with family and friends.

    • @ambriannafreeze504
      @ambriannafreeze504 Před 2 měsíci +12

      I’m so proud of you for getting out of that situation!!! It sounds awful and I hope they’re held accountable someday. Are your sisters safe?

    • @Sof_rha
      @Sof_rha Před měsícem +4

      I’m so sorry and I hope you and your siblings are doing better now❤

    • @kateyoung7929
      @kateyoung7929 Před 16 dny +2

      I will never understand why someone would adopt/foster kids if they seem to hate them.

  • @laurasimmer9612
    @laurasimmer9612 Před 3 měsíci +98

    How did these women have MILLIONS of subscribers??? There were just so many RED FLAGS.... makes you wonder how many parents treat their kids the same way behind closed doors & think its okay

    • @psychicrenegade
      @psychicrenegade Před měsícem +1

      I only watched occasionally to see if CPS had gotten involved yet!

  • @ash_tray
    @ash_tray Před 3 měsíci +1092

    The irony of her telling the principal “you are not protecting them. You are introducing them to the world!” Girl. I’m so angry not even 40 minutes through.

    • @ashiecloud
      @ashiecloud Před 3 měsíci +42

      That stood out to me too. What a delusional control freak. Her abusive 'parenting' is ruining them more than school, music & social media

    • @hannahellis455
      @hannahellis455 Před 3 měsíci +44

      Its like she was terrified of her children realising how bad of a parent she is, trying to control every inch of their lives and hiding them away from the world so they don’t have enough knowledge to realise that it is not normal to be treated like that. This case makes my blood boil

    • @pg2873
      @pg2873 Před 3 měsíci +14

      I'm 44 mins in, so much has already happened and I haven't even reached half the video yet. This alone terrifies me. Especially considering this is a mother doing this to her kids

    • @elishahilker
      @elishahilker Před 3 měsíci +7

      @ash_tray Tell me about it she isn't protecting her kids or introducing them to the world!!! She's abusing them!!!

    • @jkc8407
      @jkc8407 Před 3 měsíci +11

      What breaks my heart is the fact that these poor kiddos were used for her own gain. She had kids simply to make herself feel better. She controlled them for the very same reason. I have several friends who can not have children due to health reasons (ovarian failure/other complications). People like this seem to reproduce like cockroaches. It's horrible, and I will never understand why. 💔

  • @Littlekidlover22
    @Littlekidlover22 Před 3 měsíci +807

    I bet Ruby doesn’t like sleeping on a cold mat and being tied up. And no more good food in prison. Poetic justice

    • @RevengeOfTheNetherrealm
      @RevengeOfTheNetherrealm Před 3 měsíci +7

      Indeed

    • @Thomas-li9vf
      @Thomas-li9vf Před 3 měsíci +39

      Your nickname raises some red flags.

    • @RaineBowieArcade
      @RaineBowieArcade Před 3 měsíci +14

      Her kids we're in a prison, it's fitting that she now is 😂

    • @laurenmitten4567
      @laurenmitten4567 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I want to like this comment but there’s 444 likes rn and I don’t wanna ruin it 😂 but well said friend

    • @10torecommend95
      @10torecommend95 Před 3 měsíci +5

      @@Thomas-li9vfI noticed also 😮

  • @FIZZGIG-RARF
    @FIZZGIG-RARF Před 3 měsíci +369

    This is a perfect example of religious abuse and cult behavior. 😡😡🤬

    • @Kimilio4u
      @Kimilio4u Před 3 měsíci +4

      agree!!

    • @bingoblue12
      @bingoblue12 Před 3 měsíci +9

      Isn’t it interesting how someone can grow up in a regular church, and then twist things into something totally different? The church she belonged to ( The church of Jesus Christ of latter-day Saints) isn’t a cult by any stretch of the imagination, but when she teamed up with Hildebrand, it’s like they created their own cult. And of course her actions before meeting Hildebrand weren’t any better either. So so sad. 😢

    • @coffeecrimegal5968
      @coffeecrimegal5968 Před 2 měsíci +21

      I’m so tired of hearing people blame religion for adults bad choices & behaviors! Anytime there’s ever a mention of any religion there’s always someone who knows absolutely nothing about said religion who makes a snide comment like this!
      So when teachers are caught abusing children should we blame the education system? Or coaches! Should we blame the extra curricular activity the coach is teaching?
      It’s ridiculous.

    • @usa-girl911
      @usa-girl911 Před 2 měsíci +5

      @@coffeecrimegal5968 Agree 100%.

    • @user-bn2st5kx8h
      @user-bn2st5kx8h Před 2 měsíci +8

      ​@@bingoblue12it's not a cult by any stretch...please

  • @W.C.F.L
    @W.C.F.L Před 3 měsíci +22

    She is an absolute monster. As someone who was raised in a foster home and was subjected to mental,physical, and sexual abuse, I absolutely understand this type of trauma these poor children are going through. All I can say is the truth always reveals itself and I'm glad that she is exactly where she belongs.

  • @Lostonsaturn
    @Lostonsaturn Před 3 měsíci +272

    How can you have a masters degree in psychology and be a licensed therapist and say mental issues aren’t real?!🤯
    I just can’t.

    • @TyraUK
      @TyraUK Před 3 měsíci +14

      Bravo to the American education and health system 👏🏼

    • @laurastrele
      @laurastrele Před 3 měsíci +7

      Yup.. baffled me too. I'm AuDHD 😢 invalidated by this sentence

    • @sarahwhite4906
      @sarahwhite4906 Před 3 měsíci +6

      Because some people lack empathy.

    • @sirteppe
      @sirteppe Před 3 měsíci +10

      Or she just denied everything except the things that fit into her own agenda. Sadly, sometimes really academically smart people can be unhinged. (Sorry for possible spelling mistakes, English isn't my native language.)

    • @tashakayden2434
      @tashakayden2434 Před 3 měsíci

      Exactly

  • @tellmeofyourhomeworldusul6060
    @tellmeofyourhomeworldusul6060 Před 3 měsíci +413

    The IRONY of Ruby telling her children that THEY are selfish and need to be humble….thats just 🤦

    • @TheMellypants
      @TheMellypants Před 3 měsíci +15

      Whilst looking at herself in the phone as well 🤮

  • @keykey7705
    @keykey7705 Před 3 měsíci +51

    I’m 32 minutes in and I cried for Eve! I have a 5 year old and her treatment towards that baby was beyond cruel!

  • @lalavande1891
    @lalavande1891 Před 3 měsíci +90

    Did she never question how her kids feel about her? Everytime I discipline my kids, I’m worried if that’s the moment they would remember for life.

    • @aaunyea4799
      @aaunyea4799 Před 2 měsíci +13

      People like this don't see their children as people, but property. So it doesn't matter to them how the children feel

    • @YadielHomes
      @YadielHomes Před 2 měsíci +1

      This is I ever scream at my baby two second later I’m feeling sooo bad !! And then I have mom guilt
      …🥲

    • @Da_bear-ij9gm
      @Da_bear-ij9gm Před 2 měsíci +6

      It’s a valid feeling. You never know what will become a keystone memory to a child, the things that impact them can be surprising

  • @silverdoe9477
    @silverdoe9477 Před 3 měsíci +531

    Eve being absolutely devastated over missing school, & therefore had to stay with Ruby really says it all.

    • @elizabethdankert1
      @elizabethdankert1 Před 3 měsíci +2

      its one day of preschool, she will be fine.

    • @BloeMeAway
      @BloeMeAway Před 3 měsíci +40

      ​@@elizabethdankert1Did you watch the video??

    • @zknight4481
      @zknight4481 Před 3 měsíci +34

      @@elizabethdankert1
      It’s the principle of it. Let’s use some common sense here. If she missed a day of preschool for a valid reason, it wouldn’t be an issue. The issue is using the deprivation of education as a punishment. Hell, the issue is punishing a 5 year old for not waking her own self up as if she’s a grown adult.
      In any case, as @silverdoe9477 said: the fact that the child was so upset about missing a single day of preschool says a lot. When your own kids are devastated about having to spend a single day alone with you, you’re probably a dogshit parent.

    • @zknight4481
      @zknight4481 Před 3 měsíci +14

      This!
      It was my first thought when she said that and I ran to the comments. My daughter loved preschool but she was always excited when she got a day off to stay home with me. Not sending her wouldn’t have been a punishment because my kid wouldn’t be devastated by the thought of having to spend a day alone with me. 🤷🏽‍♀️ if your kid is devastated by having to spend a single day alone with you, you probably shouldn’t be allowed to have kids.

    • @laughingcorrpseholly4136
      @laughingcorrpseholly4136 Před 3 měsíci +22

      When I was a kid my grandmother would bring me over to my aunts house (her sister) while she went to work… and every single time my aunt would lock me inside of a closet and I was made to watch my cousin play with his toys and watch tv from inside of the closet (there were little lines I could see through) while i sat there for hours in the dark… my cousin would try to slip me a toy through the closet to play with but the first time he did my aunt caught me with it and accused me of stealing it from him… I didn’t think my grandma would believe me if I told her. I was around 7 years old… but one day she was about to take me to her house and I cried and said I didn’t want to go and my grandpa could just tell that something was wrong. He didn’t know what but he knew that there was no way I was going to let them take me back there… he wound up telling my grandma from now on I would just stay with him and help him work on the trucks and Tractors he worked on everyday. Which I loved so much it was everything to me in that moment I felt like my grandpa was my hero. My grandpa died when I was 18 and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to go through. I never did tell my grandma about my aunt and what she did to me and now my grandma has dementia and it would just be cruel to bring it up now to her so the only ones who know are me, my cousin, my aunt and my husband.

  • @shimmerskys
    @shimmerskys Před 3 měsíci +508

    Can you imagine being the girl that texted their son, then hearing them read your words on their CZcams channel??? Then hearing them ask him if he likes you?? No wonder those poor kids kept saying they have no friends. Just one of many many thoughts about this.

    • @JordanEmede_376
      @JordanEmede_376 Před 3 měsíci +2

      There are many people, especially young teens, that desperately want any attention they can possibly get. 2m subs there are people that would kill for a shout out. Maybe you would be embarrassed, you must be a fairly normal balanced person 😂 but people are thirsty in today's world. Parched.

    • @sxatcychan1988
      @sxatcychan1988 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Now that you mention it, Chad said that he was the one who cut off his friends, not the other way around.

    • @tisabritt5584
      @tisabritt5584 Před 3 měsíci

      Wait what!!??

    • @lisafowler6278
      @lisafowler6278 Před 2 měsíci +11

      I wish that more people understood that Kevin, the husband, is also an abusive parent. In many of the 8 Passengers videos, he’s on board and is as sadistic as Ruby is. And then he abandons his children, completely failing to protect them. And his behavior after Ruby and Jodi were arrested… trying to have his oldest daughter Shari arrested when she went to the family home to pick up some things for her younger siblings who were being taken into foster care… the way the police responded was awesome.

    • @Da_bear-ij9gm
      @Da_bear-ij9gm Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@JordanEmede_376sounds like someone is too old to remember what being a kid is like. They want positive attention, sure. Not public embarrassment

  • @ANIMEGIRLVICKY
    @ANIMEGIRLVICKY Před 2 měsíci +19

    "You are not protecting them! You're exposing them to the world!" Her to the teacher. The irony.

  • @terriepehrson3103
    @terriepehrson3103 Před 3 měsíci +49

    HE CLEARLY AS A DAD WAS AN ACCOMPLICE! 100PERCENT GUILTY! GETTING PAID TO ABUSE CHILDREN? SAD BECAUSE IT WILL AFFECT THEM LATER ! 🤔

  • @sanchez1189
    @sanchez1189 Před 3 měsíci +604

    I wanted to cry when she was talking about her 5 year old "forgetting" to pack her lunch & hopefully no one gives her food?! I wake up at night simply because my mind wont let me rest if i dont check on my kids to see if theyre covered up!!! Withholding food from a 5 year old when its your responsibility?! Horrible, horrible person!!!!

    • @gracelynwoods
      @gracelynwoods Před 3 měsíci +45

      It’s so sad that she refused to bring her daughter’s lunch. Yesterday on the way to school, my little brother accidentally stepped in a puddle and soaked his shoes. So my mom went and bought him a new pair (he needed a new pair anyway) and delivered it to him at school because she didn’t want him to he uncomfortable. He’s 9. I can’t imagine letting a FIVE YEAR OLD go without FOOD…. Heartbreaking.

    • @uzmaahmed.catmoon
      @uzmaahmed.catmoon Před 3 měsíci +5

      Agree with you 💯 entirely!

    • @FoxenASMR
      @FoxenASMR Před 3 měsíci +13

      This! I am too afraid of having kids because I know, I literally know deep down that losing them would destroy me. I wouldn’t be able to live, I wouldn’t be able to move on. I know that if I have kids I will spend every single moment terrified for them and these people can’t even see their own children as human beings, do harm and lack any instinct to protect them. It’s so disgusting.

    • @sanchez1189
      @sanchez1189 Před 3 měsíci +4

      @gracelynwoods because you're mom is a good mom...that's what good moms do!! Thabkful for a mom like yours 🩷

    • @sanchez1189
      @sanchez1189 Před 3 měsíci +5

      @FoxenASMR absolutely not! Having kids is one of the biggest joys and challenges in life...they will change you for the better...and you can change the world by the way you bring up your child 🧡

  • @serenarosee7079
    @serenarosee7079 Před 3 měsíci +327

    i wish she talked about how the oldest one testified against her mother and tried getting custody of the siblings!

    • @Mamalee
      @Mamalee Před 3 měsíci +26

      Oh wow! I hope she gets custody!

    • @CocoaBianca
      @CocoaBianca Před 2 měsíci +3

      I thought the son was the oldest...???

    • @zakikin6006
      @zakikin6006 Před 2 měsíci +16

      @@Mamaleeshe didn’t apparently they’re in the care of child protective services but I’m not sure if they all stayed together or not :/

    • @zakikin6006
      @zakikin6006 Před 2 měsíci +20

      @@CocoaBiancaShari is the oldest and chad is second oldest

    • @karenpatton7171
      @karenpatton7171 Před 2 měsíci +8

      She's an actual hero, so brave ❤

  • @BookishDark
    @BookishDark Před 2 měsíci +25

    1:36:29 I love that the neighbor initially answers the door so stoic and direct - he responds to Russel’s request for a favor with “well what is it?” and then IMMEDIATELY softens. Hearing a grown man choke back tears is so impactful. It tells you everything.

  • @alyssakiser6541
    @alyssakiser6541 Před 2 měsíci +12

    My abuse started the day my dad met my stepmother from ages 7-17 but it was nowhere near what these kids had been through… there were locks on all the food cabinet and fridge/freezer but I ate at least twice a day. I can’t wrap my head around why people that have been abused become manipulative abusers themselves and then worse. They are victims that make other people suffer worse than they have. After 10 years of abuse I learned that I couldn’t trust family but I turned into a very honest person and everyone says that I’m the sweetest girl they’ve ever met. I treat my own daughter with so much love and respect, I strive to give her everything that I never got including leaving her father so that she wouldn’t grow up in an unhappy home. She loves my husband and her stepmother. But her stepmother has called me some nasty things in-front of my daughter who’s only 6. My daughter is my world and I’d stop at nothing if I thought something bad was happening to her. There’s a lot of people that aren’t meant to have children. I’m so grateful that all of the kids came out of this alive and are able to have a life they can truly love. Where they wake up in the morning and smile even after all the abuse and trauma..

  • @AngelRasmus3
    @AngelRasmus3 Před 3 měsíci +458

    Weaponizing food has always been an abuse tactic, it comes up in practically every video Danielle has done involving abused children AND adults, this absolutely abhorrent monster starving her kids should've been a major red flag!

    • @lethamullins125
      @lethamullins125 Před 3 měsíci +5

      My mom used food as an abuse tactic... it's so fucking gross.

    • @caseyh8386
      @caseyh8386 Před 3 měsíci +12

      I'm so glad the practise of depriving food as punishment is finally at a point where it's socially unacceptable. How anyone expects a hungry child to behave BETTER or focus in school on an empty stomach is beyond me.

    • @kayakazi7765
      @kayakazi7765 Před 3 měsíci +5

      So gross yet these monsters are always eating

  • @kyleechristensen2217
    @kyleechristensen2217 Před 3 měsíci +501

    Every single time I hear the neighbor’s 911 call it makes me cry. Thank goodness for his help and empathy. These poor kids deserve the world, one where their mother doesn’t exist.

    • @christenm3200
      @christenm3200 Před 3 měsíci +48

      Yes! The fact that a complete stranger is breaking up emotionally on the phone over just seeing the child and his condition while his mother cared not at all is just a wild aspect.

    • @katattack907
      @katattack907 Před 3 měsíci +40

      I'm not a big cryer but I started to tear up when I heard the neighbor's phone call. Russell is such a brave little dude! Wishing him, Eve, and the other children healing, love, and care.

    • @taylorsaxon1089
      @taylorsaxon1089 Před 3 měsíci +16

      I know, right!? To make a grown man cry...

    • @veronikakacirkova9296
      @veronikakacirkova9296 Před 3 měsíci +14

      The 911 call makes me emotional too! In the whole horror the call is a little hope that there are still good people out there.

    • @denisemarie3734
      @denisemarie3734 Před 3 měsíci +11

      He is a good man. I'm glad he called in, and I hope he has some therapy cuz seeing that would be awful and knowing you lived down the street from it would be heartbreaking.

  • @lemongrass4251
    @lemongrass4251 Před 2 měsíci +14

    Every child deserves parents but not all parents deserve children

  • @Patience_394
    @Patience_394 Před 3 měsíci +18

    Its crazy how Ruby thinks she can blame all of her actions on Jodi when her abuse clearly started before they met. Even during her plea and sentencing she tried to come off as a remorseful and brainwashed mother who tried to do the best for her kids. Jodi is still an absolute garbage human but neither have enough morals to take accountability

    • @argmepickles
      @argmepickles Před 3 měsíci +2

      I hope her older children can help heal their younger siblings, and that Ruby never gets out and/or regains custody* before any of her kids turn 18. Let alone the father, I wonder if he will wake up and love his kids like they deserve to be.

  • @JustAnAverageWoman69
    @JustAnAverageWoman69 Před 3 měsíci +293

    The husband is a coward.

    • @tatummoffett6886
      @tatummoffett6886 Před 3 měsíci +14

      I completely agree, he should have stepped up and been a good father to his kids.

    • @saltycat662
      @saltycat662 Před 2 měsíci +12

      I recently learned that enablers are also abusers. He's just as guilty and as bad as Ruby.

    • @xxo8888
      @xxo8888 Před měsícem +2

      Take a listen to their jail conversations. He's only worried for/about her. He barely mentions the kids. He was still totally on her side

  • @Feepis
    @Feepis Před 3 měsíci +300

    The 911 call from the neighbor will never not break my heart man

    • @cassie1264
      @cassie1264 Před 3 měsíci +33

      Something about hearing a grown man's voice break over the condition of an abused child really hits hard. I can listen to all.sorts of horrific details in these cases, but hearing the emotion he felt in that moment really drives home how horrible it was.

    • @JessicaLouise0601
      @JessicaLouise0601 Před 3 měsíci +15

      Same. The way his voice breaks when he's describing the condition the boy was in.... you can't even imagine how awful it would have been

    • @TheMeloettaful
      @TheMeloettaful Před 3 měsíci +6

      @@cassie1264 Even to the man mentioning that there were problems with Jodi in the past before! Which isn't surprising due to her hatred of men in general. But hearing the man describe Russel's condition damn near broke me to pieces 😭.

  • @alicexx3116
    @alicexx3116 Před 3 měsíci +25

    I’m so glad that the children survived! I was preparing myself to hear about how they died from the abuse. Poor babies. If Russel had not escaped it could have ended so tragically.

  • @msrottingroot46
    @msrottingroot46 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Threatening to cut off the head of a stuffed animal is one of the most cruel things you can do to a child…

  • @zknight4481
    @zknight4481 Před 3 měsíci +296

    1:35:39
    Hearing that grown man getting choked up just trying to tell the 911 dispatcher about Russell’s physical condition broke me. You know it had to be bad when it’s bringing a grown man to tears so much that he can’t even get a full sentence out.
    And it’s made worse by hearing Russell talking in the background being totally calm, collected, and polite. He actually sounds kind of happy. I imagine he was filled with relief at finally getting help and maybe even happiness at having his suffering validated and being shown love, affection, and empathy by these neighbors. It’s the first time he’s been shown any care maybe in his whole life and certainly in the last 4 months. And he’s finally getting validation that he isn’t crazy, that what was done to him is horrifying, and that he’s not to blame for it.

  • @perfectlyimperfect_8528
    @perfectlyimperfect_8528 Před 3 měsíci +303

    Oh the irony in watching Ruby cry about the principal not protecting children and "introducing them to the world"....

    • @stldiva76
      @stldiva76 Před 3 měsíci +28

      She's upset that her daughter is getting attention. She's not the focus

    • @perfectlyimperfect_8528
      @perfectlyimperfect_8528 Před 3 měsíci +16

      @@stldiva76 which is so sad. Honestly I’ve heard of way too many mothers that are actually jealous of their daughters. The mom can be extremely rude and/or mean to their daughter because the daughter gets more attention, does stuff the mother wishes she had, is younger and prettier etc.
      it’s actually more common than I wanted to believe

  • @maccifyme
    @maccifyme Před 3 měsíci +27

    I still can't wrap my head around what astonishing bravery that little boy must have had! Imagine being a young child, being tortured by the person who should care for you, being sent away to a monster to be even more abused, seing your little sister being abused, being tied up, being starved... And on top on that being told that it's your own fault, you're possessed, you're evil... Imagine how completely broken down he must have been.
    And he STILL managed to escape and get to the neighbors house to ask for help! What a brave young man! That child is truly a hero. He saved not only his, but his sisters life as well. And he also saved so many others who would have been suffering at the hands of Jodi in the future.
    I just can't express enough how amazing he is.
    I hope all of the kids are doing ok, that they get the help they need and that they're in a loving, accepting home where they can feel safe and allowed to be children. I can't imagine trying to heal from something like this, while also being "famous", while still being a child. I hope they are protected as much as possible from everything that's said on the internet about them and their family. Not that anyone is saying anything negative about them, but they deserve to not hear people talking bad about their relatives aswell. They deserve to just be like any other kid, and to heal in peace among people who love them unconditionally.

    • @karaturnage4904
      @karaturnage4904 Před 3 měsíci

      i’m i’m 😊

    • @massivel
      @massivel Před 2 měsíci +1

      tbh they should be put into some sort of witness protection or maybe even moved to another country as refugees. The fame is probably so unimaginably damaging and I dont think they can ever fully heal if they are known by people wherever they go :-(

    • @massivel
      @massivel Před 2 měsíci

      idk if they can come up with elaborate witness protection for child killers then i dont see why they cant do it for abused children as well

  • @lauratheus7012
    @lauratheus7012 Před 3 měsíci +16

    Those two women should be sentenced to 20 years hard labor.

  • @cloudbusting.heights
    @cloudbusting.heights Před 3 měsíci +455

    Ruby only claimed she takes full responsibility for her CHOICES. She never mentioned taking responsibility for her ACTIONS. Utterly despicable.

    • @curious_k8
      @curious_k8 Před 3 měsíci +25

      Good point! She maybe regrets CHOOSING to air the abuse on CZcams, but she doesn’t seem to regret ACTUALLY abusing her kids.

    • @kaley4788
      @kaley4788 Před 3 měsíci +3

      This is what I thought too! Doesn’t seem to regret abusing her children at all just that she got caught and chose to put it online for everyone to see! But Thank goodness she did choose to have this CZcams channel because if not these poor children would most likely still be living in HER HELL of a “life”! So sad

  • @paleasaghost-5799
    @paleasaghost-5799 Před 3 měsíci +276

    Typical Narcisisstic parents. you wont belive how many parents are actually like this. Bet you, both of them behaved normaly in public.

    • @rikkatrieseverything
      @rikkatrieseverything Před 3 měsíci +25

      I was looking for this comment! The self-satified smugness ruby always displayed just reeked of narcissism and performance!

    • @paleasaghost-5799
      @paleasaghost-5799 Před 3 měsíci +25

      @@rikkatrieseverything Once you understand these kind of people, you cant unsee this behaviour.

    • @kayakazi7765
      @kayakazi7765 Před 3 měsíci +5

      Yes,look at the husband..all of a sudden he wants the kids

    • @massivel
      @massivel Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@kayakazi7765 i hear he called the cops on his eldest daughter because she came to Rubies house to gather some belongings and be there for the children after Ruby was arrested :-( She testified against her mother in court so I guess her father took offense to that? shows you that he doesnt feel bad about what Ruby has done imo. Really disgusting and sad.

  • @KylaFuller
    @KylaFuller Před 3 měsíci +18

    As a parent food, clothing and shelter is the bare minimum.

  • @bbyjscx
    @bbyjscx Před 3 měsíci +29

    The phone call is absolutely heart-breaking, Russel saying it was his fault :'( you can hear how upset the neighbour was. The fact all the signs were there were absolutely terrifying. I hope Ruby and Jody rot in jail.

  • @chrisschurke4151
    @chrisschurke4151 Před 3 měsíci +252

    The sad thing is, this is happening right now to children all over the place. The only people who we hear about are the ones who get caught.

  • @kayleighwinterton3569
    @kayleighwinterton3569 Před 3 měsíci +132

    My roommate just walked by and saw my boyfriend watching this and said "why is he watching videos of how to put makeup on?". That made me laugh really hard.

    • @JohnSaysHi
      @JohnSaysHi Před měsícem +6

      Lmao I feel this one. I'm a 42 year old dude and I love listening to Danielle when I'm working or doing something. She's my favorite because her videos are super long and well-researched. People have asked me numerous times why I'm watching a lady do her makeup. Lol

    • @wallsharkconstruction3819
      @wallsharkconstruction3819 Před měsícem +2

      😂my wife said the same thing.... I had to say it's not for the make I swear😂

  • @emtistic
    @emtistic Před 2 měsíci +8

    I never watched 8 Passengers, I always watched concerned CZcamsr's videos about the problematic parenting techniques... taking a child's bedroom away from them for 7 months and forcing them to sleep on a beanbag is bad enough to be investigated. It's honestly heartbreaking that CPS continues to fail these children when there was video recorded PROOF of what was going on before the severe abuse took place. I never would've even thought it would go this far, I (as I'm sure many others too), just thought they were an incredibly strict problematic religious household and there was no changing their perspective... I feel for all 6 children. I hope they're able to get the mental help these need and deserve and are able to move on from this.

  • @daniellealauqaili8991
    @daniellealauqaili8991 Před 2 měsíci +6

    I reported her channel years ago. I can't stand her. Those poor kids. I hope prison justice is swift for her.

  • @fayeconway5801
    @fayeconway5801 Před 3 měsíci +127

    See how Ruby smiles when she talks about abusing her kids.
    Right on cue when she says the actual words of the act of abuse she dished out she smiles or laughs. She gets a rush of endorphins when re living it. So dark.

  • @ashleynuckols2146
    @ashleynuckols2146 Před 3 měsíci +242

    That poor 5 year old..I'll never forget the day I forgot my work lunch I was 23 yrs old and I had a 12 hour shift ahead of me. My momma brought it to me NO QUESTIONS ASKED. She even got lost otw to my job but STILL made a point to bring it no excuses. Ruby is a shit mom from real.

    • @kayleigh3648
      @kayleigh3648 Před 3 měsíci +20

      I couldn’t believe that part either! I as an adult have forgotten my lunch several times, how can u expect a 5yo to never forget it?!!? Plus, the fact that she was packing the lunches herself also left a bad taste in my mouth… How can a 5yo be trusted to make themselves a wholesome healthy lunch everyday? 🤔

    • @mrssclarkie5474
      @mrssclarkie5474 Před 2 měsíci +5

      My son at 21 could forget his lunch and I'll give him money or take him food. Children are your responsibility 4 life especially when it comes to showing them love.

    • @TimTamRipple
      @TimTamRipple Před měsícem

      Ruby ......Well, she wasn't wrong with her assessment of herself as a person and mother when she made that speech with Jodie - that's the only truth in this whole sorry situation.

  • @313blahblahblah
    @313blahblahblah Před 3 měsíci +19

    The father needs to help accountable as well. He knew what was going on and he saw all the abuse. He's just as guilty. I would never let those kids go back into his care.

    • @tantalize5795
      @tantalize5795 Před 2 měsíci

      From the very first time he saw this thing, she had him by the nuts. These types of people will go along with the abusive spouse just to keep them. IOW, he was a weak head of the home and she absolutely knew this.

  • @lindseyfassler7096
    @lindseyfassler7096 Před 3 měsíci +24

    This Jody lady has serious issues with projection. All of this “evil” she convinced people of having is how she feels about herself, because she has untreated PTSD from her own trauma …

    • @laurenmooers1723
      @laurenmooers1723 Před 26 dny

      The irony here is astounding. Her trauma is coming out sideways like a fire hose and she goes in espousing the idea that she has then every to heal from trauma

  • @brittish1587
    @brittish1587 Před 3 měsíci +266

    And what a weak husband, there was an adult there the whole time!!!! He is just as guilty, not a man at all!

    • @Tochilili
      @Tochilili Před 3 měsíci +43

      The husband tried to sue the oldest daughter the moment ruby was arrested, he never loved the children either he wasn't weak, he simply didn't care

    • @25archivesss
      @25archivesss Před 3 měsíci +8

      I hope you keep this same energy when the roles are reversed and it’s the husband who is abusive. Women always give other women a pass, but find a way to blame the man every time. If it was the husband doin these things would you say, that mom should have protected her children. No, you would have said poor mom she’s helpless. Like no I give no sympathy to any wife or husband who allows their spouse to be abusive

    • @MsWiccanpriestess
      @MsWiccanpriestess Před 3 měsíci

      @brittish1587 the husband was a complete Submissive sickening.

    • @ShaRenaes
      @ShaRenaes Před 3 měsíci +13

      ​@@25archivesss💯. NO PASSES. PERIOD.

    • @tomysoulsociety
      @tomysoulsociety Před 3 měsíci +27

      @@25archivessswhy are all your comments about “roles being reversed” if thats seriously your main concern then obviously you dont care about the issue your replying to at all and just wanna speak on women for the sake of the argument its so pathetic

  • @221BBakerStreet
    @221BBakerStreet Před 3 měsíci +162

    This woman has the gall to say her children were suffering from "entitlement". Is losing your bedroom and being forced to sleep in a bean bag an example of their "entitlement" Ruby? Being told that nothing in the house belongs to them, being told that privacy is a privilege and not a right...or is it just another example of your sadistic abuse of your own children?

  • @naby214
    @naby214 Před 3 měsíci +8

    It warms my heart to know that this despicable woman has lost her freedom now. She treated her children like prisoners and now she’s one herself. Nothing like karma.

  • @michhaynes7272
    @michhaynes7272 Před 3 měsíci +9

    How can anyone tie a child up, withholding food and most importantly water and not see this is abuse. There is no way they didn't know this was abuse and not punishment. This is torture, no other way to describe it!

    • @massivel
      @massivel Před 2 měsíci +1

      they knew, otherwise they wouldnt have been so intent on hiding it. abusers always know when they abuse and thats why they cover up what they do! if they say otherwise its just gaslighting fr

  • @creepitweird
    @creepitweird Před 3 měsíci +146

    Whats entitled about being denied food? The fact that she held herself up as an example of 'motherhood' is laughable.

  • @renee1961
    @renee1961 Před 3 měsíci +208

    I think it's awful to be filming Children constantly!

    • @laceym3662
      @laceym3662 Před 3 měsíci +15

      Agreed. How horrible to have your worst moments recorded and put on the Internet for your parent's monetary gain.

    • @daniellewebb7697
      @daniellewebb7697 Před 3 měsíci +11

      It needs to be banned! You damn well know the kids aren’t consenting to be filmed all day, every day! Exposing and exploiting your children for money! Sickening

    • @duchessofhazjack4878
      @duchessofhazjack4878 Před 3 měsíci +4

      I think it should be illegal full stop to record and post your kids all over the net. I actually came across a site that was FULL of pics that people had just stolen from social media. Little boys and girls at the pool and beach, in the bath, half naked and naked - with disgusting comments. I complained about this site and so did many others and nothing was done.

    • @BeeKool__113
      @BeeKool__113 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Absolutely agree. It's exploitative and should be banned. These children can't consent to being filmed.

    • @user-vv4qh1ph8q
      @user-vv4qh1ph8q Před 3 měsíci +1

      I think it's awful as well!! It should be illegal.

  • @maneckineckbeard1749
    @maneckineckbeard1749 Před 3 měsíci +18

    It breaks my heart that she's so proud about publicly punishing her poor sweet little son for being "mischievous!!"
    Lady, kids ARE mischievous... cheekiness is practically one of children's most endearing and beautiful qualities! What kind of person would even want to become a mother when they so obviously despise and detest children in general?? (I guess the only answer is "a sadist," which is just so painful for me to think about...) 😢

    • @massivel
      @massivel Před 2 měsíci +2

      i dont think she knew about her sadistic tendencies until she was well into motherhood. Most abusers just stumble into their prey. She was raised to think that being a mother and wife was the most important thing a woman could do, and her obsession with being "perfect" made her strive for that goal early on. Her need for control and "perfection" meant that she began abusing her first child as soon as she stepped out of line and behaved "imperfectly" (as children always, always do)- she did this because she did not want her children tarnishing her image of a "perfect life". And before she knew it she wound up a total monster who was not only quick to lash out at any perceived imperfection in her children- but enjoyed doing so. And it escalated as she became more and more addicted to the rush she got from the control. Thank goodness that boy ran for help and the police believed him! Because im sure she would have eventually killed her youngest kids with her sick addiction.

    • @maneckineckbeard1749
      @maneckineckbeard1749 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@massivel Yes! I agree 100% with almost everything you said! Having lived in Utah myself, I know that from a very young age, girls are shoehorned into a very specific role, in which they're assured that the only things they should really truly be concerned about are remaining celibate until marriage, having a temple marriage, going to BYU for an MRS degree, and of course get married and hopefully starting a family by the time most people are graduating HS or college.
      I can absolutely see her being groomed by family, church and community into thinking that her only possible way to achieve anything appreciable would be to marry young, to a financially secure man, and have as many attractively dressed, well-groomed, perfectly behaved children as possible...whether she wanted to, or not! And I can also absolutely buy that the more kids she had, the less she liked being a mother, (not that she started out loving it in the first place) and the more she took out those feelings of resentment, FOMO, and rage on her poor, helpless kids. I believe you're totally right that she conditioned herself into having an actual, physical, chemical "rush" when she was able to terrify, hurt or intimidate her kids through bullying and mocking them. I also agree entirely that iffy those kids weren't rescued by that unimaginably brave little boy, then their fate would have been essentially the same as Lori Daybell's kids: buried like trash in a lonely spot somewhere.
      And of course that sort of slippery slooe would be not only addictive...but progressive, as well. After all, addiction is a chronic, progressive disease, and the addict's tolerance for their "drug of choice" inevitably goes up, so they keep needing more & more to experience that rush.

    • @GreenEyedGumby
      @GreenEyedGumby Před měsícem +1

      Ding ding ding!

  • @kitkadie9252
    @kitkadie9252 Před 4 dny +2

    The fact that the neighbor gets choked up on the 911 call over just seeing a stranger's kid in this state but she felt nothing for her own child!

  • @HissyFitPet
    @HissyFitPet Před 3 měsíci +77

    Russell is such a brave child, I’m so proud of him for saving himself and his sister.

  • @PhillyGirl2233
    @PhillyGirl2233 Před 3 měsíci +65

    These two should never be released from prison.

  • @RWFB
    @RWFB Před 2 měsíci +7

    I truly hope these children recover mentally from all the abuse they endured and go on to live beautiful lives.

  • @jillrelliott
    @jillrelliott Před 3 měsíci +8

    She was expecting CPS because they call and make an appointment BEFORE they come!!!! Imagine

  • @badger313
    @badger313 Před 3 měsíci +207

    The influence an LDS background has had on this situation can't ignored. It has so much to do with everything that occured with Ruby & Jodi. The the fact Ruby went to college only to find a husband, the fact her goal in life was to be nothing more than a wife & mother, her views on what is suggestive, the kind of place Chad was sent for his "behavior" (which was probably just normal teenage behavior), etc, etc, etc. It's also a huge reason why she went down the rabbit hole with the LDS approved therapist Jodi Hildebrandt was. It's not the sole reason for Ruby's ego & abuse but it is integral to who Ruby Franke is at her core & her belief system

    • @badger313
      @badger313 Před 3 měsíci +31

      @@kimberlyrichardson5943 I'm not in any way saying that those who follow the LDS church teachings are bad people. They're not. They are for the most part wonderful, kind, family oriented people but there is a certain culture & certain LDS teachings that if taken to the extreme, taken the wrong way, misconstrued, manipulated, or twisted can warp into some very detrimental & in some cases very dangerous ideologies. The fact that girls are taught that being a wife & mother is their ultimate calling is a fact. There's no need to have an outside career goal when your career goal is to be a wife & mother. That's not to say LDS women don't work but it is one reason why MLMs are so popular among the LDS. Some of the church's teachings lead certain individuals down very dark paths (think Lori Vallow & Chad Daybell, Spring Thibedoux, now Ruby Franke, etc). All I was saying was that in order to understand Ruby Franke & what she did you have to understand her LDS background & the impact it had & how it got twisted into what she became. She may have been mean & hurtful no matter what religion she was but it is true to say that without the LDS church she would never have been referred to an LDS therapist & therefore would never have met Jodi Hildebrandt. The fact that the church did not condemn or dismiss Jodi from their ranks after what she did to get her license suspended in the mid 2000s is a direct link to what we're talking about now. Without Jodi Hildebrandt & possibly other LDS therapists input I don't believe Ruby Franke would've done what she did in sending Chad away, taking his bedroom away or devolving into child abuse. She may have a personality disorder & narcissistic tendencies no matter what religion she was but her LDS background fed what was naturally occurring in her psyche

    • @vannahbassett5946
      @vannahbassett5946 Před 3 měsíci +14

      A relative of Hildebrandt’s did an interview with Cults to Consciousness. It’s worth watching! If I remember correctly they touch on the LDS influence

    • @ellezjl
      @ellezjl Před 3 měsíci

      LDS is a cult and has A LOT to answer for. This "religion" comes up over and over again in true crime cases

    • @badger313
      @badger313 Před 3 měsíci

      @@vannahbassett5946 I've watched several interviews with Jessi Hildebrandt, Jodi's niece. Totally worth watching. Unfortunately they went thru similar things to the Franke kids at the hands of their aunt

    • @smallsmolls9268
      @smallsmolls9268 Před 3 měsíci +6

      I feel like it’s always the lds church! It seems like a dangerous path to go down

  • @kmarie2362
    @kmarie2362 Před 3 měsíci +91

    Also, all of the stuff around marrying quickly in Utah is very common. You grow up LDS, you find another LDS person. You get married quickly, the woman often quits college and has children. This is literally one of the most common things you’ll see in Utah. I was 19 when I got married and felt like that was a bit old. I met my husband in November and got married the following June. I’ve been married 19 years and have left the LDS faith after realizing how negatively it affected my life. I hope my kids don’t follow this path. I want them to have more time before they settle down. Unlike Ruby, I did finish college. I got my Master’s degree a few years ago and am a mental health therapist for children. I’m so thankful I did that because it helped me see things more clearly and change my life. This situation is so sad and scary!

    • @InspireFreedomForever
      @InspireFreedomForever Před 3 měsíci +3

      I was also raised in a church very much like LDS. It really does damage.

    • @abbeyboeckman6315
      @abbeyboeckman6315 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Congratulations on breaking the cycle and setting a positive example for your kids and those around you!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @satinbeesade1654
      @satinbeesade1654 Před měsícem

      I am a member of the church, I married a Catholic. So not al
      l members mary Mormon's

  • @adapez9412
    @adapez9412 Před 3 měsíci +13

    Danielle, you really broke down the story further than I've heard anyone else do. Superb job! Something caught my attention that Jodi was SA'd between the ages of 2-5 years old, which obviously caused trauma & possibly her hatred for men down the road. But as an adult when counseling others about these types of crimes, she blames even the children & that it's their fault for causing or inviting that type of ab*se? So did she blame herself when it happened to her at such a young age, or was she somehow the only exception to her rule? Hmm...

  • @bunyipdragon9499
    @bunyipdragon9499 Před 3 měsíci +8

    Well done Adam for getting on-top of what this "therapist" did to you and a huge thank you for trying to do something about her. There are far too many get away with her rubbish. I hope things are doing much better now 💜

  • @jourdyngroman
    @jourdyngroman Před 3 měsíci +35

    the irony of ruby being given everything as a child, being "mean" and "entitled" and taking ALL OF THE PADS AND TAMPONS but her kids aren't allowed to have breakfast, lunch, or a fucking bed.

  • @lils6537
    @lils6537 Před 3 měsíci +59

    i’m just so glad these kids wont be exposed to her anymore. they deserve so much better.

    • @kayakazi7765
      @kayakazi7765 Před 3 měsíci +6

      I also hope their father doesn't get them as he is useless

  • @LizStaples
    @LizStaples Před 3 měsíci +6

    The use of therapy speak against her own children is so infuriating.

  • @curvesholladay1207
    @curvesholladay1207 Před 3 měsíci +19

    I’m from Utah and we’ve been watching this case closely. I hope the judge and the future parole boards are not fooled by Ruby’s performances. Jodi is guilty of giving Ruby permission to act on her instinctual devious behaviors. It’s horrid. Glad they are both behind bars, for now. I hope her kids never give her access to her grandchildren.

  • @jeszee1654
    @jeszee1654 Před 3 měsíci +91

    As a mom, I just want to hug those babies. I’m glad they were eventually saved from this horrible life.

  • @laughingcorrpseholly4136
    @laughingcorrpseholly4136 Před 3 měsíci +100

    When I was a kid my grandmother would bring me over to my aunts house (her sister) while she went to work… and every single time my aunt would lock me inside of a closet and I was made to watch my cousin play with his toys and watch tv from inside of the closet (there were little lines I could see through) while i sat there for hours in the dark… my cousin would try to slip me a toy through the closet to play with but the first time he did my aunt caught me with it and accused me of stealing it from him… I didn’t think my grandma would believe me if I told her. I was around 7 years old… but one day she was about to take me to her house and I cried and said I didn’t want to go and my grandpa could just tell that something was wrong. He didn’t know what but he knew that there was no way I was going to let them take me back there… he wound up telling my grandma from now on I would just stay with him and help him work on the trucks and Tractors he worked on everyday. Which I loved so much it was everything to me in that moment I felt like my grandpa was my hero. My grandpa died when I was 18 and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to go through. I never did tell my grandma about my aunt and what she did to me and now my grandma has dementia and it would just be cruel to bring it up now to her so the only ones who know are me, my cousin, my aunt and my husband.

    • @ladyseason2565
      @ladyseason2565 Před 3 měsíci +19

      And all of us. That's so wrong I've lived so many situations like this, but reading this reminded of a time I totally forgot about. When I was in one of my Foster homes. My Foster parent would wake us up early and take us to this ladies house so we'd catch our school bus from there. Well when we were dropped off it was so early we didn't eat my Foster mom only fed us once a day anyways. But the other lady said she would feed and take care of us and make sure we go out to catch the bus on time. Which was a 2 hour wait. My Foster mom dropped us off and we'd go inside then as my Foster mom left in a hurry the lady would give us a box of raisins and put us outside for 2 hours. Everyday 😂 I use to be so hungry and I've always hated raisins but some mornings those raisins tasted so good most I gave my box to my lil sister because I know if I was hungry how she felt and I hate raisins then and now

    • @alakaprashanth5143
      @alakaprashanth5143 Před 2 měsíci +4

      Kudos to your Grampa for just listening to you no questions asked. I'm sure he enjoyed your company while working too!

  • @dorothyshinani6862
    @dorothyshinani6862 Před 3 měsíci +5

    The emotional and physical disregard for the children i just cant .

  • @user-ml3nh6ch1n
    @user-ml3nh6ch1n Před 2 měsíci +5

    The way Russel is looking at the camera is heartbreaking

  • @kamabokogonpachiro3798
    @kamabokogonpachiro3798 Před 3 měsíci +83

    I can not stress enough on this lady! I am literally having break downs as my baby is not eating enough due to fever and this lady voluntarily starved her babies!! My heart is breaking into pieces

    • @maryeckel9682
      @maryeckel9682 Před 3 měsíci +9

      I hope your little one feels better soon!

    • @HSMfanatic17
      @HSMfanatic17 Před 3 měsíci +8

      My mom told me a story about when I was a baby and she was so scared because I was so sick I couldn't even keep down a teaspoon of water. Even as an adult, she gets worried if she doesn't think I'm eating enough. This so-called mother is a monster.

    • @kamabokogonpachiro3798
      @kamabokogonpachiro3798 Před 3 měsíci +4

      @@HSMfanatic17 this is the natural instinct of a mother. Sadly you cannot be a mother just because the baby came out of your body. I have seen people desperate for one child who can be amazing parents. Sadly these people breed like crazy with zero conscience or empathy for their kids

    • @Muse91
      @Muse91 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@HSMfanatic17I keep saying "if You’re happy seeing somebody eat that‘s love" I know there are people saying if a child doesn‘t want to eat xy meal they have to starve and it‘s bad parenting giving in on that. But I‘ll cook pasta for my child even if it would be 10 pm cause I never could leave her going to bed hungry. (Sry for mistakes, I‘m German)

    • @BrewmasterAdaryn
      @BrewmasterAdaryn Před 3 měsíci

      Hope your baby is feeling better soon. I remember my daughter not eating properly for a few days due to illness and I was frantic. I can’t imagine not feeding her on purpose!

  • @amethystdenton7896
    @amethystdenton7896 Před 3 měsíci +98

    The last little bit of sassy Danielle was GOLD 👏🏽😂
    “To repent THEIR sins, live in TRUTH, and get rid of THEIR distortion.”
    Amen.

  • @traceyramirez568
    @traceyramirez568 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Hope she’s enjoying her new home . I hope she’s being treated the same way she treated her kids . Heartbreaking .

  • @reddblackjack
    @reddblackjack Před 2 měsíci +4

    What's weird is that I was born in the seventies and had most of my formative years in the 80's. None of the actual punishments from letting the one kid go without lunch to taking away the teenagers bedroom aren't even close to abusive. Taking away the damn phones and tablets are GOOD parenting. There was no hitting from my understanding. I got hit by my mom several times and that's not necessarily abuse either. What IS abuse is the berating in public and on the Internet. One time I took bare bottom spanking from my father for doing something that costed money to fix and the very next day he was telling another father I was a good kid. Truthfully I kinda was, but did act badly. But my parents would never have added to punishment by saying the things this woman said. That's messed up. A parent needs to talk to a child, tell them they acted badly and give advice for making better decisions. Children punished without that aren't learning from their mistakes. I guarantee! Even as an adult dealing with Police while acting badly I was prepared to be honest, remorseful and repentant. Kids may be easy to trick but they are very intelligent. They need to be taught about consequences for their actions. This chick is a total B word and maybe even a C word. 😢

  • @delilah277
    @delilah277 Před 3 měsíci +32

    And where was the father??!?? Arrest him for the reckless endangerment of a child and child neglect

  • @perfectlyimperfect_8528
    @perfectlyimperfect_8528 Před 3 měsíci +56

    I remember when my brother fell and needed to go to ER for stitches, my mom had just gotten outta the shower and she literally took us all to ER in a bathrobe and towel in her hair!!! She didn't care what she looked like, her son needed medical attention ASAP. My dad ended up leaving work and brought her clothes to hospital. I don't understand some people
    And I just need to say, using food as a punishment is settling your child up for so many issues later in life. Ugh. I understand not letting your kids eat whatever whenever they want, but to withhold meals bc you didn't do your chores?!?! No ma'am, not today Satan.

    • @user-bn2st5kx8h
      @user-bn2st5kx8h Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yeah ..ok ..my mom would not get out before combing her hair and changing clothes and wouldn't even let us call the ambulance b4 changing underwear and socks...

  • @christinehedges6502
    @christinehedges6502 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Many people have covered this subject, but decided to watch yours as you really do your research. And I can honestly say that I'm heartbroken for those poor children 💔

  • @MsEmbo1
    @MsEmbo1 Před 3 měsíci +5

    For anyone who doesn't know, St. Goegre UT only an hour drive from Las Vegas. The average temperature in July is 102 degrees Fahrenheit. This past summer, Utah broke records for high temperatures. The average temperature this past summer was over 107 degrees in St. George.
    Her religion doesn't believe that a child is accountable for themselves/sins until they are 8 years old. She is a monster for doing those things.

  • @susieschlotzhauer9924
    @susieschlotzhauer9924 Před 3 měsíci +49

    Weaponizing food weaponizing parenting.. weaponized religion she really is a monster 😢

  • @HSMfanatic17
    @HSMfanatic17 Před 3 měsíci +98

    For those CPS workers to be fooled shows that they are either complete idiots or their training was grossly insufficient. As a former Behavioral Health Technician and current mental health counselor, I've told kids countless times, "You're not a bad kid, you just didn't make the best choice."

    • @mimiity9585
      @mimiity9585 Před 3 měsíci +8

      I’ve personally had experience with CPS. They are as terrible as reported most of the times.
      Some are downright sadistic. If they have any bias towards you they can make your life and your child’s hell. If they’re jealous or hateful, unhappy it shows in their job.
      They should only be concerned with the health and safety of the children.
      Many have heavy case loads and deal with parents battling, and terrible conditions.
      Unfortunately, they don’t take their reporting as seriously as they should, and slough off visiting homes and or checking for clothes , food, bruises etc and should talk to the children when the parent isn’t present but recorded in case the child is afraid to talk.
      They have a history of returning children to abusive parents that have starved, tortured and murdered their own children.
      Some cases have been so obvious I really believe they should be better trained and held to a higher standard because they are dealing with children.
      Children need to be heard.

  • @lunalovegood9740
    @lunalovegood9740 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Nobody will ever be able to convince me that Kevin had no idea what was going on. His body language and the way he was (and still is) defending Ruby tells me that he is an enabler at least and was part of it at worst. I'm glad they didn't give him custody, because I can almost gurantee based off of his demeanor that this would have turned from abuse to homicide the second he got them home.

  • @pancakeminix6061
    @pancakeminix6061 Před 3 měsíci +8

    I’ve gotten “grounded” from my bedroom as well as a 16-17 year old. When I was at school, my parents moved my entire bed down into the dining room and I was sleeping there for AT LEAST 2 months. There’s absolutely no good reason to do that to your child, it solves nothing and breeds resentment

  • @Bigbodybenz397
    @Bigbodybenz397 Před 3 měsíci +98

    It’s the “she needs to wake herself up and get herself ready for preschool” and said she didn’t wake her because she’s going to get up cranky etc and that she had to learn that lesson. My daughter is 3 and sometimes she gets cranky when she gets up .. HELL ADULTS are grumpy in the morning .. this is absurd.

    • @mariablocker6186
      @mariablocker6186 Před 3 měsíci +10

      Hearing Ruby try to explain that in her video made my blood boil and confused me at the same time -- what planet does she live on where she'd seen preschoolers do that? Preschoolers can't get themselves ready! They've been on this planet for 3-4 years, there's no way they're that disciplined or have that much time awareness. Does she expect them to drive themselves to preschool too? My kindergartner is 5 and needs help getting ready, same as it was in preschool. Preschoolers and kindergartners are new to the whole school routine and are just learning how to do all this stuff -- they're going to need help, whether it's waking up or making lunch. Heck, I didn't start setting my morning alarm until high school, and if I accidentally forgot or whatever, my mom never would have let me just miss school or punish me for it in any way -- we all make mistakes. It's ludicrous to expect little children to act like mini adults! My heart just hurts that those children had to experience such awful parenting.

  • @HurricaneScully
    @HurricaneScully Před 3 měsíci +59

    That 911 call had me in tears!! I can't even imagine what was going through that man's head.

    • @therealghandi9800
      @therealghandi9800 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Same 😭 he must of been soooooo overcome seeing a child like that rock up at his door begging for help

    • @nickimcb3842
      @nickimcb3842 Před 3 měsíci +5

      The emotion in his voice had me in tears, I can't even imagine the sight of that poor baby.

  • @taramco1110
    @taramco1110 Před 22 dny +1

    The stuffed animal scene was heart wrenching 💔 you could see the anxiety in her daughter and just feel her pain. I’m soooo glad that little girl has a chance for a happy future.

  • @9eyeswideopen
    @9eyeswideopen Před 3 měsíci +6

    Ruby willingly followed Jodie to the point of torturing RF had it not been for his bravery she could be facing a murder charge.
    Kevin deserted his children when they needed him, the most. Why didn’t he fight for them when he knew what Jodie was really doing? Could it be, he was frightened of what Ruby was holding over him?
    We can only imagine what they were like when the camera was off.
    Jodie see’s everything that is happening are lies and distortion, for that reason, she is extremely dangerous.

  • @maryellen303
    @maryellen303 Před 3 měsíci +31

    Ruby was abusive long before Jodi came along. Ruby,s husband was there and complicit. He should be charged also.

  • @charlottedey3725
    @charlottedey3725 Před 3 měsíci +62

    Disgusting how she treated her poor children, it’s like she set them up to fail so she could punish them, and she took a lot of pleasure in this, I hope she’s never allowed near them again, as for Jodie.. what a disgusting inhumane monster! Throw away the key!
    Well done Danielle, another great video 👏 xx

  • @Marymerryberry
    @Marymerryberry Před 3 měsíci +33

    As a Capricorn we do not claim her