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I just watched a compilation of Yolanda Hadid and how she treated her children, it was INSANE the things she would say to them. I couldn't imagine having her as my mom and not growing up with some kid of eating disorder or body dysmorphia.
@@starr2870 it’s hard when it’s your mother because you love them. My mom used to call me every name under the sun. “Fat” “retarted” “gay” and luckily I had thick skin and just knew my mother was bipolar and psychotic lmao but me and my mom have a great relationship now and she’s apologized but some kids are strongly effected by what their parents do!
@@starr2870 it’s usually the ones that were abused by their parents that crave their approval. especially if it has been conditioned/ normalized in the family to give in to their mom
even the woman who's been declared as "the most beautiful woman in the world" stuggles with mental health issues and how she views herself, i feel so sad for her to experience such toxic stages of her life, i love bella hadid so much, mental health really matters everyone, please take care! ⚘
@@rajatsharma119 her father is pretty much involved and cares about his children (at leats from what i see and how bella and gigi described it) i even think that their father is the reason why they are humble and down to earth than most of those high paid models even kendall (no shade)
I got to meet her at a Bulgari event in Rome a couple of years back and I have to say she’s truly an angel, she was so nice to all of use and took the time to have a little chat with the people there, it didn’t matter if they were just “regular” people
@@antionnella1938 she doesn’t get paid to be liked? She’s a model? Naomi Campbell is famously unlikeable yet she’s one of the most successful models of all time. Bella didn’t owe us anything and didn’t need to be as nice as she was but it’s because she is genuinely kind hearted and polite that she choose to act that way. A friend of mine run into Kendall Jenner during Milan fashion week and trust me when I tell you she had a completely different experience…
@@lidiar9471 Because Naomi Campbell built her career over WALKING, not over instagram and other social media. Bella Hadid wouldnt be known anywhere without the help of her parents lmao sorry if youre a fan but if you know a little bit about modeling then youll know that she has no talent
I got a nose job when I was 17 because that’s when my parents and my surgeon thought was the best age. And you know what? I was still too young. I ended up having to go back in at 21 and get it fixed cuz my face finished developing afterwards and I ended up having breathing problems. Trust me people, wait
Generally, people go in for a retouch depending on the healing process. Most celebrities we see have a couple done, usually a few changes done at a time. For anyone thinking of getting one, please look closely into doctors, prices, testimonials and the real before and after pictures. If it's something you really want, make a good investment. You'll see it for the rest of your life 😊 Good luck!
I really resonate with Bella Hadid on the insecurities, for most my childhood, I was the ugly kid everyone in my grade collectively picked on, I was rarely called beautiful, I was called a man, and treated like I had cooties. I've contemplated plastic surgery because of it.
i felt that so hard. i was constantly called ugly and told i looked like a man too. on top of that i was dealing with severe anorexia which didnt help the "you look like a man" comments. it rly sucks i feel u girl
This isn’t any sort of consolation, but I admire women for whatever figure or strength they have. Good luck to anyone on their journey to embrace their body. I hope one day you can learn to love yourselves before you get to the point of plastic surgery, but if you do decide to get it: A. It should be something you do for yourself and not to please others. B. People have no business judging your decision if that’s what you truly want for yourselves. Stay strong and do remember beauty is subjective no matter how much we try to box it into one body type. Humans are meant to be individuals, not idealized copies of each other.
The platsic surgeon who performed such a heavy non essential surgery on *a minor* should have their license revoked, the fact that a medical professional even approved and went through with this baffles me and it feels like no one is talking about it
I'm pretty sure there are documents in place covering anybody. If in many states you can marry at 14 years old, and no age limits in certain states (as long as the parent sells- I mean approves for their kids), then I'm sure cosmetic surgeries could be done in a similar way at these certain states
@@Metroid250 I agree with this comment. Also who’s to say it was done by a medical professional? Do you know how many people get plastic surgery done by people claiming to be medical professionals who don’t have credentials to back this up or if they do it’s fraudulent documents? It’s insane what people will do for money, they’ll mess with lives.
many of these nepo celebs have gotten a nose job in their teens. They have the money and their parents are cool with it. Kendall Jenner was 15 when she got her first nose job back in 2011/2012.
Wow it’s so crazy people called Bella as the “ugly sister” I’ve always found her to be so uniquely beautiful. Gigi is beautiful of course but Bella’s features are so unique
@Nang Lei it’s not racism, just american beauty standards. bella hadid fits more with european beauty standards, while gigi fits the “all american blonde”, standard.
@@lolomar bella takes more after their father and has more middle eastern features, like her nose, which she felt she had to go under the knife and change. It definitely is euro centric beauty standards being pushed upon her.
I really know nothing about Bella, but it seems regardless of how wealthy or famous you are, no human being is immune to such commonalities such as mental health struggles. I wish her well, and hope she's looking after herself.
Yes, at some point we're all broken, but we can avoid being beyond repair. And by just being nice, we can be someone's unexpected band-aid that can help them start over again.
*You guys should thank God it's only her mother, but for me it was my mother, and all my elder siblings since my childhood. Being the last born, I was abused mentally, physically and emotionally. They bullied me if I cry, that I cry like a cow. So my place for crying was in the toilet. When i was in kindergarten they left me in school while all kids are away i was always the last one to be picked. The school started at 8am and ends at 1pm but i was off from school at 4pm sitting under a hot sun. One of my sis said something that made one of my family member attempted to mola....me but I managed to run. This gave me trauma from not sleeping thinking he would come to attack me. I was told if i refuse to do any house chores they'll reject me food and sometimes i would eat leftovers. They gave me difficult house chores to do that a young child can't do. My elder sis used to hit my head every time and my mom once hit my head with loads of books from the shelves. If they all gather to sit and talk, if i would enter the room to join them, they'll send me out of the room or tell me go keep the house clean while they're laughing. I was denied school facilities i wore their second hand clothes my mom never bought me a new school uniform. If we were asked to bring a set full of mathematics objects, my mom would tell me go take from your siblings. I used to fear them to ask them to lend me anything so i just decide to go back to school to be punished this was from primary till i completed my secondary education with difficulties. Even inner clothes i was never bought. My mom was the type who if she buys me anything she'll never buy me again so I'll have to wear the same for years even if i was growing. Especially my school journey was the difficult one. My socks were torn shoes etc and many kids didn't like to play with me. Sometimes i would stay without food at school drinking only soda and there were two girls who would offer me their left overs and i would eat. Some of my siblings were taken to universities and i was never supported to be taken to university or college. I tried to borrow some money to study IATA as this was my dream career to be a flight attendant but i never succeeded. When we shifted to another country i got an offer to be a Teacher and the school would train under graduates and that's the time my life started to change. I became a Teacher at only 21 and was loved by parent's and my students. I started gaining feelings that i never recieved and I wont want to see any child get hurt. So i was invited sometimes by parent's in parties and i would entertain them as dancing was part of my hobby when all people would leave the house i used to practise dancing. But at the same time i battled Insomnia, Ulcers, Haemorroids, Skin allergies, Anxiety, and Anorexia. I was proposed 4 times but my siblings put down all my proposals because they didn't want me to get married before my two elder ones. I later got married from zero expectations it was an awful wedding even when they tried to ruined it but it happened. My marriage flew me to another country and they followed me to ruin my marriage life as they kept coming to my house untill my inlaws decided to stop them and i managed to call my mother to tell her what my inlaws said. It was the biggest step that i ever imagined i would do in my life. But before my mom left i decided to do her a farewell party that she prayed for me. You can watch her in my videos. There's a story that my step brother told me that my siblings abandoned me in the street when i was 2 years old and he's the one who found me and returned me back home. When i faced and asked my mom and my siblings they never gave me an accurate straight forward answer till today. Thanks God I'm free now from all the toxic life that i went through. I'm now focusing to heal my inner self. Years later my mom sent me an apology through Audio. It wasn't fulfilling but i decided to forgive her. But my siblings I'll never forget or forgive. Friends read my ABOUT in my CZcams Channel and support my facebook charity page 👉 @TheHusnaCenter*
Its about time someone created a video with sensitivity and kindness. its absolutely disgusting how we treat celebrities. I grew up in fostercare, however, i dont think my pain is any worse than someone who has money...i obviously dont know her, but she seems like a sweetheart and doesnt deserve the constant ridicule. god bless!
have followed her before she modeled and been a fan. from my perspective, a lot of people have a problem about her plastic surgery and her lying about it. now im someone who doesnt idolize someone like a god. i call out people if thats problematic and bullying + cancel culture def is not the answer. bella has worked hard to get where she is rn. she is well established and has made a name for hersef. but just because someone is nice or kind does not mean they are free from mistakes and public opinions.
Imo its hard to "even out" a poor person struggling vs a person who has so much materialistic priviledges struggling. She can afford therapy. She can afford to quit when she gets the chance. She has millions of people feeling sorry for her, it just isn't the same.
@@zonk35 Thats kinda the point. Yolanda knows what shes doing.. they wont pass out if they eat a small amount of fat but they still will lose weight because its the only thing they had. Shes a sicko.
@@emyf9194 fats are fats. there are saturated fats and unsaturated fats. the vegetable oil that fries are made in is the same type of fat that’s in a salad dressing or an almond. all fats are 9 calories per gram. calorie-wise, there is no difference between “fat from an almond” and “mcdonalds fats.” i don’t want to have a conversation about mcdonalds causing “inflammation” that makes you gain weight even if the calorie levels are the same between 2 types of food, because that’s not actually a thing.
As a middle child that has always been in the shadows of my older sister, and was considered as the ugly one. I can relate to her so much, as I seek the validation that my parents did not give me growing up, to other people. I am a people pleaser and I hate it, I hate it that I can’t be confident in my answers or choices. I hate that I need to get the approval of other people before doing something. I hate that I listen to other people’s opinion when I should not. I hate that I put other people above myself. I want to love myself just the way I am, and I am learning it.
You probably have some stunning and outstanding physical features too, you and people may have overlooked it because it's not conventionally attractive, but genetically it is a blessing. My sister who is a middle child (there's literally 3 of us and we all happen to be girls) weren't always considered pretty as a child but our eldest sis looks like a female Korean protagonist and whenever she does her makeup she looks like a barbie, just so pretty. As we grew older my middle sis happened to have the best tits, tallest, and has the healthiest and aligned teeth out of all the 3 of us. I, myself happened to just look average (bland) with no outstanding features at all lmao I may not be pretty but I can blend in anywhere like a chameleon. God is fair.
I also have self esteem issues. I am trying to love myself one step at a time. Don't rely on others for your happiness. If you are an adult, your happiness is your responsibility. Be kind to yourself. For every small win you make, pat yourself on the back and applaud yourself. I am striving to be financially and emotionally independent.
This is why many people root for Bella. She was in a sense the "ugly" ducking. Obviously, we don't look like her but we have all felt like her at some point in our lives.
The way the mother treated her. God I made the mistake of watching that videos, absolutely heartbreaking. Very triggering to me. I don’t have the self image or eating issues but growing up, I was the dumb, useless daughter my mother made sure to let me know how much she likes my sister better. Just heartbreaking. Anyone can say whatever they want about her looks but I feel for bella, deeply.
You know,I think I kind of understand what Bella was really saying in the infamous interview where she gets emotional about having "her first pair of Louboutin in college". It was not really about receiving a pair of luxury shoes,it was about being finally noticed by her mother as someone that could actually be like Gigi. Imagine spending your whole life being told that you're not like your perfect sister,the one that is adored by your mom and given all the fancy clothes and modeling gigs,the one your mother sees as a goddess and superb money maker and your just "Isabella". I think that the moment her mother gave her that pair of shoes actually meant "yeah girl,seems like you can do that as well". Of course when you hear it the first time it's just ridiculous,but when you really think about it it's just so sad and pretty tragic. Just because she is famous and beautiful,it doesn't mean she is happy.
I always suspected it's because Yolanda probably sees more of herself in Gigi because physically Gigi looks more like her Bella looks more like her dad and you could say pre surgery was average looking and it's not to insult her she wasn't drop dead gorgeous it comes across like she started modeling to compete with Gigi to show she can be beautiful too who knows I feel badly for her for her to go through that much surgery suggests how low her self esteem must be
a lot of people come for her bc she hasn’t confessed about everything she’s got done but i honestly think that’s okay. she’ll come out when she’s ready. she can’t think of all of the young people who look up to her because she has to put herself first. look at how long it took her to confess about her nose job. from what i’ve seen, people who hide the work they had done are just insecure about it and haven’t accepted it yet. once she accepts the fact that she got work done and becomes more comfortable with herself, she’ll tell people. if she’s not ready, then that’s that and we can’t force people to open up to us. atp, it seems like people just want the power to say “ha, i knew it. i was right, she bought her whole face and she’s fake.” and don’t care about the actual truth. i only wish the best to bella and other people like her and hope they find peace in their life. ✨
I agree we aren't entitled to know but I'll admit I do feel more open to her now that she did admit that she had work done - it was so obvious. I can understand that it would be a difficult thing to do and I think she handled it with grace and maturity. I think she is doing important work shedding light on the ridiculous pressures that girls grow up with to conform to one Eurocentric idea of beauty. Hopefully this will help lead to greater attention on the changes we need address on mental health and beauty standards
ever since she talked about palestine and other muslim tragedies she's had my respect we don't have many celebrities talking about it and i adore her for it
she still hasn't addressed her very racist past though. she used to say the n word a lot before she deleted all her tweets and tumblr. she calls out a lot of people for being racist like lil pump but can't apologize for her own past.
@@ellenhelen700 your statement in itself is problematic using the actions of a singular Black person (You also don’t even know if this person is black) to speak for an entire community. And they aren’t wrong black ppl aren’t problematic because they ask ppl not to say a slur that was meant to dehumanize them. Especially if said person they are asking is flaunting activism on their page the least they could do is acknowledge their own mistakes to not look like a hypocrite But a lot of y’all would rather say black ppl are the issues before acknowledging that they deserve the same respect as everyone else and that’s the real “problematic” issue smhh
"The medication Bella was receiving for her disorder ultimate led to her developing an eating disorder" correction, growing up on tv with Yolanda Hadid as her mother ultimately led to her having an eating disorder. Poor girl.
Yeah the language written was misleading. She was using ADHD medication which suppress the appetite- but when you stop them or lower the dosage that goes away. They don’t create eating disorders- but one could absolutely get dependent on them which creates all sorts of other problems & anxiety, trouble sleeping,depression etc. However many people use stimulants for to focus & productivity, or to lose weight. Extremely common- I wouldn’t be surprised if her mother not only approved of the medication but asked the doctor for prescription to regulate her weight. Generally ADHD meds are mainly used in North America & are so widely accepted especially among kids & young people. In other parts of the world that is not accepted- & viewed as highly unhealthy. Mostly amphetamines are used as recreational drugs.
@@bettyberova4131 I think in my country you don't medicate children unless they have a really, REALLY bad case. Poor Bella, maybe her meds played a part in it, but I'm sure there were other factors as well, such as growing up under such pressure and her mother's behavior. It seems like the sisters really support each other though, so that's good at least.
@@najah7781 Yeah I was added the same thing- the pressures absolutely triggered body image issues; her mom/family, the industry, society & being a public figure. I assume when she started taking Adderal she noticed that she began to lose weight- liked it & wanted to lose even more. I can see that happening & turning into compulsion but definitely there was a root issue. Also people gain weight in their teens as the body is still developing & hormones which is totally normal. Modelling industry certainly wouldn’t help with any of these issues & they may resurface eventually.Its great that the sisters support each other but they more success one acquirers- the more pressure there is. Unfortunately US, Canada is extremely commonly prescribed medication. Even if kids don’t necessarily need it - their friends can share with them or tell them what to tell doctors when inquiring about prescription. Or parents just blindly trust doctors Its very commonly used in University/College as well- there are documentaries about it. Its of those “conditions” that is extremely exploited by medical & pharmaceutical industry. I mean the symptoms are real & can vary but there are lifestyle or other mental health/stress factors that can mimic the symptoms or affect them. Sometimes anxiety/depression stress can absolutely manifest as adhd. Regardless it can be managed with different tools than amphetamines. It can be very addictive as well.
@@diabloakland It also depends where you live I guess-maybe certain doctors are more careful now because for SO long they were prescribed like candy. The majority of doctors probably still prescribe them easily though- if people know how to talk or manipulate the system they can easily get them prescribed- weather they actually need them or not is another topic. Also they are fairly easy to find from other people as well- family/siblings, friends or dealers that got their hands on them only through prescription or other people who were they were prescribed for. University/college especially campuses are generally swimming in them.
Look, even if she’s tone deaf, I actually understand how she feels. I have depression, anxiety and chronic pain. People always tell me that I don’t look “depressed”. Well, I am. And that thinks about feeling like she’s less pretty because she has brown hair instead of blonde also made me sad. I too used to wish I had lighter hair. I too have issues with my mom, etc. I don’t care much about celebrities. She may seem gone deaf on certian things, but people forget she’s a person. Not some pretty ornament. People have a habit of dehumanizing models and actors, and that’s the main reason why I think Hollywood is so messed up. These people are not viewed as people.
I judged her so unfarly in the past. I thought she was just another model that didnt show us more than that. Until I found out she is half-palestinian and see her political views on Instagram, which I think are sooo important. Defending Palestine doesnt give you points for wokeness. She is putting her career at risk. The West definitly doesnt let you defend palestinian people. Besides that, she is also an amazing person I regret judging.
@@haydi.sameh66 nobody said that, she just said that bella put her career at risk for speaking about it, she’s brave for that, because like she said the west doesn’t like it when you defend palestinians & i love her.
Honestly I applaud Bella for being really authentic and real about her mental health issues. We're so desensitized to the glamor of celebrity culture that we forget that often times fame and the increased public scrutiny actually can add on and worsen existing issues, especially those related to your mental health, self image, etc. Also her mother's behavior on Real Housewives towards Gigi and Bella was sickening (telling them not to eat so much, micromanaging food, telling them not to gain any weight or get fat, criticizing their looks, etc) and it makes me nauseous thinking about how she may treat Gigi and Bella behind closed doors if she's so comfortable being so nasty to her children on a reality show aired to millions...
With all the things I’ve found out about yolonda I can’t help but think she treats her daughters similar to the way Tyra banks treated ANTM contestants cause both were models and models are always bully but in this case they both chose to bully people they had power over Tyra with her contestants and Yolanda with her children
@@giizodamulla7492 I know that it’s of course a lot worse and more detrimental coming from a mom but I’m saying that Yolanda and Tyra were both models and models in the industry are constantly bullied so they both became the bully towards people they had control and power over
She's 10000% had more than a nose job, but won't admit to any other cosmetic work because she would also have to own up to her lies. Not saying she has to reveal her medical history, nor specific procedures she's had, but simply saying, "Yes, I've had work done" goes a long way. I genuinely feel sorry for her that she has Yolanda as a mother who caused so much harm to her daughters. What kind of parents allows a 14 year to get an unnecessary rhinoplasty?! The nose isn't even fully developed at that age.
Yes absolutely, but from what I can tell in pictures the nose job was the first thing and she was too young. That’s coming from someone who got one at 17, my doctor had told me to wait for my face to be closer to done developing and I had matured enough emotionally to know it was what I wanted. At 14 you don’t know what you want, and the mom should’ve known better than let her daughter go through with a permanent procedure like that. The other things she had done she got when she was older and more sure of what she wanted, perhaps the nose is what she regrets, maybe even just because she feels like she wasn’t old enough to make that choice for herself.
the reason why i look up to her so much, is cause i can relate alot to what she is going through and how she is as a person. i cannot imagine myself being in the spotlight that she is in, i have mad respect for her hussle and honestly she is such a great example for getting through the day no matter how hard your emotions and thoughts keep beating you up. i don't care if she denies surgery for whatever reason, i'm sure she has her reasons & i respect that privacy too. also being in a very public toxic relationship is something that's hard to live by.
Sounds like she wants to learn how to be healthy...How to express herself in a healthy manner. Can't help but speculate, she could've been sheltered in her formative years, which could lead to negative outcomes as an adult.
I know people hate rich people call “suffering” maybe irrelevant thing to them, but problems are problems just because are not hard problems doesnt mean it affects you, this girl shares her struggles and people Made fun of her, dont disregard her problems just because to you are not that deep.
@@KM-yv3tr affording therapy does not mean it is easy to heal. especially when whatever caused your mental disorder is still in your life (could be her parents).
@@fur8104 And yet some rich people still struggle and commit suicide. So many rich and famous people had help and it didn’t work. Why do you people think that money can help/solve everything? I’m sure Robin Williams would still be here if that was the case
@Ally eve that's quite a bold statement to make, not to mention completely ignorant. No amount of treatment can cure depression due to the mind's complexity. So no, money cannot solve everything. It helps but other than that, your statement is so ignorant. This comes from someone who has the means to afford treatment but will probably struggle with depression for the rest of my life. Mental health is not as easy to 'solve' as physical health, maybe do some more research before commenting.
I really wish Bella good, ik she only let us see a part of herself, we don't know it all ,but I never had read or watched a video talking about something "bad" or saying she is rude or with lack of work ethic, she just shines and u can see her growd thru the years, now she's gonna make her acting debut and I really hope she will keep on growing pass the sky with peace and with ppl that love her
Man I feel so bad for criticizing her nose back in the day. I never knew she was this insecure about her physics and had surgery when only 14yo! It really shows that people's body are none of our business. Even if they had surgery. I hope she get to accept herself and be well. She is beautiful just as much as her sister.
@@milenapukalo5922 I thought I made it clear that I did indeed felt bad about it. Not that I was gone all the way to criticize her and harrass her on the internet, but I thought negatively of her, and I shouldn't have. And I m reflecting on myself to be and do better. I m pretty sure you didn't do the same, harassing people on the internet. My learned lesson is not to judge people based on what you see on the internet or even on real life, cause you never know what truly happens behind closed doors, but you have failed miserably in that.
it would solve a lot of my problems though lol, in fact it would actually solve A LOT of people's problems, debt, bills, medical problems, housing -- happiness isn't the only goal, relief and security is what we need and money is what would help. though I do feel for Bella, being under immense pressure to be perfect in a family where that's what's idolized really must suck so hard :(
@@Luvandrockettes if you was healed, good mentally and had gratitude you wouldn’t feel poor at all. Think about the people who are actually poor. How you on CZcams if you’re poor ? How do you have internet if you’re poor ? How do you have a phone and how could you afford it if you’re poor ? How do you eat if you’re poor ? How do you have a bed if you’re poor ? How do you have a home if you’re poor ? Your lack mindset is the problem, not the material things.
Really important video thats really sets a contradiction on the idea that people in the spotlight dont experience struggle with mental health problems, just delusional and that we should be more kinder and understanding. she is such a sweetheart and a generous person!
I didn’t think you would do a video in regards of Bella Hadid, but this is really eye-opening and interesting. I didn’t even know she was going through some things, but I’m so glad that Bella opened up about her own struggles and insecurities. She’s not even ugly, she is so gorgeous, with or without plastic surgery. Prioritizing your mental health is a must and it’s the first thing that everybody should be taking care of
You should make a video about the failure (from a quality standpoint) and disappointment of this pop punk mainstream revival, I’ve seen a lot of anti MGK videos as of late but maybe yours can finally make him go away and back to hip hop where I can ignore him in peace. The funniest thing to me though in all of this was that he was the most talked about person in music (mostly for him being absolutely clowned by all corners of music Twitter but still) until Harry Styles came back a couple days ago yet still could barely sell 100K first week.
@@suburbangrl417 I’m also a rap fan in addition to rock but he was easily ignorable when he was in hip hop, in rock he’s an absolute nuisance who thinks he’s the savior of the genre and freely butchers legendary songs from other artists like his absolutely abominable Aerials by System Of A Down cover. Don’t even get me started on his comments on bands wearing “comfortable shoes”, as if playing music has a goddamn dress code, as if a great metal band wearing Nike while performing makes their performances kick any less ass
Yes! I find the pop punk revival derivative and boring (and I had a HARD emo phase). There’s nothing rly new here with MGK. I do enjoy some of the trap-pop-punk mixes from around 2017 but at this point I’m bored with the copy and paste from early 2000s
@@GraduateJLN I actually do like hers it can be hit or miss for me though. Her recent album and the one as “The Anxiety” is good, emo girl w mgk was not lol
I was exactly the same. Undiagnosed I used to hide and cry, shake, frightened. I feel for her so much. Being successful, doesn't change the pain. I can't believe her family let her have surgery at that young age, as well as all the other things. Her mother was abusive in my eyes.
it’s hard when it’s your mother because you love them. My mom used to call me every name under the sun. “Fat” “retarted” “gay” and luckily I had thick skin and just knew my mother was bipolar and psychotic lmao but me and my mom have a great relationship now and she’s apologized but some kids are strongly effected by what their parents do!
@@PerkyBoy MY MOTHER AND FATHER BOTH SAY THE SAME SHIT "I DONT REMEMBER IT THAT WAY" "I DONT REMEMBER SAYING THAT" "THATS NOT WHAT HAPPENED" BITCHHHH YEAH BC IT WAS ANOTHER DAY TO YOU I ACTUALLY HAD TO HEAR IT. just so yk thats literally gaslighting im sorry ur in the same boat of her not actually apologizing and just saying lol idk mane :((
my parents gave me my bpd and its even worse bc they both have no mental problems...i do believe my dad might be a narc who was never diagnosed bc he doesnt believe in therapy and military psych ppl never ever diagnose ppl unless its so bad they believe they shouldnt be active duty. theyre fine w narcs, antisocial, other ones too holding ppls lives in their hands :)))))))) totally not a bad thing :)))))))) yet i would be rejected bc BPD ppl are known to go off the deepend and they dont want that liability. i do agree w them not letting ppl like me into the military tho i shouldnt be trusted w a gun id off myself fast asl. ppl who arent suicidal but still shouldnt be trusted w ppls lives and a gun seem to be fine tho...
I like her 100x times more than Gigi I think also it was for her harder in life than for her sister. Her mother was almost obsessed with gigi and 'supporting her' and always only talking about gigi. Bella was always in the shadow, she had to go through a nose job at 14 (we all know who put her in pressure) , she talks more about her depressive phase and her emotions, tries and support people who can't show their voice, she seems very humble, down to earth and supportive. She is more like her father. I really like her, she is more than a beautiful and sexy woman
I admire the way she deals with that situation! Since she never turned against his sister but knows well that everything comes from outside. I feel identified with what she says because I was always compared to my sister, who is also blonde with light eyes and prettier than me, the prettiest in school, church, family, etc. But I never felt ugly until everyone started telling me and comparing me. I suffered pelnty in my teens but incredibly I got over it when I moved to a school last year of high school where no one knew her. (Didnt swich for that haha) but it was for the best. I get it because my sister is also only a year older than me as are Gigi and Bella, which makes the comparison that much bigger too. If my sister had been a famous model it would have been 1000 times worse
The video of her talking about designer shoes... we all have struggles. Bella as well... hers are just different than most peoples. Look at it like this, today kids are picked on if they don't have the clothes their peers are wearing, the electronics, the shoes, etc. Every generation has experienced this. When I was young if you weren't wearing Abercrombie & Fitch.. you weren't cool. Cell phones weren't a thing and even when they became a thing it wasn't a big enough deal yet but the clothes and shoes HAD to be what the popular kids had. Bella you went through the same exact thing we all do except for wealthy people. If she didn't have a certain brand name shoe or any brand name shoes/clothes like her peers did... that made her uncool or at least feel that way. If ppl would stop judging so quickly and actually THINK.. they would realize this.
Yeah I agree with you. It’s just sad people ridicule her because it reminds me so much of my upbringing of peers having lack of empathy towards things that might have impacted someone negatively. Celebrities are people who can go through some things in similar ways even if May be small but I do think the younger generation being on the internet are really just projecting their insecurities on her for no reason. And we wonder why mental health problems are a thing. Just causing relational trauma left and right and then crying wolf when the abuser actually has a crisis.
Yes my mom said if kids didn’t come to school with name brand clothes and shoes, they would be picked on. At first I thought that was wild but then I remembered yeah, when I was in high school people did the same thing, especially if you didn’t have name brand sneakers
bella's tumblr was a literal ed-page//pro an* page and people should have known something was wrong especcially since a lot of the things she would write were things her mom said to them on the show. i dont think it's just 'Adderall' that was the cause of her ed, her mom definitely had a helping hand. i also dont think her message has that much impact when she puts in on a beauty magazine that tells you you need to be as thin as her to be beautiful and has been pushing harmful beauty standards that she fell victim to. i think from vogue's side its purely performative, she should have opted for a platform like Oprah or Gayle-King esque interview bc i dont think a lot of people will take it seriously....especially since vogue will literally have a fad diet in the next page after reading the article and little to no diversity in terms of race and body types. bella used to look very middle eastern (like her step sisters) but truth is she might not have covered vogue at all if she still looked like that. but im glad she shared her message.
It was definitely A PR stunt she got even more exposure & contracts since then. Also she probably has her diet under control but probably exercises a lot more plus her metabolism is good. She is still quite thin which is fine but its not like changes were made that showed she was comfortable with being more curvy. Also absolutely language written was misleading. She was using ADHD medication which suppress the appetite- but when you stop them or lower the dosage that goes away. They don’t create eating disorders- but one could absolutely get dependent on them which creates all sorts of other problems & anxiety, trouble sleeping,depression, malnourishment & long term dependence etc. that could eventually contribute to body image issues but only if there were other pressures involved- family, the industry, society etc. it could lead to compulsive behaviour like ED. However many people use stimulants for to focus & productivity, or to lose weight/suppress appetite.Extremely common- I wouldn’t be surprised if her mother not only approved of the medication but asked the doctor for prescription to regulate her weight & give her an edge. Generally ADHD meds are mainly used in North America & are so widely accepted especially among kids & young people. In other parts of the world that is not accepted- & viewed as highly unhealthy. Most amphetamines are just used as recreational drugs. Its certainly one thing the medical/pharmaceutical industry exploits.
ok like yes she was pretty before but before the surgeries she was by societys standards and especially her mothers standards just nothing compared to gigi like again she was pretty but before it was comparing someone who is naturally a model to the average pretty woman yk
she didnt only have a nose job, she had a face lift, lip filler a second nose job most likely she completely bought a new face so she could work as a model
People are way too harsh on her for some reason. She legit gives them no reason for hate. She isnt malicious, isnt hurting anyone, doing her job and doing it well... and people are bothered.
I love the bond that she has with her Mum and brother and sisters. They are all so incredibly close and I love how dedicated Yolanda is with all her children and the rhetoric that she's abusive towards them.
as a girl recovering from an ED herself, is so refreshing to see that even models, the ones we usually idolize to have their bodies, are being opem! I'm so happy for her finally allowing herself to open up, and I hope she continues to get better!
I never really found them very interesting, I liked them, but not enough to follow what they do, or what’s happening to/around them.. but this made me really respect Bella a lot more❤️
Okay, but let's not pretend that without the nose surgery she would get as far as she is now in her industry. We only care and follow because she was created a super model, maybe she was made or convinced to do it, but as you can see - being conventionally attractive at all cost is not worth it, unfortunately she has learned the hard way. I wish her a lot of healing and love. Also, Yolanda has the ugliest soul, people who did the surgery should be jailed - and her parents who allowed it.
this confirmed my suspicion that she has anorexia, as I had anorexia nervosa from age 13-18 - but to be honest, once anorexic, always anorexic. even when you do get healthy, that voice and urge to starve yourself is always in the back of your mind. so sad. she's beautiful though, and I'm glad she's still alive despite her inward turmoil. happens to the best of us.
I think we're too hyper focused on looks and comparison. It doesn't matter if she got work done or not. Doesn't matter if the hair is real or not. Nails. Weight. Whatever the thing is. Be kind to yourself and to others. Her having surgery isn't the key to your self validation. Media pushing the standard is half the battle the other half is loving yourself. You're beautiful as you are full stop. There is no comparison. You waking up every day, smiling when you can, doing what you can, being happy is beautiful. Every kind person is needed. Media can't sell to you what you're not willing to buy. I think a lot of y'all sell yourself short.
I want to say think you to anyone who opens up about their mental health. You are helping to reduce stigma and improve understanding. Thanks to you, we are becoming more understanding and kinder to each other. Because of other people opening up, I have been able to open up without being mocked and ridiculed.
thank you as someone w BPD being open and honest w the people who follow me being honest abt going to rehab isnt easy i dont have a crazy big platform but a pretty decent sized snapchat acc funny enough where im super duper honest and people tell me its helped them then other people have told me to shut up and stop making everyone w BPD look bad bc i show the sides that arent so pretty too which i think is important or people who use my personality disorder as a way to discredit me its not always simple ://
Crazy I’ve always heard of them seen them of course but she has always been gorg to me she’s so beautiful and this article just made me like her a whole lot more imma get into her spreads and shoots … she won me over with her transparency and honesty this is what young girls need now
i realise she went through so much than gigi perhaps why she is so opened with her struggles because i actually rarely hear anything about gigi’s issues not that it’s a bad thing.
I wonder to what extent race played an issue, with her? Her mom is white and Bella looks a LOT more Middle-Eastern than white. The eyes, the nose, the dark hair. I think she's the prettier sister by far, but maybe the mother pushed her to look whiter? Just my guess. Not sure what her relationship with her father is,. or how bad the divorce was.
She's a natural blonde, though obviously that doesn't detract from the fact that she's mixed (but so are Gigi and Anwar). I do think Yolanda had a detrimental effect on all her children's mental well-being, even if she clearly does love them. At the same time, no one ever says anything about Mohamed; he's the one with the consecutive divorces and increasingly younger partners, and although we don't know as much about him I don't think this is without its effect either.
I didn't have much issues growing up (except having fake friends n gaslighted which I'm still living with its impact) but as an adult I'm dealing with so much depression, anxiety, loneliness etc.. it's probably my MS taking a lot of control over my mental health and making me feel bad and having low self esteem. But it's interesting how I have since my late teens especially up to now gets called beautiful and have had strangers walk up to me and asked for my numbers and aunties simping over me for their sons etc (I'm not bragging at all I don't know how else to tell it) but I still have so much self doubt and don't see what others see in me bcuz I just see myself as maybe above average. I just know how to style myself, do my hair & makeup that makes me stand out from others cuz they don't put as much effort in making themselves up. But despite all tht I have insecurity, feeling constant fear & not having reached any bigger goal in the last 8 years or life change. Health complications which has n still holds me back.. she can work hard bcuz she got at least connections that gives her work...
Yolanda reminds me of my mom a ton…an untreated bipolar with narcissistic tendencies…why I side eye the Zayn/Yolanda interaction that lead to his and Gigi’s break up. But it’s clear as day her choices hugely affected her kids mental health.
I went through, the physical and mental pain. It has to do,with morning repeated,negative thoughts,for a long time. Change this tape and you will feel immediately better. You count,you are here and you need to love and find yourself.
Hey hey I’m a big fan of Bella and I love her very much. I follow her and knew she went through hard things and struggled a lot. As a fan I always wish she being happy or even just feel good every day But the title “the sad case” is really misleading like her life was a tragedy and no hope !! The tittle makes people feel sorry for her (or hate) to accept her ?! No it would be better that we can see she’s a kind, loving person with beautiful soul that trying to be better day by day, a respectful and responsible model, she deserves to be loved and appreciated, not hated or feel sorry for
Chronic lyme isn't a real condition, either. They're being lied to and being misled and robbed by a greedy doctor. Misdiagnosed with "chronic lyme" when she actually has dysautonomia
im just curious, why do you think that? no hate i'm just trying to understand your point better. because you're essentially saying, this chronic illness, that is caused by a toxin that has a clear consensus of being dangerous, that thousands of people have fully recovered from, isn't real and that she actually just has an equally debilitating illness that just happened without a cause. im not at all saying that dysautonomia isn't real. but there's a reason why people recover from dysautonomia when they get diagnosed with lyme or other illnesses with a known cause and why they don't get better when they don't know what causes it. if it's all quackery, why do so many people fully recover? i know that there's a lot of people who don't recover but that can be explained by the fact that lyme usually isn't the only thing they're sick from and many doctors only treat the lyme when they're also sick from other things too
@@caroline__0148 look up the NIHs description of "chronic lyme" . I'm not talking about acute ly.e disease. Nor post lyme chronic illness. She and her mom and sister all confined that they are on long term abx for unproven lymes.
@@caroline__0148 doctor Mike did a video on it. Highly recommend the quick dive in that short video. they shadow deleted my post with the link... NIAI D. Says: 'The term “chronic Lyme disease” (CLD) has been used to describe people with different illnesses. While the term is sometimes used to describe illness in patients with Lyme disease, it has also been used to describe symptoms in people who have no clinical or diagnostic evidence of a current or past infection with B. burgdorferi . Because of the confusion in how the term CLD is employed, and the lack of a clearly defined clinical definition, many experts in this field do not support its use...." They have disclosed that they are on long term antibiotics 2ith no positive testing. They are rich and a "doctor" pushing psuedo science is lining his pockets off their disparity of their disability because it's seen as a "fix all" and "curable", instead of post lyme dysautonomia which has no treatment except symptom management. It's a shame, really, and the whole "chronic lyme" game has led to the early and PREVENTABLE deaths of patients to no end as a consequence of such pseudo science...
@@frankied.roosevelt6232 first of all, i do agree that many people have received the wrong treatments for their illnesses and many doctors don't know what theyre doing and it leads to lots of people wasting their money and in some cases having awful effets. i think that has more to do with the dr's not knowing what they're doing than it not being real. also i don't have lyme myself so im not familiar with a lot of the terms. what's the difference between chronic lyme and post lyme chronic illness? i might just be talking about post lyme chronic illness this whole time but im not sure i couldn't find dr mikes video on it but i wanna address what you said about the symptoms being seen in other illnesses. lyme disease can cause a certain set of symptoms and many people with the same symptoms don't have lyme. this isn't because lyme isn't a legitimate cause of those symptoms, but because they are the body's general response to a biological toxin it can't remove. lyme isn't the only biotoxin and it's also probably not the most common one. there's also types of mold, fungi, and bacteria that can give you the same symptoms. so it makes sense that people have these same symptoms but not due to lyme. sure, other illnesses like dysautonomia can be grouped with these symptoms. but they have no *known cause. we still can't make the claim that they're not caused by anything. esp bc we haven't studied the relationship between all the other types of biotoxins and these illnesses. if you want, look up chronic inflammatory response syndrome symptoms (CIRS) and you'll see that they're almost identical to lyme. chronic lyme is included as a CIRS illness. and i do agree that there's a lack of accurate, thorough testing which makes the diagnosis lose its credibility. we're starting to find more accurate ways but they haven't hit mainstream so most tests people take aren't accurate. this can explain why it took the hadids forever to get dxed. the term isn't as objectively defined as most other illnesses but it's still in the beginning stages. esp bc in western medicine, the way we spread awareness about illnesses is through an abundance of clinical trials that not only give a clear definition but also a "cure" or at least, an effective treatment. pharmacutical companies are primarily responsible for the awareness of chronic illnesses and there's more of an incentive to do so when there'e an effective treatment they can curate. but with lyme, there's no one size fits all so there's less of an incentive to find the ultimate "cure". as a result, people have to go off of treatments that don't have as much funding or clinical trials. which leads to people saying that there's no concrete evidence. also, what works for each person is vastly different do to many factors such as environment, sensitivity to ingredients, severity of illness, symptoms, coinfections etc. with that said, thousands of people have fully recovered with treatment but chances are, treatments have been based on the individual. im sure there's a set protocol but they alter it along the way if need be. i'm just curious, what do you think is the reason why people like justin bieber and avril lavigne are able to live healthily after being sick for so long? i know people personally who are fully recovered after being bedridden from chronic lyme. why do you think that is? (i didn't say the hadids bc yolanda got sick again from mold after being in remission so i wouldn't consider her recovered, idk about the others)
I agree that its sad and having yolanda as a mother must be incredibly difficult. At the same time she sort of supports those exact things that make her miserable by playing into that role that she was pushed into as a child. now she is literally one of the highest paid models in the world and that obviously doesn't mean she cant have mental health issues but it also means that she is in an incredibly privileged situation. She has the option of taking a break or stopping modeling altogether without ever being in fear of losing her existence. Up until now she cant even admit to the other cosmetic procedures she had done which is incredibly toxic for young women growing up thinking those beauty standards are attainable (this also plays into her basically encouraging those aspects of society that had such a detrimental effect on her mental health.)-I'm really torn about this
that's the same thing i was conflicted with. she only became huge in the fashion industry when she changed her whole look. she doesn't wanna admit that in order to make it you have to change your face to fit a particular beauty standard and also have an eating disorder.
I also found it difficult when she said, she went back to her small hotel room. I do not think it was small and maybe it was just small because it was in Paris, where the hotel rooms are not the American standard size. Furthermore, many models do not even have the privilege to be in a hotel room. Most have to live together in a small, bad apartment. So her saying I had to go in a small hotel room feels as if we should think: oh no, the poor girl, she only bought a small hotel room and went there all alone. While other models really have a tough time during fashion week and cannot afford a single room for themselves.
I feel like her act had drawn some people and pushed away others, I was one who really didn't like her, I judged her as fake, and guess I wasn't way off. she was presenting herself as this happy confident (out of the blue) supermodel who just shows her perfect lifestyle, as everyone famous in Hollywood does. now, since she's opened up, she's become more of a "real human" to my eyes and I really appreciate her and root for her now
People hate her just because she doesn’t want to talk about her PS it’s literally non of you’ll business,people literally want to expose celebrity and west time on them just Focus on your life .
Oh my God... I would have actually never said... Sometimes it's so easy for us to say "oh they got it all". But I'm glad more and more celebrities are opening up about their struggles.
As someone who loves the Hadd sisters (as in not just Bella and Gigi, but the others as well) it's clear their dad was the better parental figure.. Yolanda is crazy lol.
I wish shed be honest abt her ponytail facelift, 2nd nose job, lip fillers etc. she literally bought a new face and wont admit it and its damaging. i hope this is the beginning of her admitting to more and more
She was honest… she didn’t get a ponytail facelift, it’s a browlift, she didn’t get lip fillers, it’s a lip lift, and she did admit to having a nose job. She’s just smart or was trained well by her team
@@onika490 no i agree she is smart for leaving things out while being honest. i do think its a facelift not a brow lift bc though that can make the fat in your cheeks go down a bit its not that much!! technically a brow lift is part of the ponytail facelift but it has other elements too which you can see present on the face. agree w she actually does look like its a lip lift > filler now that i look again
@@bre7931 because it leads to dysmorphic people or dumbass kids into thinking that one day they too can magically have a fattier round face then wakeup with cheekbones and a jawline. yes it doesnt take much brain power to see that she bought a whole new face but people who havent seen the before who might be a little on the low iq side believe she was naturally born like that. the complexness of this is not something i can put into words well because im not a professional nor have all the right things to say but actual plastic sergions (idk how to spell it sorry) agree w me on this they too (usually) believe that people shouldnt lie because it causes a lot more damage to people than a lot of people realize and theres data proving so
Growing up in a crazy hollywood family being judged,is very difficult. Every family has labels,the pretty one,the smart one etc. Those labels can destroy a person. The mother seems really intent on keeping her kids slim and model like. Allowing early surgery was a bad move except living in hollywood looks are the top issue.
I just watched a compilation of Yolanda Hadid and how she treated her children, it was INSANE the things she would say to them. I couldn't imagine having her as my mom and not growing up with some kid of eating disorder or body dysmorphia.
I’m actually surprised they have a strong relationship with their mum even tho she has mentally damaged them :/
@@starr2870 it’s hard when it’s your mother because you love them. My mom used to call me every name under the sun. “Fat” “retarted” “gay” and luckily I had thick skin and just knew my mother was bipolar and psychotic lmao but me and my mom have a great relationship now and she’s apologized but some kids are strongly effected by what their parents do!
No wonder Zayn wants to keep Khai away from Yolanda
Well..
@@starr2870 it’s usually the ones that were abused by their parents that crave their approval. especially if it has been conditioned/ normalized in the family to give in to their mom
even the woman who's been declared as "the most beautiful woman in the world" stuggles with mental health issues and how she views herself, i feel so sad for her to experience such toxic stages of her life, i love bella hadid so much, mental health really matters everyone, please take care! ⚘
@@rajatsharma119 she does have a dad in her life though but i do wonder where he was when she got the nose job
@@rajatsharma119 you really thought you ate that.
@@sherly610 her parents are divorced idt her dad had much of a say
@@jazzy658 i know they are.
@@rajatsharma119 her father is pretty much involved and cares about his children (at leats from what i see and how bella and gigi described it) i even think that their father is the reason why they are humble and down to earth than most of those high paid models even kendall (no shade)
I got to meet her at a Bulgari event in Rome a couple of years back and I have to say she’s truly an angel, she was so nice to all of use and took the time to have a little chat with the people there, it didn’t matter if they were just “regular” people
yeah, she gets paid to be liked by people, dont be surprised when she talks to people with respect, she has to do it otherwise she wouldnt be famous
@@antionnella1938 she doesn’t get paid to be liked? She’s a model? Naomi Campbell is famously unlikeable yet she’s one of the most successful models of all time. Bella didn’t owe us anything and didn’t need to be as nice as she was but it’s because she is genuinely kind hearted and polite that she choose to act that way. A friend of mine run into Kendall Jenner during Milan fashion week and trust me when I tell you she had a completely different experience…
@@lidiar9471 Because Naomi Campbell built her career over WALKING, not over instagram and other social media. Bella Hadid wouldnt be known anywhere without the help of her parents lmao sorry if youre a fan but if you know a little bit about modeling then youll know that she has no talent
@@lidiar9471 was Kendall Jenner rude? You mind spilling? 🤔
Of course she gets paid to do so
I got a nose job when I was 17 because that’s when my parents and my surgeon thought was the best age. And you know what? I was still too young. I ended up having to go back in at 21 and get it fixed cuz my face finished developing afterwards and I ended up having breathing problems. Trust me people, wait
@not now I think the body doesn’t stop maturing until age 25 really. But I’m not an expert but I personally would wait a bit.
@@Hersheychocolate12 is 24
@@beatrizalmeidasantos7746 you do know getting surgeries in general, as you get older you could develope some problems 😂😂
@not now You’re beautiful. No need for any surgery.
Generally, people go in for a retouch depending on the healing process. Most celebrities we see have a couple done, usually a few changes done at a time.
For anyone thinking of getting one, please look closely into doctors, prices, testimonials and the real before and after pictures. If it's something you really want, make a good investment. You'll see it for the rest of your life 😊
Good luck!
I really resonate with Bella Hadid on the insecurities, for most my childhood, I was the ugly kid everyone in my grade collectively picked on, I was rarely called beautiful, I was called a man, and treated like I had cooties. I've contemplated plastic surgery because of it.
Might get plastic surgery soon
@@birgittagaye8326 u horrible
@@birgittagaye8326 im trying to embrace my natural features but idk if i can
i felt that so hard. i was constantly called ugly and told i looked like a man too. on top of that i was dealing with severe anorexia which didnt help the "you look like a man" comments. it rly sucks i feel u girl
This isn’t any sort of consolation, but I admire women for whatever figure or strength they have. Good luck to anyone on their journey to embrace their body. I hope one day you can learn to love yourselves before you get to the point of plastic surgery, but if you do decide to get it:
A. It should be something you do for yourself and not to please others.
B. People have no business judging your decision if that’s what you truly want for yourselves.
Stay strong and do remember beauty is subjective no matter how much we try to box it into one body type. Humans are meant to be individuals, not idealized copies of each other.
The platsic surgeon who performed such a heavy non essential surgery on *a minor* should have their license revoked, the fact that a medical professional even approved and went through with this baffles me and it feels like no one is talking about it
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I'm pretty sure there are documents in place covering anybody. If in many states you can marry at 14 years old, and no age limits in certain states (as long as the parent sells- I mean approves for their kids), then I'm sure cosmetic surgeries could be done in a similar way at these certain states
@@Metroid250 I agree with this comment. Also who’s to say it was done by a medical professional? Do you know how many people get plastic surgery done by people claiming to be medical professionals who don’t have credentials to back this up or if they do it’s fraudulent documents? It’s insane what people will do for money, they’ll mess with lives.
Its actually common. A lot of people girls have it at 13 during summer break...
The surgeons are covered. Will have no licenses revoked.
many of these nepo celebs have gotten a nose job in their teens. They have the money and their parents are cool with it. Kendall Jenner was 15 when she got her first nose job back in 2011/2012.
Wow it’s so crazy people called Bella as the “ugly sister” I’ve always found her to be so uniquely beautiful. Gigi is beautiful of course but Bella’s features are so unique
Because she has androgenic features
@Nang Lei it’s not racism, just american beauty standards. bella hadid fits more with european beauty standards, while gigi fits the “all american blonde”, standard.
@@lolomar bella takes more after their father and has more middle eastern features, like her nose, which she felt she had to go under the knife and change. It definitely is euro centric beauty standards being pushed upon her.
@@princessazula624 i love it !
Love this comment because it compliments Bella without dragging Gigi down 👍👏
I really know nothing about Bella, but it seems regardless of how wealthy or famous you are, no human being is immune to such commonalities such as mental health struggles. I wish her well, and hope she's looking after herself.
Yes, at some point we're all broken, but we can avoid being beyond repair. And by just being nice, we can be someone's unexpected band-aid that can help them start over again.
*You guys should thank God it's only her mother, but for me it was my mother, and all my elder siblings since my childhood. Being the last born, I was abused mentally, physically and emotionally. They bullied me if I cry, that I cry like a cow. So my place for crying was in the toilet. When i was in kindergarten they left me in school while all kids are away i was always the last one to be picked. The school started at 8am and ends at 1pm but i was off from school at 4pm sitting under a hot sun. One of my sis said something that made one of my family member attempted to mola....me but I managed to run. This gave me trauma from not sleeping thinking he would come to attack me. I was told if i refuse to do any house chores they'll reject me food and sometimes i would eat leftovers. They gave me difficult house chores to do that a young child can't do. My elder sis used to hit my head every time and my mom once hit my head with loads of books from the shelves. If they all gather to sit and talk, if i would enter the room to join them, they'll send me out of the room or tell me go keep the house clean while they're laughing. I was denied school facilities i wore their second hand clothes my mom never bought me a new school uniform. If we were asked to bring a set full of mathematics objects, my mom would tell me go take from your siblings. I used to fear them to ask them to lend me anything so i just decide to go back to school to be punished this was from primary till i completed my secondary education with difficulties. Even inner clothes i was never bought. My mom was the type who if she buys me anything she'll never buy me again so I'll have to wear the same for years even if i was growing. Especially my school journey was the difficult one. My socks were torn shoes etc and many kids didn't like to play with me. Sometimes i would stay without food at school drinking only soda and there were two girls who would offer me their left overs and i would eat. Some of my siblings were taken to universities and i was never supported to be taken to university or college. I tried to borrow some money to study IATA as this was my dream career to be a flight attendant but i never succeeded. When we shifted to another country i got an offer to be a Teacher and the school would train under graduates and that's the time my life started to change. I became a Teacher at only 21 and was loved by parent's and my students. I started gaining feelings that i never recieved and I wont want to see any child get hurt. So i was invited sometimes by parent's in parties and i would entertain them as dancing was part of my hobby when all people would leave the house i used to practise dancing. But at the same time i battled Insomnia, Ulcers, Haemorroids, Skin allergies, Anxiety, and Anorexia. I was proposed 4 times but my siblings put down all my proposals because they didn't want me to get married before my two elder ones. I later got married from zero expectations it was an awful wedding even when they tried to ruined it but it happened. My marriage flew me to another country and they followed me to ruin my marriage life as they kept coming to my house untill my inlaws decided to stop them and i managed to call my mother to tell her what my inlaws said. It was the biggest step that i ever imagined i would do in my life. But before my mom left i decided to do her a farewell party that she prayed for me. You can watch her in my videos. There's a story that my step brother told me that my siblings abandoned me in the street when i was 2 years old and he's the one who found me and returned me back home. When i faced and asked my mom and my siblings they never gave me an accurate straight forward answer till today. Thanks God I'm free now from all the toxic life that i went through. I'm now focusing to heal my inner self. Years later my mom sent me an apology through Audio. It wasn't fulfilling but i decided to forgive her. But my siblings I'll never forget or forgive. Friends read my ABOUT in my CZcams Channel and support my facebook charity page 👉 @TheHusnaCenter*
Its about time someone created a video with sensitivity and kindness. its absolutely disgusting how we treat celebrities. I grew up in fostercare, however, i dont think my pain is any worse than someone who has money...i obviously dont know her, but she seems like a sweetheart and doesnt deserve the constant ridicule. god bless!
have followed her before she modeled and been a fan. from my perspective, a lot of people have a problem about her plastic surgery and her lying about it. now im someone who doesnt idolize someone like a god. i call out people if thats problematic and bullying + cancel culture def is not the answer. bella has worked hard to get where she is rn. she is well established and has made a name for hersef. but just because someone is nice or kind does not mean they are free from mistakes and public opinions.
I agree. Celebrities are still human but it seems people just want to project hate more so.
Imo its hard to "even out" a poor person struggling vs a person who has so much materialistic priviledges struggling. She can afford therapy. She can afford to quit when she gets the chance. She has millions of people feeling sorry for her, it just isn't the same.
@@rakata1987 I agree with you. I honestly don't think she deserves hate, but I don't think she deserves pity either.
Unfortunately people forget that celebrities are human too
“Just an almond a day keeps the fat away” - Yolanda Hadid
funny because almonds contain quite a bit of fat
I’m pretty sure she would say that
@@zonk35 Thats kinda the point. Yolanda knows what shes doing.. they wont pass out if they eat a small amount of fat but they still will lose weight because its the only thing they had. Shes a sicko.
@@zonk35 it's healthy fats that has benefits same as olive oil and avocado.. not McDonald's type of fats..
@@emyf9194 fats are fats. there are saturated fats and unsaturated fats. the vegetable oil that fries are made in is the same type of fat that’s in a salad dressing or an almond. all fats are 9 calories per gram. calorie-wise, there is no difference between “fat from an almond” and “mcdonalds fats.”
i don’t want to have a conversation about mcdonalds causing “inflammation” that makes you gain weight even if the calorie levels are the same between 2 types of food, because that’s not actually a thing.
As a middle child that has always been in the shadows of my older sister, and was considered as the ugly one. I can relate to her so much, as I seek the validation that my parents did not give me growing up, to other people. I am a people pleaser and I hate it, I hate it that I can’t be confident in my answers or choices. I hate that I need to get the approval of other people before doing something. I hate that I listen to other people’s opinion when I should not. I hate that I put other people above myself. I want to love myself just the way I am, and I am learning it.
Exactly, I say "stop trying to please everyone man" to myself yet I try pleasing those outside of the house.
You can do it, it takes time but you should only give priority to yourself before anyone
Good luck on your personal journey! You will get there!
You probably have some stunning and outstanding physical features too, you and people may have overlooked it because it's not conventionally attractive, but genetically it is a blessing. My sister who is a middle child (there's literally 3 of us and we all happen to be girls) weren't always considered pretty as a child but our eldest sis looks like a female Korean protagonist and whenever she does her makeup she looks like a barbie, just so pretty. As we grew older my middle sis happened to have the best tits, tallest, and has the healthiest and aligned teeth out of all the 3 of us. I, myself happened to just look average (bland) with no outstanding features at all lmao I may not be pretty but I can blend in anywhere like a chameleon. God is fair.
I also have self esteem issues. I am trying to love myself one step at a time. Don't rely on others for your happiness. If you are an adult, your happiness is your responsibility. Be kind to yourself. For every small win you make, pat yourself on the back and applaud yourself. I am striving to be financially and emotionally independent.
This is why many people root for Bella. She was in a sense the "ugly" ducking. Obviously, we don't look like her but we have all felt like her at some point in our lives.
um, she doesn't look like her either, so don't worry 😇
@@evathespeaker9537 the shade 💀
@@evathespeaker9537 Oooh you're messy 🤣🤣
@@evathespeaker9537 sad but true
The way the mother treated her. God I made the mistake of watching that videos, absolutely heartbreaking. Very triggering to me. I don’t have the self image or eating issues but growing up, I was the dumb, useless daughter my mother made sure to let me know how much she likes my sister better. Just heartbreaking. Anyone can say whatever they want about her looks but I feel for bella, deeply.
You know,I think I kind of understand what Bella was really saying in the infamous interview where she gets emotional about having "her first pair of Louboutin in college". It was not really about receiving a pair of luxury shoes,it was about being finally noticed by her mother as someone that could actually be like Gigi.
Imagine spending your whole life being told that you're not like your perfect sister,the one that is adored by your mom and given all the fancy clothes and modeling gigs,the one your mother sees as a goddess and superb money maker and your just "Isabella".
I think that the moment her mother gave her that pair of shoes actually meant "yeah girl,seems like you can do that as well".
Of course when you hear it the first time it's just ridiculous,but when you really think about it it's just so sad and pretty tragic. Just because she is famous and beautiful,it doesn't mean she is happy.
I always suspected it's because Yolanda probably sees more of herself in Gigi because physically Gigi looks more like her Bella looks more like her dad and you could say pre surgery was average looking and it's not to insult her she wasn't drop dead gorgeous it comes across like she started modeling to compete with Gigi to show she can be beautiful too who knows I feel badly for her for her to go through that much surgery suggests how low her self esteem must be
a lot of people come for her bc she hasn’t confessed about everything she’s got done but i honestly think that’s okay. she’ll come out when she’s ready. she can’t think of all of the young people who look up to her because she has to put herself first. look at how long it took her to confess about her nose job. from what i’ve seen, people who hide the work they had done are just insecure about it and haven’t accepted it yet. once she accepts the fact that she got work done and becomes more comfortable with herself, she’ll tell people. if she’s not ready, then that’s that and we can’t force people to open up to us. atp, it seems like people just want the power to say “ha, i knew it. i was right, she bought her whole face and she’s fake.” and don’t care about the actual truth. i only wish the best to bella and other people like her and hope they find peace in their life. ✨
Completely agree!!! Except some people just want to keep it secret tho bc once they admit to anything the public becomes insufferable
I agree we aren't entitled to know but I'll admit I do feel more open to her now that she did admit that she had work done - it was so obvious. I can understand that it would be a difficult thing to do and I think she handled it with grace and maturity. I think she is doing important work shedding light on the ridiculous pressures that girls grow up with to conform to one Eurocentric idea of beauty. Hopefully this will help lead to greater attention on the changes we need address on mental health and beauty standards
ever since she talked about palestine and other muslim tragedies she's had my respect
we don't have many celebrities talking about it and i adore her for it
well she is half palestinian, but yeah i love how she always stands up for what's right
she still hasn't addressed her very racist past though. she used to say the n word a lot before she deleted all her tweets and tumblr. she calls out a lot of people for being racist like lil pump but can't apologize for her own past.
I love that about her!!! Even when people attacked her for it, she stood her ground. Incredibly admirable!!
@@normanistoenail2147 yall black peoples are starting to be super problematic for no reason
@@ellenhelen700 your statement in itself is problematic using the actions of a singular Black person (You also don’t even know if this person is black) to speak for an entire community.
And they aren’t wrong black ppl aren’t problematic because they ask ppl not to say a slur that was meant to dehumanize them. Especially if said person they are asking is flaunting activism on their page the least they could do is acknowledge their own mistakes to not look like a hypocrite
But a lot of y’all would rather say black ppl are the issues before acknowledging that they deserve the same respect as everyone else and that’s the real “problematic” issue smhh
"The medication Bella was receiving for her disorder ultimate led to her developing an eating disorder" correction, growing up on tv with Yolanda Hadid as her mother ultimately led to her having an eating disorder. Poor girl.
Yeah the language written was misleading. She was using ADHD medication which suppress the appetite- but when you stop them or lower the dosage that goes away. They don’t create eating disorders- but one could absolutely get dependent on them which creates all sorts of other problems & anxiety, trouble sleeping,depression etc.
However many people use stimulants for to focus & productivity, or to lose weight. Extremely common- I wouldn’t be surprised if her mother not only approved of the medication but asked the doctor for prescription to regulate her weight.
Generally ADHD meds are mainly used in North America & are so widely accepted especially among kids & young people.
In other parts of the world that is not accepted- & viewed as highly unhealthy. Mostly amphetamines are used as recreational drugs.
@@bettyberova4131 I think in my country you don't medicate children unless they have a really, REALLY bad case. Poor Bella, maybe her meds played a part in it, but I'm sure there were other factors as well, such as growing up under such pressure and her mother's behavior. It seems like the sisters really support each other though, so that's good at least.
@@najah7781 Yeah I was added the same thing- the pressures absolutely triggered body image issues; her mom/family, the industry, society & being a public figure.
I assume when she started taking Adderal she noticed that she began to lose weight- liked it & wanted to lose even more. I can see that happening & turning into compulsion but definitely there was a root issue. Also people gain weight in their teens as the body is still developing & hormones which is totally normal.
Modelling industry certainly wouldn’t help with any of these issues & they may resurface eventually.Its great that the sisters support each other but they more success one acquirers- the more pressure there is.
Unfortunately US, Canada is extremely commonly prescribed medication. Even if kids don’t necessarily need it - their friends can share with them or tell them what to tell doctors when inquiring about prescription. Or parents just blindly trust doctors Its very commonly used in University/College as well- there are documentaries about it.
Its of those “conditions” that is extremely exploited by medical & pharmaceutical industry. I mean the symptoms are real & can vary but there are lifestyle or other mental health/stress factors that can mimic the symptoms or affect them. Sometimes anxiety/depression stress can absolutely manifest as adhd. Regardless it can be managed with different tools than amphetamines. It can be very addictive as well.
@@bettyberova4131 it’s so hard it actually get adhd meds. I have adult adhd n still can’t get help.
@@diabloakland It also depends where you live I guess-maybe certain doctors are more careful now because for SO long they were prescribed like candy. The majority of doctors probably still prescribe them easily though- if people know how to talk or manipulate the system they can easily get them prescribed- weather they actually need them or not is another topic.
Also they are fairly easy to find from other people as well- family/siblings, friends or dealers that got their hands on them only through prescription or other people who were they were prescribed for. University/college especially campuses are generally swimming in them.
Look, even if she’s tone deaf, I actually understand how she feels. I have depression, anxiety and chronic pain. People always tell me that I don’t look “depressed”. Well, I am. And that thinks about feeling like she’s less pretty because she has brown hair instead of blonde also made me sad. I too used to wish I had lighter hair. I too have issues with my mom, etc. I don’t care much about celebrities. She may seem gone deaf on certian things, but people forget she’s a person. Not some pretty ornament. People have a habit of dehumanizing models and actors, and that’s the main reason why I think Hollywood is so messed up. These people are not viewed as people.
Tone deaf for talking about fashion in a vogue interview? People really expected a vogue interview to be relatable.
I judged her so unfarly in the past. I thought she was just another model that didnt show us more than that. Until I found out she is half-palestinian and see her political views on Instagram, which I think are sooo important. Defending Palestine doesnt give you points for wokeness. She is putting her career at risk. The West definitly doesnt let you defend palestinian people. Besides that, she is also an amazing person I regret judging.
EXACTLY!!!!!!!!
so she can't defend palestine and spread awarness about it or what?
@@haydi.sameh66 nobody said that, she just said that bella put her career at risk for speaking about it, she’s brave for that, because like she said the west doesn’t like it when you defend palestinians & i love her.
Yep. I remember when Zayn Malik tweeted about Palestine back in his one direction days. The backlash was massive
Well, she was seen literally next to Hamas operatives and well-known antisemites. Kinda reckless of her part.
Honestly I applaud Bella for being really authentic and real about her mental health issues. We're so desensitized to the glamor of celebrity culture that we forget that often times fame and the increased public scrutiny actually can add on and worsen existing issues, especially those related to your mental health, self image, etc.
Also her mother's behavior on Real Housewives towards Gigi and Bella was sickening (telling them not to eat so much, micromanaging food, telling them not to gain any weight or get fat, criticizing their looks, etc) and it makes me nauseous thinking about how she may treat Gigi and Bella behind closed doors if she's so comfortable being so nasty to her children on a reality show aired to millions...
With all the things I’ve found out about yolonda I can’t help but think she treats her daughters similar to the way Tyra banks treated ANTM contestants cause both were models and models are always bully but in this case they both chose to bully people they had power over Tyra with her contestants and Yolanda with her children
THIS IS A GREAT COMPARISON
I don't think this is the same.We are talking about a mother here
@@giizodamulla7492 I know that it’s of course a lot worse and more detrimental coming from a mom but I’m saying that Yolanda and Tyra were both models and models in the industry are constantly bullied so they both became the bully towards people they had control and power over
@@sunflowerbabe6565 okay I get it now
Yolanda is 100% the root of this.
She's 10000% had more than a nose job, but won't admit to any other cosmetic work because she would also have to own up to her lies. Not saying she has to reveal her medical history, nor specific procedures she's had, but simply saying, "Yes, I've had work done" goes a long way. I genuinely feel sorry for her that she has Yolanda as a mother who caused so much harm to her daughters. What kind of parents allows a 14 year to get an unnecessary rhinoplasty?! The nose isn't even fully developed at that age.
Exactly she trying to just place blame on her mom when she doesn’t even look the same in 2020. She has had more cosmetic surgeries
@Becksxo perfectly said !!
Yes absolutely, but from what I can tell in pictures the nose job was the first thing and she was too young. That’s coming from someone who got one at 17, my doctor had told me to wait for my face to be closer to done developing and I had matured enough emotionally to know it was what I wanted. At 14 you don’t know what you want, and the mom should’ve known better than let her daughter go through with a permanent procedure like that. The other things she had done she got when she was older and more sure of what she wanted, perhaps the nose is what she regrets, maybe even just because she feels like she wasn’t old enough to make that choice for herself.
@@marilyn1984 uh when did she blame her mom? she just said that she regrets her nose job.
@@yugen8195 i meant the media sorry
she used to have an edblr blog where she posted body checks and things before she was ‘famous,. i truly feel so much empathy for her and gigi
It’s so sad how her mother treats her and manipulates her 😕
Thank you on honesty Bella, word 'famous' does not put you over regular, unpopular people...bravo 🤍
the reason why i look up to her so much, is cause i can relate alot to what she is going through and how she is as a person. i cannot imagine myself being in the spotlight that she is in, i have mad respect for her hussle and honestly she is such a great example for getting through the day no matter how hard your emotions and thoughts keep beating you up. i don't care if she denies surgery for whatever reason, i'm sure she has her reasons & i respect that privacy too.
also being in a very public toxic relationship is something that's hard to live by.
Sounds like she wants to learn how to be healthy...How to express herself in a healthy manner. Can't help but speculate, she could've been sheltered in her formative years, which could lead to negative outcomes as an adult.
I know people hate rich people call “suffering” maybe irrelevant thing to them, but problems are problems just because are not hard problems doesnt mean it affects you, this girl shares her struggles and people Made fun of her, dont disregard her problems just because to you are not that deep.
@@KM-yv3tr affording therapy does not mean it is easy to heal. especially when whatever caused your mental disorder is still in your life (could be her parents).
She has money to get the help she needs unlike regular folks
@@fur8104 And yet some rich people still struggle and commit suicide. So many rich and famous people had help and it didn’t work. Why do you people think that money can help/solve everything? I’m sure Robin Williams would still be here if that was the case
@Ally eve You have no idea about how bad depression can be. Money doesn’t solve shit when it’s a mental battle. You are extremely ignorant
@Ally eve that's quite a bold statement to make, not to mention completely ignorant. No amount of treatment can cure depression due to the mind's complexity. So no, money cannot solve everything. It helps but other than that, your statement is so ignorant. This comes from someone who has the means to afford treatment but will probably struggle with depression for the rest of my life. Mental health is not as easy to 'solve' as physical health, maybe do some more research before commenting.
I really wish Bella good, ik she only let us see a part of herself, we don't know it all ,but I never had read or watched a video talking about something "bad" or saying she is rude or with lack of work ethic, she just shines and u can see her growd thru the years, now she's gonna make her acting debut and I really hope she will keep on growing pass the sky with peace and with ppl that love her
Thanks for the kindness video, people always give her a hard time and she seems like a genuine nice person I would like to be friends with.
The fact that this came out right after I listened to Unpretty by TLC again
I've never cried so much over a celebrity before
Man I feel so bad for criticizing her nose back in the day. I never knew she was this insecure about her physics and had surgery when only 14yo! It really shows that people's body are none of our business. Even if they had surgery. I hope she get to accept herself and be well. She is beautiful just as much as her sister.
you should feel bad tbh. you assumed she never dealt with her own issues
@@milenapukalo5922 they obviously learned from it. I’m sure all of us have done things we feel bad for, at least they recognize it
@@milenapukalo5922 I thought I made it clear that I did indeed felt bad about it. Not that I was gone all the way to criticize her and harrass her on the internet, but I thought negatively of her, and I shouldn't have. And I m reflecting on myself to be and do better.
I m pretty sure you didn't do the same, harassing people on the internet. My learned lesson is not to judge people based on what you see on the internet or even on real life, cause you never know what truly happens behind closed doors, but you have failed miserably in that.
@@kilaa3417 Thank you! We all did or were ignorant at some point in our life, at least we are learning from it.
being rich doesn’t make you happy when will people realise that
Yes U do
I wish I could cry with millions of dollars instead of being poor and sad
it would solve a lot of my problems though lol, in fact it would actually solve A LOT of people's problems, debt, bills, medical problems, housing -- happiness isn't the only goal, relief and security is what we need and money is what would help.
though I do feel for Bella, being under immense pressure to be perfect in a family where that's what's idolized really must suck so hard :(
@@Luvandrockettes if you was healed, good mentally and had gratitude you wouldn’t feel poor at all. Think about the people who are actually poor. How you on CZcams if you’re poor ? How do you have internet if you’re poor ? How do you have a phone and how could you afford it if you’re poor ? How do you eat if you’re poor ? How do you have a bed if you’re poor ? How do you have a home if you’re poor ? Your lack mindset is the problem, not the material things.
I would love to be rich and live a quiet life
Great video ! I love Bella hadid and I’m glad that she can be a role model for individuals going through what she’s going /went through .
When your mom afflicts all your traumas and insecurities based on her own traumas and insecurities
Really important video thats really sets a contradiction on the idea that people in the spotlight dont experience struggle with mental health problems, just delusional and that we should be more kinder and understanding. she is such a sweetheart and a generous person!
I didn’t think you would do a video in regards of Bella Hadid, but this is really eye-opening and interesting. I didn’t even know she was going through some things, but I’m so glad that Bella opened up about her own struggles and insecurities. She’s not even ugly, she is so gorgeous, with or without plastic surgery. Prioritizing your mental health is a must and it’s the first thing that everybody should be taking care of
You should make a video about the failure (from a quality standpoint) and disappointment of this pop punk mainstream revival, I’ve seen a lot of anti MGK videos as of late but maybe yours can finally make him go away and back to hip hop where I can ignore him in peace. The funniest thing to me though in all of this was that he was the most talked about person in music (mostly for him being absolutely clowned by all corners of music Twitter but still) until Harry Styles came back a couple days ago yet still could barely sell 100K first week.
We don’t want him in hiphop either
@@suburbangrl417 I’m also a rap fan in addition to rock but he was easily ignorable when he was in hip hop, in rock he’s an absolute nuisance who thinks he’s the savior of the genre and freely butchers legendary songs from other artists like his absolutely abominable Aerials by System Of A Down cover. Don’t even get me started on his comments on bands wearing “comfortable shoes”, as if playing music has a goddamn dress code, as if a great metal band wearing Nike while performing makes their performances kick any less ass
Yes! I find the pop punk revival derivative and boring (and I had a HARD emo phase). There’s nothing rly new here with MGK. I do enjoy some of the trap-pop-punk mixes from around 2017 but at this point I’m bored with the copy and paste from early 2000s
Do y’all like Willow Smith’s new music?? I really enjoy it tbh
@@GraduateJLN I actually do like hers it can be hit or miss for me though. Her recent album and the one as “The Anxiety” is good, emo girl w mgk was not lol
the internet scared me. one day people made fun of bella for a 5s clip from an interview and now they said they feel for her..
I was exactly the same. Undiagnosed I used to hide and cry, shake, frightened. I feel for her so much. Being successful, doesn't change the pain. I can't believe her family let her have surgery at that young age, as well as all the other things. Her mother was abusive in my eyes.
This literally made me cry. I was not expecting this to be so sad
I literally love Bella so much , she’s so genuine and I love that she’s honest with herself
people are way too harsh on her, and celebrities in general
it’s hard when it’s your mother because you love them. My mom used to call me every name under the sun. “Fat” “retarted” “gay” and luckily I had thick skin and just knew my mother was bipolar and psychotic lmao but me and my mom have a great relationship now and she’s apologized but some kids are strongly effected by what their parents do!
I'm happy that you didn't get to you but I'm really sorry you went through that 🖤🫂 people don't realize just how important quality parenting is
@@nihilisticbarbie thank you! What’s funny is my mom goes “I don’t remember saying that” lmao like yesss trauma
@@PerkyBoy MY MOTHER AND FATHER BOTH SAY THE SAME SHIT "I DONT REMEMBER IT THAT WAY" "I DONT REMEMBER SAYING THAT" "THATS NOT WHAT HAPPENED" BITCHHHH YEAH BC IT WAS ANOTHER DAY TO YOU I ACTUALLY HAD TO HEAR IT. just so yk thats literally gaslighting im sorry ur in the same boat of her not actually apologizing and just saying lol idk mane :((
my parents gave me my bpd and its even worse bc they both have no mental problems...i do believe my dad might be a narc who was never diagnosed bc he doesnt believe in therapy and military psych ppl never ever diagnose ppl unless its so bad they believe they shouldnt be active duty. theyre fine w narcs, antisocial, other ones too holding ppls lives in their hands :)))))))) totally not a bad thing :)))))))) yet i would be rejected bc BPD ppl are known to go off the deepend and they dont want that liability. i do agree w them not letting ppl like me into the military tho i shouldnt be trusted w a gun id off myself fast asl. ppl who arent suicidal but still shouldnt be trusted w ppls lives and a gun seem to be fine tho...
@@PerkyBoy not the denial 😭😭 you're a soldier fr🫂
This makes me so sad💔💔💔💔. I used to not like her but is true what they say"you never know what someone is going through"💔🙏🏼
I like her 100x times more than Gigi
I think also it was for her harder in life than for her sister. Her mother was almost obsessed with gigi and 'supporting her' and always only talking about gigi. Bella was always in the shadow, she had to go through a nose job at 14 (we all know who put her in pressure) , she talks more about her depressive phase and her emotions, tries and support people who can't show their voice, she seems very humble, down to earth and supportive. She is more like her father. I really like her, she is more than a beautiful and sexy woman
I admire the way she deals with that situation! Since she never turned against his sister but knows well that everything comes from outside. I feel identified with what she says because I was always compared to my sister, who is also blonde with light eyes and prettier than me, the prettiest in school, church, family, etc. But I never felt ugly until everyone started telling me and comparing me. I suffered pelnty in my teens but incredibly I got over it when I moved to a school last year of high school where no one knew her. (Didnt swich for that haha) but it was for the best. I get it because my sister is also only a year older than me as are Gigi and Bella, which makes the comparison that much bigger too. If my sister had been a famous model it would have been 1000 times worse
The video of her talking about designer shoes... we all have struggles. Bella as well... hers are just different than most peoples. Look at it like this, today kids are picked on if they don't have the clothes their peers are wearing, the electronics, the shoes, etc. Every generation has experienced this. When I was young if you weren't wearing Abercrombie & Fitch.. you weren't cool. Cell phones weren't a thing and even when they became a thing it wasn't a big enough deal yet but the clothes and shoes HAD to be what the popular kids had. Bella you went through the same exact thing we all do except for wealthy people. If she didn't have a certain brand name shoe or any brand name shoes/clothes like her peers did... that made her uncool or at least feel that way. If ppl would stop judging so quickly and actually THINK.. they would realize this.
Yeah I agree with you. It’s just sad people ridicule her because it reminds me so much of my upbringing of peers having lack of empathy towards things that might have impacted someone negatively. Celebrities are people who can go through some things in similar ways even if May be small but I do think the younger generation being on the internet are really just projecting their insecurities on her for no reason. And we wonder why mental health problems are a thing. Just causing relational trauma left and right and then crying wolf when the abuser actually has a crisis.
Yes my mom said if kids didn’t come to school with name brand clothes and shoes, they would be picked on. At first I thought that was wild but then I remembered yeah, when I was in high school people did the same thing, especially if you didn’t have name brand sneakers
bella's tumblr was a literal ed-page//pro an* page and people should have known something was wrong especcially since a lot of the things she would write were things her mom said to them on the show. i dont think it's just 'Adderall' that was the cause of her ed, her mom definitely had a helping hand. i also dont think her message has that much impact when she puts in on a beauty magazine that tells you you need to be as thin as her to be beautiful and has been pushing harmful beauty standards that she fell victim to. i think from vogue's side its purely performative, she should have opted for a platform like Oprah or Gayle-King esque interview bc i dont think a lot of people will take it seriously....especially since vogue will literally have a fad diet in the next page after reading the article and little to no diversity in terms of race and body types. bella used to look very middle eastern (like her step sisters) but truth is she might not have covered vogue at all if she still looked like that. but im glad she shared her message.
No one saw it as wrong because tumblr was the place for eds
@@imanialexander7042 the fact that a lot of edtwt still uses a lot of her quotes and posts where she was bodychecking is sad.
It was definitely A PR stunt she got even more exposure & contracts since then. Also she probably has her diet under control but probably exercises a lot more plus her metabolism is good. She is still quite thin which is fine but its not like changes were made that showed she was comfortable with being more curvy.
Also absolutely language written was misleading. She was using ADHD medication which suppress the appetite- but when you stop them or lower the dosage that goes away. They don’t create eating disorders- but one could absolutely get dependent on them which creates all sorts of other problems & anxiety, trouble sleeping,depression, malnourishment & long term dependence etc. that could eventually contribute to body image issues but only if there were other pressures involved- family, the industry, society etc. it could lead to compulsive behaviour like ED.
However many people use stimulants for to focus & productivity, or to lose weight/suppress appetite.Extremely common- I wouldn’t be surprised if her mother not only approved of the medication but asked the doctor for prescription to regulate her weight & give her an edge.
Generally ADHD meds are mainly used in North America & are so widely accepted especially among kids & young people.
In other parts of the world that is not accepted- & viewed as highly unhealthy. Most amphetamines are just used as recreational drugs.
Its certainly one thing the medical/pharmaceutical industry exploits.
The ugly sister!?!?! SHES DROP DEAD GORGEOUS!!! That’s so crazy to think that was even a thought. Wow.
yeah after surgeries
ok like yes she was pretty before but before the surgeries she was by societys standards and especially her mothers standards just nothing compared to gigi like again she was pretty but before it was comparing someone who is naturally a model to the average pretty woman yk
she didnt only have a nose job, she had a face lift, lip filler a second nose job most likely she completely bought a new face so she could work as a model
@@april4524 i think she still regularly gets the ponytail facelifts as they wear off
She was pretty before too :( comparison is hard esp for siblings. She had a very classic look
People are way too harsh on her for some reason. She legit gives them no reason for hate. She isnt malicious, isnt hurting anyone, doing her job and doing it well... and people are bothered.
I truly feel for her, poor girl has gone through the ringer, I wish the best happiness and prosperity for her in life going forward
I love the bond that she has with her Mum and brother and sisters.
They are all so incredibly close and I love how dedicated Yolanda is with all her children and the rhetoric that she's abusive towards them.
as a girl recovering from an ED herself, is so refreshing to see that even models, the ones we usually idolize to have their bodies, are being opem! I'm so happy for her finally allowing herself to open up, and I hope she continues to get better!
I never really found them very interesting, I liked them, but not enough to follow what they do, or what’s happening to/around them.. but this made me really respect Bella a lot more❤️
Made me respect her less to know she's part of the problem. Women getting surgery to be models just makes this problem way worse for everyone.
Okay, but let's not pretend that without the nose surgery she would get as far as she is now in her industry. We only care and follow because she was created a super model, maybe she was made or convinced to do it, but as you can see - being conventionally attractive at all cost is not worth it, unfortunately she has learned the hard way. I wish her a lot of healing and love.
Also, Yolanda has the ugliest soul, people who did the surgery should be jailed - and her parents who allowed it.
@Nang Lei what does that have to do with anything? Leave the arabs alone, Yolanda is just an abusive and toxic heifer
Sad but true. The beauty industry is toxic.
It wasn’t just a nose surgery . She’s had a lot done . She’s Definitely been in tons of physical & mental pain from it :/
Given the way Yolanda treated her kids in front of the cameras, I shudder to think how she was talking to them when nobody was there.
this confirmed my suspicion that she has anorexia, as I had anorexia nervosa from age 13-18 - but to be honest, once anorexic, always anorexic. even when you do get healthy, that voice and urge to starve yourself is always in the back of your mind. so sad. she's beautiful though, and I'm glad she's still alive despite her inward turmoil. happens to the best of us.
I think we're too hyper focused on looks and comparison. It doesn't matter if she got work done or not. Doesn't matter if the hair is real or not. Nails. Weight. Whatever the thing is. Be kind to yourself and to others. Her having surgery isn't the key to your self validation. Media pushing the standard is half the battle the other half is loving yourself. You're beautiful as you are full stop. There is no comparison. You waking up every day, smiling when you can, doing what you can, being happy is beautiful. Every kind person is needed. Media can't sell to you what you're not willing to buy. I think a lot of y'all sell yourself short.
word.
You are wise
It definitely matters when young people start going under the knife in massive numbers. Its so scary. Poor kids these days
I'm glad I came across this video, I didn't know any of this ♡
She always had this vibe of realness about her. We are here for you queen!!
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Ramadan Mubarak
Beauty is pain…. No one realizes that! It’s so sad 😞
I learned Beauty can also attract all the Wrong/Bad things too
@@mgbm8335 definitely
I want to say think you to anyone who opens up about their mental health. You are helping to reduce stigma and improve understanding. Thanks to you, we are becoming more understanding and kinder to each other. Because of other people opening up, I have been able to open up without being mocked and ridiculed.
thank you as someone w BPD being open and honest w the people who follow me being honest abt going to rehab isnt easy i dont have a crazy big platform but a pretty decent sized snapchat acc funny enough where im super duper honest and people tell me its helped them then other people have told me to shut up and stop making everyone w BPD look bad bc i show the sides that arent so pretty too which i think is important or people who use my personality disorder as a way to discredit me its not always simple ://
Resonate with her, her message give me strenght💜
Crazy I’ve always heard of them seen them of course but she has always been gorg to me she’s so beautiful and this article just made me like her a whole lot more imma get into her spreads and shoots … she won me over with her transparency and honesty this is what young girls need now
She's so beautiful .. it breaks my heart to see beautiful people but deep down inside they feel like shit and like they're worthless
Props to Bella for her mental health self awareness
i realise she went through so much than gigi perhaps why she is so opened with her struggles because i actually rarely hear anything about gigi’s issues not that it’s a bad thing.
I feel bad for Bella and Gigi. The people who should’ve protected them didn’t do their job well at all.
I wonder to what extent race played an issue, with her? Her mom is white and Bella looks a LOT more Middle-Eastern than white. The eyes, the nose, the dark hair. I think she's the prettier sister by far, but maybe the mother pushed her to look whiter? Just my guess. Not sure what her relationship with her father is,. or how bad the divorce was.
you have a point
She's a natural blonde, though obviously that doesn't detract from the fact that she's mixed (but so are Gigi and Anwar). I do think Yolanda had a detrimental effect on all her children's mental well-being, even if she clearly does love them. At the same time, no one ever says anything about Mohamed; he's the one with the consecutive divorces and increasingly younger partners, and although we don't know as much about him I don't think this is without its effect either.
I didn't have much issues growing up (except having fake friends n gaslighted which I'm still living with its impact) but as an adult I'm dealing with so much depression, anxiety, loneliness etc.. it's probably my MS taking a lot of control over my mental health and making me feel bad and having low self esteem. But it's interesting how I have since my late teens especially up to now gets called beautiful and have had strangers walk up to me and asked for my numbers and aunties simping over me for their sons etc (I'm not bragging at all I don't know how else to tell it) but I still have so much self doubt and don't see what others see in me bcuz I just see myself as maybe above average. I just know how to style myself, do my hair & makeup that makes me stand out from others cuz they don't put as much effort in making themselves up. But despite all tht I have insecurity, feeling constant fear & not having reached any bigger goal in the last 8 years or life change. Health complications which has n still holds me back..
she can work hard bcuz she got at least connections that gives her work...
Yolanda reminds me of my mom a ton…an untreated bipolar with narcissistic tendencies…why I side eye the Zayn/Yolanda interaction that lead to his and Gigi’s break up. But it’s clear as day her choices hugely affected her kids mental health.
She's so breathtakingly beautiful.
Okay but then why model??? I'm so insecure and so depressed, so let me enter a field that is EXTREMELY superficial and make these issues worse lol
Maybe because she was pushed to do it🥴
And now she loves her job which is the most important thing
I went through, the physical and mental pain. It has to do,with morning repeated,negative thoughts,for a long time. Change this tape and you will feel immediately better. You count,you are here and you need to love and find yourself.
Hey hey I’m a big fan of Bella and I love her very much. I follow her and knew she went through hard things and struggled a lot. As a fan I always wish she being happy or even just feel good every day
But the title “the sad case” is really misleading like her life was a tragedy and no hope !!
The tittle makes people feel sorry for her (or hate) to accept her ?! No
it would be better that we can see she’s a kind, loving person with beautiful soul that trying to be better day by day, a respectful and responsible model, she deserves to be loved and appreciated, not hated or feel sorry for
Stay well Bella. I know how you feel.
Chronic lyme isn't a real condition, either. They're being lied to and being misled and robbed by a greedy doctor. Misdiagnosed with "chronic lyme" when she actually has dysautonomia
im just curious, why do you think that? no hate i'm just trying to understand your point better. because you're essentially saying, this chronic illness, that is caused by a toxin that has a clear consensus of being dangerous, that thousands of people have fully recovered from, isn't real and that she actually just has an equally debilitating illness that just happened without a cause. im not at all saying that dysautonomia isn't real. but there's a reason why people recover from dysautonomia when they get diagnosed with lyme or other illnesses with a known cause and why they don't get better when they don't know what causes it. if it's all quackery, why do so many people fully recover? i know that there's a lot of people who don't recover but that can be explained by the fact that lyme usually isn't the only thing they're sick from and many doctors only treat the lyme when they're also sick from other things too
@@caroline__0148 look up the NIHs description of "chronic lyme" . I'm not talking about acute ly.e disease. Nor post lyme chronic illness. She and her mom and sister all confined that they are on long term abx for unproven lymes.
@@caroline__0148 doctor Mike did a video on it. Highly recommend the quick dive in that short video.
they shadow deleted my post with the link...
NIAI D. Says:
'The term “chronic Lyme disease” (CLD) has been used to describe people with different illnesses. While the term is sometimes used to describe illness in patients with Lyme disease, it has also been used to describe symptoms in people who have no clinical or diagnostic evidence of a current or past infection with B. burgdorferi . Because of the confusion in how the term CLD is employed, and the lack of a clearly defined clinical definition, many experts in this field do not support its use...."
They have disclosed that they are on long term antibiotics 2ith no positive testing. They are rich and a "doctor" pushing psuedo science is lining his pockets off their disparity of their disability because it's seen as a "fix all" and "curable", instead of post lyme dysautonomia which has no treatment except symptom management. It's a shame, really, and the whole "chronic lyme" game has led to the early and PREVENTABLE deaths of patients to no end as a consequence of such pseudo science...
@@frankied.roosevelt6232 first of all, i do agree that many people have received the wrong treatments for their illnesses and many doctors don't know what theyre doing and it leads to lots of people wasting their money and in some cases having awful effets. i think that has more to do with the dr's not knowing what they're doing than it not being real.
also i don't have lyme myself so im not familiar with a lot of the terms. what's the difference between chronic lyme and post lyme chronic illness? i might just be talking about post lyme chronic illness this whole time but im not sure
i couldn't find dr mikes video on it but i wanna address what you said about the symptoms being seen in other illnesses. lyme disease can cause a certain set of symptoms and many people with the same symptoms don't have lyme. this isn't because lyme isn't a legitimate cause of those symptoms, but because they are the body's general response to a biological toxin it can't remove. lyme isn't the only biotoxin and it's also probably not the most common one. there's also types of mold, fungi, and bacteria that can give you the same symptoms. so it makes sense that people have these same symptoms but not due to lyme. sure, other illnesses like dysautonomia can be grouped with these symptoms. but they have no *known cause. we still can't make the claim that they're not caused by anything. esp bc we haven't studied the relationship between all the other types of biotoxins and these illnesses. if you want, look up chronic inflammatory response syndrome symptoms (CIRS) and you'll see that they're almost identical to lyme. chronic lyme is included as a CIRS illness.
and i do agree that there's a lack of accurate, thorough testing which makes the diagnosis lose its credibility. we're starting to find more accurate ways but they haven't hit mainstream so most tests people take aren't accurate. this can explain why it took the hadids forever to get dxed.
the term isn't as objectively defined as most other illnesses but it's still in the beginning stages. esp bc in western medicine, the way we spread awareness about illnesses is through an abundance of clinical trials that not only give a clear definition but also a "cure" or at least, an effective treatment. pharmacutical companies are primarily responsible for the awareness of chronic illnesses and there's more of an incentive to do so when there'e an effective treatment they can curate. but with lyme, there's no one size fits all so there's less of an incentive to find the ultimate "cure". as a result, people have to go off of treatments that don't have as much funding or clinical trials. which leads to people saying that there's no concrete evidence. also, what works for each person is vastly different do to many factors such as environment, sensitivity to ingredients, severity of illness, symptoms, coinfections etc. with that said, thousands of people have fully recovered with treatment but chances are, treatments have been based on the individual. im sure there's a set protocol but they alter it along the way if need be. i'm just curious, what do you think is the reason why people like justin bieber and avril lavigne are able to live healthily after being sick for so long? i know people personally who are fully recovered after being bedridden from chronic lyme. why do you think that is? (i didn't say the hadids bc yolanda got sick again from mold after being in remission so i wouldn't consider her recovered, idk about the others)
From reading about this it’s very likely that Yolanda made up the Lyme disease
Watching this show it’s obvious she has issues with self-acceptance part of it because she could never found out who she really was.
You can have the looks but if you don’t have a personality what else can you do.
I look at either of the Hadid sisters and I see the perfect manifestation of a strive for beauty that leaves you so hollow
I agree that its sad and having yolanda as a mother must be incredibly difficult. At the same time she sort of supports those exact things that make her miserable by playing into that role that she was pushed into as a child. now she is literally one of the highest paid models in the world and that obviously doesn't mean she cant have mental health issues but it also means that she is in an incredibly privileged situation. She has the option of taking a break or stopping modeling altogether without ever being in fear of losing her existence. Up until now she cant even admit to the other cosmetic procedures she had done which is incredibly toxic for young women growing up thinking those beauty standards are attainable (this also plays into her basically encouraging those aspects of society that had such a detrimental effect on her mental health.)-I'm really torn about this
that's the same thing i was conflicted with. she only became huge in the fashion industry when she changed her whole look. she doesn't wanna admit that in order to make it you have to change your face to fit a particular beauty standard and also have an eating disorder.
I also found it difficult when she said, she went back to her small hotel room. I do not think it was small and maybe it was just small because it was in Paris, where the hotel rooms are not the American standard size.
Furthermore, many models do not even have the privilege to be in a hotel room. Most have to live together in a small, bad apartment.
So her saying I had to go in a small hotel room feels as if we should think: oh no, the poor girl, she only bought a small hotel room and went there all alone. While other models really have a tough time during fashion week and cannot afford a single room for themselves.
1:43 2:15 i literally could’ve said this…. i relate to her so much
This is really sad , this poor woman . Modeling is brutal, props to her for speaking out. I admire her
Honestly i’ve always loved her, idc that ppl are constantly attacking her for having plastic surgery or because her crying and vulnerable
what's up with brunettes being seen as uglier LOL I always liked my dark hair what yall doing
Real beauty exists inside the heart , not over the face. True beauty is when someone radiates that they love themselves!
I feel like her act had drawn some people and pushed away others, I was one who really didn't like her, I judged her as fake, and guess I wasn't way off. she was presenting herself as this happy confident (out of the blue) supermodel who just shows her perfect lifestyle, as everyone famous in Hollywood does. now, since she's opened up, she's become more of a "real human" to my eyes and I really appreciate her and root for her now
People hate her just because she doesn’t want to talk about her PS it’s literally non of you’ll business,people literally want to expose celebrity and west time on them just Focus on your life .
I just love her so much. She gets so much hate 💔
There's something about her, I feel like she's a genuine person 💖
Oh my God... I would have actually never said... Sometimes it's so easy for us to say "oh they got it all". But I'm glad more and more celebrities are opening up about their struggles.
I hope she stays kind and strong.
what kind of parent allows their kid to go under the knife at 14 wtf
As someone who loves the Hadd sisters (as in not just Bella and Gigi, but the others as well) it's clear their dad was the better parental figure.. Yolanda is crazy lol.
That woman never needed surgery. Her beauty radiates from within and she was already naturally beautiful
Yolanda is a monster
I wish shed be honest abt her ponytail facelift, 2nd nose job, lip fillers etc. she literally bought a new face and wont admit it and its damaging. i hope this is the beginning of her admitting to more and more
She was honest… she didn’t get a ponytail facelift, it’s a browlift, she didn’t get lip fillers, it’s a lip lift, and she did admit to having a nose job.
She’s just smart or was trained well by her team
Why should she? She shouldn’t tell every medical procedure that she had done to a bunch of strangers just to make them feel good about themselves
@@bre7931 right like it’s your fault if you believe she’s 100% natural not hers😂
You have to be dumb to believe that.
@@onika490 no i agree she is smart for leaving things out while being honest. i do think its a facelift not a brow lift bc though that can make the fat in your cheeks go down a bit its not that much!! technically a brow lift is part of the ponytail facelift but it has other elements too which you can see present on the face. agree w she actually does look like its a lip lift > filler now that i look again
@@bre7931 because it leads to dysmorphic people or dumbass kids into thinking that one day they too can magically have a fattier round face then wakeup with cheekbones and a jawline. yes it doesnt take much brain power to see that she bought a whole new face but people who havent seen the before who might be a little on the low iq side believe she was naturally born like that. the complexness of this is not something i can put into words well because im not a professional nor have all the right things to say but actual plastic sergions (idk how to spell it sorry) agree w me on this they too (usually) believe that people shouldnt lie because it causes a lot more damage to people than a lot of people realize and theres data proving so
honest today grammy winner reaction?
Why is the title so dramatic 😭😭😭
Growing up in a crazy hollywood family being judged,is very difficult. Every family has labels,the pretty one,the smart one etc. Those labels can destroy a person. The mother seems really intent on keeping her kids slim and model like. Allowing early surgery was a bad move except living in hollywood looks are the top issue.