Sexless Marriages and what to do if your partner is not touching you | Lynn Ngugi Show
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- Have you ever loved someone so much but there is that one part about them that really bothers you?
Let's say they won't turn you on, touch you or even make love to you, and you all go days, months or even years without being intimate?
Today, Shazmeen Banks talks to us about dry marriages, why your partner is not touching you and what to do about it on the Lynn Ngugi Show
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Idont get her name pliz lynn write her name
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@@caroladaniel4190 shamzen bank. Not sure
Great love UGANDA 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
Shamzen you are beautiful and this is a true combination of beauty and brains at work. Very detailed explanation of how marriage should be about intimacy and sex is a bonus of great intimacy. Thank you Lynn 💓💓 and I love the choice of guests and topic that is so Taboo and always done the wrong way and for the wrong reasons. Blessings we need part 2-4 of the teachings. This will help those dating, getting married and in marriage. Great show 🥰📖🛐🙋😇🙌🏽🙏🏽💞💞
This woman looks 18 yet she has been married for 20 years!!!! Amazing
Welcome to the world of make up
MY ADVICE to Lynn Ngungi :Thanking Westwood Hotel puts you in the limbo. You are in a position of insubordination. Lynn wake up you are a big brand find a beautiful office and hall and set up a magnificent show.You have to find a financier like equity bank and partner with them to start up this new endeavour. For your information and reference you are still within your comfort zone. Lynn Ngugi brand should be different from Tuko talks. Shout out from Hargeisa, Somaliland.
true. she is in the league of Oprah but our Kenyan Oprah
Marriage is beautiful when you’re with the right person 🙏🏽May we enjoy it to the fullest ❤️great topic 👌🏻
I totally agree
Wow I just watched this with my husband and it has really helped us see our marriage in a different way. She has addressed all the challenges we were facing and we feel motivated to work things out for the better. Thanks 👍😊
Proud of you both
U r very lucky dia
If you want an African man to go out and get another woman behind your back try it....
She's really a great coach... Mind blowing new info to apply to my marriage... She's mentioned almost everything I need to spice up my marriage... God help me apply to rekindle my love with my wife....
High five mister
This is a HEALTHY conversation that people really need. I hope it equally gets to as many men as women because men especially need to listen to this.
This is eye opening.. Its not about the number of times really but the agreement and comfortability of both partners. Thanks Lynn and the guest for educating us.
I’ll say it again this lady is gold. She is fucking knowledgable on this topics. Bring her back on another sex topic.
This was such an insightful conversation, each day we learn something new😍❤️can we also appreciate how well Shaz & Lynn Gel?
Hi Lynn and shazmeen bank....the conversation is flowing so so amazing..her voice is too beautiful ❤️
Her voice is!
Just stay single. Simple! So much peace.
I was thinking of the same Ms. Bank what is your advice rather than going through all that.
Wow, wow, wow!!!well done Lynn👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾as a mature, divorced woman i hv surely been educated(never too old to learn). How i wish i could hv your guest to speak at some confrences. This could help to save so many marriages and even to restore hope to re-build relationships and marriages. Well done Lynn(Kenyan Oprah).🌺🌺🌺
Herfa I would love you. Let's change and ignite passion in marriages. Stop the affairs. Focus on your loved one again.
To be honest I never knew about all that thanks Lynn for educating us every day
Very mature, respectfully and professionally presented yet not on a high horse. Very down to earth and understandable. Well done ladies. A million dollar session.
Thank you so so much
This has analyzed me, torn me apart and taught me a lot. Thanks Lynn👏🏾
Me too
All along i thought it was not normal to have deepest desires. Now i feel understood and free
This was a great conversation.
Thank you Shazmeen and Lynn.
Ultimately, communication is key!
It so good to here love
I really love how she explains everything so well. I love listening to her😄🤗. Thanks for educating us. Thanks too Lyn for having her educate us❤️
Had to quit marriage coz of intimacy anorexia it's draining especially when cheating in the picture
This woman is a beautiful powerful demonstration of beauty and brains combined.Great teaching and very inspiring content and I have learned a lot more about sex and intimacy. Wow that's the reason why women feel used in marriage because there was no intimacy. Thank you so much Lynn I am loving your choice of guests for deep teachings in life. I want to do this course for my later teachings on You Tube. Marriage is beautiful when intimacy is full and genuine between the two people.📖🛐🙋😇😇🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽
Where did she learn all this? I want to go to that college😁😁😁
In the college called life. The address is wisdom , understanding, experience and listening. She f you want to know where to find it is it’s a matter of being present, absorbing and taking in what they are saying , doing and what I am experiencing.
Amazing top. I like it so much.I had that sexless marriage and also i was ashamed to tell it out.Every time he was telling me is tired.Every time i was stressed so much.But i thank God i knew that he had another lady. When i asked him , the responses was rude. I thank God the break up was the good option. Now am on the process of healing from it.Thank u so much beautiful ladies. Lynn good work keep up 🌹.
Hey viewers nobody said how amazing they both look from head to shoe. Both looking good. We need her more thanks Lynn
Thank you so so much
@@shazmeenbank1630 I like the way you talk and the way you explain everything Thank you
This is such an educative topic to couples. Thanks Lynn for the good job you are doing. To the audience, Knowledge is Power. Now you know. Practice.
Kudos raising this topic. Keeping it real, we can Bank on it. This covers 'everything' and we can relate to what's discussed. Another Untold Story women need to realize we can speak openly about. Congrats ladies, we are watching and listening and can relate. It's a new day, we should talk openly about sex, emotions, fantasies, desires and the whole 9plus yards as there's more to a relationship than a woman 'doing her duty' regardless of how she feels or what she wants. Great conversation - perfect for a Saturday morning after busy week. Lynn, I appreciate Ms. Bank talking the talk and keeping it so real - she covers all of us. Let's be frank - it's our life too.
OOh my God...I am speechless... may God bless you and your marriage Mrs. Shazmeen bank and Mrs. Lynn Ngugi.
Awee Lynn Lynn what a show very amazing..thank you so much shazmeen for your time this is the third time on the show. You always find time for us thank you girl karibu tena na tena
Mimi nimekwama hapo kwa Lynn ngugi vile ana enjoy the conversation akichangia 🤗
I know hahaha same here
I will listen to this young beautiful lady everyday...I already love her content
This is all true ... absolutely love the tantric stuff ... so much covered here. I'll probably watch it again .... been there in a horrible sexless marriage for 15yrs which had to end in divorce. I'm not remarried and no rush but grateful to have experienced intimacy and sex in a long term relationship 🥰
Hi Eve
Oh no we pass lot of challenges
Amaizing show😍 love the conversation❤❤ Thanks Shazmeen for your time. Lynn you're the best
Speak on the man who refuses to participate in any kind of intimacy and whose doctor says there is no problem.
I felt rejected, I was crushed. My efforts were thwarted constantly. I tolerate d for 6 of 7 years. Now I’m divorced.
I am sorry my love yet proud you tried. ❤️
Hugs dear sorry am year for 11years i feel tired already
Shazmeen hair is very beautiful and healthy
Thank you
Thanks once again Lynn for hosting Shasmeem and I have really been blessed with all the knowledge She's shared with us in regards to the difference between intimacy and sex. However I'd like to know if there's a difference between the Khama Sutrah knowledge a.k.a The true art of love making and intimacy and ponography. Because most of everything Shasmeem has mentioned especially in regards to touching, getting to know one's or their partner's sexual arousal G-sports is in a way taught in the Khama Sutrah movies whose illustrations seem like ponography. This issue to be is confusing in the sense that Shasmeem has advised us to desist from watching and learning what is portrayed in ponography movies. Kindly tell Shasmeem to shead light on this issue. Thanks for such another great show.
Shanny I agree with you 💯👌👌👌
Lynn you need to create your own space so that an audience could come pay for the show. Advertisers and other marketing teams can chip in to make your show reach a larger population.
We should discuss this more often. Very healthy & necessary
I'm glad I came across this informative topic, everything about this is opening my eyes. I always had a problem speaking up about what I want and deserve wholeheartedly 🙏🏾.
Wow this is so good.. in our culture we were just told that man needs sex and when they do just give it to him and that's it.. and this notion leads to frustrations in marriages..
Wow very educative topic.This beautiful lady is telling us the naked truth
She is a good teacher in marriage
When I saw the title of this video I immediately had to watch it. Truthful I've only listened to the first 10 minutes of it and I wanted to stop and type a comment. I am living in a sexless marriage and have been for a long time. I don't want to say anything more than that on here.
Where are you Lisa?? Asking for a friend.
I like the way Lynn she is saying yes and breathing in response. So deep.
Hahaha
Finally someone is addressing this problem.
Has to be talked about. Thank you so much
Wow, thanks for this teachings, am lacking all these in this 14 years of marriage,I think I can now walk away peacefully,I have tried to restore it, but imekuwa ngumu
Thank u Lynn for hosting her,,a lot is being learned from this
Too much wisdom u have brought on the bench... Thanks shazmeen..... I am hearing her for the first time! Very enlightening! Lynn u looked fabulous and shy today ! 💞💞💞
I had to pray for my feelings to go away instead of expecting something that doesn’t happen
How is it so far?
Me too. When I learnt it was narcissistic abuse, the thought of the act disgusted me and I quit stressing over it.
Men who hold intimacy from you do it to make you suffer. Very different to men that care to change. You are aware. Now the power is back in your hands my ❤
That makes the two of us
Me too sister,, I feel like rejection when ask to have sex is to make them feel big and powerful ...why aSk 🤔🙄🙄🙄im SO Greatful for this conversation
learning never ends. THANKS Lynn .we learn alot from your show
Great show.Difference between sex and intimacy.
The facilitator is so knowledgeable.
This is a great conversation. Let us talk freely about what is considered taboo topics. Shazmeen is so skilled, collected and real.
Loving the topic~
Plus I wish u all a blessed Saturday!
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This is us, we are here ☹️. No idea how to fix, partner doesn't like therapy...
Its the intimacy for me it carries everything in a relationship wauh what a topic its an awareness to us all keep going gals
lynn Ngugi you were so attentive, she gave more insights about sex and intimacy , hope the ladies and men are going to apply for their marriages to stay interesting
Bring this God send woman again to the show please lynn I really love this...
Thank you thank you my love.
Wow Shazmeen is so clever
Sex depends on how the mind is prepared.
Sex begins from the mind and remember that some partners are sex docile and even if they watch porn it will not improve the situation. Alcoholism and sexually transmitted infection also contribute.
This is so necessary in our society....especially for us the young adults that desire to get married..
What hope is there for old couples who actually sleep in different rooms because they think it’s too late to solo their issues sexually
@lucy maina you can reach out to her for help
Never too late. First step... work towards building that emotional gap to help build the physical one. Feel daring enough... jump into his bed
As sad as it sounds..,they is still hope.
Intimacy is so vital and people in relationships have no idea what that is..😔😔. Your geust is really good at this👍.
Good job Lynn 👏👏. Thankyou for bringing up such crucial conversations.
Discussion expectations on styles.... especially with the pregnant wife...
Thee most amazing and informative episode.
Love, from a fan in 🇿🇦
Educative show be blessed lynn
Thank you Lynn. Bring more of these. You are helping a lot of people. Be blessed.
She must hv a session in SA. Lynn organise...we will attend
Would be honored... we will travel soon
Kumbe our guest hukua mzungu😂😂😂😂 huwa namfollow pale NRG Sunday show
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Haki Lynn your expressions you have made my day , It was awesome teaching alot of marriages will be saved through this. Nyce one Lynn💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞
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This should be incorporated in the premarital counseling sessions.
so so true.
This is the most interesting topic I have ever watched on you tv show miss Lyn ❤️❤️❤️
Oops wawoo keep'n it up Dr intimacy.. Professor .. love is what you feel to your spouse thnx great work done Big up to you Ms Shazmeen appreciated Amiina thanks madam Ngugi
What Amazing teacher oh thnx God bless you always..Shazmeen making my day
Absolutely Amazing!!!!!
What a Fantastic Show with Shazmeen Bank! Ngai!Even though lm Not Married.....It definitely an Eye Opener for Any Kind of Relationship!
Thanks Lynn for Bringing us All these Gifted & Professionals to Talk & Enlighten us👍👍👍
If there's love there's Hope.the conversation was top. intimacy,I love the topic
Am gald you bought her on the show. Am learning a lot thank you lyn
Shazmeen bank, you are super intelligent , lyn thanks for hosting that beautiful guest.
I totally relate to the whole convo
It's her voice for me💆
This lady Shanmzu Bank ,,,,,, moto kama pasi .
From this I see a better healthier rship
This topic is awesome and an eye opener for bring up a fantastic marriages thanks Lynn and shaanez congrats
Lyn this is a good topic I'm learning, and must add that you are looking fabulously fabulous in that black colour, just imagining how a golden necklace will make you even fabulous.
Awww, thank you so much❤
everyday is a learning day ,have learnt a lot
Looking lovely Lynn..the topic today is 🔥
Lynn, how can we give our support to keep these kind of topics going, keep you on CZcams waves .
Thanks Shaz and Lynn,so educative,can you bring her to address how to handle the narcissist while come to sex life
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE THIS CONVERSATION!
This is owesome@Lynn Ngugi,thanks for the good work....wah!...it's supposed to watched by many couples ...
Wonderful presentation from Shaz who in my view is indeed a realist, motivator, therapist,canceler.....the list is endless for her talks are pragmatic, poignant and ideal. Most partners are suffering in silence and lack what to do in fixing the mess but I'm glad for the existence of such like platforms and amazing shows where we could indeed be enlightened on how to solve myriad kinds of challenges in life especially sexual. Communication is the key to unlock most of the uncertainties because I believe should partners make a decision of holding a conversation concerning a given issue with wanting to talk and be ready to all put their mind in it like an ostrich, for sure a certain level of consciousness must be met. Thanks Lynn Ngugi for your good job. Keep it up
Wow, I am humbled.
I feel like I was waiting for this topic
Lynette the most insightful and informative show, truly, our relationship need to grow, I have learned that I have to talk to my partner all the day for her to be aroused
I love you earrings Lynn!
Wow. I just felt like I am listening to a fantasy. How does one even introduce this segment to a spouse? Honestly, I can't wait to reach that level. Very good conversation here.
Lynn is on another level now.
This was great Lynn, the lady is very eloquent, brilliant a good conversation.
This is so educative....Lynn thank you for bringing a lot of people talking about life experience and coaches to teach us wow more blessings
Haki Lynn hapo penye umevaa yellow 💛 top previous show una body poa sana sana
In the coastal area we call them Makungwi
This one ☝️ forced me to repeat 🔁 over and over again
Mmmmmm notes 📝 taken seriously 😐
Oh Jesus.... Banks...have shared this will hundreds of my frds
knowledge is power, meditating and pondering on these words like a new poem. Thanks Lynn and Shaz you are amazing.....Blessings galore
Lynn your shows are always fire, and we have to give credit to your guest lady who has contributed ND taught alot most people were not aware of, we have to give her credit ND X too.
Thank you so so much
@@shazmeenbank1630 you are amazing! Learning alot and relating to much of what you're talking about. Two great women doing great things!
I still hope that one day God will give me a partner who understands my Asexual self.