How To Never Quit - The Key To Reframing The Toughtest Obstacles
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- How To Never Quit - The mindset you need to cultivate to accomplish anything big in your life.
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if I just go through it, its a huge advance for me.
This video found me just in time. I was having a setback on a significant writing project. I now feel renewed. Thanks Leo.
If people only knew ... 😷 we really go trough hell to get the skills you need to be a good doctor. But the rewards are awesome ❤️ I don't mean money but as a person; the rewards for your personal growth are unique.
i think i'm going to watch this video everyday, i need to constantly be reminded of this message... my dip is being experienced now with college and taking on a major that i had no desire or even thought to do due to family pressure. i'm starting to evaluate what i need versus what others may think and just push through "with brute force" to where i want to be... thank you for this video man, its exactly what i needed and i hope i don't quit on my dreams.
How’s it going?
Hope you achieved it after all these years!
I wish I found your channel a while ago. You really motivate me. You're on fire!
After stumbling upon your self actualization video while I was cleaning one day, I started to watch your videos on an almost religious basis for two months straight. I noticed a drastic change in the way I was thinking and just in my life as a whole. Recently, I took an unintentional two week break from learning to meditate and my personal development by trying to live my life and do things I had been putting off ect.
Last night I had a total bitch fit because I was getting things done however... I had ZERO routine in doing these things (i.e. Yes I was getting stuff done but not as productively as I know I can and was beginning to struggle with the dip because it's fucking scary to see my life change so much) .
I believe it takes two components to explain something to someone. First is obvious... The right information. But secondly is the right person! And I'm lucky enough to say that while I was cleaning my tornado of a house, I found the right person and it is you! Thank you!
What I would compare me putting off my personal development to is....
when someone who has a chemical imbalance begins to take medication, they see their life improve! Then they say "I don't need my medication, my life is great!".
And within a few weeks, things start to fall apart and their life turns to shit.
Thanks for helping me be able to call myself on my own bull shit lol! 😊
This just sounds like mental masturbation lol
i love watching your videos. I've lived my life on souly on religion. Now I know what I need to do is to take control and take fully responsibilities of my own actions. thank you Leo you're the best
+Janet VIllalobos Oh, Janet, that is what happened to me as well. I think spirituality engendered that sort of helplessness in me, some passivity (just follow the flow of reality sort of thing) and I stopped taking charge altogether. I badly need it back right now! Learning how...Good luck girl!
then you got christianity all wrong. the bible doesnt teach you to rely on god to do everything to you. it teaches you to DO YOUR BEST and all within your OWN POWER and GOD will take care of the things that are out of your control to help you SUCCEED! you should be active and do your best and leave the rest on Christ and he will take care of it.
Jvm Interior Design faith without work is dead. The reason you failed was because you werent doing your part. God did his. You didnt do yours
When i was learning piano I experienced the dip but I kept faith in myself, now I am Grade 2 working towards my 3rd. I will not give up!
I tried to leave a comment three times and then my phone died and I came back. Winning.
With my course at high school, there's always set deadlines for pieces of work throughout the year and people in my class most of the time leave it to the last minute. You have given me the idea to start it as soon as I get it. At the start of the academic year, I was highly motivated but as time went on people in the class got lazy and that's where I realize the dip is happening and before I use to leave to the last minute but now thanks to my awareness I can really ace it and complete the ones early to allow me to work on other areas of life. That's a dip I have experienced. Thank you!
I love this video. This is my problem my whole life. I'm only 25 but I've been doing this since I was a kid. Always dreamt I could change the world and be anything I wanted. But I quit band because it got too hard, dance, and drama club, didn't take hard classes in high school or sats, quit college 6 months in, attempted a work from home business...etc...now that I have a family and child of my own this is my defining moment. I have so many ideas and I've been building my vision of who I want to be especially in the last few years as a stay at home mom. I've been getting into self help to feel happier and found spirituality. Now I'm about to embark on another work from home business that I'm sure will work this time because I'm not going to quit!! Thank you for this.
I have a friend working in Singapore desperately need to watch this video and proudly had send this link to her through whatapps.
Thank you for the video
I REALLY needed this!! ❤️🙏🙏
You are such a great teacher Leo, Thank you.
Thank you so much. I needed to hear this. =) I feel uplifted & better.
Thank you Leo, I agree with Andy Camm below - you work miracles in a few sessions. THE DIP has just happened to me today, and while I could tell myself to keep going, you've still put it into a better light.
Here's the situation for all of you out there: There was an auction for a place, that i sooo blew out of inexperience. I've been hoping to get this workshop for months, and set to it. Blew some obstacles here and there to get to the auction itself, and still - that critical 1 sec moment happened that no mental preparation could've taken me through. It's been such a cheap mistake that it feels gut-wrenchingly devastating. Time to welcome the intermission, and create ways to divert progression elsewhere. GL everyone!
i really needed this this morning, thanks Leo!!
Being an aspiring author & illustrator, I really appreciate what you've said here. With each project I reach a point where I just cant see how to proceed, I'm discouraged & think an answer will never come. But it does, because I want it badly. (I step back & wait for a while if I have to, or just keep plugging away until something works out.) It's very encouraging to think about the fact that I will eventually get ahead, precisely because I am willing to endure the discouraging times and go to the extremes needed to succeed at what I'm trying to do. Thank you.
just got my CPA score. Failed for the 3rd time. I figured out what I have done wrong for so long was "leaning too much on my emotional lazy brain". It is time to get some serious changes. I will take another shot in 2 weeks.
This is one of your most practical videos. I have a very short playlist of similar clips from you which help me stay on track when life punches me in the face. You've helped me more than you could ever know. Thank you, friend.
hey Leo. what got me through my gauntlet or world issues are extreme self control(partial thanks to your valuable concepts), borrowed hope when I ran out of my own(which I have it back now), and just knowing no limitations to independent thinking. I have had negativity come to a plateau if you will, and reached a certain "nirvana". I feel I can be very successful and have somewhat of a promising existence. much respect for you and your endeavors. stay up my friend.
I immediately bought this book, because this is one of the biggest topics in my life. I've been looking for a book about that topic a while now, thank you!
I really like your videos, a lot of positive energy heading my direction.
Leo you are really helpful thank you for all the hard work you put in to this .
Hey Leo, Thank you for your videos. I read the Dip earlier in the year, and that helped me understand "the dip" that I've been going through, and your video framed the concept really well and expanded my understanding of it further - so thank you!
Leo you are really helpful thank you for all the hard work you put in to this
The Dip just picked up my Guitar started practice and managed to changed key in the middle sounds great Had no idea I could do that . "its like a little break through I was getting pissed off" Now I am on another level I love it up here . It really is just a matter on pushing on through and don't Quit .
Excellent video, as usual.
Awesome video Leo. Really gave me another perspective of things.
Great point to keep in mind!
Thank you for inspiring me again.
I love this one. I think I am strong and positively motivated and then sometimes I want to scream asking God for a break really, coz I try so hard. Info in this video will help
Thank you. Great reality check. Going to write.
Thank you after you talked about that defining moment of being at the edge of quitting, I got back to my mixer board and I killed it in a mix of a few songs. Ando felt that defining moment cuz 10 mins ago I got pretty depressed about feeling like I’ll never get better at djing but now I believe I can. Thank u for bringing me some fire
Going to buy this book , maybe it's time for your great book Leo ! Your words of wisdom are helping me get steps ahead .
At 50 seconds in:
Whenever I reach the quitting urge I simplify my endeavor and double down.
This improves my longevity and from there I can escalate again.
"Simplify my endeavor"? What does that even mean?
Well.. wevnever found out
Leo I was thinking yesterday, I needed you, I would've been overtaken by distraction and escapism if I didn't have you to be here and talk to me.
Nice way to put it, thanks
I've felt the dip with my new business as it continues to grow. This video hit on so many points and I now have clarity. Thank you so much! Your videos are amazing and I'm working on watching them all. Then I'll repeat it until I really have it:) Keep up the great work!
Sweet :)
Thank you, Leo. :)
I was just about to quot a job this week because of the same thing. I was at the brink of frustration and feeling like I was failing horribly. I almost cried when I had my breakthrough. My defining moments. This pandemic has revealed it several times. Some I've met but many I haven't. Its not even about the money, its about smashing through that wall. I'm going to read "The Dip".
I ran through so many obstacles building my business that I'm wondering when things are going smoothly. Every time when issue appears I'm trying to get the best from it.
Im a doctor in india and im trying to do my higher education in united kingdom,most doctors in our country are afraid to take uncertain paths and we are very risk averse due to our family and financial situations,but i wanted to do it anyway and covid situation made it far worse with my exams being cancelled or postponed that is when i had a dip in my life but i persevered and gave my english exam oet last month and im anxiously waiting for my result because so much is at stake for me right now,pray for me🙏😊
thank you, this video will help me in the long run
I needed this to get in touch with why I'm taking part of the school system, which turns out to be creativity! Thinking of studying related to a higher value really gets my ass motivated to work and moves me into the direction of finding my life purpose or knowing what I really value. I would recommend watching the vid on: 'Purpose and cause - What are you willing to bleed for?' after watching this one or the other way around. Thank you Leo, I'm greateful for being able to learn from this and apply. Peace and love from Belgium! :)
i am fan of you .your information are good
I don't think about quitting but often feel discouraged and watching this video just made my discourage go away :P
I love your videos. You've helped save my relationship with my fiancé. & this video had me motivated to stay at my current job. Thank you!
Wow, great Amanda! Glad you're out there applying this stuff.
Thanks for sharing :)
Awesome
This is amazing
TY ❤️
everything and nothing is understood be aware of this every moment and be content with not being content with contentment
YOU WILL BE FINE.
You are really undervalued
Hello, currently struggling with my college studies. I failed so many exams just by not showing up on them, because i just decided to quit, to give in. I have 2 exams coming up this week, i will work my max to try to be in that 5% that did manage to climb through that rope and didnt fall into the aligators pit lol. Thank you for all the advices, i will continue to watch you to change my negative point of view. Cheers.
Thanks
Amazing
Great i was a notorious job hopper n over-thinker
Key word was now i identify thoughts filter them n there emotions n back into career i was into earlier tht i quit boom
God is good
N thnk u learning a bunch
Ps yest i drank less beer than
In several months just from being aware n saying do i really need this.
No i dont it was n is abad habit 4 me
I love it
struggling with late and how to stay on a healthy, especially vegan diet. I tend to be an emotional eating, food addict! Try to learn how to control my subconscious mind and teach it. Learning that repetition is how you teach the subconscious mind, so trying to work on that right now. Thanks for your videos! Would definitely like more videos on controlling food addictions and changing the mindset for a healthier diet. :-)
I'm a hypnotherapist and help people with this, if you would like some additional tips you can always email me haleystyle@icloud.com. Good luck! Ps I love actualized.org. Has helped me hugely
research "20:4 controlled fasting"
you're welcome
like always , you got TO THE POINT, dear Leo :-) THAK U
Algorithm finally got it right! Great video, Thank you✌️
One of the best videos ive seen from u so far Leo. Im literally in a dip now in the Pickup commuinity where ive approached 100 girls and havnt gotten much success from that yet. I know you were in the Pua commuinity so I think you know what im talking about here.
100 girls is nothing my friend. You need to be approaching that many per week. Keep the faith and re-dedicate yourself. More action! Don't judge your results until you've done 2000 approaches.
Ill do it but i live in the suburbs so its gonna take me like 10 hours a day to do it
Noah Brown I used to live in the suburbs. Then I realized I can move.
Im 17. I cant move yet. Ill just approach 15 women a day its not that hard.
Nice one leo tricking the ego 😉
Leo,
This is exactly what I needed to hear. I'm in a defining moment in my career (military) and have encountered some difficulties. I'm not happy with what I'm doing and I'm starting to take college classes to find a true passion I could pursue instead. But I do have a question for you; how do you differentiate between disliking a job based on that job's tasks and responsibilities, and disliking a job based on the types of people you have to deal with? My question may sound straight forward, but most of the issues I experience are from more or less idiots and self-entitled people that I am forced to work with. Looking forward to your reply.
I moved away from my hometown, left my family, comfort and entire life to move to new city to follow a dream. I’ve been working night and day living it breathing it eating it and have only had one small moment of success It’s been four years now and I feel like I am hitting a wall and don’t know if I am just being delusional at this point and I’m missing out on Seeing family grow and family events mom is getting older don’t know what I’m doing at this point invested so much time, so much money, my health, and just really confused
interesting topic
I love you.
Thank you for all those videos you have loaded on you tube. I enjoy to listen to them and they make me feel better. I hope you doesn't have trouble concerning legal aspect in canada as you told previously. Continue your job. Could you make a video concerning the pratical way to make meditation ? Thanks
The legal battle was won. No worries there.
Here's a step-by-step guide for how to meditate:
www.actualized.org/blueprint/meditation
if you do make it through the metaphorical pit of alligators your possibilities explode so much. it doesn't matter the others, what matters is that your future is no longer defined by your past limitations. it expanded in so many possibilities that were not there if you wouldn't have transcended your inner barriers... what you want is on the other side of fear :)
Leo, you are the smartest guy in the universe, samrter than Einstein.
LETS FUCKING DOOO THIIIISSSSS
I've been having a tough time in my engineering degree. Mostly because I've realized this isn't where my passion is anymore. I'm now months away from graduation and I'm crawling on. I have a serious project I have been working on and how now realized I may have to start over. I have been finding it hard to to get past the emotional distress of this in order to do what I NEED to do. Nonetheless, your video is a starting point for me. Thank you.
Yeah, being in a place like that sucks. But the good news is, you clearly know now what you don't want to be doing. That's valuable information! What is it you would do if you had $100 million dollars and no obligations to anyone?
Actualized.org I'd travel and definitely use the money to help others. I'd write and create art - which I love to do. But I would stay far away from engineering for sure haha.
Hehe, I'm with ya on staying far away from engineering :) Too dry for my taste, but hey, some people dig it.
hey man love your videos , will just like to know how to acquire and maintain your motivation to escape the dip in you life
You need a life purpose.
When I dip, you dip, we dip 💫
Hey leo. I experience the dip mostly when it comes to the feelings of impatience and you dont habe a set time to keep pushing to so it feels like forever and your kinda like not seeing the light at the end of the tunnel sorta. This is in things like being persistant trying things over over again but you cant see how long you gotta keep going and you just dont see the end for miles.
Do u realize ur literally an angel Leo
Lol
nice video
Hey Leo, While I was watching this video I reminded of some ex-classmates of mine that used to say that as soon as we get a job and we become aware of the money one can earn at a given moment then any dream one previously could´ve had would vanish away in the forgotten due to the comfortableness money might provide us with, besides in that case we´re forgetting what we really meant to be and do for leaning onto the decision of picking apparently the easier way; then I conclude with a question: Should we not give up on what we presume we´d love to do and continue because life is smiling at us, or should we better decide on expect for better chances and finally do what we dreamt about when we were children? I expect your answer my dear coach
think u....
Helo, Leo I find myself in the middle of college and i cant seem to want to work extra hard for being one of the tops of the class, like in the first few weeks how can i fix this and become more motivated?
This is the video I will use to quit smoking...
👋🏻 hey guys I’m going through a dip right now, feels like a couple actually. I’ll update y’all when I find myself on the other side! when I’ve made it through it that is. I want to learn Google Ads (and get my second google certification). Also look for a new job, heal from a “chronic” disease, and move back home abroad in the next month. Learning Ads (AdWords) and doing the physical therapy are my dips, the other two aren’t but will need to be coordinated around each other to fit my schedule (moving abroad and finding job I have no problem getting done lol).
How are you?
How do you understand whether a halt in one's career is due to what you say or simply due to the fact that one is fed up with that career?
I would like your opinion....
Ah, good. Just the video I needed. ^^
Hrm... Obstacles are never a problem. They're usually easy to get past, at worst I need to figure a way around them. But how do you stick to something when you find something else that is even more interesting? And then something else, and something else, and something else...?
Are you humans really that stuck on homeostasis? Seriously? oO
Oh, that way of thinking is brilliant. oO
Thinking it as whether I am better than others by doing the work... that might ACTUALLY work! *Grins*
On a more... earthly vision... How do you build ambition? I can't really think of a single thing in the physical world that I want all that much. All my goals are spiritual, or to gain knowledge and the likes... How do you figure out what may be worth something in the material world? (I don't even see the point of bothering with getting a job, tho I occasionally work when I have a passing obsession with working as this or that, but I always end up quitting cuz it gets boring, gets in the way of my real passions, and gets in the way of my studies. Or simply because I don't like routines. *Laughs*)
hello leo I love your videos. I have a vision that I want to achieve and like everyone I have a lot of obstacles that keep me worried. but when I ask myself what will I do once I achieve it and I go black. is it just a phase? do you think I should better questions?
thank you
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You ignore the importance of talent. That is a major factor, probably more important than working hard. There are lots of songwriters for example who didn't work very hard and still became successful. If you don't have musical pitch you can't become a world class musician and if you are not athletic you can't become a world class athlete no matter how hard you work. Same for all other fields.
Not completely true
takes some craftsmanship
People that work at McDonald’s may not have a lot of education, but their work is not only very hard; it is essential. They should get better payment as should every other ‘low skilled’ work. It’s fairness!
Its Communism
hi 2021
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I want to be elite, top 1% of the world; Best of the best - top rank, top class. Elite , I want to live in the dip and never stop growing
***** Yes man, you are 100% right, Leo says in his life purpose course "What the FUCK are you doing if you're not living your life purpose? Seriously what the FUCK are you doing?" - Beautiful man Leo is :)
Leo, another great vid.....really enjoy you stuff, I've seen most of your content ,..very inpriring...I've actually just set up a small business with my wife ...I'm a musician ....I have a question....what do I do if someone is trying to copy what I do ?? how do I deal with that? ...
from experience, just do your own thing even harder, don't let their copying bother you... don't be bitter friend, be better
thank you for that reply ...perfect
+Martin Buchanan Music happy I could help
OK. And what about so called for lack of a better term "moral obstacles." You know what I mean? When doing what it takes to achieve a goal just feels "ugly" in terms of empathy, like "stabbing somebody in the back," figuratively or maybe litteraly. I've been thinking about it what chance does somebody have if one has any reservations against somebody who will litteraly stop at nothing to succeed no matter who or how deeply someone may suffer for it.
There's no need to stab people in the back and I don't recommend that at all.
i was just going to quit smoking
is there a video about being overwhelmed or slowing down a manic mind
Meditation
Try acupuncture and herbal bach remedies. They worked for my anxiety, cured it mostly. And yes mediation is also great
*meditation
He's got one on controlling emotions
hey leo how should i study for exams?
Diligently ;)
cheers leo :D
I love your talks, but I think they could use some graphics to really keep us focused and illustrate what you're saying.
That's a tall order. These topics are so abstract.
Thanks for sharing the video :)
Actualized.org His suggestion might be good in those videos that are about 1-hour long, cause the average time people keep focused is about 17 minutes and then they start wandering. You could use bulletpoints with some terms on the side instead of graphics. It draws people´s attention when some new element appears on the screen.
What if u are forced to go to the army for 9 months and u want to become a cg artist, how can u not stop growing since in the army are no computers allowed
You'll grow plenty in the army as it is. With that new discipline you'll have an advantage over other lazy artists when you return. You could also buy some art books and art video courses to watch. You can also have a sketch book. Great CG artists are good traditional artists. Learn how to sketch anatomy, arcitecture, etc.
how were you forced?
youll enjou the militsry benefits on subway wille you working in your thang
Cesar Sandoval thanks, actually now the 9 moths have passed
Arthbrok's Project and how did you get through?
Why Leo is so much against people who works at MacDonald?? There are many people like Jack Ma, Emma Watson have worked at MacDonald or cafe but very very successful now...
Akshay Gadekar wtf Emma Watson worked at Mcdonald