Our IVF Egg Retrieval Experience | So Painful!

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 20. 05. 2023
  • This is an Official Cole & Charisma Video Of: Our IVF Egg Retrieval Experience | So Painful!
    Subscribe: bit.ly/sub_CC
    Follow Us on Social Media:
    Cole's Instagram: / roll.with.cole
    Charisma's Instagram: / happilycharisma
    Our TikTok: / coleandcharisma
    Watch the NEWEST videos:
    • Binge from the start |...
    Shop for Adaptive Tools: amazon.com/shop/rollwithcolec...
    Our camera equipment: www.amazon.com/ideas/amzn1.ac...
    PO Box:
    Cole & Charisma
    PO Box 28616
    Henrico, VA 23228
    Watch more Cole & Charisma:
    Adventure Vlogs: • Adventure Vlogs! | Rol...
    Travel Vlogs: • Travel Vlogs | Roll wi...
    How-To/Educational: • How-to/Educational | R...
    Newest Videos: • Binge from the start |...
    Most Popular: • Popular Videos | Roll ...
    About Cole & Charisma:
    Welcome to the official Roll with Cole & Charisma CZcams channel! Since the start of our relationship we've gotten a lot of questions about our experiences as not only an interracial couple, but an interabled one as well. On this channel you can catch us doing travel and adventure vlogs, challenges, our inclusion series, couple first times, music, and so much more! We started this vlog to bring people into our lives, to answer some questions about how we navigate the world, and hopefully raise awareness surrounding accessibility and dating in a wheelchair. You'll quickly see in our episodes that we're all about inclusion and keeping a great attitude no matter your circumstances, so if that's what you're into, you're in the right place!

Komentáře • 2,2K

  • @micro-uhgresh-uhnn
    @micro-uhgresh-uhnn Před rokem +1385

    Is it just me, or did Cole and Charisma make us love them even more in this video. You two are adorable. These babies are lucky to have y’all. See how we are believing it with ya!

    • @gwengreene8522
      @gwengreene8522 Před rokem +45

      We are so invested and way too involved! I know that I am. But these are my children!!!!

    • @globalconcern4995
      @globalconcern4995 Před rokem +16

      You're right

    • @sharonsimpson6363
      @sharonsimpson6363 Před rokem +13

      Agree. Beautiful vedio.

    • @MsCeeC
      @MsCeeC Před rokem +15

      I couldn't agree more! Love it!!! Many blessings to you two💛💪🏾🥰

    • @Leiwiththetea
      @Leiwiththetea Před rokem +9

      Good luck

  • @bluebutterflywellness2273
    @bluebutterflywellness2273 Před rokem +519

    You said 5 and you got 5!! That was truly a sign of you being guided! 🙏🏽💕

    • @WILMA_
      @WILMA_ Před rokem +17

      Who is GOD?!?! Right?

    • @shelbywoods2723
      @shelbywoods2723 Před rokem

      @WILMA what my dear friend no short answer get to a Christian chch nazaene church is a good on an they are all over plead ok. Ganks love to DidblessmessGeme I'm thrmor n ing. I need to tell you not Togo to cintology. Idk are ùreal??????

    • @sanelemotau8490
      @sanelemotau8490 Před rokem +18

      😭😭 👏👏👏 5, guys, 5 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @vashtidunrod
      @vashtidunrod Před rokem +17

      Proof that manifestation is real

    • @CocoaChanel-ef2kn
      @CocoaChanel-ef2kn Před rokem +5

      Woww

  • @mtngurl68
    @mtngurl68 Před rokem +518

    We had IVF 24 years ago and our twin boys will be 23 in June! It worked on the first try! We know about the expense, I told my husband we should have named them Visa and MasterCard! :) Praying for beautiful babies!!

    • @marvelhotelbuea6031
      @marvelhotelbuea6031 Před rokem +22

      😂visa

    • @florenceaudu8854
      @florenceaudu8854 Před rokem +14

      😅😅😅 the names. Hmmm IVF is so expensive

    • @brendamuzioreva3458
      @brendamuzioreva3458 Před rokem +9

      😅😅😅😅

    • @faith6007
      @faith6007 Před rokem +7

      😂😂😂

    • @pagevaughn9194
      @pagevaughn9194 Před rokem +24

      LoL, we also know that cost as well! We also know the cost of adoption because our IVF did not work! We had the double whammy! I remember asking our insurance company if this could be covered, they said no. They said this was optional a choice! I told her how is not being able to have a child optional? She didn't answer, but they will pay for abortion. Crazy! We ended up adopting our son 20 years ago. Time flys!

  • @latoyaharris-thicklin1384
    @latoyaharris-thicklin1384 Před rokem +282

    I am so grateful you shared how Cole has cared for you. So many people have the misconception that he totally depends on you… thank y’all for showing us the real and the LOVE

  • @Sam4G0d
    @Sam4G0d Před rokem +210

    "I'm sure you're feeling what you're feeling babe" - Cole is such a loving, supportive husband.
    Charisma, you did amazing! Thank you for being so open about this experience and documenting it all. It's so informative and helpful for future parents x

  • @darksarcasm4835
    @darksarcasm4835 Před rokem +282

    Wow! I did not realize that the procedure would be so hard. We are used to seeing Charisma as the Tiger Wife, but this procedure has brought out the the Papa Bear taking care of his precious wife-y’all are amazing.❤❤❤

  • @lindamoore2950
    @lindamoore2950 Před rokem +115

    "He will roll the distance for me." I heard that and started tearing up. The love and strength you hvae been willing to share with us, is simply beautiful. extraordinary. Thank you for being real, vulnerable and open with the community.

  • @daneen8869
    @daneen8869 Před rokem +137

    Hey Cole & Charisma, I just watched a video about a new breakthrough technology in Switzerland. A man was paralyzed from an injury 12 years ago. He recently had brain and spinal cord implants which allow him to walk. It’s amazing and worth looking into. You both are an amazing couple and deserve Gods best.

  • @themiddleones11
    @themiddleones11 Před rokem +448

    I can't believe it was exactly 5 embryos
    So happy for you guys and excited for what's down the road

  • @emp556
    @emp556 Před rokem +331

    Awe, Cole is so loving towards his wife. It's not easy for us, woman.

    • @NokulungaMahlati
      @NokulungaMahlati Před rokem +5

      Its definitely not easy at all.

    • @faithmoore7520
      @faithmoore7520 Před rokem +7

      I am mad at the doctor because they could have addressed that gas situation before they left the hospital or the clinic. They should’ve found out what was going on.😡

    • @jennysmith2256
      @jennysmith2256 Před rokem +1

      ​@@NokulungaMahlati😊

    • @pearlygates9763
      @pearlygates9763 Před rokem +1

      So true. Women have it hard sometimes. But being a mom is wonderful.

    • @nelcialazar2884
      @nelcialazar2884 Před rokem

      Hope u feel better soon ,i wish u best of look that u will know soon if u have a baby or two good look Cole is a very good husband disababliy or not he help u very good.

  • @bluekimchiandrea4476
    @bluekimchiandrea4476 Před rokem +172

    Oh my goodness, I cried with hearing you both do your affirmations! 😢❤ you both are THE example of how to have a healthy relationship 😊

  • @tamikaqueen1203
    @tamikaqueen1203 Před 10 měsíci +17

    My daughter went through this as her husband had a problem due to an accident when he was a child. They conceived on the first time. Almost 2 years as of November my first grandson will be 2 years old. I pray you will conceive and the children in the future will bring you so much joy, peace and laughter. God Bless.

  • @Amy_Matthias
    @Amy_Matthias Před rokem +175

    I was getting teary-eyed near the end when Charisma was talking about Cole taking care of her…but then at the very end when I read ‘5 embryos’…the flood gates opened up! I am so excited to see a baby Charisma or a baby Cole ❤

  • @alashea2974
    @alashea2974 Před rokem +201

    Charisma, girrrll, I was feeling sympathy cramps watching you go through it. I know it had to be painful. I'm glad you are doing better. Cole, my friend, I was feeling you too worrying about Charisma. You really stepped it up for her. I love you both for the love and support you have for one another. Nick thank you for driving them home. You are a blessing. The extraction was a success. Now we wait...notice I said "we"...internet Auntie Ally here. :)

    • @coleandcharisma
      @coleandcharisma  Před rokem +26

      Thank you SO much ❤❤

    • @zamakhosimpanza3902
      @zamakhosimpanza3902 Před rokem +13

      For once I'm without words to express what i felt like with video today. My eyes watered the whole way thru as it suddenly hit home that this is very serious undertaking. I am now truly on a prayer journey for your success Family Sydnor.

    • @ethelspruill
      @ethelspruill Před rokem +6

      So beautiful, congratulations guys! Cole is so loving and nurturing.

    • @user-my5xs2bl7i
      @user-my5xs2bl7i Před 10 měsíci

      Hello friends I am praying for you both and God bless you and your family

  • @RUZHOFFS
    @RUZHOFFS Před rokem +153

    The things we take for granted!! Watching your fertility journey has truly humbled me. Being a mum of two who just got pregnant immediately when I wanted, it’s been humbling to know that it doesn’t always come that easy. I am very thankful.
    Cole and Charisma, I am truly praying for you and keeping all my fingers crossed 🤞 for you. 🫂 and 💙❤️

  • @LaynieFingers
    @LaynieFingers Před rokem +84

    I love the humor y'all have together. As someone married happily for 30 years, that humor will get you through so many tough times!

  • @l.s.3439
    @l.s.3439 Před rokem +93

    Charisma I’m so excited & happy for you & Cole! 16 Egg retrievals, 10 Mature, 9 Fertilized & 5 Embryos! All your hard work will pay off😊 Believing Gods’ Blessing for y’all to get pregnant! Love & Prayers from Georgia!❤🙏🏽

  • @minawa252
    @minawa252 Před rokem +163

    Congrats on 16 egg retrieval. That is awesome I can't wait to see when the little one or ones are born. Yeah I know it will be a while but still.

  • @emilywiebel3238
    @emilywiebel3238 Před rokem +62

    Seeing how concerned Cole was about Charisma before and during and after the procedure was so sweet and validating that the pain she’s feeling is real and she’s not over reacting. I’m so glad this went so well and hopefully she won’t have to go through this procedure ever again as Cole said.
    *my dogs have always known when we weren’t feeling great, upset and my yorkie knew I was pregnant before I did and wouldn’t leave my side. Had no clue why he was so attached and wouldn’t leave me until I found out I was pregnant and it made sense. Animals are amazing!

  • @truthemilly2112
    @truthemilly2112 Před rokem +34

    I love how Cole supports his wife helping her in this situation 👏👏👏 felt your pain my dear hope all goes well for you sweethearts can't wait for results 😊

    • @graceWebster-js3py
      @graceWebster-js3py Před 2 měsíci

      Charisma my dear child your other mother here in Africa. Feeling for you praying for you that the almighty God have mercy on you and come through for you love birds in Jesus name. Love you guys

  • @SERD52
    @SERD52 Před rokem +71

    I started crying hearing you talk about Cole helping you. It's so important that he knows he can be of help. You two are gonna make great parents and beautiful babies. I hope this time next year we see three of you all, 4 counting Sofia.

  • @michelleb9008
    @michelleb9008 Před rokem +158

    After having 3 miscarriages myself and not being able to fall pregnant the next option for us is IVF and I was looking for videos about it and came across urs. Thank you so much for showing what to expect going through IVF. The good and not so good parts. I have really enjoyed watching u guys and I pray that you guys will hopefully get your rainbow baby with this round of IVF. 🌈🙏🏼 sending love xox

    • @coleandcharisma
      @coleandcharisma  Před rokem +35

      I’m so sorry for your losses. Sending you so much love throughout this new journey. There are so many ups and downs but it’s bringing all of us one day closer to having a baby. Thank you for your support!

    • @donnacain9692
      @donnacain9692 Před rokem +8

      Michelle Peace Love And Blessings To You ❤🌹

    • @jayleigh_bee
      @jayleigh_bee Před rokem +7

      Please also see other stories as they are very different! There’s a series of videos by Marissa Gayel who is going through this, now, and has stories about supplements and egg quality, preparation for the procedures etc.

    • @leleemcmurphy2246
      @leleemcmurphy2246 Před rokem +4

      In addition to Mindy Minx, I have also seen @jessicaoutofthecloset parentinghood journey as her wife Claudia did the IVF. It's so beautiful to see parents to be becoming! You all are so inspiring & my prayers are with you! ❤

    • @ladybuglover4eva52
      @ladybuglover4eva52 Před rokem +5

      Oh, Lawd you guys!! 🙌🏾I've cried through this entire update 😢 😭 My heart has SO MUCH LOVE & HOPE for you. Your vulnerability was palpable, as was your genuine love & support for one another. You two are so in sync; it makes my ❤️ happy to watch your life journeys. FIVE embryos! That's literally a handful of reasons you should both feel proud of all the hard work 💪🏾
      So, I'm calling it...Baby Sydnor will arrive by Spring of 2024 👶🏽

  • @RoseA64
    @RoseA64 Před rokem +50

    I don't know why I cried this whole video.🥲 Cole and Charisma, you deserve all the happiness and blessings that God can and will bestow upon them. I just love your positivity and honesty. Your children are going to be so freaking adorable and blessed to have you as parents. I'm praying for and with you. Thank you for being a light in a world that is so gloomy at times. ❤❤❤

  • @Majah1923
    @Majah1923 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I wonder how some people can wake up and just be some calm. When I woke up from anesthesia my mom had to come in the back to calm me down because I was cussing out the doctors. Charisma is so strong and they are so good together supporting one another.

  • @JustifyingT
    @JustifyingT Před rokem +60

    As a differently, abled woman, I love seeing you all relationship. I’m a little older than charisma, but I’m still single. I just shed a tear because in the beginning of the video you all said five was your number and you got five embryos. That is so amazing and God is good.❤❤❤

  • @tinamarie7777
    @tinamarie7777 Před rokem +65

    Cole you are the man giving your lady a lift when she didn’t feel well!! 🫶💜🫶 Great success you guys!!! ♥️☀️

    • @prettypamela
      @prettypamela Před rokem +5

      I absolutely loved that part❤❤it was so sweet and Considerate of him

  • @denisegreene8441
    @denisegreene8441 Před rokem +86

    Well Charisma did say 5 was her lucky number ! How exciting. You will both make amazing parents. The greatest gift you can give your children is parents that love and respect each other. Can't wait to see this next chapter in your life's.

  • @karinbrantner3081
    @karinbrantner3081 Před rokem +23

    This couple will be beautiful parents, the children they produce will be so lucky to have them as parents.

  • @Mrs.CryssieJ
    @Mrs.CryssieJ Před rokem +98

    Cole is so selfless and charisma is sweet thank you both for taking us on this journey, 😊 love you guys ❤ Congratulations on your 16 egg retrival guys that's amazing

  • @bethk9329
    @bethk9329 Před rokem +135

    You two are going to be incredible parents. Wishing you all the joy and love. ❤️

  • @Aeriyana123
    @Aeriyana123 Před 11 měsíci +10

    I am praying for you guys! If two people deserve all the joy this world has to offer it is the two of you.

  • @user-tf9pg4fi7u
    @user-tf9pg4fi7u Před rokem +41

    Chrisma, Cole loves you so deep it hurts!! You are going to be GREAT parents! Your love for each other can’t help but pour into your child(ren) Wishing you Godspeed now and forever!❤️❤️❤️

  • @mellomel7232
    @mellomel7232 Před rokem +98

    You guys really touched my heart today. I'm so excited about the success of the IVF! Here come the babies 🧸🧸🍼🍼👣👣

  • @marthakaonga6581
    @marthakaonga6581 Před rokem +43

    We women go thru a lot, praying for a quick recovery🙏🏾 Coles love towards you is amazing❤❤❤

  • @kimlimber2878
    @kimlimber2878 Před rokem +27

    I had IVF 30 years ago,and I had a lovely baby,now a grown Man-named Kye....best of luck to you guys!!!sending sweet wishes and prayers....You guys are a great team!!!

  • @shannonqueen2763
    @shannonqueen2763 Před 2 měsíci +1

    You two for 1 ARE THE MOST ADORABLE! My fiance and I just recently started watching you guys after he was hit by a truck on his motorcycle and left for dead but by the Grace of God and the hands of the paramedics and dying twice on the way to the hospital he had a with me today! His accident was Feb 19, 2024 and our wedding date was planned for April 24, 2024. His spine was severed and is now a T7 Complete Paraplegic! He turned 41 just 9 days prior. Which happened to be the day my son’s best friend, 19, was killed on his motorcycle. I had actually left for the funeral on the 14th of Feb to go back to Atlanta. 5 days later I got the horrible call from my soon to be mother in law he wasn’t breathing. We’ve been home 3 weeks now and it’s definitely a new life. We’ve cried, yelled and laughed! Watching the 2 of you remind me a lot of us. Yall give US HOPE! He has no children and I’m 42 with 3 and my tubes tied but with all im handling taking care of him 24/7 I still would love to give him his first child!
    We are praying for yall and hope that God delivers a miracle! Thank you again for making us laugh and teaching us everyday life in this new journey we are about to experience in the life of a paraplegic! 🥰

  • @janwight9554
    @janwight9554 Před rokem +36

    I felt so sorry for you, Charisma, when you were suffering. I know that you and Cole will make exceptional parents. Thank you so much for bringing us along on your journey.

  • @coachinandnursinwithtt
    @coachinandnursinwithtt Před rokem +123

    Y’all are definitely an inspiration. Me and my boyfriend have been thinking about kids. As he has CP and is wheelchair bound, we may have to go through this channel to have kids and it’s really nice to see more in depth of the what the journey may look like for us.
    Y’all have definitely inspired us to create our own channel and document our lives. It’s just a little more complicated since I am still in nursing school. So thank you both for being so authentic! And congratulations on the retrieval ❤❤

    • @libbycarthright1620
      @libbycarthright1620 Před rokem +7

      Best of luck to you guys

    • @ulahharrell8645
      @ulahharrell8645 Před rokem +7

      I know nursing school can be hard.. it being an important and helpful career... glad you are still hanging in there😊 ARE you still posting???

    • @bluekimchiandrea4476
      @bluekimchiandrea4476 Před rokem +4

      Granted, it wasn't giving birth to me but my guardian had CP and I am forever grateful for having had him as a stand in dad. He passed away a couple of years ago, at age 64. I miss him ALL the time and our every Sunday phone calls, cause he had moved to Missouri once I was on my own. I'm thankful for ALL different types of families ❤😊

    • @irenedavo3768
      @irenedavo3768 Před rokem +2

      Good Luck

    • @terriedenna7751
      @terriedenna7751 Před rokem +3

      Best of Luck to you & your husband if you do go through the process. Cole & Charisma are truly an excellent source & inspiration to any couple out there that are wanting to go through this to become parents. 😊😊

  • @meekyw.4010
    @meekyw.4010 Před rokem +17

    Whoop whoop 16 🥚congratulations!! I love seeing the support Cole displayed for Charisma. I felt Charisma when she had to ask whether or not she was in pain or exaggerating. This is so typical for black women, feel the need to always be the strong one. Feel your feels Charisma you don't always have to be strong. Even with the medicines. I'm the same way I don't like taking meds, but sometimes you need the meds for more than just the pain. Meds can also be good for inflammation, and when you're in a lot of pain you can start 😓 and feel faint. The best option for those of us that don't like pain meds is to take them, but then start weaning off.
    Thanks for sharing your private journey.

  • @shelldel4
    @shelldel4 Před rokem +41

    Marriage is all about team work and y'all have got it going on!! So excited to continue to follow your journey to parenthood. Sending much ♥♥

  • @Tammywiiliams69
    @Tammywiiliams69 Před rokem +20

    Cole is the husband of the year I loved watching him take care of his wife. They are such a beautiful couple

  • @lesliemeadows6980
    @lesliemeadows6980 Před rokem +10

    This is love personified ❤
    I’m sorry there was difficulty with the anesthesia. I felt that one with you. Cole taking care of his Queen melted my heart.

  • @AudraLeigh01
    @AudraLeigh01 Před rokem +2

    I like how the doctor answered “probably” to your question if it’s like period cramps. He knows he can’t know that.

  • @esbizzze
    @esbizzze Před rokem +14

    Cole is a protector. You can count on him. People will underestimate him. He is all about doing the do, for his boo!!!😅 Yall got each other, and I love to see it.

  • @rosie70728
    @rosie70728 Před rokem +53

    As a fellow IVF mommy, it is so worth it! It’s unfortunate insurance doesn’t cover it in most states. I feel for people who may not have the resources to try IVF 🙁
    We were so lucky, god heard our prayers, and our first cycle was a success.
    I called my baby the golden egg, and now she’s my golden child. Good luck, god bless you with health, and a beautiful baby.

  • @TippiteeTots
    @TippiteeTots Před rokem +1

    Oh and this video had me in tears! I will be praying that your journey to parenthood is successful and joy filled!!!

  • @sandrawoodruff9991
    @sandrawoodruff9991 Před 11 měsíci +2

    As a retired SCI RN I am so happy to be able to share your experiences, I Have always loved watching progress my clients make as they heal and reclaim their lives. God Bless you both. I had forgotten just how much I miss working with SCI CLIENTS. Your story has brought me many happy memories and stories. Blessings, Sandra W. Texas

  • @joycebates-jordan9520
    @joycebates-jordan9520 Před rokem +44

    The affirmations were everything. Cole, the way you looked at your wife was endearing... I wish you both happiness, joy and success with the procedure. Love you guys!❤

  • @HeatherKFezuk
    @HeatherKFezuk Před rokem +25

    Praying that all she went through was productive and a little Sydnor will be here in a few months! You 2 are such a great loving couple. Your baby is blessed.

  • @danielrhodes3073
    @danielrhodes3073 Před rokem +3

    Wow! That's amazing. So happy for you all, and glad Charisma is feeling better. She's such a strong, beautiful woman. Blessings to you both.

  • @heidia6270
    @heidia6270 Před rokem +2

    Sending you both lots of love and hope for this journey!!! Thank you for sharing with us. What I truly love is….how Cole reacts when Charisma is in distress…you can see the caring in his face and how much he doesn’t like seeing her in pain. You guys are the sweetest and I can’t wait to see where this journey takes you! Much love! ❤❤❤

  • @rhodanwaeze9562
    @rhodanwaeze9562 Před rokem +20

    One of your best vlogs ever. Both of you in a vulnerable situation, and yet loving and caring for each other.

  • @sharonmansfield3053
    @sharonmansfield3053 Před rokem +52

    Thank you for sharing your egg retrieving process. Sorry you had all that cramping. I also throw up the anesthesia, I hate that part. Cole is amazing and will always take excellent care of you and children. I’m praying the eggs get fertilized and ready to implant! Hope your cramping ends soon. Cole, excellent job editing! 👍👏❤️

  • @TnTnO4
    @TnTnO4 Před rokem +13

    I’ve fallowed the beautiful couple you are for years now but this video absolutely pulled at my heart. Starting the beginning off on a cute playful moment between you to was adorable. The support and love throughout the whole process. From Cole worrying for Charisma to you both expressing how proud of each other you are. I’ve never doubted you Cole for a minute not being able to take care of Charisma. I pray for you both on this journey and hope all your dreams come true. You both deserve every bit of happiness and more. Best of luck and will continue to be sending prayers your way❤️

  • @nancyparker1410
    @nancyparker1410 Před rokem +6

    The both of you are such an amazing couple! I live in RVA and have been watching the two of you since the start! It is such a privilege for all of us to now come along as you start new chapters in your lives! I can't wait to see how all of this turns out! The both of you radiate positivity beyond measure, and I as a Mom of my own kids am just as proud for the two of you! Well wishes!!

  • @jessicafianko
    @jessicafianko Před rokem +41

    Happy Sunday Cole and Charisma, Everything is going to be fine. Can't wait to hear what the doctor says, Just stay positive 😊😊 Sending love 🫶🏾🫶🏻❤❤

  • @vilmawatson-xv7mq
    @vilmawatson-xv7mq Před rokem +29

    I am so feeling this for Charisma....happy that it's been done but sad that she's having these crucial pains. Thanks to Cole a million for been so supportive. Just as she predicted 555 and 5 embryos amazing. Wishing you the best on this journey God is good all the time. Blessings ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Miss.Bri_
    @Miss.Bri_ Před rokem +2

    Love how Cole is helping you during this time, you compliment each other well

  • @tonishalee8799
    @tonishalee8799 Před rokem +2

    I’ve never been so sure this was your time!!!! I pray y’all get through this journey together and the support y’all have is unmeasurable! So much love for y’all!!! And seeing the ending im crying for yall

  • @Ellepeah
    @Ellepeah Před rokem +16

    Egg retrieval can be severe cramping like labor pains. Charisma was going through it but looked so cute driving out of frame. So glad she was feeling better the next day. Thank you for sharing your journey. Best wishes for success!!

  • @rramos3157
    @rramos3157 Před rokem +39

    Rest up Charisma! Proud of hubby Cole how he stepped up! Glad you guys got good numbers! Amazing all you guys had to go through but it will all be worth it! Thank you for continuing to share your journey with us! Look forward to hearing the baby news soon!🙏🙏🙏🫶🤗

  • @jenc9956
    @jenc9956 Před rokem +5

    Praise the Lord! Guys I literally prayed for 16 eggs and spoke it out of my mouth when the doctor came out and said they counted 8 so far and still counting. God is good! Blessings~

  • @lisajohnsonwithlove
    @lisajohnsonwithlove Před rokem +1

    What a gift . To see how you and Cole navigate life. Now, navigating thru this journey. Thank you for your openness. I’ve followed since you both created this channel - and, I’m truly overjoyed with this, your new journey! Sending high vibrations and love your way! You are both going to be fantastic parents! 💗✨💙

  • @Lisa-kz7vw
    @Lisa-kz7vw Před rokem +35

    so excited rest Charisma Cole is so supportive god bless you guys 😊

    • @shelbywoods2723
      @shelbywoods2723 Před rokem +1

      Cole is aofood I love him ❤️ 😍 💕 😩 💙 😭 ❤️ 😍 💕 😩 💙 😭 ❤️ 😍 💕 😩 💙 😭 ❤️ 😍 💕 😩 so nice thoughtful always. 😅

    • @rajamonae7629
      @rajamonae7629 Před rokem +1

      M

  • @jackiemontgomery-hunter7449

    Cole and Charisma. There are people who can only wish for what you two have. Despite every hurdle that life throws at you two, it is so clear to see the love you have for each other. I truly truly hope that you are blessed and become the parents you want to be. ❤

  • @terriwaters2842
    @terriwaters2842 Před rokem

    I wish you two all the best. I LOVE how Cole carried you into your home and how supportive he is for your health. You are going to be amazing parents!!

  • @teewalla5936
    @teewalla5936 Před rokem

    I admire your strength for still pushing thru all of your fears and doubts and giving your raw thoughts about the matter with truth

  • @alyssamorgn
    @alyssamorgn Před rokem +34

    **5 is actually an angel number!!!!**
    "If you're seeing fives, you're receiving a strong message from your angels that big change is headed your way.
    The five is showing you the way to a new life filled with excitement and adventure."
    How perfect!
    So excited for what the future holds for you guys! Thank you for taking us along with you on this journey and for being so open and honest about all the details! You two are so darn cute together.
    And big props to you Cole for all you've been doing to take care of Charisma and figuring out how to do the transfers and what not independently. Im sure theres been moments where it can be a bit frustrating, but your ability to always persevere is clearly limitless!
    Much love to you both! 💕

  • @cccro6228
    @cccro6228 Před rokem +24

    He's so supportive and just right there.

    • @Me-iq8rs
      @Me-iq8rs Před rokem

      He is supportive my ass, she works like a dog to keep him alive. I am sure she sometimes wants out

    • @cccro6228
      @cccro6228 Před rokem +1

      @@Me-iq8rs Where do you people get off painting negative pictures on everything?

    • @smcbeth7
      @smcbeth7 Před rokem

      ​@@Me-iq8rs You need Jesus more than ever..

  • @ann-mariebutler7716
    @ann-mariebutler7716 Před rokem

    You guys!!! That’s so awesome!!!! You endured the pain, supported each other and amazing results. I was praying the whole time watching your video. Happy tears for you both!!

  • @consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688

    You two are the most loving couple on planet Earth. I pray that all FIVE babies will be realized soon.

  • @sharoncampbell3726
    @sharoncampbell3726 Před rokem +25

    I cried through this video. I just love how loving you both are to each other. I love you both as if you were my family. Good luck, good luck guys. God please bless them with healthy babies. ❤❤❤

  • @BabiiMousee
    @BabiiMousee Před rokem +11

    Seeing Cole care for you made me soooooo emotional 😭 it’s so sweet! #NOWthatsAHusband 😍👏🏼 He definitely is a blessing ❤️🥰 & Good job mama, 16 eggs! I love you both! The magic 5! God be with them & give them tons of baby dust! Amen 🙏🏽

  • @anissat-tech
    @anissat-tech Před rokem +21

    "He will roll the distance for me..." 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖 You two are a blessing, to each other and to us. 🙏🏽🙏🏽 everything goes beautifully!

  • @JH-je2kg
    @JH-je2kg Před rokem +64

    I’m so sorry you had such an adverse reaction. The process sucks so bad, but the outcome can be so worth it!
    My last child, who is 19 months old, was conceived using IVF. It was during COVID, and because I am overweight, (not sure what that had to do with anything) they did not want to do my egg retrieval in the surgery center, under anesthesia… SO they did it in-office, and gave me a pain pill and a Xanax. I have a total of three kids, all c-section babies and that retrieval was some of the worst pain I have ever felt. On the drive home, if my husband hit a bump in the road, I was in tears. I totally get it. I’m sure you were feeling everything you were feeling!
    I started with 15 eggs retrieved and at the end only one embryo survived. We were devastated and sure we would have to do another round, but God really works! That one is my sweet baby girl 😊

    • @serenasmith5946
      @serenasmith5946 Před rokem +4

      May God Bless you

    • @neelyo
      @neelyo Před rokem +2

      It used to be done that way for everyone - with you awake. But the baby in the end is worth it!

    • @ndlamont01
      @ndlamont01 Před rokem +6

      The reason for the weight is that a surgery center is not a hospital. If there were an emergency, there would not be time to transport you to a hospital. The majority IVF only uses Fentynal and versed alone. Others may put you completely under with propofol. Regardless the issue would be breathing and bleeding for anyone, and weight greatly increases those risks.
      That said, a PILL and Xanax is comical and RIDICULOUS. I'd never go there again. Find a location that is paired with a hospital. I felt pinching with the Fentynal and versed and they had to double my dose.

    • @JH-je2kg
      @JH-je2kg Před rokem +3

      @@ndlamont01 yeah they explained about anesthesia complications, but I have been under anesthesia sooo many times. I was so upset afterwards, but it did end up being worth it.

    • @ndlamont01
      @ndlamont01 Před rokem +3

      @J H I think thr surgery centers get scared bc there's no back up. I have Hypermobility Spectrum Disorder (HSD) so that makes us uniquely resistant to anesthesia. Every surgery I have had I ALWAYS remember and wake up immediately on the table. Fentynal and Versed metabolism too quickly with us. But the surgery centers won't give me more like the hospital. And I'm just 4'11" and the size of a small 12yr old.

  • @jayleigh_bee
    @jayleigh_bee Před rokem +19

    My daughter just had her first retrieval last week, and luckily recovered fairly well. Good luck to you both!

  • @rubychew6535
    @rubychew6535 Před rokem +54

    I'm glad that everything went well for the both of you. The fact that they were able to harvest 16 eggs is wonderful. Relax and the pain should subside.

  • @judithgreen3689
    @judithgreen3689 Před rokem +3

    Such a sweet photo of you both in wheel chairs holding hands, made me want to cry - with joy. All the discomfort - sorry you have to go through that, Charisma - but, it's all going to be worth it when your bundle of joy arrives. In a way, I bet Cole feels proud that for once he can take care of his sweet wife. I'm praying for you. You will make super great parents!

  • @yeniseibroussard3451
    @yeniseibroussard3451 Před rokem +14

    Watching your fertility journey has really been an Humbling experience because sometimes we tend to take things for granted. May God continue to bless the both of you on this journey

  • @aliciayearell9875
    @aliciayearell9875 Před rokem +24

    This is so exciting! I pray that all goes well!!! Get some rest. And feel better.

  • @ChanteMcCormick
    @ChanteMcCormick Před rokem +20

    I had a friend miss my birthday party 2 weeks after her egg retrieval. She bought me a cake and said she felt terrible about it. Now I understand why she couldn't make it. I agree with you Charisma...I have watched videos about egg retrieval and freezing and I don't recall much about the pain being mentioned!

  • @excellent9150
    @excellent9150 Před rokem +4

    Who will be part of the celebrants when God finally bless this beautiful couple with twins a boy n a girl.

  • @PamelaWilsonLipscomb
    @PamelaWilsonLipscomb Před 7 měsíci +2

    I had no idea receiving eggs was painful and IVF was painful. I am rooting for you guys! Baby! Baby! Baby!

  • @ednanelson1897
    @ednanelson1897 Před rokem +45

    Wow, you did an awesome job Charisma. 16 eggs, 5 embryos. So excited for you guys as you continue this journey towards parenthood.

  • @lindasingh3268
    @lindasingh3268 Před rokem +23

    I really hope u guys see this message,I’m literally in tears right now.I can’t tell u how happy and emotional this is.I ended up real sick and had to give 2 kids up for adoption and I don’t regret anything I’ve done,bcuz I blessed some who couldn’t have kids.Just knowing I gave birth to 2 kids and can’t see them is so hard.But I think ur going through something I couldn’t handle at all.I love watching u guys.And can’t wait to hear ur pregnant.Both of u are so amazing.🙏🙏🙏🙏💜💜💜

  • @kofialleghana8868
    @kofialleghana8868 Před rokem +2

    That woman charisma is a rare kind to find in this crazy culture.

  • @jasminerobinson8307
    @jasminerobinson8307 Před rokem +57

    I’m glad you all film the experience because I’m in the phase of considering IVF…glad it was a success and many prayers 🙏🏾for your future ❤

  • @celesteredding1550
    @celesteredding1550 Před rokem +21

    Charisma you're such a strong, determined, positive woman. Rest up, keep the heating pad on your stomach and take it very slow Charisma. Cole congratulations on working so hard and diligently on dressing &transfer.

  • @paulachin9130
    @paulachin9130 Před rokem +37

    Cole, what an amazing human being, Charisma is one of a kind for sure. I'm so glad she came into your life for that reason. It's really two special people. I have a friend who is going through this procedure and she went to Turkey from London as ots cheaper there. She just had her egg retrieval, so I'm waiting from the next stage. She also had a rough time after procedure too so looks like that's normal. Hope everything goes great for you guys.

  • @excellent9150
    @excellent9150 Před rokem +1

    He said let me keep my ears close to de door, oh emotions are high, she’s gonna be just perfect dear cole.

  • @pandapug20
    @pandapug20 Před rokem +11

    Good luck to you two! I did six egg retrievals and I’m currently 6 and a half months pregnant with my first baby. It can be pretty painful having your eggs removed, but it’s so worth it.

  • @susaneberts7938
    @susaneberts7938 Před rokem +20

    I cried with this video! I already see you pregnant, Charisma! 😊

  • @garberpartyof6
    @garberpartyof6 Před rokem +54

    Hooray! Those were exactly our numbers 🎉 we transferred 2 embryos (bc of my age and we didn’t test) and got triplets! One embryo spilt. Sending all the good vibes and baby dust! Charcoal tablets help with the gas pain if you ever have anesthesia again. It’s horrible.

  • @boutdathiphoplife7724
    @boutdathiphoplife7724 Před rokem +2

    Good luck we did it for 12 years. 2kids later God is good 🙏🏾🤗

  • @cheleeatkins1784
    @cheleeatkins1784 Před rokem +3

    Great job! You guys are a great team! It’s going to be so worth it when you have those sweet cute loved little babies! 🙏🏻❤️

  • @Justme57746
    @Justme57746 Před rokem +30

    Hand in there Charisma, praying for you all! Just know this will all pay off in the end!!❤

  • @ladybuglover4eva52
    @ladybuglover4eva52 Před rokem +45

    Oh, Lawd you guys!! 🙌🏾I've cried through this entire update 😢 😭 My heart has SO MUCH LOVE & HOPE for you. Your vulnerability was palpable, as was your genuine love & support for one another. You two are so in sync; it makes my ❤️ happy to watch your life journeys. FIVE embryos! That's literally a handful of reasons you should both feel proud of all the hard work 💪🏾
    So, I'm calling it...Baby Sydnor will arrive by Spring of 2024 👶🏽

  • @bettyfreeman9253
    @bettyfreeman9253 Před rokem +3

    Thank you for sharing this very personal experience with us. I am so praying for you two to have success!

  • @nataliestaheli51602
    @nataliestaheli51602 Před rokem +2

    Congratulations on your 5 embryos!! It's so sweet watching Cole take such great care of Charisma! You all will be in my prayers that things will go great and you'll get to have your "little one" soon! You guys will be awesome parents!

  • @julieannemichelle
    @julieannemichelle Před rokem +26

    I would never question Cole’s ability to take care of you. He’s light years ahead of my ex husband and he was able bodied. I think the first time you go through a painful procedure is the worst. But if you had the procedure done again you’d know what to expect.
    My 3 children were all c-sections and the first time I couldn’t believe how painful it was. The ones that came after were still painful but not like the first. Now I compare any pain I have to go through with childbirth.