Another Pregnancy Loss | IVF Update
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My mom was infertile. This way before ivf. She never spoke about the 15 years she tried before adopting me at birth but I wish she would have. It has to be heartbreaking. She said the moment she saw my face she knew why. She was an incredible mother. I am hoping for the best for you both.
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I feel similar…I’ve had 3 sons and just want a daughter but don’t want to be pregnant again. It’s not a fertility issue but I just want a baby girl. I want to adopt one
My heart goes out to you both! Godspeed! 🙏🏽❤️
Charisma, I had fertility struggles myself. We also went through years of hormone pills, timed pregnancy, folistim injections, a super hormone injection and artificial insemination (not to mention just having fun trying). We stopped at IVF. I personally struggled as it was my medical issue and not my husband's. I cried so much and prayed so much, but it was never meant to be. I also always wanted to be a mom, and wanted nothing more than making my in-laws grandparents. I pray for you and Cole. I pray the God grants you the beautiful gift of a baby and the Mother Mary guides you. Best wishes always!
@@jilw8690have you ever tried dog blood tea? It mixed with vervine bush works wonders..it's what has helped alot persons in jamaica successfully get pregnant..a friend a mine recommended it to her friend who struggled to get pregnant and ever since she tried it she kept having babies to catch up for lost times lol..look it up if you're still open to trying and see if it works..I believe I saw the dog blood bush on Amazon..all the best to those trying
Hang in there. After years of treatment, I gave up when I turned 40. The minute I stopped stressing, I got pregnant and delivered at 41. You still have many opportunities ahead of you. Good luck.
Oh my God! Wow
It was challenging for me and my partner for 15 almost 16 years. I had a chemical pregnancy, then a miscarriage. I tried again with my frozen embryos and it didn’t take. So I took some time off from the stress I was putting on myself and from all the medications. Then in March of 2022 I wanted to try one more time. I had three remaining frozen embryos, one didn’t make it through the thawing out process and I was left with two. I had the doctor put the remaining two and prayed. I prayed before my procedure and the days after. I found out I was pregnant. I had my miracle rainbow 9 month old twin boys. I’m writing this to say that it’s ok to take some time off and let your body rest and recover from all the meds and stress that you maybe putting on yourself. God has a plan for the both of you and your miracle baby will be here. I will be praying for you both.
God bless
God Bless you and your family
May I ask how yall are able to afford doing so many cycles? In my area they are 15k per cycle
Amen
GOD OF MIRACLE SIGNS AND WONDERS!!! TO GOD BE ALL THE GLORY. THANK YOU FOR SHARING.
I underwent six cycles of IVF. One early-term miscarriage. Now, I'm the mother of four children - all were adopted - and four grandchildren.
I went through 2 IVF procedures. 1st failed. I was 36. 2nd one, a month later was a SUCCESS! A baby girl. Then, when she was 2 and I was 39 I was pregnant naturally (shocker!!). Our son was born abt 3 weeks after I turned 40!! He turned 21 last month and last week my husband took him out of state to sign up for his junior year of college. We feel so very blessed. And you will be, too. Praying for you. 🙏🙏🙏❤️
I had my 3rd 3 days before my 40th birthday
That's a wonderful story! I believe in healthy regular pregnancy during women's 40s maybe even into mid 50s.
AMEN ❤
I just wanted to say I'm so sorry for your loss are you able to have someone to carry the baby for you just asking again I am so sorry for your loss 💕🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Sending love and light to you both. Praying for you 🫶
My Dad prayed for, and with me when two years of treatment failed. I fell pregnant with my daughter soon after, and had twin natural conception two years later. My daughter is now 34, and my son and daughter 31 years old. Nothing is impossible! Sending you love, hugs, and prayers from Perth AU.
Im from Perth AU too ❤
@@simmy260881 sweet 😍
I’ve been pregnant 7 times, and I have one child. I’ve had a lot of loss, so I understand your pain. Try and stay positive and remember that it only takes 1 good embryo 🥰
"I just want to be mum," says Chrisma. It will surely happen for you both by God's grace 🙏
Cried before the video started. I wanted this so bad for you guys. But it’s definitely gonna happen !!! God has a plan for you guys. Don’t give up!!
Amen 🙏 Gods timing & plan! I struggled for 13 years before I finaly got pregnant. I am now 26 weeks thru IVF & so thankful. But unfortunately not every pregnancy comes so easy. Feeling & praying for there miracle!
@@katjavestergaard489I’m wishing you the healthiest pregnancy ❤
@@teresaamanfu7408 thank you!
I'm literally hugging my phone to hug y'all ❤ I'm so sorry. I didn't do IVF but we did have 8 losses. We now have a almost 7 month old little boy. Don't lose hope🥰
God bless your family❤️
Wow!! That's God! ❤
@@shaylaahava6413 Amen ❤️
Wish you the best and soon an addition to your beautiful family❤❤
My daughter has the same condition that
Charisma has with blood Clotting. She didn’t know she had it until she lost her baby at 8 months it devastated all of us. Then she went through a series of test and found out that she has that condition. She had to do shots up until she was induced and now she has 6,5,and 4 year old babies. I prayed that you have success with becoming pregnant. Sending love from Texas❤
My prayer for you both is pregnancy with next IVF. And that it works and you have twins. Y’all deserve to be parents and I believe it will work next time. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Im also hoping she becomes a single mother! Yay!
@@wheatstonebridgeSMH WHY SO NEGATIVE? Stop it.
I wish people would believe in the power of prayer more than they do the power of finger crossing. I will be praying for them also with you.
@@wheatstonebridge WTF? Why would you call her a "single mother" when she's clearly got a loving husband who wants to be a father?
@@wheatstonebridge what a awful thing say. Be a better human being than this
I waited and prayed for 21 years and when I stopped the treatments, and stopped trying I finally got pregnant and our beautiful daughter turned 14 last week. Pray to God to give you your hearts’ desires. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard of that happening for people. It’s kind of like how they say, when you stop looking for love it finds you. I’m glad it all worked out for you!💞
Everything happens in God’s timing. I wish these two the best of luck!
I believe in miracles, and I believe in you❤ " . . .faith is the substance of things hoped for, and the evidence of things that we can't see. Now prayer is the key, and faith unlocks the door. . ."
Continue to count your blessings and celebrate treasures received last but never , "Don't Stop Believin'"! ❤❤❤
❤amén bendiciones!
I pray God intervene and bless you with a baby.. Continue to trust God..He can do the impossible
We’re still cheering from the bleachers for this baby. ❤
Trust God it will happen in God's time, I am praying for the both of you let go and let God. 🙏🏾❤️
Godsend ❤❤😊!
The love, understanding, and kindness you two have for each other is so beautiful and admirable. Wish you the best!
Thank you so much!! 💙
Prayers up I lost my first child in October after giving birth at 27 weeks and holding her in my arms for hours before she passed away. My husband and I are getting ready to work with a reproductive lab and we are open and praying for the best. Keep praying and keep pushing your blessing will come.
May the Lord open your womb and bless Cole’s seed to fill your lives with beautiful children ❤️
AMEN to the Glory of God!!
Amen and Amen
in jesus name amen
Amen
Amen 🙏🏽
Hang in there. Don't give up EVER... My rainbow baby turned 23 this past July... 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💜💜💜
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Mine just turned 30. ❤❤ Good luck guys. I had a fully developed 38 week beautiful baby girl that was stillborn. One year later, I had another healthy beautiful healthy baby girl. Good Luck you two.
It's a cruel world when folk who shouldn't be together get pregnant yet folk who are married and truly in love are having to battle for a child. Love to you both always. ❤❤❤❤❤
Omg I felt this exact same way, after 1 loss, then second loss of twins, BUT…… now my rainbow baby boy will be two October 13th, Iam 36. Congrats guys❤.
I so agree.
Exactly I’ll never understand why this happens
So true!
Sorry guys, don't give up. Something will happen soon. Just be positive or I suggest you give it a try by adopting maybe the universe will open doors...
It's just a harmless suggestion 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Or do it the African way...
Drink herbs that will help with fertility 🤷🏼🤗🤗
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I’ve been in your shoes - don’t give up! My IVF baby turns 29 in December - he is my miracle that no one thought was possible - but God (and me!). Love you guys and praying for your miracle!!!💙💖💙
A friend of mine only had 5% of one fallopian tube available at age 40, and she still got pregnant. You got this!! 👍👍👍
Praying for God’s timing to happen for you guys soon.
Everyone, let's pray for a successful pregnancy and a healthy baby for this beautiful couple.
Amen!!
Praying for your miracle 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
ME TOO!!!😊
In Jesus name amen
Hang in there Cole, Charisma, and Sophie.
Its gonna happen, it will🙏
I started to cry when you showed the positive pregnancy test knowing the title. I’m praying hard for you & Cole to have as many children God plans to give you no matter how they come to you. ❤
Goodness! Why the heck cry - and why post that you did? 🙄
Huge hugs from a Virginia viewer. I’m so sorry this is such a long road. Take time to grieve & feel better. Sending love.
You VA women are pretty! ❤😍
I’m so sorry for your loss. When Cole got emotional when he said how quickly you get attached to your baby I truly teared up because it’s very true. My husband and I have been on our fertility journey for over 10 years. We have tried naturally several times and done IVF. We have our son from our first transfer but all attempts since we have failed naturally and 2 more transfers. It’s been heartbreaking. There is just no other way to say it. I just highly recommend communicating and facing the trauma head on. There is no hiding from it. It will rear its head in other areas of your relationship if you don’t not to mention that dealing with it is so important as you walk into future ways of trying. Stay positive. Keep trying. As my husband says this process will either break you or make you bonded like steel. Just two days ago we found out our final embryo transfer worked. We are guarded as me know we have a long road ahead but it’s the first positive we have had in many years. We are hopeful. Sending lots of hope your way too ❤
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You will be a mom..continue your journey….mom of two popsicles 17 and 19 now…hang in there!
I pray God will heal you’re emotionally and mentally. I pray God will bless you’re with a beautiful bless baby. Prayer worker 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽every time.
Maybe twins next time.🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️
Congrats!
I know there is no substitute for your own biological child, half of each of you. Knowing that part of you will always exist, but you can exist in your lessons and love too. Please, keep your hearts open to foster or adoption. I was adopted in the late 70s and I am so thankful for my parents. You have so much love to share. God will provide when the time is right. Always keep hope and faith.
You two have been through so much. I lost my first pregnancy. It was hard. I had a feeling that something wasn’t right. And I was right. I still think about it, and that was 26 years ago.
There was a happy ending though. Two months later, I was pregnant again, and that baby is now a beautiful, young 25 year old woman!
I consider this all a miracle. I was 42 years old when I gave birth…… 👶🏻
Cole and Charisma, you both are incredible! The babies will come! 🙏 💕
Today seeing Cole shed tears has really saddened me. Charisma you are strong lady. Hope you get pregnant soon.
Praying for your continued comfort, strength, perseverance, and peace ❤🙏
Keep the faith!!
My daughter lost 3 babies. and was devastated. She started IVF. They took 15 eggs and only two were healthy. She went thru two pregnancies with success! When her youngest was a little over a year old , they got pregnant naturally. So you never know what will happen. Right now, my daughter is totally exhausted, with 3 girls under 4, but very happy. So, you never know what will happen. Sending love and support your way and hoping your dreams come true.
Sending so much love. We just had a failed IVF transfer of our only two embryos and made the choice to not use medical intervention anymore to give my body a break. You are such a warrior and so strong. Thank you for being so vulnerable and helping to bring awareness to infertility
Sending you much love and prayers too
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Praying for you
I remember trying everything to get pregnant 20 years ago. Implanting sperm, fertility drugs, etc, after trying 6 years got pregnant once and that ended in miscarriage. My husband had a kid so I assumed it was me. My marriage didn't work out so I remarried years later. With my new husband I got pregnant immediately naturally had a healthy baby. My ex husband also had kids with someone else. Having babies can be tricky.
Sending you much love and praying that God give you the desire of your hearts. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Stay encouraged 🙏🏾
I'm sorry for your loss, my condolences.
I've lost 3 babies. It's heartbreaking....you both are in my prayers and thoughts ...love u guys bunches
Does the grief get better? Is it different for every pregnancy? I'm still early in my grief and I am just wondering how it is for other people to walk in those shoes and how subsequent losses feel like. I feel for you, and I am sorry that it's been your journey. I lost my son and it was my first pregnancy... and it feels like I lost a piece of my heart.
You need to prier Jesus his going to give you baby
Cole and Charisma,
I’m very sorry to hear that
you both have suffered another
major loss.
Just know that it’s definitely not the end.
God is taking his time to prepare the
baby just right.
When the little angel gets here,
he or she will be very blessed to
have such amazing parents in you
both.
In the meantime,
stay focused and keep the faith.
We all love and support you!
Praying for you both. Your bundle of joy is coming!!❤
I am so sorry for this loss. Prayers for your next round to be the one that works!
I had a chemical pregnancy in June and now I'm 10 weeks pregnant. After that first loss, I definitely did a lot less dreaming and talking to this current baby in case something happens. Pregnancy is a lot. I hope you guys get to the other side with children.
Congratulations!!!
Congratulations 🎉
I am so sorry to hear that it did not work out for both you and Cole this time. But, KNOW it WILL absolutely work out for you both in the near future! Please do not give up hope! It’s hard to keep the faith but it WILL happen for you🙏🏾!! You two will make such AMAZING parents!! There are little baby souls out there in the ether waiting to come in at the right time🙏🏾
Prayers!
Keep the faith! Sending prayers and positivity your way!
You guys will make amazing parents one day. That time will come. 🙏🏽
So sorry. I totally understand. Had fertility issues for years, took meds, did so many tests. After 2 years of trying I decided to stop everything and just pray (I always pray) The next month I conceived and my daughter is 36!
Praying for you guys as I truly believe things work out as the Lord intends. I just know it is going to happen for you guys!
Amen prayer works every time 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Sending love to you both ❤❤
You will be parents in the future 🙏
Amen I received this
Sending you both lots of love and strength. 🙏🏾
Keep going! Losing a pregnancy is so devastating, but it makes it that much rewarding when it finally happens. 💜
Guys make sure you read and watch the entire video!!
Sending you guys love! You both will make amazing parents one day!❤❤❤❤
Hi, you cautioned to watch entire video like you got it at the end they say they're pregnant, yes pregnancy revealed but not them, so, all there followers are still saying the same thing " stay strong don't give up, it will happen" God's timing matters.
thank you!🙂
@@joy...7689now they are saying the right thing. When the video was first posted people were saying congratulations, and using celebratory emojis.
I am so sorry I thought that finally you became pregnant that's why I congrats you but I deleted after I heard the end news. But you are young and healthy it will be working next time don't give up stay strong
@@tenubekele5553 it happens, I instantly got excited as well. In due time, they will be blessed with a child. I am sure if it.
I was just trying to stop a trend in comments because I knew people stopped watching after the first few seconds.
Im so sorry guys, Thanks for the update. I know how hard this is and i also know how frustrating and disheartening it is. I love how you dont give up. I still havent had the courage to go through with my IVF as im scared of another pregnancy loss after going through 3. One days i pray we will all get our rainbow baby.. sending love ❤ xxx
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🤗🤗🤗 Heart wishes and blessings out to you
Keeping you both in prayer. Be encouraged!
Praying for you both🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️
We are sorry for your lost. We are here for you❤
Dear Charisma and Cole, many years ago, in the late 1970's, a good friend of mine and her husband had been trying for years to become pregnant. Nothing seemed to work and then they adopted a beautiful little boy. Five months later, she was pregnant. My mom said at the time, that constantly thinking about a pregnancy can make your body play mind games with you. God bless and all the best to you both.
I had friends, same thing they had 2 little boy babies, a few mos apart. ❤️❤️
Praying for your family ❤❤
Praying for your blessings to come and your family to prosper. God bless!❤
STAY POSITIVE! It will happen in God's timing.🙌
I’m sorry for your loss ❤ I’m sending y’all lots of love!
Don't give up!! 💪🏾.... You 2 are destined to be parents. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for your support! Yes we are 🥰
UR journey is incredible...thank you.
This is by far, the most emotional video for me! Cole crying is breaking my heart! It will happen in time. Don't give up and don't lose hope! Praying for you two!
Praying for you both. 😢❤
Always hold on to hope!
Prayers. I just hope things will turn out okay and you guys keep on a support system for eachother.❤
So sorry for your loss, praying for your strength through your pregnancy journey. Be encouraged!!❤️❤️❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story. Sending much ❤ to you guys!
You guys are so strong. Positive spirit wins. 🙏
Cole and charisma, I, am deeply sorry for your loss and I, send prayers your way.
I, love your channel.
Sending prayers up for you two!🙏🏽🙏🏽🩷🩵🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you so much for sharing so very much with us. Sending you much love and good vibes for the rest of the year. Don't let hope go!
Blessings on Blessings to you!
Stay positive!
Oh my gosh, I couldn't help but cry for you. Your loss is so evident and raw, I am just so sorry!!! I am sending hugs and hope 🙏
Praying for you all during this very difficult time. All the best to you all for every future endeavor 🙏🙏
Praying and interceding on your behalf ❤️🙏🏾
I'll keep praying for you. Don't lose hope ❤
From my mouth to the lord's ears...IT GOING TO HAPPEN WITH THE LAST TWO....love you guys...
I'm praying for a healthy pregnancy soon ❤❤
Praying for you guys! ❤❤🙏🏿🙏🏿God's got you.
Prayers for the two of you. I know it is so hard for you. Lean on each other, your family and your faith.
I love how you guys are so perfect for each other! Its almost like you are perfectly diverse, to were you totally compliment each other. This is how I feel my husband and I are. It’s so awesome to watch your marriage grow more and more through the videos and through the different types of challenges that you guys are faced with. I wanna give you kudos for being vulnerable with your lives and helping so many other couples that may have similar situations in their relationships as well. There is something powerful about speaking up and sharing the hard times, it truly gives others the strength and will power to overcome themselves. I am cheering for you two the whole way 😊
Sending lots of hugs and prayers your way! I’m so sorry for your loss. Keep your heads up and your hearts open. ❤️❤️❤️
Guys, totally understand you!! We’re going through the same journey, with its ups and downs! Hang in there!! We’ll get there ❤️
Sorry what you went through but Keep hanging in there and keep staying strong
It is well god will bless you IJN you are always in our prayers
Sending positive thoughts and prayers 🙏
Hang in there guys! A breakthrough is coming your way! 🙏🙏❤❤
Sending my prayers to both of you 🙏🏾
More grace to you both throughout this process.
Praying it happens naturally ❤ STAY POSITIVE!
Aww I’m so sorry. I just came here from your first IUI video and was hoping so much you’d had some success since then. It will happen for you guys. I know you will be fabulous parents soon ❤ sending all my love and wishes ❤
Hang in there. Be strong and stay positive. ❤
Praying for you 🙏
It was very kind of you to be so vulnerable with us. I'm sure it has helped some couples. I wish for you the ability to conceive. Stay positive❤
Sorry for your loss my heart breaks for you both ,I hope you keep trying best to you big hugs from Glenburnie maryland ❤
It will happen at the right time hun. Stay prayed up . God is able.
Praying for you guys! ❤️❤️❤️
I cried I didn't read the title all the way I got so excited thinking it was happening for sure. But I will say don't give up you guys have many people praying for you. Sending love and prayers. ❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I am so sorry. Lots of people including me have experienced such a loss. I am praying that you will be successful next time. Love you both ❣💝
First I’d like to say I’m sorry for your loss. Words can’t fade the pain but hopefully provide hope. I recently went through a similar loss and it was extremely painful to go through. Things look hard now but you guys are strong and your future holds brightness.
Send prayers!