My Wife Wants More Kids, I don't!

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  • čas přidán 20. 11. 2023
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Komentáře • 108

  • @tamragoodson8678
    @tamragoodson8678 Před 6 měsíci +34

    It's brave to acknowledge that desire for another child can't be at the expense of your union. 🙌🏾

  • @suziesmith9076
    @suziesmith9076 Před 6 měsíci +31

    I think Glen was wise in this decision, I heard him say children are hard work. They affect our communication and connection negatively, you’ll need me around to support more and I won’t be around to support as much because I have to provide. I think Glen just wants to protect a and connect with his wife and although she feels like she wants the baby he knows how it affects her.
    He’s a good man that looks long term and prioritises her wellbeing and their union as much as he can. I don’t know why all these women be hating him in the comments 😢😢😢
    Congratulations on ep 200, you’re blessing us all!!!

  • @TheManifestDestiny_
    @TheManifestDestiny_ Před 6 měsíci +3

    "Build A Bear Workshop" took me out 😂😂😂

  • @tatikrob
    @tatikrob Před 6 měsíci +17

    I started watching in my singleness and am now married! I use so much of the wisdom y’all share in my marriage now. I appreciate this podcast so much. I was so sad that y’all hadn’t posted in a while lol but I’m glad y’all are back!

    • @Tsunamilott
      @Tsunamilott Před 6 měsíci

      Congratulations ❤ I wish you all the best and I pray that God covers you and your spouse!!!

  • @chandabwsandidge0430
    @chandabwsandidge0430 Před 6 měsíci +20

    13:26 I’ve seen all 200 episodes cuz I binged through the pande… yes yall are bingable! Lol.
    Yay for 200🎉🎉

  • @bryankeithr16
    @bryankeithr16 Před 6 měsíci +5

    That's on the property owner. Not yall. Plumbing is their issue. They must pay for the issues in regards to plumbing.

  • @Amoni_sings
    @Amoni_sings Před 5 měsíci +1

    “Walking into this season without support” is so heavy!

  • @KingDeeba
    @KingDeeba Před 6 měsíci +4

    yeaaa cod is not shellfish. BUT some fish companies prepare their fish around shellfish so it's best to be safe. my mother be cooking whole crabs when i visit 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @nyocadavis177
    @nyocadavis177 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Waaw . I definitely think the conversation of capacity for a lot of things is necessary. There are many things that we would want to do and achieve, but we may not have the capacity for it, and we may have to grieve that for a season.

  • @abebagebrehiwet5445
    @abebagebrehiwet5445 Před 6 měsíci +14

    Congratulations recoding 200 episodes!! Thank you for the consist, verity, and wonderful content you have blessed us with! You are definitely impacting the world! I’m always sharing your content with people I that feel need it!! Thanks again!!

  • @MsSunrize81
    @MsSunrize81 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Congrats on 200 episodes. Your conversations REALLY show what marriage is truly like. No other like it. Be blessed and continue to pour into others.

  • @annicesamuels3069
    @annicesamuels3069 Před 6 měsíci +12

    I just want the world to know, I’ve been anxiously waiting on some content!!!

  • @TheAuntieofAunties
    @TheAuntieofAunties Před 6 měsíci +10

    ❤❤❤ Congratulations on 200 episodes !!!!!!

  • @constancewhite5673
    @constancewhite5673 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Congrats on the big 200!!! I understand both point of views. When I look at my kids and see how fast they have grown up does stir up some feelings but then I remember not sleeping and how much stress me and my husband was under. That feeling leaves quick😂😂😂

  • @starrgibson9498
    @starrgibson9498 Před 6 měsíci +8

    I love your podcasts and videos! Thank you for being you!

  • @esbizzze
    @esbizzze Před 6 měsíci +4

    That man is trying to have another baby, to tie her more to him. Manipulative behavior. He shows her every day who he is. Four kids in and she is playing build a husband. It takes two to be committed to the same efforts, vision and goals. She knows what she needs to do. My guess is he was probably like this before they were married.

    • @whenyouwishuponastar6643
      @whenyouwishuponastar6643 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Interesting thought he’s trying to tie him to her. I think there are 2 different emails though. But the first one I was wondering why he wants another baby if he doesn’t spend a lot of time with the first one, but I guess that would answer the question.
      The second one, yeah I’m sure he was unambitious from the start. That’s a rough situation. It’s like what can the wife do except pray for him and try to motivate him? Or leave I guess but being a single mom wouldn’t necessarily solve her problem of needing help/ a good male figure for her kids.

  • @celeste8389
    @celeste8389 Před 6 měsíci

    Congratulations on 200 episodes!!!

  • @haiti3688
    @haiti3688 Před 6 měsíci +1

    You guys add so much value! I’ve been listening for years!

  • @ThatsEunice
    @ThatsEunice Před 6 měsíci

    Congratulations!!! On 200k.🎉

  • @faylinsings5751
    @faylinsings5751 Před 6 měsíci

    The way Yvette said “I do!” was so precious!

  • @njaugu6374
    @njaugu6374 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Watched every single thing in every single channel 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾. HMAY is shared and discussed often!

  • @tashapraiseyah436
    @tashapraiseyah436 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I have been checking all pages every other day to see when I would “see” you guys again! Can’t wait

  • @thingsilike1514
    @thingsilike1514 Před 6 měsíci

    the transparency of this episode is beautiful

  • @tomeikia8372
    @tomeikia8372 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Love watching keep up the good work

  • @rosecoloredglasses67329
    @rosecoloredglasses67329 Před 4 měsíci

    Love your podcast!

  • @elainablunt613
    @elainablunt613 Před 6 měsíci +3

    This is a straaaaannnge episode!😂

  • @Milagro685
    @Milagro685 Před 6 měsíci

    Congratulations on 200 episodes 🎉 I’ve been listening to past episodes for the last couple of months.

  • @Vsg_Ashli
    @Vsg_Ashli Před 6 měsíci

    I appreciate you guys sharing what you do

  • @nicoles4257
    @nicoles4257 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I've seen all 200 episodes and many of them I've watched multiple times!!

  • @michigangirl4150
    @michigangirl4150 Před 6 měsíci

    Happy 200 episodes! i love the podcast thank you for sharing your love and struggles with us

  • @tamikiamorris8396
    @tamikiamorris8396 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Hi Yvette and Glenn!!!! This is your five star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️! Congratulations on 200 episodes!!!!! I appreciate you each taking the time to share your relationship experience through this platform. I look forward to watching each episode as soon as it’s uploaded. Although I am not married I learn so much about “relationship” from watching this podcast. Thank you so much for your dedication and vulnerability. Sending prayers of peace and abundance to you both and also to the chocolate babies❤.

  • @KingDeeba
    @KingDeeba Před 6 měsíci +1

    THE LEGENDS ARE BACK!!!!!!!

  • @rosie9974
    @rosie9974 Před 6 měsíci

    Congrats on your 200th episode. Such a blessing! I am pretty sure I've watched all 200th of them sometimes twice. Keep up the good work. I am so happy for Tuesday and Thursday. Luv all of you, K. Ford

  • @MaggieMagnoli
    @MaggieMagnoli Před 6 měsíci

    woo!! 200 Episodes! Cheers to more and more xx🥰

    • @MaggieMagnoli
      @MaggieMagnoli Před 6 měsíci

      This podcast started / created a safe space for conversations about partnership and parenting for me. It is nice to hear another couple be so raw and authentic even when it didn't look too pretty. Thank you for creating this space.

  • @WatchKeyGlo
    @WatchKeyGlo Před 6 měsíci

    Congratulations on 200!!!! LOVE watching you guys do your thing. Love this conversation because I feel like it is a conversation that many couples have to go through in terms of children. Definitely in that conversationational space now

  • @alishabrown6308
    @alishabrown6308 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Congrats!!! Enjoy the content, intentionality & growth…praying God bless you all abundantly 💕

  • @geadeyeye3318
    @geadeyeye3318 Před 6 měsíci

    🎉 Congratulations fam 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @nikitaadetiba3549
    @nikitaadetiba3549 Před 6 měsíci

    🎉 Happy 200th episode! Please keep going, (in my 2pac voice) you are appreciated. ❤

  • @recipebandit3563
    @recipebandit3563 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Congratulations 200🎉 unfortunately I cant locate all 200 episodes but would love to. Thanks for sharing your life and love. That would be cute after c.b. storyline do a segment called "let's not go there " 😂. Blessings ya'll

  • @gloriamadrid1468
    @gloriamadrid1468 Před 6 měsíci

    I have seen and listened to all 200 episodes!! And I’ve also been missin’ ya’ll!! Wonderin’ when you were comin’ back!! Glad to have ya’ll back by the way!!🥰🥰❤️❤️

  • @MN-WIND
    @MN-WIND Před 6 měsíci

    I have indeed watched all 200 episodes. Some I watched more than once!

  • @chiamakaa.7744
    @chiamakaa.7744 Před 6 měsíci

    Hi Glen and Yvette! Congratulations on 200 episodes! I have watched/listened to all 200 episodes and I'm a Spotify listener as well. I saw when the video podcasts rolled out on Spotify and it's been a cool experience. Congrats again!

  • @chervelleweatherley9421
    @chervelleweatherley9421 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I’ve truly enjoyed every episode!!!!! I’ve always found the content relevant, relatable, informative and at time eye opening. I look forward to watching HMAY.❤

  • @shen316
    @shen316 Před 6 měsíci

    Happy 200th episode! I truly enjoy this podcast and I’m not even married. You both have blessed me with the opportunity to see what I’d like my marriage/ family dynamic to look like

  • @meshiapowell5113
    @meshiapowell5113 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I have watched all 200 episodes. I've been here from the JUMP! Yvette was preggers with Uzi!! The inception of Chocolate Baby Story time, beared the first break and have tuned in consistently. Love what yall are doing

  • @patriciafrazier6985
    @patriciafrazier6985 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Hello, hello. I love, love, love watching and listening to you two beautiful young people. Thank you for courageously sharing your lives. Just Awesome!!! 🥰

  • @robynpratt5670
    @robynpratt5670 Před 6 měsíci

    I’ve watched all 200!!

  • @anneugene3588
    @anneugene3588 Před 6 měsíci

    Congratulations! 🎉

  • @Zari229
    @Zari229 Před 6 měsíci

    Yvette you are not alone! My man has been requesting I cook too! Women that don’t cook as much. We’re out here 😂. I too get annoyed when he throws in those little comments. But I appreciate him allowing me the space to get to the point where I want to and enjoy cooking

  • @whenyouwishuponastar6643
    @whenyouwishuponastar6643 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I think I’ve probably seen 200 episodes. I’ll leave a review too, but my challenge in marriage is seeing how the healthy long lasting couples do it. How do they make it through the challenges? Does having challenges mean you’re not meant to be? You all and your vulnerability has given me hope in my marriage (first year was very rough but we’re getting a flow now). You guys have really shown us that even the best couples have their moments that you can work through. And I hope my husband and I have the vibe you guys have when we reach 12 years! Thank you!

  • @rickireign
    @rickireign Před 6 měsíci

    I have definitely watched all 200. During last years break I re-listened. I know I’m not the only one. The wedding party is engaged!

  • @lashawn369
    @lashawn369 Před 6 měsíci

    Checking in from the DMV.

  • @jasmineherisse-packard7330
    @jasmineherisse-packard7330 Před 6 měsíci +5

    BBW is Big Beautiful Woman lol

  • @tashachiks2663
    @tashachiks2663 Před 6 měsíci +1

    yvette’s singing 😍😍😍

  • @georgiawhite7314
    @georgiawhite7314 Před 6 měsíci

    Enjoy your episode’s very much. I’m a single mature Woman and I learn thing’s from you that I can keep or pass along to other’s. Shalom❤❤❤

  • @NaturallyShari
    @NaturallyShari Před 5 měsíci

    I will say I’m always so immersed in the podcast I forget to like😩 ima go back through them all 🫶🏾

  • @CrystalH777
    @CrystalH777 Před 6 měsíci

    I believe I have watched All 200 episodes! 🎉🎉
    Congratulations! Thank you for much! You have added so much value to my life! After my 13-year relationship ended I wanted to immerse myself in Marriage knowledge and skills to prepare me for success when my time comes again. I love Both perspectives. I get to see how men feel. Not to say Glen speaks for All men. But his experience and feelings always give me something different to think about and consider. I love this space so much! Black Love! I pray that God continues to grow this platform and that the value you give be returned financially 10 times over. May God supply your every need. Those seen and unseen! Many many more blessing! I'm excited for another 100 episodes! 💚🌹

  • @TheShadiP
    @TheShadiP Před 6 měsíci

    5 ⭐️ I have Spotify but prefer to watch ya'lls interactions on YT! Thank you both for being a source of reason & reality for me and my new marriage. I get wisdom & hope here that I can't get anywhere else! Mad love & appreciation Glenn & Yvette 🤍

  • @nise_love
    @nise_love Před 6 měsíci +1

    Wohoooo Glen and Yvette!!🎉

  • @annamc8228
    @annamc8228 Před 6 měsíci

    The 🫒 on the 🍕 was the best part of the show and Glen’s reaction to the pizza

  • @haileygg6
    @haileygg6 Před 6 měsíci

    I love the intro song 🥹🔥

  • @TheHarrisFour
    @TheHarrisFour Před 6 měsíci +1

    I have watched all 200 episodes. Some I watched more than once

  • @SaiMyName4
    @SaiMyName4 Před 6 měsíci

    Great job protecting your peace Yvette 😂👏🏾👏🏾

  • @kevapickens3955
    @kevapickens3955 Před 6 měsíci

    My son just started boxing, he LOVES it.

  • @mlkchklt
    @mlkchklt Před 6 měsíci

    I watch here and have seen all the eps at least once. I went and checked, looks like Spotify shows the video as the audio plays. I prefer to see yall interact over just listening though and probably wouldn't have noticed that if you hadn't mentioned it. Now i have options!

  • @millynn.w
    @millynn.w Před 6 měsíci

    Income is coming! Y’all are awesome, I tell everybody I know!!

  • @ItsBrittany.
    @ItsBrittany. Před 6 měsíci

    DONT WORRY, I HIT THE LIKE BUTTON ❤❤

  • @solentricxinc.9944
    @solentricxinc.9944 Před 6 měsíci

    Felicidades🎉200

  • @crystalphillips696
    @crystalphillips696 Před 6 měsíci

    Congratulations on 200 episodes. I've been watching for 134 episodes and plan on going back to watch the ones I've missed in the beginning. I have enjoyed every episode I've watched. Your advice has helped me with giving advice to my grown daughters. I have recommended your channel to them also.

  • @nyocadavis177
    @nyocadavis177 Před 6 měsíci +1

    He be putting on them skates and sliding on that ice

  • @prettybrownrise
    @prettybrownrise Před 6 měsíci +1

    Wait… Vette said “ I’m not a new auntie, I’ve been an auntie 4x over.” Am I missing something, misunderstanding, or did she misspeak? I thought she had 2 brothers & only 1 has ONE kid. So maybe she meant Glen’s siblings have kids… right???

  • @patriciamillin7392
    @patriciamillin7392 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I've actually watched every episode of this podcast. I absolutely love this podcast. I'm definitely grateful that during your sabbatical of the podcast you both decided to re - focus and bring it back. Would also love to see Yvette unplugged as well ❤️

  • @alexishunt4336
    @alexishunt4336 Před 6 měsíci

    We need a Glen n Yvette & Tab n Chance episode.

  • @birdy0127
    @birdy0127 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I've been waiting for weeks lol

  • @Tenacioustia
    @Tenacioustia Před 6 měsíci

    I couldn’t stop focusing on the scab picking 😂

  • @natashacampbell1768
    @natashacampbell1768 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Finally! 😂❤🎉

  • @dillonhall3344
    @dillonhall3344 Před 6 měsíci

    Its crazy I was thinking about y’all having another bundle of Joy. But more specifically what I thought about was a particular time when I heard beleaf say he felt like he wouldn’t have “enough” to give to a fifth child.

  • @shestampedit
    @shestampedit Před 4 měsíci

    She’s in the military. She needs to utilize some of the resources they have. She needs to take someone in the family clubs for soldiers. As a spouse we have had so many conferences for free and the offer 10 free counseling services in different areas of life. She can do 10 sessions alone. They can do 10 session as a couple. Then he can do 10 sessions.

  • @jihanbarre6668
    @jihanbarre6668 Před 6 měsíci

    ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

  • @sonyatheoneyouseek5040
    @sonyatheoneyouseek5040 Před 6 měsíci

    I've never seen so many commercials on your videos before.

  • @OMGitsTEETEE
    @OMGitsTEETEE Před 6 měsíci

    ❤❤❤

  • @Xoxo_m7
    @Xoxo_m7 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Y’all been gone😭😩 I missed the videos🤎

  • @ItsBrittany.
    @ItsBrittany. Před 6 měsíci +1

    GIRL....idc what google said, its called cod-fish 😂😂😂😂

  • @SincerelyKey_
    @SincerelyKey_ Před 6 měsíci

  • @nyocadavis177
    @nyocadavis177 Před 6 měsíci +1

    LETS GOOOO

  • @AndSarahAppeared
    @AndSarahAppeared Před 6 měsíci

    💚💚💚💚

  • @Ceez.TheGallant
    @Ceez.TheGallant Před 6 měsíci

    Glen needs to join boxing as well to let off steam! Lol Dont bring Yvette down!

  • @annak706
    @annak706 Před 6 měsíci

    ❤😊❤😊❤😊❤😊❤😊❤

  • @loveed1110
    @loveed1110 Před 6 měsíci

    You say it’s easy having two kids than one. What do you mean 🤔

  • @emmylewis2164
    @emmylewis2164 Před 6 měsíci

    Olives are indeed gross

  • @BigGeoff55
    @BigGeoff55 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Man I’ve been married for 17 almost 18 years. My wife need to be wrapped in bubble wrap with a helmet and knee pads. She cuts and burns every time. Even washing dishes is a safety hazard for her. I appreciate that she wants to cook for us, but I would love for her to never cook again.

  • @MN-WIND
    @MN-WIND Před 6 měsíci

    I don't think Yvette is trying to get Glen to cook instead of her. I think she just has adult ADHD.

  • @1Krayola
    @1Krayola Před 6 měsíci

    They're back!! Honestly you guys have been gone too long.

  • @TeArDrOpsReVoLuTiOn
    @TeArDrOpsReVoLuTiOn Před 6 měsíci

    Just sayin.......I hope it's a girl. If it does.

  • @stephaniejones7015
    @stephaniejones7015 Před 6 měsíci

    Yvette listen to your husband this time. You just like the smell of the new baby & it has your hormones in an uproar

  • @EbonyShumpert
    @EbonyShumpert Před 6 měsíci

    Ive seen all the episodes and IM 👏🏽LOVING 👏🏽IT👏🏽
    Yall have been and still are my favorite marriage content, all forms included.
    The two of you have invested so much wisdom, so many conversation prompts and modeled intimacy WELL!
    I know ppl pick on Glen, I love his loyalty, honesty and sense of humor.
    And dont even get me started on Yvette!🥹 I have never seen myself so much in another woman and felt validated in my struggles and anxieties as a mom, my insecurities as a woman figuring out what she wants from life and community and the joys and work of being a wife… esp to an ambitious man of God.
    I love yall and thank God for you

  • @tamikalove2658
    @tamikalove2658 Před 6 měsíci

    🎉🎉🎉Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉on the 200th episode 🎉🎉My Favorite Chocolate Family 🫡 🤎

  • @rozlove1616
    @rozlove1616 Před 6 měsíci

    ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️