Dealing with moving to a new city & living alone

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  • čas přidán 27. 07. 2024
  • Hey guys! This video is for anyone of you who has recently moved to a new city and struggling with it or is going to move soon and is paranoid about it! Here are things you can expect when you are going to start living independant for the first time ever.
    I am talking purely from my experience of having lived on my own for about 6 years. I have lived with roommates & completely alone at a point of time and as much as it seems like a ball, there are quite a few struggles you go through too in your while living independantly.
    Watch the video to find out what kinda struggles you could expect and what to do to deal with them.! Hope this video helps you! If it does, do not forget to share it with you friends who might need to see this :)
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  • @Youtubewaliaartie
    @Youtubewaliaartie  Před rokem +1

    czcams.com/channels/FR-wm0IY4YbSzSZxMhdaxQ.html Guyss! Subscribe to my new channel for more videos like these ❤✨

  • @devyanipadhiyar5277
    @devyanipadhiyar5277 Před 2 lety +75

    I've just moved out from my parents house and it's been like 3-4 days and I've been feeling homesick, been crying everyday , and thought I'll give up and go back to home , but this helps me honestly. Now I'm taking everything in different way. So thank you soooooo much 🤍

    • @user-vu8ot1pq5d
      @user-vu8ot1pq5d Před 2 lety +3

      I am going to move out for the first time ... And i am feeling the same snd I'm still at my parents house🥲

    • @devyanipadhiyar5277
      @devyanipadhiyar5277 Před 2 lety +3

      @@user-vu8ot1pq5d don't worry . It will be fine. I've been through worst time when I moved out , which was 2 weeks ago but now my life is better than ever. I'm like literally happiest right now. So don't worry and take a step , it will be hard at first then you'll manage

    • @user-vu8ot1pq5d
      @user-vu8ot1pq5d Před 2 lety

      @@devyanipadhiyar5277 btw in which city you've moved?

    • @perfectlyyummy3406
      @perfectlyyummy3406 Před rokem

      Where are u now?

    • @rishh69
      @rishh69 Před 11 měsíci

      Same kind of situation that I'm in right now

  • @anumxx7
    @anumxx7 Před 4 lety +95

    this video honestly made me feel so much better, Just moved away from my family interstate and lot of uneasy emotions so this really helped - lots of love! ❤️

    • @Youtubewaliaartie
      @Youtubewaliaartie  Před 4 lety +4

      Awww I’m so glad!❤️ Aaaand you’re gonna have a ball ya!🤗

  • @dragonwarrior8118
    @dragonwarrior8118 Před 2 lety +75

    The worst part is i am an introvert and have no actual bonds or connection with people expect my family in my current home town itself. And in 2022 i have to move out to chennai for job.

    • @artisticcreature
      @artisticcreature Před 2 lety +2

      hang in there, take heart and wish you all the best for future years . keep that thought in your mind why you moved and what you are gonna get while you stay here . stay blessed

    • @architanand555
      @architanand555 Před 2 lety

      Relate maxx

    • @ranveerpatil3754
      @ranveerpatil3754 Před rokem

      Same brother. Itts hard

    • @aadarshsah1046
      @aadarshsah1046 Před rokem

      Same here msn

    • @vedantgunjkar
      @vedantgunjkar Před rokem

      Same situation

  • @vijengala4721
    @vijengala4721 Před 2 lety +28

    Trust me I was feeling very lonely since last 2-3 days but seeing your video really helped me to overcome this feeling

  • @vartikajain9391
    @vartikajain9391 Před 2 lety +28

    Just moved to a different city even a different state and I am feeling so overwhelm and I fell sick just after 7 days of shifting here and this helped me and motivated me to hold a Lil bit more 🌼❤

    • @Charlie-lf7iy
      @Charlie-lf7iy Před 2 lety +1

      All the Best. I'm in the same boat. Stay strong 💙

    • @vartikajain9391
      @vartikajain9391 Před 2 lety

      All the very best @@Charlie-lf7iy

    • @sweta_saurabh_
      @sweta_saurabh_ Před 2 lety +1

      same here.. i moved to delhi today for studying and i am crying

    • @vartikajain9391
      @vartikajain9391 Před 2 lety

      @@sweta_saurabh_ You got this ❣️

    • @sweta_saurabh_
      @sweta_saurabh_ Před 2 lety

      staying away from home and that too for preparation like UPSC is quite exhaustive..

  • @jasjotkaur2292
    @jasjotkaur2292 Před 2 lety +7

    I have never ever in my life ever commented to any video on CZcams. Suddenly found yours one which I really needed as I would be living that type of life really soon. Thank you so much for such delightful things you have said and encouraged. I have saved it for my tough times ahead. Thank you so much. It was really worth watching it. God bless you and give you all the success in life. Thank you 🌹❤

  • @SandhyaSanil
    @SandhyaSanil Před 3 lety +5

    Highly needed this. Huge thank you💛🤗

  • @sparkle998
    @sparkle998 Před 4 lety +14

    who else can understand much better than me... staying alone in the city😢

  • @jiyah1523
    @jiyah1523 Před 2 lety +5

    This was such a nice video Aarti! Thank you so much ❤️
    It gave me a lot of confidence.

  • @Ajay-uy5nx
    @Ajay-uy5nx Před 2 lety +2

    Kind of positive vibe i was in need of, and you're so attractive because of way you talk in, thanks for the video 🙌

  • @divyanih5344
    @divyanih5344 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Going to move out of my house in few months for my job. I'm feeling so anxious and worried. The feeling that this easeness of home is not going to be there with me in the new state is making me worried. Also I'm from north and going to South, i don't know how to handle things there. I'm the first person from my whole family and extended also to go out of UP for employment purpose.
    I'm just praying to God for everything to go well.
    This video helped a lot thanks

    • @Youtubewaliaartie
      @Youtubewaliaartie  Před 10 měsíci

      SO glad it helped!

    • @Youtubewaliaartie
      @Youtubewaliaartie  Před 10 měsíci

      You will do well! All the best!

    • @manusingh7491
      @manusingh7491 Před 6 měsíci

      Hey Divya...same happened with me I am from Up but got my first govt. job in Chennai... feeling soo lonely 😢

  • @nikitajain2274
    @nikitajain2274 Před 2 lety +5

    I come back to this video time and again to remind myself of all the things you have said, thank you ❤️

  • @shivammathur1011
    @shivammathur1011 Před 3 lety +1

    I like the way your are talking with in. Some people make over their personality to enhance the peoples attraction but when I saw you I am very glad to know that you came with your originality, I realy like it, because you are confident on your skills, this is maturity, co'z whenever you believe in yourself nothing does matters, your personality speaks.👍👍👍good job sis....👍

  • @PuriBabaPunjabi
    @PuriBabaPunjabi Před 2 lety

    Moving to a new city and you are like my elder sister teaching me almost everything about the hustle. Thank You ❤️

    • @ttggff3897
      @ttggff3897 Před rokem

      Facebook photo per gana lagega

  • @amitswarnkar874
    @amitswarnkar874 Před 2 lety

    The confidence and extrovertly speaking skills of you is just amazing 😊

  • @rahuldebnath6592
    @rahuldebnath6592 Před rokem +10

    I am almost 2700kms away from my hometown , currently living in Chandigarh Mohali feeling homesick , loneliness for past few days...without friends living alone preparing food for myself,felt really good watching your video ❣️ afterall it's a life lesson happy to be a part of it 🌺❤️.

  • @siddhikabra428
    @siddhikabra428 Před 2 lety +2

    I am shifting to a new city and this has been so helpful. Thank you so much.

  • @mania20
    @mania20 Před 3 lety +12

    Making friends is one of the hardest thing for me.

  • @tanishjhamtani9866
    @tanishjhamtani9866 Před 2 lety

    Thankyou so much for this video I've moved to a new city and really this video has made me feel a lot better ♥️

    • @tanishjhamtani9866
      @tanishjhamtani9866 Před 2 lety

      Can u you also make a video for someone who has moved to Maharashtra from another state

  • @MBBSACES
    @MBBSACES Před 3 lety +8

    I am watching this video before I settle out alone in the rent ... Thanks for the Video

  • @hizbullahkhan9627
    @hizbullahkhan9627 Před 3 lety +2

    Its very helpful and motiational video bcz i am shifted to a new city, thank u so much. I have noted down evry point so that i could read it again. God bless u

  • @patelrajkumarnareshkumar8156

    next week I'm shifting to Pune for my first job before this I never even travel out of my city I feel very anxious and nervous but after the video, I feel this is part of it and I will learn something from it.
    wisdom lines "when you are out of your conform zone that
    means you are growing in life."

  • @anilchandeliya2026
    @anilchandeliya2026 Před 3 lety +12

    This given me a lot confidence 🥺❤️

  • @damayantipatil2216
    @damayantipatil2216 Před 3 lety +4

    I found this vedio today.
    But the situation was same that feeling that are in my mind that how I could live alone without my family and friends in new place but now after watching this vedio I feel more positive and motivated .
    Thank you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @ayushinegi8346
    @ayushinegi8346 Před 2 lety +1

    much helpful video, lots of love 💕
    you gave me hope, as i am feeling sad

  • @theglamorousgirl28
    @theglamorousgirl28 Před 2 lety +3

    How real person you are ❤️
    Lots of respect 💫

  • @somyaverma4761
    @somyaverma4761 Před 2 lety +7

    Have my flight tomorrow. I am dead scared. This video kind of helped. Thanks 💕

  • @srijonidhar5829
    @srijonidhar5829 Před 3 lety +18

    I'm moving to a new city real soon and this made me feel a whole lot better❤ thanks ❤

  • @mohit_trader
    @mohit_trader Před 3 lety +1

    thank you, that was awesome.. i loved it.

  • @buildyourself3521
    @buildyourself3521 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you so much I shifting to new city on this Sunday 👍🏻🥰🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @youareyourhome1629
    @youareyourhome1629 Před 2 lety +1

    This is exactly what I needed at this point of time thankyou btw you look beautiful 🧁

  • @garima2473
    @garima2473 Před 2 lety +1

    This was really helpful - thanks ✨

  • @SB.243
    @SB.243 Před 4 lety +20

    Ur English is superb loving it ❤

  • @jeffhendrickx7763
    @jeffhendrickx7763 Před 4 lety +8

    Hopefully moving to a new place in the near future. So all this stuff is coming my way 😁 Bring it on! 🥊

  • @meetad2929
    @meetad2929 Před 2 lety +2

    this video deserves more views and likes

  • @Quickandhealthyrecipes976

    Thank you so much.... your video is very helpful ☺️☺️☺️☺️

  • @amrutamagdum8597
    @amrutamagdum8597 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much di
    ❤❤discipline wala point bhot acha tha.

  • @JubeeVerma
    @JubeeVerma Před 4 lety +4

    Are you staying in PG?

  • @syedahkam7164
    @syedahkam7164 Před 2 lety +5

    This is very helpful! As I will be moving to a hostel for college soon. Being a small town guy, it feels even more overwhelming.

  • @heycameraman13
    @heycameraman13 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much ❤️🤗

  • @rachanalolla9905
    @rachanalolla9905 Před rokem

    Helpful, thank you so much!

  • @denzelheden4256
    @denzelheden4256 Před 4 lety +24

    wow now I know why you are so mature. so you live alone for 5 to 6 years, interesting....I live alone for 10 years, 5 of these in South India..(I am not Indian though lol)

  • @wekenh
    @wekenh Před rokem

    Should I leave my home town and family for career or settle in my hometown?

  • @Masterstrange56
    @Masterstrange56 Před 2 lety +2

    Thanku so much siso..

  • @punitaarora7137
    @punitaarora7137 Před rokem +2

    Anyone from Gurgaon near to sec 55 m new here
    Any girl.
    Health conscious girl
    So that we can have health goals

  • @mohammedmoulali9516
    @mohammedmoulali9516 Před 2 lety +1

    hi mam i in small village . when i going to cities for job purpose i was sick my parents every day. how to solve it mam i was came to village immediately. how to solve mam

  • @samadritachakraborty3019

    goshh succhaaaa positive videoo!!!! thank you for this!

  • @itsdraory
    @itsdraory Před 2 lety +1

    Mam Mae abhi just apna collage start krne wali hu aur Mae bs ye soch rhi ki meko ghr se paese nai lene my age 17 but abhi meko kuch smjh nai aa rha but ab Meko dusre city jana h please guide me didu😓🥺🥺and I'm also want to do job

  • @swaleh3210
    @swaleh3210 Před rokem

    I really want to move for job but where should I go I really feel so alone and confused

  • @aakashpawar6579
    @aakashpawar6579 Před 4 lety

    To which city are u giving

  • @yashkumar9960
    @yashkumar9960 Před 3 lety +2

    found this video today, its literally wensday today

  • @jonnieeee5757
    @jonnieeee5757 Před 3 lety +2

    I got some good quality information from here☺️ thank you dii♥️

  • @vasnisahu8966
    @vasnisahu8966 Před 3 lety +1

    Ap kaha rhte ho
    Kiya akele rhna safe h or ye batana ki ap new ho is city m

  • @nehabaokar5309
    @nehabaokar5309 Před 3 lety +1

    Heyy tai. I found your Vedio today. Bfor this I've never seen u...
    I am to shift to a new city next month wth my hubby. He started a job at there.
    I am getting nervous. What to do or not. Even I can't decide what to pack with me or not. How will I manage things..
    Please help me out of this.
    Please reply karshil hmmm...

  • @riyameera5936
    @riyameera5936 Před 3 lety +12

    Due to my dad's job we moved to new city after my 10th in 2017. Then started preparing for exam from home..i isolated myself from everyone..i am not very social person but still it feels like hell..coz I can't tell what i am going through..nd also failed in my entrance exam.

  • @sushmitabyapari3896
    @sushmitabyapari3896 Před 2 lety +4

    The last part specifically was extremely well articulated 😃

  • @mintmoneyy
    @mintmoneyy Před 2 lety

    I needed it , thanks

  • @songoku-jj2to
    @songoku-jj2to Před 2 lety +1

    Yrr m na job ke liye Delhi ya pune m confuse hu konsi jagah jada mast h

  • @BhawnaKapoor11
    @BhawnaKapoor11 Před 3 lety

    Thanks for making this video

  • @Noqvest777
    @Noqvest777 Před 3 lety

    I'm totally relaxed thanx didi ☺☺☺

  • @aakashpawar6579
    @aakashpawar6579 Před 4 lety

    Hii arti where are you going to live in another city

  • @Andracewilston29
    @Andracewilston29 Před 2 lety

    Delhi jane se pehle ke precautions per please make a video .. Like .. How to travel .. There metro kese leni ha .. Like all small and bigs thing you think is important ..

  • @yashjoshi461
    @yashjoshi461 Před 2 lety +1

    Inspirational 💓

  • @austinr4254
    @austinr4254 Před 2 lety

    10k mn kaise adjust kre food supplies and lyf support in new places 🥶

  • @krvijayalaxmi1180
    @krvijayalaxmi1180 Před rokem

    This video helped me a lot

  • @ObnoxiousDrummer2
    @ObnoxiousDrummer2 Před 3 lety +1

    This is so good 😊

  • @SachKaSaath772
    @SachKaSaath772 Před 2 lety +2

    Bohot zabardast gyaan diya hai didi ne aur maza aaya.

  • @SachKaSaath772
    @SachKaSaath772 Před 2 lety +1

    Waah bohot saare sawal clear kar diye aapne.

  • @abhishekmahoniya9950
    @abhishekmahoniya9950 Před 4 lety +7

    I'm 19 years old I want to go delhi for college but I'm little bit scared about living in PG with unknown people, what should I do?

    • @Loisbewilin
      @Loisbewilin Před 3 lety

      I'm going to delhi as well, Feeling same. We can connect if u want

    • @Youtubewaliaartie
      @Youtubewaliaartie  Před 3 lety +3

      It’s an awkward feeling to live with strangers at first. You’ll have to be careful in choosin who you live with! That can make or break your independent life 😁 but if you find amazing people you’ll have a ball

    • @4kgamer937
      @4kgamer937 Před 3 lety

      same bhai

    • @bhoomijain795
      @bhoomijain795 Před 2 lety

      I am 16 years old but I want to go out for coaching.. But all are worried that will i be able to live alone there or not.!

  • @devendrahaldankar8535
    @devendrahaldankar8535 Před 3 lety +6

    Even I'm moving out to Bangalore when WFH ends
    Born and brought up in Mumbai, and everything, education and all happened in Mumbai....
    I'll watch this video again when my time will come out of my cocoon. 🙃

  • @dzedits3728
    @dzedits3728 Před 3 lety +1

    I’m moving to new city with my family
    But I don’t know why
    But I don’t wanna leave my home town and it hurts a lot

  • @siddhisalve5085
    @siddhisalve5085 Před rokem +1

    Feeling so much better after watching this🤭

  • @venkateshiyer4072
    @venkateshiyer4072 Před 2 lety +2

    Very nice video 👍👌 i am almost moving to Bangalore after living 15 yrs or more in Mumbai , really needed this video ,started new phase of life

  • @anonymousbee
    @anonymousbee Před 2 lety +1

    I am working on shifting to Mumbai from Delhi.

  • @astroash1222
    @astroash1222 Před 3 lety

    Thank you 😊

  • @anujasparkle
    @anujasparkle Před rokem

    very nice video,well explained!!!

  • @RandomPerson-iz1qu
    @RandomPerson-iz1qu Před 2 lety +3

    I've been having such a hard time at university. The new city I'm in is nothing like my home city. I never want to leave my dorm and it's been impossible to find the courage to meet new people, my school is small so I thought it'd make the most sense to find cool events around the city. The only problem is that I don't feel comfortable going to cool events by myself because I'm a young girl AND alone (Danger 101) :((((

    • @Ms-money
      @Ms-money Před 2 lety +1

      Hey! I'm going through something similar except that I've graduated from uni and moved to a new city for a new job. My initial days in clg were also very hard and I felt exactly the same - it was too scary to step out of my room and living in my room was also pretty uncomfortable because of my roommates. I would say, please don't be hard on yourself. In fact, take the responsibility of taking care of yourself and love yourself the most, especially when you're alone.

    • @piku4321
      @piku4321 Před rokem

      Yes i got you girl . I just moved to Pune and i don't understand Marathi, so I feel totally alone, my roommates always speak in Marathi and i don't understand so they plan their things and i feel totally alone and depressed and missing home and family. But i know I have to do it i need to learn to stay alone and enjoy your own company, sometimes i try to make new friends but due to the language they just don't want to be friends . Every telling just leaves this job and goes to your city. After this video I feel much better now I will prove to everyone that i can survive here.

  • @workshaktiwork
    @workshaktiwork Před 2 lety

    Great advice

  • @svaishnavi3967
    @svaishnavi3967 Před 3 lety +1

    How did you convince your parents about this all moving in

    • @Youtubewaliaartie
      @Youtubewaliaartie  Před 3 lety +3

      They’ve always let me have my freedom and make my decisions :) didn’t have to convince

  • @rrreverseracing3323
    @rrreverseracing3323 Před 2 lety

    Thanks 🍻

  • @jktheallrounder3108
    @jktheallrounder3108 Před 3 lety +1

    Basically I am a bengalee but I have to go darjeeling for 12th study but darjeeling's speaking language is nepali.......
    So what should I do

  • @nitishlanjewar2772
    @nitishlanjewar2772 Před 3 lety

    awesome ...breakup wala sahi tha ....i just getting out of it ...thanks

  • @nirvishasathvara3600
    @nirvishasathvara3600 Před rokem

    This is really great

  • @mrgentleman811
    @mrgentleman811 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm moving to New delhi next month for pursuing Class 11th from Jamia senior secondary school & I'm gonna live in private PG. I'm just 15 [turning 16 this dec :)] & I'm very nervous as well as excited to live alone.

    • @dhritisman6822
      @dhritisman6822 Před rokem

      Abe Tu excited hai aur mera yaha ga*d fat raha hai

  • @thecatyalst91
    @thecatyalst91 Před rokem

    Really helpful

  • @highiq8928
    @highiq8928 Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you, atleast you talked about this topic, itna depression ho rha h yha pr akar ki kuch ni bta skta
    Thanks again for shared your experience and solutions

  • @AbhishekSharma-os6ii
    @AbhishekSharma-os6ii Před 3 lety

    Very nice Video. It's motivates me.

  • @its.aminur
    @its.aminur Před rokem

    I’m a upsc aspirant I’m in my 20s I shift to Noida from Bengal To re create myself in a new way

  • @MyRahasyaHINDI
    @MyRahasyaHINDI Před 3 lety +1

    Really, Mere Sath Same Ho Rha h , Job Chod Di, Thank you For Telling Everything.

  • @BaishaliDas
    @BaishaliDas Před 2 lety

    Anybody moving to Thane in May 2022? 😅

  • @bichitra96
    @bichitra96 Před 3 lety +1

    I am watching it before shifting alone in Kolkata...

  • @ayushsaraswal3941
    @ayushsaraswal3941 Před 3 lety +1

    I was Finding a video to move in and all I thought if I can get anyone making this video.. but This Girl mabe a video of pune 😛 yaar I'm moving to pune in 2 days from Gujarat yaar This helped me

  • @ritikabansal1307
    @ritikabansal1307 Před 2 lety +2

    Who is here after DU notification??😁

  • @Vishal_Chaudhary_0001

    I don't have any problem bt I'm scared about nights
    Bcoz I had not slept alone without family till yet... 😶‍🌫️

    • @Youtubewaliaartie
      @Youtubewaliaartie  Před 11 měsíci

      I knowwwww that feeling! Terrifying at first! But you’ll get used to it:)

  • @apnafantasycorner3544
    @apnafantasycorner3544 Před 2 lety +1

    You are ossssmmm speaker

  • @lavanyagangavaram7709
    @lavanyagangavaram7709 Před 2 lety +1

    💝👍👍👍

  • @rashmikumari4589
    @rashmikumari4589 Před 3 lety

    I will move new city soon, I find you thank you

  • @apkayaarNK
    @apkayaarNK Před 3 lety

    This is first time I liked n subscribe within 1 min...Pls guide me I have to Join from Delhi to Madurai first time due to Job transfer....

  • @shaileshthakur7785
    @shaileshthakur7785 Před 4 lety +2

    It's a challengeing