Does Physical Attraction Really Matter? | Kingsley Okonkwo & Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo

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  • Join Kingsley Okonkwo & Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo as they talk about Physical Attraction.
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Komentáře • 110

  • @audienceofone9842
    @audienceofone9842 Před 11 měsíci +33

    Heyyyy!!!!
    It’s not so much of the theme for me, it’s the way Pst M corrects Pst K every so often, and him taking the corrections with ease is so ooooooo golden.
    Men, humble yourselves and receive correction so that your growth will be limitless. Not just with communication, but with every part of your personal life’s journey.
    Even you will love your growth.
    Bless you!❤️❤️❤️

  • @PurposefulRelationship
    @PurposefulRelationship Před 11 měsíci +34

    This has been very mind transforming. "Be rigid on the internals and flexible on the externals"🔥 Thank you PK and PM

  • @oktina5944
    @oktina5944 Před 11 měsíci +12

    Pastor is right, it took my man a lot to get me into accepting him, I knew he was a good man but he's not tall, I'm taller than him. I thank God I saw other more important aspects of him, to the glory of God we are still happy together.

  • @ejuraabu1382
    @ejuraabu1382 Před 11 měsíci +4

    It's the friendship, jokes, Pastor M correcting /interrupting Pastor K with her side talks. So beautiful to watch. You can tell they like each other and enjoy each other even when not in front of a camera.

  • @agathaunoma6980
    @agathaunoma6980 Před 11 měsíci +8

    The friendship between the couple has made this presentation so beautiful.
    Well done Pastors K & M.

  • @Achristiangirljournal
    @Achristiangirljournal Před 11 měsíci +10

    Is the honesty for me👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 You guys are really a blessing to our generation. 🎉 we celebrate you sir & ma 🙏🏾

  • @cassandrakwakye5941
    @cassandrakwakye5941 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I honestly love the rapport between Pastor K and Pastor M! Effortless! This is what it means when they say “your person”. I’m enjoying this video and also this is one kind of love and friendship I pray for. So delightful to see ❤. God bless you both !

  • @euniceamafosuaaaddae9425
    @euniceamafosuaaaddae9425 Před 11 měsíci +3

    The friendship😂 and everything! This is my Testimony in Jesus name🤲🔥

  • @patriciaegbuna5125
    @patriciaegbuna5125 Před 11 měsíci +3

    A movie should be made on how you both grew up and met

  • @comfortudoh4522
    @comfortudoh4522 Před 11 měsíci +4

    This video cracked me up. Mr. Shorts there is hope for you all😂😂😂

  • @mtdofficial2466
    @mtdofficial2466 Před 11 měsíci +1

    "Be rigid on the internal and flexible on the outside"

  • @preyefubara9676
    @preyefubara9676 Před 11 měsíci +1

    There is ladder and stool 😂😂
    Got me laughing
    Thank you PK and PM. this was fun and enlightening

  • @treazie
    @treazie Před 11 měsíci +2

    I miss you guys so much my pastors close to my heart!!! This is help in due season!!! Cos my head strong like pastor M oh. But I will be calming down like Pastor K

  • @kingdomtalk2526
    @kingdomtalk2526 Před 11 měsíci +3

    With all the busy schedules touring America and Canada, Pk and Pm still have time to answer questions on the mind of singles, you can hear how tired Pm sounds but still Mama and Papa keeps showing us it's not about a CZcams channel but the opportunity to be a blessing to a generation. Thank you sir and Ma

  • @gbengaomoyeni4
    @gbengaomoyeni4 Před 11 měsíci +7

    Hmm.... be RIGID in the internal but be FLEXIBLE in the external. It is always better to get along than get around. This is quite insightful. Many thanks.

  • @Misschilaka
    @Misschilaka Před 11 měsíci

    Loved this ❤

  • @perfectezegbulem3181
    @perfectezegbulem3181 Před 11 měsíci +3

    The funny thing is that he was concerned about her weight not knowing that he was going to put on so much more 😂. Lord by pass my emotions and give me what's best for me.

  • @gloryapih5649
    @gloryapih5649 Před 11 měsíci

    This really blessed me

  • @princessnaomi5924
    @princessnaomi5924 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Be rigid with the internals and flexible with the external. I love you Pk and PM. Amen to the prayers ma’am.

  • @CeeClara
    @CeeClara Před 11 měsíci +2

    😂 comedy in the presence of the lord! Real talk with real experience
    Thank you Mr and Mrs K. Remain blessed

  • @estherchinagorom4490
    @estherchinagorom4490 Před 11 měsíci

    All I can say is this piece is beyond excellent. Thank yo so much. ❤❤

  • @esther2991
    @esther2991 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you PK and PM..
    insightful ❤

  • @jamesohanka4359
    @jamesohanka4359 Před 11 měsíci

    That was powerful PK & PM

  • @promisechinecherem8461
    @promisechinecherem8461 Před 11 měsíci

    Kaiiii, God bless you both.
    This is an honest truth.

  • @ndlilian
    @ndlilian Před 11 měsíci

    This is awesome 👍👍

  • @dunnitv8922
    @dunnitv8922 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Love the teaching thank you pastor And Mrs Kinglsey

  • @Masco2022
    @Masco2022 Před 11 měsíci

    Thanks so much for the wisdom I have learnt alot form your video

  • @mwanamrembo
    @mwanamrembo Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you and great closing prayer too. Simple and straight to the point.

  • @ifeoluwafola7726
    @ifeoluwafola7726 Před 11 měsíci

    Beautiful watch. Thanks so much.🥳💜

  • @clarissewehgee7796
    @clarissewehgee7796 Před 11 měsíci

    Thanks for sharing. God continue to bless you always.

  • @odafeaustinjohnson
    @odafeaustinjohnson Před 11 měsíci

    This was helpful..
    Thank You.

  • @lovethbillions
    @lovethbillions Před 11 měsíci

    This is so awesome

  • @oluwatosinakinyemi8348
    @oluwatosinakinyemi8348 Před 11 měsíci +1

    It was really insightful. Thank you sir and ma

  • @providencemutah9868
    @providencemutah9868 Před 11 měsíci +2

    LOL PK said “who’s going to marry the short”😩😩😩😩😂😂😂😂😂
    I’m glad I didn’t let “he’s not that tall” deter me from meeting my perfect man. May God help us with discernment.
    P.S sending this to my friend who is struggling with making a decision 😩😩

  • @favournwokoma4118
    @favournwokoma4118 Před 11 měsíci

    Always awesome and refreshing listening to you both. God bless you Pst. Okonkwo ❤

  • @user-uu8pp8no2m
    @user-uu8pp8no2m Před 11 měsíci +2

    This teaching just came at the right time, I'm blessed, Thank you PK and PM

  • @akosuabonti5448
    @akosuabonti5448 Před 11 měsíci +1

    This has been so helpful, God bless you Pastor K and Pastor M.

  • @blondellanoeli1080
    @blondellanoeli1080 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Always a blessing listening to you both. I always look forward to watching videos of you two intervening. Thank you so much and bless us with more videos

  • @davidsfaith3205
    @davidsfaith3205 Před 11 měsíci

    It was really helpful. Already sent this to my brother. We just had this conversation not so long ago.

  • @dentaldiscjockey8405
    @dentaldiscjockey8405 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Love these two.❤.

  • @marie-alphascott5191
    @marie-alphascott5191 Před 11 měsíci

    God continue to blessed Pastor K & Pastor M for our generation! I love your honesty & real approach to issues..🙏🏿❤️

  • @gideonebiyelama
    @gideonebiyelama Před 11 měsíci

    The teaching is beyond excellent. So blessed to come across this session.
    I love you both

  • @priscillaforson4944
    @priscillaforson4944 Před 11 měsíci

    😂😂, I love this message, God bless you both

  • @gloriaboakye-boateng6377
    @gloriaboakye-boateng6377 Před 11 měsíci

    Human beings are more than the external. Thanks a lot, PK and PM. It is a good nuggets for life. GOD bless you, and may GOD help me.

  • @BecomingwithPB
    @BecomingwithPB Před 9 měsíci

    I wish I will find the kind of friendship and understanding you people have.
    So beautiful.

  • @rosemaryumeh599
    @rosemaryumeh599 Před 11 měsíci

    Amen to the prayer at the end 🙏.
    What a wonderful couple.

  • @Kaluogbasa
    @Kaluogbasa Před 11 měsíci

    I thoroughly enjoyed you guys;as living example, your vibe and connection is real, admirable and heartfelt. Above all, you guys are on point - the internals are more important.
    Welldone👏

  • @KingThompson1
    @KingThompson1 Před 11 měsíci

    Interesting episode... But the throwbacks are amazing though, it's surprising how people grow and change even in looks 😅

  • @raymondushie8163
    @raymondushie8163 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Pst. K has a very valid point but I think he's a little bias & I understand why. Because pastor have a lot of singles come to them to pray for a life partner and this things overwhelmed them sometimes so you can see where the frustration & biases are coming from😊
    Physical attraction is important and it's wired into man Adam didn't find elephant or chimpanzee attractive but found eve attractive when he saw her, Isaac loved fair women so did Jacob. Fair" not dark.
    If you don't marry who you're attracted to you may not be completely happy in marriage & you'll most likely cheat in your mind anytime you see that kind that attracts you. You can find a good person whom you also find attractive. What you believe you will attract.

    • @oreballin
      @oreballin Před 11 měsíci

      "Fair" here I believe meant attractive. Not complexion. Lol

  • @Amakamedia
    @Amakamedia Před 11 měsíci +7

    Let’s not limit attraction to physical. There is more to attraction - intelligence, values, relationship with God. I really enjoyed watching this. Love you guys! 💛

    • @angyjoseph6438
      @angyjoseph6438 Před 11 měsíci

      Exactly my point. Attraction is beyond the physical. The person's character, intelligence, kindness, patience, a considerate person, caring, a good sense of humour, jovial, respectful and most importantly a forgiven heart. Above all, having a relationship with God!

    • @Harvest_Michael
      @Harvest_Michael Před 9 měsíci

      For the context of this video, they're dealing on physical attraction.
      Check the topic to understand better.
      Peace.✌🏽😊

  • @jenniferokafor3156
    @jenniferokafor3156 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Really changed my mindset.
    Does this also apply in situations where the woman is actually very short?won't marrying a short man,make things somehow, especially in respect to their children heights?

    • @aggiekisakye674
      @aggiekisakye674 Před 11 měsíci

      Hello. So there's this pastor I was listening to and he said something interesting. He said, you can pray your children into anything beyond genetics. Say, you have poor hair quality,you can pray your children into the best.
      So height of the partner shouldn't worry us and miss our LOMLs and other factors as well... Our children's genetics can be made in prayer 😊

  • @lydiaboafo
    @lydiaboafo Před 2 měsíci

    😄👋👍💋👌 love is sweet ooo, I'm one of your subscribers watching from USA,🤩💖

  • @primeworldmultiservices6431
    @primeworldmultiservices6431 Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this, please Can this be Live, so that people can Communicate their Minds, thank you sir.

  • @promisechinecherem8461
    @promisechinecherem8461 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I wish all young men will hear this. It’s as if the standards are changing in relationships.

  • @preciousqueenchikezie9612
    @preciousqueenchikezie9612 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Lovely message with lot's of life lessons

  • @agatham9004
    @agatham9004 Před 11 měsíci

    These guys 😹😹😹😹😹 absolutely love the chemistry, honesty and humour between them.

  • @angyjoseph6438
    @angyjoseph6438 Před 11 měsíci +1

    😂😂😂I like the way pastor K said, you would have been moving about in Lagos. Oh dear!

  • @judetony5449
    @judetony5449 Před 11 měsíci

    Investor!! I love you Sir😁

  • @NwachukwuAkachiFavour-eh4tk
    @NwachukwuAkachiFavour-eh4tk Před 11 měsíci

    I agree with you ma.🥰

  • @clarissewehgee7796
    @clarissewehgee7796 Před 11 měsíci

    You would have been roaming around Lagos. Hahaha. That got me

  • @dafiewhareeseroghene7596
    @dafiewhareeseroghene7596 Před 11 měsíci

    Amen!

  • @EBRITY
    @EBRITY Před 11 měsíci

    Investor pastor K😂😂😂, Bless you sir.

  • @ntsakomavunda9018
    @ntsakomavunda9018 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Pst K always have a way to sattle these issues oo.....'Be regit in the internal attributes and flexible on the outside" we received this!
    But also at times I just wonder to myself that 'mara God, what was difficult to have all these attributes in a tall dark handsome body? Like😅. I hope it's allowed to tease God.
    But I think God does this to keep us in humility so that we also know that we are not perfect either

  • @Lovwynaomega
    @Lovwynaomega Před 11 měsíci

    Glory❤

  • @tessyogo6587
    @tessyogo6587 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Amen in Jesus name 🙏 🙌..

  • @preciousakuetiemhe4155
    @preciousakuetiemhe4155 Před 11 měsíci

    I know this is not related but it was so funny when PM said 6packs is beer lol

  • @faithgaruba3302
    @faithgaruba3302 Před 11 měsíci

    Pastor K and the consistent use of ‘yellow girl’😂😂😂 what’s that ma 😂😂😂

  • @shamisoncube770
    @shamisoncube770 Před 11 měsíci

    ''.. that's where Psalm 91 comes in..''Ah!Pastor! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @ogundiranmartha4405
    @ogundiranmartha4405 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Get along is more important than getting aroused.

  • @AjokeAdenimi
    @AjokeAdenimi Před 11 měsíci +1

    I watched this and blessed God for the gift of Mama and Papa (PK and PM).
    You are a blessing, Sir and Ma. I love the conversation; it's enlightening.

  • @ntsakomavunda9018
    @ntsakomavunda9018 Před 11 měsíci

    One verse to help us renew the mind is in Samuel below..... At times it can be very hard to sattle with God's will (physically)for us,but if we know that God actually doesn't see as we see can be calming!
    But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look at his appearance or at his physical stature, because I have refused him. For the Lord does not see as man sees; for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
    I Samuel 16:7 NKJV

  • @enechojovictoria41
    @enechojovictoria41 Před 11 měsíci

    Amen 🙌

  • @busayo8514
    @busayo8514 Před 11 měsíci

    'You can't afford the cream" very funny.😂😂😂😂

  • @devgemmy
    @devgemmy Před 11 měsíci +1

    “But short wants you... why don’t you marry the short.... there’s hope for you Mr short”🤣🤣😹😹

  • @ekyessien570
    @ekyessien570 Před 7 měsíci

    This reminds me of when I met my husband and and I was like “but he's not fine ooo”. I had to change his looks. From hair and no beard to bald with a full beard man is so hot right now.😂😂

  • @ritasoetan3457
    @ritasoetan3457 Před 11 měsíci

    Amen

  • @ericaekpang8818
    @ericaekpang8818 Před 11 měsíci +1

    There's hope for the short😂😂😂

  • @Angelikah1
    @Angelikah1 Před 11 měsíci

    Pastor K your so funny!!! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @christellezame3833
    @christellezame3833 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Lol 😂 I love them

  • @gracemartin8525
    @gracemartin8525 Před 11 měsíci

    It’s pastor Kingsley’s close up picture for me 😂

  • @AnnabelleT
    @AnnabelleT Před 11 měsíci

    All the shorts hailing PK now 👯👯👯👯👯

  • @onoshiovibes3802
    @onoshiovibes3802 Před 11 měsíci

    Thank God say I see tall wey match internal ooo. Thank You God😅

  • @lovethbillions
    @lovethbillions Před 11 měsíci

    Am one of those that used to log out from a distance

  • @dunnitv8922
    @dunnitv8922 Před 11 měsíci

    😂 pastor k is so funny...

  • @daviddika4973
    @daviddika4973 Před 11 měsíci

    This thing pained Pst. K sha😂 but may God help young Christians to major on the major and minor on the minor and not the other way around

  • @priscythestar
    @priscythestar Před 11 měsíci

    God bypasss my emotions and do what's best for me

  • @Masco2022
    @Masco2022 Před 11 měsíci

    How can I get you I have a personal question I need some advice

  • @AbbyTheCreator_
    @AbbyTheCreator_ Před 11 měsíci

    Pastor K is funny 😂😂😂. Who will marry the short 😂

  • @raphaelnkemakonam5430
    @raphaelnkemakonam5430 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Don't judge a book by its cover

  • @ayooloyin
    @ayooloyin Před 11 měsíci

    Was that my pastor? 😅, But the guy on spec 😎 na Idan 😂

  • @deborahnartey7158
    @deborahnartey7158 Před 11 měsíci

    "Please what's wrong with flat nose"😂😂😂😂😂😂. Pastor, Sir, please we beg, you can't be asking this question 😂😂😂😂😅

  • @aceighmedia
    @aceighmedia Před 11 měsíci

    Me short is watching 😅😅😅

  • @agatham9004
    @agatham9004 Před 11 měsíci

    “The cow is still even outside alive and they cut the leg and brought it inside…” 😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹

  • @boanergesolajesumayor7553
    @boanergesolajesumayor7553 Před 10 měsíci

    Mildred your voice change o, are u a voice changer ma😂😂

  • @dorcasansah78
    @dorcasansah78 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Pastor K what if the short guy looks youngrr than you. He looks like your younger brother because he is short?

    • @oreballin
      @oreballin Před 11 měsíci +1

      Hello.. Understandable. However, how he looks to you is the question here.
      If how he looks is more important than the qualities that make for a good husband ? The choice is yours to make.
      May God give you understanding.

  • @sinegugucele4878
    @sinegugucele4878 Před 11 měsíci

    There is hope for Mr Short😂

  • @emmanuelagbafor2027
    @emmanuelagbafor2027 Před 11 měsíci

    Physical attraction matters ooo😅

  • @adegoketinuola8277
    @adegoketinuola8277 Před 11 měsíci

    😂😂😂😂

  • @victorpromise8819
    @victorpromise8819 Před 11 měsíci

    The more you look like God basically, you begin to think like God. Men look outwardly, God sees the inside.

  • @mbahblanche
    @mbahblanche Před 11 měsíci

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂pst k