Real Relationship Questions Women & Men Have | Kingsley Okonkwo & Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo

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Komentáře • 83

  • @Linda-dc7rl
    @Linda-dc7rl Před rokem +5

    The host was a bit annoying but aside from that, this was truly amazing, I absolutely love Pastor k and Mildred ❤️

  • @wchappjumbo
    @wchappjumbo Před rokem +44

    The way Pastor Mildred reacts with her laughs when Pastor Kingsley codedly talks about the things he does to her wey dey sweet is so cute. 😊🤭🤭

  • @marthangafor6414
    @marthangafor6414 Před rokem +14

    Even looking at it as a non-believer, pornography involves so much exploitation and abuse. Supporting those films is endorsing such behaviour.
    I love how realistic Pastor Mildred can be. She tackled that question about the husband's infertility excellently!
    All the panelists gave wonderful insights. Thanks for making this widely available.

  • @patrickrumbu2902
    @patrickrumbu2902 Před rokem +11

    'Support in marriage is done by love..not law' woop! 📌

  • @thembekampisane9093
    @thembekampisane9093 Před měsícem

    I like how Pastor K explains Submition and Love🎉🎉🎉❤

  • @ogheneochukoajumoke6724
    @ogheneochukoajumoke6724 Před rokem +5

    I'm really thankful that these are now being spoken about in the church. Because, especially as Nigerians, typically, even our parents don't know how to speak to us about sex, so, I'm blessed to have this at this time🙌

    • @otekanonso7059
      @otekanonso7059 Před 5 měsíci

      No matter how dem talk am for church I am not licking any woman’s Nyash head is a nono

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 Před rokem

    Thank you ☺️❣️ sirs n mas for enlightening us

  • @ashielizabeth825
    @ashielizabeth825 Před rokem +4

    So much to learn from this,got some clarity on things.

  • @gladysotoibhi1331
    @gladysotoibhi1331 Před rokem +1

    God bless you pastor Kay

  • @efehenry-alobo4256
    @efehenry-alobo4256 Před rokem

    Thank you pastors. This is very informative and helpful.❤️

  • @bernicesangmortey38
    @bernicesangmortey38 Před rokem

    I have learnt alot. Thanks soo much

  • @alfredonline5630
    @alfredonline5630 Před rokem +1

    Thank you pastors. 🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️

  • @Mywatercrystaltv
    @Mywatercrystaltv Před rokem +1

    Pst Mikdreds soup is very sweet ooo! See PKs cup is consistently running over!!😍😍😍

  • @zainabbello9200
    @zainabbello9200 Před rokem +3

    So helpful 👏🏼👏🏼. Thank you Pastor K and Pastor M❤.

  • @beneditaakakpo5522
    @beneditaakakpo5522 Před rokem

    Very educative❤️💯💯💯

  • @emmanuelagbafor2027
    @emmanuelagbafor2027 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I'm really learning a lot here. God bless you for this program

  • @kembabazichristine7027
    @kembabazichristine7027 Před rokem +7

    Wawooo it's was really intense thank you so much for building the world in relationship to marriage.
    Maybe for ladies that cry what I can say is that, we are unique individuals and what can stress one person might not stress another.
    I have enjoyed it all.God bless

  • @chineduobanye6370
    @chineduobanye6370 Před rokem +22

    I need more of these interactive seminars. Really educational

  • @victoriaodili-akpom4019
    @victoriaodili-akpom4019 Před rokem +3

    💯 % I am happy Nigerians are discussing this issues,because we are so behind. This is a good help to improve relationships bounding. Well done guys 👍🏿

  • @nelliediemo
    @nelliediemo Před rokem +5

    This is so informative and revelational 🔥

  • @poshlady8140
    @poshlady8140 Před rokem

    Oh woww!! Mancity fan😂😍😍🎉

  • @paulzerina
    @paulzerina Před 10 měsíci

    Great Q&A Session. Let me start looking for "why" from henceforth.😊

  • @monicamburugu9815
    @monicamburugu9815 Před 6 měsíci

    Am Inspired. God bless you pastors

  • @tamara3825
    @tamara3825 Před rokem

    Thank you all so much this shole blessed me and I know will continue to bless you all abundantly

  • @yetundefadiya4664
    @yetundefadiya4664 Před rokem +2

    I always look forwards to they QnA sessions , very insightful 👌

  • @browhy531
    @browhy531 Před rokem +1

    Pastor M is finishing me with the look her face as pastor k talk about a woman’s body 😂🤣😂🤣😂😂 I don’t wanna be you right now my sister

  • @nalubegalydia42
    @nalubegalydia42 Před 3 měsíci

    Am in love with this session everyone is lovely so enjoyable

  • @Kaluijeomatony
    @Kaluijeomatony Před rokem

    Thank you sir,@ pst k.
    You nailed it!

  • @aaronebifanimicaroline1131

    Not PM drawing "something" on PK's leg. 😁😁

  • @antiagir2089
    @antiagir2089 Před rokem

    Wooooowwwwww this was so powerful...thank you dear pastors

  • @nassima5632
    @nassima5632 Před rokem +4

    I think the incompatibility health wise mentioned here was the blood thing AA-AS-AS if both are AS they shouldn't conceive since there are risk of conceiving SS, which is...
    Somehow I thought he heard something about fertility issues (health wise) but I did love his take.

  • @emekaabuah6029
    @emekaabuah6029 Před rokem

    Make sure it is clean!😬

  • @chisomclinton2458
    @chisomclinton2458 Před rokem

    𝑁𝑖𝑐𝑒!!!

  • @maydvicky3316
    @maydvicky3316 Před rokem +2

    Not depending on your instinct but on knowledge 🔥🔥🔥

  • @preciousglory6735
    @preciousglory6735 Před rokem +6

    Pastor k and m with the big wisdom, very educative seminars big thank you to All ✅❤️

  • @Kaluijeomatony
    @Kaluijeomatony Před rokem +1

    You are beautiful P.M

  • @adullammediatv
    @adullammediatv Před rokem

    🌹🔥

  • @Officialwunmipearl
    @Officialwunmipearl Před rokem

    This is an awakening for my husband’s ministry, God help us! I couldn't help but blast in tongues 🥹
    God bless the Bamiloye’s and our Daddy Adeboye’s family

  • @divineceleste.m
    @divineceleste.m Před rokem +2

    Just cry! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @fuljonesreinhardnsom6578
      @fuljonesreinhardnsom6578 Před rokem

      I appreciate these men and women of God for their answers... But the answers on sex toys and oral sex to me hasn't been well handled.. about toys sex is between bodies and flesh and must be between a man and a woman.. not man and man nor toy-toy nor man - toy..
      And about oral sex the question also should be handled from the point to the woman.. where did she experience oral sex before ?? That should be addressed first before handling the man...🙌🙌

  • @adedoyinbadejo679
    @adedoyinbadejo679 Před rokem +6

    In my opinion there is a veery thin line between using toys with your partner and masturbation, cos when they are not there it's easy not to practice self control and pleasure yourself with the toys, this is evil and could destroy the marriage
    Also with the sexting or whatever, after arousing eachother, won't it lead to masturbation if the partner is not around 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @joynwobi9921
      @joynwobi9921 Před 6 měsíci

      I agree absolutely. Much as the resource persons have done well, Pst K should know that as pornography is evil , so are sex toys. As he asked, what's the aim? Why should a partner be sexed or aroused by an object rather than his/her partner. If a partner does not know how to do well sexually he/ she should be taught. Introducing objects is devilish. It will eventually put asunder in their relationship just like pornography would.

  • @cyrile.6754
    @cyrile.6754 Před 5 měsíci

    The first guy that asked a question has a serious problem with the wife. 😂

  • @GladysZorvah
    @GladysZorvah Před rokem

    Hi pastor & Mrs. K l live in port Harcourt. How' can I meet you or talk with you. I don't understand my marriage. Thanks

  • @angelsworld1889
    @angelsworld1889 Před rokem +7

    Good afternoon Mr. and Mrs. Kingsley Okonkwo. Your teachings are a blessing. Please I have a question. I'm 18 years old. What do you think about wanting to have a baby at my age,knowing that I don't want to sin against God by fornicating. I'm single, not in any relationship. Please help.

    • @mercy_dlighted
      @mercy_dlighted Před rokem +7

      Well... questions
      1. Do you think you're ready?
      2. Why do you want to have a baby?
      3. what would you do when your child needs his/ her father?

    • @fuljonesreinhardnsom6578
      @fuljonesreinhardnsom6578 Před rokem +11

      Be patient and get married before having a child.. sex is allowed only in marriage according to the Bible and also talk with someone in a Bible believing church of high esteem to help you

    • @Achusomenkechi
      @Achusomenkechi Před rokem +8

      The desire to have a baby, or to bear children in my own perspective is a beautiful thing, but just at the Word of God says, there is time for everything under the sun. Start this conversation with God, tell HIM about this desire , and pray that HE directs you on the 'when', and with 'who'.

    • @chiomafemi
      @chiomafemi Před rokem +6

      @@Achusomenkechi baby you are still young for that, you have a lot ahead of you. Having a baby at 18yrs will limit you, explore in godly way at this age

  • @tovkeljames9430
    @tovkeljames9430 Před rokem +1

    What if the domination is mutually pleasurable

    • @anitaokonji4766
      @anitaokonji4766 Před rokem +1

      It's not God's design. Their experience doesn't matter.

  • @laurelbright2378
    @laurelbright2378 Před rokem +2

    Pls with oral sex, especially where the genitals are involved, it isn't medically expedient because of transfer it f enzymes which could lead to infection n diseases. Let's be Careful

    • @marybesong
      @marybesong Před rokem +1

      Yes oral sex can lead to disease but so can vaginal sex. You both have to get tested for STDs. In the case that you have them, you get treated and you can continue with it.

  • @demetricebarnes4529
    @demetricebarnes4529 Před rokem

    Do any of the couples/Pastors on the panel offer counseling?

  • @fragrancedeparadiso443
    @fragrancedeparadiso443 Před rokem +1

    Brilliant women on set, thanks to all the pastors.
    Hygiene was mentioned at a point -awesome advice.
    But as for sex toys, this idea could not come from God.
    If couples wish to record when having a private moment, that is called porn, only difference is that they've not decided to sell the footage

    • @erin-thaliaakosung2205
      @erin-thaliaakosung2205 Před rokem

      Your point on the recording I don’t agree with you

    • @fragrancedeparadiso443
      @fragrancedeparadiso443 Před rokem

      @@erin-thaliaakosung2205 you'll one day do

    • @adedoyinbadejo679
      @adedoyinbadejo679 Před rokem +1

      I agree with you on sex toys
      There's a thin line between it and masturbation, even sexting or whatever might lead to masturbation which is very wrong
      On the video I think it depends, I remember watching a movie where the couple mistakenly recorded themselves, and when they found out they used the footage to discuss what they enjoyed and did not enjoy so as to improve, in this case I think it was fine, other than that I don't understand what they need recording for

  • @reallifewithakuoma8964

    D d d

  • @queenkolade-ajala9139
    @queenkolade-ajala9139 Před měsícem

    The Hosts almost ruined this one for me🤦‍♀

  • @agyaresamuelnkansah6589
    @agyaresamuelnkansah6589 Před rokem +2

    Pls I need help. I'm a married young guy ,I live in abroad and my wife in Ghana 🇬🇭. I love her so much which I don't want to cheat on her so we do video call with her nakedness, sometimes she shows me her private part and I show her mine as well. I want to know if it is a sin for us to do that on phone since we're married couples 💑. Pls help 😢

    • @temitopeborode8582
      @temitopeborode8582 Před rokem

      I think pastor k mentioned this. It is not a sin but the downside of it is that you may not be able to finish what you started. That is you may be aroused and not have your partner with you to see it to the end.

    • @fredaansu4991
      @fredaansu4991 Před rokem +2

      I think Pastor Kingsley answered your question but you've to be careful because someone can bump into your video and you can be exposed to them.

  • @margaretahogberg6869
    @margaretahogberg6869 Před rokem

    You are so true about never make a video of yourself having sex, it'll not be a good advice to do that, if anyone else can get it, or anything else could happen with the video, 🙏🙏🙏so please dont

  • @agyaresamuelnkansah6589
    @agyaresamuelnkansah6589 Před rokem +1

    Pls I need help. I'm a married young guy ,I live in abroad and my wife in Ghana 🇬🇭. I love her so much which I don't want to cheat on her so we do video call with her nakedness, sometimes she shows me her private part and I show her mine as well. I want to know if it is a sin for us to do that on phone since we're married couples 💑. Pls help 😢

    • @judgejudyjudyo8099
      @judgejudyjudyo8099 Před rokem +1

      You are married. What you do in your marriage is not sin as long as your spouse is happy with it and you are not commiting sin before God. You are using technology to view your wife's nakedness and she likewise, it's no sin as long as you don't begin to seek out porn and to masturbate

  • @agyaresamuelnkansah6589

    Pls I need help. I'm a married young guy ,I live in abroad and my wife in Ghana 🇬🇭. I love her so much which I don't want to cheat on her so we do video call with her nakedness, sometimes she shows me her private part and I show her mine as well. I want to know if it is a sin for us to do that on phone since we're married couples 💑. Pls help 😢

  • @agyaresamuelnkansah6589

    Pls I need help. I'm a married young guy ,I live in abroad and my wife in Ghana 🇬🇭. I love her so much which I don't want to cheat on her so we do video call with her nakedness, sometimes she shows me her private part and I show her mine as well. I want to know if it is a sin for us to do that on phone since we're married couples 💑. Pls help 😢

  • @agyaresamuelnkansah6589

    Pls I need help. I'm a married young guy ,I live in abroad and my wife in Ghana 🇬🇭. I love her so much which I don't want to cheat on her so we do video call with her nakedness, sometimes she shows me her private part and I show her mine as well. I want to know if it is a sin for us to do that on phone since we're married couples 💑. Pls help 😢

  • @agyaresamuelnkansah6589

    Pls I need help. I'm a married young guy ,I live in abroad and my wife in Ghana 🇬🇭. I love her so much which I don't want to cheat on her so we do video call with her nakedness, sometimes she shows me her private part and I show her mine as well. I want to know if it is a sin for us to do that on phone since we're married couples 💑. Pls help 😢

    • @adewaleshyllon5954
      @adewaleshyllon5954 Před rokem +2

      In my opinion, you are not sinning against God since you are married.

    • @olufunmilayoolowoporoku3900
      @olufunmilayoolowoporoku3900 Před rokem

      Coming together to stay in the same room and bed will be the best solution because showing yourselves your pv is not like the real deal.