What Women And Men Need | Ep 2 | Kingsley Okonkwo & Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo

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Komentáře • 65

  • @akorfa1684
    @akorfa1684 Před 2 lety +68

    WOMEN
    1. Love
    2. Intimacy
    3. Honest & Open Communication
    4. Security
    5. Affirmation
    6. Listen
    7. Faithfulness

  • @akorfa1684
    @akorfa1684 Před 2 lety +64

    MEN
    1. Respect
    2. Sex
    3. Intellectual & Recreational Connection
    4. Help
    5. Encouragement
    6. Peace of Mind
    7. Trust

  • @danielazih686
    @danielazih686 Před 2 lety +18

    We pray for more wisdom and insight i must say my life has been transformed by listening to pastor K and Pastor M biggest fan

  • @CodingToInspire
    @CodingToInspire Před rokem +4

    If there's one thing I've learnt and still learning so far about marriage is that; marriage will only work if you work it, no one comes really prepared, both the man and woman must he willing to learn and also be willing to change. My marriage will be sweet and will be a model to other marriages around me and for generations to come.

    • @Feej81
      @Feej81 Před 8 měsíci

      It’s so refreshing to hear a positive outlook on a future marriage… God bless you

  • @kendumiriam8900
    @kendumiriam8900 Před 2 lety +11

    Exactly sir, I also pray to have someone that I connect with mentally, spiritually, emotionally, financially and a friend like u two, the spark is so real between u two,,, I connect to your marriage grace....

  • @bevwalshtv2745
    @bevwalshtv2745 Před 2 lety +6

    God bless you both. I am still searching for part 1, anyway I am hoping my sister that in part 1 you mentioned that women need a man with a VISION not only for his own life but for his family because he is the head.
    There are men who have no vision and as a result of that it puts so much pressure/burden/strain on the woman.
    Through his vision also lies his purpose which is very important. I was so disappointed when I ask this person I dated "what is your purpose in life?" And he responded, "I am still waiting on God to reveal it to me?"
    He though I would be impressed because we are Christians, he thought I would see it as him not wanting to be outside of the will of God for his life (which is good) but if you are above 40 and still do not know the purpose for which you were created you are NOT ready to commit to a relationship.

  • @carole5765
    @carole5765 Před 2 lety +9

    Thanks a lot! I learnt a lot ! Can you do more videos together please 🙈🙆‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️? It’s encouraging and beautiful to see you together

  • @mihlalimirandambasane8340

    I love you my counselors❤️😍🤗

  • @factsfactory373
    @factsfactory373 Před 2 lety +2

    do you know that these two people are stylishly telling each other what is happening in their marriage

  • @Sirken_7
    @Sirken_7 Před 2 lety +19

    I have been waiting for the past 7 days for this episode, God bless you more pastor Kingsley and pastor Mildred

  • @temitayodb5558
    @temitayodb5558 Před 2 lety +3

    I love Pastor Mildred's level of maturity

  • @faithieflame4976
    @faithieflame4976 Před rokem +1

    Women came with womb and food. Women nurtures. That's 100 true. God want women to take care of the home, while the man provides.
    I believe in gender roles. That doesn't mean we can't do some of each others role sometimes.the husband should be pulling from the right while the wife should be pulling from the left and meet in the middle.
    Kingsley o. Is a good listener.i like the way he listens when his wife speaks.

  • @omolaramalomo2772
    @omolaramalomo2772 Před 2 lety +2

    Wow, despite being single I learnt a lot. Thank you Papa and Mama Okonkwo 👏👏👏

  • @osek6871
    @osek6871 Před 2 lety +2

    Pastor K's sense of humor is unreal 😂😂😂

  • @gemanwaneri2216
    @gemanwaneri2216 Před 2 lety

    A Man first needs you before he loves you, while a Woman first loves you before he needs you. Thank you so much, Sir.

  • @keziyajoshua1248
    @keziyajoshua1248 Před 2 lety +4

    Wow
    I can't wait to meet you mummy and Daddy ❤️

  • @ariseshinewithchido
    @ariseshinewithchido Před 2 lety +1

    Men need encouragement women need affirmatios

  • @victorokwudiri3941
    @victorokwudiri3941 Před 2 lety +1

    I appreciate the good work Pastors K and M are doing.
    Just to add that the producers should pay attention to the volume in subsequent productions. The volume is low.

  • @racheloshaksmusic
    @racheloshaksmusic Před rokem +1

    This is SO GOOD. Fantastic video !! Very well explained. This video alone will help a lot of couples if both watch it.

  • @faithethomas2823
    @faithethomas2823 Před 2 lety +1

    I agree, being cheated on is the worse experience. It shatters the heart ❤like dropping bricks on someone's head. You loose sleep because in your mind you are replaying and imagining him making love to another women the way he does with you. Men think it's nothing but it means the world to the woman. Thank you guys for bringing this to us. Hopefully both sides take heed.

  • @Mount_Sinai_Intercessory
    @Mount_Sinai_Intercessory Před 2 lety +3

    I am extremely grateful to GOD for this videos….. please sir is there an account we can pls sow seeds too? This words re to heavy to hear for free. I am wise and I would love to sow

  • @marioblez4139
    @marioblez4139 Před 2 lety

    Awesome
    God bless you Sir/Ma

  • @beckyjohn3802
    @beckyjohn3802 Před 2 lety

    I have been waiting... thank you Sir, thank you Ma.

  • @tamarykarenyi5099
    @tamarykarenyi5099 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much pastors..I've learnt a lot

  • @idim9248
    @idim9248 Před 2 lety

    God bless you both

  • @joydabere2242
    @joydabere2242 Před 2 lety +2

    So glad I'm here again to learn.
    God bless you pastor K and Pastor M.

  • @raphaeldaniel5518
    @raphaeldaniel5518 Před rokem

    God bless you both for blessing us🙏🙏

  • @TracyMee
    @TracyMee Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much for this!

  • @mercyokuonghae9915
    @mercyokuonghae9915 Před 2 lety +3

    💯 powerful hints, work with these and you find a lot working for you; may the lord guide and help us. Thank you pastor K n M😊

  • @Joydan6666
    @Joydan6666 Před 2 lety

    Thank you very much Pst K and Pst M

  • @fridanjiru
    @fridanjiru Před 2 lety

    Thank you very much

  • @janetchiwetelu3939
    @janetchiwetelu3939 Před 2 lety

    Thank you my mentors for a balanced conversation

  • @theresarejoicesesay1735

    God bless you both🙏🏻😍

  • @fatmatasesay7467
    @fatmatasesay7467 Před 2 lety

    Thank u so much for your effort really learning during my single stage.

  • @josephinefiator8472
    @josephinefiator8472 Před 2 lety +1

    Have really learned a lot from this beautiful couple 💕💕💕💕💕💕😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @DANIELMBENIN
    @DANIELMBENIN Před 2 lety +2

    Wow, amazing content. I learnt so much. Thanks for sharing.

  • @joshuaebhoria8046
    @joshuaebhoria8046 Před 2 lety

    I'm glad you found me... Thank you.

  • @ttfamikel791
    @ttfamikel791 Před rokem

    Awesomeness

  • @HesedCreations
    @HesedCreations Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you pastors, for the constant reminders. Guys, these hints are very practical and work! We can do this guys.

  • @ToyoCeee
    @ToyoCeee Před 2 lety +2

    This is really good!

  • @teddytee3854
    @teddytee3854 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow this is amazing teaching I really have learned a lot thank you pastor Kingsley and pastor Mildred

  • @msvanessasmith4202
    @msvanessasmith4202 Před rokem

    Awsome wisdom🥰🙏🏽🙌🏽

  • @oluchukwuobioma1127
    @oluchukwuobioma1127 Před 2 lety +5

    A man first needs you before he loves you but a woman first loves you before she needs you. Interesting

  • @tchichouamerveille3109

    Wow wisdom dripping. Thanks so much have learn alot. More Grace pastor's. We love you

  • @Reverendtheresaharding

    What a wonderful conversation..Every point was on point..you people really did your homework..keep up the good work

  • @danielsamuel3406
    @danielsamuel3406 Před rokem

    More Grace to you Sir , Christian Marriage being lovely

  • @tamara3825
    @tamara3825 Před rokem

    Thank you

  • @oluwatosinakinyemi8348

    Awesome teaching

  • @agbessiid8408
    @agbessiid8408 Před 2 lety

    Hallelujah

  • @Esther-vr8fc
    @Esther-vr8fc Před 2 lety

    Thank you both so so much. God bless you more. "Wisdom is on her lips" - of a Godly woman (take note)
    Marriage is a partnership 🙌
    "Two are better than one. Both will see from different perspectives and give a more wholesome and wholistic view of the same thing" 1 of the recipes of how marriage makes you better 🙌 🙌

  • @oluchukwuobioma1127
    @oluchukwuobioma1127 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow, men marry because they can see what a woman can do in their lives

  • @Joshua58516
    @Joshua58516 Před 2 lety

    Waoh! This is really awesome, God bless you Sir and Ma. If I may add Sir, MEN like GOOD FOOD, which to me will come around 3rd or 4th position. Thanks...

  • @royalanthony228
    @royalanthony228 Před 2 lety

    I think i will be part of this ministry o

  • @oluchukwuobioma1127
    @oluchukwuobioma1127 Před 2 lety +3

    Roles are consistent but needs evolve

    • @TeeAhhhna
      @TeeAhhhna Před 11 měsíci

      I hope your view changed from a year ago. Your statement is contrary to whom God✝️ is.
      Hebrews 13:8-9
      Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and to day, and for ever. Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines.

  • @mrstoluajala1317
    @mrstoluajala1317 Před 2 lety +1

    Pastor Mildred helped because you allow her to help, some men won't even allow you to help them. Some don't even know they need help

  • @hmlycollections5180
    @hmlycollections5180 Před 2 lety +1

    I heard you're in Abuja now for a singles programme in house on the rock church,is it true sir??

    • @mercyokuonghae9915
      @mercyokuonghae9915 Před 2 lety

      Yea it’s true

    • @gloriaobodai8418
      @gloriaobodai8418 Před rokem

      God bless you 🙏 Ps.K and Ps.M.
      I have forwarded the two to my boyfriend.
      I pray he follows all the teachings.
      Too much loaded education

  • @bevwalshtv2745
    @bevwalshtv2745 Před 2 lety +9

    Men need help. I got it, you are right but here is the problem with that, or let me say- here is what a lot of men DO NOT understand.
    For me to help you it means there is something you are already doing that you need my help with, there is a journey you have started and need help to continue on. Needing help DOES NOT mean you do not even know your purpose or you have nothing going for yourself and I am to help you get yourself soughted out....no. You must at least have a vision and a track record of something you have done in your life before I met you.