5 Common Mistakes Singles Make When Starting A Relationship | Pastor Mildred Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • Join ‪@mildredkingsleyokonkwo‬ as she shares 5 Common Mistakes Singles Make When Starting A Relationship.
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Komentáře • 97

  • @kakyolillian2310
    @kakyolillian2310 Před 2 lety +20

    1. Foundation
    2. Counselor
    3. Accountability
    4. Commitment .... carrying Jesus n carry yo own joy into marriage lessons learnt🙏

  • @KiRetteCouture
    @KiRetteCouture Před 2 lety +11

    I love her practical advice especially regarding domestic violence. The laughter when it comes to violence towards men shows how much social perceptions need to change. A lot of men suffer in silence.
    It's true that no one was created to make their partner happy. Neither is it their assignment to make them miserable.

  • @blessedojong2358
    @blessedojong2358 Před 2 lety +26

    When the message is ending I always feel bad. I wish it continues. This woman is endowed with wisdom. God bless you ma

  • @monicadelle243
    @monicadelle243 Před 2 lety +12

    Wow. God bless you Ma. I am so blessed by this message that I have no words to express my gratitude. The last point really hit me, “MARRIAGE IS ABOUT JESUS”! May God keep using you Ma. God bless you.

  • @mildredmakungu5328
    @mildredmakungu5328 Před 2 lety +2

    Pastor Mildred is beauty full and full of wisdom from God...also hilarious....🙏 Pastor K..saw that she was successful... when she was doing her physical daily excercise and the next week she was pregnant 🤰....😂😂😂😂😂she is the best example to imitate...her marriage too..is the to be imitate.. marrying in the Lord 🙏

  • @MrSironide
    @MrSironide Před rokem +5

    The message is hot 🔥 because of the attitude of this our generation. Thank you Pst Mildred

  • @mhizlovewritesTV
    @mhizlovewritesTV Před rokem +3

    Pastor Mildred always spilling the truth... I love you .. God's grace will never destroy from you ma 😘😘

  • @brucetorgbevi5964
    @brucetorgbevi5964 Před rokem +3

    Jesus and your personal joy.
    Well noted Pastor Mildred ✍️🙏🏾

  • @gloriafairweather5348
    @gloriafairweather5348 Před 2 lety +3

    Hallelujah to God. Women of God this is so true it happens to me before marriage and after marriage it happens same way.

  • @azazi-leleiperemoboere6237

    Deep insight but the delivery is comic and I love every second of it. Thank you Pastor M

  • @njakwamwandila3644
    @njakwamwandila3644 Před 2 lety

    Thank you Mum

  • @BASSISTHENEWBLACK
    @BASSISTHENEWBLACK Před 2 lety

    How I adore Mama MK.

  • @patienceawodiran9030
    @patienceawodiran9030 Před 2 lety +1

    Amazing.. I was super blessed, God bless you ma

  • @amakaanunoibe3689
    @amakaanunoibe3689 Před 2 lety +1

    You're always a blessing, thank you pst M

  • @yayalove9386
    @yayalove9386 Před 2 lety

    💕💕❤️💓💓 thanks so much pastor Mildred 💙

  • @victoriaowumi3812
    @victoriaowumi3812 Před 2 lety

    Well done Ma. God bless you 🙏

  • @stephennganga6015
    @stephennganga6015 Před 2 lety

    Real stuff here thanks ma

  • @Joydan6666
    @Joydan6666 Před 2 lety +2

    Pastor M my online mentor 🙌
    God bless you ma

  • @marycynthia5122
    @marycynthia5122 Před 2 lety +1

    I love listening to your messages Ma.

  • @officialmagreth479
    @officialmagreth479 Před rokem

    Be blessed Woman of GOD

  • @carolynewandera2843
    @carolynewandera2843 Před 2 lety +4

    Ave been touched by your sermons, more so this one.. Thank you..

  • @lizzyful56
    @lizzyful56 Před 2 lety

    God bless you Pastor Mildred ❤️🔥🔥

  • @tinatin3169
    @tinatin3169 Před 2 lety

    God bless u for the message more Grace to u ma👏👏👏💕

  • @joanneclarke4226
    @joanneclarke4226 Před 2 lety +1

    Marriage is covenant.....Amen Give God want He wants from your marriage

  • @tojuirone1997
    @tojuirone1997 Před 2 lety +5

    God bless u ma...so blessed by this message

  • @joanneclarke4226
    @joanneclarke4226 Před 2 lety +3

    Your WIFE AND HUSBAND WAS NOT CREATED TO MAKE YOU HAPPY....GO INTO MARRIAGE WITH JESUS AND YOUR OWN JOY...HALLELUJAH 🙏🏽 GREAT GODLY ADVICE 🙌 👏 🙏 👌 Holy Spirit please guide us through our relationships 🙏

  • @henrymercy6263
    @henrymercy6263 Před 2 lety +2

    I love u ma....
    God bless u for all u do for the kingdom

  • @manjeriflorence7395
    @manjeriflorence7395 Před 2 lety

    Thank u so much ma...u bless me.

  • @joyneema1763
    @joyneema1763 Před rokem

    I love your wisdom

  • @everydaylifebyrozy6174
    @everydaylifebyrozy6174 Před 2 lety +8

    You are such a blessing. its good that you talk about the know it all generation.
    Not being accountable to someone who can talk to you one on one and you answer to them
    Not following processes like counseling
    Having mentors
    Starting with the wrong foundation..
    our parents don't know what we know
    I am blessed from Nairobi Kenya.

  • @dareveronicadamilola6942

    Wow. God bless you ma

  • @eniolaadeeko9727
    @eniolaadeeko9727 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you, mama! Accountability is a game-changer!

  • @kakyolillian2310
    @kakyolillian2310 Před 2 lety +4

    Am in love with this message ❤️❤️❤️God bless you pastor 🙏

  • @marycynthiaofficialtv9641

    Pst M preaching with 🔥🔥

  • @matshidisonkhabu1291
    @matshidisonkhabu1291 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow this message I really needed it. Thank you Pastor Ma ❤‍🔥

  • @ChristiansResponse
    @ChristiansResponse Před 2 lety

    POWERFUL

  • @irenenakungu2307
    @irenenakungu2307 Před 10 měsíci

    Amazing and timely words of wisdom 👍

  • @jessicanwoke3575
    @jessicanwoke3575 Před 2 lety +2

    I love you MA

  • @elizabethedeh9899
    @elizabethedeh9899 Před 2 lety

    God bless you and prosper your ministry ma

  • @graceoreoluwaogunsola7597

    God bless you Pastor Mildred. May you never lose your wonder in Jesus name

  • @emmanuelagbafor2027
    @emmanuelagbafor2027 Před 2 lety +2

    I have been blessed with this message
    God bless you ma

  • @amarachibenny
    @amarachibenny Před 2 lety +2

    I love you ma'am 🤗

  • @BakeInngh
    @BakeInngh Před rokem

    Blessings always🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @elizabethedeh9899
    @elizabethedeh9899 Před 2 lety

    I know better now, every good marriage come from the Lord... thanks ma

  • @Kingdom_masterpiece
    @Kingdom_masterpiece Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much Mama☺️☺️☺️☺️

  • @increasechukwubueze769

    Nice one ma

  • @Dhammilicious
    @Dhammilicious Před 2 lety +8

    Covenant and COMMITMENT.Thank you for this, Ma.

  • @ifeomachukwuyenum5848
    @ifeomachukwuyenum5848 Před 2 lety +5

    Oh...! I hope to discern God's voice just as Pst. Mildred.
    Ermm...that aside, who's Pastor M's hair plug? Really cute.

  • @fonnies176
    @fonnies176 Před 2 lety +2

    Makes so much sense. What does God want from the marriage? Marriage doesn't change us. The character we have outside is what we take inside. Thank you Ma. I was so blessed.

  • @emiatoragatha5315
    @emiatoragatha5315 Před 2 lety +1

    I love you ma

  • @Fundyzwane
    @Fundyzwane Před 2 lety

    Wow...

  • @chiamakaezekiel2178
    @chiamakaezekiel2178 Před 2 lety +2

    Thanks a lot ma, you're really a blessing to our generation

  • @MmasomNdefo
    @MmasomNdefo Před 2 lety +7

    I'm now in love with the message translation and TPT because of you ma

  • @stephennganga6015
    @stephennganga6015 Před 2 lety

    Amen

  • @phindileforbeskhumalo2571

    Men always choose themselves 💯.

  • @ateyortessy8092
    @ateyortessy8092 Před rokem

    It ❤

  • @shilarida3646
    @shilarida3646 Před 2 lety

    Lot's of love from me to you. God bless your testimonies, experience,insights. Thank you. From Kenya

  • @andreacamillembenoun3606

    I can listen to you everyday all day ma! ❤. God sent you are ! May I know The Holy Spirit and the Word as much as you do and more for God’s glory!❤

  • @naza_osuji
    @naza_osuji Před 2 lety +3

    The woman at 19:18 has seen the thing PM was taking about 😆😆

  • @favourlight5587
    @favourlight5587 Před 2 lety

    Powerful message. Ma please how can someone have a personal conversation with you?

  • @hakayi9130
    @hakayi9130 Před 2 lety

    Pastor M you? ❤️❤️

  • @gloriaedih5898
    @gloriaedih5898 Před 2 lety

    I think I need to talk to this woman personally.

  • @olaoluwaokewole1615
    @olaoluwaokewole1615 Před 2 lety +1

    .....If that third man, the third cord in the 3-fold cord; the sweet Holy Spirit Himself; "if" He is in that marraige!!

  • @janetomoera7588
    @janetomoera7588 Před 2 lety

    God bless you

  • @olaoluwaokewole1615
    @olaoluwaokewole1615 Před 2 lety +2

    If the Holy Spirit becomes very real to us, our lives will change!! FACT!! Many people are faking it in church Ma!!

  • @miracleokenwa4906
    @miracleokenwa4906 Před 2 lety +1

    i love you mama M

  • @MrSironide
    @MrSironide Před rokem

    "Me wey don put my hand for cross" 😂😂😂😂😂. I don somersault for floor 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @eniolaadeeko9727
    @eniolaadeeko9727 Před 2 lety +1

    Marriage is consistently about Jesus!
    You can't be done with your marriage unless the Holy Spirit is done!
    You don't do covenant by feelings; you do covenant by committment!

  • @kakyolillian2310
    @kakyolillian2310 Před 2 lety

    😂😂😂😂😂😂 Oh gosh! Point noted

  • @chinedusamuel9222
    @chinedusamuel9222 Před 2 lety

    Pls how can I locate your place of worship. I'm in abuja thanks

  • @faithbishop1444
    @faithbishop1444 Před rokem

    Pastor K did not let her be great😂😂😂😂

  • @favourose9611
    @favourose9611 Před 2 lety +3

    At what point should you start going for counsel? Is it only when you have decided to marry the person that u go for counselling? Can one go for counselling even when still in the decision making stage?

    • @busolaolaitan1228
      @busolaolaitan1228 Před 2 lety +8

      Ok. Permit me to lend my voice here and I'll start from the last question.
      3. Pls don't go for marriage counselling during the decision stage. It's not called dating counselling for a reason.
      2. You go for MC when you have made up your mind to marry the person. Imagine how you'll look to your pastors when you're a student in every MC class🤨
      1. From my experience, MC was finished 2 weeks before my wedding day. I've been married 23 years now, and everything I learnt then is still useful.
      Hope I've helped a bit. May God bless your decision making.

    • @Toytatu
      @Toytatu Před 2 lety +1

      @@busolaolaitan1228 thanks, any quick marriage tips?

    • @busolaolaitan1228
      @busolaolaitan1228 Před 2 lety

      @@Toytatu 😆 depends on what stage of the game you are. Are you married? Dating? Waiting?

    • @emasko8
      @emasko8 Před 2 lety +4

      I think it does not hurt to seek counseling when you are deciding to get into courtship. I believe that’s part of mentorship. You can let your mentor know there’s someone who has proposed to you and, of course you are yet to give them a response, just for you to hear what your mentor will say to help you with the decision. Some heartbreaks can be avoided if such route is followed. Having a mentor, and really opening up to that mentor about almost everything going on with you really helps I tell you.

    • @Toytatu
      @Toytatu Před 2 lety

      @@busolaolaitan1228 waiting, & single mom..😅

  • @affiann
    @affiann Před 2 lety

    Some pastors counsel for their selfish desire

  • @francesmbewe8457
    @francesmbewe8457 Před 2 lety +5

    "If you are single and fornicating now, you are an adultery trainee" 😂😂😂

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  • @joyneema1763
    @joyneema1763 Před rokem

    I love your wisdom

  • @adebisiadeola90
    @adebisiadeola90 Před 2 lety

    I love you ma

  • @everlynemwashegu8389
    @everlynemwashegu8389 Před 2 lety

    Amen