MANAGING YOUR EMOTIONS | E Motions | Pastor mildred kingsley-okonkwo
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- God has given us the tools to manage our emotions. But one of the greatest enemies to managing our emotions is EXCUSES. "That is the way I am"
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She said when you keep someone in prison, you’re also in prison because you have to keep watching over the person. The difference is just the other side of the bar you’re. Forgiveness sets you free and gives you peace. Thanks ma
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Inspiring, fnx ma.
It was my fav part am touched
In short I am saved 👏👏👏👏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
True that
One of the reasons I love Pastor M so much is how real she is about her struggles. It really encourages me and gives me hope that with consistent partnership with God, I can improve and become a better version of myself. Thank you so much ma for being a huge blessing ♥
Literally crying right now. I have never been this angry in my life. And i have just stumbled over this message. This message is for me 😭😭 God help me
Sending love ❤
God help you. Amen
One thing I love about this woman of God is that she is real; she has experienced the things she preaches about; she knows the pain; she knows how difficult it is but she says: with the love and word of God we can conquer all those hurtful emotions. That is what real Christianity is all about. Thank you ma and may God continue to use you.🙏♥️
I was here planning revenge on someone when I started watching this video, I let it all go. God bless you ma
God bless you for letting go. Revenge is only to God.
May the Lord heal your pain and compensate you ten times.
Roman’s 12:17
Never hold a grudge but plan your life around the noblest ways to favor instead.
Discover the beauty in everyone!
God bless you indeed🙏🏿❤
Don’t let people turn you to evil because of the evil they’re
Amen
"If things are bad,God is the only reason why they are not worse!"
Thank you God!
Triggers are caused by unhealed emotions mostly Childhood wounds...once we HEAL and involve God in it it helps a lot. I have been there, a melancholy too and still work in progress I thank God for compassion
Thank you for saying this. Been there too and am also a MelPlehg.
Make Sure to Heal every Kind of Trauma.
The Word of God must be stronger than what you feel 18:46
Finaly i found somebody who's reactions and thought patterns are like me. Thank you woman of God.
I truly found myself in her as well and her experiences have just given me divine directions on how to pray for myself and I thank God for her life and testimony.
Me too... Similar in demeanor and thought process...
Kai, this is real Christianity with out pretence or just theory . God bless you. I have been blessed with your teaching.
Hehehe. Am a victim too
I knowwww me too!!
I just found a new mentor. I am grateful for the gift of YOU. Thank you for being a blessing
Me too
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Me 4 oo
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This woman is great
The Word of God must be stronger than what you feel
Mbu smoke is coming. Ps. Mildred will finish me 1 day with laughter.
To see a woman of God so true to the weaknesses and fragility of the flesh 😧😧😧 it is not weakness that is being exposed but indeed the great abundance of Gods grace. It’s not by might not power but by the Spirit. Thank you woman of God for preaching with your own self as the central point we need more of this in the body of Christ. To often leaders paint themselves in such perfection that it makes those seeking God feel like less than or unqualified. God bless you and your ministry. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I can't stop listening to Pastor Mildred, honestly. Her message is always simple and clear.
If not for Christ a lot of people will have been dead by now, I thank God for His spirit.
The Word of God must be stronger than your feelings/emotions... than anger
I find it hard to forgive but with ur teaching am beginning to forgive wholeheartedly😭
This is the second time I am listening to this sermon, I don’t know if I am doing the right thing but one thing I know is that this precious sermon is what I needed right now.😊😊😊
Hi Isioma, you can tell whether you doing what is right or wrong. You see the Bible is there to direct our footsteps as we work in this gloomy dark world. It is a light on the part of those who believe.
Read it to be wise, believe it to be safe, and practice it to be holy. It contains light to direct you, food to support you, and comfort to cheer you. As you read you pray and meditate on it.
And you will begin to bear the fruit of the Spirit.
Galatians 5:22-24
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things, there is no law. Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.
Same here
I never knew I haven’t forgiven my father who died 8 years ago but thanks to the wisdom of pst mildred I’ve free myself and him from the prison we were both 😇
Thankful to God Almighty
"The more you pray for those that have offended you.The more your spirit will strengthen and the flesh will weaken".I want this for myself 🤲
The more you fulfil the desire of the spirit. For as many that are led by the spirit these are the sons of God.
This is the best ever Life-Saver Message😖😖😔😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏.. I have ever listened to!💯💯🙌.
Holy Spirit🙇😢 I surrender completely and totally to You and Your Ways and Wills🙏, Please help me to be A good Representative of Christ...in my everyday life with You in Jesus name. Amen!!!🙏😭
Hi SOPHY, I also had suffered or still suffering from it. But I am on my way to overcoming it. How? Practically applying the word of God daily and through prayer.
Remember, it is the spirit that quickens the flesh the flesh profited nothing.
I watch most of your sermons here but this one right here makes my spirit uncomfortable. There’s a lady who’s offended me which I thought I’d forgiven but upon hearing this word, I’m not really sure I’ve forgiven that person. I pray the Holy Spirit will keep working in me and grant me that strength and grace to forgive her. God bless you so much for this word pastor🙏🏻🙏🏻
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On behalf of Pst M I forgive you
Smh 😏
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I have a lot against my ex to the extend praying evil for him but have forgiven him
Abeg leggo.. focus on the bigger deals ahead
29:35... 'your flesh will become quieter and the spirit strong' Thank You Lord
Now I understand the strange works of the holy spirit. This message came just when I am building excuses for unforgiveness. Thank you Pastor M, God has sent you to give me this message even though it has been in existence since February 2020. God, I give you the glory and praise for showing me a way out.
This was a hard message for me! Forgiveness is indeed the highest form of faith. I have alot of learning & growing up to do in this subject matter. Thank you for this wonderful teaching Pastor M- very insightful.
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And this point if saying I have forgiven but I will never forget seriously woman of God you just talked with my life....
I owez move around with a bleeding heart.....
This is really insightful
This hit me hard n broke me it broke me . Thank you JESUS. Thank u ma. I pray the holyspirit helps me thru this journey in JESUS NAME AMEN
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I remember early last year where I use to stay, my landlord offended me so badly that I made up my mind that I will never forgive him at all, But everything changed as I heard a similar message as this, which affected my life. So I made practical steps to forgive myself first of all and settled the case in my mind; this is where most battles are won or lost, THE MIND.
The next thing I did was to start praying for him I.e. my landlord (note: praying for him not against him), though it was painful to me sha..! But I continued to pray, and gradually it started to die down and now my heart is free from every grudge I had against him.
Why I'm I saying all these? It is through a practical step that we overcome unforgivingness.
I cried watching this because I can understand everything Pastor he said. But the Holy Spirit keeps reminding me that I am a love being and I have to love people the way He ha loved me. That is what is keeping me going. I trust this process God is taking me through.
Love is your greatest weapon. When you fight with love, God will fight for you!!!
It's very hard... May God help us... Pastor M is so real, unlike a lot of children of God who always wanna make us feel like the Lord is not with us. GOD BLESS YOU MA FOR THIS MESSAGE. I teared up while watching this and I just had to forgive. A very hard thing to do by the way😢
Girrrrrl.....she is super real.
I love the Sincerity of this Woman of God
Forgiveness is a choice, but forgetting is not.. the difference is how you react in remembering.. that will determine if you have truly (forgiven). You will remember when you see the offender, but you will not feel offended
Forgiveness brings freedom. You become a mistery.
Today I had a great day since I found you suddenly in this site pastor midled kingsley, am in real bad side with ma husband and I cry with this darkness in a month now....but since the time I found u in today you open my heart and I feel free fast than I never expected
Thank you so much, I can't explain....please be blessed forever🙏
God is so amazing! See a person who struggled with unforgiveness now teaching about overcoming it. Helping others come out of it. Forgiveness is really faith and we are truly comforted by the comfort we have received. Thanks for being a blessing ma!
Hmmmmm.
God help me.
I have listened to this sermon for over 100times… My daily pills😍
This was too real...Thank you so much for being 100% authentic. Thank you. You remind me of Joyce Meyer. More Grace!
True
😭😭😭😭😭 God draw here tonight, omg, I don’t even know what to say. But all i can say is God please forgive me and give me the grace to let it go😭😭. Thank you ma for this message, more grace in Jesus name, your anointing will never dry in Jesus name. Amen 🙏
Hi Patience, I also had suffered or still suffering from it. But I am on my way to overcoming it. How? Practically applying the word of God daily and through prayer.
Remember, it is the spirit that quickens the flesh profited nothing.
Hi patience, I am happy to see this reply here, I want you to know that there are people that were worse than you, but they have changed. I want to show you some of the ways that you can forgive someone that easily. You may think you have forgiven the person, but you were just saying it with your mouth. I want to show you the easier way to forgive, and the method will help you. this are some of the ways that will help you forgive:
1. Go to your bible app, type the word or search the bible ord anger. When you do that, all the bible passage that talks about anger in the bible will be highlighted. Take a pen, and note book, and study those passages, and take notes, purse at a certain point that really touch you, and pray with that passage. When you see another point that touch you, purse and pray with it, do like that till you finish all those passages. This other method, will help you fight the anger. It will help you resist or fight anger in and our life a little.
2. The word of God is the sword of the spirit. Make sure you read your bible daily, don't stop even in a day. As you continue reading or studying your bible, you can start from new testament first. As you continue, the word of God will wash you, and you will look at yourself and couldn't recognize yourself again. You will ask yourself, is this me? You will realize that it is not only anger that will leave, so many other things will leave.
3. When ever you try to forgive someone, and you couldn't, just tell God father please forgive this person. I know it will be hard,but pray it, also pray for God to bless the person. Whenever the hatred for the person comes, pray for God to bless the person. You will realize one day that you start liking the person. The first day I prayed for God to forgive the person that offended me, I was crying. It was had, but I forced myself to do it, and in the process, God gave me a new song, and also spoke to me. If you follow this steps, you will thank me tomorrow. There are many testimonies from this, especially the one of reading your bible, and praying for the person, and you can't be an exception. If you have questions, write me.
idiwatstanley(AT)gmail(DOT)com
If things are bad God is the only reason they are not worse
Omg I wished I could sit under her I love how real she is but yet has a heart for God to teach us and help us grow listening from Chicago
I wish I can like, and love this video 1000times
Oh my God, ma'am you are talking to me oooo
I couldn't if laugh even when you were funny bcos I see myself in all you have said and mine is worst bcos it's over little things. Anger and I pray God have mercy on me 😭😭😭
"God can never give you something that you can't handle".😊
The Word of God must be Stronger than how you feel...
God expects you not to be led by your feelings but to manage them
She is real,not as faking,her words are natural not movie preaching
I literally cried. It's hard but I'm willing to submit to God's word concerning forgiveness.
Edit: I've yet to understand why it is that some people put a '👎' on these videos like... What on God's good earth is wrong with you???
Forgive them for they know not what they do
Hi ESTADASTAR, I also had suffered or still suffering from it. But I am on my way to overcoming it. How? Practically applying the word of God daily and through prayer.
Remember, it is the spirit that quickens the flesh the flesh profited nothing.
Through the application of the word of God, the s made flesh in us and we live not to fulfil the desires of the flesh but rather the desire of the spirit of God.
Hi Estadastar , I am happy to see this reply here, I want you to know that there are people that were worse than you, but they have changed. I want to show you some of the ways that you can forgive someone that easily. You may think you have forgiven the person, but you were just saying it with your mouth. I want to show you the easier way to forgive, and the method will help you. this are some of the ways that will help you forgive:
1. Go to your bible app, type the word or search the bible ord anger. When you do that, all the bible passage that talks about anger in the bible will be highlighted. Take a pen, and note book, and study those passages, and take notes, purse at a certain point that really touch you, and pray with that passage. When you see another point that touch you, purse and pray with it, do like that till you finish all those passages. This other method, will help you fight the anger. It will help you resist or fight anger in and our life a little.
2. The word of God is the sword of the spirit. Make sure you read your bible daily, don't stop even in a day. As you continue reading or studying your bible, you can start from new testament first. As you continue, the word of God will wash you, and you will look at yourself and couldn't recognize yourself again. You will ask yourself, is this me? You will realize that it is not only anger that will leave, so many other things will leave.
3. When ever you try to forgive someone, and you couldn't, just tell God father please forgive this person. I know it will be hard,but pray it, also pray for God to bless the person. Whenever the hatred for the person comes, pray for God to bless the person. You will realize one day that you start liking the person. The first day I prayed for God to forgive the person that offended me, I was crying. It was had, but I forced myself to do it, and in the process, God gave me a new song, and also spoke to me. If you follow this steps, you will thank me tomorrow. There are many testimonies from this, especially the one of reading your bible, and praying for the person, and you can't be an exception. If you have questions, write me.
idiwatstanley(AT)gmail(DOT)com
Is in why haven't I come across this woman and her husband since? My God!!! They such a blessing to me since I came across them online. God bless you both for saying yes to the Lord.
They are a great blessing to this generation
I'm grateful! - you know there's one thing I love about you is " kingdom "
You align the difference between the world and the kingdom.
I have been seeing this video for a while now.. and I just scroll pass it... but today I got hurt deeply.. and i wanted to just listen to some worship.. and this video came up again.. I decided to watch it.. its was exactly what I needed to hear at this point.. am so bless and God bless you..
One thing I love about this pastor is that she keeps it real. She doesn’t pretend like she’s inhuman because she walks with the lord. Some may judge, even myself I thought what kind of pastor is this. At the end, the relatability factor is what makes the difference and I’m so glad to have come across this message today. I am one of those that say “it’s okay” and think I’ve forgiven and but deep down i consider that person dead to me. Truly a challenge to try and live in the likeness of Christ, but everyday we have to try.
God doesn’t give you what he knows you cannot handle and don’t let people change who you are Florence.❤
I don't know how I came here but I am glad i am here. I bless by your message. I am trying to manage my emotions. I just blocked my fiance on every social media because of anger. I came to CZcams to listen to music and i saw this. Thanks for blessing me
God be with you and envelop you with mighty love, peace and strenght. Amen. Peace be with you, sister
Abigail Adu Amen 🙏! Thanks so much for your kind words
The one you help the most is always the one who hurt u the most.😔😔
Very true
Pastor Mildred, God Bless you richly for this message, you're so so real and so Truthful. The you I knew back then in the University is totally different from the you am seeing now. Everytime I listen to your message I always learn something New. I thought I've got it all with the teachings on forgiveness, am one of those people that forgives easily but you took me thru a different dimension on this teaching. I pray God keeps increasing you in his Wisdom and Knowledge, you're a Blessing to Pastor K, the church of God and to this Generation. God Bless you Richly ma.
The word of God must be stronger than what you feel. Thank you so much mama Mildred. You are truly a woman of God.
The only reason you think you don't have what to thank God for is because you've not taken time to count your blessings
This woman of God is very real. She's talking about her journey and it helps encourage us that we can get there too.
I thought I have been the only one in this unforgiveness act, I dont fight but I meditate on offense and get justification for myself but thank God for Holy Spirit. Finally God gave me a mentor Pastor Mildred I love you bcos you're real and God sent you to me personal. I can't wait to meet you in person
...The more your flesh will be weakened 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Forgiveness is indeed a challenge but may God give us the grace as humans to practice such quality 🙏
This msg is an answer to what I'm going through.God bless you ma'am.the weight is lifted by His word.
I like the part when she says " the day that will pain you the most probably 10 years from now, you Wil enter my trap and I Wil be balance and waiting for u" it makes me laugh loud 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I almost choked with laughter listening to this message. And i believe it will change me, because am melancholy in nature. Weldon Pastor Mildred 🥰
You were speaking to me . I am very melancholic. Koraaaaaaa we are alike fully
I like your sermon 😀😀especially the part you said Satan will give you supportive words(completely,at all and fast😀😀😀)
I struggle with forgiveness because I'm so hot tempered. Thanks to God for His grace. I have been blessed by this message greatly.
God bless you servant of God.
Me too but we have to pray for God to help us with this temper
@@Prophetessdaejaligula Hi Mrs Daeja, you know, sometimes you think you have forgiven, but it is still in your heart. Well, the way out is for you to pray to God to forgive the person that offend you. You may say I have forgiven, but it is still in your heart. Just pray to God to forgive them, and be sincere. I know it may be hard. I remember the day I asked God to forgive someone that has been in my heart for months, I cried, I couldn't really hold back the tears. But from that day, my healing began, and I realize that after some days, I was free with them, I didn't have anything against them anymore. For the case of being hot tempered, the first thing to do is to go to your bible app, search for anger, every place that anger is mentioned in the bible will show there put your phone in flight mode, take a pen and a book, study and write down notes. When you see a place that touch you, purse, pray with it, and asked God to help you according to what the place says. After that, continue studying untill you finish or had studied all the portion of that bible that talked about anger. When ever you are angry, take a deep breath, don't speak for 5 seconds take a deep breath. Then after that respond. For more or for questions you might want to ask, write me. idiwatstanley(AT)gmail(DOT)com
God doesn’t give you something he thinks you can’t handle
I used to be so angry so I understand...thank you for this message. Anger shuts you down completely and you lose control, hence the reason we live by the knowledge of God's word instead of our emotions
I come from a Christian background and I was trained to let go of things, as the scripture says if someone slaps you on one cheek, turn the other cheek. So most of the times I always feel weak, feel like I am not sensitive and I am not normal. And I'm dealing with low self-esteem and self criticism, to the point that I blame myself and my background and then I begin to doubt, sometimes I feel like expressing my anger and other emotions will help me to feel more human. It's been really tough.
I can relate with what you wrote. I have been learning gradually to recognise and acknowledge my self worth while recognising I need to grow for me. I am not emotional person and tend to think everyone is better. I am gradually growing with the HolySpirit recognizing that I cannot do it on my own. I have cried to God in prayers because I did not know what to do at some points in the past.
It may not be the easiest journey but Walk with God and He would make it possible.
Am blessed by this word...frm 🇿🇲Zambia
I've not regretted listening to you Woman of God. May God bless you for every single word that was spoken through you to me.
Anger has been a challenge to me. I have tried to fight it with God's grace, but today u have taught me to manage it in Jesus Christ might name.
Hi Babirye, I also had suffered or still suffering from it. But I am on my way to overcoming it. How? By Practically applying the word of God daily and through prayer.
Remember, it is the spirit that quicken the flesh the flesh profited nothing.
@@sundayjonah9900 Thank you dear
Hi Babirye Annette, I am happy to see this reply here, I want you to know that there are people that were worse than you, but they have changed. I want to show you some of the ways that you can forgive someone that easily. You may think you have forgiven the person, but you were just saying it with your mouth. I want to show you the easier way to forgive, and the method will help you. this are some of the ways that will help you forgive:
1. Go to your bible app, type the word or search the bible ord anger. When you do that, all the bible passage that talks about anger in the bible will be highlighted. Take a pen, and note book, and study those passages, and take notes, purse at a certain point that really touch you, and pray with that passage. When you see another point that touch you, purse and pray with it, do like that till you finish all those passages. This other method, will help you fight the anger. It will help you resist or fight anger in and our life a little.
2. The word of God is the sword of the spirit. Make sure you read your bible daily, don't stop even in a day. As you continue reading or studying your bible, you can start from new testament first. As you continue, the word of God will wash you, and you will look at yourself and couldn't recognize yourself again. You will ask yourself, is this me? You will realize that it is not only anger that will leave, so many other things will leave.
3. When ever you try to forgive someone, and you couldn't, just tell God father please forgive this person. I know it will be hard,but pray it, also pray for God to bless the person. Whenever the hatred for the person comes, pray for God to bless the person. You will realize one day that you start liking the person. The first day I prayed for God to forgive the person that offended me, I was crying. It was had, but I forced myself to do it, and in the process, God gave me a new song, and also spoke to me. If you follow this steps, you will thank me tomorrow. There are many testimonies from this, especially the one of reading your bible, and praying for the person, and you can't be an exception. If you have questions, write me.
idiwatstanley(AT)gmail(DOT)com
Sacrificial praises is necessary when things are going wrong.. it’s our best weapon 🙏🙌
The word of God must be stronger than your emotions.. Hallelujah..☺️🥰
Am absolutely blessed by this message,Thank you Jesus,Thank you PM🙏❤️
You are so real with the Word of God.... In Human and in the Holy Spirit... God bless you abundantly.
This is a very hard truth and educative....may God grant us the to live a holy and rightous life cos I don't want to miss heaven.
Those fulani that kill alsonwont go unpunished if they like let them bow down 100 times
Thank you Ps. Mildred for this Powerful massage
Thank you pastor and thank u holy spirit, help me to fight with love this time
The word of God must be stronger than what you feel. So true ma'am. Haleluyah.
I love you ma'am 😊 you're so real
This is so real! Thanks and thumbs up, Pastors... I'm hardly a fan of non-Catholic preaching, but you've spoken loads of realistic truth. Keep it up!
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Wow......thank you for this teaching woman of God. I needed this massage 💆♂️ at this time. Lol from Uganda
I am a Catholic too. But, this is inspiring
The sense of calmness I have watching this 😌
Mama, more grace
I enjoyed this teaching ❤
Thank you Pastor M. I love you Ma.
My life is changed..... Glory to God
Have fall in love with this Woman of God, the teaching are very powerful and so touching. There's no day I don't listen to her teaches. Oh God lift your servant above this level more and more IJN. I am well loaded with her teaches and am bless.
Joyce Meyer of Nigeria! I love this!
Hey sis! Just discovered Pastor M...such a blessing. 😇🙏🏾
To compare her with Joyce Meyer is an understatement, this Woman of God is just on her own rank.
@@ginacorneille3935 hey sis!!! Omgosh.
@@yolisamrso9827 I respect your opinion as well! But I believe I was gravitating towards the rawness they both bring to the table of sermons and practicality.
This message is gold.
Thank you women of God I didn't know you a friend of mine told me about you and I lesson your preaching and I was blessed . Right now my husband left me it's been 2 years now life was difficult , please women of God pray for me , your teaching help me to know who I am ❤❤I'm from South Africa I'm Thandeka
this message is so timely and accurate. we need to forgive and move on. Thank you Pastor Mildred. it is always refreshing listening to your messages
God bless you ma❤️❤️❤️❤️
I like this sermon.i want to hear more about how you overcame the spirit if anger (or anger that leads to sin)...as you were talking i just saw how similar we are🤣🤣only that i haven't slapped or slammed someone onto a car.but i will bottle up,spark plot revenge(cool down) etc. Thank God for jesus...love conquers all
Hi uch ok, I am happy to see this reply here, I want you to know that there are people that were worse than you, but they have changed. I want to show you some of the ways that you can forgive someone that easily. You may think you have forgiven the person, but you were just saying it with your mouth. I want to show you the easier way to forgive, and the method will help you. this are some of the ways that will help you forgive:
1. Go to your bible app, type the word or search the bible ord anger. When you do that, all the bible passage that talks about anger in the bible will be highlighted. Take a pen, and note book, and study those passages, and take notes, purse at a certain point that really touch you, and pray with that passage. When you see another point that touch you, purse and pray with it, do like that till you finish all those passages. This other method, will help you fight the anger. It will help you resist or fight anger in and our life a little.
2. The word of God is the sword of the spirit. Make sure you read your bible daily, don't stop even in a day. As you continue reading or studying your bible, you can start from new testament first. As you continue, the word of God will wash you, and you will look at yourself and couldn't recognize yourself again. You will ask yourself, is this me? You will realize that it is not only anger that will leave, so many other things will leave.
3. When ever you try to forgive someone, and you couldn't, just tell God father please forgive this person. I know it will be hard,but pray it, also pray for God to bless the person. Whenever the hatred for the person comes, pray for God to bless the person. You will realize one day that you start liking the person. The first day I prayed for God to forgive the person that offended me, I was crying. It was had, but I forced myself to do it, and in the process, God gave me a new song, and also spoke to me. If you follow this steps, you will thank me tomorrow. There are many testimonies from this, especially the one of reading your bible, and praying for the person, and you can't be an exception. If you have questions, write me.
idiwatstanley(AT)gmail(DOT)com
Love is the greatest weapon. When you fight with love always God always fight for you
The Bible states that you should feed your enemies with a long spoon.. in other words, be wise and forgiving, but leave vengeance to him..,
God doesn't give you something that He doesn't trust you can handle...
Learn to forgive people irrespective of what they have done...God bless you ma