What It Takes To Make A Relationship Work | Love Is Not Enough | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he teaches "What It Take To Make A Relationship Work | Love Is Not Enough"
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Komentáře • 327

  • @mariageorge9304
    @mariageorge9304 Před 6 měsíci +364

    Pastor Kingsley okonkwo is underrated honestly, we need to celebrate him. We're blessed to have you in this Generation.

  • @feliciajackson7192
    @feliciajackson7192 Před 3 měsíci +26

    “Don’t use kindness as a strategy, it must be your lifestyle “ I got this 👍

  • @IdowuObadeyi
    @IdowuObadeyi Před 6 měsíci +124

    Can't count how many times I literally LAUGHED OUT LOUD, listening to this 😂. Afgha...Afghanistan 😂😂😂. Thanks MoG... 6yrs married and getting better each day together.. God bless you sir

    • @violettachikungu7975
      @violettachikungu7975 Před 5 měsíci +4

      This man is something else

    • @agnesamitamasinde
      @agnesamitamasinde Před 5 měsíci +5

      I heard to repeat the Afghanistan part,afghan afghan 😂😂😂😂that can be a hit😂😅. I love his teachings and the wife, started listening even before I got married and they really shaped me.

    • @akinyemitosin6247
      @akinyemitosin6247 Před 5 měsíci +1

      He is an epitome of wisdom.

    • @ednaoyegunle5428
      @ednaoyegunle5428 Před 5 měsíci

      @@akinyemitosin6247 u

    • @miriamkiarie8190
      @miriamkiarie8190 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Afgha has been playing in my head the whole day🤣🤣🤣

  • @lydiayohanna5732
    @lydiayohanna5732 Před 5 měsíci +27

    Kindness is not a strategy but kindness is a Lifestyle

  • @woleolugbenle
    @woleolugbenle Před 5 měsíci +33

    Gather here if you are learning relationship is not what the world and culture says but what God determined before time and we will all eat fruits we sow. As for me and my future house, we will serve the lord. Also gather here for potential match :)

    • @tosin.o
      @tosin.o Před 5 měsíci +1

      On point human being. Onward Christian soldier...

    • @adakeke3639
      @adakeke3639 Před 4 měsíci

      True

  • @tungwapemiriam3383
    @tungwapemiriam3383 Před 4 měsíci +31

    As powerful as fire is, if it has nothing to burn, it goes out. 🔥🔥🔥 Thank you pastor Kingsley for this word.👌🏻

  • @jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518
    @jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518 Před 6 měsíci +66

    You can surely dance on your wedding day with the knowledge that the wars of marriage will be faced as a TEAM, not ALONE with ENDLESS COUNSELLING together, not only for 6mths before wedding day.
    This guy and his wife, ehn... so blessed to have the WEALTH OF KNOWLEDGE APPLIED by themselves as a testament in these streets of today's generation's relationships!!!🤔
    The Shoe Analogy is perfect:
    Focus on the COMFORT and QUALITY of the shoe you will wear for a lifetime as it is MORE IMPORTANT than LOOKS/BEAUTY.
    #OvercomeYourFeelings💥 #LoveIsNotEnough 💯

  • @macDonalduzor
    @macDonalduzor Před 6 měsíci +45

    If you will succeed in relationship and marriage, you must learn to go beyond your feelings to do what is right.❤❤❤

  • @edokpaigbevictory3622
    @edokpaigbevictory3622 Před 5 měsíci +23

    Am coming back next year wt my hubby to drop a comment….

  • @lujosocakes8834
    @lujosocakes8834 Před 10 dny +1

    I wish my husband will listen to this God

  • @esthernjuguna6713
    @esthernjuguna6713 Před 6 měsíci +32

    Kindness is a "LIFESTYLE" not a strategy 👍🏼👌🏼.

  • @jeremiahdorcaschidimma3036
    @jeremiahdorcaschidimma3036 Před 5 měsíci +31

    I can't get tired of listening to pastor k...I was privileged to serve in this program last month

  • @JuststartMedia1
    @JuststartMedia1 Před 6 měsíci +35

    Love is never what will keep you in a marriage. Submission to God and compatibility with your spouse is what keeps your marriage guaranteed. I wish a happy married life to everyone, in Jesus name. Amen🙏❤

  • @prospero9955
    @prospero9955 Před měsícem +2

    In fact, I feel like sharing all his messages on marriage to the entire world for everyone to have wisdom. He's indeed rich in this. He should be awarded globally about marriage talks.

  • @MaryFlavour-eb6ly
    @MaryFlavour-eb6ly Před měsícem +3

    This message is everything a single needs to listen before getting married. Thank you pastors k and M 👏👏👏👏.

  • @esthernjuguna6713
    @esthernjuguna6713 Před 6 měsíci +17

    Interpretate Scripture with Scripture not with "CULTURE".....👌🏼💯.

    • @esthernjuguna6713
      @esthernjuguna6713 Před 23 dny

      @@Nosaomoaghe ...... Excuse me Sir!!!! I am just quoting what Pastor K said as a headline and or most important take away for myself and anyone else who agrees with this comment. This is Christian content there is no need to disparage my comment.....if you feel it is not important to you just move along, with the utmost respect. Thank you 🙏🏼.

  • @favouretie1585
    @favouretie1585 Před 5 měsíci +11

    I heard of a story of a man who said God told him to go and marry another wife. He truly felt and understood it to be another marriage to another woman. He actually did but it backfired on him. Because later God told him on the sick bed. He did not mean another woman. But to build another church /branch. And he began asking God for mercy. Thing is that, it's one thing for God to speak it's another for us to really understand what exactly He means. And you can't understand it by mere human thinking. But go to God and ask , verify "what exactly do you mean by this God" and until you get clarity, don't act out anything.
    Because sometimes, God speaks in parables and it's every where in scriptures. So it's key to go back to God to verify fro Him. Sometimes, if you do not ask Him, He may not tell you anything and you decide to act out of your own will or poor understanding you will most likely miss. It is clear in Proverbs 3:5-7....... Do not lean on your OWN understanding but in ALL , not some of your ways, but in ALL YOUR WAYS ACKNOWLEDGE ME (GOD) THEN, He will direct you .

  • @blossomzagga941
    @blossomzagga941 Před 6 měsíci +16

    GOD WILL TRULY BLESS YOU PASTOR K AND PASTOR M. YOUR LABOUR FOR THIS KINGDOM WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN

  • @chrischuks7810
    @chrischuks7810 Před 5 měsíci +11

    Love is all-encompassing. Love is a set of all good and positive things. Affection is a subset of love, understanding is a subset of love, politeness is a subset of love, loyalty is a subset of love, gentleness is a subset of love, kindness is a subset of love, faithfulness is a subset of love, patience is a subset of love etc. All goodness and mercies emanates from love

    • @Realtor_Ola
      @Realtor_Ola Před 3 měsíci +2

      I was watching this program on my tv so i couldn’t comment, but i came here to tell you this comment deserves an award, it opened my eyes “LET LOVE LEAD” this “Love” you described is the kind of love that’s in the quote, you are wise, thanks for teaching.

  • @florencediya3999
    @florencediya3999 Před 5 měsíci +10

    Pastor K you are too intelligent 🧠 ! I have learned a lot from your messages , thank you soo much sir. 🙏👌👍👏💃🏿😇💕❤️.

  • @deborahbrobbey1443
    @deborahbrobbey1443 Před 3 měsíci +6

    I came here immediately after listening to your wife. The knowledge I acquired from her I knew I’ll get even more from you 😌🙏 God bless you both and thank y’all for impacting such knowledge to the generation 👏👏

  • @adesolaolalere2439
    @adesolaolalere2439 Před 16 dny

    🎉 May God continues to make you relevance in the ministry...may your anointing increase daily till eternity.More grace of God...I'm so blessed by your messages.

  • @phillipine1
    @phillipine1 Před 2 měsíci +2

    God bless you Pastor K.
    I dedicated my February to reading your books and listening to your messages. I've been soo blessed thus far 🙏.
    @Kingsley Okonkwo , you are a blessing to our generation Sir 🙏.

  • @amamaakinkuade4400
    @amamaakinkuade4400 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you pastor K . More Grace 🙏

  • @chidocleopatraspears7899
    @chidocleopatraspears7899 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you for the teaching Pst K

  • @blossomigbinigie2157
    @blossomigbinigie2157 Před 6 měsíci

    Great message! Thank you for sir

  • @chrischuks7810
    @chrischuks7810 Před 5 měsíci

    Love is a constant! In put Love in all your doing it will surely come out perfect!

  • @jollynansubuga7796
    @jollynansubuga7796 Před 5 měsíci

    May God add u more years pr kingsley.

  • @kendosventures4513
    @kendosventures4513 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Remain lifted and keep soaring high☝️ ❤️🙏❤️

  • @tomisinojo3206
    @tomisinojo3206 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Putting this message on replay 💯

  • @musondanguni3188
    @musondanguni3188 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you for this message

  • @itzpiroja6206
    @itzpiroja6206 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you pastor Kingsley

  • @mosesprecious2053
    @mosesprecious2053 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank u so much daddy

  • @9ja_girl
    @9ja_girl Před 5 měsíci

    God bless you sir and your wife too , God bless her for her support

  • @estheragwang1035
    @estheragwang1035 Před měsícem +1

    I have only watched 2 videos of pastor Kingsley so far but I must admit am not the same again
    Like seriously I feel empowered
    Imagine taking initiative to listen to his messages more often, it really makes a greater impact to one's life
    God bless this family 🙏🙏🙏

  • @rochelleclunie5726
    @rochelleclunie5726 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you Pastor

  • @Blessedking78
    @Blessedking78 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much, Pastor Kingsley

  • @joeemmanuel8587
    @joeemmanuel8587 Před 5 měsíci +6

    This message is what most young people of our generation need to watch and learn from. Rather than blaming what they shouldn't have blamed if they seeked for knowledge.

  • @celinepresh
    @celinepresh Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you 😊 sir 🙌

  • @manuchimatako9966
    @manuchimatako9966 Před 5 měsíci

    Always bless listening to you

  • @TREAZZFashionhouse
    @TREAZZFashionhouse Před 5 měsíci

    God bless u sir 🎉,more wisdom 🙏

  • @TaiwoTolulope-lv4tz
    @TaiwoTolulope-lv4tz Před 5 měsíci

    PK thank you so much sir

  • @OjayGrace
    @OjayGrace Před 4 měsíci

    Thank God for the gift of you sir🙏

  • @ibrahimswaray7459
    @ibrahimswaray7459 Před 5 měsíci

    Thanks so much for the education

  • @ChristianaIbrahim-di3li
    @ChristianaIbrahim-di3li Před 5 měsíci

    God bless you PK!!!

  • @faithonyenyionwu147
    @faithonyenyionwu147 Před 6 měsíci +1

    God bless you sir

  • @matthewjailos4713
    @matthewjailos4713 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I have been blessed

  • @david-ezagaemmanuel208
    @david-ezagaemmanuel208 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you for this message, it was indeed enlightening

  • @B_N_mw
    @B_N_mw Před 4 měsíci

    Beautiful message

  • @vivianedibo7847
    @vivianedibo7847 Před 6 měsíci +1

    So deep Sir.....I am so blessed 😊😊😊

  • @tinaumahtv5449
    @tinaumahtv5449 Před 4 měsíci

    You are man of so much wisdom

  • @eyramgobah1104
    @eyramgobah1104 Před 3 měsíci

    You are a blessing to me

  • @giftelochukwu3542
    @giftelochukwu3542 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I need grace oh Lord 🤲 to get it right and forever love 🙏

  • @julieedem8609
    @julieedem8609 Před 5 měsíci

    Thanks Sir for always impacting my life

  • @snsn7251
    @snsn7251 Před 5 měsíci

    So much wisdom. May we be successful in marriage by 1st choosing well

  • @chrischuks7810
    @chrischuks7810 Před 5 měsíci

    Hello Pastor Love is super enough!

  • @princessazuka5603
    @princessazuka5603 Před 5 měsíci

    Word!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @oluchukwuobioma1127
    @oluchukwuobioma1127 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you Sir. I am truly blest listening to you

  • @agnesamitamasinde
    @agnesamitamasinde Před 5 měsíci +6

    Wowww!! I really loved this! Thank you pastor kingsley. I started listening to him and his wife even before I got married and they really shaped me. God bless you. But the Afghanistan, Afghan,afghan part got me,had to even repeat it😅😅🤣🤣🤣I shook at my wedding too😂 for a short while

  • @olapadedamilola2020
    @olapadedamilola2020 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you Pastor Kingsley

  • @semire1111
    @semire1111 Před 4 měsíci

    ❤❤❤❤ thank you pastors

  • @ifeanyimgbenka
    @ifeanyimgbenka Před 5 měsíci

    This blessed me greatly. Thank you PK.

  • @danieljibunor2910
    @danieljibunor2910 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Pastor kingsley, you are too much!!! Great wisdom from you sir.

  • @edwardkato3713
    @edwardkato3713 Před 5 měsíci

    Pastor k, you are simply amazing sir ❤

  • @maudlyn25
    @maudlyn25 Před 6 měsíci +4

    "Two different places by force" chai, got to use this in my sessions ooo

  • @kendosventures4513
    @kendosventures4513 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Amen and Amen settled! 🙏

  • @ebunoluwabamigboye921
    @ebunoluwabamigboye921 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you, Sir.

  • @adeyemijesutola6649
    @adeyemijesutola6649 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Love is not enough.

  • @heleniwunze6495
    @heleniwunze6495 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thank you sir..

  • @Amaluv15
    @Amaluv15 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Thank you sir for this message. I have been married for 8 years and still learning.

  • @lindawereyesigha7591
    @lindawereyesigha7591 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I really love you and your wife's honesty in preaching

  • @delight_solutions
    @delight_solutions Před 6 měsíci +4

    Pastor Kingsley...I call you blessed ❤

  • @victoirek.esther2641
    @victoirek.esther2641 Před 5 měsíci

    Wow Praise God 🙌🏾 so much knowledge. Thank God for PK.

  • @paulzerina
    @paulzerina Před 5 měsíci +9

    Thank you so much Pastor K.❤
    You're really a blessing to our generation, and listening you and Pastor M has made me a better person, and I look forward to having a wonderful marriage.

  • @SuperSpecial27
    @SuperSpecial27 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thanks!

  • @priscagampyal232
    @priscagampyal232 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Pst K wounded me severally... Aaaaaahhhhh... I have seen the light. Thank you Pst K and Pst M. I love you so much

  • @abangjanesonia5898
    @abangjanesonia5898 Před 2 měsíci

    More and more grace

  • @bernicepopoola8796
    @bernicepopoola8796 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Thanks so ooooooo much pastor Kingsley, how I wish all single boys are girls can follow your pages before entering into marriage, divorce will definitely reduced to minimum. More grease to your elbow my brother. Heaven is your goal in Jesus mighty name 🙏

  • @user-mt4ld1yq4e
    @user-mt4ld1yq4e Před 5 měsíci +1

    May God continue to bless you with more wisdom pastor K

  • @queenlizzy9556
    @queenlizzy9556 Před měsícem

    The you Pastor K for this message 🙏🙌

  • @mirriamnkhatagenti287
    @mirriamnkhatagenti287 Před 6 měsíci +4

    May the good Lord bless you with more wisdom Pastor Kingsley 🙏

  • @deplacez-vousandresamuel7840
    @deplacez-vousandresamuel7840 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Great Word Pastor K. Always a blessing listening to you sir.

  • @chikaisaac1387
    @chikaisaac1387 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I love you Pastor K💖 You're my mentor Sir🙏

  • @EllaSognia
    @EllaSognia Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you Man of God

  • @oyenikeodunayo4828
    @oyenikeodunayo4828 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Thank you for this message sir. It is always a great time listening to you and pastor Mildred sir.

  • @MARGRETJOHN080
    @MARGRETJOHN080 Před 5 měsíci +3

    We thank God for the gift of pst K and pst M for this Generation.
    Thank you MOG...

  • @daisykakaseni2842
    @daisykakaseni2842 Před 5 měsíci

    you are a blessing, much love from Zimbabwe.

  • @ttfamikel791
    @ttfamikel791 Před 6 měsíci

    Awesomeness

  • @oluwadetansuccess2329
    @oluwadetansuccess2329 Před měsícem

    You are blessed sir.

  • @beckyabbey9516
    @beckyabbey9516 Před 2 měsíci

    You be man...God bkess you MOG...

  • @hannar2016
    @hannar2016 Před měsícem

    Thank you sir

  • @veraokereafor5335
    @veraokereafor5335 Před 5 měsíci

    Kai, p K I so love you. So realistic

  • @KeneilweTshotlhang-lr2pc
    @KeneilweTshotlhang-lr2pc Před 5 měsíci +3

    Oh my Jesus, pastor k is anointed with such wisdom from the heavens, and we appreciate the Almighty God for you.

  • @emunemuprecious478
    @emunemuprecious478 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Another knowledge gained. Kindness as a life style. Thanks for this Pst Kingsley.

  • @user-un2tm6df4p
    @user-un2tm6df4p Před měsícem

    Sir we are blessed to have you

  • @doreenpeoples8322
    @doreenpeoples8322 Před měsícem

    ❤ Thank u so much Grateful Doreen 🙏

  • @ucheuchendu2529
    @ucheuchendu2529 Před 5 měsíci +1

    God bless you, Dr. Kingsley Okonkwo!

  • @BatyaMuthathi
    @BatyaMuthathi Před 4 měsíci

    Shuuu teachings we lacked so many years in our lives 😢. Thank you

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 Před 2 měsíci

    You are a helper through and through . Anyone you marry is your venture in life .

  • @madibaterrence7525
    @madibaterrence7525 Před 3 měsíci

    Compatability ❤