Understanding The Way Men Think | Kingsley Okonkwo
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- čas přidán 15. 06. 2024
- Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares 'The Way Men Think'
The difference between men and women goes beyond just the physique or attributes that we can see, men and women are different in so many other ways.
In our conversation with Toyin Poju-Oyemade, we go on a deep dive into the man's world, understanding his uniqueness, and how he thinks and processes things.
This conversation is based on his book, Manual (The Way Men Think). We encourage you to fasten your seat belts as we go on this ride because many things will blow you away.
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There's a king and a fool in every man. The one you talk to is the one that answers you 😮. Wow
Casual sex will always have casualties. This hits me so hard 😅. Every sexual encounter doesn't always leave you the same. Men don't treat all women the same. Men learn from you how to treat you. You set the standards for a man, if he likes you, he will rise to it if not he will go and that is good for you. Most women have no idea how gifted and powerful they are. Don't limit yourself. People change when they want to. Ladies don't compromise your values. Make your money, na who get the bag fit set standards. A man should take care of you not because he has to but because he wants to. Women have the tendency to look for trouble where there is none. A woman compares herself to the best while men compares themselves to the worst, making a women to have the perfectionist mentality. Hunt the good stuff ladies. Praise your man for the little things that he does. Don't focus on what is not working but focus on the good he is doing. Scripture, science and statistics. Men are more sexual than women. A woman enjoy multiple sex with the same partner while men enjoy sex with multiple partner. A man can cheat for fun but women cheat for attention and emotional needs. It takes discipline and the God factor for a man to not cheat. I feel bad for my brother's wife and pray that she heals from this kind of pain 💔. The average man will respect you until you start disrespecting yourself. Ladies, we are helpers, we make the world go round. Don't let a man devalue you. Learn to build yourself outside of a man. Have a life before looking for a life partner.
Wow! This is a fact!
@@Blueangel559 yep. The video is a must watch. He's spiting facts 💯
You are right for the most except when you said 'na who get the bag fit set standard' meaning you are implying that women should make money so they can set standards....does work that way with men because a man doesn't really think of financial security from a woman the way women do especially when he is looking for a wife.
@akinolaogunseitan got that point, but the point here is about a single independent lady as opposed to a lady who depends on a man to survive. When the later is the case, she has limited choice and can settle for any man as long as he can provide for her. That's the angle from which that is coming. Hope say e clear 😁😁
Waoh great piece
This is so good! I do however hope and pray that men are equally invested in understanding women as much as we women are at understanding them. I believe that a happy home starts with both parties seeking to understand each other and being selfless.
Balancing the teaching is Pastor Kay's ministry ....Manual is a book for the ladies and How to love a woman without touching her is a book for the men
Honestly, Women talk a lot so they know exactly what we tell them.
I actually think it is women that don't understand men enough hehe, that is why there are apparently more teaches on that. My view though, but as you said as well both parties need to understand themselves, which is totallly true.
@@moon20ful yeah both parties need to understand each other because we were created differently ...there is a manual for everybody
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Can I just say that I really like the way the presenter presents. Kudos to her. And great insights shared by PK as always. Thank you.
Wow... "The average man respects you until you start disrespecting yourself" Great insight man of God. Thanks a lot for sharing, please.
When I start watching the video, I thought the duration was too long, but after few minutes into it, I wished it would last for 72 hours❤ this information is really going to help me in my marriage
Lol
Lol same here, this is amazing 🙌🙌
Exactly how I feel when I watch his videos .❤
Same here 😂
@@kutlwanompane5889 p0ppl0p000p0l
My wife sent this video to me and i almost didn’t watch because i felt it is so long... but thank God i did watch...this is mind blowing. Thank you Pastor PK. God replenish you more abundantly
There are so many gems here, I've enjoyed this session immensely, and sometimes I would rewind to grasp these points. However, this is where I disagree with you Pastor Okonkwo, and not only you but Pastors who reason the way you do concerning infidelity in these modern times, what you fail to understand is that things changed a long time ago. The way baby boomers used to withstand the crap their husbands used to dish them concerning adultery is not the way Xenials, millennials and Gen Zs will withstand. Now there are more women who can cheat reciprocating what their husbands do without being emotional, they're intellectually, physically and financially VERY empowered. More and more women don't care about or for marriage because they've been hurt or have seen other women close to them being mistreated. These women in these generations I've mentioned are built very different.
What you need to do is update your teachings, because when you tell these generations to pray for their husbands meanwhile the husband is busy enjoying different strokes, am afraid you're preaching to the crickets. That's why the word of God says the man is the high Priest, MEANING? He is the one to pray for his wife and family, but African preachers want to change what God has instructed man, and that's why the results never change -the man keeps on cheating no matter how many times the wife prays.
God hates adultery, in fact loathes it, that's why idolatry is compared to adultery. So many instances the Israelites committed adultery and they suffered excruciatingly for their promiscuity. Why was Hosea commanded to marry a prostitute?
God hates adultery, and because of this New age teaching that "men are sexual therefore can't stay with one woman" is NEW AGE WITCHCRAFT and it has destroyed Africa. Our men concentrate on being between women's legs more than concentrating on innovating, building families, creating new things, and changing the world progressively. They left that for the yt man and Asians. Stop it!
I wish you would concentrate more on empowering men on becoming what God desires the to be, women don't need to be taught how to be in their position, they adopt naturally when they're with a man who understand and knows his position.
Thank you soooo much 😘 💖
I pray that my future wife is listening to pastor Kingsley
I also pray that my future husband is listening to PK. Many men are not open to learning these things. They don't even know themselves.
@@oluwaseunodubote sure
And you're also listening to pastor Mildred to learn more about women
Bro me too. Praying for us Kingdom Brothers that our future will will listen to Pastor Kingsley and Mildred. The wisdom from their mouths is endlessly profound. People need this within this century.
I am mind blown 🤯
I thank God that i am able to learn all these things very early in my 20s. I think everyone on earth needs to study human beings so we know how to manage our differences and arrive at a middle ground
God help us o
Let's clap this amazing man of GOD for his wise knowledge about relationships and marriage👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. Thank you so much Pastor #KingsleyOkonkwo🙏🏾🙂
This one hits hard… knowledge is key. I stumbled upon this on IG reels and somehow it pricked me cos I’m seriously in a journey to healing but somehow God pointed me to becoming more like Him other than focusing on my husband. Thank you PK for this message. It’s so timely for me.
Wooow....what really resonated with me is the part where he said men compare themselves to the worst while women compare themselves to the best.
Pastor kingsley is so humble!!!! And this is so insightful !!?
I think I should listen to Pastor Kingsley more oo. This book is highly recommended for every man out there. ❤
This is by far the best educational podcast of relationship I've watched!!!! 👏🏽 I am headed to Amazon proto to purchase this book!
Omo it's the way he was continuously dropping bars for me!! I will watch this video up to 10 times and it will still be sweet!!
OMG! Thank you so much for opening my eyes, I've been in different relationships looking for Mr right, not knowing I was Mrs Wrong myself. At least this video helped me understand how men works. Thank you so much.
My mind is BLOOOWWWWN!!!! WOW!!!! I'm getting as many books as possible on marriage now! Thank you so much Sir!!!!
How can I like this message more than once…this message is so powerful. I really learnt a lot…even if I thought I knew some of this things, but it just hits differently from another angle…Wow 🔥
A good reader digging a good thinker... A seamless flow!
The set is real amd relaxing to watch and listen. Time well invested. Thanks. 👍
Space replenishes the man, while companionship replenishes the woman.
This knowledge is a gem! Wow! I learned so much. Thank you sir.
Thank you very much Sir.
This is gold!
God bless you ! This was timely
Men are moved by respect and admiration.
Wow... God bless you sir
Remain blessed sir ❤
POWERFUL 👏🙌
Pst PK you to much. Thank you for this great insight
More strength Pst k ❤❤👌
I’m so blessed by this. Thank you so much🙏
God bless you poster k
Wao. So wowed. Lovely teaching.
Powerful message 🙌 Thankyou sir
I have learnt a lot from the man of God since the time I started following his programs you're really changing lives and families am encouraging men and women to follow Pastor Kingsley and learn we don't want broken homes anymore
I hope I am not way too late. Some of these issues frustrated me so much. Caused resentment for my husband, and I fell so bad. Hope my marriage survives because I stepped out. May GOD have mercy!!
@@Yemi927 no it's not late and your marriage will survive trust God and let him fight your battles he has never failed
God bless you, sir 🙏
My Pastor! Thank you so much Sir
Wow
I love this..
Don't compromise,well said
Wow, I didn't know men compare themselves to the worst. This is helpful information at my work place.
This is so insightful..
Thank you, pastor Kingsley
Youve been a great blessing to me Sir. I honor you
Thank you so much sir 😊
Wow😮 " men need before they love and women love before they need"
I've always admire you from afar sir. The very first day I came across your video on CZcams was when I was searching for a particular video on CZcams, that day became my very journey with you till date.
God bless you sir and Chapters, God bless and increase you too for bringing him to the show..
Manual🔥
This is so amazing
Amazing. I really learnt alot from this chapters
Paaaaaaastor!!!!!🙌🙌🙌 Thank you sar. Thank you. Thank you.🙏
Awesome message
Sooo much to unpack, wow 😮. God bless you, PK
Amazing! God bless you!
Thank you sir for sharing knowledge 🙏
I like these message, hits differently 🔥
WoW
Knowledge is power
PK u're awesome. Thanks so much. Truly listen to this has given me the right idea on how to handle a pressing situation I'm facing now. God bless you Sir
Thank you Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, more grace 🙏
Nice one man of God
So much value
Powerful.... VERY powerful teaching Pastor K. God bless you Sir for the wonderful works you do, and for allowing God use you to bless and save so many marriages. And for our beautiful tv host, you're amazing Ma'am. 💋💋💋
This is Amazing 😍!
This blessed me and changed my way of thinking. God bless you sir
Great content. God bless you both 🎉🙏🥰💯✈️
You are a knowledgeable man sir 🙌🏽
powerful....
powerful insights
Thank you! This level of wisdom is what I long for!
Thank you so much pastor 🎉more Grace
God bless you Pastor K🙏🏽
Am so blessed by this message (review). Thank you Pst.K and the Lady
Interesting, I loved every moment of it. More grace pastor Kingsley 🙏🏾
Mind blowing interview.
Have learnt alot ❤
Value added. Thanks
This is so good... I am surely getting this book
Honestly my daddy you are a blessing to us, am always in line with your teachings .... If only you knew how much you have save thousand of thousands from getting into a doom life experience ....
Daddy you are a heavenly package to us same am mummy your beautiful diamond sweet darling wife ....
Am proud of you and mummy ....
Cheers 💃💃💃💃💃
That teaching grace! Thank You sir and ma
This teaching is light. 👌♥️♥️
Thanks a lot this was great ❤
Wowwww to say I've learnt something is an understatement. So wonderful. I'm getting this book ASAP
Wow! Really got a lot of lessons!. THANK YOU SIR .
Whaouuuuuu thank you 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I am glad I didn't scrolled to another video today when I saw this it really blessed my life I'm greatful.🙇♀️🙇♀️
Thank you Pst Kingsley - you're a gift to the Kingdom. 🙏🏾♥️
What a wonderful Video! Thoroughly enjoyed your Wisdom, Thank you Thank you!
I salute the Grace of God upon you
Wow! This is straight GEMS 💎 very very insightful. These are the kinds of conversations we need to be having in the church.
Thank you so much for this session. It was amazing. I learnt a lot.
Very Insightful 👌👌👌👌👌
Wooow
God bless you Pastor
I have learnt alot
Soooo Grateful!
This is a wonderful and great message to women here
Thank sir / ma God bless you all in Jesus name , amen
I will watch this video over and over again wow❤❤
Wow! I learnt alot after watching this video, I am gifted and powerful!
Thank you sir ❤❤
Omg! Have never lent so much in 51min. This is an eye opener..thank you pastor..
I learnt the about the importance of training in marriage, it cannot be overemphasised
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his man is full of wisdom. God bless you sir.
Thank you sir for this. I’m learning. Had to watch some parts of the video over and over, God bless you sir
Very insightful. God bless you Pastor K
Listening and taking notes.✍️. I know no one fails when it’s God leading two people 🥰
Wow 😮this is such an eye opening. Thank you Pastor Kingsley and the host.