She Won't Stop ATTACKING Me - The Bachelor WEEK 4 Recap (Joey's Season)

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  • čas přidán 12. 02. 2024
  • It's Week 4 of a 2 part week for Joey Graziadei's season of The Bachelor and one woman claims she won't stop being ATTACKED! But in this Malta set episode will she be able to survive a 2-on-1? Check it out in this Week 4 Recap of The Bachelor season 28 episode 4!
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  • @BachelorFantake
    @BachelorFantake  Před 4 měsíci +215

    FYI there is another episode on tonight and I will be recapping that later in the week. Tomorrow a new season of Love is Blind starts and I'll also be covering that as soon as I can.

    • @thatgirlknownaslani
      @thatgirlknownaslani Před 4 měsíci +2

      Are going to cover couple to throuple? I need your coverage on that mess

    • @laurieemme1534
      @laurieemme1534 Před 4 měsíci +5

      Great recap as always! John Candy as the devil 😈 made me laugh! Thank you for getting this recap out so quickly.

    • @ThatGmoney
      @ThatGmoney Před 4 měsíci +2

      Yaaaaaaaas!

    • @nicholasgarrick8855
      @nicholasgarrick8855 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Yes great recaps always! Fantake so happy you get the recaps out early 😂.

    • @ewolfgirl
      @ewolfgirl Před 4 měsíci +3

      Thanks for the brilliant recap! Happy Valentine’s to you and your family 💖

  • @laurieemme1534
    @laurieemme1534 Před 4 měsíci +1085

    LOVED Maria saying "You know we're on camera?"

    • @Sunny_Ota
      @Sunny_Ota Před 4 měsíci +96

      You know all of this is gonna be a spicy segment on the finale. 🥴

    • @AnaPie896
      @AnaPie896 Před 4 měsíci +71

      @@Sunny_OtaI cannot wait for the women’s tell all this season

    • @erniemontano-kb2sg
      @erniemontano-kb2sg Před 4 měsíci +8

      My fav part.

    • @juliaroe3499
      @juliaroe3499 Před 4 měsíci

      EXACTLY. And you know that if there was actual evidence of Maria saying "Shut the f*** up" then they would have aired that. That's what has me most convinced Sydney's a liar. Production wouldn't miss an opportunity to make someone look bad if there was actual evidence.

    • @danm6041
      @danm6041 Před 4 měsíci +44

      This is what I don’t understand after watching this for 2 1/2 decades. It’s not like planet earth where you’re not supposed to get in the way of a penguin being attacked. I don’t understand why production does not step in and share the actual truth of the matter. Why keep a relationship that’s forming so confusing to the lead character

  • @Hando01studios
    @Hando01studios Před 4 měsíci +1053

    Lea was so likable on the first episode. She started going downhill being friends with Sydney. Now she’s being a mean girl by telling Madina how she should act. Madina and Maria squashed the beef so idk why the other two want to continue the drama.

    • @julia-ex7im
      @julia-ex7im Před 4 měsíci

      lol you are naive; she was doing what she did on the first light so she LOOKS like a nice person. She is a nasty girl

    • @angelaraber
      @angelaraber Před 4 měsíci +135

      This is an example of the difference in maturity between a 23 year old girl and a 31 year old woman. Bye bye Lea...

    • @ThatGmoney
      @ThatGmoney Před 4 měsíci +50

      Hyper vigilance and speculation. What Imm seeing is pure jealousy tho. This doesn’t happen if there isn’t a deep down insecurity.

    • @rebeccashelton3552
      @rebeccashelton3552 Před 4 měsíci +46

      ...and arrogance that Lea thinks she owns Joey! Also she is so foolish to continue what Sydney has failed! Sheer arrogance, and ignorant in emotional intelligence scale!

    • @rebeccacronan
      @rebeccacronan Před 4 měsíci +35

      Lea wants to continue the drama because she's desperate because her connection with Joey is falling. This often happens when the women are desperate instead of exiting gracefully, they create drama.

  • @mireyahernandez3764
    @mireyahernandez3764 Před 4 měsíci +582

    Not Sydney gaslighting all the women and bachelor nation saying she's the victim. And her on social media saying she was gaslight by Maria is mind blowing 🤯

    • @BruhItsKayluh
      @BruhItsKayluh Před 4 měsíci +50

      Major delulu it’s infuriating!

    • @mojos7
      @mojos7 Před 4 měsíci +10

      This fight must have been more complicated than what was shown. The house seemed divided in half, but we really only heard from the pro Maria side. It was good TV but let’s not forget this is a highly edited tv show

    • @Checkplusplus
      @Checkplusplus Před 4 měsíci +5

      I am not watching this season (I can only take so many pointless gen z contestants) but how is Bach nation siding with this girl? Seems odd

    • @57andstillkicking
      @57andstillkicking Před 4 měsíci +7

      @@mojos7
      The show always shows all the drama. If there was more, it would have been shown.

    • @mojos7
      @mojos7 Před 4 měsíci

      @@57andstillkicking the show makes a narrative out of 7 days x 24 hours of film that they compress into 45 minutes. A two sided fight becomes good guys versus bad guys because that’s better TV

  • @willardprenfrew4303
    @willardprenfrew4303 Před 4 měsíci +207

    Maria kept quiet this episode cuz "never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake"

    • @Ang36914
      @Ang36914 Před 4 měsíci +7

      Yes, she was very wise to stay quiet.

  • @jschlegel3047
    @jschlegel3047 Před 4 měsíci +414

    I feel that Maria attacked me too! Through the TV screen, she just attacked me.

  • @delinquentgamer0748
    @delinquentgamer0748 Před 4 měsíci +278

    Big props to Joey for calling out the sausage-catching event, and participating in it too, not leaving any of the girls to potentially feel embarrassed. That was well done

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman Před 4 měsíci

      Yes! Tbh he would’ve kinda looked like a creep otherwise lol standing there watching the women catch phallic-esque things in their mouths

    • @laurenellis5333
      @laurenellis5333 Před 4 měsíci +16

      Classy move

    • @Flowerpower10
      @Flowerpower10 Před 4 měsíci +37

      I thought the concept of the sausage wheel
      Was degrading. I’m
      Glad he did it too. I think he was embarrassed to watch all
      These women be smacked
      In the face with pen-is shaped meat.

  • @amyshelby9614
    @amyshelby9614 Před 4 měsíci +547

    I commend Madina for how she responded to Lea’s confrontation. I attribute a lot of Madina’s maturity and articulation of feelings to her being a mental health therapist. She doesn’t accuse; rather, she listens and states how something made her feel while also tactfully speaking her mind/opinion and not compromising her values. Very disgusted by Lea’s persistence in beating this dead horse…yet another high school-esque moment. 🤮

    • @BruhItsKayluh
      @BruhItsKayluh Před 4 měsíci +52

      Loved her response. It was so mature and logical. Lea was out of line for that! The age difference shows 😅

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman Před 4 měsíci +13

      Yes! While watching I’m like, Lea how old are you?? Such an immature perspective on her part, and manipulative

    • @d.l.n.7133
      @d.l.n.7133 Před 4 měsíci +18

      I really questioned Madina in the beginning, but she really possessed maturity! Bravo

    • @daynabryant8408
      @daynabryant8408 Před 4 měsíci +10

      Medina kept it classy and deserves props for that, even as the ladies around her used her as a source to start drama.

    • @quanahedwards2778
      @quanahedwards2778 Před 4 měsíci +7

      I don’t know why Lea thinks she can tell a (mostly) stranger to stop being friends with another (mostly) stranger…who are both older than her!
      lol Who the hell does she think she is? Ugh.

  • @laurieemme1534
    @laurieemme1534 Před 4 měsíci +363

    Sydney's constant delusional "attack" talks about Maria was stressing ME out and affecting MY health! 😆

    • @ewolfgirl
      @ewolfgirl Před 4 měsíci +6

      The chihuahua/doberman analogy was so a propos 😂

    • @Littlething41
      @Littlething41 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I wonder if this is going to get THOROUGHLY analyzed during "AfterThe Final Rose."

  • @tashamavanga
    @tashamavanga Před 4 měsíci +689

    I feel so bad for Maria… the girl cannot catch a break 😩

    • @SinaSoh
      @SinaSoh Před 4 měsíci +23

      She was doing amazing. If she would not have cried or broken down (nothing wrong with that) that woyld have been even more beneficial to her. She didn’t have to sell Lea’s second hand insecurities.
      I don’t mind Lea, but I get an “I’m high and mighty” vibe with her.

    • @samd4800
      @samd4800 Před 4 měsíci +34

      I would love her as a BAchelorette

    • @ThatGmoney
      @ThatGmoney Před 4 měsíci +11

      Ya!!! I like Maria! Like alright, maybe Maria enjoying revealing her body but all these girls have nice bodies! Money shot to the world!!!!

    • @nataliet129
      @nataliet129 Před 4 měsíci +11

      She has such happy beautiful energy some are jealous of it

    • @MsManeldias
      @MsManeldias Před 4 měsíci +5

      @@SinaSohNo way Joey will chose Leah to be his life partner. Leah is a manipulative angry woman.

  • @moneyball32
    @moneyball32 Před 4 měsíci +271

    People never having shared very personal things before, and then sharing them on television for everyone to see is always wild to me

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman Před 4 měsíci +10

      Lmao right? Like you want EVERYONE to know about your trauma. Okay, girlie

    • @carolmwangi25
      @carolmwangi25 Před 4 měsíci +10

      Lmao"you are only the second person iam telling this" yeah right

    • @demiboyd574
      @demiboyd574 Před 4 měsíci +4

      Especially when we know it’s not even true, because clearly production is involved… I swear there must be a part of the application process that weeds out anyone who doesn’t have a trauma to share and/or production helps them to spin something in their lives into this big deal. They’re too good at this to let a girl get a 1x1 that doesn’t have a dramatic story to tell 😂

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv Před 4 měsíci

      Going from 1 person knowing to 10 million is crazy lol

  • @Rose-oh4mc
    @Rose-oh4mc Před 4 měsíci +312

    As someone who has been bullied, this season is so uncomfortable to watch. I feel like all I’m watching is a girl being bullied by a pack of mean girls for no reason. I feel so bad for Maria.

    • @michellearzu
      @michellearzu Před 4 měsíci +9

      I feel the same way which is why I am not watching it. Once they get rid of the mean girls I will start watching again which is usually closer to home towns

    • @Kronkgirl
      @Kronkgirl Před 4 měsíci +18

      I wasn't bullied severely but I know what it's like to have girls not like you just because you don't fit their mold or because they feel some perceived threat from you. This season has been triggering with what is going on between Maria and Sidney/lea. Honestly I might need to stop watching if it continues longer. I feel like I'm back in hs & I would never choose to go back

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman Před 4 měsíci +18

      Especially from Lea’s comment about bringing your own curler, Maria clearly just has some personality quirks and maybe doesn’t fit the expected mold and they’re choosing to gang up on her because of their insecurities.

    • @TheTeresamori
      @TheTeresamori Před 4 měsíci +4

      It’s not a pack it’s just that blonde girl and Lea

    • @MsManeldias
      @MsManeldias Před 4 měsíci +9

      Joey needs to send Leah, Jess and anyone else who is behaving like angry mops there. If not this episode has lots of negative vibes due to unreasonable accusations thrown upon Maria with massive jealousy is such bizarre. This is very UGLY.

  • @meelika
    @meelika Před 4 měsíci +162

    I don’t get why most of the girls were shocked Sydney went home😂😂😂

    • @Bonzeaux_Bleuxgrene
      @Bonzeaux_Bleuxgrene Před 4 měsíci +19

      Because weak women are threatened by strong, independent women.

    • @BruhItsKayluh
      @BruhItsKayluh Před 4 měsíci +4

      Haters

    • @jfoot2732
      @jfoot2732 Před 4 měsíci

      She's the perfect pageant girl who fits the mold of a television personality they expect to win.

    • @meelika
      @meelika Před 4 měsíci

      @@jfoot2732 pageant girls from what I see have class. This one behaves like an evil villain which honestly for me automatically makes her ugly.

  • @TheTeresamori
    @TheTeresamori Před 4 měsíci +78

    Lea’s villain arc came out of nowhere

  • @KatAnne17
    @KatAnne17 Před 4 měsíci +121

    Maria handled herself beautifully. I don’t think I would have done so well.

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 Před 4 měsíci +174

    I absolutely cannot imagine an adult telling another adult that theyre wrong for not being meant to someone they dont like. Medina is right she can act kind to someone even if they had an issue. That's different than being fake the maturity levels really show here.

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman Před 4 měsíci +10

      And the fact that it was over something so small. Yeah, Maria was a little out of pocket with that episode 2 comment, but the responses have not been proportional

    • @chelsea.1234
      @chelsea.1234 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Lea acts like a high school mean girl, like is she not embarrassed

    • @jfoot2732
      @jfoot2732 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Madina, a 31 year old, having an immature 23 year old tell her how to respond to the situation was messed up. Lea was acting all sweet by throwing the date card advantage away and then suddenly she switches her personality and wants to take another women down....

  • @stephanasmith7744
    @stephanasmith7744 Před 4 měsíci +81

    The Doberman video was hilarious

  • @RealLegoBeast
    @RealLegoBeast Před 4 měsíci +511

    It's crazy how insecure these girls are. I think they see Maria as threat. I'm team Maria all day. She is simply stunning and smart. The girls needs to chill

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman Před 4 měsíci +32

      It says a lot about a person that they can see someone breaking down emotionally from being attacked like this and call them a crybaby. Like, do you have no empathy??

    • @RealLegoBeast
      @RealLegoBeast Před 4 měsíci +20

      @@abandonablesnowman it's the jealousy and hate they are harboring in their heart for Maria. It's insane

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman Před 4 měsíci +10

      @@RealLegoBeast I imagine that if Maria is at fault for anything here it’s probably a tone issue or being a little weird, but I highly doubt it deserves this level of contempt

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman Před 4 měsíci

      @@nattypatty3667 Fucking bye ✋🏼

    • @nattypatty3667
      @nattypatty3667 Před 4 měsíci

      Lol they're not, ya'll are. Ya'll see all these young pretty feminine women as a threat so ya'll need to side with Maria because Maria reminds ya'll of yourselves 😂

  • @user-qt8go5hd7n
    @user-qt8go5hd7n Před 4 měsíci +35

    …”you know we’re on camera the entire time, right?”~Maria❤

  • @bethr.2331
    @bethr.2331 Před 4 měsíci +86

    I feel bad for Medina. She seems like she doesn’t want to be in this drama at all, but people keep pulling her back in. She definitely trusted Sydney a little too much at the beginning.

  • @sophieamandaleitontoomey9343
    @sophieamandaleitontoomey9343 Před 4 měsíci +185

    It’s been a while since I’ve seen such a fall from grace like Lea. She was so honorable and respectable in the first episode. What the hell happened?

    • @katestclair5381
      @katestclair5381 Před 4 měsíci +22

      Sydney

    • @Kronkgirl
      @Kronkgirl Před 4 měsíci +53

      She realizes she's not building a connection with Joey so she's going to go out blazing. Probably hoping for an invite to bip

    • @alstroemeria227again4
      @alstroemeria227again4 Před 4 měsíci +4

      It was so disappointing.

    • @jordanlachelle
      @jordanlachelle Před 4 měsíci +1

      Because I am flabbergasted

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman Před 4 měsíci +27

      Honestly I think her actions in the first episode had purely selfish motives. She knew there’s no way stealing a date would play well for her

  • @catherinelangan
    @catherinelangan Před 4 měsíci +179

    Sydney should've kept her mouth shut! Maria did nothing wrong!!

  • @lewismatthews4247
    @lewismatthews4247 Před 4 měsíci +46

    From the start I knew we would hear “my truth” come out of Sydney’s mouth

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman Před 4 měsíci +2

      She has spoiled girl vibes for sure

    • @jenniferhansen3622
      @jenniferhansen3622 Před 4 měsíci +7

      I absolutely hate that expression, no matter who says it. There's no such thing as "my truth" or "his truth" or "her truth." There is only THE truth.

    • @noleenanthony-bruce3502
      @noleenanthony-bruce3502 Před 4 měsíci +3

      I think that people use "my truth" to mean "how I feel about it" and feelings are not truth.

  • @juliaroe3499
    @juliaroe3499 Před 4 měsíci +98

    You know that if there was actual evidence of Maria saying "Shut the f*** up" then they would have aired that. That's what has me most convinced Sydney's a liar. Production wouldn't miss an opportunity to make Maria look bad if there was actual evidence to do so.

  • @paulojrneto
    @paulojrneto Před 4 měsíci +69

    I mean if Maria had said and done anything that would be even slightly justifiable of causing the irk of other women, they would included that on the show, right? So far, the only justification I see for those women's anger towards Maria is spite that she is one of the women Joey has shown more interest in.

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman Před 4 měsíci +1

      Yeah, from what we can see all the Maria haters aren’t making it to final 6 😂

    • @galfriday4581
      @galfriday4581 Před 4 měsíci +7

      She’s charismatic, fun and wears cute, sexy outfits. That’s more than enough to piss these Normie chicks way off.

    • @nattypatty3667
      @nattypatty3667 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@galfriday4581She's flat chested and skinny. Not really the type women would be jealous of. I find the other women more physically appealing. They don't like her because they know she's easy to get in the sack and is a threat from that perspective, but Joey would never wife her.

  • @flaky_gaming
    @flaky_gaming Před 4 měsíci +100

    I can't wait for Maria to ascend as the Queen of the beach this summer

    • @shanandananscoo
      @shanandananscoo Před 4 měsíci

      YES!!!

    • @galfriday4581
      @galfriday4581 Před 4 měsíci

      Yes!!!!!!’

    • @nattypatty3667
      @nattypatty3667 Před 4 měsíci

      Why so ya'll like Maria so much lol? Women like Maria stay single because she has very little feminine energy. Bunch of single women watch this show...

    • @nattypatty3667
      @nattypatty3667 Před 4 měsíci

      Lol why are yall treating her like a goddess? She's an A cup mid

    • @ImenBen12
      @ImenBen12 Před 4 měsíci

      So sowmones breast size determines how queen like they are? What a horrible comment! Grow up ​@@nattypatty3667

  • @Elizacoco
    @Elizacoco Před 4 měsíci +106

    I don’t understand the concept of having to only be nice to Sydney and not being allowed to also be kind to Maria without that being called out for being a bad friend. It’s called being a decent human. Guess my morals are different from Leas too.

    • @tjc2121
      @tjc2121 Před 4 měsíci +25

      Mine as well. I can't stand people who are purposely mean to others. We're human and we all are gonna have arguements/disagreements but to purposely do or say something to cut someone down is just evil. Lea saying she's happy to see maria cry, really says a lot about her character.

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman Před 4 měsíci +18

      Lea’s comment was crazy 💀 I’m 28 and can’t fathom going up to another grown woman to ask why she’s being nice to another grown woman

    • @angelinaliu1816
      @angelinaliu1816 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Lea is showing her immaturity fr

    • @jfoot2732
      @jfoot2732 Před 4 měsíci

      @@abandonablesnowman Lea is 23 and Madina is 31, which makes it crazier.

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 Před 4 měsíci +161

    Lea saying " back home my friends, and i would go to war for each other " is suchhh a red flag.

    • @noemicristalperez3718
      @noemicristalperez3718 Před 4 měsíci +21

      Lea calls someone a friend after 40 seconds of meeting one another 😂 morals? 😅 yup lea needs to put a cork in it and put back on the shelf and hope she ages well.

    • @lewismatthews4247
      @lewismatthews4247 Před 4 měsíci +49

      Friends need to hold each other accountable for BAD BEHAVIOR. You don’t just blindly fight for and defend a toxic friend who is hurting other people.

    • @nattypatty3667
      @nattypatty3667 Před 4 měsíci

      That makes no sense on why that's a red flag. Some weird generic comments here

    • @rationalthinker9612
      @rationalthinker9612 Před 4 měsíci

      Why is that a red flag? Don't get me wrong, Lea is a twat, but having your friends back is a green flag. Who needs enemies with a friend like you.

    • @NateIce
      @NateIce Před 4 měsíci

      @@nattypatty3667dude shut up and stop trolling 😂. Lea is literally the devil. When you don’t hold your friends and family accountable for unethical activities then your as bad as them

  • @bonanzabrandon6877
    @bonanzabrandon6877 Před 4 měsíci +24

    This is a well known Bachelor phenomena. When the villain gets sent home you think the drama is gone, but the drama vacuum must be satisfied and a new drama will inevitably arise, like a phoenix from the ashes.

    • @abandonablesnowman
      @abandonablesnowman Před 4 měsíci +2

      An actual phenomenon in internal family systems theory 😂 people stepping up to fulfill roles when there’s tension in a group

  • @anaramirez3514
    @anaramirez3514 Před 4 měsíci +78

    Sydney really does give those karen vibes

  • @kirbs702
    @kirbs702 Před 4 měsíci +38

    I also immediately looked up if perspectivize was a word. Up there with befumbled

  • @vickiehorowitz1934
    @vickiehorowitz1934 Před 4 měsíci +23

    I love how they jumped up and down when Malta was announced when none of them can find it on a map.

  • @lapaylor4039
    @lapaylor4039 Před 4 měsíci +50

    sydney laughed at one point saying she was probably wrong but so what, Maria "had to go"
    Kudos to Joey for realizing there was no bottom to get to, listening to the woman who was reasonable not the one talking like a junior high girl, and judging based on his overall goal of making a good decision about a mate. And good for you to make me laugh and nod thru your podcast. Thanks

  • @WarDamnEagle4
    @WarDamnEagle4 Před 4 měsíci +110

    I was surprised by everyone’s reaction to Maria staying. Maybe I misread but it seemed like everyone was surprised. It feels like we’re missing something due to editing.

    • @dearbird1794
      @dearbird1794 Před 4 měsíci +19

      just remember that they are technically all in competition with each other so they could've just been reacting that way out of self preservation

    • @chaundralachaundra
      @chaundralachaundra Před 4 měsíci +7

      Medina seems to be cool with her. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @annetraut8247
      @annetraut8247 Před 4 měsíci +40

      You're not missing anything. The contestants always give the shocked pikachu face when someone doesn't come home from a date, even a 2 on 1 when you know someone's leaving. Nobody is surprised at all, they're just being dramatic.

    • @sadcatbridge
      @sadcatbridge Před 4 měsíci +4

      Yeah I think it was really just the contestants’ usual general surprise, a few of Sydney’s friends being vocally upset, and the music and stuff making it seem more split/dramatic than most of the girls probably felt

    • @ilovegoodsax
      @ilovegoodsax Před 4 měsíci +6

      Yes -- I agree! There's clearly something going on "behind the scenes" that the viewing audience isn't being made privy to. There's a weird disconnect going on with the narrative here.🤔💯

  • @patchouleigh_
    @patchouleigh_ Před 4 měsíci +38

    Why are none of the girls shown defending Maria? Is it possible we didnt see footage of Maria "attacking" Sydney ? Maria seems great. I'm just really curious.

    • @myextraaccount4340
      @myextraaccount4340 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Me too! As a Torontonian who’s very much rooting for Maria, I also wonder if there were things going on behind the scenes we didn’t see. It’s truly flabbergasting to see 28 year olds gang up on someone because they feel threatened and I am wondering what I might not be seeing

  • @livpond5346
    @livpond5346 Před 4 měsíci +12

    If being “attacked” is just when anyone says anything that doesn’t represent how you feel than Sydney was attacking ME this whole episode

  • @kdizzy9838
    @kdizzy9838 Před 4 měsíci +13

    my heart broke for maria when she started crying at the end

  • @lovelivi1591
    @lovelivi1591 Před 4 měsíci +65

    Lets just have maria for the next bachelorette.. she hasnt had a break all season, lets give her time to shine shes so honest i think she would be perfect for the lead role!❤

    • @galfriday4581
      @galfriday4581 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I agree!

    • @nattypatty3667
      @nattypatty3667 Před 4 měsíci

      Why would she be perfect?

    • @hallejohn7063
      @hallejohn7063 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@nattypatty3667 she’s been carrying this whole season…..

    • @nattypatty3667
      @nattypatty3667 Před 4 měsíci

      @hallejohn7063 How? She just draws more attention because she's more controversial, but she's not the best partner. The other women are more feminine and sweet, but all the old single cat ladies that watch this show love her because she reminds them of themselves.

    • @hallejohn7063
      @hallejohn7063 Před 4 měsíci

      @@nattypatty3667 you just answered your own question she’s more controversial so she’d attract more viewers as the next bachelorette.

  • @lindseyshantanu3367
    @lindseyshantanu3367 Před 4 měsíci +6

    I had a theory that the real issue is that Maria is not a "girl's girl". She is a "guy's girl". Like me, she is probably much more comfortable in a group of guys than a group of girls. I don't believe is constantly thinking and over-analyzing and judging like most girls do. Aaaand my theory was proven in last night's episode where she opens up about being raised by her dad.

  • @prepwithgabi
    @prepwithgabi Před 4 měsíci +79

    Sydney’s spirit has passed to Lea’s body 👻👻

  • @Mothmam74
    @Mothmam74 Před 4 měsíci +55

    I didnt like maria when i first met her but ive grown to enjoy her and feel like everyone has something out for her because shes got good potential to be his woman.

    • @nattypatty3667
      @nattypatty3667 Před 4 měsíci

      No she doesn't. How are women so oblivious to what men want? She has very little nurturing, soft, feminine energy. She's the type to get drunk at parties and start yelling at people.

  • @shelmstedt
    @shelmstedt Před 4 měsíci +8

    Not only is Malta in Europe, it is also „really close to water“ because it is an island.
    😂

  • @aqualiley
    @aqualiley Před 4 měsíci +85

    As a local girl from the same state as Lea, her stink attitude had me up in ARMS! WE WERE ROOTING FOR YOU GIRL!!! 🗣

    • @lauraleigh6329
      @lauraleigh6329 Před 4 měsíci +4

      As someone whose name sounds similar, same

    • @NN-re7cy
      @NN-re7cy Před 4 měsíci +3

      *In Tyra Banks' voice. 😂😂🤣

  • @justiceliberty4364
    @justiceliberty4364 Před 4 měsíci +17

    Ava Maria 🎶🎶 priceless 😀

  • @vanessahobbes3072
    @vanessahobbes3072 Před 4 měsíci +8

    I’m not proud of this fact but I didn’t know where Malta was either…

    • @wilkolb7239
      @wilkolb7239 Před 4 měsíci

      Malta is a latin brown sugar drink, really good 😎

  • @margirl9469
    @margirl9469 Před 4 měsíci +10

    Oh man now Leah is evil? I knew Sydney's evil would pass on to someone else on her way out. Leave Maria alone people!! She's not hating on anyone. I applaud Medina for realizing Maria is normal.

  • @kirbs702
    @kirbs702 Před 4 měsíci +48

    Lea NOOOOOOO. We were rooting for you, we were all rooting for you

    • @maevecostello2629
      @maevecostello2629 Před 4 měsíci +13

      IKR. What an awful revelation that’s she’s actually a terrible person.

    • @mtbmsm
      @mtbmsm Před 4 měsíci +2

      I am disappointed with Lea as I thought she would be similar to Catherine. I like Jenn and Daisy much better!

    • @vanessahobbes3072
      @vanessahobbes3072 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Yeah I really thought she was the mother Theresa of this season. I‘m gobsmacked.

  • @karlasuero3360
    @karlasuero3360 Před 4 měsíci +25

    The way I was waiting for this video 😩😩👏🏽👏🏽

  • @evanstancil2478
    @evanstancil2478 Před 4 měsíci +19

    Thank you for including the Planes, Trains and Automobiles clip! Totally made my day, this movie doesn't get enough love

    • @auspicious93
      @auspicious93 Před 4 měsíci

      Haven’t gotten there yet, but it better be: I like me.

    • @evanstancil2478
      @evanstancil2478 Před 4 měsíci

      @@auspicious93 That would've been a good one too, though the one of them going through the two trucks makes me laugh every single time

  • @abandonablesnowman
    @abandonablesnowman Před 4 měsíci +11

    If there’s some secret footage of Monster Maria I’d love to see it 💀

  • @katiekleinert5750
    @katiekleinert5750 Před 4 měsíci +25

    I don’t know how much of a crossover there is between Taskmaster fans and Bachelor Fantake fans, but that sausage game is not new to us. Chris Ramsay would be so proud!

  • @chach1070
    @chach1070 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Sydney’s game plan was telling Joey that Maria told Lea to shut the f up. Lea would go to war with her friends so she was probably ready to back that story up true or untrue.

  • @StancyInTheCity
    @StancyInTheCity Před 4 měsíci +13

    This Sydney girl is toxic. And not just by accident, she’s actually purposely perpetrating these insults on Maria. So frustrating to watch happy she’s gone.

  • @ellenpcwang
    @ellenpcwang Před 4 měsíci +20

    I feel the producers plan the dates not only for drama and also for contestants to overcome their fears. It takes more then one day or dates to overcome any fears.

    • @brittanyjohn6174
      @brittanyjohn6174 Před 4 měsíci +6

      woah, never thought of it like that.... some maybe, its like their weird way of speeding the process up.

  • @pinksugar8344
    @pinksugar8344 Před 4 měsíci +60

    Leave Maria alone!! 😂❤

  • @sarahwinters4771
    @sarahwinters4771 Před 4 měsíci +8

    That clip at the beginning! "Dobberman!" 😂

  • @jessicawilliams3849
    @jessicawilliams3849 Před 4 měsíci +8

    The girls are shocked bc now they know “She’s attacking me 🥺” isn’t a valid strategy

  • @pencileraser99
    @pencileraser99 Před 4 měsíci +16

    Yay! I can’t wait to hear what you thought of that Sydney disaster!

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 Před 4 měsíci +9

    The doberman was so funny great recap as always fantake😂.

  • @rosalin2240
    @rosalin2240 Před 4 měsíci +6

    I love daisy but it was unfair for the producers to put in the footage of her conversation highlight with Joey be about kids after Joey just had his date with Lexi where Lexi speaks about conceiving difficulties :(

  • @ashleyluna4290
    @ashleyluna4290 Před 4 měsíci +6

    I suspected Lea was fake from the get go. Tonight showed her true colors 🤷‍♀️

  • @LuisAntonioPerez327
    @LuisAntonioPerez327 Před 4 měsíci +18

    Delusion - when you gaslight yourself

  • @lostmyway5173
    @lostmyway5173 Před 4 měsíci +11

    This delulu drama got me crying😂 Suddenly Lea switched up! she wanna be team sydney so bad. Whats going on?!!

    • @jfoot2732
      @jfoot2732 Před 4 měsíci

      Right? Sydney left... She should be tea Joey

  • @mojos7
    @mojos7 Před 4 měsíci +4

    This fight must have been more complicated than what was shown. The house seemed divided in half, but we really only heard from the pro Maria side. It was good TV but let’s not forget this is a highly edited tv show

  • @NateIce
    @NateIce Před 4 měsíci +2

    I’ve never applied for the bachelorette but after seeing Maria’s journey. I’m applying asap

  • @Mattylove112
    @Mattylove112 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Not a fan of this show but I am a fan of your commentary so I only watch the recaps for you!! Love it!!!

  • @chic_kenz
    @chic_kenz Před 4 měsíci +5

    my guess is that the producers told lea to become the mean girl and they’ll let her stay there. because she burned the card they gave her and essentially wasted their shot at some drama😂 they needed her to deliver. and she got carried away and showed her true colors!

  • @Donnablife
    @Donnablife Před 4 měsíci +1

    I sit, and I watch the bachelor every single week every single episode, and I still come back here and watch this. I laughed so hard when I watched it here. With all the extra little footage that you add to it is delirious.

  • @aladdout9454
    @aladdout9454 Před 4 měsíci +5

    its crazy how much sydney is actually scared of maria

  • @caqg6993
    @caqg6993 Před 4 měsíci

    Love your editing for these recaps

  • @judyw8686
    @judyw8686 Před 4 měsíci +13

    I really want to believe the show offers some women extra $ to play a villain. I want that to be true. Because if not Sydney may be psychotic, or maybe some other type of mental illness and she desperately needs help. I feel bad thinking we were watching her unravel.

    • @judyw8686
      @judyw8686 Před 4 měsíci +3

      If I witnessed a family member or friend behaving like that I'd be VERY concerned.

  • @starhr7248
    @starhr7248 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Doberman!! You nailed it. I laughed out loud for sure. Well done

  • @erinschillings
    @erinschillings Před 4 měsíci +16

    Why were the girls so shocked that Sydney got sent home?

    • @RichardABradley-ze9qn
      @RichardABradley-ze9qn Před 4 měsíci +1

      I think production lines them up on the sofas for the reaction shoot, and if they nail it in one take, they get to sleep for a couple hours.

    • @lisasparks7894
      @lisasparks7894 Před 4 měsíci +3

      They all low key wanted it to be Maria because Sydney was not a threat. ❤ #Hush

  • @ashleym7898
    @ashleym7898 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Does anyone else feel like we weren’t shown the parts that would make Maria seem like the bad guy? Watching the girls become upset when Sydney went home has me confuseddddd

  • @JillC
    @JillC Před 4 měsíci +1

    You’re the best of all the recaps!

  • @elizabethmccready
    @elizabethmccready Před 4 měsíci +2

    The Parks & Rec clip almost made me spew green tea all over my keyboard! Bahaha

  • @richard5469
    @richard5469 Před 4 měsíci +8

    This is the absolute worst character hire and storyline in Bachelor history. And I agree: The producers are now replacing Sydney with Lea to maintain the ridiculous drama.

  • @nataliasmirnova8298
    @nataliasmirnova8298 Před 4 měsíci +18

    I wish someone would introduce Maria to Blake M. May be in the BIP. They are perfect for each other. They have similar values not to mention they reside in the same country. I can see them together going the long way.

  • @auspicious93
    @auspicious93 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Tchaikovsky did not deserve to be brought into this mess.

  • @AbstractMindsThinkAlike
    @AbstractMindsThinkAlike Před 4 měsíci +3

    I prayed for you Lexi! Keep the faith! I see you have it. God can and still performs miracles.

  • @vickyrun8796
    @vickyrun8796 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Great recap

  • @d.l.n.7133
    @d.l.n.7133 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I have to say my favorite line came from Sydney when she said that she was going home to her cats 😂😂😂 Sydney could be a new Cat Woman 🦹 villain

  • @circe...
    @circe... Před 4 měsíci +1

    The beginning with the clip of an older Sydney, aka Karen, is sooooo funny! I can't stop watching it! "Dobermannnnnn" LOL! OMG! 😂😂😂

  • @kathleenpowell5338
    @kathleenpowell5338 Před 4 měsíci +1

    The planes trains and automobiles reference 😂 I swear I keep getting impressed at all these references!

  • @RichardABradley-ze9qn
    @RichardABradley-ze9qn Před 4 měsíci +3

    Lea bullying Madina for not being mean enough to Maria: "I hold myself and my friends to a higher standard than you do." Oh, snap.
    In the next episode, however, after spending the day obsessing about Maria only for the latter to continue growing closer to Joey and be (group date rose) rewarded for it, Lea suddenly has a moment of fleeting clarity, recognizing what's been long obvious to others: "my heart is in my ass," she says.
    I'm more surprised by the self-awareness than by her racing to fill Sydney's shoes as the house's tone gestapo.
    People impressed by her burning the steal-a-date advantage in ep.1 must have failed to cringe over how clumsily and with what protracted reluctance she did so. She could have told Joey how lucky and honoured she felt at even being offered such a gimmick, could have noted apologetically what an affront to him such frivolous shenanegans represented -- day 1 and already his future wishes have been blatantly disrespected, treated like a game. In her shoes I'd be saying 'dude... I'm so sorry production isn't taking you more seriously'. But I'm sure they're not allowed, or comments like that get edited out.
    But she might have assured him that she really wanted to get to know him & hopefully develop a connection they'd both want to build on, could have ripped the card in front of him or told him, with a laugh, that she'll keep it in case the day comes when after their 1st 1 on 1 he wants another such, could have then spent a few minutes actually focusing on getting to know him. But instead she wallowed in her insecurity and angst, crying to Joey about the unearned steal-a-date card as if it were a serious option, got an easy pity-rose, and yet even after their talk, she continued to clutch onto the card like a life preserver, still crying and deliberating over it, before finally figuring out that using it would mean frustrating Joey's intentions, and the clear path to taking advantage of such a huge gift (by now barely still available to her) was obviously taking the high road. Which she FINALLY did, with minimal warmth and interaction with Joey himself, giving a little speech more for the benefit of viewers or perhaps for the other girls, making it all very introspective. It never seemed to cross her mind for a moment to even question her entitlement, or to apologize for how such manipulations might make Joey feel. It smacked of narcissism. A woman with interest in Joey might have shyly offered him the card with the playful idea that maybe he'd give it back to her someday: conveying interest, humility, intelligence and integrity. Instead, she threw away that opportunity and reduced the card's value to a mere integrity signifier. Pretty damn easy integrity test given the sheer obtuseness required of the alternative -- and barely, just barely passed.
    I suspect this sort casting is a producer plant -- not that emotionally immature young fame chasers are hard to find, but when someone's chances are slim and/or they aren't interested in a rush engagement to a virtual stranger anyway, it can't be too difficult to purchase some well-timed catty drama, and I'm sure in exchange for rings, wardrobe and other perks, a show lead can be induced to keep someone around until at least hometowns.

  • @jfoot2732
    @jfoot2732 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Sydney HAS to be a producer plant... Sydney is besties with Ashley Iaconetti who was on the Bachelor competing for Chris Soules on S19.. She apparently pulled strings to get her on the show. The producers probably told her to pick a fight with someone, ANYONE. Then her cheerleading "talent" was so over the top that no one could take it seriously. They told her to stir sh*t up. It's so obvious 💀

  • @ilenegallo6406
    @ilenegallo6406 Před 4 měsíci

    Love your recaps🥰🥰🤩

  • @milwaukeemotor5995
    @milwaukeemotor5995 Před 4 měsíci +5

    lea if you had to deal with what maria has had to deal with you would be crying to or extremely annoyed

  • @livpond5346
    @livpond5346 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Yeah that part where Maria attacked Sydney was crazy. When she body slammed her into the pool and had her in a choke hold…… damn that poor baby

  • @teamworld4802
    @teamworld4802 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Sidney is hilarious. I know they are out there, in real life, but she overdid it so much that I just 😂😂😂😂.
    Completely like the Doberman woman LOL.

  • @MszEveryShot
    @MszEveryShot Před 4 měsíci +2

    What the heck are we missing yall!? All the grls on Syds side like Maria did do something or say something that we didn't see. Im so lost

  • @yikes5399
    @yikes5399 Před měsícem

    That Karen clip is hilarious, her screaming “dobermannn!” At that dog that is clearly not a Doberman sent me

  • @parrisnia72
    @parrisnia72 Před 4 měsíci

    I'm glad you mentioned the salmon jacket! When I saw that, I was like IT HAS RETURNED!!!!!!!!!! 😆😆😆 Brotherhood of the traveling salmon jacket 🤣

  • @itskatmckenzie
    @itskatmckenzie Před 4 měsíci +2

    Lea getting involved might’ve been her last ditch effort to get to BIP 😂

  • @adriana77
    @adriana77 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Sydney is a psycho. She’s so unlikeable. I love Maria! She’s got a fun personality and she’s putting up with these mean girls. I feel for her. Go Maria!!! ❤

  • @codytoads
    @codytoads Před 4 měsíci +2

    I wish poor Maria wasn't getting this edit tbh, I really like her and Joey and it seems that she's really there to get to know him and build a relationship and she's so sweet with the other girls. To think she'll get eliminated all bc of unnessecary drama is so dumb.

  • @ml11-11
    @ml11-11 Před 4 měsíci +12

    I was rooting for Lea but she’s down at the bottom where Sydney is. Heck I thought I wouldn’t like Jess the whole season but she’s improved since the first episode thanks to the mean girls overpowering her

    • @TaratheEnchantress
      @TaratheEnchantress Před 4 měsíci +2

      Tonight episode might put Jess down with Sydney and Lea after all the previews….

    • @ml11-11
      @ml11-11 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@TaratheEnchantresswait really? Her villain edit returns? I need to watch a preview now lol

    • @judyw8686
      @judyw8686 Před 4 měsíci +2

      To me, it seemed like Jess was "team Sydney" when she was talking to Lea. There were a few others, too. I don't get it.

    • @ml11-11
      @ml11-11 Před 4 měsíci

      @@judyw8686oh yeah I did catch that. just watched the preview for tonight and it seems like the drama is between Lea and Jess?

    • @neuroatypi_gal
      @neuroatypi_gal Před 4 měsíci

      I relate to this so much

  • @savannahrains8187
    @savannahrains8187 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Omg the priest thing was vile!!

  • @DottieMinerva
    @DottieMinerva Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank god for your recaps because I can’t take 2-3 hours of this

  • @morganmassey1652
    @morganmassey1652 Před 4 měsíci +2

    I cannot wait for the women tell all where Sydney has to watch where Maria did literally nothing