What Happens When Someone DOES Object During a Wedding?
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While it may come as a surprise to many, it turns out the whole, “If anyone can show just cause why this couple cannot lawfully be joined together in matrimony, let them speak now or forever hold their peace” is actually a required part of the ceremony among certain church groups unless special dispensation is made in those cases. So what happens if someone actually objects and where did this part of the ceremony come from?
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Please let your graphics guy know 1:30 got a hearty chuckle out of me.
Simple, if someone objects, then like in the Shrek movie, a dragon crashes through the glass and eats the groom.
Exactly! Obviously. 🙄 Unnecessary video.
Well, technically that does generate a good reason that they cannot be lawfully be wed. Very few jurisdictions allow posthumous weddings after all.
I guess I'm going to more weddings if that's true. REALLY want to see that!!
And burps the crown!
I found that out the hard way when i jokingly said objection when my brother got married :(
The audience goes "oooh", then we go to commercial.
@Phytom I think you misunderstood the joke, but I'm not going to explain it yet because if that was sarcasm, I couldn't tell lmao
@@qwirky1709 So whether or not @Phytom was being sarcastic is something you could not... fathom?
*badum tss*
I figured it would just end on a cliffhanger.
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Simple. They chime in with a "haven't you people ever heard of closing a goddamn door?"
I was thinking of that song!
No it’s much better to face these kinds of things with a sense of poise and rationality
I applaud you
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Leftylizard yes 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
A trial by combat between the groom and the objector, hopefully.
5000 Quatloos on the newcomer.
*Star Trek fight music begins playing*
An 18th century style duel with cutlasses....winner marries the girl, loser gets a nice gravestone.
Seems simple enough! :-)
Unless the objector is his mother, or worse his bride’s. That’s one battle he’ll never win.
Must be decided by Mortal Kombat
The _"I pronounce you brother and sister, you sick f*cks"_ had me dying.
Pretty sure incest is legal In 1 state. Might be Alabama.
Alabama 101
@@dudeistpreist5721 It's actually Kentucky.
@@elicrowleyycontreras1135 That does not surprise me. Maybe inbreeding in recent years has made the quality of chicken decline. In more ways than one.
Oh god do you think they inbreed chickens there?
Alabama has left the chat
Answering the questions we didn't know we wanted
@FantomOmega It often does.
@FantomOmega reality is often disappointing
I certainly knew I wanted the answer to this.
How to get kicked out real quick😂
Not just kicked out ....
Robert T how to make it very awkward as well😂😂😂
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A relative of mine was a wedding photographer for a wedding that had an objection. The ex-wife of the groom showed up and claimed to still be married. The groom didn't have his divorce certificate with him (who does?) and the solicitors were unreachable (it was the holidays) so they had to postpone the wedding until they could get proof he wasn't already married.
The silver lining is that they had booked professionals for the catering and photography whose insurance covered everything up to a complete do-over, so they got to have the wedding they had planned, albeit a few weeks later than originally intended.
What a bitch
Wow
She sounds a really sinister person. That’s just horrible. I hope the poor couple weren’t embarrassed by that.
@@FirstnameLastname-es1koi think that means they got to have two weddings right? Id be like meh that was just our practice wedding.
MrSpying247 that’s definitely a more positive way to look at it haha
I want someone to object to my wedding and my husband to sword fight with him. That could be fun...
I already post the link elsewhere in this thread but here you go :
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Unless your husband looses and dies.
Make sure he cheats!
There may be some legal hoops for that
Only if I get to back him up with my own sword
Only time I've ever seen anyone object to a wedding was in shrek XD
Objection,
4 weddings and a funeral.
Watch “while you were sleeping” with Sandra Bullock in it
What about on General Hospital?
That's a movie. Its a popular trope in movies. You have never seen anyone actually object in a wedding
Made of honor...no? No one? Ok..
Person: "Excuse me!"
Crowd: "Ohhhhhh!"
Person: "I'm sorry, you all seemed so busy before this point. The groom dropped his handkerchief over there. No, there. Yes. You're welcome. Proceed."
When my wife and I got married, we had a justice of the peace marry us. We were asked before the wedding if she wanted us to ask the ‘objection’ question. She strongly advised against it, because she said its not uncommon for some joker (or drunk uncle) to stand up and say ‘I object’. At that point, she said she had a responsibility to stop the ceremony, take that person aside, and hear their objection. Needless to say, we skipped that part....
Badr eddin
Are you that desperate?
@@zain4019 I am
Whhaattt?🤔
jowalter05 - Oh lord... please tell me you ran as far away as possible after the marriage...
jowalter05 I’m very sorry to hear that you had to put up with that.
What happens? Shit gets real real quick...
holidayhouse03 underrated comment😂
ahahahahahahah 😂😂😂😂😂
Nice
Probably a scandalist revelation comes forth. Everyone is then in shock. Then you get the Disney ending where neither care of past actions. The other a game of thrones approach in which major conflict occurs and nation being families go to war.
Really *
Wife: "I look fat. Can you give me a compliment?"
Husband: "You have perfect eyesight."
Ooof. 🤭
I OBJECT !
HaHaHA Good one!
Husband: I will. Right after and during our 10km run. Oh, and I'm taking over the kitchen.
Wife: "Do I look fat?"
Hisband: *remains silent
Wife: "well?"
Husband: "Anything I say will get me in trouble."
Someone : "I object!"
Priest: "Why so? "
Someone : " Thats my brother marrying my mother ..."
You must be from Alabama !
flitsertheo 😂😂😂😂
Wtf 😂😂
He's just jealous
That’s how we do it down south
I was a bridesmaid for my step-sister’s wedding yesterday. I saw my step dad whisper something to her husband when he walked her up to him and I was slightly concerned. I asked later what he said and apparently he said “She’s in it for the money, run.” 💀
Oof
Damn
Aaaand did they still get married? Are they still married now?
😂
Shrek barges in and fiona turns into an ogre the king gets eaten by a dragon and everyone lives happily ever after
He still wasn't a king and never will be
King Hatkai actually if the dragon ex machina hadn’t shown up and since he was in the process of being crowned King of Duloc, he would have been crowned and that would’ve been the end of the franchise since he had ordered Shrek and Donkey’s deaths.
What happens? They dont get invited to tye anniversary party
More so the reception
@@CashelOConnolly They don't _all_ fail. Why, I know one person who's had three successful marriages. He eventually decided to settle down and fill his home with cats.
I've never heard of anyone invited to an anniversary for a married couple...
@@StopChangingUsernamesCZcams a guy with cats?
@@scotthenrie5674 well... two relatives of mine celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary last year, if I remember correctly.
I’ve been to over 30 weddings (photographing weddings) and the question was never asked - This includes once at a court house wedding. But I hear it all the time in movies.
God that picture with : "I pronounce you brother and sister" had me rolling on the floor.
Song of The South intensified!
Sweet home Alabama
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I want a green beard too....
I never noticed that until you mentioned it.
Exorcist beard
Its your eyes
I tot I was the only one!!!
I love how this channel answers all the questions I don’t feel like googling lol.
A lot of them are questions I never thought of asking. LOL.
As always, I love your non partisan approach to the facts. The subject today gave ample openings to mock religion and traditional marriage yet you remained dedicated to the facts. Thank you for your impartiality.
I also appreciate this!
@Tom Voke and then there's you, thankfully not a CZcamsr
He did make a Top Tenz video declaring The Church of Jesus Christ to be a fraud.
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@@connormccloy9399 but that's about the specific people of that church so its different I guess
@Tom Voke Sorry, but you are just jealous because religious people are just happier. I say this even though I'm not religious, I actually wish I could be religious. But I don't seem to have any spirituality in me whatsoever. I can't even say I'm spiritual, but not religious, because I'm not even that. It seems to be a human trait I don't possess.
Regardless, even though I am not religious, I will defend religion and Christianity in general. Because when you insult religion, you insult my family which is religious. And they are good people despite what you atheists and liberals think. I wish I could be like them, but I am not.
I tried to object to my own first marriage!
JoAnn Ivaldi how did that go? 😆
JoAnn Ivaldi Sounds like Rodney Dangerfield
Tried .....?
@@FirstNameLastName-hb1fl Lol right? How does one _try_ to object to their own marriage? I mean, unless you live in a place like India where there are arranged marriages, you're allowed to say no to getting married, no?
@@AllisonChains64 she must've sadly been raised muslim. Alot of those girls are married off when there only around 13, and often don't have a choice .
I really appreciate your efforts and the contents of this channel.
Even the most knowledgeable person I know could not answer these questions.
You should perhaps gain more knowledgeable friends ;)
I second your compliment, btw.
He got all the answers... He knows all and see's all, hahaha😀
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In Italy we have the "publications": you have to make public with an official act in a public register that you are going to marry someone, I think 1 month before the marriage
00000a0009 it’s usually called “the banns” in English, and I’m familiar with a two week period proceeding the wedding. Probably based on similar customs, though!
In Brazil if someone objects to a wedding on the grounds of any unlawfulness, the priest or the judge celebrating the ceremony has to present the claimant before the plantonist judge of that judicial district imediately. The person who object have to present the judge with proofs of the unlawfulness and if the proofs are reasonable, the judge must rule a provision suspending temporarily the marriage to the defense be made by the couple.
Never heard of that happening, by the way.
The objector must immediately state a legal impediment to the marriage, such as a consanguineous relationship, not a complaint that the wedding is taking place.
You're in a consanguineous relationship.
@@Malamockq You're the definition of consanguinity. There was never a more consanguineous person in the history of consanguinity.
@@vaclavjebavy5118 Nice sock puppet account Fermented. You're still in a consanguineous relationship.
@@Malamockq I am not a sock puppet, you twonk. I'm his sister.
@@vaclavjebavy5118 So you're the sister that's in a consanguineous relationship with this guy? Nice gaffe XD
Didn’t know Johnny Sins had an English accent, guess we can add that to his portfolio of his other inspiring activities.
Why does this inspiring comment only have 4 likes?
@@justlia0 because we're late to the party and only got here through recommendations
"Because ... *_CHEESECAKE!_* Right on, Simon!
I don't object the wedding, but I do object having cheescakes because I'm intolerant, if not allergic.
Brock Mak sucks to suck
😂
The objection has to be for a legal reasons only.
For legal reasons that's a joke
You can't just mary your sister
JЭRICKO no you cant mary her but joseph can.........................
Yes, that is the 10-word summary of this 7 1/2 minute video
That doesn't make sense - it's either 'a legal reason' or 'legal reasons'
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I specifically requested that that line be left out of my wedding; my mother can’t stand my husband and I didn’t want to risk any additional drama on her part.
hahaha that’s a smart idea
I requested the same, as my dad hated my husband and it would have totally been like him to stand up and make a scene, he did manage to make a terrible speech during the reception though 😑
He's come around though 3 years later and really likes my husband (he just didnt want me to marry anyone at all back then)
I legit shouted I OBJECT at my sisters wedding 😂 my mum slapped my head. just a joke 😂
Savage
What happens in Alabama stays in the family
Abe Simpson smashes through the window shouting "MRS BOUVIER"
When I get married I want to hire two people dressed as Shrek to run down the isles yelling ”I OBJECT!!!” (and yes I said isles cause 1: I'm gay and I want both my groom and I to walk the isle together and 2: I wanna get married in a theatre cause I'm a theatre kid and most theatres have 2 isles which is fitting)
whyd u go on a rant
No one would have questioned why you said isles? But go off sis
That's cool
It is “aisles”. “Isles” represents a group of (usually) small islands. An example are the British isles. A cluster of 5 large islands surrounded by thousands of smaller “isles”.
@@waterfallsdontsaymeow2917 I was wondering if it was a Caribbean wedding or something with tiny islets forming a path.
Good for him though
Phoenix : OBJECTION!
Miles: That’s objectionable
Priest: if you have any ubjections state them now or forever hold your peace
Me: I object as this wedding has been sponsored by raid shadow legends and it's time for an add read
I have heard that in Europe in medieval times when nobility married the objections arose from rival claimants to the bride, given that wealth and property were involved. In some cases duels were fought between the rival claimant and the groom's party, usually involving the best Man whom would fight on behalf of the groom. I cannot recall where I first read this, tho...Maybe Simon could find out..
Simon doesn't find things out. Simon reads a script and then mixes a martini.
ted Cook--I remember hearing that as a child, decades ago now. The other part of it was that the bride's maids were dressed almost identically to the bride to thwart any attempts at kidnapping the bride, either for ransom or to prevent her from marrying a rival.
Only in books like Ivanhoe.
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Absolutely true. Marriage is as old as religion itself. Women were chattel. If Dad made a betrothal contract with someone (often when a child was born ) but then was able to "upgrade" his prospects, he could be sued for 'breach of promise' so the abandoned suitor was not to suffer from embarassment because reputation was tied to social standing. Especially if rhe bride had a dowry. Or the groom was to pay a 'bride price'. Marriage has always been a business- just not as commercial as today.
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My brain when I am about to marry my crush in a dream be like:
Bruh
Weird. I just had a D&D campaign last night in which there was a wedding that my players had to interrupt right at the objecting part.
40 Miles of Bad Rhoads sounds funny
I read this as “What happens when someone DIES during a wedding” lol
I remember being in civil courts class, like civil disputes. I forgot the technicalities but you can sue someone for ruining your ceremony (depending on what they do) because weddings are expensive.
Well done as always, thank you for your efforts...
I liked this video for your sheer joy at talking about cheesecake
😂
What happens if someone objects to a wedding?
We bring it to the court, load our truth bullets in, call Phoenix Wright, and say "Oh Jesus!" to this Love Trial.
Wow! That's a good amount of detail; keep it Simon.
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If he says they have to sword fight then I’m objecting next wedding
I prefer how "Everybody Loves Raymond" handled it better than any real answer.
Another fascinating video simon. Keep it up
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"Because cheesecake."
Whistler, Simon - 2019
Simon, thank you for the cheese cake course. I have ascended to my final form.... Cheesecake conosiur
I’ve always wanted to be the guy who bursts through the church doors right as they ask that and just say, “I object!”
The brother and sister bit got me. 🤣🤣🤣
Because cheesecake. Valid reason in my humble opinion.
More of a fact than an opinion tbh
"I OBJECT THIS WEDDING. THERE'S NO CHEESECAKE!"
@@DoomguyIsGrinningAtYou. plays mayonnaise inna shocked way
you stay asking and answering the real questions out here lmao
I have always wondered this in the back of my head whenever weddings have been brought up but never though to look it up until I seen this in my reccomneded
I love how the advertisement before the video began was from Zales, showing a wedding.
I remember when one of my good friends was getting married and a 5 year old screamed no, no, no! Ok it was not related to the to the wedding but it was very funny.
I was literally JUST thinking of this last night and this popped up in my recommenced, I didn’t even look this up, it was just a thought.
Good video, as always!
wow... his voice is so soothing
"Hey, I love her and she's having my baby!"
Possibly wouldn't matter legally but I bet that would bust most nuptials wide open on other grounds.
What happens? A few things can happen:
A: They dismiss it as a side effect of too much wine.
B: They tase the objector.
C: They shout "GIT R DONE!" in event of the couple being exposed as related by blood, then crack open another Bud Lite.
I've encountered many an ad for skillshare but "because cheesecake" may be the most compelling argument I've heard.
I've married two couples and did not ask if anyone objects, then again I wrote/modified my own sermons.
1:36 highlight on the right, hahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣
Today I Found Out: Simon Whistler loves cheesecake.
Also, the concept of what cheesecake is is somewhat convoluted. Most are not pies, but are more like a tart. the lack of egg in most makes them not a custatd. the Japanese version of cheesecake is more likely to be a true "cake", but key lime, new york, and other typical cheesecakes are not cakes at all.
😀😀
But they are delicious. So there.
Since I discovered the stuff is actual cheese, I haven't been able to eat one. It's just wrong.
@@greenaum cream cheese. Slightly different than sticking mozzarella in a dessert.
@@ilexater9556 Still milk + germs. If I wanted milk infested with bacteria I'd go look in my fridge, not get someone to contaminate it deliberately. It's just not right to have something like that as a dessert.
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I swear y’all be asking and answering the questions I’ve always thought about lmao
I always wondered about this, thanks!
In Italy is a requirement to post the wedding information at the town/city hall for two weeks before the wedding. This is an old Christian tradition, but it prevents people marrying if there is an issue, like one of the parties is already married.
This was the custom in my native Germany as well- later, to be posted at the registrar's office. Nowadays, any changes to your marital status are filed at the central registry in Berlin. Prior to a wedding, the local registrar will pull the file from Berlin to see that all is as it should be. Done. They did away with the public announcement then, as people were then pestered by insurance agents and the like! No joke...
Glad you found a way to put cheesecake in the mix; it just makes sense :D
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OBJECTION! THIS MAN HAS NO HEAD!
I have always wondered this, actually. Good topic! Also LMAO @ 'because... cheesecake'
When I hear the intro noise it always makes me sing the Monkees “I’m a Believer” 😂
British vsauce
You convinced me with cheesecake lol
I actually was thinking about this yesterday 😂 then this shows up in my feed
Simon, the way you delivered that part in the beginning. I want you to officiate my wedding!!!
Groom: “I…’ve gotta go!”
I've seen a bride do that too, holy shit was that awkward! We still got sandwiches though. Yes sandwiches. That wedding reception was casual, and I don't regret it cuz those sandwiches were damn good. But it was like everybody was trying to talk about anything but what just happened because everyone was listening. LOL.
Father in law: "Stay put!" __
If Shrek kicks the door in on my wedding to object I'm going to be so pissed.
Even if you're fiona?
Always funny and educational
Love looking at stories about this and other wedding shenanigans on Reddit. Just finished looking at some a little while ago.
Some jurisdictions (like Arizona) don’t even require the “just cause” language.
Bro he talked about marriage in family. SWEET HOME ALABAMA DUNA DUNA, YEAH IM COMING HOME YO YOUoooooo
Cool! Thanks! 👍
Hahaha never imagined I will watch it hear. Planning to watch it in other videos in YT and expecting a fight. Lol
Jamie needs to quit getting his sister pregnart.
justinl458 well not much of an issue anymore, they decided to destroy the ending. We all know who was supposed to get the throne.
Lol...or move toTexas or Arkansas? Just a joke...
@@1014p game of thrones?
@@DoomguyIsGrinningAtYou. yes
"I hope you enjoyed today's video ---- because cheesecake"
😂
You have an amazing voice! And you speak clearly
"because cheesecake"; okay, thank you for a spoken add that made me laugh