Craziest People That OBJECTED At Weddings - REACTION
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Hey ya'll! Today on my channel we are reacting to some people that objected at weddings. Speak now or forever hold your peace, you usally think nothing would come after that sentence but these are some times when weddings went wrong. Enjoy:)
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My mother told my sister she was planning to object at my wedding. She gave me a heads up and we removed the objection option from the ceremony. Best decision for us and we have been married 21 years!
Edited to add: thanks so much for all the comments, my husband and I read them together. We also watch Charlotte together ❤️
To answer some questions:
My husband and I were high-school sweethearts and were young when we met, he was 15 and I was 14. We fell head over heals in love from the start and were together for 4 years when we married. We have been together for 26 years and every day is bliss.
As far as my mother goes, I absolutely knew she would follow through with her threat, she never liked my husband. She was divorcing my dad and had blown her life up with an affair and when I found the love of my life, she objected to my happiness... when my amazing sister told me what she was up to, we had the option removed for her to make it about her. It was a lovely small ceremony of about 20 people, we were just kids after all. I've been no contact with her for a few years now, it's so peaceful.
Hahaha I’m just picturing her waiting and waiting to hear that part and it not happening. I can feel the disappointment 😂😂. Made me laugh. I’m so glad your sister let you know.
great sister - keep her near :)
Why cant they change it to, "anyone who objects to this union can forever hold their peace" instead of giving a literal invitation for someone, anyone to interrupt the ceremony for WHATEVER reason they deem fit. Lmao
Love this for you!! She must have been boiling inside!! Hahaha Charlotte needs to see this
Omg the tea! Did your sister tell you why your mother wanted to object?
I read one where the brides dad died before she got married but he was also an organ donor. So she had the man who received her dad’s heart to walk her down the isle.
Yes! I've heard of a few of those stories, and they're always so heartwarming. Everyone involved is so openly emotional and it's such a sweet moment, and everyone feels the weight of everything that had happened. It's beautiful.
Wholesome
And your mom?
Omg 😭❤️
Could you direct me to the story?🥺😭🥰
I was pregnant at my wedding. Just before my husband walked up to the altar, my dad pulled him aside, saying, "you know you don't have to marry her. You can walk away and we'll raise the baby ourselves."
"Paul, go sit down."
I love my hubby :)
Thats awesome omg😂
@ladyportia3384 still strong nearly 10 years later :)
Your father was trying to be nice, but also wholesome. The fact that he didn't want someone to be bound to a relationship they may or may not wanted because of the duty to a child can end up really unhealthy for all involved. And the fact that he said "We'll raise it ourselves" meant that he was willing to go through diaper changes and the terrible 2s all over again, just for you. That's a real family you have there. Nice to hear they still exist.
You should love your dad too because he was making sure your husband wasn’t marrying you out of obligation but rather love and telling him that you would have all of their support and love.
What an absolute legend.
I remember one time a cousin was at a roommate’s wedding. When asked “any objections”, someone did object. It was the roommate’s niece, who was like, 1 year old. She toddled up to the groom, hugged his legs, turned to the bride, hugged her legs, toddled back to her chair, and sat down. Awkward silence… then laughter. Til this day, the joke goes that the niece objected, then gave her blessing. Still Fuckin’ funny to me, lol.
And by “object”, I mean she let out a yell, and then did her thing.
@@monroerobbins7551omg that’s the cutest thing ever! I can definitely see my 4 year old niece do something like that 🤣
I wish the bride with the objecting mother-in-law had said: "I love him for all of his flaws, including his worst flaw which is you, Judy."
I felt the heat of that burn from way over here lol
Daaaaang! Several ice packs needed.
I'mma need an industrial silo o' liquid nitrogen, for that one.
I wish that you could have told this to the bride it would be savage without being rude amazing roast 😂
Charlotte: "Alright, we're gonna end this on a lighter note."
Proceeds to end this on one of the saddest and heavily emotional stories she's ever had on her channel.
I was barely holding it together and then i noticed even the officiant was crying. I quit trying 😭
I was bawling!
I bawled like a baby!!
I bawled.
I know! Light-hearted does not mean make everyone cry!!
"Everyone has flaws"
"You can't tell me you don't have flaws"
Judy, that's what she JUST SAID, she has flaws, your son has flaws, but most of all JUDY HAS FLAWS!
My MIL couldn't even wait until the "objection" part. As I was standing at the back of the church, ready to walk down the aisle, she walked up to her son and LOUDLY asked him "Are you SURE you want to do this? It's not too late to change your mind". After 21 yrs of marriage, her and I STILL don't speak.
I do hope you SO is included in that NC
@@WobblesWattles Nope. He still talks to her at least every other week 🙄🙄
The last wedding I officiated, I asked, "Is there anyone here who objects to this marriage? If so, sit down and shut up. We're doing this."
you are a legend
That's awesome lol
You know what? I think when I marry my boyfriend I want our officiant to do exactly that.
So freaking awesome 😂
That is so awesome.
You NEVER announce your own shit at someone else's wedding. The spotlight should stay on the married couple. No proposals, engagements, pregnancy announcements and coming out speeches.
Yeah, that's a rule someone needs to publish. I've seen it too many times.
I will add, the ONLY time it is appropriate is if you have the couples consent to propose etc. And if they say no, you HAVE to respect their decision. It is their day. You can ask but you should never do it without permission.
Only announcement that should be made at someone else’s wedding is, one revealing a dark secret that will change whether or not they get married. Although given the chance you should reveal it before the wedding and not wastes everyone’s time just for the drama
Unless given permission by the bride and groom. I've seen videos of best friends set up for their maid of honor/bride's maid to get proposed to at their wedding and the whole thing was really sweet. She went to throw the bouquet but instead..turned around and just handed it to her friend and he came get down on one knee. Sweet idea.
@@mistypedhiAgreed, it has to be the idea of the bride and groom as it is their day.
Low-key high-key absolutely love the "fight" between the groom and his friend. Highly entertaining and definitely a memorable wedding 🤣🤣
It was cute how they staged it
A great way to keep everyone entertained until the bride was fully ready to start the walk.
Okay, I had to look up some stuff about marriage in medieval times for a book I'm writing. Groomsmen were actually men who were there to protect the bride from her own family, and the best man was literally the best swordsman. The bridal party was there to confuse malicious spirits, and the objections were there for the standard reasonings of " they're not virgins, they're cheating, one of them isn't Catholic," all the stuff medieval people worried about. Soo... Yeah!
The first one where the officiant said "legal reasons why they can't marry" and them being married already is a very valid objection
I wanna know what happened there...
I wanna know what happened too! It almost looks staged though.
Could make for a good comedy film -- both conning the other.
They had already got married in Nashville USA, they live in England
@@kathbretherton2238 Seriously? It was all a lame joke?
Bride: everyone has flaws that's why I love him.
Husband's mom; yeah like you don't have flaws.
She... she just said...
I've seen that one so many times, yet I always forget the reason she Karened. It didn't matter what the bride said. That woman was just waiting for any excuse to ruin the ceremony.
yeah that woman isn't the brightest bulb - I think the bride is raising the average IQ of her family
I read something about two lawyers getting married, and the "speak now or hold your peace" they had their other lawyer friends yell out "OBJECTION!". it was pretty funny
For the story where the cousin interrupted the wedding to come out of the closet, there was actually a clarification/update. The cousin was already out of the closet to his friends and family, who were also wedding guests. Unsurprisingly, most of the people at the wedding already knew and the few that didn’t also had no idea who the cousin was and didn’t care. So yeah, totally stealing the spotlight for no real reason.
I'm all for coming out of the closet but at someone's wedding its a bad idea. (Unless the person who wants to come out speak to the bride and groom about it. And the couple are ok with it.)
Classic gay move.
@@Zodroo_Tint I have never met a gay person in my life, or anyone else from the alphabet mafia that felt the need to make someone elses moment about themselfs and thee where times in my life, pretty much everyone I knew was part of it . . . .
Or men who propose at a wedding from their friend, etc being cheapskate. And taking the spotlight away from the groom/bride.
@@bartdegryse9345 This is only okay if the bride & groom are in on it
the bride saying ''everyone has flaws and that's why I love him'' was super sweet though.
Also true. That everyone has flaws etc. Nobody is perfect. What she said about his flaws wasn't wrong or mean or anything bad etc. This is normal wedding vow stuff also. All around his mom seemed crazy. The bride handled it like a boss though. But that also makes me feel like this is not the first time she has acted crazy. Me personally I wouldn't have invited her. I am surprised that the couple did try to include her and unfortunately she still ruined things etc. So sad.
So true. Feel sorry for the bride and groom. That Judy lady needs to just go away. She just sounds like a miserable black hole that sucks all the joy out of any room.
@@MusicLoverMN It's still her son so maybe it was important to him to her here despite her being such a Karen. We don't know for sure. Also if she behaved that way it's not impossible she could have done worse if she wasn't invited at all.
I just hope the couple is okay now
The maid of honour waited until the actual wedding to confess that the groom had been cheating with her for MONTHS - but then said she didn't want to hurt the bride?? She'd had months to tell the bride privately but chose to make a public announcement.
That last one was simply beautiful
she didn't want to hurt her ~further~
She didn't want the bride to hurt her.
Maybe, just Maybe, she knew he'd deny it & the bride would believe him. This way Both bridges were burned not Just the "friend" getting the boot & the Groom being forgiven for being "weakened by the slut throwing herself at Poor Him"
We really don't know, she might have tried to warn her friend he's no good before & she wouldn't listen to anyone but him. (I've known people like that)
I think it was two different women. He was cheating with a brides maid for months then at the wedding he tried to get with the maid of honor and she’s the one that didn’t want to hurt the bride further. The other brides maid is just a little bitch. I hope she lost all her friends that day.
And the last story had me in tears 😭
Yeah I was also shocked at that too. Like, how do you hide smth like that from your friend? Wouldn’t that make you the home wrecker? Either way, I’m glad she didn’t end up with him. These stories scare me to be in a relationship so much but I’ve realized that I’m way happier being single than dating anyone.
Best reaction I ever watched to an objection (and weirdly, been to ~3~ weddings where that happened) was the bride's ex showed up, drunk, and actually bull rushed the groom yelling he was getting her back and would kill the groom publicly to prove it. Without a word, 2 of the groomsmen stepped in front of both the bride and groom, grabbed him, picked him up by his pants and collar and simply ~carried~ him out screaming. They might have 'accidentally' knocked him headfirst into half the pews on the way down the aisle (ALL of the groomsmen were military and the two who grabbed him were MP's and HUGE bruisers. We're talking 6'5 and 6'6 and built like tanks.) Best part of the whole thing was when they stopped at the parent's aisles and politely asked both ~mom's~ if they had any suggestions. Both mothers stood up, smoothed their dresses, smiled thru clenched teeth, looked at each other, told everyone 'just a moment, we'll be right back' and walked out with the screaming idiot and his carriers. 'Technically' I'm not sure what happened, but I do know they both came back in less than 5, there had been a fair bit of yelling from the backroom, some rather impressive thunking sounds and I took the groom's mom quietly to a walk-in urgent care AFTER the ceremony because her hand had started to swell and was discovered to have cracked 2 bones in her hand. Ceremony went on, granted with a bit of nervous twitchery on everyone's part. Bride ended up sending both mom's massive flower arrangements from the honeymoon, the groom sent the mom's rather spiffy pairs of boxing gloves and both mom's got coupons for classes at the local boxing ring from the groomsmen...
That's amazing. The coupons for class is the cherry on top
Did everyone clap?
Epic XD I feel like this is something my MIL would have done if something like this had happened at my wedding.
Ha, this story is the perfect example of why groomsmen are even a thing. Good on them.
Hahaha I love how this was dealt with
I was ready to be mad at the obviously fake wedding fight, but then again it certainly be the most entertaining wedding I'd ever been to
The last story legitimately made me cry, Charlotte. And, I'm not the type of person to cry without strong emotions behind the tears, so that's saying a lot!
Me too 🥺🥲💘
I had previously saw that last clip.. still cried like I never saw it before. Warms my heart!
Me too! How sweet of em all to arrange that for the wedding
"I'm not crying, you're crying"
Even the priest cried.
Me too. I can cry to a commercial.
🤓🏴☠️🇸🇪
I love the idea of hiring someone to "object" to the wedding, only for a duel to break out between the two. But I'm also a huge nerd and want my wedding to just be super fun and goofy for everyone
play the Star Trek fight music
That was truly epic. 😂
As a geek and theatre nerd a staged objection and battle is just too awesome. But I would totally need to interrupt the duel as the bride and fight them so I choose. The important question is swords or lightsabers. lol. I suppose I need a boyfriend first. *sigh*
@Nicole Lavigne that would be so incredible! The bride getting involved takes it to the next level. If/when you get to have a celebration or ceremony that this would work for, I hope you're able to pull this off with flair!
@@nicolelavigne1700 or both
Oh damn! That last clip was such a sweet tearjerker! How special was it for those parents to be able to listen to their son's heart beating on their wedding day. They are wonderful and selfless for making the decision to donate his organs so others could have a better life. Cudos to the young man who got the heart, and the sister for putting it together. So sweet.
I respect that second bride so frickin much!
Solid tone, no yelling.
"You're not gonna ruin my wedding."
We all have that choice to let others get to us, or just go out there and live our best lives
I've watched the whole video before and it's even better. The groom is on the verge of tears at some point (presumably triggered from all that he's endured in the past) and the bride reaches in to comfort him after kicking out the MIL. That's a woman who a) takes no crap from anyone, and b) understands her husband's trauma and takes good care of him.
The bride's sister in the last video is an angel . She made everyone (including Charlotte ) cry tears of joy . Also , even though we may have watched some of the videos before , we are here for Charlotte's take on it .
(As I ugly cry) Yes...I agree to all of the above ⬆️
If you are going to make a 'marriage objection' video, THAT'S how you end it. Makes you forget all the others.
Charlotte fake cried.
even the judge was crying!
Tough face failing while my eyes leak.
Classic Charlotte. “We’re going to end this on a lighter note.” *Kicks us all in the feels
All UP IN the feels! Gahhh🥺🥺🥺🥺
Never had any crazy wedding stories. For my wedding we chose to have an Alice in Wonderland theme. My husband had a cane, top hat, and of course tails for his tux. My wedding dress was strapless so my Grandma crocheted beautiful straps for it. And I also had an evening dress (the total cost of both dresses including alterations was less than $450). All of the bridal party got individual one cup tea pot/cup, that I painted to make it look like they had cracks and chips (similar to the Mad Hatter's tea parties). We also had imagines from both Disney versions along all the walls. And for party favours my Mum and I made a couple of different homemade jams that we decorated in a couple of layers of mesh and cute little stickers. My husband and I have been married for almost 9 years now.
Then a couple of years ago my sister got married and they had a Ninja Turtle theme. Each set for the bridal party was a different Ninja Turtle colour. And they had the Ninja Turtle weapons made for a photo shoot. They also did pizza for their dinner.
Both sound dope af
I NEED TO GO TO THOSE WEDDINGS😁😁
OMG I used to know one of the original TMNT animators! He would've gotten a kick out of this story!
That story about the sons ❤️ My partner donated organs and just being told who they had gone to and that they had been successful was great to hear, that out of a tragedy other people had received a chance to live more fully was comforting.
My first husband's ex was going to object to our wedding by saying two of my kids weren't his. I think he knew they weren't his already as he met me when they were 2 and 4.
Omg xD tell me she's blonde without telling me she's blonde :P
@@GubbiGap hahaha unfortunately she's not. I still laugh at it after 21 years.
@@tigerlilly9809 Dang it xD well glad you weren't offended by my joke - I was a little worried as it is the internet
damn, what was her reaction when she found that out? to find out that your hubby KNEW they weren't his because they were already born before you 2 met?
@@AngelKiller666Kitsune to be honest, I had met her before we even got engaged. So she already knew. That's what I couldn't understand with the threat, she knew he knew
Staying together for the children is the wrong thing to do. From my experience, there is nothing worse than watching your parents destroy each other. I feel like the kids notice it no matter how hard you try.
I had a coworker tell me this. Her parents hated each other and stayed for her. She wished they had divorced.
Yes, we did notice. I'm in my sixties and their toxic relationship affects me to this day.
There's a difference staying together and learning to work things out together is the best for the kids. The kids can be a bug motivator. Of course it's gotta be about learning to live together better, not just fighting non stop.
@@GrandmaLoves2Scuba it took me years to even begin to understand what a healthy relationship looks like.
I feel, like we are all fucked.
My mother-in-law’s name is Judy 😂 We purposely left out the objection part in our wedding because we thought she might actually object. She was actively trying to set him up with other girls while we were engaged!
why are all these mother in laws so crazy
I know this video is old, but it came across my feed as something to watch. We didn’t have any objections at our wedding, but my husband surprised me with having Jack Sparrow show up at our reception! Ok, so it was a friend of ours that used to dress up as him as a side gig (and he always looked and sounded spot on) 😂 My husband knew how much of a fan I am of the movies, so he had him come to let me know “Alas love, it was never going to work out. But at least we’ll always have the rum! Now where’s the rum?”, and take pictures with us and our guests. Best wedding present ever!
Thank you Charlotte for these fun videos ❤ Always makes my day
I had a coworker who's son had a heart transplant when he was 17. They were able to get in contact with the donors family and eventually they got meet the donors' mom, dad and sister. It's been well over 15 years since the transplant and they still go visit the donors family every year. The donors family had also given the recipient some of the donors ashes, so whenever the recipients family goes on vacation, they take along the donors ashes and sprinkle some during their trips. The donor and recipient were actually very similar in regards to hobbies, sports, cars, etc and were only 5 years apart in age (recipient 17 & donor 22). Eventually something so special & amazing happened between the 2 families when the recipient and the donors sister started dating, they are now married with 2 children. 💜❤️ There's a CZcams video about their story czcams.com/video/evzw1QzzGg8/video.html
Beautiful❤️thank you for sharing it.
This should have way more likes. Love this for them! ❤️
That's beautiful.
That's amazing ❤️
Iooi
Charlotte, thanks again for making the last couple years more bearable, and providing laughs throughout the insanity. Long live the queen of potatoes!!
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So true! She has made the last couple of months since I found this channel sooo much more bearable in a very difficult time! I got to binge-watch the blues away. I am dealing with a lot of medical issues and the end of a 5.5 year relationship 6 months ago...I just wish I found this six months ago, not two. Also, it is not just The Potato Queen but also all us Croquettes (Tater Tots?). You guys are the best! I just can't believe how she was able to get so many of us cool people together AND in a sweet, helpful, interesting non-toxic way! Long Live The Potato Queen and The Croquettes! 🥔❤️
@@carolr7333 😊 me too I started watching sweet Charlotte back a few months after she started her channel .... then my hubs got covid and we were quarantined! I was watching her every day lol she kept me sane ❤❤❤
I'm Jewish, and I raised my daughter Jewish. She married a really sweet guy who is Christian. She got married in a church, with all of the groom's Christian family. When it came time for objections, EVERYONE stared at me, even though I've been nothing but supportive. Awkward!
Surprised we didn't see a clip of the "epic wedding ceremony battle" video from like 10 years ago. The Groom and groomsmen were literally wearing armour over parts of their suits... At the 'objection' phrase everyone from a knight to superheroes and ninjas show up for short battle scenes. It was really well done and a touch of entertainment for the family.
There is something SO wrong with Judy of she’s mad that his wife said he had flaws. Are you under the impression your son is flawless, Judy? Cuz he already sucks for not standing up to you.
You be surprised how many mothers act that way.
When and if my son ever gets married I'll give a toast outing his flaws just so this bitch knows what to prepare for lol
To be fair, the son was actually devastated at what had happened. When she stood up and started shouting, he went into a panic attack. His panic response was to Freeze.
@@tinymittensdesign oh, cool, somehow who knows the backstory (I, er, am assuming)! That's awful, did they finish the wedding in the end? Did he ever get over it?
Poor guy.
@@mysterylovescompany2657 They did! They're happily married now and have cut his mom out of their lives, thank god
@@tinymittensdesign I love a happy ending.😁
We do not share the opinion on what constitutes as “light-hearted” but that last story had me in tears too. So beautiful.
Maybe "heartwarming"?
I also do not share the opinion that it was light-hearted, but also, I found the story creepy and off-putting personally.
Edit: I mean no insult to anyone who liked the story, I just don't think I'd want an encounter like that to happen to me or even near me. It was definitely a story that man my skin crawl.
@@Biippa Why is it that you find it creepy and off-putting?
@@Biippa wait im sorry. But creepy? It's a beautiful thing to know something wonderful came out of something so tragic
@@laura121684 I personally would not want someone to come up to me and go "hey, someone you loved, who died? yeah their organs are inside me." Like.. No thanks, that's too "invasion of the body snatchers" meets "harvest," for mt tastes- plus, if it was a family member who introduced us, that would make it even worse. It's like an obsessive invasion of personal privacy. I just am the kind of person where, if my brother died and his heart was donated to someone else, and my cousin told me "hey I brought you the guy who has your brother's heart," that raises so many red flags. So yeah, I find it genuinely creepy and disturbing. It's great that the family involved was happy about it, but if it was me, I would not be happy.
5:50 That was 100% planned and I am loving it for them
My sister was in a hotel with her future parents in law the day of the wedding. When suddenly her future mother in law bursted out screaming for everybody to hear: “You will not steal my son, not you, you will never get my boy”. My sister was shocked and in tears. Her future husband was shocked and speechless and didn’t know what to do. While her future father in law took her into his arms and apologized for his wife’s behavior.
The ceremony took place nevertheless and all was good. It turned her mother in law hadn’t taken her diabetes medication and somehow started to be funny and somehow delusional when that happened. She apologized to my sister and told her how embarrassing this was for her and that she really didn’t feel what she said.
Today my sister (35 years later) is still married, has four children and two grandchildren.
When her mother in law passed she inherited all the jewelry of her mother in law. Then stating in her last will, that how much she loved my sister as if she was her own daughter and that my sister was the best ever happening to her son.
I absolutely believe your MIL about the insulin excuse. My son was discovered to have type one diabetes at 16. He has become so sensitive with his insulin that if he's too low he immediately goes into diabetic shock and I don't even recognize his behavior or what he says as him until he gets stabilized again. I do hope the MIL was able to let go of her embarrassment and enjoy being with you. It is awful what can happen with diabetics.
A friend's wedding was a Shakespearean affair. Appropriate because they, and many of us attending, were actors. That moment of the wedding, "...or forever hold your peace." was broken by the bride who began a debate, in Iambic pentameter, as to why she should consent to the marriage. The groom's argument prevailed and the ceremony was rejoined.
You have cool friends.
I love that hahahahaha
I had to look up Iambic Pentameter? Interested!
Beautiful! THATS the kind of wedding i would love! I would have had to recite, "double double toil and trouble, fire burn and cauldron bubble" right out of MacBeth! 😊♥
We apparently almost had a big announcement at our wedding.
One SIL was sulky all day and left the reception early without saying goodbye to us. MIL then told us SIL was pregnant and we should thank her for keeping it quiet so we could have the focus on us.
From what another SIL said awhile ago, preggo SIL had been thinking our wedding shower or wedding would be the best time to share, but she was told not to by her parents. She was approx. 2 months along at the time and never did any kind of announcement about the pregnancy later, so I guess it wasn't worth announcing if it didn't steal the spotlight from someone else??
I honestly have to wonder if the intent is to steal the spotlight. Logically it's just timing and opportunity. You're kind of out of the woods for losing it, everyone's together in one place and you're probably besides yourself happy about it and tired of holding it in. Weddings are supposed to be about family as much as they are about the couple. Personally, if it was my wedding and I knew my SIL was expecting but hadn't announced, I'd talk to her and get her permission to share the good news after the cake and speeches and surprise her with a mini cake or trinket - especially if I like her. I just can't wrap my head around being so self centered that I can't share someone else's joy.
@@grannyklampit1710 if it had been anyone else I'd be coming to the same conclusion about excitement. I know it was hard to keep the happy news in when I was expecting. She had other chances to tell her extended family, they all live in the same small town and have regular family meals, but she never did.
Unfortunately, this particular SIL is always pushing to be the center of attention. She wore a white dress to her sister's wedding (not a fancy wedding dress but still white) and she knew it would bother her sister. She has weaponized her children so that if you disagree with her on anything, she won't let you see them. We were all in trouble for attending another SILs wedding out of country when she couldn't, because she wouldn't take the time to get one of her kids a passport. The in-laws would have paid all the expenses and we would have helped with the kids traveling, but none of that happened because she just wouldn't do the paperwork because she didn't want to, for months. Then she said she expected someone else to stay behind with that kid so she could attend. No one was willing to do that (non-refundable flights and their sister'swedding) so none of us were allowed to see her kids for "making her miss the wedding." It's so messy.
@@jessi88lee ahhh...a narc. I guess it had to stop somewhere. Good on the family stepping up to squash that before she could upstage the whole thing. The fact that she already had kids makes it even more sobering.
@@grannyklampit1710 I disagree that weddings are supposed to be about "the family." Maybe back in the time of father's giving their daughters away to another family. But in this day and age a wedding should be about the couple, especially if the couple is paying for everything. I did not pay thousands of dollars for the focus to be on someone else.
@@ThisIsKassia family events... you are still bringing two families together; and nobody said the "focus" should be on anyone else. I said share an announcement. There's a huge difference.
Hahah, the story at 12:09 was epic. The fact that they stayed to watch from the church windows xD
I just learned that that in the UK, the "does anyone object" part is required by law! I think a lot of US weddings are starting to omit this part.
A couple of my friends had a pirate wedding. The invitation said everyone was invited to a duel to the death between the bride and groom with cake to be served after. They then negotiated terms as their vows and served pie because the cake was a lie
That sounds like it was a blast!
😅😅😅😅
🤣🤣that sounded like a lot of fun
This was a triumph
I'm making a note here; "Huge success"
👏🏻
6:54 LMAO DID THE MAN JUST SHOUT "FOR THE HONOUR OF GRAYSKULL?" MY FUCKING HERO
at 5:28 THE GROOM IS MY OLD WRESTLING COACH THERE IS NOOOO FUCKING WAY!! I JUST PEED OF LAUGHTER !!😭😭😭😭😭😭
That last story. I absolutely lost it ❤️ how incredibly beautiful!! I can't imagine going through something like that as a parent. The fact that the sister was able to essentially bring that little family back together one more time gives me a little more faith in humanity!
Fun fact: In Italy (and other Catholic countries) banns or “publications” of marriage were posted on the town hall’s doors three times leading up to the wedding to inform the public and allow for objections. The marriage records mention if any lawful impediment was found (like degree of blood separation, which would require a bishop’s dispensation) or if there was an objection. I once found an objection written up to an 1860s-ish wedding where the mother of the groom went on about how the bride wasn’t good enough for her son because she was poor and on and on. Super pride and prejudice. It was about five pages handwritten objection.
So dig into your Italian ancestry and see if you’ve got any objections. 😁
The key word is "lawful". The couple are related to a degree that they don't meet standards for matrimony in that jurisdiction? Good objection. One or both of the couple are married to other people? Good objection. MIL just doesn't want her baby to marry that skank? Bad objection. (No matter how many pages she writes on the subject or acts like a cow at the actual ceremony.) 🤐
Still happens in my country, you have to post the brides and grooms photos at the church wall for a few weeks before the marriage, I live in Costa Rica which is mainly Catholic
Good thing over here church marriage isn't recognized by law anymore. If you want to get married you need to go to the registry office. The registrar is the only one who can legaly wed two people. If you are wed by a priest only, you aren't married at all (at least not in the eyes of the state).
So it might be the first couple are both divorced and the woman was one of these religious nuts who believes it's still "what god has joined together, man should not separate"
now you make me wanna ask around if we have any stories of objections during a wedding!
Not just Italy for sure. This was the standard in Britain as well.
I'm sitting here bawling like a 62 year old infant at that last story....Even the Judge presiding over the ceremony couldn't keep his heart from pouring out! This has to be probably the single most grandest gesture of love for your family that I've ever seen! That sister is true blue! ❤️🥰!!!; Thanks,Charlotte,..I REALLY needed a joyous bit of heart today!God bless you and that entire wonderful family!
I’ve listened to this video three times and still tear up at the end with the couple getting to meet the man who got their sons heart on their wedding day. Gosh even the officiant teared up and I don’t blame him!
I remember when the story about Colton’s heart was on my local news. Still hits me in all the feels!
My sister's sister in law chose to take her pregnancy test at my sister's wedding and announce that she was pregnant. Sister in law said she was disappointed at people's reaction and expected people to be more excited. And it might have been kinda petty of me and my sister to be happy when later on she had her gender reveal and it was a boy. She wanted a girl so bad since she already had a boy and the disappointed look on her face was everything when she found out she was having a boy.
If people care that much about the baby's gender they maybe shouldn't have kids. Also what was she thinking taking the test at someone else's wedding and trying to make a big thing of it? Weird
The kind of icky women who MUST have daughters and are disappointed by boys are the kind who POAS at their relatives’ weddings.
@@carpincho146 there's nothing wrong with really wanting one gender versus another. I've got two boys and choose that through ivf because I knew I didn't want to be a mom to a girl. There's no reason why you shouldn't have kids just because you have a preference. I'm not into anything girly at all- I wouldn't know where to begin having daughters.
@@EvansFamilyLegoProject you don't need to raise girls with girlie stuff like it's still 1894, come on. People care too much about gender roles.
@@EvansFamilyLegoProject while I agree I think there's a fine line between really hoping for a certain gender, and acting like you are completely crushed and devastated if u find out its not the gender u were hoping fof
Went to a wedding a few months ago... when the officiant asked that question their four month old baby decided it was the perfect time to cry 😂
Iconic
I think the objection thing was more important back in the day, in case someone knew if one member of the couple was secretly married or were unknowingly half-siblings or something. It's harder to hide that stuff now, with paper trails existing for pretty much everything.
That last wedding was amazing! Bless them all. I’m not crying YoU are.
I totally would approve of a full comedic pre-show at my wedding.
This is what the class clowns grow up to be, and I fucking love them!!! 10/10 pre wedding entertainment!
Did you find it and watch till the end? Gold!!
@@katebet07 don’t be shy hun, give us the link to this masterpiece :)
@@solarose7820 that is a very good idea! 🤣
Here you go...
czcams.com/video/6g4E_lewn_I/video.html
When my biological grandfather was getting remarried, none of his family knew that he was still married to my grandma until she found out about the wedding plans. She told his dad and he waited until the "speak now" portion and ruined the whole day for them lmao
Charlotte's reaction at the ending was absolutely everything 🥺 she had me crying
I like the groom awkwardly laughing at his mom objecting to his flaws. He’s probably had an entire life of this…
They've stopped doing this in Canada because if somebody does object the wedding has to stop and there is a formal process of investigation.
Let me answer this in my best Canadian-ahem
😂😂😂
You're welcome
Yeah this was just a formality to insure there was no legal reasons the couple can't get married. No one cares if someone else loves you or you have a kid with someone else. Now the city you get the marriage license from do their own check before they give you a wedding license so the question is no longer necessary.
Oh I thought it was just my church. I didn’t know it was everywhere in Canada. Ya I’m glad. It’s a stupid custom.
@@Mama_Bear524 Well, sometimes the wife and kids don't think it's a stupid question lol. But honestly, if I knew The Idiot was marrying some poor girl after giving me the run around, I'd let her know beforehand (or before all that expense) - not at the altar.
Urban legend
0:20 im dying at how quickly the photographer turned 😭
That last video got me. My son was born with 2 different heart conditions that caused him to have 9 open heart surgeries and had to have a heart transplant. On August 13,2021 my son got his new heart. I never knew the emotions that came with having a child with someone else’s heart.
We had the objection option removed as well, as I know some parts of my family would think it’s funny to do so. Happy with my decision
Charlotte: let's end on a lighter note.
Also Charlotte: picks the most emotional, sob 😭 worthy 😭 story of all time.
Thanks for my now empty box or tissues, Charlotte 🤧
For real though, I don't usually cry watching CZcams videos, but holy... I'm bawling.
True. The dueling men was the lighter note. This was the bitter sweet note. It was a good ending, but yes, I cried, too.
I'm a grown-ass man, and that last video made me tear up something fierce. Organ Donors are the freaking best people. Nothing but love to that family and Travis.
When Charlotte teared up at the couple that got to listen to their sons heart... SHE AND I STARTED FANNING OUR TEARS AT THE SAME TIME HAHAHAHA!
That was MOVING!
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH~ So nice to have a few wholesome bits in with the DRAAAAMAAA
omg, that last one was such a good end to the video, on a bittersweet note.... I was bawling 😭 I can't imagine losing a child, but their kindness of donating when they didn't have to, saved that man's life..and for that man to show up at their wedding as a 'thank you' and allow them to hear their son's heart beating and living on was SO beautiful and so kind of him and the sister to do.
Think the grooms biggest flaw was him not doing anything when his mother became Karen er i mean when Judy spoke up... can see whose going to be the boss in their relationship 😂
Only for fans over 18 years old BABY-GIRLS.ID/KANESA
#cutegirls
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Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "mundruk"
Yoongi: "Butter"
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Köz karaş: ''Taŋ kaldım''
Erinder: ''Sezimdüü''
Jılmayuu: ''Tattuuraak''
Dene: ''Muzdak''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu gana taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. ''Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt'' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu.#垃圾
The Judy`s photo appears on the definition of KAREN. HA HA HA
I hear ya. But I saw another comment explain further. He froze. I think he really felt bad about it
@@Mama_Bear524 If he agreed to go NC with his egg donor starting with the reception, I'd forgive him.
I work for an organization that does all the organ donations in my state. We LIVE for stories like that last one. Reminds us of how important and beautiful our work and dedication is.
As a Transplant Recipient I want thank you and your coworkers for everything you do your basically helping people get a second chance at life.
@@emmyg do you ever meet the family who donated their loved ones organs?
I donated my son's organs after he passed at the age of 13 in 2007. It's been 14 years now but I never met any of the women who received his organs. I would love too but it will definitely be bitter sweet
@@shypurplebutterfly9105 I am only four years post transplant and my donor was a 17 year old boy it is up to his family if they want to know about me or not. Recipients are never told the identity of the donor only age gender and they are a match for you. Get in touch with UNOS the US Organ Donation System and tell them you would like to meet the recipients of your sons organs make sure you give his name and date of organ retrieval aka the date his organs were donated then they can get in touch with the recipients and tell them that you would like to meet them then they decide if they would like to meet you or not also they might not be in the same state as you. Hope this information helps Thank you for giving someone a second chance at life by donating and I am so sorry for your loss.
@@emmyg thank you for that information I will look into it.
It was a great story. Too bad in 1994, after my brother passed (and his organs were donated) we received a letter from the wrong recipient (different sex than the person we were told received the organ). I felt they just sent us a random letter, since we said we'd want to connect.
Last one was a really sweet thing about having the transplant guy show up to attend the wedding as it brought sappy tears to my eyes. So good to see something good in a world of craziness and pain
Holy shit that last one. Everyone was in tears, even the judge! It was such a beautiful moment, props to everyone involved and much love to the couple. ♥
When my husband and I were talking to the pastor about our ceremony, we asked him not to say anything about objections because we feared my husband's brother would say object as a joke.
your comment has attracted a bot who felt it was worth stealing by copying and reposting it...is nothing sacred??
While getting my “Dobre a day” I did not expect to laugh and cry. That was beautiful thank you.
The judge at the end got me going.
Same here
When I married my exwife, we agreed on not giving the objection part. That aunt should have been at my wedding.
Why would anyone allow their ex to be in their wedding? The fact that the bride/groom still maintain contact with an ex is a huge red flag.
"They're both married" could also mean the couple eloped and legally got married before the wedding with the planning, guests, family drama, etc. People can be a little butthurt about stressed out couples doing that but some people don't always understand that marriage isn't just a party, it is supposed to be about the couple getting married.
If it is, it's a weird choice of words.
"They are married" would have conveyed that meaning.
"They are both married" sounds like they are both married people, doesn't it?
@@drkrishnap Definitely, but people don't always have the best grammar. 😅
Or she was religious and the couple were already married and divorced from previous spouses some people cant tolerate that
They did. Its on CZcams in full
@@kathbretherton2238 ooh do you have the link?
The last one!!! MY HEART!!! Was fighting back tears soooo hard! Then seen the priest crying!!! I just lost it!!!
HOW DID I GO FROM LAUGHING TO CRYING OUT LOUD???? it is a hero decision to donate an organ that belongs to your loved ones to help another to continue living.
Dude, I was at a wedding where the bride herself objected several times. It was the most miserable wedding I have ever seen - and I'm a wedding photographer. On this particular day, I was also a friend/best woman and bride's driver and she asked me to act as a sort of a Rottweiler, because she was an orphan and the groom's family was overwhelming her on every step. No, it was not an arranged marriage, she was an independent, educated adult with a good job. Right out of the gate the groom's mother prepared a feast just because the bridge asked for no feasts and we had to sit in the car in the rain - her and I - while people ate and got drunk. Then there was a civil ceremony, where she got upset the man was named first and we had to run out and sit in the car in the rain until she calmed down. Then there was the religious ceremony where the priest kept talking about children and she ran out and we had to sit in the car in the rain until she calmed down. The dinner bit was okay, laughing and dancing, but something happened on the way back to the house, because she called me just as I was leaving town, that she's locked herself into the bathroom, talking to the priest on the phone and wants the marriage annulled. I drove back and the groom was really just completely despondent at this point, you could see he missed his mother, but he wasn't necessarily a bad guy. They had a nice house and for a few years, I think, a nice marriage, couple of kids, dogs, they bred kestrels - they were both vets. I cut ties, though she did call me a few years later to let me know she's divorced because he abused her and as the best woman, I should know. I had to admit I honestly don't give a flying fuck anymore.
That's a really sad story.
Like, 9-minute-video-of-a-puppy-with-a-dead-Mum-crying-for-someone-to-pick-him-up levels of sad.
Damn.
I hope she paid you. That kind of friendship ain’t free, that’s called being a therapist.
@@mysterylovescompany2657 Trgically sad that veterinarians, of all ppl, wd be breeding dogs! 5 million a year, just in the U.S. are put to death for lack of good homes. Meanwhile, morons allow 5 mil puppies to be born. Plz spay and neuter, ppl!
I would like my officiant to say, "If anyone objects to this union, you may leave now."
I don't want anybody at OUR wedding that doesn't support US!
You have the option to remove that part from your wedding.
So I just found you a few days ago and I've been watching and laughing with you Non-Stop, you've been keeping me company through this horrid chest cold and then BOOM!... Colton's heart ❤...I am now crying like a baby, that was so sweet.
The last one, with Colton’s heart. So beautiful, even the officiant was crying 😢. If you have to interrupt a wedding, that’s the way.❤
That last one kicked me in the feels. Knowing the loss of your child can possibly help someone else is bitter sweet. What a lovely gift for this couple to have & share on their wedding day.
I was actually at a wedding where the Groom's ex stood up and claimed they were not divorced..... Needless to say , it put a damper on the wedding - but Father of the bride saved the day by saying (as everyone was looking to leave the church) " I've got all the food and booze ready over at the reception hall" - & the party rolled on anyway.....
That last story though! I had chills and tears!
Oh my goodness! I’m crying! Their son’s HEART!!!🥹 So sweet!!!
"Why is that even there"
It was like the first video. It was intended for people to make a LEGAL objection to the wedding i.e. one/ both parties were married, too oddly related.
Yeah I think the line is supposed to say if anyone has any lawful reason to object to the union/marriage then speak now. That's not the exact wording but yeah it's supposed to say lawful reason.
I also remember a wedding I went to where when the pastor asked for objections, one fellow stood up and said “this is bullshit” and pulled out a gun. On the other side a fellow pulled out a gun and declared “you need to shut up”. Everyone got excited but calmer heads prevailed and the wedding went on. Reception went well. Next day at the gift opening, multiple fights went on and the police were called with multiple arrests. This wasn’t in Black Oak Arkansas or Dog Walk Kentucky….This was Altadena California. But that was only a dumpster fire…lol
_chants_ Jer-ry! Jer-ry! Jer-ry! Jer-ry!
WTF!!!!! Very texas for cali
@@ForeverMe543 there is plenty of weird shit everywhere but I gotta say that my time in California really opened my eyes…lol
As someone who lives in Kentucky, this has never happened at any of the many weddings I’ve attended (I have been a bridesmaid multiple times and am a wedding photographer). Don’t perpetuate a decades old stereotype
@@ecrice2013 lol… there was no attempt to disparage the fine state of Kentucky. I just liked the name of the town.👍
(15:01) Even the Judge got choked up in that last one. You see him first cover his mouth, then take his glasses off and wipe his eyes. How very sweet! 😊
The last story almost made me tear up when Charlotte paused the video and even the officiant was crying during the listening of the heart.
That heart recipient coming to the Wedding, made it the best Wedding ever.
Why you gotta do us like that Charlotte? Had us all laughing our asses off, and then BAM! Ninja kick right to the feels. Thanks a lot!
im not that sentimental person usually but im sitting here in tears now lmao
14:37 I'm not crying, you're crying 😭
The last one isn't a lighter note...its an emotional rollercoaster... But what a wonderful wedding gift. Priceless.
I appreciate the sentiment but just springing that on the parents fell kind of cruel.
When I was getting married years ago, my son was having fun taking pictures of everything. My ex showed up uninvited, cried the whole time, made my son cry, tried to stop the wedding saying we were still married. I had never married him. It was all in his head.
Whaaaaaa? The first sentence doesn't make sense to the rest. Thus is juicy tho we need more context!!
@@lissieloveskitties My son was from a previous marriage, if that's what you're asking. He was 13 at the time. I gave him a digital camera to have fun with.
Your ex sounds whacked, just totally unhinged.
Just found your channel. I am off work recovering from a surgery and literally can do nothing but watch YT. I am old enough to be your mother and just can't help but think what a bright and sweet girl you are and your mother must be proud of you. Thanks again for great entertainment!
She has a father or don't they matter?
@@d.mcfadden7343 I am a mother so I know what a mother would feel about her children (I have 6). I am not a father so I have no idea how a father would feel.
@@l9878 for most fathers, pretty much the same but with handing out more money
@@d.mcfadden7343 who hurt you, dude? She's allowed to write a comment from her own POV (being a mother) without you raining on it.
Oh my gosh! The Colton and Travis story! I am balling ❤❤❤ that sister is such a WINNER!!! ❤
Aw man, when he pulled out the stethoscope floored me, so beautiful. That brides sister is so sweet.
One lady said that she kept her daughter a virgin and was bragging about it. I told my GF later that IF she was a virgin, she kept HERSELF a virgin. My GF laughed, saying "Yeah".
Lady was WEIRD.