How to learn and master a new skill
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- čas přidán 20. 11. 2020
- A couple questions & answers on how I approach the process of learning. I'll try to do more of these if it's of value to anyone. These two questions today comes from Patreon: / lexfridman
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A couple questions & answers on how I approach the process of learning. I'll try to do more of these if it's of value to anyone.
Very valuable. Gonna commit to learn meditation 💪🏿
Always interesting and my level of intrigue for what pearls of wisdom will follow next is through the roof
Discipline + Consistency + Passion + Good Habits = Mastering Subjects and Life!!! Winners never quit and losers always quit!!!!
The timing of this video is great for me. Thanks! On this subject, do you have any previous videos on what is a good learning path for me to learn machine learning? I'm currently taking online courses and my interests are in visual GANs and I'd eventually like to be making AI that makes music.
It's definitely if use, Lex
"The way to remove motivation out of the picture is to build a habit"
- Lex Fridman
Great quote!
Nice
Yes.
I didnt realize all the people in the comments were such masters of life! I apologize for those of us that didnt know motivation was like soo stupid and annoying and that we should just build habits... Duhh.
@Masster Gunnz im calm.. Ur trying to win to feel good about urself and u dont get to win. I win cause im white and better...
The pursuit of habitness
Lol
Hahaha
There's a bumper sticker
Lol is this in response to the comment above? Lol perfect
Lol. That's the path to excellence though
Make it a habit
- set a minimum amount each day
- schedule it every day (minimum) 2hrs for a year or even less like 10minutes
- discipline - grind it out even though you don't want to
- struggle is a sign you're on the right path - see it as competition other people will give up
I've done this with alcohol 🍸
@@paddymuppy Nice
Holy shit that last part 😳
@@paddymuppy good ..
aren't we lucky that people like lex share their thoughts and passion online? this channel is very inspiring and goal-affirming.
Thank you. It's a very good observation.
"mastery is impossible" is an excellent reminder to just keep going and going and never ever stop. gotta remind myself this every single day.
i don't like "mastery is impossible" , i prefer "halfass the whole damn thing".
Be one of a kind with your own set of skills 🤝
Some key notes:
To Master something, Build a habit around that activity and make sure you do it everyday.
At the initial stage, 2h/day for an year and after that ~20m/day for 5 years to get exceptionally good at it.
But the key point is to do it everyday despite the fact that you might not feel like doing it and just grind through these days. Passion is volatile and it'll come in again and carry you through.
He forgot to mention deliberate practice. You can spend hours practicing everyday and get nowhere if the difficulty is too easy
Good point, I actually fell into this problem with guitar without realizing. Make sure to set difficult and achievable goals and deliberately move towards them
Very true, focus on doing the right things. The 10% that produce 90% of the result
@@pontusmeier8585 aw😝😩😴😴😴😴😊😴😴
What if you actually spend 1-2 hours a day with no goal, yet honestly show up. Then eventually you start on an outward spiral of curiosity/boredom that covers all bases that one could call mastery.
@@pontusmeier8585 I would love to see you handle that one reversed 95% - 5% for an extended period, mr positive slogan you! ✌
"Struggle is a sign that you are on the right path"-Lex(I straight away write it down and put on my study table thanks 🙏)
Spot on Lex, Spot on. I've become proficient in many different domains in my life. These include becoming a licensed architect, college professor, armature racer, surfer, golfer, solo sailor, long distance cyclist, mixed martial artist, fine art photographer and musician. All of these began with passion and obsessional interest, followed by years of daily hard work and dedication to building the skills required for each. If you love something, learning about it and mastering the skills needed to do it is an absolute joy - so do what you LOVE. The rest will follow.
Keep in mind, when your career/jobs revolve around learning, that becomes your life naturally. Lex is a great example of this. His learning of these different fields benefit his business/jobs. That can create a lot of motivation, realizing that both of these things benefit each other. Lex is part of the intelligentsia, (it’s not inherently good or bad), which means he gets paid to learn and teach. It’s kind of like an HVAC tech learning more about electricity, energy consumption, and business, then applying it. Knowledge and education is best when it benefits you just as much as others.
You're a great role model Lex. Keep up the great work my man
Rolex.
Just to confirm Lex point, I'm an English learner, I'd been in an English academy for 1.5 years and I got my B2 level some months ago, I knew that I had to improve my listening skill because I wasn't good at it, so I started spending around 4h per day, pushing myself even if I wanted to just mess around. It took me up around 7 months to understand a native English speaker well, however, right now I know that I have to get better in my writing and speaking skill, but I know that day by day, step by step even If it is a small step, with discipline and passion I can achieve it, so guys keep in mind that hard work always pays off! Don't step back!
I am on the same path but different langauge :) C1 is all about understanding subtle differences. I am also amazed you understand everything here.
@@oscarinacan Thanks :)
Thank you for the inspiration, that really means a lot. I have been struggling in my classes until I saw your videos and how you and other very skilled people see the world, what they think about the future and now. That really inspired me to be better of myself, thank you.
From my own experience of being self-taught in a lot of things like programming (which is now my job), french, guitar, singing etc: i think the most important part of "learning how to learn" is to find your own way of learning - and that only comes from experience. I know that's kind of a "duuh", but it's true.. But i'll give you what helps me:
If i'm learning to code for example: instead of focusing on the details of the skill (like a certain language), I try to put myself in the shoes of a skilled programmer and I think to myself: why does this person love to code? What is it about writing gibberish computer talk that gives this person so much pleasure/feeling of accomplishment? (insert own answer here)
My own answer: because it enables them to make/do cool things! Like back in the day before I knew how to code I used to think Facebook was the coolest thing (it's not anymore lol), so my first project was to create a very stripped-down version of facebook where you can upload pictures and you can write posts.. and voila I was on my way! And the cool thing about doing it this way is that it won't feel like learning if you're only trying to accomplish a specific goal, because then that function that uploads the pictures is only a stepping stone to reach the greater goal. So in the end I was left with a broken, shitty version of facebook that took 12s to load each refresh and it was terrible - but I had somehow learned the basics of programming while not really thinking about it (because spoiler alert: code is just a tool to reach your goal, your way of thinking/problem solving is your skill)
And when i learned french, everyone in every course tells you to learn grammar first, which is of course the most logical way and will help you later... But nah that shit is too boring for me! So i just found a CZcamsr that i like (i recommend Norman Fait des Videos), put on subtitles and i just sat for hours on end pausing the video for every sentence and translating the words over and over again until I remembered them and got a feel for the language! Very inefficient, but I enjoyed doing it this way and got to watch cool videos at the same time: I'm a very brute-force kind of learner haha.
So yeah that was my two cents on learning! Good luck to you guys out there.
Those four skills are all habits I’m trying to build into my life but have struggled. I’ll do really good for a week or two then fizzle out in motivation. Thanks for getting me to push myself a little harder!
Alors qu'est ce que tu deviens ? Ton travail te plaît ? Moi aussi je fais de la programmation et de la musique, et j'adore les podcast de Lex !
Woah. Thanks for that !!
thanks for this
@@kombaimusiclab3699 Ah c'est cool! Es-que tu faire musique dans la ordinateur ou tu joué un instrument? Oui mon travail me plait beaucoup! Merci pour ton commentaire et je te souhaite bonne chance!
Thank you for this video. I found that one of the greatest obstacles of learning is the feeling that you’re no progressing fast enough. Listening to you explaining how long it takes to really learn something was refreshing and inspiring
Lex just served us Atomic habits in less than 10 minutes.
Is a nice book btw
@@stopPlannedObsolescence yup
Such a well spoken and humble guy. If only the world could be like this..
Keep doing what you are doing Lex. It's awesome to see a channel like yours grow!
Love your channel, Lex. I was amazed to see all these amazing people you talk to. Very soon after listening I can see why they would love your company. Legend mate!
I needed this today Lex, you're an inspiration to us all. I deeply appreciate everything you bring us. Hope your day is a good one.
Whats great about this Lex, is that people like me can discover this at any point from the moment you uploaded this, and onward. I have lost that thing called passion with my guitar, and with me falling in love with working in the trade business. Thank you for the gentle reminder on how it can be done.
Yes , looking forward to hearing the full answer. Genuine and thoughtful as always
Passion will go up and down, that's when discipline comes into play. Bravo!!
Beautiful! Thank you. I completely agree with this credo. I've been following my passion (juggling diabolo) for the last 21 years and I do 1 hour of practice every day. Although I'm not naturally gifted at it and I started practicing pretty late in life, the rewards that I get from the discipline of it are amazing over the long run. Sometimes it's tough to keep doing the practice, when you're not motivated, but it's now a strong habit. I've been coaching students for the last 20 years and keep talking about how important discipline and habit are. It's so great to hear someone else talking about this overlooked aspect of achieving long-lasting joy and happiness in life :) Thanks Lex!!
Thank you for another piece of great advice. I started playing bass at 50 years old and following something along these lines is right on.
"It gets easier. But you have to do it everyday, thats the hard part. But it does get easier."
BoJack
Thanks Lex! I appreciate you and your podcast so much. You and your podcast guests are always insightful and open doors to things I never could’ve imagined. As an engineering student it is sometimes difficult to navigate through college especially as a first generation student. Your podcast keeps me motivated and reminds me how the pursuit of knowledge is one worth while. Thanks again Lex, I wish you continued success!
This is the first video I've watched from your channel... And I feel like I've learnt something very fundamental about living life... Thank you...🙏
You're absolutely right. If we really stick with something for a long we'll get all the things from it sooner or later
The forming of habits around a skill is one of the best things we can do to get better at something. Just 10 minutes a day on something everyday can be huge in improvement its great to hear someone as skillful as Lex put things into the context of forming habits.
Dude Ive slept on you for way too long. Thank you so much for all that you do. You truly are a rolemodel and someone who continues to inspire me daily. Thank you.
Hugely helpful video Lex. Discipline is the first word that comes to mind when I see you in a suit! Would love to see more of these short videos thanks!
I get happy whenever I see lex fridman video . Period
I love this guy! Thanks for doing what you do for others! 👍💪
Watching this was very important for me at this moment in my life :) Thank you, Lex!
Lex you are truly a gift to humanity. Thank you for everything you do. Keep up the great work
Great mind hack, Lex! Having retired recently, and looking for something to do to keep me from total boredom, I dusted off my old guitar and started playing again with the idea of maybe visiting skilled care facilities and playing for the elderly in a post covid world. One trick? I implemented to fuel my interest and dedication is that I purchased a three string cigar box guitar (a super nice one, solidly built electric). I play mostly in an open G turning (GDg), occasionally using a slide. I've found that the cigar box guitar tends to lead me back to my six string acoustic, learning the same songs on both instruments, cross training--if you will. There is a huge community of dedicated CBG enthusiast which has also helped fuel my interest in learning. I'm certainly not a master of either instrument, but I'm enjoying the journey, the learning experience. And, so far, I haven't been bored since I retired. Be safe. Be well. And thank you.
A lot of love for you and your podcast Lex, truly a diamond in the rough as far as humans go :D
I love this! I actually needed to watch this because of the skills I've been imagining to acquire.
What a great base of knowledge you build and share! Thank you.
Thanks for sharing, Lex! You da GOAT
"Strumming in a way that allows me to sing" - So relatable.
After my son was born, and after 15 years of playing guitar and never really learning to sing while playing, I finally started trying in earnest. I've always had what I'd call a "focused" mindset, one in which I pay attention, more or less, to one thing at a time. As such, I've found singing while playing to be very challenging; it feels like some sort of mental gymnastics. The best advice I have is to learn the guitar part so well that you could play it in your sleep, and then add the lyrics. I've also found that practicing guitar on my acoustic while wandering around the house, trying to have conversations while playing, etc, also helps.
After some months of practicing this every day, slowly improving, it's beginning to feel like I'm finally making some progress. At times, it almost feels as though I've unlocked another CPU core.
Definitely of value. Thanks Lex, your fans really appreciate these videos
This is so motivating as I’m following my passion as a painter . I’ve cried and felt like giving up and when I decide to push through it , magic happens and I’ve realized I did it . My painting doesn’t t look like shit .
Thank you Lex , your podcasts are very insightful and inspirational.
You're an inspiration Lex, thank you.
That look when you gave while saying "Not singing" is very powerful. Hey Lex I enjoy your podcast and your other works. Keep it going.
Thank you.
You are showing us how to overcome inertness!
I love your compassion and I am very fortunate
to have encountered you when I watched a Joe Rohan.
To undo a habit and create a new one,
Is the key to developing discipline.
As Peterson also teaches.
You are changing our society.
Happy holidays.
Margo
I love watching your podcast and watching you speak so intelligently on various subjects and fields. The passion I see when you’re talking about programming and AI has inspired me to learn to code. I’m starting with python as many experts suggest. It’s actually waaay easier than I thought. I mean I’ve only just started so I know it should get more difficult, but I’m loving it so far. What stopped me from learning before was the bullshit outdated notion that you have to be mathematically / analytically inclined to succeed in such fields. I know better now. Thanks for inspiring me Lex.
The idea of grinding it out even when you don't want to do it resounds strongly with me!!! Thanks for the video.
So eloquently explained! Listening to your podcasts motivates me everyday
Thank you for sharing your views and methods to making your vision a reality!
Lex, thank you. This is great, I have been on and off picking up Python and trying to learn it, maybe this time I’ll manage to stick to it.
Thank you Lex! This is a wonderful video for us to learn about you and you are definitely are an inspiration! Your podcasts made a difference in my life and I’m sure for others well - so thank you!
Would love more on this topic- Incredibly inspiring. Keep rocking Lex
Keep being you lex. I've heard you broach the subject of maintaining/building an audience and im sure you were just being humble but you already know the answer because you've done just that thus far. You are the perfect balance of wise and knowledgeable yet curious and open minded. Something I strive to be as well. Thank you for your content and I look forward to seeing how you progress!
Thank You sir, You quickly became one of favorite people that I listen to! You always know what to say and how to say!
Excellent lessons, Lex. I especially liked the point about embracing difficulties
I got an iOS app called Productive and one of the habits I put in there is practice guitar every day. At least half an hour. Seeing visually how many times I’ve done it helps a lot. I got the app trial then ended the subscription before trial and they offered it for 10 a year instead of 30. That guitar rust is falling off me, plus I’m back at the gym and recording more music. Good luck out there!
Thanks Prof. Lex.
God bless you.
thanks Lex, you resonate with me on so many levels ... thanks for being you young man
Hey Lex, thanks for sharing. For a lot of people following you you are an example and an outstanding person who achieved a lot. So your life example is important
Sir you are one of the most down to earth and hardworking person i have ever seen, your approch to life has chnaged my prepective . Thanks for all of the contribution to the earth.
Super useful and insightful! Thanks Lex for the wisdom.
This will help a lot of people.
Thank you Lex
Thank you Lex for the reminder, I'm going to try this next week!
I appreciate that Lex continues to ask and attempt to answer questions that are seemingly answerless. The questions that we may all sheepishly be curious about.
You are wise beyond your years. Thank you for these insights.
you are a role model Lex, thank you for inspiration! + I like this self-development kind of videos
Thanks for sharing your wisdom Lex.
Love these types of videos. Thanks, Lex!!
Thanks Lex! Very useful advice. I appreciate your connection to music. Music and art has been a catalyst and anchor of positivity in my life for 47 years. I just turned 49. 🤘🖖👽🇨🇦
Thanks Lex, video for the rest of the 2021... DO THE THING does not matter how hard it get, one must keep rolling.
7:20 "I enjoy the pursuit of mastery of the art itself, not necessarily in comparison to others" (paraphrased). I can relate. Great vid, Lex, thank you!
Inspiration! Thanks Lex! Since I’m all locked down anyway and my son lent me his fiddle to use, I think it’s time to throw myself back into music, again! Haven’t played since I was a kid but I’ve screwed around a bit and I still remember a lot. I just play by ear so that helps with remembering it, I think.
You just solve my biggest problem nowadays in the first 3 minutes of your video. Thank you
Thanks for inspiring me to get back on my disciplined path. Much love Lex.
Thankful for this gem of a video! Thank you brother!
Thankyou lex for making a positive difference in my life.
Your videos are really inspiring. Thanks for your valuable suggestion.
Lex thank you for all your content. Your points of view, your path and the pick of guests gave me a lot of answers to break obstacles. Can you please make a video on how would you start over if u would start again a youtube channel or podcast? Lots of respect ! stay hard!
You are a fascinating human being Lex. I admire you. You are wise beyond your years.
I agree. I also think that when something seems to be difficult, regardless whether it is at the beginning or later during the learning process, it means that you are actually learning and your mind is trying hard to figure out how thing are related. If something seems to be too easy, you may almost know it or just not paying too much attention or overseeing something.
So yeah, actual learning feels hard and difficult. Already knowing and understanding something is easier.
Thank you, Lex! I needed to hear this today, as I'm trying to learn to code at 52, to make a career change due to a recent disability.👊🏽🙏🏽
I think the everyday thing works simply because your brain realizes, "Oh, I need this everyday" and registers that neurons should be allocated to the activity, making it actually easier as time goes along to improve. I live in Japan, and struggled for years to improve in the language, but I started a habit of listening to Japanese news/talk shows on the way to work (non-passively) and after a while, I was able to say things that I hadn't sat down to study... as though my mind had decided to learn it for me to help me out. Fascinating stuff!
Amazing video. I learned a bit about myself through you. Thanks Lex, have a good day.
Perfect video, I've been spending the last few weeks learning how to draw and I've been trying to do it for at least a bit everyday. Awesome video
I started the same in January. It works, even if I did it only for couple minutes on bad day. It's worth it!
if jordan peterson is everyones dad, then lex is everyones brother
And joe Rogan is lex's stoner stepbrother
And Manly P Hall is our grandfather
Peterson sux
Thanks Lex. Every time I start to feel lazy, you appear like Yoda and straighten things out. This thanksgiving , thankful to have found you in black hole of you tube ❤️🙌🏼
Awesome pod. Always a fan.
one way I think about the passion / diligence relationship is that those moments of passion seem to ignite on the forefront of my experience learning and finding new things. So without that diligence, I can't keep my skills sharp enough move forward and I keep repeating previously covered ground. Something like this. Thanks for answering this question Lex.
Every teenager who struggles with the challenge and quits needs to hear this.
Thanks Lex, this is good advice, I started learning French 1 year ago and I would do 2 or 3 hours a day if it, and I really enjoy it and I have a good foundation of knowing french
So humble, Lex. You are one out of the box 🌈❤️
You've fixed me, Lex. Thank you. Now I can move forward again 🙌
Thank you for this. Gotta respect the process!
I find so often that lex and his guests speak about their thoughts on life or habits they have formed and find that I too feel this way or do this thing without even realizing it. I've been trying to learn how to draw and I've set up a very strict regimen to follow simply because I had quit in the past simply because I let myself lapse.
THANKS FOR THIS
IM HAVING A VERY TUFF TIME IN THE STOCKMARKET BUT IM VERY PASSIONATE ABOUT IT AND THIS HELPS ME ALOT .
KEEP GRINDING !!
STRUGGLE MEANS IM ON THE RIGHT PATH .
i love this guy's clarity