My son lost control...
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- čas přidán 19. 10. 2021
- This week on Beleaf in Fatherhood, our two oldest sons, Theo and Uriah are in hockey training. These two are extremely competitive and it's the way they've always been. However, it's important to me as a dad that they learn how to work together and support each other the way brothers are supposed to. I love that they challenge one another and I genuinely believe it has been the driving force behind a lot of their growth, but more than anything I want to encourage them both to be one another's greatest supporters. #BELEAFINFATHERHOOD
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"I expected better from you" 😂 Theo be trollin' heavy
Lmaaoooo!! Straight trollin, and in his face! Not behind a screen #thuglife
He also said « He’s so easy to defeat ! » at 2:15 😂😂
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whats gonna reeealy suck for Theo is ... many dont understand that you can strengthen the weak with consistent "encouragement"... in other words...after so much of Theo's "i expected better from you." comments...its going to reallly strengthen Riah ....to the point where Riah is going to the BEST !! at whatever he puts his mind to ....Theo is going to be looking at his brothers fame and notoriety ...like ....wait??? hi did this happen ????? its such a classic move in life
5:22 - the concern for her brother is genuine -- and she doesn't like to see her brothers fight. She is such a lovely little girl, inside and out.
She truly is
" Urya!" When he fell 😚
And at 5:50 she puts her hands on her face like she’s so disappointed with their interaction & in front of George (I think that’s the cameraman’s name).
Older boy trolling his little brother with the "You got out of control" and the sister's simultaneous concern and side-eye of "This same crap again"
When Riah was kicking off his rollerblades he full on had a “let me take these earrings off” moment to give you this heat! Lol dropped the mic/bball hoop and walked away
The psychological break down is so spot on. Good lessons for siblings and teammates.
Hats🧢👒🎩 off to “Beleaf in Fatherhood!” Great conscious parenting!❤️👶🏿💚
Continuous fresh new Blessings! 👀🤸🏾♂️
AND to ALL Black families raising Your Princesses & Princes, Queens & Kings to BE! 👑 👧🏾👦🏾👑
With all of our individual uniqueness, and various creative expressions,
ONE Beautiful Black LOVE~💯%
Anaya’s concern for Uriah after seeing him fall is beautiful 🥰
I love that your daughter is just living her best life in a formal dress as the boys rough house around her lol, too cute
Looooovvveeee it. Yes, lil sis 💅🏾
Yes. And she went to Uriah's aid when she saw him on the ground. Sweet!
@@karenmcgee1869 Yes! And when Riah threw the basketball hoop at him she put her hands on her face and was looking between the 2 of them like..."Jeez, these boys!"
Little princess in the back. So cute 😍
I was literally about to comment the same thing, she’s so precious! (All of them are haha)
Theo really does have some serious stick skills, I am glad he will be taking lessons!!
Uriah was like “you might can beat me, but you can’t BEAT ME” 😂😂😂😂
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Aniya just sitting watching in her Sunday best is a WHOLE mood! 😆
Such a Princess 👸
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Theo’s really good at hockey. I was actually surprised. Definitely put him in hockey. Let’s prove that we can dominate in that sport too, it’s not just football & basketball.
Felt ! This was very different to see in a black child ❤️ The message I perceived was. “ Let your child just become there own individual and just support them. “❤️❤️
Theo’s smack talk is still quite honorable in the raw unrefined mode. He definitely sounds like a coach / leader /motivator. As they age, hopefully Theo’s ability to uplift those around him will develop and incorporate all the ways in which other accept motivation (cheers, jeers, cares or blank stares lol! The gift to teach and guide is a beautiful one predicated on being and wonderful student and learner. Uriah may come to appreciate having a big brother that will encourage him. to be his best self- best in patience, or hockey or efficient smack downs. No matter what, he Will be affected lol
The fact Theo knew Uriah was about to throw that goal 🤣🤣🤣 he’s a real big brother!
When Beleaf said Uriah drew the hockey stick back like he wanted to mollywop Theo in his bean 🤣🤣 it's been ages since I heard mollywop. Thanks Beleaf, took me back a couple decades 🤣
Me too! 😂 I love the things that we don’t even know that we share. 😊
When he said that I laughed so hard I started choking 😅😅😅 I used to be like Uriah I would get mad when i lost Monopoly so i could definitely identify with how he felt at that moment!
🤣🤣Yep, Uriah didn't reach back, he "retch back to Kingdom Come" so glad he didn't follow through👍
Yep! Same here 🤣
Molly wop is ooooooold school 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love these breakdowns of everyday interactions amongst your children! It's like you're studying them and essentially foreshadowing who'll they'll be or become, potentially. It's intriguing. I pray for this type of intentionality with my children one day. It'll make a world of difference when they're older in HS and college, maneuvering throughout life. You create comfort through these videos, so I know your babies feel it too!! Beautifully done and I'm so happy I found you all's channel! 💖✨
For real same I want to do this for my future children and these videos help me learn more about psychology. And these videos ooze comfort especially that intro
Real Life breakdowns is what our new generations needs to survive our own understanding.MUCH LOVE TO MY CHOCOLATE BABIES😏😏
Its good to see some kids actually outside playing instead of sitting inside on a screen.
Theo was controlling the ball really well with his stick and i’m also impressed that no one ended up with a bashed up shin bone.
I know!
Was thinking this, more outside time less screen time = better rounded kids
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@@happybee7725 🤣🤣 you get it! 👏🏾👏🏾💯💯🔥
@@valarmorghulis4801 damn straight bro. Im a 1000% asoiaf geek. 😂
It's like I'm reliving my childhood through Uriah as a middle child. I pray that one day Uriah gets to a point in life where he doesn't feel the need to compete with anyone and just enjoy what makes him special. Theo earned that real talk
Listening to Theo’s trash talk, while antagonizing, a lot of it almost sounds like a tough coach - he’s pulling the facts out from the previous play telling you how you messed up (which is antagonizing to hear from an opponent, but coming out of a coach’s mouth is really valuable). I see that as leadership/coaching potential! My sister and I would always get frustrated with each other when we were younger if one was “coaching” the other - neither wanted to hear it. Now I seek out her advice because she can see me in a way I can’t!
How’s there a dislike for a video that didn’t even drop yet???
My theory is they meant to hit the like button but accidentally hit the dislike 😩😅
Exactly, this channel is amazing 💙
Yeah how could you even manage to want to think to "dislike" such a family and message.🤷🏾♀️ Folks need more hugs 🤗
The music, the message, the fam... I dig!
Some people hate family and wholesomeness which is baffling to me...
Theo thought he was forreal playing for the LA Kings... 😂
LA? It’s Sacramento…
@@igsryderlol they’re playing hockey so they are talking about the LA Kings NHL team
When I saw him taking the skates off... this brings back memories of me and my sisters. We learned so much about each other
Baby, when them skates came off, I was like "Run Theo Ruuuunnnnnnnnn.." lol
@@latoyamoore642 That was so me as a kid. When I got quiet my siblings ran 😂
0:53 , Aniya is growing into her mannerisms where she mirrors her mom, it's so cute. She reminded me of Yvette completely lol.
Heh yes. Even in a little in what she said too.
Anaya: Theo, we can put that in the trash
Theo: Why?
Anaya: Because. Because it's... (looks down at camera, then back at Theo) It looks old.
@@checksanity yes lol!!! I was like look at little Yvette 😂
I burst out laughing because I read this out loud in Yvette's voice
😂😂 with the look on her face too carbon copy. she said copy paste.
Anaya had that look that was like she knew what was going to happen. ❤️
Right??? 😂 😂 I thought so too!
"You don't have to talk trash, just be good." Wise words. Wise words. Humility is key. Love watching your family learn and grow together. Thanks for the content.
I’m more amazed at how unfazed Anayah was 😂😂😂
And you have the adorable princess in that beautiful fairy tale dress. I had 2 sons who were like night and day. They drove each other crazy. They could talk crap about each other but didn't let anyone else. We lost my youngest 5 yrs ago the day before he was to stand up in his brother's wedding. Enjoy every moment you have with them.. the fights, the attitudes, the smiles and love. You never know when it all may end. My only saving grace is that Jesus was there to welcome him home. God bless you and your beautiful family.
I love how Aniyah is so caring and motherly with her older brothers and Uzi just on his scooter chilling. Chocolate babies for the win💙💙💓💙
I relate to the way Uriah lifted the hockey 🏑 and put it down 😤👶🏿
Team Theo all day!!! In the videos I've seen, that young man displays love for his siblings, intelligence and physical excellence! When he helped Anaya after she fell in the water and continued to protect her from the waves or when Anaya started singing "twinkle twinkle" while he held baby Uzi and he looked at her and said "my two babies"...pls Theo's all heart! I love that kid. Let Theo's confidence fuel his actions, young Uriah was feeling it too when he said "that was too easy" after he scored.
Also, I don't believe Theo lacks physical structure just because Uriah is heavier than him. And don't make it seem like Theo can't defend himself, just becuz it hasn't been seen doesn't mean it doesn't exist. He's a protector, he's not going to hurt his brother but if pushed he will shut it down. Aquarians do not play.
The beautiful Chocolate Princess dressed for the ball watching her brothers’ pursuit of victory is everything! You almost need popcorn and M&Ms!
So beautiful that he knows his kids so well...
Riah reminds me so much of myself and Theo is my older brother. Yes Riah. Don’t worry just be patient. Puberty is going to change a lot of things. Your time will come. Stay patient Riah. You got this fam.
I love this family so much. Stay safe!
I can't wait me and my brothers love this youtube show
Yes it's Amazing 💙
Here's my observation. I could be wrong, but hear me out...
Glen: Pastor/MC
Yvette: First Lady/ Educator
Theo: President
Uriah: Comedian/Protector
Anaya: Princess
Uzi: Bodyguard/Goon
Try to encourage riah to try again more often. I used to be like that as a kid and it's brought me a lot of confindence problems and a lot of self doubt to even start things. Hope he grows out of his frustration. Your family is beautiful!!
Theo took a cheap shot at that. You can't take a shot with your opponent off the court. Uriah didn't even yell.. he just throws the hoop 😂 and didn't miss that shot 😂 .. Anaya making sure Riah was good and then knowing Theo was about to get it as she's watching Riah take off the skates 🤣. their skills are so impressive, so jealous. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
😆😆😆That took me back to the days of my childhood. This is a legit family show. We see the kids being themselves. Not acting for the camera, just being real.
Thanks for sharing your family with us Beleaf.
Best 8 mins of my life! Thank you for documenting healthy African American homes, THIS IS US!! 💕
Good sportsmanship should be one of the first lessons taught in any sport. But brothers,well....thats a whole other ballgame 🤣
I love how Anaya immediately picked up on the change of vibe and the hurt feelings. She's So in tune☆
One of my favorite things to witness is the dynamic between siblings and seeing their individual personalities come out when interacting with each other. So I truly enjoyed this one!
This young warriors ,Uriah, reminds me of my middle son. I just want to hug him up. I love his spirit.
This shows just how fair you are towards your children. Instead of snap judgment... You see ALL sides literally and take time to sort things out. Wow the control you've gained yourself as a well rounded father; that's the real skills!
Father bless me with a man this intentional and thoughtful….Uriah reminds me so much of my Uriyah all the time but especially in this video. 90% passion, most times no intentional follow through, patience as long as a grain of rice, everybody’s cheating lol, aggressive at times and intense by nature. I’m learning ways to help him adjust while still maintaining the person he is. It’s hard works but I promise these videos are so inspiring and helpful 🙏🏽🤎💪🏽💙
I knew Riah was ‘bout to do something physical when those skates started coming off but oh he was smooth with it😆😆😆
Lmaooooo
I immediately thought of the “Love To Win/Hate To Lose” video!! I used to be very much like Uriah growing up; I quit trying to learn how to ride a bike or swim because I wasn’t immediately good at it. But over the years I’ve learned that some things take more time, effort and investment to truly excel at. The most poignant thing is that you’re teaching your children to never lose control. Never allow someone’s words to exert that much power over you that you resort to the physical.
As always, love this video!!
Riah threw the whole damn basketball thing 😂😂😂
Anaya on the sidelines like the queen watching the Olympic Games
As a Canadian, I adore Theo's hockey enthusiasm. And the boy is good, those hands are quick! Definitely sign him up!
Love the dress Aniyah...love this family so much.
Theo is such an intelligent kid, you could really see that in the way he played with Uriah
They mad good at skating tho😭I can barely stand up straight but here they are roller blading back and forth like it’s nothing!
Anaya girl, I feel you on every level of this video. She is me dealing with my brothers and their foolery. Yes ma'am, yes ma'am 😂
The boys are very competitive and Riah is emotional and reactive but I see the progress that he's making.
I'm glad they are going into organized sports/training at such an early age. That will have a extremely positive effect on their skills development. Theo is really good & seems committed to the game which is a good sign at his young age.
Aniya is such a girly girl...I just love to see her expressions of self love. 💕
First of all, I'm jealous that i could never learn to feel comfortable on those inline skates like they are. 😤 Secondly, Theo plays well for someone who is not already playing on a hockey team 🏒 Third, Uriah is me trying to keep my cool under control.😊 It has been a process that I'm learning to master. Thank you for breaking down how they handled the dichotomy of their sportsmanship. 🙂 Maybe Uncle Baby will do something crazy on the next video.😉
All your kids have such individual personalities. Anaiya there minding her own business, Uzi always in on the action, while the older two battle it out. Love to see it! 🥰
Anaya roasting the old hockey stick 😂
We be sooo ready!!
I admire how the parents always make sure that they keep it biblical - So important for all Christian families to do. Keep them (videos) coming we're watching with our eyes and listening with our ears : )
They provided you so many opportunities to praise their good behaviour. You're clearly raising emotionally intelligent young people. They're so lucky to have such fabulous parents. The rest of us are lucky to have such good role models. Thank you.
I love your family. I love showing these videos to my son. He is 10 and has ADHD and is finding his own way. You are teaching me patience, and you are teaching my son his feeling are ok and how to control them ♥️
This is not just a lesson in fatherhood observation but in the best & worst of human behavior. A look at ourselves. Thanks for class Beleaf! Good Video.
Lol I love how Theo is talking the most trash with the smaller goal to defend lol 😂 classic older sibling move
You’re daughter so so precious
Beleaf, you are a good dad.That being said, I know siblings have to learn to get along, teamwork etc. But sometimes, man, hands gotta get laid.😄
I have five siblings. We were taught not to fight, to talk things through. But seriously, there were times when a good thumping had to go down.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Right
Gotta drop an extended version on Patreon since we didn’t get an early release! 😂
roger that!
For real 💯💯😂
The new extended version is being uploaded to Patreon now it doesn't feature my commentary but is 19 minutes long and features all of us playing in the backyard and more of Theo's trash talk!
@@BeleafInFatherhood oh that is gon be a fun treat to watch. I'm so glad I subscribe to y'all's patreon
@@BeleafInFatherhood Christmas came early! 🙌🏼 cheers for being a man of the people!
I Love ALL The chocolate Babies and Yvette's and Beleaf. Absolutely Love THIS FAMILY. GOD Bless, STAY Well and Healthy.
Now you gotta put them on the cartoon Rocket Power!
Been consistently following yall for a year, happy to see the success y’all have reached. My condolences to the recent passing of your family members 🙏🏾
Look how she is standing there voicing her opinion like a little lady 🤩🤩💜
All your videos are awesome
Yessss
I’m curious to see who baby Uzi watches that affirms his feelings the most and who your daughter wants to protect. It looked like she wanted to defend the one that was pushed down! I salute you and your ministry. I know the book from this will be helpful to young parents!! 🙏🏽❤️🙌🏽
This puts me in a happy place. 😍Brings back memories with my brothers. Awww...it gives me butterflies!🦋
Wow Theo is pretty good! Very impressive skill.
Anaya is such a beautiful flower! I love your whole family! Each person in it is unique and a joy watching your children grow up!
How do you not have a show on tv?!?! America needs a show with a family such as yours, where everyone communicates, tries new things, disciplines without physical pain, and the kids are just such a joy to watch. You teach so many wonderful life lessons. You are an incredible family. And your music is so good!!!
that smirk at 3:53, golden
Yes, make sure you teach them all to LOVE one another. It's enuf brother against brother out here. Blessings
I seriously love how you are a student of each of your kids. Meaning you study them, their personalities, their behavior, their learning styles and their attitudes. You are walking their journeys with them because you are understanding what makes each of them tick! That is extraordinary! Bravo! Keep up the great work!
Much love Beleaf in Fatherhood! Always an inspiration. This is an one of a kind channel. The best to it IMO
The thumbnail is actually on point lollll.
Theo's dexterity and hand eye coordination is impressive. Uriah just needs a little time to catch up. Or if hockey is not his thing, he's built like a little tank and would probably be great at Pop Warner Football. I thank God that I was introduced to sports as a child. Learning in real time that hard work and dedication truly pay off. Teamwork makes the dream work. Plus I was able to develop life long friends in the process. Thank you for your videos Beleaf. They always brighten my day.
That little girl is so modest. Man, I have been binge watching this family and subscribed. I just love this family. This is wholesome and the parents are doing a great job.
Dad, Mom, ....you two have a beautiful..... stunning family.... thanks for sharing your special moments with us....🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️
The depth of insight and love you have for your children is commendable. Good job, Dad.
I think you’re such a wonderful dad, love the analysis in each of your sons different passions, expressions and talents 😊
I love that the kids are outside physically playing. Even little bro is on the scooter😊👍🏾
I love how you are so aware of each child’s individual personality, and needs. I’m the same way with my one, and I always wondered if I could hv that same capacity with more. You and Mom are doing Wonderful. More Grace to you.
That SMIRK.
Theo was like "I have him his inch, I will now claim the mile"
You are so patient and thoughtful with your boys! They are blessed to have a dad like you. Thank you for allowing us to see another way to father children. You are blessing!
I LOVE these breakdown videos! You know your children so well. I got my elderly parents into your videos too. They were wondering what I was laughing at so hard. So I showed them and they have been hooked ever since.
You have such a beautiful family, and I know I am not telling you anything you don't already know but it had to be said. LMAO the look on little cutie pie's face when she looked at Theo after Uriah started taking his skates off. Owiiieeee. She knew what was coming, she felt concern for him but at the same time she hoped it would teach him a lesson. Just precious! This video was a blessing to have come across. Thank you for sharing.
Blessed thank you for sharing these moments man💚🤙🏽
Fun video. And excellent. I love the way you observe your kids so carefully and with sensitivity. So many, many parents are careless about trying to get to know their children.
Your daughter always looks soo serious to me. Your kids are GORGEOUS!
The fact that you’re so invested into your kids personality’s and is teaching them early about there mistakes is so awesome 👏🏾 but you guys are definitely doing a good job raising awesome individuals ❤️
Thanks as always for sharing,,,indeed from this video is full of life lessons...all the best, did enjoy
I love that you try to instill in them that are better together. So true💚
Thank you for sharing! Its loving to see the children in action..
I love your family💚 thank you for sharing these special moments with the world
This makes my heart smile so much 🤗 I loved my inlines as a kid and now I’m getting into quads...
It's so beautiful to see these kids develope in every way, being a parent is a huge responsibility for that reason and I'm glad you really understand that
Ya'll Crack me up. I raised 4 kids too and let me tell you your family is real. Brings back happy memories to watch your videos. Enjoy them while they are young. And Ya'll are excellent parents
Amazing father and amazing family good to see a man like you brother