INFP... the Ultimate Girlfriend?
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Infp here! Everything true-the good, bad and the ugly! My friend gets insulted? I turn into a little ninja within seconds. Need to defend -wether friend wants it or not! Must!
Apologize to my car whenever i get the wrong gear(stick driving) and it makes that nasty sound!
Plan 100 things on a good day, full of enthusiasm but have to cancel everything 2 days later (and apologize) bc i realize this involves far to many ppl! I think infp are very loyal, loving girlfriends but i also think we can be hard to handle and getting on our boyfriend's nerves quite a lot! Maybe just stay with the infp dog??? Need to think about this idea now..for hours...days...! Could you do a vid on which types are good matches?
Thanks for the infp video ans SORRY for my englishđâŁ
The fact that you wrote this comment at like 4 AM...the random shaving halfway through the video....something tells me u were in the struggle making this last night
Damn it đđ§đ»ââïžâš
Frank James
- Nice- you just gotta mess with the withering SE. And yes, Very fine manners. Keep rockin it!
INFP girl here - We are quiet but want to talk and then when we try we regret it and just want to be alone again. Good luck dating us!
This is exactly how I be
Sounds like me
INTP here its ok if your intelligent and sweet xd
Me too INFP!đ Exactly how I roll too
Accurate haha I'm also Infp girl haha
80% Internet population is INFPs. But mostly they dont say anything. They r just lurking and liking comments and videos without even saying anything.
Hello fellow infp reading this comment ily and tc u deserve the love and care u give to others â€â€
Fizzy Rose Those like buttons are how we communicate on the internet.
That explains why my son only comes out of his room to tell us something funny he read on the internet. Lol. He is so funny tho!
@@evaungvari8769 đ
Welp, now I replied lol. But thanks for exposing me. đđđ
Lol thatâs me. I feel like most of my life is just having feelings about things on the internet
As a straight male INFP, I am in fact the ultimate girlfriend
I used to be a straight male INFP, until I fell in love for the first time.
@@CaveyMoth whats your new MBTI?
@@hiimnormal6285 Well, I became a bi curious male INFP, lol.
@@CaveyMoth I donât fully understand being bi curious. I wanna know what itâs like!
@@ChugaFool I don't know, man. It's like being bi, except you don't really know if you like the same sex. Guys don't immediately seem attractive to me..but as I get to know them, they seem to become attractive in a way. It's weird.
Me, INFP: I'm gonna go cry now
Other people: why?
Me: I don't know, I'll think of a reason later
Damn, makes sense!!
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So me
Never related more
LITERALLY lol sorry
Me, an INFP: *wants a boyfriend desperately*
Also me: *Rarely leaves the house, never talks to anyone, gets super embarrassed when a guy flirts and the very idea of actually opening up to someone is terrifying*
Edit: Jesus Christ. Should we start an INFP therapy chat or something? It seems like we need it lmao
Yes!!!!! That is so me! How do we achieve this goal??! đ
@@libbyb4067 I don't know đ
The way I was able to counteract this was by finding an extrovert type that was able to push me to open up more. ENFJs are the best
Oof that sucks. INFJ is just hyper focused on finding a soulmate and i can confirm this is true
I cringe low keyđ
I didn't realize I was going to be roasted when I clicked on this video.
Same đ
Sorry
lmfao but actually
Infp's taking stuff personal since day one! (Honesly same lmfao)
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INFP girl here, some of us actually don't cry easily over anything.... when we're in front of other people. We cry silently in solitude đđ»
Yes!
Truee
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When I cried in front of my there for the first time, I kept apologizing đąđ.
Whereas when my friends are crying in front of me, I was like, âItâs ok boo. Cry it out, itâll make you feel better đ«.â
We can lead with Fi but be extremely private with it!
"Strong need for affirmation and extreme dislike of criticism "
Infps who clicked on this video expecting ego-stroking from the title : đđđ
I don't need or expect affirmation. I am invisible and I like it that way, but criticism hurts.
I also prefer to be invisible, less drama that way, that being said, letâs me view other peoples drama
As an INFP I also prefer to be invisible but crave a deep connection with someone, which I have almost never had. Naturally, I dislike criticism and conflict in general but that goes the same for conflict between others in my presence and I'll always try to de-escalate the situation.
Me, an INFP: Why won't anyone date me??
Also me: _won't open up to people_
Jessica Croteau Iâm always up in everyone elseâs business trying to help them and the second they try to help me or ask anything I instantly turn into a ghost đ
Iâm the same, but with talking. I want them to talk to me, but I donât talk to them, but then they talk too much, and then...
MEEEE
But why u gotta call me out tho đ
Facts! đŻđđ»
INFP wakes up from a dream:
"I met the perfect lover and we went through so much... Goodbye my dear. I shall mourn all day for you."
I had the opposite, I woke up from a dream after many negative dates, now feels bad for it all day
THAT LEGIT HAPPENED TO ME
And thatâs how I ended up with 194829483 imaginary relationships with boys in my dreams that will never exist
I rarely get love in my dreams, my dreams look weird as shit
This is too accurate..,
INFP: "I have a perfect loving boyfriend"
"But he doesn't know I'm his girlfriend" đđ
It took a few seconds before it landedđ
Infp's : I'm convinced we are soulmates đ„șđ«âš.
Yea well mine exists only in fiction
i pray we can touch the ground for some time, at least some of the time. can we? lol
Yeap, because he doesn't know about my existence. Literally. But hey, in my mind we are already married with kids and have a great big house somewhere in Northern England. So, it's fine
Me, an INFP: Dreaming of having a literal soulmate
Also Me: What if I got too clingy? What if I'm too distant? What if I get too emotional? What if we got misunderstandings and I can't talk? What if they fell out of love? What if--*(the list goes on)*
Me a few moments later: Let's just stay single till we die.
*Repeat*
Yup. That was my decision too. And, honestly, I don't feel I've missed much. It's good to be a spinster with a peaceful study so I can pursue my own interests and live my own life.
I've never related to a comment this muchđ€§
SAMEEEEEEEE
Me daily.
I literally have a thing where I fear going on in life without a soulmate and children... every time I think of myself as an asexual I get scared and fear my future self and think of the vast vistas of how I will never get married and die without children... it just scares me as an infp... still one of my greatest fears!
I'm an INFP, but I disagree with the helping toxic people. I'm such a baby, so if you hurt my feelings, I want nothing to do with you anymore.
Aly Recinos exactly get the fuck out of my life for life
I learned that when the toxic person destroy me but hey there is 4 years I don't see her so im betterđ
Same. Hahahahhaha I dont a want a stress in mylife.
I can hardly feel anymore, so I always try to help, none of it is a burden for me. shrug
I wish I had your confidence đ
"Do I want to be dark and brooding? Or do I want to be a quirky, sunshine girl?" Omg my life
Honestly..choosing an aesthetic is so difficult đ I like being both
INFP wardrobe : only black and punk outfits for the moody days, colorful and shining outfits for the great days.
I just decided to look like rays of sunshine on the outside all the time but yâknow inside is different lol
Omg I can relate so much to this
omg... why is this me
Frank : infps think everything is a personal attack!
Me,an infp, with tears in my eyes : is-is this a.. is this a perso-
Omg I relate
Definitely, he attacked us verbally đ„șđ he's an infj totally roasted usđđ
Me, an INFP: desperately want to be in a relationship with someone
Also me, when someone opens up: *runs away* / *hides somewhere* / " *stay away from me, weirdo, you're creeping me out* "
OMG this is me right now!!!! I thought i'm crazy before i knew that was my personality!!!đđ
@@thisgirl9670 LOLLLL sometimes we just dont want it, I like the idea of a relationship but I really dont wanna be in one, turned own at lest 3 guys last year realizing Iâd rather get to know myself than deal with a parent right now.
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I'm an INFP girl and I started talking to a guy (found out later he is ENFJ) but my parents are against relationships and also I have social anxiety which makes it harder.
INFP: *(exists)*
Sorry
Mary H
đđđ yes, no kidding
i am an INFP I say sorry to people who bump into me because I hope they don't have a grudge on me .
@@funny.gon-12 but do you say sorry to inanimate objects?
kind if in a way a fell really guilty
if they get broken or really close
Lmao! Awesome. At least we have that in common. đ
Video title: INFP...the Ultimate Girlfriend?
Next recommended video: INFP: 10 reasons why you're still single
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Dang
Same, lol đ
Heyyy! "Still" single?! I'll have you know that I dated years ago! So take that.
SAME
I'm not lying that i was so happy when he said "come on, infp girlfriend, you're important to me" đđ
Me too ^^
Can not relate.
Me too. It was too weird because he obviously hates us but that moment was soooo touching!
He was being sarcastic
we desperately need help, one moment of positive affirmation made us feel happy after like minutes of roasting :)
I am an INTJ guy, and I met an INFP girl once. She was so sweet and polite, saying sorry for every little "mistake" and making sure everyone's needs are met. It honestly made me feel like she is too good for this cold world. Since then, I know what personality I want in my girlfriend.
Too bad all INFPs are sitting in their house, like myself.
I have an INTJ bf and let's just say they need to work on being more feely lol although he has helped me mentally mature more as an INFP đ„ș
But, the world is too draining U-U đ
(INFP here lol)
@@KittyUnicorn56XD Couldn't agree more honestly. Even back as a kid, when everybody was excited to go out for party, I was more excited for it to end so I could go back home haha.
@@pear1ycur1y83 INTJs have hard shells, but deep inside they are fragile! And afraid to show that side. But eventually it will come out :]
Btw, if any INFP reads this, how did you guys meet your SO? Because I rarely come across your kind, and when I finally do, they are taken.
I am an infp and I am not sorry.
Was that too mean?
Sorry
Its okay sweetie -an infp
exactly
Sorry, not sorry - Reese's
I suggest you guys look for Heidi Pribeâs MBTI articles on Thought Catalog or maybe check out some of her books as an INFP, though sheâs written on ENFPs too.
Is that sorry but not sorry?lol
INFP: *makes a tiny mistake* IM SORRY
Everyone: it's no big deal. You're okay
INFP: You sure?? Oh i'm so sorry
Everyone: don't be sorry it's okay
INFP: .....sorry
Pia Nano
Me a couple days ago ^.^
My friend always gets annoyed with how much I say sorry and she always laughs and says âno more sorry!â đđđ
@@zm1197 same same
Yes...
Yepppppp
As an INFP, being compared to a dog is one of the best compliments I've ever gotten.
Yeah! owo
Hell no, itâs insulting to me
đ it should'nt be "just like a dog". although what he said is true, but still insulting :))
Dogs are to eager for company - I'm more like a cat - observing others in solitude.
Iâm a lot like a puppy. If I admire someone I tend follow them around.
"obsseses over a relationship with someone they've barely spoken to"
OMG! I FEEL SO ATTACKED!đ
Lol!
"do I want to be dark or happy sunshine?" oh, the constant struggle
I feel this deep in my soul because this affects me on so many levels, from things as shallow as my fashion sense to deeper things like my moods, social life and taste in music...I feel sometimes like walking polar opposites... it's unreal
i ain't no sunshine, i ain't no dark,but yet, i'm an INFP reeeeee (i'm kinda weirdo tho)
@@yak3543 lol. Most of us are. Don't worry,you are just as sane as I am.
omg this is sooo true xD I thought I was crazy struggeling with stuff like this xD
DAMN TRUE. I wanna be a badass but i cant help but see all those sad people, and help them.
this dude's literally the PewDiePie of the Myers-Briggs Personality Types
That's just insulting
Thatâs what I was thinking
Even the way he talks it's like pewdiepie.
@@elfaro1607 That's just insulting.
Yes, the way he says 'weaknesses' is like Felix's 'women'
Me, an infp: raised in a home where emotions are judged and made fun of, everyone I know, them: why donât you have any emotions?, me: you donât know the half of međ
Saaaaaaaaaammmmmmeeeeee
Thatâs why I bottle them đ„ș
Oh my God...I feel this.đ„ș
yep that's me and they said it's alright to cry lol
Thia means you have trauma from abuse. I feel that once we heal, we may become ambiverted.
I've done things like hypnosis, EFT, Qigong and energy healing to heal trauma. Slowly, I'm realising that a lot of personality is trauma. Didn't like my old behaviours. Love my confidence and faith in life now
Iâm so INFP that Iâve been in a relationship with Frank James for the last year and he doesnât even know.
Heâs so INFJ that this is actually kind of the perfect relationship for him.
I hope the barista at Starbucks doesnât mindâŠ
I hope he will see thisđ đ
"This is somewhat ironic, given that they want an authentic connection, but would then hold back, so that you can't create one." This is it. This is my dating life.
I never realized my basic and obvious intimacy issues until that moment....unfortunately this awareness won't change anything.
I eanted to comment the sameđ
What I'm thinking is none of their business, but I gotta know what they are all about lol it was always my mindset.
I only retract myself if I feel I'm being played, which is fairly often. I just don't date tbh. Authenticity matters to us because we always feel pressured to be fake and gladly consume all the fake around us. It's not really ironic it's just sad.
LuvIzLuvX0 same
" I don't feel the authentic connection. I'm done with you"
I'm still single because of this.
Beth Azzawi haha ikr. Where do i find !!
Beth Azzawi same
I was doing this before I even realized what the hell I was doing
Same here hahaa
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3:30 I'm just scared of replying so I procrastinate until I've forgotten that someone texted me
That's a huge problem for me right now xd
Can't be more accurate than that!
Itâs nice to not be the only one 3 years later :)
Any ADHD/ADD INFPs here? Gotta love adding that extra layer of hyper-activity and hyper-fixation to an already over-thinking personality type đđ».
Also âcries softly over a dead beeâ made me spit out my drink.
MEEE im inattentive lol. Just sprinkle in some childhood trauma to intensify my rejection sensitive dysphoria and itâs perfect :â)
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Here I am!!! â€
Here I am. Hyper fixation consumes me.
Me
''This is a safe space for all INFPs''
After 10 minutes of roasting them.
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T^T
This comment smells like infj
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I'm INFP and I only disagree with the "I hate thinking" meme. Like, INFP's OVERTHINK EVERYTHING! đđđ
I think That's the joke. IN types get to think a lot but when you're F it hurts yourself because you realise there is pain, you're lonely, your life sucks ect. That's why we end up hating our own thoughts process.
Thank you. I hate all the shitty stereotypes that fake INFPs with blue hair and tumblr accounts have perpetuated. I think plenty thank you very much and I'm not emotionally distant just because I don't have leaky eyes.
Yes.
The overthinking is real.
The only other thing I really disagreed with was a letter from Hogwarts. Naw, just send Caspian my way for some deep conversation instead. Hahaha
I alway told myself that my worst weakness was over thinking everything, infp represent
Leticia Negrao INFP here and Iâve analyzed the world and more with my brain... more than is beneficial. Learning I can just be at peace and donât always have to be thinking đđžđ
As an INFP girl who's dying for a gf, I scream for a relationship on the inside but actually NEVER talk to any strangers at all.
Strangers are strange, that's why.
I once had an old lady talk to me on a tram about the importance of looking people in the eye. She was an oncology nurse. It was inspiring and TERRIFYING at the same time. Her gaze never left my eyes.
@@ZielonaPastela i can imagine... Having someone looking into your eyes is scary... It's even more scary when you look back at them (that's why I hardly look people in the eyes)
@@mollychen5414 It is scary! I even tried to work with those weird CZcams videos where you have a person looking at you for several minutes to practice eye contact... But they don't work, the real thing is something else.
@@ZielonaPastela i feel u sis. For me, i couldn't even look at the camera during a Zoom call or a Google meet. Not to mention stare someone in the eyes for several minutes. Big obstacle for making new friendsđ€Ł
@@mollychen5414 If they are an INFP they may also be looking sideways đ. I don't know why, I sometimes feel that if I look someone in the eye for too long something bad will happen. Nothing too specific, just bad.
I'm a male INFP but it's good to know that I can make the ultimate girlfriend I guess
me too. very sad. anyway...
Compromise: Femboys.
Thought I had quiet borderline personality disorder...
but I'm just an INFP.
ChucksAreForShmucks feel you
for real
Lmao :D
same
My ex (ESTJ) has Borderline and I'm INFP. We didn't look like in anyway so... Why are you saying this? Could somebody explain, pls?
Pd: English is not my native language, so, I'm sorry if I'm wrong :(
Iâm an INFJ and Iâve been married to and INFP for almost 16yrs. Sheâs perfect.
Justin Meyers đđ
Thatâs sweet đ
The idea of finding the perfect INFP sounds amazing.
Aawwwwww
I am an infp and my best friend in an infj and we are like the most inseparable duo, I would have married her if she was a guy lol đ
Frank : âGood INFP, have a treatâ
Me : instinctive serotonin rush đđł
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Me a single-as-a-pringle INFP: *Click*
... uhm... but pringles come in these tall tubes full of chips... oh, are you one of those people that's into a group relationship sort of set up?
@@kstormgeistgem461 Once the INFP pops, uhh..the fun don't...I don't know.
I just came back to this video and saw my comment and I was like uhhhh what do they mean, XD single as a Pringle is just a alliterative turn of phrase you could say, its just means I'm single and not even close to going out with someone XD
And get roasted by his sarcasm yet he's right, still we will be like onlyđ€...
-gal with the same phase as you dear buddy.
Infps say sorry constantly they earned themselves a free passport to Canada.
Thatâs Not Mayo so true
I'm INFP and Canadian so I'm at home here lol
Hero of Time *Sneeze* I forgive you.
Alyssa S. See Alyssa, youâre already ahead of the INFP game. Slow your roll buddy.
My cousin and I have been keeping tally of who says "I'm sorry" the most. Its horrible. I hate it and so does she. It comes out of my mouth like a reflex. We dont even think about it. She apologizes to pots and pans when she drops them or accidentally kicks the chair at work, so I think she wins. INFP the struggle is real.
Me an INFP: taking everything to heart and feeling a little offended
Also me: itâs a joke. Itâs a joke. Itâs a joke. Itâs a joke. STOP FEELINGGGGG STUPID BRAIN
LOL
Or when someone says something serious that's too much to handle...It's just a joke!
Ugh like whyyyyyyyy
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And letâs be honest. You put âa littleâ offended as to not come off as too sensitive or rude. - from another fellow INFP đ„Č
Infp here, I want to find my soulmate (that's all I really want đ¶), sitting in my room and without a social life đ
What a perfect summary đ
seems reasonable to me... but then i'm an infp as well so what do i know. XD
I can relate, but has anyone come knocking on ur door yet? Mine neither. Reasons to get a social life! Maybe tomorrow...
I've discovered that I need four soulmates. There is no one person who can be all things for me and that's okay.
First, my husband. Sex and security. Stability. He brings order to my chaos. He centers and grounds me. He accepts me the way I am and just asks that I accept him, too.
Second, my super-duper ISFJ-A best friend. She is so understanding, patient, and unconditional in her love. She also brings out my protective streak because she's SO damn sweet and when somebody steps on her tail I want to eat their face. That gives me the shameless strength of a tiger. And then she goes 'Awww!! Good kitty!' and pets my head and makes me feel like a hero. And when I'm an idiot she never holds a grudge.
Third, my second BFF who's also a TOTAL introvert. We can go for months without communicating and both know that everything is really okay between us and that the other is just as attached as ever. But when I need her or she needs me, the other comes running.
And fourth, my daughter who knows me better than anyone on the planet. She enjoys following my mind down the rabbit hole and she's sharp enough to really understand what I'm trying to communicate. I think that, in many ways, she's the only person on the planet who really knows me well.
I actually almost cried because of a dead bee. I see so many bees randomly dying at my house...I feel bad for them T^T
And then one of the bees was still alive and I tried to help it go to the plants but it stung me. My hand hurt, but I felt more sad for the bee because after it stung, it dies. So I was the reason that bee died đ
Now Iâm sad about the bee too đ
That happened to me last summer. I stepped on a bee and she stung me. I bent down and told her how sorry I was. đą
@Gabriella Gaby I'm an infps I don't cry easily but when anything bad happened to my family or pets that I cherish the most died, I overflow like fountain đ but behind closed doors
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Me, an INFP constantly trying to âfixâ people and always seeing the good in people even when they are bad because I think they just need a little more love to help them be a better person.
Iâm an INFP but I do the exact opposite. I see everyone and their flaws, I even see my own and beat myself up for it (mentally lmao). My view of the world is pessimistic so I canât be let down if you expect the worst :D there would only be nice surprises. Iâm aware that this perspective of the world is very stupid but wygd oh well
@@queeenie OMG I thought I was the only one who thought like that fellow INFP (guess we are the same personality type for a reason)
Also as someone in there late 20s I can tell you that you'll come to be a lot more forgiving and empathetic about people's flaws as you age. But its still hard to get past your own flaws
@@queeenie Facts, I fucking hate people but would never say it because i don't hate them enough to hurt them.
@@queeenie Same but from far away I fix everyone in my mind knowing it's just not possible to actually do it
me too đ„ș
Frank James making fun of my type is probably the best thing that happened today
Ana Maria I was the 69th person who liked your comment, that's the second best thing that happend to me today XD
I know right. Iâm INFP and i love it. But then again, Iâm single and still half-hurting after realizations from his recent advice video about being a hopeless romantic. lol. So by the way, some tests tell me im INFJ. Isnât that because I like INFJ personality more than i like mine. My thoughts are everywhere rn btw. I love Frank James. Heâs cool.
Same infp but still laughing... showing we infp are charismatic and accept the truth... regardless of how he said we dont like criticism
đ€Ł exactly Ana Maria!! Itâs completely the best thing to happen to me today too!! Iâm laughing all the way through!!! Itâs all trueđ€Șfellow INFP here too!
hope you have a better one I was sick today
This is hilarious! As an INFP I once had a friend who said âstop saying sorry all the time!â, I proceeded to apologize just in a different way and exited the social situation promptly. đ canât help it I guess!
ugh i hate people who tell me to stop saying sorry all the time, it literally means you don't like me cause that's like my core personality
â@@kalucawow that makes sense... My ex used to tell me that and he ended up getting toxic later. I always thought that of course he was right and I was probably just being too annoying at the time.
I'm an infp lady and I found my husband by joining the computer club at the university. I know almost nothing about computers, I just wanted to date a geeky guy. It worked out, 14 years of marriage later and we're still going strong.
the sudden "NO!!" kinda scares me lol. please don't yell at INFPs đđđđ
yes it's too much for an otherwise mellow video
Yes we are jus smoll beans :3
It was too aggressive!! đđđ
Truth has been spoken
Frank : Câmon INFP girlfriend, youâre important to me. Youâre the subject of my video. Doesnât that make you happy?
Me, a tearful INFP girlfriend: _y i s s_
Sounds like my infp friends,
They only allow themselves to cry in front of me, the infj friend
Yessss
This is so međ
I'm also currently crying and I don't know why...
@Mia Smith That does sound like me. So I would say he could be infj.
One of the best ways what I know to check it are:
- how much friends does he have (and is he really close to them? Since infj have very few friends, and we tend to be super close with them)
- if there is a social gathering (like a party), does he at first not want to go, but when he is there, he doesnât want to leave even though he stays quite awkward and a bit silent.
- infjs also tend to have deep and meaningful talks, usually about how they feel. They only do it when they trust someone a lot. Also they will always put others on the first place. And try to let you talk About your worries and fears, we tend to be natural therapists.
- normally we are very silent and seem very introverted. But with close friends or people we trust, we tend to be more extroverts than a normal extrovert. We will keep talking all the time, smile, laugh, have fun and show our own emotions.
- the last thing is the most useful if he is an empath as well. Does he know how you feel, even though he even doesnât look at you or hear you talk?
@Mia Smith That are kinda all the points I can think of what my friends say about me. Or what I know from myself
The only good thing about being a Female INFP is that, when we find someone, theyâre really good. Bc itâs very hard to find someone. Plus, it means that someone loves us so much that they wanted to know more. So, they opened us up.
At least there is a good thing as a female INFP compared to a male INFP
As an 100% INFP girl, I hate telling people I'm sensitive or consider myself as the victim, and btw, I'm not that much of a crybaby.
someone: hurts INFP's friend
INFP: flips table
INFP: apologizes to table
INFP: cries softly over broken table and holds a funeral for it
Hahaha, so relatable to me haha
And friend has no idea what INFP is even so upset about because friend is an INTP with no spine and wants to appear normal.
Oh my god I have literally been in a similar situation to this đ except instead of holding a funeral I just cried and kept apologising over and over to the people who actually owned the table because I put my fist through it and felt super shitty for damaging someone elseâs propertyđ
I wouldn't flip the table because I know that I'm gonna feel terrible for hurting it. But, I'd definitely be really mad at the person who hurt my friend.
I know everything it's not 100% accurate for every single person and even though we are INFPs we can have little differences but yeah, I would burn that table to ashes and don't feel a thing. XD
"Will the INFP dismantle my couch if bored?"
Me an INFP: Yes.
Elfaro Iâve done this before... free armchair on CL became my hobby
i used to pluck out the stuffing from my chair so yup XD
I was laughing over this until I realized Ive done something similar. My friend was trying to put together a new fan and couldnt figure out how to put it together so my thought was 'Ill just take it apart and put it back together with the other part so then it will all fit together, Ive done it with pens before' and then my friend panicked because I just randomly started dismantling things while she went to the other room to get the instructions... Im not very bright sometimes.
@@gjones9186 accurate AF
....I wanted to learn about upholstery...
I felt both triggered and entertained while watching this đđąđ
This is like reading my diary.
My girlfriend is INFP so I can confirm that INFPs are the ultimate girlfriends
Edit: She broke up with me due to mental health issues. still the best girlfriend I've ever had. 11/10
Awww
Thankyou !!
Thank youđ„ș
thank you đ„ș
Ahaha... thank you. Now Iâm crying
I love the INFPs I know! So stylish, shy, chivalrous and creative! But do not ask them what they want. Deer in the headlights.
I recently told my INFP son, I'm sorry I was so bossy when you were little. (INFJ here) I didn't realize I was stressing him out and boring him to death with my "insightful" advice and lectures. XP Now we are closer than ever!
Hahaha Ni doms sure love to explain in excess, but your advice is necessary (referring to INTJ Dad)
True.
Very much tru
Oh we know what we want.. we just don't want to be an inconvenience to others and not hear their opinions before representing our own...
If I'm the perfect girlfriend then why am I not in a relationship?
not just romantic relationship, I literally don't have any friends
Look for friends online. Twitter or Facebook work well. We introverts can really be ourselves online and the weird thing is, people love us. We just have to make sure they never meet us.
This video made me wonder why do I have any friends at all. Something must be wrong with them ;)
When you get an existential crisis:
Other types: Omg what do I do now?
InxPs: Ah shit, here we go again
As an INFP I always laugh at the 'we're always crying' comment. I legit spent over 2 hours yesterday teared up for all of the native wildlife killed in the bushfires over here.
S Lou Every type has been crying over the Australia fires and animals
I'm weird but i cried for 2 hours with the death and destruction of a fictional word in a game. I'm so hurt that I haven't have return to the game to finish at %100 đ„șđ„șđđ
I had before-bed-crying session for people who get muscular dystrophy
I always cry with short stories..but i also dont like opening up and let people i dont trust see me cry
As an INFP I cried once because I watched a montage of a pretty forest. đ
Okay, i'm still confused. A lot of these characteristics and maybe memes and these comments here are like saying INFPs are emotional. I always consider myself as infp, and i do know i'm emotional as hell on the inside, but i'm too good at keeping all my emotions to myself that a lot of people thinks i always don't give a fuck, so naturally i don't easily cry, at least not in front of anybody
same here. probably emotional trauma
Yeah I never cry. we have cognitive introverted feeling so we keep our emotions more to ourselves and donât outwardly express them very much. I have three INFJ friends who cry all the time...and Iâve never cried once in front of them haha
I don't cry in front of others toođ€Ł
same
Yes
"Tendency to blame themselves and put everything on their shoulders"... As an Infp-T, I remember distinctly as a kid, I thought I had lost my dad's tablet, so I locked myself in the bathroom for hours... But I was only like 6, so I got hungry and came back out to find out it was on the dining room table. I felt so embarrassed...
âImagines a relationship with someone theyâve barely talked toâ
Me: you got a problem with it? đĄđ„ș
not me. that's actually a perfect relationship to me. you're the one writing the script of how it goes. nobody acts up or gets emotionally messy. it's done when You decide it's done and you don't even have to deal with the chaos and mess of a break-up.
i'm all for an imaginary relationship... that is until they figure out how to make AI's cheap enough so the everyperson could afford one. imagine having somebody like Data from ST:NG for a s.o. snuggly with out the emo mess... Sheer Heaven!
Oh my god the apologizing thing isnât even exaggerated I remember stubbing my toe once in an empty room and saying âsorryâ really quietly without even thinking
Oreo someone bumped into me and I said sorry when they were about to apologize.đ€Šđ»ââïž
Woahh đđ
I said sorry to the lady after me in line when I got out of the public toilet... in really low whisper
Omg I just laughed out loud and snorted at this comment đ đ€Ł
@@nanochan1168 what a mood
"Why doesn't anyone understand me? Oh crap, she understands me, I need to GTFO, now!"
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So true đđđ
I'm weak! Soo trueđđđđ€Łđ
I'm an infp and my twin sister is an infj and we're just the perfect emotional, non-thinker duo.. đ
Well...it's not an authentic connection if you have to create it. lol
-INFPđŠ
I sincerely hope you know your every word is being silently judged by thousands upon thousands of INFP girls.
It took me five years in CZcams to start commenting đ
@@cbcimutebi5564 SAME
Lolol
No, INFP's are judging THEMSELVES based off his words.
@@cbcimutebi5564 nahh I as an INFP am pretty aggressive when it comes to discussions. I'm lowkey a debator lmao
Someone once told me that I didnât have to say sorry for doing the thing. I said, oh. Ok. Sorry. đ
Yep. Feeling sorry about almost everything, then feeling sorry because you're saying sorry too much and is making the other person uncomfortable... Happens all the time and drives me nuts. I have to bite my lip pretty hard to stop myself from apologising all the time
Same!!!
Actually I don't think there will be anything wrong with saying sorry many times. Just think it's a polite gesture and *not blame yourself*
Thats not how you finish a sentence starting by "Somebody once told me.. "
NA NJI I have a problem saying sorry in general đ I think it but donât say it
I felt so related to that last INFP gf meme đđđđ
"because you're not a wizard" No, Frank, don't tell me that, no
i realised he had a mustache 10 minutes in the video.
that's why I'm not a sensor
I noticed it too at 8 minutes but at the start, Frank was more unkempt. Did the INFP GF change you? :O
I noticed it after reading your commentđ thanks fellow INFPâ€ïžđ
Guess I'm still asleep. The only thing I noticed was reading Voltaire :)
Wow, I didnât notice. O.o
He was a bit unsaved for about 6 min, and then after that he shaved the rest and left a bit of moustache. I guess that's why you didn't notice it.
Iâm an INFP.
The thing I perceive the most from this:
The INFP girl is the original manic pixie dream girl.
Omg yes I ducking believe it
i can vouch for that
Oh fuck
Yeah, whenever I see something about maniac pixie dream girls I relate so much it hurts. I'm not trying to be like childlike, clumsy, artistic and melancholic, it's just part of who I am.
I'm feel so dumb complaining about that.
@@marina2150 i can relate so hard. I honestly hate being childlike tho bc people think I'm dumb.
I've had to literally force myself to communicate instead of always expecting them to do what I want unprompted
As an INFP, I can confirm that weâre the ultimate girlfriend.
One time I was in a store and I bumped into a mannequin by accident and immediately apologized to it before realizing...it was just a mannequin.
TRUE INFP STATUS đ
ENTP here and same thing xD
i guess i am kust clumbsy and well raised xD
As you should haveđđ
I feel that so much. I apologize to people when I pass by them too closely. I apologize if somebody bumps into me. In public when I'm not with friends of family, the only words I know are "I'm sorry."
Kara Shea one time I was talking to someone and I was saying sorry about something and then he goes to me "you should stop apologizing so much" and not 2 seconds go by and I apologize again... for apologizing the first time lol đ€Šđ»ââïž Why do we do this to ourselves lol
@@maryh2730 There's polite, then there's overly polite.... And then there's INFPs....
This had me giggling... I'm an INFP, but I'm comfy with myself and do not get offended easily. Smash like if you're a confident INFP :)
I'm getting there. Looking in to Philosophy, buddhism and listening to Jordan Peaterson's lectures is a huge help at making it happen.
@@KeeperOfKeys22 I listen to Peterson!! Some helpful stuff from him, but nothing beats Dan Mohler because he lives and demonstrates what he believes and teaches like few others I've known of in modern times. Authentic truth - INFP approved.
Me too! People are even surprised that I really take action immediately because of their constructive criticism ;)
I have my confident days but most of the time my INFP is showing lol
Im not on that level of confident yet but i just hope ill be confident enough soon. So ill leave a like
Iâm an infp who has been married to my istp hubby for 24 years. Interesting combo for sure!! You can only imagine how much he loves to hear my creative ramblings and poetic take on everything. Everything has deep deep meaning. I believe he does love me despite the quirky, spacey way I perceive life. I listen to him talk about every technical genius project he works on and he drags me kicking and screaming into adventure. Ainât marriage grand? â€ïžđâ€ïžđ Should I delete this? I probably shouldđł Iâm going to go hide now in my book.đ
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That Michael Scott reference đđ«đđ»đđ»đđ»đđ»đđ»đđ»đđ»đđ»đđ»đđ»đđ»đđđđđ»đđ»đđ»đđ» (NO, GOD, NO. NO. NO. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!)
As an infp all I want are pets and love
Oh my god I'm a dog
As an INFJ I am love.
Literally yes! I agree hahaha
@@daniii3915 As an another INFP Im am Depression.
*me: INFP cat person*
Oh my god...Iâve become the very thing I swore to destroy..
I'm an INFP and I'm sorry
sorry
sprry
sorry*
sorry
Iâm sorry too đ
The 'tendency to blame themselves' thing is something my family keeps pointing out to try to stop me from doing it but then it only just makes me embarrassed and ashamed đ
"Is the INFP good with cats?"
*YES*
I love how his beard just disappears half way through the video leaving a saucy little mustache.
I was thinking the same thing haha. I thought I was going crazy.
I was looking for this comment lol
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The INFP disappearing when a text arrives is so me HAHAHAHAHAHAHA Help, I want to answer but I don't know what to say :(
Sameđ€Ł That always happened to me. Just like this morning, my friends texted something in the group and I really don't know what to reply. I wanted to ignore and do my own stuff but at the same time, I feel kinda bad cuz one of my friends seem like there's something in her mind(you know what I mean?) so I tried saying, "HELLO" but then...
no one answered. They all went *krik krik*
...
I mean, DID I DO SOMETHING WRONG? Am I boring? Or am I just a bother?đą
Thankfully my bestfriend is an ENFP, I say whatever I want and sometimes just leave them on seen coz I know she understands I don't know what to say sometimes so she fills in for me in conversations
@@thesundaygist5019 relatable af
âDepression is a lifestyleâ đđđđŻđŻ
As an INFP woman I can say I made a marvelous salesperson. I was warm, friendly, knowledgeable and helpful. I only had to deal with you for a few minutes and it's all good. I liked it much more than spending 8 hours a day with the same few people.
True!!!
100% agree
INFJ actually means "I Need Frank James." Don't let him fool you.
As an INFP, Everyone thinks I'm happy and emotionally stable so they come to me for advice, to which I am able to give actually good advice.
But no I am not as happy and emotionally stable as you think I am and for whatever reason, I suck at giving advice to myself so I just suffer in silence because I'm too scared to open up but at the same time I tell a lot of people really personal things but the truth is they aren't that personal to me and actually double as a cover so people don't know the things I'm really worried about. I'm just damn good at not letting it show brother.
Edit: Just want to say I'm glad that this little... rant? Vent? Could resonate with so many people! However, I just want to be sure that nobody leaves this comment with a sour taste in their mouth. Being an INFP is great! I mean this comment in itself was just me pouring out my heart a bit and seeing if people could relate, I'm glad some of you can! But yeah I don't want anyone getting down about it, it is what it is and us INFPs have a very important and crucial role to play in life, just like everyone else
I felt this right down to my core, sis.
.... you got me there đ€§đł
Youâre literally describing how i am???
Gosh yeah. That was so spot on.
Oppssies đ its just the first layer. Stay tune to the second layer.
21 y/o here who's never dated. Freshman year a friend asked me what I look for in a guy and I mindlessly replied "Someone who'll support me, but give me space and leave me alone." My friend literally looked at me and said "bruh wtf, that's not even in the friendzone level." đ
@keiko me also as a women in her 20's, I never ever had serious relationship never been but when a guy shows he interested but I don't interested in them I literally just said " nope, I don't like you, I better run and vanished ' literally avoided him and became akwards even though u in same university as they are đ
Frank, you are so right! Thank you for making me feel awkward and understood at the same timeâ€đâ€
Is it just me or whenever I have a question on my mind I search it up on the internet and get extremely interested in that topic. My friend once went through my search history and she was very concerned about me. đ
I feel you đ I go to EVERY source of information until there's no more to look up to đ€Ł I become such a nerd and I love it.
me too but ultimately i become a jack of all trades, master of none
@@sofitocyn100 story of my life
Yup, same
Aaah. That explains. I went into this rabbit hole of serial killers lately. No I'm not planning to be one đ
"I don't FEEL the AUTHENTIC CONNECTION. I am DONE with you!"đđđ€Łđ€Ł That line had me ROLLING. I'm INFP but I don't think I could be that mean. But if I'm not feeling it, I'm not feeling it, ygm?
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I couldn't say it, but would surely distance myself in silence >_
Dude I saw that title and immediately felt special
Iâm an INFP girl
"They want an authentic connection but will then hold back so that you can't create one."
At this point I feel personally attecked.
FJ: You're not a wizard.
ME: *Cries salty INFP tears*
Danielle Hunt ewwww.
Why be a wizard when we are obviously just robots made of flesh? Running the same loop of lifeless existence over and over.
Strict-9 studios Sssssh! *Fellow robot, the humans can not cope with this forbidden knowledge...* ;P
Yer a wizard, Danielle!!!
-another infj
@@TheEmpressElizabeth I'm a wot?! XD
But we are wizards! đđżâš
I read the other day that we INFPs are inherently on the spectrum for BPD by our very nature, due to our sensitivity. How awesome is that? Meanwhile, we live in a world ignorant to psychology, and rampant with the worst kind of projection, and full of people willing to tell you what you want to hear in order to use your care and warmth to fill a void within themselves.
INFPs: Psychology needs to be your favorite thing in the world so you can learn to read people, and so you can cope better with the understanding that people are messed up and untrustworthy due largely to emotional repression. This is pathologically passed on in our culture, and most cultures, in how we neglect a child's emotional development by suppressing expressions of negative emotion in favor of them doing what we want, meeting our needs and expectations, and conformity. In fact, that emotional repression and lack of psychological growth is the fundamental cause of all that's wrong in the world. Hatred and war can only come from a place of emotional repression.
i think about this legit every day, and it's so so so refreshing to see people with similar thoughts
I love psychology! I recommend Dr Grande's youtube channel czcams.com/users/RioGrande51
I really love the topic of narcissism! I realized the people I felt unhappy with are narcissists! Then I dont blame myself anymore! A total shift in mindset!
I prefer philosophy and history to ponder on the human condition...and memes cause they're lit
@@cdorothy444 watch it all the time since I've discovered I was in a 4 year relationship with a vulnerable narcissist a few mths ago.
@@thunderouswanderer7753 those are right alongside psychology for me. Anything that stirs the craving for knowledge and fires up the intellect eh? It's all just cetegories for the sake of our understanding of a single subject we call life after all ;)
1. Want authentic connection.
2.Holds back.
3.Spends ages creating a version of myself that i think seems authentic because ive overthought what it is to be authentic and am trying to give my date everything they want whilst trying to give us both emotional space.