Who Would the 16 Personalities Kiss, Marry, or Pie?!

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  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames  Před 3 lety +566

    Let me know in the comments who you'd kiss marry and pie out of the 16 Personalities, and what you think of my choices for each of the types!
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    • @annika4503
      @annika4503 Před 3 lety +3

      damn im early ig

    • @annika4503
      @annika4503 Před 3 lety +21

      i would kiss an infj, marry an intj and throw a pie at everyone (im an enfp lol)

    • @mina4993
      @mina4993 Před 3 lety +27

      I think that INFP throwing a pie on INFP is so accurate 😂 like we do that all the time

    • @tigre7739
      @tigre7739 Před 3 lety +9

      kissing is one thing. I haven't engaged in anything in a quite a long time, mostly by choice, so if the opportunity arose I don't think I would care that much about the type I probably prefer no words at all so I wouldn't even know their type, as far as marrying not a chance, pie in the face probably not, I mean why waste a perfectly good pie!

    • @knuddelkatze452
      @knuddelkatze452 Před 3 lety +10

      I am a 49 infp and would not want to marry an E-whatever anymore....especially the "i have to make my infp better by dragging her to social events"😂 type! I usually really get along with infj and especially intp-i love their wierd sense of humor and they also just get me-sometimes! Pie myself? Anytime, always👍🏻! Methaphorically i do that at least mornig, noon and evening, with an infp unlike consequence every day...if i have to be awake that means😅! Sry for my engl and thx for the video!!!
      Edit: i like e-types-just not for marriage and all the time!.....wow, wasn't that infp-i honestly felt bad🙈

  • @elinhulldin5926
    @elinhulldin5926 Před 3 lety +6615

    I think I would kiss ENFJ, marry ENFJ and eat the pie. -INFP

    • @siem_jacobsicantanymore
      @siem_jacobsicantanymore Před 3 lety +867

      i would kiss INFP marry INFP and share the pie with INFP - ENFJ

    • @macripastor
      @macripastor Před 3 lety +471

      @@siem_jacobsicantanymore I already ship you, guys!

    • @hazraa4513
      @hazraa4513 Před 3 lety +394

      literally same. even if i can't marry, at least i need to find an ENFJ friend

    • @Eko-fr1qo
      @Eko-fr1qo Před 3 lety +238

      @@hazraa4513 *clears throat* Allow me to introduce myself

    • @hazraa4513
      @hazraa4513 Před 3 lety +154

      @@Eko-fr1qo heyy there :) *internal peace* finally found an enfj friend XD

  • @brookebcreativity1001
    @brookebcreativity1001 Před 3 lety +3195

    INFPs pie-ing themselves is very accurate. As an INFP I didn’t expect it but I probably should have

  • @runningriot7963
    @runningriot7963 Před 10 měsíci +410

    Thank me later
    ISFJ 0:41
    ESFJ 1:26
    ISTJ 2:18
    ISFP 3:06
    ESTJ 4:25
    ESFP 5:13
    ENFP 5:54
    ISTP 6:53
    INFP 7:49
    ESTP 9:00
    INTP 9:45
    ENTP 10:24
    ENFJ 11:10
    INTJ 11:49
    ENTJ 12:33
    INFJ 13:07

  • @justlovealways
    @justlovealways Před rokem +243

    I am an Infj and my grandma was an Intj (I made her take the test lol). We were very close, we would usually talk for hours. We had a lot in common but she was lead by her brain and I with my heart. This led to a lot of teasing of each other, learning from each other, and me often making her laugh and her calling me “silly”. It was rare that we didn’t get along but the few times it happened it was intense and difficult. She taught me a lot, was my rock, and I miss her so much now that she’s in heaven. ❤

    • @sandysundae8422
      @sandysundae8422 Před rokem +8

      Awww.. 💛 That's sweet🌹
      May she rest in peace 🙏💐

    • @swastikaghosh4913
      @swastikaghosh4913 Před 5 měsíci +5

      I actually have a similar situation with my dad… he is an infj and I am an intj and we have this habit of talking over breakfast on days we sit together for (on days he doesn’t have to go into work and I don’t have to go to school that is) and we really have meaningful conversations about anything and everything with him speaking from the heart and me from the mind. It really puts into perspective where we lack and can learn from and also where we have a common understanding of the topic

    • @fatimahali7432
      @fatimahali7432 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@sandysundae8422❤

  • @megschwartz2461
    @megschwartz2461 Před 2 lety +1276

    ENTJ: I’m gonna pie whoever pies INFP >:(
    INFP: *pies themselves*
    ENTJ:
    ENTJ: I’m a man of my word

  • @Kai-qo1nx
    @Kai-qo1nx Před 3 lety +2667

    As an ENFP, I'm just letting everyone know I'm going to throw a pie at everyone. Not because I dislike the different personalities, I just love to mess with them

    • @tazmeenp9277
      @tazmeenp9277 Před 3 lety +196

      Yea who wouldn’t wanna throw a pie at someone’s face

    • @oxygen4605
      @oxygen4605 Před 3 lety +147

      Same bro
      - ENFP The Third

    • @Kai-qo1nx
      @Kai-qo1nx Před 3 lety +55

      @@tazmeenp9277 Right? I mean, I'm sure they taste better than a kiss or a wedding cake ^^

    • @Roberta-wu7bd
      @Roberta-wu7bd Před 3 lety +102

      you can throw a pie at me, i love seeing enfps smile😁 - infj

    • @minmin8440
      @minmin8440 Před 3 lety +29

      Ain't you a cutie ~

  • @eleanorelliott
    @eleanorelliott Před rokem +265

    as an ENTP, I did in fact meet an INTP in 7th grade in an art camp, and we were both way past the art level that they were teaching, so we just talked crap about the classes and stared directly into each other’s eyes for 30 seconds at a time and talked about memes. Definitely the best week of my life, and I fell hopelessly in love with him and I’ve never gotten over it.

  • @chelsead8142
    @chelsead8142 Před rokem +158

    ENTJ wanting to kiss, marry, and pie an INFP seems really accurate. I'm INFP, my last boyfriend was ENTJ (we think) and he would do all three of those things. I don't really know why, either. It was almost annoying how much he liked me sometimes. He never pied me in the face, but he was a bit cruel when playing board games. We fought over rent in Monopoly multiple times. :D
    We did break up, but I don't think it was a personality issue.

    • @lajoyeusetroupe
      @lajoyeusetroupe Před rokem +26

      Same story here '-'
      ENTJ ex boyfriend being mean while playing games, but surprisingly kind in daily life.
      Our break up was not a personality issue too. (he had feelings for another girl)

    • @alexandraleon8244
      @alexandraleon8244 Před 2 měsíci +2

      There is a book called "Once Upon a Broken Heart" by Stephanie Garber, the female protagonist of the book is infp and the protagonist is Entj, it is very sad and at the same time very romantic, I highly recommend it, it is very cute, but you might cry a bit. The truth is that his story is quite similar to the ENTJxINFP memes

    • @chelsead8142
      @chelsead8142 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@alexandraleon8244 Thanks for the suggestion. I hadn't heard of that book before. I'll look into it.

    • @alexandraleon8244
      @alexandraleon8244 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@chelsead8142You're welcome ☺️I hope you like them!
      Some tropes from the book are
      Hurt boy-hurt girl
      Slow burn
      Forbidden love
      And Hate-love

    • @alexandraleon8244
      @alexandraleon8244 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@chelsead8142It's veryyy beautiful, is so romantic but sad, I hope you like it😊💕

  • @carterconnell81
    @carterconnell81 Před 3 lety +916

    I’m just picturing an INFP pie-ing another INFP and then they both burst into tears and start apologizing to each other.

    • @ane9898
      @ane9898 Před 3 lety +83

      🤣 what a nice drama

    • @Heliorhodonite
      @Heliorhodonite Před 3 lety +55

      Oh dear. xD Honestly, I think I'd pie a lot of INFPs because they're the type who anger me the most. ( yes I am one /out )

    • @CaveyMoth
      @CaveyMoth Před 3 lety +66

      I'd say sorry even if I was the one being pied. Sorry that I did something to deserve being pied.

    • @carterconnell81
      @carterconnell81 Před 3 lety +17

      @@CaveyMoth exactly

    • @elise4020
      @elise4020 Před 3 lety +27

      nahh I know we both deserve it, I'm just serving justice to my own type. and, free pie to eat I suppose

  • @rockinlt3958
    @rockinlt3958 Před 3 lety +502

    Why can't you just give me the pie to eat instead of wasting it on my face .
    - INTJ

    • @Shadow66090
      @Shadow66090 Před 3 lety +40

      Exactly what I was thinking. Why waste such a wonderful pie? Gimme!
      -INTJ

    • @djdragons69420
      @djdragons69420 Před 3 lety +19

      Same i would rather eat the pies than throw them at others- intp

    • @GhostOfMrPickles
      @GhostOfMrPickles Před 3 lety +6

      so very much this. gimme that pie.

    • @alimushtaq2367
      @alimushtaq2367 Před 3 lety +8

      same
      -INTJ

    • @Tanya-yu6mf
      @Tanya-yu6mf Před 3 lety +6

      same
      - INTJ with sweet tooth

  • @CarpitalLetters
    @CarpitalLetters Před rokem +59

    As an ISTP, I'm drawn to extroverted personalities to have fun with. They give me that adrenaline that I crave but I don't have as much energy as them so I often need to pull away once I start feeling drained. I'm a quiet person but I'm not shy or nervous, I'm just reserved.
    Deep down inside, I want to party hard and do crazy fun stuff. I just need extroverted people to give me a little push in that direction

    • @hIRuka...
      @hIRuka... Před 11 měsíci +3

      Dios también soy un istp y me identifico mucho con tu comentario

  • @Shashoobee
    @Shashoobee Před rokem +25

    My husband is an INTJ, and I am an INFJ. I can absolutely see him laughing to himself while imagining pieing me in the face, specifically after I’ve annoyed him.

  • @MintyPanda3
    @MintyPanda3 Před 3 lety +1285

    The ENTJ kissing, marrying, and pieing the INFP just sounds like a sequence of events leading up to a fun, exciting, and happy life tbh.

    • @narwhalzipan3785
      @narwhalzipan3785 Před 3 lety +94

      Can confirm. That's how it played out for me lol.

    • @camrynclass2836
      @camrynclass2836 Před 3 lety +241

      as an infp i now need to find an entj bc this is my new unrealistic expectation

    • @anam2916
      @anam2916 Před 2 lety +48

      @@camrynclass2836 lol this is so accurate

    • @misscoffee6442
      @misscoffee6442 Před 2 lety +11

      @@camrynclass2836 yeah

    • @c.shadou1897
      @c.shadou1897 Před 2 lety +106

      Camryn Class literally, an extrovert being intrigued by us specifically but so confused that they wanna throw a pie in our faces? Yes please

  • @Casedilla73
    @Casedilla73 Před 3 lety +756

    “It’s so cute how you’re disconnected from reality”

  • @elenadianavasquez9009
    @elenadianavasquez9009 Před rokem +42

    As an INFP, I would agree with splating myself with pie. There are a lot of things I regret doing in my past.

  • @karatthedog6740
    @karatthedog6740 Před rokem +31

    I'm 100% INTP and I think that I would "kiss" an ENTP, (after one good argument) "marry" one INFJ (knowing people well and abstract thinking) and then pie the ENTJ (say what they want other people to do). Interesting video, keep doing that stuff!

    • @amithmundur
      @amithmundur Před 9 dny

      but would prolly not be able to confess to an INFJ

  • @katielarsen2630
    @katielarsen2630 Před 3 lety +690

    I'm just relieved that everyone didn't want to pie INFP

    • @hotshots149
      @hotshots149 Před 2 lety +8

      Why would they?

    • @SP-hb4mk
      @SP-hb4mk Před 2 lety +177

      It's so normal, I think, as an INFP to dislike our type, but just maybe... the only ones who actually want to pie INFPs... are just INFPs themselves 😂

    • @abigail9206
      @abigail9206 Před 2 lety +63

      @@SP-hb4mk It's like ewwww this person is so annoying and dramatic and IM SUPPOSED TO BE THE CHOSEN ONE lol
      -INFP

    • @deborahgale
      @deborahgale Před 2 lety +42

      INFJ, I want to kiss, marry AND pie an INFP....if I can ever get him to talk about his feelings.... :)

    • @talkingtoawall5123
      @talkingtoawall5123 Před 2 lety +40

      Nah.. I think most of the types just think infps are cute & harmless (as per our stereotype)

  • @danidino1645
    @danidino1645 Před 3 lety +1771

    INFP: *pie-ing themselves*
    ENTJ: Here is another one *pies the INFP*

    • @Lex-qt1cc
      @Lex-qt1cc Před 3 lety +23

      lol

    • @Shadow_Legend715
      @Shadow_Legend715 Před 3 lety +194

      And the INFPs enjoyed it
      -INFP

    • @jolog7490
      @jolog7490 Před 3 lety +4

      :DDDD

    • @MoonLight-lc8qg
      @MoonLight-lc8qg Před 2 lety +88

      @09CZS and also say “sorry” until they get annoyed that they want to throw another pie at us 😆

    • @osheridan
      @osheridan Před 2 lety +7

      I think they did INFJ not INFP but yeah. Not sure tho

  • @heyheyheyyyy
    @heyheyheyyyy Před rokem +189

    I was looking for the timeline but couldn't find it 😭
    So i made one 😎
    Here you go ~
    ISFJ - 00:42
    ESFJ - 1:27
    ISTJ - 2:18
    ISFP - 3:07
    ESTJ - 4:27
    ESFP - 5:14
    ENFP - 5:55
    ISTP - 6:54
    INFP - 7:42
    ESTP - 9:00
    INTP - 9:46
    ENTP - 10:27
    ENFJ - 11:13
    INTJ - 11:50
    ENTJ - 12:36
    INFJ - 13:09

  • @anincandescentlightbulb
    @anincandescentlightbulb Před rokem +91

    Surprisingly, the last one was spot on. My grandparents are INFJ and ESTJ and they have been married to each other for their whole life, 60+ years.

    • @dorasdoublejawsurgeryjourney
      @dorasdoublejawsurgeryjourney Před rokem +6

      Dude, no way - my grandparents are ALSO an ESTJ x ISFJ. They’re just past the 40 year mark. Pretty funny. Must be the golden combo of types.

    • @halimaalidrissi568
      @halimaalidrissi568 Před rokem

      @@dorasdoublejawsurgeryjourneythey said INFJ lol

    • @dorasdoublejawsurgeryjourney
      @dorasdoublejawsurgeryjourney Před rokem +3

      @@halimaalidrissi568 LOL I guess I couldn’t hide the fact that it was 2 in the morning when I read/commented that 😂

    • @anincandescentlightbulb
      @anincandescentlightbulb Před rokem +2

      @@dorasdoublejawsurgeryjourney ESTJ with ISFJ is also a nice pair and there's no doubt that they get along well. I think ESTJ with ISFJ is even better than with INFJ, due to their sensory traits, I think 🙂

    • @waftsofpetrichor
      @waftsofpetrichor Před rokem +1

      I like your username. I think you're intuitive.

  • @ajbinc6997
    @ajbinc6997 Před 2 lety +2187

    Let's be real, once an ENTP starts debating almost every type wants to pie them.

    • @yunaru621
      @yunaru621 Před 2 lety +73

      Except in terms of pie, we have no pie

    • @fatematabassumelma9997
      @fatematabassumelma9997 Před 2 lety +106

      I love ENTPs..I am an enfp btw.

    • @ajbinc6997
      @ajbinc6997 Před 2 lety +45

      @@fatematabassumelma9997 hahaha we're wild but can be a lot. I love the abstract thinking of ENFPs :))

    • @tharukafernando9200
      @tharukafernando9200 Před 2 lety +161

      I don't want to pie them.I love debating
      -INTP

    • @ajbinc6997
      @ajbinc6997 Před 2 lety +33

      @@tharukafernando9200 hahaha I need more people like you in my life

  • @blameese
    @blameese Před 3 lety +653

    Frank, the INTJ and INFJ pies just cancel each other out in the air, resulting in respect for one another’s intuitive ability. 😂 -INTJ

    • @dianacostaph
      @dianacostaph Před 3 lety +33

      😂😂😂 good one. - INTJ

    • @katieblake3023
      @katieblake3023 Před 3 lety +58

      Haha accurate. Ime, INTJ and INFJ tend to mutually respect each other - INFJ

    • @laviniasnow4494
      @laviniasnow4494 Před 3 lety +7

      Cool. I wonder what INFJs think about ISFJs and ISFPs. ☺️

    • @merlinsmustche
      @merlinsmustche Před 3 lety +40

      That depends on who throws it harder. -INFJ

    • @aidanhunter6195
      @aidanhunter6195 Před 3 lety +13

      Can confirm- INTJ😂

  • @theknittygritty9054
    @theknittygritty9054 Před rokem +47

    INFP here! ENTJ's have always been my romantic preference and my longtime boyfriend/actual soulmate is an ENTJ! I think we could both relate to how you described each of our types marrying, kissing, and pieing each other !!

  • @dorasdoublejawsurgeryjourney

    Funny enough, my father is an ISTJ and my mother is an ENFP. Total opposites. And while my dad would, in fact, pie my mom, their love for one another keeps them going.
    - their estj daughter

    • @sarahberkner
      @sarahberkner Před rokem

      That's uncanny, I'm an ESTJ and my dad is ISTJ while my mom's either ISFP or ISFJ, not sure, but she's a very extroverted introvert so they're like opposites. I'm glad they're together but I've never quite understood it lol

    • @l.u.m.7759
      @l.u.m.7759 Před rokem

      I have that's opposite going on with my mom, she's an ESTJ n I'm an ENFP hehe (my dad's n ESFP)

  • @ladybuggames8162
    @ladybuggames8162 Před 3 lety +733

    "ENFP would go for a random one," Never have I been so offended by something I 100% agree with.

  • @BrianOfAteionas
    @BrianOfAteionas Před 3 lety +1165

    I'm just imagining a world where most everyone is having a healthy and balanced amount of kissing marrying and pie-ing, but the INTJ and INFJ are just off somewhere consumed in their pie war.

    • @alimushtaq2367
      @alimushtaq2367 Před 3 lety +48

      @@GHz-jz9zq No we won't. I'm either INFJ or INTJ not confirm but I definitely am one of them and I can 100%guarantee that I will not marry someone who is INFJ or INTJ because I know my mind and when someone tries to talk to me my first thought is "what's his purpose" and as an INXJ I can instantly recognize their purpose and I don't say anything to that person's face because then I'll be the bad guy for not responding hapily to someone's "kindness" rather I just give half assed responses and completely ignore that person. But it's not like I'm egoistic and don't want to change. I just understand better about myself than others and I already have a plan to improve myself and when someone else talks about it I somehow get mad.

    • @alimushtaq2367
      @alimushtaq2367 Před 3 lety +9

      @@GHz-jz9zq which is why natural therapists are annoying for me

    • @froggarolli-Stolitz
      @froggarolli-Stolitz Před 3 lety +3

      Oof-

    • @Leonhart_93
      @Leonhart_93 Před 3 lety +33

      @@alimushtaq2367 In which case let me ask you: do you think another INXJ can instantly recognize your hidden intentions when you talk to them?
      My point is that INXJs are not often predictable with their intentions. What you are picking on are probably other types. Point in case, I pretty much personally don't know any other INXJ other than myself. They weren't voted as the rarest personality types for nothing, that Introverted Intuition is RARE.

    • @alimushtaq2367
      @alimushtaq2367 Před 3 lety +9

      @@Leonhart_93 Well what I said was completely theory according to how I am. One reason I think is true because I don't open up to others while others open up to me alot. And whenever someone forces me to open up about my feelings I get mad because to be honest I realize that I was feeling something hours after it had happened.

  • @kellyholden597
    @kellyholden597 Před rokem +37

    I ( INFJ) have both married and sometimes want to pie my INTJ spouse, but that's the spice of life! In the end, a good relationship requires compassion, humility and the willingness to work together. Good laughs, Frank!

  • @shhhhhift
    @shhhhhift Před rokem +127

    Timelines for intp:
    - ESTJ kiss INTP (Oh, god) 4:30
    - (Is that really) INTP choice (ok with esfp true) 10:00
    - ENTP marry INTP (kinda cute, but still I already feel how exhausting this relationship is for intp) 10:44

    • @nova-a7404
      @nova-a7404 Před rokem +2

      You saved me
      nvm i think the timestamps ar wrong thanks tho

    • @shhhhhift
      @shhhhhift Před rokem +1

      @@nova-a7404 OH
      SORRY
      DIDN'T NOTICE
      Btw edited now
      Thank you

    • @nova-a7404
      @nova-a7404 Před rokem

      @@shhhhhift its ok there was an attempt 😂 thank u for the edit

    • @lordrotarec
      @lordrotarec Před rokem

      I love you shift1169

    • @shhhhhift
      @shhhhhift Před rokem

      @@lordrotarec

  • @Iamcompletelysane
    @Iamcompletelysane Před 3 lety +2798

    As INTJ I wanna:
    Kiss: myself
    Marry: no one
    Pie: everyone

    • @lavenpriv_
      @lavenpriv_ Před 3 lety +226

      Finally someone gets it!
      - an Intj

    • @MY-vu5xv
      @MY-vu5xv Před 3 lety +119

      Same - INTJ

    • @NMD03
      @NMD03 Před 3 lety +107

      Meh, why are you playing so hard to get intj's? I knowww you luvvvv us ~enfp 🌈🦄💟

    • @lavenpriv_
      @lavenpriv_ Před 3 lety +66

      @@NMD03
      Too bad I hate everybody..

    • @deadmanwalking1930
      @deadmanwalking1930 Před 3 lety +68

      As an INFP I gotta say I love this comment.

  • @xTurtleGurlx
    @xTurtleGurlx Před 2 lety +1604

    I love how he knows his audience is mostly INFP and probably does not put them first because they’d stop watching after theirs is done. Lol

    • @russellholladay9222
      @russellholladay9222 Před 2 lety +219

      As an INTJ on the Frank James channel, it is my solemn responsibility to tell you that this is actually a very clever and admirable strategy to increase viewer retention.

    • @luna153
      @luna153 Před 2 lety +113

      I'm infp too and kinda had to laugh in my head when he said that-

    • @filipdudzinski2069
      @filipdudzinski2069 Před 2 lety +23

      I had the same thoughts

    • @rew4778
      @rew4778 Před 2 lety +106

      He always ends his videos with either INFP or INFJ, and he has admitted that he puts them late to increase his watch time

    • @dreamchaser7177
      @dreamchaser7177 Před 2 lety +16

      Ha! I totally tune out until I hear the personality types that interest me. Those of mine and my family's.

  • @gummynoodles9036
    @gummynoodles9036 Před rokem +32

    I think INFP would want to pie INTP because INTP would say these logical ideas without filter that totally wreck their world and ethical believes 😂

    • @ASentientBlockofSwissCheese
      @ASentientBlockofSwissCheese Před rokem +1

      :(
      -INTP

    • @RetroDreamer
      @RetroDreamer Před rokem

      You know I'm not gonna deny it, but I low-key want one of my friends to pie me XD ~INTP

    • @linmonPIE
      @linmonPIE Před rokem +3

      As an INFP I actually have a few INTP friends. I feel like we have the same sense of dark Ne humor. We’re always cracking each other up and we understand each other’s introverted ways.

    • @abekieolaner1922
      @abekieolaner1922 Před rokem +1

      To be honest. If the pie looks good. I would listen to my stomach

  • @Unikay
    @Unikay Před rokem +8

    As an infp, if someone said "its so cute how you're disconnected from reality and all that" I have no idea how I would respond I would either be flattered or die of embarrassment

  • @bridgettelair370
    @bridgettelair370 Před 3 lety +1004

    I would pie everyone, but only from a distance, preferably with a catapult.
    -An INTP

    • @goldengolem4725
      @goldengolem4725 Před 3 lety +52

      I, a INTP, fully agree.

    • @dudeinadoughboy4327
      @dudeinadoughboy4327 Před 3 lety +16

      🥧

    • @gorilla-san
      @gorilla-san Před 3 lety +23

      Hahaha. Nice. My best friend is an INTP and this describes him perfectly
      Although, he's got zero interest in personality types. Thinks it's a waste of time. Prefers to learn about him self from Mark Manson

    • @sheunderstandsmuslin8494
      @sheunderstandsmuslin8494 Před 3 lety +10

      Having an intp brother and best friend, yes I agree!

    • @caramel_mochi8609
      @caramel_mochi8609 Před 3 lety +18

      This idea is genius!!! -INTP
      I'd pie my fellow INTPs for the fun of it. lol

  • @HappyfeetSJ
    @HappyfeetSJ Před 3 lety +747

    We all INFPs have perfect partners in our own dream world.

    • @tedlovejesus
      @tedlovejesus Před 3 lety +41

      Oh hey... my proud achievement include automatically attract INFPs, them telling me some secrets and helping them find love life 😁
      - lucky enfp

    • @legitLUmi
      @legitLUmi Před 3 lety +12

      Ouch but true

    • @andytheindividual3862
      @andytheindividual3862 Před 3 lety +32

      An infp perfect partner is.. ourself :)

    • @mocha6315
      @mocha6315 Před 3 lety +20

      That's because INFP tends to not having a solid grasp of reality

    • @redu8806
      @redu8806 Před 3 lety +18

      okay so i tried personality test many times and it it shows INFP everytime

  • @lilixfive2307
    @lilixfive2307 Před rokem +54

    As an ENFJ I find ISTP really attractive but I thought that was weird as we are completely opposite types. So what you said is funny because that's exactely the way I identy myself x)

    • @ravenamallmann402
      @ravenamallmann402 Před rokem +5

      That's funny because I am an ENFJ and my boyfriend is an ISTP, we are 7 years together. I really like how we balance each other.

    • @Duck-wc9de
      @Duck-wc9de Před rokem +5

      I'm an ENFJ and I find the ISTP personality reeeeeeeeeeally misterious (and sexy).

    • @Squared_Table
      @Squared_Table Před rokem +4

      It’s actually very common. Types tend to be drawn to others who are strong in their less developed functions (fe and ti in this case )

    • @Nixxieartz
      @Nixxieartz Před rokem +1

      My wife is an ISTP, glad to know there are more similar

    • @pizzaparker7424
      @pizzaparker7424 Před 7 měsíci

      You know what's funny? I am an ISTP, and the type I am attracted to the most is ENFJ.
      It's because I am attracted to the type of woman who can encourage me to go out and live, extract my hidden emotions from me and help me organize my life. Also, the ability to deduce my thoughts without me having to express myself too much, since it's something I don't know how to do well outside of the internet. Theoretically, it's the perfect pair because it can help me with my problems and complete what's missing in me. Something like the couple from Pride and Prejudice (not saying these are their MBTI types)
      Now I have no idea what an ENFJ woman would find attractive in my personality, but I imagine she would find it a fun challenge to uncover my deepest secrets...

  • @hollylane47
    @hollylane47 Před 6 měsíci +5

    I'm an INFP married to an ENTJ. Totally a real thing and, yes....yes I would want to pie myself. Literally was feeling that way yesterday!!! Sigh....

  • @airvine7857
    @airvine7857 Před 2 lety +583

    “It’s so cute how you’ve disconnected from reality INFP” -ISFP 5:10

    • @muaoribia4140
      @muaoribia4140 Před 2 lety +37

      Ironically, my ISFP mother often finds that annoying lol

    • @charlessmith5605
      @charlessmith5605 Před 2 lety +8

      @@muaoribia4140
      I'm an ISFP and I don't really care for INFP myself

    • @user-xe6yz6tx7c
      @user-xe6yz6tx7c Před 2 lety +19

      I am an ISFP, my sister is an INFP and I literally felt so identified 😂

    • @em6600
      @em6600 Před 2 lety +6

      thanks dude -infp

    • @iampidgeon6923
      @iampidgeon6923 Před 2 lety +8

      Thanks man I don't even know what day it is today. Btw is summer over or not idk? -infp

  • @ericaaaafj
    @ericaaaafj Před 3 lety +337

    Me, an INFJ with an INTJ sister...
    Yes, mutual pies in the face, that’s what we call sisterhood...

    • @lxtreato
      @lxtreato Před 3 lety +13

      Me, a male ENFP...
      Would be ABSOLUTELY blessed (and intrigued at the same time) to meet you two 🤗
      Edit: And eat pie together of course...

    • @JoanieDoeShadow
      @JoanieDoeShadow Před 3 lety +12

      INFJ with an INTJ sister too, totally.

    • @aleks18293
      @aleks18293 Před 3 lety +8

      infj with intj brother, same mood. hahaha

    • @raktimamchi5860
      @raktimamchi5860 Před 3 lety +4

      Me infj and my cousin sister is intj but we get along pretty well.

    • @gsahara8405
      @gsahara8405 Před 3 lety +2

      Same! Me and my sister we're both 20 year old INFJ and INTJ
      Ni is the best part

  • @nvm9208
    @nvm9208 Před rokem +10

    To all the ENTJs out there who think that I would enjoy the way you would kiss, marry AND pie me just because you can. Yes, yes I would. My current fictional crush is ENTJ and I would have expected that you guys would just ignore us INFPs because of our irrational thinking and our lazy ways but the fact that its not like that gives me confidence to think higher of myself.
    And I doubt that anybody would actually read all this.

  • @modernvikinghomestead367
    @modernvikinghomestead367 Před 9 měsíci +9

    As an INTJ, I kissed and married an ENTJ, and I am often baking him pies (dead serious).
    I am still not sure how we ended up married and I am positive he is carrying this partnership, we legit got engaged contract style, no romantic on the knee thing. Thankfully!
    I am considering deleting this post as I am writing this 😂 just throwing it out there😅

  • @atm2551
    @atm2551 Před 3 lety +832

    the amount of people who would kiss but not marry ENFP is saddening. guys I swear behind the fun mask we're actually very loyal and loving. give us a chance lol

    • @idontwannabe5323
      @idontwannabe5323 Před 3 lety +71

      Don't worry, my best friend (an INTJ) dating an ENFP like two years now, but we already decided after a few months that they will marry each other. They didn't disagree :)

    • @mariamatte1112
      @mariamatte1112 Před 3 lety +56

      I agree. I'm an INFJ and my brother is an ENFP, we have a great relationship, he is very loving indeed.
      (I just get a bit tired of his energy sometimes 😂)

    • @daniellac.7588
      @daniellac.7588 Před 3 lety +78

      It's okay, us ENFP can stick together and create chaos while throwing pies at everyone

    • @blameese
      @blameese Před 3 lety +24

      Some of the ENFPs in my family kind of ruined the whole fun to be around chaotic person vibe for me so I just couldn’t handle marrying one. Luckily I can create semi-fun chaos on my own.🤷‍♀️😅 -INTJ

    • @tenthousanddaysofgratitude
      @tenthousanddaysofgratitude Před 3 lety +51

      @@blameese try a mature ENFP. The “chaos” myth is just that. Like everyone, we mature with age. I’m over 40 and can’t stand chaos either, despite being an ENFP. 🤷‍♀️

  • @LoverUndercover
    @LoverUndercover Před 3 lety +292

    as an INFP with another INFP as my friend... I would pie my friend and myself at the same time, we're not some clowns, we're the whole circus.

    • @isolated.wallflower
      @isolated.wallflower Před 3 lety +25

      Then you will both say sorry to each other and feel guilty for the next unlimited hours😂😂
      ~INFP

    • @antoinettenovella1630
      @antoinettenovella1630 Před 3 lety +7

      Chuckled at that, I feel the same way.

    • @23V33
      @23V33 Před 2 lety +2

      Same 😂
      My bff is INFJ and he is just so....not weird. It's weird. We're basically polar opposites it's honestly amazing we're still friends 😂
      (I'm an INFP)

  • @elenacottica386
    @elenacottica386 Před rokem +19

    That's really cool. As an INTP you were completely on point with the Pie choice.
    The kiss as well, it's extended to all the NT types tbh, but INTJ is definitely on top.
    However, I think I'd marry an ISTP. They are very similar to me, so I know they wouldn't pull stuff that I'd hate, but they are different enough to keep things interesting and bring new ideas to the table.

    • @agaryo691
      @agaryo691 Před 8 měsíci +4

      I love that nobody would pie us. But yeah, I think i would also marry ISTP, or INFP

    • @SigFigNewton
      @SigFigNewton Před 3 měsíci +1

      My long term relationship with someone who is likely ISTP is going very well.
      -INTP

    • @elenacottica386
      @elenacottica386 Před 3 měsíci

      @@SigFigNewton that's great to hear.💪

  • @Lilith_Lily8
    @Lilith_Lily8 Před rokem +7

    ENFP here. Actually am married to an ISTJ despite many many rejection.
    My ISTJ literally tried to run for his life before decided to give in. I love love love him with all I have and would have never given up on pursuing him.

  • @TheCubicLog
    @TheCubicLog Před 3 lety +301

    INTP: Well if nobody is going to pie me, I will pie everyone else.

    • @bwingbwinggwiyomi
      @bwingbwinggwiyomi Před 2 lety +7

      I'll pie you, it's okay :D I'm an INFJ-T, and we don't like to leave anyone out unless you toxic 🤣

    • @lourenssianturi4373
      @lourenssianturi4373 Před 2 lety +8

      Hehehehe
      Why we always left out.
      INTP

    • @patrickardagh-walter6609
      @patrickardagh-walter6609 Před 2 lety

      Joke's on you, apparently everyone hates entps :)

    • @ySkout
      @ySkout Před 2 lety

      @@lourenssianturi4373 well I think we have a spell on ourselves making us invisible 🤔

    • @lourenssianturi4373
      @lourenssianturi4373 Před 2 lety

      @@ySkout yes, because we are thoughtfull. We can not be controlled. Evil people afraid to pie us.
      Kind people afraid to look dumb around us. So everyone is intimidated maybe.
      #we better let that kid alone they say.

  • @fatima_3711
    @fatima_3711 Před 3 lety +836

    As an INFP i wanna:
    Kiss: ENFJ
    Marry: INFJ or ENFP
    Pie: Anyone who forces me to work

    • @madisonknowles2692
      @madisonknowles2692 Před 2 lety +18

      I agree with the kiss and marry but if like to pie myself lol

    • @Jazoniq
      @Jazoniq Před 2 lety +3

      I agree with pie ;D

    • @cal5401
      @cal5401 Před 2 lety +3

      Yeah love you too

    • @23V33
      @23V33 Před 2 lety

      S a m e

    • @shahinursultana6703
      @shahinursultana6703 Před 2 lety +3

      High five! Do not force me, I will haunt you for life! I am an INFP man, I can hate as hard as I can love! Do Not Mess With Me! You will be Pied! 🥧🥧🥧

  • @veronikachristen2373
    @veronikachristen2373 Před rokem +31

    I'm an INFP and I'm very happily married to an INFJ. :D
    My closest relationships in the past have been with INTPs and ESFJs, funny enough. I get along great with Intuitives in general and I could never be in a romantic relationship with a sensor, because I would feel terribly misunderstood. I LOOOOVE talking abstract concepts ALL the times. I wanna exchange ideas!
    I totally would want to pie an IxFP! XDD

    • @RetroDreamer
      @RetroDreamer Před rokem

      As an INTP, I have also had some of my closest relationships with INFPs, but I don't have a problem with sensing as long as the person isn't sensing and super uptight and organized.

  • @shhhhhift
    @shhhhhift Před rokem +12

    As an intp,
    • For some reason I prefer istp for kiss, unfortunately I find them charming, despite the fact that it is quite cold and hard with them
    • I would like to *never* marry esfj
    • But yeah, I could give a pie esfp in the face, and not once...

  • @swegbokie
    @swegbokie Před 3 lety +239

    I would kiss a mirror, and then marry the pie. - ESTP

  • @9SMTM6
    @9SMTM6 Před 3 lety +400

    No INTPs were pied during the making of this video.
    I call that a success.

    • @antoinettenovella1630
      @antoinettenovella1630 Před 3 lety +23

      I would pie you if you felt left out, otherwise I would congratulate you for being unscathed ;)

    • @lorigoshert6667
      @lorigoshert6667 Před 3 lety +49

      We're probably all afraid to mess with the INTPs! (See the "catapult" comment somewhere above.)

    • @Lex-qt1cc
      @Lex-qt1cc Před 3 lety +80

      Everyone has probably forgotten about us as per usual.
      And I too call that a success.

    • @cameronhenderson6124
      @cameronhenderson6124 Před 3 lety +37

      None were kissed irl either. Ayyy

    • @Lex-qt1cc
      @Lex-qt1cc Před 3 lety +26

      @@cameronhenderson6124 just stay a virgin until you are 30. The good part is that you will become a powerful wizard and will be able to summon a sexy succubus for yourself. The bad part is that the summoned succubus will still go out with someone else

  • @InfiniteAnvil
    @InfiniteAnvil Před 2 lety +60

    Me, an INTP, as soon as the video comes up: "Oh yeah, definitely pie-ing the ESFP."
    I had an ESFP as my first college roommate and she was the worrrrrrrrrrrrrst. And I know for a fact she was an ESFP, because she got busted for shoplifting and had to do a MBTI worksheet as part of her post-shoplifting counseling. There was an obvious tag detector in front of the store she shoplifted from and everything. Dumb as a box of rocks.
    I think an INTP would kiss-but-not-marry an ENTP or an ENFP. Somebody who can reach out to them and connect on a deeper-than-surface level, and with a similar lack of follow-through so it didn't really progress anywhere.
    In terms of marry, definitely *not* an ESFJ as you suggested. ESxx is cancer to an INTP. ESxx want to go out and do things, and you can't even connect with them on an intuiting level. Hard pass.
    I think an INTP would be best off with an IxxJ, or mayyyybe an ENFJ. INTPs desperately need a J in their life to help organize thoughts into action and keep track of, like, the world? I actually think an INTJ, which you had as the kiss, might be the best marry type. There's the INT mutual respect, with similar but inverted cognitive functions, which makes them an invaluable sounding-board and partner. Also, the J is there to help make life manageable.

    • @lunarblessingX
      @lunarblessingX Před 2 lety +7

      Yeah, I agree with you, all the ESxx types are terrible for an INTP, especially ESTJ and ESFJ. Well, actually all the Sentinels ( _S_J ) are horrible for me, especially when it comes to marrying.
      I would probably kiss an ENTP, ENFP, or INTP and marry INTJ or INFJ. And yeah, I think INTJ specifically is the best match. However, I think I would have trust issues with INTJ and INFJ.

    • @legonightwarrior6608
      @legonightwarrior6608 Před 2 lety +3

      My father is an INTP and my mother an ESFJ. Works out pretty well.

    • @InfiniteAnvil
      @InfiniteAnvil Před 2 lety

      @@legonightwarrior6608 Can I ask, does your dad have traditional views on gender?

    • @legonightwarrior6608
      @legonightwarrior6608 Před 2 lety

      @@InfiniteAnvil No, he's very progressive. Why?

    • @InfiniteAnvil
      @InfiniteAnvil Před 2 lety +1

      @@legonightwarrior6608 The only way I could imagine an INTP tolerating an ESFJ is if he thought women were just like that, lol.
      I'm happy your parents are doing so well!

  • @nwaf123lol2
    @nwaf123lol2 Před rokem +10

    As an Isfp I would kiss or even marry an infp. They are super cute and kind their imagination attract me and make me see another view of life. I love them so much.

  • @daniellepalli8782
    @daniellepalli8782 Před 3 lety +292

    My husband is an INTJ who is currently laughing hysterically at "pieing" an INFJ (AKA me). Meanwhile, I am "pieing" him for laughing. :-)

    • @tuala5495
      @tuala5495 Před 3 lety +4

      👌🏻😂😂

    • @baccable
      @baccable Před 3 lety +15

      I (INTJ) need to share this one with my twin brother (INFJ) for similar thoughts...

    • @victoriaklenke5848
      @victoriaklenke5848 Před 3 lety +4

      Ayyy and I'm an infj who likes a probable intj 😂

    • @lightinthedark9201
      @lightinthedark9201 Před 3 lety +2

      I read it as 'peeing'

  • @lia8196
    @lia8196 Před 2 lety +680

    INFJ x INTJ are either loving each other or hating each other. Not in between

    • @iamafkstar
      @iamafkstar Před 2 lety +23

      MY BF AN INTJ AND IM INFJ

    • @ilmianafirmantika8079
      @ilmianafirmantika8079 Před 2 lety +80

      Either deep connection or unresolved sexual/romantic tension

    • @lia8196
      @lia8196 Před 2 lety +7

      @@ilmianafirmantika8079 you are not wrong

    • @Yume_Val
      @Yume_Val Před 2 lety +11

      @@iamafkstar Same here. I’m just the male INTJ. Funny how he says that this theoretically isn’t possible, but Lia is right. It can go either way and usually stay that way.

    • @micahroberts8383
      @micahroberts8383 Před 2 lety +3

      Makes sense!

  • @theconversationalelitist6423

    ENTP's watching this wondering why they haven't got 100% of the personality types hating them

    • @codingmonster6469
      @codingmonster6469 Před rokem +1

      Very true

    • @ahlaammohamed3206
      @ahlaammohamed3206 Před rokem +1

      I don't think most types would hate an entp but would get annoyed in arguments that they are right but the entp does not want to accept that but in some occasions they may or not accept defeat.

  • @mariatzolisdunbar5400
    @mariatzolisdunbar5400 Před rokem +4

    You are spot on accurate Frank! I am an INFJ who happens to be married to an ISFJ personality type. You are so spot on your many analysis on this video, and as well as many of your other videos. Keep up the great work, 👍 you're amazing at it! 🥳💯

  • @totesmcgotes16
    @totesmcgotes16 Před 3 lety +167

    I'm an INFP married to an ENFJ. He loves my careless regard for reality. In my defense, reality sucks.

  • @sixoftwelve6363
    @sixoftwelve6363 Před rokem +11

    I love that the INFP put the pie in their own face 😂

  • @selindoganl3621
    @selindoganl3621 Před rokem +7

    I, INTJ, would kiss ENTP because they are fun and they wouldn’t think too much about it. I would marry ENFP because they’re just awesome, they fascinate me. I would pie ISFJ because they are always so calm and nice which makes me want to tease them. I love making my ISFJ friend angry.

  • @lunarvixen7159
    @lunarvixen7159 Před 3 lety +268

    As an INTJ, I would
    Kiss: ENFP
    Marry: ENFP
    Pie: ENFP
    The only two people in my life that I can tolerate are ENFPs. They are simultaneously my favorite people and the people who know how to annoy me best.

    • @victoriarios9953
      @victoriarios9953 Před 2 lety +13

      I whole heartedly agree (my sister is an ENFP)

    • @NoName-rk3ii
      @NoName-rk3ii Před 2 lety +45

      As an enfp I take this is a compliment

    • @srrocknroll4755
      @srrocknroll4755 Před 2 lety +16

      I have and INTJ friend and he only seems to have fun with me (ENFP) and his grandmother (ENFP).

    • @Wild4lon
      @Wild4lon Před 2 lety +14

      INTJ dating an ENFP. This so true. He somehow simultaneously winds me up in ways that I can't even fault, yet still find incredibly frustrating, but is extremely fun to be around and caring.

    • @noms3434
      @noms3434 Před 2 lety +24

      i would gladly have all three done to me
      - enfp

  • @kbee8517
    @kbee8517 Před 2 lety +600

    ENFPs taking rejection as a challenge and deciding "nope, I'm still gonna love you" is accurate

    • @rubypainter
      @rubypainter Před rokem +5

      Yas, so true!

    • @geanbean1305
      @geanbean1305 Před rokem +26

      It's true. Although, it always hurts. 😭 But we always go back cuz we can't help caring so much 🥺💕

    • @cliziamichielan1704
      @cliziamichielan1704 Před rokem +3

      TRUE LMAO😭

    • @binitapandey5400
      @binitapandey5400 Před rokem +1

      lol so true and so funny.

    • @annegant1517
      @annegant1517 Před rokem +2

      100% spot on! Or we might try because we unconsciously love the challenge

  • @patrickyoung3663
    @patrickyoung3663 Před rokem +9

    Okay, ENFJ here with my kiss, marry, pie list. First off, I'd kiss the ESTP, because I find them fun and interesting but not too crazy and not too robotic. Second, I'd marry the INFP for the same reasons you gave in the video. As for the pie, you bent the rules a couple of times, so I'm doing the same. TWO PIES!! One for the INFJ because I'm tired of them avoiding my deep questions, and another for the ENTP because they don't know when to not argue!! Thanks for the great video and game. I loved it!

  • @HM-pn8iu
    @HM-pn8iu Před 11 měsíci +4

    As an INFJ, my biggest crush was an ENFP (I think I bored him), I married an ISTP, and my work arch nemesis is an INTJ. Very impressive Mr. James. Thanks for the video.

  • @unbalancedmuffin
    @unbalancedmuffin Před 3 lety +477

    I am an INTJ, married to an INFJ, and I now have to explain to my wife why I would not pie them. Thank you FJ.

    • @ashpolar2158
      @ashpolar2158 Před 3 lety +68

      AS an infj with an intj bestfriend I questioned my whole friendship

    • @musigalglo
      @musigalglo Před 3 lety +40

      I'm an INTJ, and my best friend is an INFJ

    • @ashpolar2158
      @ashpolar2158 Před 3 lety +8

      @@musigalglo ouuu twins or kinda

    • @marymclove7153
      @marymclove7153 Před 3 lety

      @@ashpolar2158 same 🤣

    • @333invitado
      @333invitado Před 3 lety +16

      😂😂😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣🤣 She should explain why she wouldn't pie you either!!! (or would she 🤨🤔🤣🤣😂)

  • @issbelo
    @issbelo Před 2 lety +468

    As a INTP I would probably
    Kiss - INTJ or ENTP
    Marry - ENFJ
    And eat the pie 👍

    • @darriyantejohnson230
      @darriyantejohnson230 Před 2 lety +3

      Yup in a relationship for almost 2 years with an ENFJ

    • @subratkumarbehera8461
      @subratkumarbehera8461 Před 2 lety +2

      yes... reasonable.

    • @issbelo
      @issbelo Před 2 lety +6

      @Backrall Channel that would be just one more reason to eat the pie.

    • @valeriebois2774
      @valeriebois2774 Před 2 lety

      aww i really like intp’s and I would actually like to have a relation that lasts with one of them

    • @EvilMeganium
      @EvilMeganium Před 2 lety +2

      Yeah who would waste a perfectly normal pie on someone that doesnt deserve it?

  • @margarett90
    @margarett90 Před rokem +2

    I love what u did with entj - infp ❤

  • @keatoncrandall2471
    @keatoncrandall2471 Před rokem +23

    As a split INTP/INFP, I say kiss an ESFP, marry ENFP, and pie the ESTJ.

    • @abekieolaner1922
      @abekieolaner1922 Před rokem

      Question. What do you mean split? Did you check your wings as well to see if something is from there?

    • @TheRealBellatrixLestrange
      @TheRealBellatrixLestrange Před rokem +1

      I'm enfp and I'm with an infp as in relationship

    • @latte209
      @latte209 Před rokem

      as a fellow intp I think pieing an estj is a little too lenient xD

  • @madisonknowles2692
    @madisonknowles2692 Před 2 lety +219

    “I think the INFP would want to pie themselves” yes... yes I would lol

  • @febreeze9348
    @febreeze9348 Před 3 lety +278

    INFJ and INTJ being suspicious of each other is basically the plot of Cheese in the Trap except they end up dating

    • @gabrieldossantossanta5656
      @gabrieldossantossanta5656 Před 2 lety +6

      Wh- who tell you that?

    • @rae3781
      @rae3781 Před 2 lety +1

      Oh my god I just watched this lol

    • @emilysundquist270
      @emilysundquist270 Před 2 lety +12

      But I think trying to figure each other out that would result in being attracted to each other in the end (I'm an INTJ)

    • @breezymango4113
      @breezymango4113 Před 2 lety +3

      I hate that sociopathic male lead so much!! He is Possessive, controlling, manipulative, and VIOLENT. 😡🤢

    • @LittleMew133
      @LittleMew133 Před 2 lety

      I just started the manhwa, it feels kinda dark.

  • @yoyocueball
    @yoyocueball Před rokem +5

    My parents are ESFJ (mom) & ENFJ (dad) and have been married 51 years. They both have had a ton of fun together. They bumped heads a lot but it’s because they’re both very strong leaders. I’m a INFJ and married a ISFP. We really had to put a lot of effort in making it work but so glad I did. We married young and that is partly why. After 29 years we couldn’t be happier. Our son is also an INFJ and he married an INTJ. I feel she is as close to perfect as they come. We get along so great. There is no BSing around with this girl. She stands her ground and love it! I believe with any personality type that you marry, there’s gonna be work that has to be done. I believe any type can make it if they want it enough. But I do totally agree, that certain types being matched together, there will be less problems.

  • @kristinapetrilakova1874
    @kristinapetrilakova1874 Před rokem +13

    As an ISFJ, I completely agree. I just talked to a friend today about an ENTP man who I find attractive. I'm still attracted to "bad boys", too confident and a little arrogant. But I also admire them. I would definitely kiss such a man, but I know it would be very hurtful for me to be married to someone like that. I was thinking today that I need someone more compatible.

  • @OrdinaryCritic
    @OrdinaryCritic Před 3 lety +185

    As an INTP with an ESFP mum, my patience is the next step in human evolution.

    • @MrPausenbrot
      @MrPausenbrot Před 3 lety +21

      As an infp with an estp dad. Same.

    • @testtube1077
      @testtube1077 Před 3 lety +18

      This is me. My dad is an INTP same as me, my brother is an ISTP. Everything always changes when Mom is at home. Mom is an ESFJ. I did not know why my parents were married, but I guess this answers that question.

    • @antoinettenovella1630
      @antoinettenovella1630 Před 3 lety +2

      You need to publish those efforts OC.

    • @Kim-rw6tz
      @Kim-rw6tz Před 3 lety +2

      my mom is esfp too. she is more like my child :| .... our relationship is not normal at all XD ...
      i'm enfp
      my dad is istp. so fed up with her but still loves her. she makes my poor dad go crazy and want to kill himself. she is toooo emotional and he is not :| ....

    • @CindyWarren2004
      @CindyWarren2004 Před 2 lety

      Enfp with narc esfp mom

  • @roseevans1796
    @roseevans1796 Před 2 lety +184

    I would kiss ENFP, marry ENFP, and pie ENFP
    - INFJ in a relationship with an ENFP

    • @flutenanyidk1806
      @flutenanyidk1806 Před 2 lety +18

      As an ENFJ with at least two ENFP friends and one ENFP ex, I can confirm that I too would pie an ENFP. It would all be in good fun and they'd be throwing pies at me too.

    • @moonlight_pixie8395
      @moonlight_pixie8395 Před 2 lety +4

      xD same but with my ISTP

    • @celineducamp6589
      @celineducamp6589 Před 2 lety +1

      😂

    • @sweetbeat3349
      @sweetbeat3349 Před 2 lety +2

      @@moonlight_pixie8395 haha, same here

    • @rania2081
      @rania2081 Před 2 lety +1

      That's sweet

  • @ashleyduke5871
    @ashleyduke5871 Před 2 lety +2

    Hahahha I love it. I'm an INTJ and this is almost exactly what I thought before seeing my personality part. Lol bro you got it.

  • @chqrriesjubiles
    @chqrriesjubiles Před rokem +13

    the thing you said about introverted feelers being annoyed with extroverted feelers is so true. i (infj) get frustrated by them because i know my feelings already, very intimately, and i have way too many of them all the time djdkdjkd
    also, estj pie-ing an infj. that's my mom's type and there are often moments i feel like she wants to shove a pie in my face more than the average person 😂
    so yeah, please save me if i ever marry an estj 💀 at least from the ones i know, we can get along in very superficial situations but i really can not hold any form of deep conversation with one and that's crucial for me long-term. entp or enfp though... 💍

    • @how2download916
      @how2download916 Před rokem

      😂Nice well im also an IFNJ
      but an extroverted person idk her type said to me "im boring" becuz i did't laugh on the joke she told and then i was like 😟😡😡🤬🤬in my mind
      but showing her i was normal .

  • @kodiosmond6185
    @kodiosmond6185 Před 3 lety +147

    "The accuracy." - Me, an INFP who's aware of and sick of my own crap... and also wants pie.

  • @bettycrash3092
    @bettycrash3092 Před 3 lety +138

    INFP note to self: stay away from ENTJ's....and yourself. Gotta keep that blouse clean!

  • @kalinkakalaschnikowa
    @kalinkakalaschnikowa Před 10 měsíci +4

    Haha, I'm an INTJ, my boyfriend is an INFj, and we had a hard and long way to bring our love and misunderstandings into a relationship... we still tease each other and have discussions, but our love-hate relationship is really funny (most of the time 😂)

  • @TheTrueGlaukos
    @TheTrueGlaukos Před 2 lety +117

    as an INTJ I was expecting more pies coming my way

    • @dankbiscuit9466
      @dankbiscuit9466 Před rokem +3

      Oh my,u don't know how many times my heart skipped a bit everytime I heard I N

    • @idrk1507
      @idrk1507 Před rokem

      Don’t worry I’ll pie you

    • @zoviqi2388
      @zoviqi2388 Před 6 měsíci +1

      I'm an INTP and had both kiss and receive kiss from INTJ. But yea i still do kinda want to pie that INTJ tho 😂

    • @zoviqi2388
      @zoviqi2388 Před 6 měsíci

      At first it was fun af but now the mind games are freaking me out. Giving me trust issue 😅 y'all are different something else

    • @alexr6114
      @alexr6114 Před měsícem

      They were probably too intimidated to pie us, because to listen to most MBTI "experts" everyone hates the INTJs.

  • @riveroverland5902
    @riveroverland5902 Před 3 lety +306

    As an ENFJ, I will kiss INFP, marry INFP and pie myself. Let’s just have a good time

    • @myst4400
      @myst4400 Před 3 lety +43

      🥺❤ -INFP

    • @euniqu
      @euniqu Před 3 lety +41

      Lets eat the pie together instead of pieing anyone :D -infp

    • @myst4400
      @myst4400 Před 3 lety +7

      @@euniqu Agreed, let's just focus on enjoying with our ENFJs and eat the pie with them ^^

    • @annac.6863
      @annac.6863 Před 3 lety +8

      Aww ❤️ ~infp

    • @booklover2598
      @booklover2598 Před 3 lety +3

      I’m also an enfj. I agree with everything you said, except I would eat the pie

  • @shivangitripathi161
    @shivangitripathi161 Před rokem +10

    As an INFP who's very sensitive and gets overwhelmed easily, ENTJs are a bit scary to me XD
    I'd rather kiss and marry INTJ

    • @kinglukethe7th524
      @kinglukethe7th524 Před rokem +1

      Yep and as an INTJ I'd rather kiss and marry an INFP. All my past relationships have been with women who were INFP and they were all very exciting and wonderful. Worked with an ENTJ one time and it was horrible.

  • @luciafantin
    @luciafantin Před rokem +8

    as an INFP, I've fell in love and/or kissed INTPs and INTJs, buuut... I'm marrying an ISTJ

  • @filipapinto99
    @filipapinto99 Před 3 lety +267

    As an INFP, I was really happy that no one would want to throw a pie at my face. But then...

    • @filipapinto99
      @filipapinto99 Před 3 lety +54

      @@npcimknot958 Well, if you throw that pie at yourself, you can easily choose the kind of pie. That’s the beauty of it

    • @rem5707
      @rem5707 Před 3 lety +20

      Entj.. 🤣

    • @filipapinto99
      @filipapinto99 Před 3 lety +10

      @@rem5707 Better a pie than a rock, tho

    • @angel_cat
      @angel_cat Před 3 lety +9

      @@filipapinto99 pie-ing yourself with the pie of your choice... that’s one way to look at it.

    • @angel_cat
      @angel_cat Před 3 lety +16

      As an INFP, I can see why I’d want to marry the guy who’d throw a pie in my face.

  • @nami.........
    @nami......... Před 3 lety +121

    Kiss : ENTP
    Marry : ENFP
    Pie : INTJ (*politely and say sorry later*)
    Me, an INFJ-T 😁

  • @oyasumaya
    @oyasumaya Před rokem +8

    INFP here, I would:
    - kiss: ESTP/ENTP (for the exact reason you said we would LOL 😝)
    - marry: INTJ (love how thoughtful and creative they can be! I’m fascinated by their stack, love the shared Te and Fi and want to know more about how their Ni and Se are expressed. Very close second is INFJ but lowkey they intimidate me 😅😅😅)
    - pie: ENTJ/ENTP (y’all scare me LOL 🫣)

  • @whitewaterdragon
    @whitewaterdragon Před rokem +3

    As an Infp I think you're spot on there, I have pie'd another infp and also myself. The only other option would be to pie the entj but only if we're really comfortable with each other, which would just be for the reaction they provide afterwards which would be so funny, but then I would also almost instantly feel bad for doing it.

  • @chococone2552
    @chococone2552 Před 3 lety +169

    As an *ENFP* I would eenie-meenie-mynie-mo it, stare at the last person, but completely throw it at another person just to throw them off lol

  • @tiffanymason3521
    @tiffanymason3521 Před 3 lety +133

    Finally! The highly debated question has been answered: Timmy, the despised coworker of the ESTJ, is an INFJ.

    • @thegreatsalad
      @thegreatsalad Před 3 lety +3

      😯

    • @katbeer3445
      @katbeer3445 Před 3 lety +3

      This is very confusing since I'm an INFJ and my mom is an ESTJ

    • @333invitado
      @333invitado Před 3 lety +1

      Whaaaaattt :(((

    • @promiseshen8264
      @promiseshen8264 Před 3 lety +9

      Maybe not...? I remember Timmy as pretty extroverted and crazy and disorganized during occasions, doesn't sound like an INFJ at all. And remember, ESTJ people have A LOT of people they want to pie daily, an INFJ is just on top of the list, not necessarily the most frequently pied person...

    • @thegreatsalad
      @thegreatsalad Před 3 lety +16

      Lol if FJ did a Who's Timmy series I'd honestly watch 🍿

  • @Zeverinsen
    @Zeverinsen Před rokem +67

    I've come to the conclusion that being opposite on the extroversion/introversion scale really balances you out as a couple.
    Being an ENTP, I find it really funny that you say the ENTP would probably pie an ISFP, because I'm currently dating one and I think that sounds correct 😂

    • @vannessa5878
      @vannessa5878 Před rokem

      yes pie him or her 😈

    • @Zeverinsen
      @Zeverinsen Před rokem +1

      @@vannessa5878 In a way, they just pied me, IYKWIM 😏

    • @blddei69
      @blddei69 Před rokem +2

      @@Zeverinsen ayo 🤨‼️

    • @Light_356
      @Light_356 Před rokem

      Hmmm im ENTP and I tjink im attracted to other extroverts like maybe ENFP??

  • @Flakyflakyflake-nz8yj
    @Flakyflakyflake-nz8yj Před 2 měsíci +1

    INFJ here. I get along so well with many INTJs as long as we're being analytical and talking about ideas. My partner is an INTP and it's the best mind-food ever and we have the best conversations.

  • @lynnerasmus9416
    @lynnerasmus9416 Před 2 lety +409

    This ENFP's got it all figured out
    Kiss: INFP because they're so UwU
    Marry: ENTJ so they can sort out my life while I actually live it
    Pie: ESTJ. Because Timmy needs a break.

    • @amoldivo
      @amoldivo Před 2 lety +17

      Omg, I just put an "UwU - INFP" as a comment on an ENFJ's thread XD

    • @lunabeekhuizen8858
      @lunabeekhuizen8858 Před 2 lety +25

      You called me UwU and it feels like a compliment so I'm just gonna say thanks

    • @isfpish
      @isfpish Před 2 lety +12

      Aw I had to look that up and so I guess I have a cute face 😊

    • @aarontheanarchist9299
      @aarontheanarchist9299 Před 2 lety

      I'd kiss an ESFP. They match my energy so much but they're slightly more popular.

    • @tyebemis9437
      @tyebemis9437 Před 2 lety +4

      As an ENFP I’d say the same except I’d pie the ISTP as to challenge their pride

  • @ambera7159
    @ambera7159 Před 3 lety +149

    Frank out here breaking all the rules with the INFP lol

    • @melodyconte
      @melodyconte Před 3 lety +13

      Aw, he wanted us to feel seen 🥰

    • @CaveyMoth
      @CaveyMoth Před 3 lety +14

      INFPs love breaking the rules, anyway. Stupid overly strict systems.

    • @MoonLight-lc8qg
      @MoonLight-lc8qg Před 3 lety +6

      @@CaveyMoth is it bad, or is it very common for INFPs to feel all rebellious but afraid to even speak a word against authority at the same time? Because that has been the case with me, and it feels like I would be satisfying my desires to achieve out-of-bound-with-reality things like I have done in the past, but I still guilt myself every single time about how I would be seen as the bad guy, and how it would contradict my value of desiring harmony and happiness among all without offending anyone. I lose all confidence to pursue something that I know is going to work well for everyone in the end (yes as an INFP I have been fairly rational and practical my whole life, ironically) and rather would follow the leader without question. But when things go astray, I simply take the wheel and steer clear of the storm overnight by doing everyone’s work single-handedly,in silence of course, but somehow everything goes unnoticed and I become invisible again. Not that I’m complaining;) haha....
      p.s sorry for the length of my comment >\\\\

    • @CaveyMoth
      @CaveyMoth Před 3 lety +1

      @@MoonLight-lc8qg This is the true INFP mindset. We are in a constant battle between following what we know is right versus maintaining the harmony of the world. I often find it easier to lie to people than to reject them or their ideas outright. It's like I'm taking on the burden of rejection or failure in their place. If my way is better, they will be none the wiser. If I fail, I'm just a liar and an idiot. Maybe I am an idiot for following my own ideas with no one else onboard. I just want to take the fall on my own if it comes down to it, so the system doesn't have to be burdened. But in a way, I am the threat that the system has been afraid of. I just hope that my good intentions will lead to good results.

    • @MoonLight-lc8qg
      @MoonLight-lc8qg Před 3 lety +2

      @@CaveyMoth wow.. thank you for replying It feels good to know I am not alone in my way of thinking ^-^.

  • @amberglass4476
    @amberglass4476 Před rokem +12

    As an ENTJ I would:
    Kiss- ISTP
    Marry-ESFP
    Pie- INFP or INFJ (I love ya'll but *sometimes* ya'll are a little too sensitive and take things too personally, no hard feelings though

    • @disappointedbutnotsurprised17
      @disappointedbutnotsurprised17 Před rokem

      You pied me, now i have to take it personally. 🥺😩
      Since that is the reason you pied me in the first place.
      If I'm gonna be pied for something, I might as well do it.
      Amirite or am i right?
      ~INFJ

  • @sassmouthbroyles9952
    @sassmouthbroyles9952 Před rokem

    Loved it! Thanks!

  • @cyrussteele9362
    @cyrussteele9362 Před 3 lety +159

    INTJ
    Kiss - INFJ
    Mary - the same INFJ (happily married 13 years)
    Pie - everyone else

    • @harrycrosswell2844
      @harrycrosswell2844 Před 3 lety +8

      I'm an INTJ and we both independently chose the same format to display our choices.
      AND I also chose to pie everyone who I didn't choose 😂
      That said, you missed a colon.

    • @katieblake3023
      @katieblake3023 Před 3 lety

      Aw...fun times X)

    • @isabellarose6514
      @isabellarose6514 Před 3 lety +1

      kind of a cop out, but okay

    • @Fangie88
      @Fangie88 Před 3 lety +3

      Agree! I am an INFJ happily married to my INTJ! We've known each other for 19 years, been together for 12 years and happily married for 6! We understand each other so well! It's amazing how many INFJ + INTJ married couples there are in the comments! 💕

  • @Biamazing
    @Biamazing Před 3 lety +428

    15:05 “I think maybe long term, the INFJ might get a little worn out by the ENFP”
    Me an ENFP who’s dating an INFJ:
    👁👄👁
    💧 💧

    • @spyper3916
      @spyper3916 Před 3 lety +71

      The infj hates everyone and everything at some point.. He just needs some time to recoup. Then he'll be fine

    • @brinnet
      @brinnet Před 2 lety +13

      Eh, what does FJ know about INFJs anyway?

    • @fauzanree1983
      @fauzanree1983 Před 2 lety +18

      @@brinnet he's an INFJ lol

    • @mosbmonique
      @mosbmonique Před 2 lety +7

      Mood, dating an INFJ (someone who soaks up emotions) as a turbulent INFP is very nerve wracking. How do stop emotions?

    • @Biamazing
      @Biamazing Před 2 lety +10

      @@mosbmonique I dont stop emotions, i just avoid dumping it on him especially if he’s not in the right mindset to handle it. I would usually find a healthier way to express the emotions, maybe drawing, watching something sad so i can cry it out. But so far the guy I’m dating doesn’t seem to soak up emotions, he is always willing to listen to me and comfort me when im having those emotions. I just allow him to have some me-time afterwards so maybe he can process everything and it wont overwhelm him

  • @xeno4213
    @xeno4213 Před rokem +2

    Kiss - ENTJ, INTJ
    Marry - ENTJ, INTJ
    Pie - all xSFx types and ENFP personally
    /INTP

  • @midnatt_lys
    @midnatt_lys Před rokem +1

    I'm intj and I love infj, you're one of my favourite

  • @tinecolman3754
    @tinecolman3754 Před 3 lety +348

    FJ: Let's see if youtube wants to show a commercial!
    CZcams: *shows a commercial where FJ is talking about a dating app*
    Me: *confused*

    • @LimegreenSnowstorm
      @LimegreenSnowstorm Před 3 lety +8

      Me thinking I was just watching these videos too soon to get the ads and now realizing after way too long that I’ve had Premium this whole time and that’s why I wasn’t getting them 🤦‍♀️

    • @flusel4949
      @flusel4949 Před 3 lety +14

      I had the same commercial and was so confused! 😂

    • @robertlonn6128
      @robertlonn6128 Před 3 lety +1

      X`D

    • @briaharris183
      @briaharris183 Před 3 lety +5

      He's telling u to get a date!

    • @emp9413
      @emp9413 Před 3 lety

      😂