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  • čas přidán 19. 10. 2020
  • Are you feeling lost and alone right now? Have you ever felt like you were too different from the people around you to ever fit in? Or felt unseen or unheard or misunderstood too many times to count? If you’ve ever felt like nothing you said or did even mattered because no one seems to care about you, we hope this video helps remind you that you're not alone and we're here for you!
    If you want more reassuring content like this, check out this video we made about the things to remember when you don't feel good enough: • 7 Things To Remember W...
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Komentáře • 7K

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  Před 3 lety +5089

    We don't usually make these type of videos. What do you think about this new video format? Just remember, you are NOT alone and everyone are in it with you. 💕

    • @adrijabiswas4564
      @adrijabiswas4564 Před 3 lety +31

      First reply 💕

    • @sunakshigupta7526
      @sunakshigupta7526 Před 3 lety +80

      Thx for this video....
      I needed this video alot....
      Like alot.....

    • @voidsters
      @voidsters Před 3 lety +43

      Thank you ❤️
      I'm dealing With Some hate right now and This made Me Feel better :)

    • @GothBarbie3000
      @GothBarbie3000 Před 3 lety +23

      Love this new addition. And yes, exactly what I needed today. Thank you.

    • @sunakshigupta7526
      @sunakshigupta7526 Před 3 lety +14

      @-shxgarbaby no.....
      I am going through alot... like alot.....
      Just cant tell....

  • @blacksheep6115
    @blacksheep6115 Před 3 lety +9267

    Watching this while crying silently is a different kind of pain

  • @yournext1839
    @yournext1839 Před 3 lety +5761

    So basically everyone that saw this video is lost and alone
    Same here brother and sisters

    • @beanthealien2090
      @beanthealien2090 Před 3 lety +40

      I just came for the comments not to watch

    • @justsomehumannamejamwhatev3201
      @justsomehumannamejamwhatev3201 Před 3 lety +20

      I am not. But I love this channel, the community is nice and welcoming.👍

    • @neethaii4689
      @neethaii4689 Před 3 lety +34

      and nb kiddos too!

    • @starlegends3092
      @starlegends3092 Před 3 lety +31

      I have been feeling very lost, and even confused about what i was feeling. I think this vid had good advice. What stuck out to me was to let go. That was intersesting

    • @starlegends3092
      @starlegends3092 Před 3 lety +5

      Yall are awsome. Enyone, enytime

  • @THATcommentor
    @THATcommentor Před 2 lety +1283

    To anyone scrolling through this comments section while watching the video and silently crying at the same time: I know the feeling of wanting to drop a comment but not thinking you can describe it well enough for the loneliness to make sense. We owe it to ourselves to love our selves better than anyone else could.

    • @Bella-ze3zp
      @Bella-ze3zp Před rokem +32

      Bless you for this comment.
      It is indeed hard to describe how loneliness feels, sometimes it could be when you see everyone out there enjoying life meanwhile you sit alone in your room staring at the wall and feel empty.

    • @patriciaking7892
      @patriciaking7892 Před rokem +3

      @@Bella-ze3zp I know the feeling 👍. It's an ongoing struggle for me 😢.

    • @junizzn
      @junizzn Před rokem +1

      🖤

    • @lexieboo8318
      @lexieboo8318 Před rokem +10

      I cant cry. Ive just lost spirit. im just a body, laying in bed with no soul, and what looks like no emotions, yet theres to many emotions going through my head rn.
      Can someone, anyone do me a favor and check back in on me? Cause i dont wanna live, but i dont wanna die.

    • @junizzn
      @junizzn Před rokem +7

      @@lexieboo8318 please stay alive, I *truly* know how hard it its, but you can do this, one day at a time; we already lived thorough so many, it does get better, or at least more comfortable, and you'll be proud you stayed, for yourself.
      after 25 our frontal lobe starts to actually develop and you'll do even more just for yourself and your well being
      If you are having bad thoughts go to sleep, anxiety? go take a shower. depressed? move your body. alone? eat something yummy.
      take care of yourself, for yourself, you already went through so much, you deserve better in this existence

  • @asecret2340
    @asecret2340 Před 2 lety +280

    All I want is a hug and someone saying "it's alright I got you"

    • @grant0012
      @grant0012 Před rokem +1

      🫂

    • @prasiddhidixit9648
      @prasiddhidixit9648 Před rokem +13

      Same i need it to.. It gets so hard.....

    • @grant0012
      @grant0012 Před rokem +1

      @@prasiddhidixit9648 🫂

    • @vihariii4754
      @vihariii4754 Před rokem +9

      Prasiddhi, it's hard for you right now, but soon it will pass, and everything will get better. (Hugs) I got you in the dark and starry night. Grab a book, listen music and sleep . I love you . Keep fighting and you will win in the end and say "I made it" 💜😁🌹 we all love you prasiddhi!!!

    • @prasiddhidixit9648
      @prasiddhidixit9648 Před rokem +8

      @@vihariii4754 thank you so so so much..... You are so kind and wonderful.... Your comment means a lot to me...... Thank you so much 🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭🥺🥺🥺

  • @kark1a497
    @kark1a497 Před 3 lety +2618

    I’m so tired. everyone around me always does things with people outside of school... I’m just sitting in my room all day alone with my dogs. I talk to myself.

    • @elix00
      @elix00 Před 3 lety +162

      Hey, you're not alone tho. You're stronger than you think and I'm sure you'll make it. Maybe you haven't found your place in the world or your purpose in life and that's so frustrating, but you will find it. You'll be happy and fine again, you'll start enjoying life. I believe in you. I pray every morning and every night for people who are struggling. I hope my prayers and my love reach you. You're not alone in this and I'm proud of you😉

    • @ge2168
      @ge2168 Před 3 lety +52

      I was like you along time ago now. Things don't stay the same. We walk through life changing and learning. I wish I could go back in time and tell my younger self that things will be fine but as I can't I'll tell you. Keep a good positive attitude and everything will come your way.

    • @tamer6901
      @tamer6901 Před 3 lety +28

      @@GQ-ih1iu You helped me with this. Thank you sou much bro ❤🙏

    • @aynurbayryyeva4354
      @aynurbayryyeva4354 Před 3 lety +34

      well, at least you have your dogs. with me, people either want to be friends when i dress well or do well in classes, or something similar. recently, i thought that maybe i should use this period of lonely existence for something productive, like studying hard and just ignore my loneliness and other people. but weirdly, the same day i got fortune cookies, with message "do not push away people". I thought like "what people?". A stranger guy texted me, again weirdly the same day. He said he wants to be friends and likes my content on social media. I decided to give a shot. We started well, but i started noticing his interest was beyond friendship. And when i did not show the same interest after a month of "friendship" he just stopped texting me. Sometimes, i sit in my room and just think, i literally have no one to talk to. I just want to have a friend, maybe not a best friend, but just a friend to talk to. Well, even if i find one, i think i forgot how to hold a conversation

    • @aylinasliyasan7590
      @aylinasliyasan7590 Před 3 lety +13

      I also talk to myself sometimes and im trying to remember if i did it as a child or if it just started as im growing up lol

  • @majesticdragonfly
    @majesticdragonfly Před 3 lety +2327

    I just hate feeling this way, I’m so tired genuinely.

  • @melayvenroleplays2692
    @melayvenroleplays2692 Před rokem +178

    People say “I’m always there for you” but the worst feeling is when you actually trust them and share what you’re going through and what your thoughts are ,they just end up judging you and call you a faker.

    • @JohnWick_is_coming_for_u
      @JohnWick_is_coming_for_u Před rokem +16

      More worse is that they leave u with short replies, whereas u typing paragraph to explain how u feel/they just keep it on seen

    • @angieregino3658
      @angieregino3658 Před rokem +14

      @@JohnWick_is_coming_for_u agree. Or they keep the conversation short so they won’t have to deal with you. When in fact, when they needed you, you were all ears and giving your utmost attention to them. Making them feel loved.
      While we all sit here, watching this video, wishing someone would be what we are to other people. I sometimes dream of duplicating myself. But of course, reality check. You end up with no one but yourself.

    • @JohnWick_is_coming_for_u
      @JohnWick_is_coming_for_u Před rokem +6

      @@angieregino3658 exactly the same shit I go through 🙃
      I have just given up on everyone as I feel pathetic for sharing my stuffs and getting negative response from them. I feel isolated, alone, depressed, useless nd many more.. but I am not a suicide guy, so just trying to survive anyhow

    • @rosered1720
      @rosered1720 Před rokem +2

      This. All of this. 😔

    • @blinkie3275
      @blinkie3275 Před 11 měsíci +5

      Yeah they always give fake comfort saying" it's okay open up to me." But in the end they brutally judge me. I told one of my friends how my best friend betrayed me and she was like "You must've betrayed her too" It just shattered my heart. This is why now I don't even share my thoughts with my own sibling 🙂

  • @johnnawilson1998
    @johnnawilson1998 Před rokem +192

    Its sad how people on the internet understands you and makes you feel better more than your friends and family do. 😢

  • @user-jv1qk4qf4f
    @user-jv1qk4qf4f Před 3 lety +2066

    Aw it’s kinda lonely when you’re the only one in the comment section

  • @milespq5561
    @milespq5561 Před 3 lety +3560

    “Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass, but rather learning to dance in the rain.”

  • @TheLambSauce659
    @TheLambSauce659 Před rokem +468

    Does anyone else feel like giving the voiceover of this channel a massive hug? She seems so motherly to everyone 🥺

  • @NaviNeku24
    @NaviNeku24 Před 2 lety +677

    I’m crying rn, this is exactly what I needed to hear. It’s 5am rn, and I feel so lonely, depressed, hopeless, and worthless that I can’t keep a decent sleep schedule. But this video made me realize that I’m not the only one going through this rn. Sometimes, I just need to let my feelings out, even if just to myself, and have a mental restart.
    One of the first things I think of doing when I think about a “mental restart” is taking a nice shower. Even if you spend most of the time sitting or standing there in your own thoughts or listening to music that leaves you wallowing in your feelings, just having the water wash away the mental baggage you’ve been carrying makes you feel better. I think I’m going to do just that tomorrow.
    Sorry for rambling here, writing had always been the best way to let my feelings out, and I just got carried away. ^_^; Besides, it might help someone else out. I’m pretty sure tomorrow is going to be a better day, but I’m still keeping my fingers crossed. Here’s to a fresh start. ❤️

    • @Angelik_
      @Angelik_ Před 2 lety +10

      I hope you feel really,really better soon and wish you the best!

    • @mariehaverty8209
      @mariehaverty8209 Před 2 lety +13

      I hope you are in a better place now, I used to feel like this until I became my own best friend. Things starting shifting, now I wont give my happyness away for anything/ anyone. ❤

    • @sandiletwala3001
      @sandiletwala3001 Před 2 lety +2

      This is helpful thanks

    • @mariehaverty8209
      @mariehaverty8209 Před 2 lety +7

      Just because today is a bad one, doesn’t mean life is going to be bad. Our thoughts/thinking most times aren’t true, if a thought comes to my mind I will always ask myself is this true. Most times it’s not, dos this make sense🤔🥴

    • @sandiletwala3001
      @sandiletwala3001 Před rokem +2

      @@MsAwt2019______ Same here and day in day out I don't get better, I just get worse and I have no one here with me

  • @sane810
    @sane810 Před 3 lety +1583

    Feeling alone in a crowd of friends/family/etc is not a fun feeling. :')

    • @romagreen8050
      @romagreen8050 Před 3 lety +53

      exactly ! happens to me all the time .

    • @fullhd8721
      @fullhd8721 Před 3 lety +2

      @@romagreen8050 czcams.com/video/22gQP5bzP_s/video.html

    • @Kenji-117
      @Kenji-117 Před 3 lety +40

      My best female friend was unloved by her father for 7 years and then he left her family... she became social anxious and she doesnt feel close to any of her family members... but when i met her and became aware of what happened and how she lives i cried a lot... in my whole life i never met such an lovely and innocent human being like her it truly broke me and after all i dont want to lose her. And showing love to a good hearted person was the best thing i ever did

    • @moonlightsonata7196
      @moonlightsonata7196 Před 3 lety +25

      @@whaleyou Ah yes especially when u cry silently besides a friend and they didint notice (:

    • @Nobodyishereeel
      @Nobodyishereeel Před 3 lety +12

      I don’t even have friends anymore :) it makes me so happy I want to drool and yes I’ve gotten insane and crazy this year and I can’t stop it 😃 can someone tell me what’s wrong with me I feel so weird and empty

  • @_.nihaa.05_
    @_.nihaa.05_ Před 2 lety +1362

    People around me say " I'm always there for you" and then disappear like a comet when I need them the most

    • @emiln3340
      @emiln3340 Před 2 lety +8

      Sad

    • @_NayomieMcLeod
      @_NayomieMcLeod Před rokem +4

      How are you feeling now?

    • @_.nihaa.05_
      @_.nihaa.05_ Před rokem +56

      @@_NayomieMcLeod starting to feel little bit better because I'm staying away from people who used me and stopped believing or expecting something from them.

    • @dc-hx5kh
      @dc-hx5kh Před rokem +6

      @@_.nihaa.05_ love that for you

    • @nicolelouise8640
      @nicolelouise8640 Před rokem +10

      Thats the worst...I'm literally feeling that way right now :/ I was close to this girl at work, she left, we went bowling once and now I don't even get a text back

  • @pml5218
    @pml5218 Před 2 lety +70

    I’m not alone, I’m lonely. From a young age, I never felt like I was worthy. I learned to become invisible and keep everything bottled inside. I cope by just numbing myself and putting myself on autopilot. I’ve always felt like I had to be there for others so they didn’t feel like how I felt, yet I can’t give myself the same love and sincerity.

    • @joshuapatton7437
      @joshuapatton7437 Před rokem +5

      Glad we understand each other. I'm 25. It helps when u move out. Gotta find who you are and be content in yourself.

  • @Itzanna_edits27
    @Itzanna_edits27 Před rokem +14

    the main reason i’m here is bc obviously i feel lonely. i feel like everyone around me is moving on with their lives and being happy, but when i’m around? i feel like i’m being ignored or just listened to but not taken into understanding or whatever. i know my friends and family love me, but i just don’t seem to see it recently…not in like a love-love way, just kind of like they’re bothered by me or whatever. i like being alone but i’m getting bored all the time. i need someone who can cheer me up and make me laugh and make me feel loved. but i don’t think that may happen any time soon, but it’s good to know i’m not alone

    • @justsomeone6099
      @justsomeone6099 Před rokem

      You're really not alone😊 do you have an Instagram account?

  • @rv7767
    @rv7767 Před 2 lety +3227

    I don't even remember what genuine happiness actually feels like. It's been too long.

    • @NotMySkittlesPls
      @NotMySkittlesPls Před 2 lety +138

      I've actually been thinking about this a lot lately. When was the last time I went through a day and didn't have a feeling of loneliness or depression? Once you've reached a point you're used to it, you forget what life was like before and wonder if you'll ever have that genuine happiness again. You'll get there, we all will and deserve it 💜

    • @Butterfly-fh9yw
      @Butterfly-fh9yw Před 2 lety +24

      I just stumbled upon this video. The past year and a half has been a whirlwind, and the video helped me but I know what you mean. I genuinely truly know what you mean.

    • @johnhowe1501
      @johnhowe1501 Před 2 lety +45

      Yeah I got so used to feelings of rejection and loneliness that I cant even remember what happiness felt like

    • @Artlove8900
      @Artlove8900 Před 2 lety +18

      I really miss my dad. He was the only one who truly loved me and cared about me. Now i m all alone people come in my life and just leave. I feel unloved and unwanted by people. I like someone and think they are the one but get hurt everytime by people. I even lost the count on how many times I have been hurt. I dont know what to do should i give up. I have no longer got strength. But i worked so hard

    • @_.nihaa.05_
      @_.nihaa.05_ Před rokem +11

      @@Artlove8900 you just said what i wanted to say.
      But i hope you're not going too hard on your self to figure it out. Just block them or stay away from people who ever used you. I hope they understand how presious you really are. These days I'm trying to find happiness in small things and stopped expecting or depending something on others. Ig I'm starting to feel little bit better and i hope even you get through this sh*t asap and meet the happy version of yourself soon

  • @salehzayed7120
    @salehzayed7120 Před 3 lety +2673

    Right now, there are people all over the world who are just like you. They’re either lonely, they’re missing somebody, they’re depressed, they’re hurt , they’re scared from the past , they’re having personal issues no one knows about, they have secrets you wouldn’t believe. They wish, they dream and they hope. And right now, they are sitting here reading these words, and I’m writing this for you so you don’t feel alone anymore. Always remember, don’t be depressed about the past, don’t worry about the future, and just focus on today. If today’s not so great don’t worry! Tomorrow’s a new chance. If you are reading this, be sure to share this around to make others feel better. Have a nice day. :)

  • @bauerfelicitas672
    @bauerfelicitas672 Před 11 měsíci +133

    Psychedelic's definitely have potential to deal with mental health symptoms like anxiety and depression, I would like to try them again but it's just so hard to source here.

    • @AlirioArteaga
      @AlirioArteaga Před 11 měsíci

      The Trips I've been having have really helped me a lot,I finally feel in control of my emotions and my future and things that used to be mundane to me now seem incredible and full of nuance on top of that I'm way less driven by my ego and I have alot more empathy as well

    • @AgustinNavia-cg3rg
      @AgustinNavia-cg3rg Před 11 měsíci

      @Ana Turner I was having this constant, unbearable anxiety because of university stress. Not until I came across Sporeville , a very intelligent mycologist. He saved my life honestly

    • @QuekCheung
      @QuekCheung Před 11 měsíci

      @@AgustinNavia-cg3rgPlease how do I contact him?

    • @AgustinNavia-cg3rg
      @AgustinNavia-cg3rg Před 11 měsíci

      @@QuekCheung Sporeville

    • @AgustinNavia-cg3rg
      @AgustinNavia-cg3rg Před 11 měsíci

      @lG

  • @animelover_1012
    @animelover_1012 Před rokem +117

    "It's time. It's time to let your old wounds heal. And to let love back into your life."
    I teared up after hearing that line.
    I have so much bottled inside and I'm too afraid to talk about it cause I feel like a burden.
    When people say "I'll always be there for you" it's smth I struggle to believe. Because whenever the time came when I needed them, they were never there.
    I'm still struggling with trying to achieve happiness and to let love in my life. And in a way it is cause I can't let go of my past..or ig I won't let go of it.
    I'm trying..and the day it'll get better hasn't came for me yet..but I'm gonna try to believe.
    This video was what I really needed to hear.
    And thank you :)

    • @brindlekintales
      @brindlekintales Před rokem

      > I have so much bottled inside.
      Then let it age like a fine wine, and some day those tears will taste very sweet. Or you can sell that bottle on eBay for a very high price and be rich for the rest of your life.

  • @meowmeow4326
    @meowmeow4326 Před 3 lety +534

    How is it possible to feel so empty yet so full of feelings that I don't even understand. Like what-

    • @nataliacardinez122
      @nataliacardinez122 Před 3 lety +7

      Its hard to explain but if u know the feelling u will get it

    • @nataliacardinez122
      @nataliacardinez122 Před 3 lety +5

      Well its kinda like empty on the inside yet so full of feelings on the outside

    • @meowmeow4326
      @meowmeow4326 Před 3 lety +1

      @@nataliacardinez122 oh I want actually like asking ppl who feel this way I just dont understand my own emotions srry fr the misunderstanding lmao 😔 (I feel the way I said) aha

    • @meowmeow4326
      @meowmeow4326 Před 3 lety +2

      @Cindy Murphy oh yeah I just dont understand my own feelings yet there us so many of them but u still feel empty yeah ik uts confusing I'm confused to 😭

    • @cosmic_841
      @cosmic_841 Před 3 lety +1

      I think you need to learn about energy aura meditation something like that

  • @ebusive
    @ebusive Před 3 lety +1254

    "Don't you ever get lonely?"
    "Only around other people"

    • @marcohernandez3361
      @marcohernandez3361 Před 3 lety +7

      .............

    • @carrie-anneking3461
      @carrie-anneking3461 Před 3 lety +57

      That's when I feel most lonely

    • @nikecontd
      @nikecontd Před 3 lety +77

      There's nothing worse than feeling that sudden switch from having a good time with friends to feeling detached from reality, questioning the reasons to stay alive

    • @marsp5636
      @marsp5636 Před 3 lety +3

      You said it. Perfect

    • @Ruby-ov1rn
      @Ruby-ov1rn Před 3 lety

      I feel u

  • @rza1346
    @rza1346 Před 2 lety +75

    Man it’s so lonely being alive sometimes and it’s hard finding your way in the world on your own.
    I don’t cry often but this video made me cry my eyes out. I feel a lil better though.
    Hope everyone reading this feels truly loved and accepted in the world some day. I’m sure that day will come, just need a little bit of patience :)
    If anyone ever wants to talk or vent, this comment will always be here

    • @moonlightstar3005
      @moonlightstar3005 Před 2 lety +2

      other than liking comments I wish I met people who goes through this everyday so that they don’t have to feel the need of being alone or not having anyone there for them when they need it…
      Im 16 and I wish that I had friends irl not just online but actually to do things and have people who would have the same likes and needs :)

    • @Kamisenbonn
      @Kamisenbonn Před rokem +2

      I can't even begin to describe how I feel, My life's been a psychological horror everywhere I see.
      From abusive, manipulative, narccicistic parents to siblings to relatives to everyone, everyone is trying to hurt and break me apart.
      Hope, I find peace someday and someone who will actually love and understand me and my pain.

  • @breakablexheaven
    @breakablexheaven Před 2 lety +83

    I just read through the comments and it genuinely made me feel better to see that I'm not alone in this feeling. I just wish there was a way all of us lonely souls could connect and talk to each other. If anyone has any ideas or ways to do this, please let us know. :)

    • @buddy3635
      @buddy3635 Před rokem +5

      The only way I can think of is replying to comments and whatnot. But I'm sure we all have other social media. Talk to me whenever you want through this comment though💛

    • @kykykitan5903
      @kykykitan5903 Před 5 měsíci

      This sounds awesome, let me know if there will be one.

  • @aurora_skye
    @aurora_skye Před 3 lety +4073

    To everyone watching this, just remember: you are worthy. You are enough. You are loved 💗

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před 3 lety +281

      Thank you for the uplifting message!!

    • @Manuemanuelrui
      @Manuemanuelrui Před 3 lety +35

      Thanks!♥️ hope u have an Amazon life

    • @flamsparksbiggestfan2931
      @flamsparksbiggestfan2931 Před 3 lety +37

      You are an amazing person, my dear. You deserve all the love and support in the world. Remember, this is a non-judgemental community. You will be succesful, and we are here to support you, no matter what.🤗

    • @foreveruseless1292
      @foreveruseless1292 Před 3 lety +7

      Hmm thanks

    • @Nekotaku_TV
      @Nekotaku_TV Před 3 lety +14

      In what context? And of/for what? By whom? Some family yeah... But that's not enough for me.

  • @lemonfizzy5004
    @lemonfizzy5004 Před 3 lety +1127

    I don’t feel lost I just want someone to love me like a soulmate.

    • @dnss8145
      @dnss8145 Před 3 lety +19

      Hey if you want to talk to me here I am for you :)

    • @spiritus1512
      @spiritus1512 Před 3 lety +15

      This is something like what I thought watching this

    • @dnss8145
      @dnss8145 Před 3 lety +12

      @Ryan Blunt How nice, I would also love to have a person to talk to 🏃🏾‍♀

    • @yaqingdeng6403
      @yaqingdeng6403 Před 3 lety +9

      God loves you and always be with you.

    • @daysatomic
      @daysatomic Před 3 lety +30

      Not even like a soulmate. I'd be content if someone just liked me enough to spend time with me.

  • @waterman8859
    @waterman8859 Před rokem +13

    I don't even know how to put into words how I'm feeling. I feel like no one takes me seriously because I've always been the person who you always see happy and making jokes all the time. From the past few years I've lost myself and people think I'm just putting a play. They now think that I've changed and hate being around me. I never feel that my thoughts or feelings are valid because im always ignored. But thank you psych2go for this I'll forever be grateful and thank you anyone who reads this

  • @sirrom4479
    @sirrom4479 Před 2 lety +4

    Things I'm gonna try that you can try too:
    Delete social media for a while.
    Go outside and just, get lost.
    Go out on a bike ride.
    Play video games less.
    Be more confronting, no matter how hard it feels.
    Learn new things. (I'm gonna try and get into music.)
    Having no one around seriously blows so I'm just gonna start experiencing shit that life and nature have to offer, you get me. Imma Treat life like a game or even a museum.

    • @emiln3340
      @emiln3340 Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you for your comment💕

  • @Lighter.77
    @Lighter.77 Před 3 lety +1233

    Sometimes we feel lonely and we don't even want anyone around. We want someone but we don't want anyone at same time. It's even more sadder. And some people act like they really care about us when they really don't care

    • @birbhay
      @birbhay Před 3 lety +14

      Frrr, reminds me of an NF line 'hands out tryna ask for love but when I get it I just pass it up'

    • @mahmoodalaryash_8069
      @mahmoodalaryash_8069 Před 2 lety +3

      its not sometimes

    • @Kay-hd2zj
      @Kay-hd2zj Před 2 lety +1

      💜so true

    • @user-zw8ty5rg6i
      @user-zw8ty5rg6i Před 2 lety +11

      Its not sometimes ami its every fucking second

    • @kingdalgo1665
      @kingdalgo1665 Před 2 lety +14

      Being lonely and not wanting people around sucks man

  • @Luke-pd7xj
    @Luke-pd7xj Před 3 lety +787

    I feel selfish when I’m focusing on my issues all the time. I realize that I’m not the only person who is struggling in this world however in this time of Covid I’m alone with my thoughts too much and I can’t help but dwell on my problems. Kinda hate myself for it

    • @bruinsfan902
      @bruinsfan902 Před 3 lety +29

      Look I know how you feel I love being in this comment section becuase people relate and it is like we all know each other and we are a family

    • @keegabpshifter1907
      @keegabpshifter1907 Před 3 lety +23

      Don't feel selfish for thinking abt urself. It is essential for us to think abt and food care of ourselves to remain healthy

    • @abhi-wi2mj
      @abhi-wi2mj Před 3 lety +8

      You may feel selfish ..... but remember that being privileged smdoesnt mena its a bad thing . Its bad only if you take pride in it , or deny it , or promote it etc . You probably don't, so don't belittle yourselff

    • @klaudiamr990310
      @klaudiamr990310 Před 3 lety +3

      I feel the same way..

    • @succulentfrog3299
      @succulentfrog3299 Před 3 lety +3

      So do i

  • @iamjohnporter67
    @iamjohnporter67 Před rokem +4

    I dropped out of a community that had too much positivity and it was hurting me mentally because I couldn't express myself. Then someone just pointed out to me "oh you're always so negative" which was the last straw.

  • @OA2605
    @OA2605 Před rokem +16

    When i was little, i was just living in the moment and i never for once thought about being happy or sad. As i grew up, all I can feel is sadness. So i have no idea what happiness feels like. But I'd say, it was better when i was disengaged with my feelings

  • @jeydab7926
    @jeydab7926 Před 3 lety +893

    i'm crying because i feel like they read my mind in a way nobody else i know can

  • @kaitlynmiller975
    @kaitlynmiller975 Před 3 lety +506

    When you realize everyone supporting you is just depressed like you.
    -_- Edit:Thank you for the likes folks your all so nice!

    • @borkie6168
      @borkie6168 Před 3 lety +38

      Well, if you think about it; people on the other side of the mountain won’t be able to help you as much as those beside you.

    • @mishrasuvigya5541
      @mishrasuvigya5541 Před 3 lety +19

      and that's really a good thing!
      someone who has been through the same path as yours, can only guide you!!

    • @kaitlynmiller975
      @kaitlynmiller975 Před 3 lety

      wow thanks for the comments really helps. i only made this comment cuz im depressed myself and i cant get therapy or help due to coronavirus aka Covid-19

    • @kaitlynmiller975
      @kaitlynmiller975 Před 3 lety

      would love to get help if it was free tho

    • @bueaty3656
      @bueaty3656 Před 3 lety +5

      Yup and it sucks that you can’t ask for help because you know they’re going through a rough moment at the same time as you do you don’t want to be selfish and hurt them to help yourself. And the people who aren’t depressed just make things worse rather than helping.

  • @bontlemanone655
    @bontlemanone655 Před 2 lety +37

    I feel alone even though I'm surrounded by people. I hope you guys aren't giving up. Please be ok you guys pull through.

    • @jarithys
      @jarithys Před rokem +2

      Really trying my best here to hold on... it's just so damn difficult when you just feel broken inside 😢

    • @bontlemanone655
      @bontlemanone655 Před rokem +2

      @@jarithys I'm sorry for the very late reply. I hope everything is well with you and know that from the shattered pieces of glass always come the positivity of self reflection. Take care 💞

  • @darkrul8
    @darkrul8 Před 9 měsíci +6

    Thank you... i've been feeling incredibly alone but unable to process the sadness i was feeling. This video finally helped me to cry it out. Truly from the bottom of my heart, thank you for making this video.

  • @ladysofiagarciasalas6000
    @ladysofiagarciasalas6000 Před 3 lety +934

    this is something I've always said to myself, "if you don't have anyone, a friend, or even someone to talk to, be friends with your inner self, be kind to yourself, before pleasing others remember you need to take care of yourself. Cause in the end if everyone leaves, you only have yourself".

    • @no-name1025
      @no-name1025 Před 3 lety +24

      This is really reassuring, i would gonna tell myself this too, since what i keep repeating in mind is only "It's ok, no one cares." and ignoring all the problems. Thank you for your comment.

    • @JG-bp8dh
      @JG-bp8dh Před 3 lety +8

      I needed to read that.

    • @stevedavis785
      @stevedavis785 Před 2 lety +9

      Having myself isn't the selling point it might be for others.

    • @zhanyuxie1490
      @zhanyuxie1490 Před 2 lety +5

      I don’t disagree with you because it literally isn’t wrong. But this harsh fact triggers my tears 😭

    • @Soso-ce4op
      @Soso-ce4op Před 2 lety +1

      and God(if you believe in him)💕

  • @Ari-vy7xe
    @Ari-vy7xe Před 3 lety +763

    “jOy iS a cHoIcE”
    - my parents while I was crying

    • @alexandrugheorghe5610
      @alexandrugheorghe5610 Před 3 lety +17

      Good advice. 🙂

    • @Ari-vy7xe
      @Ari-vy7xe Před 3 lety +20

      @@X99GD thank you.

    • @romagreen8050
      @romagreen8050 Před 3 lety +17

      @@X99GD same, I keep trying . but when people say try harder, it really irritates me . I tell myself that im I even trying?

    • @someonesomeone25
      @someonesomeone25 Před 3 lety +12

      Nothing Ive tried works. The secret to being happy, for most, is to have a good life. If your life sucks, has sucked, and there's no realistic hope of it ever getting better, and it is likely it will just get worse, then its pretty impossible to be happy.

    • @ZestyBarnacle69
      @ZestyBarnacle69 Před 3 lety +7

      my parents do the same thing 🙄

  • @nebulitestudios
    @nebulitestudios Před rokem +3

    Everything in this video is completely right, people almost never notice when i talk, almost as all that i say doesn't matter at all. i constantly torment myself with my own thoughts of loneliness, the thought of never getting a gf, or at someone that cares and loves me. the thought of being just an annoyance who serves no purpose but to just be there, talking with himself like an idiot even though there are clearly people who can hear me. Maybe there's something completely wrong with me.. that's the conclusion i always come up with after thinking about this every single day.

  • @GulayPashazadeh
    @GulayPashazadeh Před 2 lety +5

    I cried as I watched this video and realised once again how alone I was. I have no friends in this life who love me. They just see me as a friend even if you need it. Today, I asked myself a question." Who would be very sorry for my death except my family if I died? and the answer was very short: "No one."
    I am already tired of crying in secret every day. I have only one sentence in my mind: "No one loves me."
    Despite all of this, I still hope that one day there will be someone who really loves me.

    • @KN-lq1so
      @KN-lq1so Před rokem

      You are so strong for being here. I love you❤️ Please keep existing

  • @scoobed792
    @scoobed792 Před 2 lety +240

    It's just hurtful when you feel like you're stuck in a place but don't know what to do

  • @nikkibakker7872
    @nikkibakker7872 Před 3 lety +175

    1:19 that "i know" holds so much emotion

  • @averyherrick2733
    @averyherrick2733 Před 2 lety +6

    Can we please just make a giant group chat with everyone in this comment section because you guys are so supportive, kind, and inspiring. I always feel guilty for feeling alone and empty because I do have a very loving family and I am extremely grateful for them. Even though I have all of their support I find it hard to share my emotions and be myself. I love my friends but I always feel distant from them and I feel bad because I feel like I might hurt them. I hate feeling so distant but constantly being surrounded by people who accept me. I feel like I’m shutting them out and doing this to myself. There are so many days where my only goal is to keep myself from crying until I am by myself at home. I am going to start trying to love myself more and focus on my happiness and being myself for me. I want to stop limiting myself and shaping myself for others’ eyes. They can take me or leave me I don’t care anymore. Try to shape your loneliness and find yourself. I know it sounds stupid and cliché, but what better to do. Stop focusing on others worth of you and begin to support yourself. It is a long and rough road, but an extremely beautiful and rewarding one. My heart goes out to all who are struggling, and please don’t feel guilty for your emotions.♥️

  • @Mavri_Lyveis
    @Mavri_Lyveis Před 2 lety +3

    Believe me I have depression for 6 or 7 years. I thought I defeated it but seems like I couldnt. I am sure there are people who is in the same situation with me. Even though we are in the dark place currently it doesnt mean that we are alond in this dark. Your friends, family anc loved ones are here with you. But most importantly you are with yourself in this dark. Dont be afraid about making a change do whatever you want do whatever makes you happy. Because this world deserves another smile from you ♡

  • @purple.spider1832
    @purple.spider1832 Před 3 lety +377

    I feel like dying and i've totally lost hope in my future, loneliness is just making everything worse

    • @dhwjhfjwkhikf
      @dhwjhfjwkhikf Před 3 lety +8

      we can talk if you want, just if you want
      my ig is @bici.uwu

    • @miahlove6292
      @miahlove6292 Před 3 lety +12

      As long as you’re alive, you have more to look forward to. You’re not alone okay? ❤️ Don’t give up. It’s cliche but better days will come. I believe it and you can too 🙂🤞🏽

    • @tracybowen2732
      @tracybowen2732 Před 3 lety +4

      @@miahlove6292 please dont give up

    • @MK-gb4rn
      @MK-gb4rn Před 3 lety +2

      Same here

    • @carolinethurner537
      @carolinethurner537 Před 3 lety +8

      You must stay busy. Distract your mind. Exercise walk listen to music. Volunteer. It is what the soul needs. Good Luck

  • @eylemvdw2508
    @eylemvdw2508 Před 2 lety +340

    it's just hard to not feel alone when you don't have any friends to begin with.

    • @rubberduckyyouretheone1113
      @rubberduckyyouretheone1113 Před rokem +11

      This is so true

    • @hotaru5401
      @hotaru5401 Před rokem +28

      And its hard to act normal w other ppl, like ur alright, doing fine. That u have all u need. And u cant show how weak and alone u actually r bc then ppl wont like u and will look down on u and talk abt ur weaknesses to others. I know..

    • @animalsarehappiness9208
      @animalsarehappiness9208 Před rokem +11

      You’re totally right
      As a beginning of realising this truth it might seem so heartbreaking to know that you’re SERIOUSLY lonely , but with time as you accept things (and accepting things i don’t mean to giving up for a hopeless depressed idea of loneliness) , you see the idea of no friends as something normal , you begin to enjoy yourself alone , you begin to see more beautiful sites of life , this is when you start loving yourself and gaining confidence , and people will feel this and get attracted to you more ..
      Hope this made sense and helped !!
      Remember there are soooooo many beautiful things to look up in this life ❤️

    • @RinnyMay
      @RinnyMay Před rokem +2

      Can we be friends? 😭

    • @LikeableAden
      @LikeableAden Před 11 měsíci +3

      I do have but they all have their own friends

  • @AshZa20
    @AshZa20 Před 2 lety +4

    When your tired and alone remember your never alone. I know that this may sound off for people who don't believe in God and aren't familiar with religion. But as for me I'm a Muslim and I don't have friends or people I share my feelings with but in prayer I talk to Allah (S.W.T) and I tell Him (S.W.T) my pain, my sorrow and empty myself. I feel a load off my chest and peace. I think to myself I have Allah (S.W.T) wherever I am. I ask him for strength and he guides through any obstacles and any feeling I feel heavy on myself. Me telling you this is well for letting you understand that when you feel like no one understands The One in heavens understands you, He see's you from a place you can't see. But He see's. There is hope. Sometimes you need to hold on to something to shed off a load. That feeling that cramp in the heart. A feeling to comfort you. There is hope, don't fear and don't feel alone. Just believe and In sha allah (By the Will of Allah) things will get better. I'm not sure how many understand what I'm trying to say but my point was to lift the people who feel this way because I do too. I feel detached from the world, a feeling that no one understands me, the feeling of sometimes being lost and loneliness. But I remind myself that I have Allah (S.W.T) I cling on to Him, He's my hope and I know One day we will be rewarded for the struggles of this life. Just be yourself be good, don't worry. Be at peace be yourself and happy within you will feel at ease. Long comment huh? Sorry. Thanks for reading this far I don't know if you understand what I said
    I hope it made you feel better and hopeful. May Allah (S.W.T) grant us all happiness and relief from loneliness, sadness, negativity. Ameen. 🤲😊

  • @g.9148
    @g.9148 Před rokem +6

    It just hits harder on a whole other level after loosing ur best friends, ur crush and then being hated on by them behind ur back.

  • @amy0044
    @amy0044 Před 3 lety +423

    "It would be so beautiful"
    "What?"
    "To have someone who cares about me"

    • @Anna-wz7eo
      @Anna-wz7eo Před 3 lety +5

      ikr

    • @bruinsfan902
      @bruinsfan902 Před 3 lety +2

      Everyone hates me.No ever truly listens and you cant do any thing but lie in your tears

    • @keegabpshifter1907
      @keegabpshifter1907 Před 3 lety +7

      There will always be someone who loves u, whether today or in the future, whether online or in person, so just try ur best to be urself and to keep going, and remember there is always a light at the end of the tunnel

    • @hiroro3223
      @hiroro3223 Před 3 lety

      @@keegabpshifter1907 Me who never experienced a loving parents : ReALly? They always tell me that im fking kid and their friends kid is better overall

    • @keegabpshifter1907
      @keegabpshifter1907 Před 3 lety

      @Not Sus
      Sorry for you
      But I never did say ur parents and I never said now
      Keep going for the person you might meet in the future, the person who will love you unconditionally

  • @Nintenerdo
    @Nintenerdo Před 3 lety +246

    Did you read my mind or something? I literally was feeling like this morning.

  • @annibanani2000
    @annibanani2000 Před rokem +6

    This video finally helped me to CRY and let out all the shit, the negativity, the anxiety and the anger I was holding inside for so long. It made me feel understood and seeing all these lovely comments made me feel less alone. I feel like I'm never good enough, that there is always something I should have done instead. I feel like a failure, a disappointment and a stupid idiot who doesn't deserve to relax and feel happy. I still feel sad, but less heavy because I let it all out. Thank you. I really needed this.

  • @hotaru5401
    @hotaru5401 Před rokem +2

    Im 16 years old and I've never had a person i can call my best friend. I have 2 sisters that r the only ppl i actually talk to but they have their own friends and problems so i understand their lack of energy towards me. In school, im a loner and tho i do hang out w one of my sisters' friends, i constantly feel left out and odd. I think i have a fear of rejection so i rarely talk w my classmates and i feel like i give off scary vibes so literally no on approaches me. I feel a constant emptiness and a crave for one good friend but i never show it bc it makes me look weak. I pray i find a friend, many friends.. i think i need some in my life

  • @irnanatasyaahmad5215
    @irnanatasyaahmad5215 Před 3 lety +199

    I was crying so much listening to this. It hurts so much. Being alone, having no one to talk to, despite being surrounded by family. I feel like ill be stuck here, forever. How will this pain end?

    • @chethkgowda
      @chethkgowda Před 3 lety +15

      same over here man....my friends left me and they are enjoying their life....but I cry every single day thinking about them....i want to end this pain.....

    • @chaynce9725
      @chaynce9725 Před 2 lety +6

      Aw I love you guys .. don’t give up meet new people . Go out by yourself dress up . Enjoy yourself I hope it get better ♥️

    • @ghizlanebichoualne5695
      @ghizlanebichoualne5695 Před 2 lety +5

      @@chethkgowda I really feelt that T.T , but if we think about that , literally no one deserve , sweetie ,if they are living there live ,u have a life to live too hon , Get upp and be happy ,smile , make friend , hang out , u are the best ever ❤ they are the losers tho and ..I love u

    • @chethkgowda
      @chethkgowda Před 2 lety +2

      @@ghizlanebichoualne5695 Thank you Ghizlane....Its my birthday today and your message made me happy :)

    • @ghizlanebichoualne5695
      @ghizlanebichoualne5695 Před 2 lety +2

      @@chethkgowdauwuuv, Happy birthdayyyyyy ,Soo happpyy tooo for u , bestt wishess ❤❤

  • @milliemiranda8861
    @milliemiranda8861 Před 3 lety +306

    This just broke me more. Being alone is so painful and not being able to tell anyone why or how you feel. Being lost in the dark void of your thoughts.
    This is an amazing video, and its sad saying that the feeling of happiness feels like a myth and that no one will ever understand you. Staying awake all night just thinking and crying softly to not wake anyone up. That hurts.

    • @dusky._.milkywayim16
      @dusky._.milkywayim16 Před 3 lety +6

      That used to be me, but after I started building good habits, routines and sleeping properly, eating healthy and excersizing and staying off social media as much as possible I became happier and more self inclusive and less prideful and humiliated and trying to waste time or find distractions as my days passed

    • @dusky._.milkywayim16
      @dusky._.milkywayim16 Před 3 lety +1

      I have a problem with kitchen/snack drawer/pantry/fridge purging and self hatred and procrastination though.

    • @milliemiranda8861
      @milliemiranda8861 Před 3 lety

      @@dusky._.milkywayim16 well I also have that except that I could go days without eating instead of all at once. Just that I am forced to take medication and eat by my parents and it does not feel good.

    • @kateb7751
      @kateb7751 Před 3 lety +3

      hello! I just wanted to say I hope your doing better. just know you are not alone. when this whole pandemic is over I can promise you things will be better

    • @banana-mammal8663
      @banana-mammal8663 Před 3 lety +2

      Its even worst when you live alone and you cry louder in the hopes that someone will hear

  • @ChicaneMedia
    @ChicaneMedia Před rokem +2

    You live your life consuming different things and sometimes you feel down because of how unrealistic many aspects of life are depicted to be. It ends up making you wish you were in that dream and how happy you would be if you lived that perfect way. I needed this video as a wake up call to understand I should be grateful for what I have and not to take everything too seriously in life. To always better myself and live the best life I can instead of lingering around in negativity. I really wish all of you the best; don't give up and get too involved in unrealistic expectations, live your life happy and do what makes you smile.

    • @NestortheArgonaught
      @NestortheArgonaught Před rokem

      My dream is to be the star’s buddy who dies by the end of the first act of the movie. Or better yet the body in the first scene.
      There is no hope for a happy life if you’re without virtue. I will never have virtue. Thus I will never be happy.
      My only dream is to be dead.

  • @thescarecrow2710
    @thescarecrow2710 Před rokem +2

    Been going through some things lately: my pet died, my friends are leaving for other countries and work is heavy and puts me in uncomfortable social situations with acquaintances. Flatmates add to the stress too. Despite this, your video truly helped me out appreciate the things and people K have had, I will have and still have in my life, and it made me realise it s okay not to feel okay for the same reason why it s okay for the weather to rain and not just shine all the time. What an honour to feel all the feelings in the human spectrum, what a honour to be alive and seeing life develop its own way

  • @deepikachandra7857
    @deepikachandra7857 Před 3 lety +561

    It’s honestly as if Psych2go stalks me-
    Edit: i love how most of the replies are ‘hi’ keep the chain going!

  • @siri94
    @siri94 Před 3 lety +771

    Here’s a list of 101 reasons why you should be head over heels in love with your beautiful self.
    Your very own dorkiness
    Your personal touch in putting together decoration, clothes, accessories
    Your big, bold dreams
    Your funny way of snoring
    Your bad hair days
    Your arms that love to embrace others
    Your body’s flexibility
    Your never-ending fighting spirit
    Your Grey’s Anatomy addiction
    Your love for traveling
    Your giddiness on Christmas Eve
    Your dorky Lost fandom
    Your unique (maybe loud, maybe soft, maybe screechy, maybe smooth) voice
    Your ability to see a positive streak in the darkest situations
    Your free spirit
    Your reliability
    Your cleansing tears
    Your big, beautiful smile
    Your reminiscent mood
    Your distinct taste in music
    Your cravings for Chocolate Fudge Brownie Frozen Yogurt
    Your wounded heart
    Your determination to stand up for yourself (check in next Monday to learn how!)
    Your indecisiveness
    Your curiosity
    Your short legs
    Your long legs
    Your spaghetti hair
    Your curly hair
    Your big round eyes
    Your guilty pleasures
    Your addiction to shoes
    Your ability to push through the difficult times
    Your seeking spirit
    Your experimenting nature
    Your love for routine
    Your interest in movies that drastically change the way you think
    Your daily resolution to start anew
    Your sweet tooth
    Your distinct way of seeing the world
    Your art and creativity; whether it comes in the form of writing, singing, swimming, playing the piano or dying wool
    Your fascination with nature
    Your excitement about new adventures
    Your circle of friends
    Your eagerness to lean into your fears
    Your love for delicious German food like Spätzle
    Your ability to forgive yourself and others
    The fun you have when you spend time with yourself
    Your sleepy eyes after a good night’s sleep
    Your vulnerability
    Your peace of mind
    Your super active brain
    Your very own revelations about yourself, your body and this world
    Your refusal to give in to body-hatred and body-shaming
    Your way of letting others know they’re special and loved
    Your outer reflection of your inner beauty
    The sunshine in your eyes
    Your anger
    Your pain
    Your ecstasy
    Your fearlessness
    Your fears
    Your new discoveries
    Your old habits
    Your wit
    Your glowing cheeks
    Your frustrations
    Your fat days
    Your attempts of finding self-love
    Your willingness to find a partner in this world
    Your occasional self-pity parties
    Your afternoons in bed with a good book
    Your very own definition of happiness
    Your rockstar abilities
    Your self-worth
    Your colorful inner world
    Your delicate emotions
    Your complete atypical behaviors
    Your confusions
    Your grown-up crush on Adam Levine
    Your unusual being
    Your way of showing love
    Your way of expressing fun
    Your way of defending yourself
    Your way of being yourself
    Your knowledge of pop culture
    Your ability to let go of convention and live the life you deserve
    Your fuck-ups
    Your sweet surprises
    Your manner of rocking crazy pants
    Your favorite flowers
    Your readiness to own of your victories
    Your special way of solving problems
    Your way of shaking your hips and rocking the dance floor
    Your beautiful reflection in the water
    Your love for the beach and the ocean
    Your excitement about the Olympics, the World Soccer Cup or other big tournaments
    Your complete ignorance
    Your experiments in the kitchen
    Your confidence in yourself
    Your whole beautiful you - body, mind and soul!

  • @cheerio672
    @cheerio672 Před rokem +6

    Thank you for this! This changed my view of life. I’m always negative and never interacting with others, because I isolate myself from them. It’s not because I don’t want to be alone, but the fear of being judged for what I say. I suffer from low self esteem and social anxiety, which makes it hard for me to talk to others. I tend to stutter when I talk, so.. that’s why I don’t like to socialize. I’ll be sure to have moments that bring me joy from time to time. This brightened my day 😭❤️.

  • @_mamuska
    @_mamuska Před rokem +11

    That is the exact point I wanted whatever i feel does not matter to anyone everyone just breaks my heart and I feel like I am alone in this world

  • @evosteve-o4379
    @evosteve-o4379 Před 2 lety +539

    As messed as it feels to be in this situation, going down this comment section makes me feel better knowing I'm not alone, I really hope one day we can all find the love and happiness we deserve.

    • @sedrahdirki5705
      @sedrahdirki5705 Před 2 lety +13

      But still seeing that there is a lot of people who feel that way and do relate actually hurts

    • @Link_Hyrule211
      @Link_Hyrule211 Před 2 lety +6

      I just suck at everything I shouldn’t be alive rn

    • @newkindage
      @newkindage Před rokem

      I hope for that too.

    • @newkindage
      @newkindage Před rokem +5

      @@Link_Hyrule211 you will find a purpose. Keep going. You are so very strong and smart. I know life can feel hopless but you have to try. Life is so beautiful once we see it again clearly. I love you sweet soul. Please keep going. I know you can do it.

    • @Link_Hyrule211
      @Link_Hyrule211 Před rokem +2

      @@newkindage thankyou..

  • @ives3572
    @ives3572 Před 2 lety +78

    Being alone with your feelings is the worst because you have nowhere to run; they're all in your head and won't go away, and all you can do is just deal with them.

    • @khushi685
      @khushi685 Před 2 lety +8

      exactly, that too at night, when everyone around you is asleep, noone to talk to or pick up your calls and you just can't even sleep lol. It seems tough to even get to morning :/

    • @SSSsandraSSS
      @SSSsandraSSS Před rokem

      Is there maybe a free help (line) where you live?

  • @borond
    @borond Před rokem +26

    i havent cried in such a long time i cant even guess it. it wasnt a long cry or a relieving one but still i cant thank this video enough for existing, this amount of tears and allowing a tiny fragment of my bottled up pain and suffering to release was enough to keep me going for a little longer

  • @Bia_OkamotoS2
    @Bia_OkamotoS2 Před 2 lety +33

    I remember crying to this video some time ago and I came back again to watch it. It really touched me and made me feel so much better!!! Thank you for this psych2go, and thank for all of your videos that help us and cheer us up everyday ✨

  • @sand0077
    @sand0077 Před 2 lety +166

    As an introvert, I was doing fine until my wife passed recently. Now I'm going through the grief process and feeling very disoriented, lost and very much alone without her :(

    • @Deddogbounce
      @Deddogbounce Před rokem +17

      I'm sorry to hear about your loss. Despite it being so long after you've commented, I (and many others reading, probably) hope that you've found healthy ways to allow yourself to cope and grieve ❤

    • @raisa_cherry33
      @raisa_cherry33 Před rokem +6

      Omg I am so sorry brother 😢

    • @newkindage
      @newkindage Před rokem +6

      May she rest in peace. You will find a purpose again. Never stop trying to find the happiness you deserve. I love you sweet soul. You are so cared for and there are great things waiting for you.

    • @sand0077
      @sand0077 Před rokem +12

      @@Deddogbounce Though it's been nearly two years since my wife passed, the intensity of the loss has lessened, the feelings of sadness and emptiness remains

    • @tpwk7953
      @tpwk7953 Před rokem +1

      (in case I end up writing something hurtful or something, forgive me because I feel that sometimes I do end up doing that but am not able to figure out whether if it is that way or not, hence apologies in case if it is.)
      so sorry for your loss, I hope you've found peace though the thoughts and memories can still hurt time to time, or a lot of times which is alright. take your time to get through it and I hope you find loads of happiness.

  • @enncore9926
    @enncore9926 Před 3 lety +785

    "you arent alone"
    Me alone in my bedroom at 12 in the morning: hello?! Anyone there?!😭

  • @amberlove4523
    @amberlove4523 Před rokem +12

    Thank you! I needed this! I’m in a very depressed state right now. I needed this!🙂

    • @Awnuzie
      @Awnuzie Před rokem

      Heyy, I just wanna let you know whatever it is it'll be okay soon if you ever need a friend let me know

  • @musicislife2310
    @musicislife2310 Před 2 lety +4

    I was feeling really down and still am. Just felt really alone because I feel like people I talk to find others who are better than me. Watching this, I cried because it hurt how true the points are. Putting effort into things that make you unhappy especially. Thank you for this video 🙏

  • @Sleepewalker
    @Sleepewalker Před 3 lety +32

    Been an introvert it's so hurtful sometimes. Like in my case I have troubles expressing how I feel. When I'm hurt I speak less than usual and I want to be in my room to think about things and my family misunderstands this things. They get angry at me sometimes like If I was in bad humor and I'm like: "wtf man! Im not angry! This is how I express sadness!"

    • @dusky._.milkywayim16
      @dusky._.milkywayim16 Před 3 lety +1

      I agree, my parents never said anything right when I was obviously sad. I eventually stopped showing emotion around them because of their narcissism. I felt most alone when I was with my family because of the way i felt excluded. I was even forced to be in family meetings and aggressively excluded if I didn't join them or acted a tiny bit lazy or showed any emotion like sadness or joy or kindness. Both my brothers became incredibly self centred and sickening I could only be safe in my bedroom until they attacked it and accused me of stealing money from them because they viewed me as a liar and theif. Nobody understood me or tried to care. I made myself believe all my past classmates would hate me too. It made me so disgusted and suicidal I started leaving the house at every nighttime and cutting myself and nobody would notice they still treated me as I was invisible/trash. I eventually healed through venting to strangers in a 6 month process and I started feeling less fear, danger, anxiety, loneliness and blindless and self disgust and ungratefulness for my life. But my parents for so forceful so I couldn't enjoy life or appreciate their existences when them screaming they wanted to kill me haunted me everyday. I told one trustworthy friend about what happened to me in hopes of it making me feel relieved but they didn't believe me and felt like it was unrealistic/overreacting and I wasn't. My parents acted like psychos around me but overwhelmingly flirty and complimential towards one another when I wasn't around

    • @dusky._.milkywayim16
      @dusky._.milkywayim16 Před 3 lety

      At that time period I felt like all my friends left me and turned against me

  • @Rose-gy1cc
    @Rose-gy1cc Před rokem +4

    I’ve always felt this way. As I get older I realize that I’m just floating through the days. Hope 2023 is the year of even better mental health days.

  • @emmadove6803
    @emmadove6803 Před rokem +4

    I really needed this today. I have been having a tough time adjusting and this really gave me a few minutes of relief (finally) from my anxiety. Thank you💕

  • @yuhcve3308
    @yuhcve3308 Před 3 lety +271

    I'm so tired. The pains that I've been going through alone is really hurting me. It was even more hurt that none of my family or closest friends noticed it. It hurts. a lot. Too much.

    • @elix00
      @elix00 Před 3 lety +10

      Hey, you're not alone tho. I'm sorry for everything you went and still go through. I'm sure you'll make it. You're strong, way stronger than you think. There's still hope. You'll be happy and fine again, you'll be loved by your family and friends. You're not alone, I'm with you and I pray every morning and every night for all the people who are struggling. I believe in you 😉

    • @yuhcve3308
      @yuhcve3308 Před 3 lety +4

      @@elix00 i woke up to this today 🥺♥️ thank you so much!

    • @purplefox111
      @purplefox111 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes im old like youall gma
      Things happen for some and riding the lows are wearing me down if I didn't have 2 kids at 40
      Now trying to get 1 launched 3rd yr college other autistic
      Life doesn't get easier just more challenges we are to work thru like continual life school ugh ugh ugh

    • @ireneqq2300
      @ireneqq2300 Před 2 lety +3

      Not alone. I cant say im really good at giving advice because i am there too. Just know that, right now, a person somewhere has thought very sincerily and with all her heart that she hopes you get through this. You are not alone.

    • @yuhcve3308
      @yuhcve3308 Před 2 lety

      @@ireneqq2300 thank you🧡

  • @SweetPineapple.
    @SweetPineapple. Před 3 lety +376

    I feel like I’m at the point in my high school career where you just feel completely lost. I feel like all my friends know what they want to do in the future or have at least an idea, while I’m here clueless of what my future is. I’m ngl I’m almost afraid of what happens after high school ends. I’m afraid of being alone, my friends talk about their relationships or crushes but I haven’t found anyone like that. I just feel so lost

    • @herminia8975
      @herminia8975 Před 3 lety +26

      SAME like i feel exacly the same way. i feel like everyone has someone and something that they hold on too while im just lost and alone

    • @nicole.k5700
      @nicole.k5700 Před 3 lety +6

      you are not alone, feel the exact same way

    • @aperson9553
      @aperson9553 Před 3 lety +2

      Same here

    • @dream_y1000
      @dream_y1000 Před 3 lety +3

      I did feel that but I know what job or interest I want to be in

    • @RexMckinnis
      @RexMckinnis Před 2 lety +11

      My friend I just turned 29 last month and feel afraid. However, I believe I’m really starting to find myself. I feel the universe planning for me. Don’t allow your years to escape you. Utilize as much time as possible. I graduated in 2011 and that shit feels like yesterday. Just this month makes it 10 years ago and I’m haunted typing that. Don’t cap yourself at an age and take your time. It could take 2 years, 4 years, a few months. Just write things down, plan and take action! You have time my friend!

  • @hamguy9401
    @hamguy9401 Před rokem +1

    i love you so much you don’t know how much this helped me. i was feeling alone and that nobody cared about me even though my friends were always there for me and this helped me realize that. thank you so much. also, i love your voice and i am going to watch more of your videos bc i’ve been feeling depressed too. best wishes

  • @colinunstead7495
    @colinunstead7495 Před měsícem +2

    Just cry all the time these days. So very lost and alone that it actually hurts. Wish I had someone to love.

  • @stonie1537
    @stonie1537 Před 3 lety +201

    I will now watch this every morning to remind myself that I’m not alone and that things are gonna get better, thank you Psych2Go.
    It’s very hard for me to hang onto life, it’s been like that for years and nobody would help me or support me, which just added to my pain. Now that this video is up, it quite literally opened my eyes, I realised I was blind all this time and that there IS hope.
    To anyone who’s going through dark times right now, know that there are so many people going through the same thing and that they understand and feel for you, even if it’s only over the internet. We’re here for you. Don’t give up.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před 3 lety +21

      Beautiful comment. I hope others can read this!

    • @yeet8627
      @yeet8627 Před 3 lety +4

      I was about to cry because this is so true but then I saw your profile pic XD

    • @premiumd0ormat233
      @premiumd0ormat233 Před 3 lety

      i hope you feel better

    • @Raphael-se5nm
      @Raphael-se5nm Před rokem

      Same. It has been like this for years now and I feel so lonely and alone. Whenever I meet very nice people irl, I can't seem to connect to them and then they're gone, But yeah, I'm just gonna go on and hope for better days until my last breath.

  • @cloudjelly97
    @cloudjelly97 Před 3 lety +359

    I actually really needed this, thank you.

  • @najwaroslan7607
    @najwaroslan7607 Před 2 lety +4

    The moment she said heres an open letter for u, i cried abundantly. To everyone whos fighting for their life, u are not alone. Remember that u are a fighter, your body is fighting for u! Hugs

  • @raisa_cherry33
    @raisa_cherry33 Před rokem +2

    I hardly get to go out due to lack of friend circle,no young person in my home. So I have to depend on social medias to cope with loneliness even more after my sister left this world 21 years ago.
    My parents are the only people in my life right now,my other surviving sister lives in Australia after her marriage.

  • @aspwillow
    @aspwillow Před 3 lety +242

    This doesn't help. My friends are gone. My family is toxic. I can't make any new friends. I don't have any of my own hobbies or interests I enjoy anymore. My grades and performance are down in the dumps and I'm failing everything. I've been told so many times that it will get better and it gets worse every time. So many times I've hit rock bottom, only to realize I can still go lower than that.
    UPDATE: I made a friend. The best thing that happened to me in 2 years. Life is getting better.
    ANOTHER UPDATE BECAUSE SOMEONE REPLIED TO THIS AGAIN: I'm doing... okay I guess? The friend I made is kinda indifferent to everything now, but I got a bit closer with some other friends. Family still sucks, school still hard, mental health still terrible but getting just a little, little bit better again.

    • @yaoiblfan
      @yaoiblfan Před 3 lety +21

      Don't be discouraged. I don't have friends either. But you can talk to me. I'll listen.

    • @hollykeane195
      @hollykeane195 Před 3 lety +9

      It’s just gets worse and worse ..somehow
      😔

    • @dianamary7727
      @dianamary7727 Před 3 lety +9

      Hey there don't worry pray to Jesus he will heal your soul❤

    • @mryam.eaa13
      @mryam.eaa13 Před 3 lety +1

      I would highly recommend watching this czcams.com/video/7d16CpWp-ok/video.html I hope it gets better for you

    • @aspwillow
      @aspwillow Před 3 lety +6

      @@dianamary7727 Sorry, I dont believe in that stuff but thanks for the sentiment

  • @arizuniga8388
    @arizuniga8388 Před 3 lety +249

    Damn! it's so surreal seeing a Pscho2Go comment section so devoid of activity; these comments are usually relatable and funny.

    • @Wolfmond
      @Wolfmond Před 3 lety +10

      It's a hard time for all of us

    • @stoobergingerbell1441
      @stoobergingerbell1441 Před 3 lety +3

      There are less comments too

    • @bobsmith8405
      @bobsmith8405 Před 3 lety +6

      I just look to see the timestamps of everything

    • @arizuniga8388
      @arizuniga8388 Před 3 lety +2

      For context: this video was originally unlisted, that's why nobody commented at first

  • @macemorse3215
    @macemorse3215 Před rokem +2

    I’m really glad that Psych2Go made this video because lately I’ve been feeling like everybody is ignoring me and nobody cares about me, one of my friends told me that she’s going to be a bit distant for a little while but when she’s around other people she’s always so close and so happy, which made me think “am I the problem?” It’s just really hard and I have no idea what I’m going through but I really needed to hear this, I love watching their videos because it helps me understand what I’m doing and how I can fix it,

  • @hardstopmay
    @hardstopmay Před rokem +4

    3:35 I like how she said
    "This could be the beginning of a new chapter"
    mainly because it's new years day, so this video really helped me to feel a new start for 2023.

  • @northup1
    @northup1 Před 3 lety +631

    “you’re a girl”
    “you’re self absorbed”
    “you can chose to be happy”
    “your life is so good, you can’t be depressed”

    • @mariaklaire1570
      @mariaklaire1570 Před 3 lety +21

      Hey I am here for you❤Talk to me if you want💕I am here to support you till the end❤

    • @angelatrebor8681
      @angelatrebor8681 Před 3 lety +8

      @@mariaklaire1570 ❤

    • @olivegosling4610
      @olivegosling4610 Před 3 lety +19

      Boys are treated worse than this by there toxic parents:(

    • @breadcult-bj2wh
      @breadcult-bj2wh Před 3 lety +46

      @@olivegosling4610 It's not only boys who have toxic parents, you know.

    • @pjihae
      @pjihae Před 3 lety +47

      @@olivegosling4610 It would be helpful for your development of empathy not to consider pain as though it's a competition, but as something that can be shared when people make space for the feelings and experiences of others.

  • @ladybuggamer4479
    @ladybuggamer4479 Před 3 lety +102

    I feel this way everyday. No one notices me anymore and I truly am alone. No one really cares as much anymore and I go through live as a hollow shell. No one will really see this or care but this just makes me feel worse...I just can't stop crying anymore...

    • @jasmineneesam9241
      @jasmineneesam9241 Před 3 lety +4

      Hey no matter what you think, there is someone out there who cares about you! Also be your own best friend, you are the only person who will be by your own side your entire life so start there and build a healthy loving relationship with yourself and you will radiate so much love and positivity that you will attract the right people who are meant to be in your life and will accept and love you for who you are! I’m here if u want a friend to talk to x

    • @ladybuggamer4479
      @ladybuggamer4479 Před 3 lety +5

      @@jasmineneesam9241 Thanks but I don't have a reason to smile. Everything sucks amd I barely can keep myself happy anymore. I know it's true I should start with self love but I have lost all confidence in myself. You seem pretty nice...but I am a lost cause at this point. Have a good life.

    • @jaystuff489
      @jaystuff489 Před 3 lety +3

      Look for peace in the small things things that you never noticed before like the trees or the sky pay attention to every detail and things that you have in your life

    • @ladybuggamer4479
      @ladybuggamer4479 Před 3 lety +3

      @@jaystuff489 I do that a lot. But even so...my life means nothing to no one. If I died tomorrow the people I thought were close wouldn’t care. The world would not stop spinning. No one would be sad. I go try honestly try. All I notice now are the trees turning different colors. How the wind blows. I notice that all but don’t even have friend to share it with.

    • @ladybuggamer4479
      @ladybuggamer4479 Před 3 lety +2

      @@jaystuff489 Thanks for telling me this but...I already do this a lot. :3 have a good day.

  • @lyx9ax489
    @lyx9ax489 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much. I was feeling so lost. This helped. The technic kinda takes quite a while but it is definitely worth it…

  • @hazelgrace2411
    @hazelgrace2411 Před měsícem

    I miss my father. He passed away in 2020. I have never been same without him. He was my best friend, my sunshine, my everything. Whenever I used to be sad he would gently stroke my head and always tell me not to worry, he's there for me. Its been tough since he's gone and now nobody consoles me when I cry or tell me not to worry and they are there for me. I miss him everyday. I wish I was not so alone.

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle Před 3 lety +114

    I thought that I would only feel lost and alone in my 20s, but just judging from people I've been talking to, I'm scared I will feel this my whole life

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před 3 lety +33

      You got this! You're not alone and I'm sure others in their 20s are feeling the same too.

    • @suzette810
      @suzette810 Před 3 lety +7

      It can come in waves at any age.

    • @spiritoftheforest6204
      @spiritoftheforest6204 Před 3 lety +6

      I'm 46 and feel lonelier than ever

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle Před 3 lety +2

      @@suzette810 sigh hopefully it's not as intense with age?

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle Před 3 lety +6

      @@spiritoftheforest6204 im really sorry to hear that :(

  • @davidl4781
    @davidl4781 Před 3 lety +49

    I'm tired of being left alone by people who I care about so much. I'm so disinterested in doing anything that used to make me feel good

    • @janewainaina9890
      @janewainaina9890 Před 3 lety +1

      I hope you will be okay❤️

    • @davidl4781
      @davidl4781 Před 3 lety +10

      @@janewainaina9890 It just hurts when you give alot and let people be a part of you only for them to leave and then you feel a part of you die.

    • @janewainaina9890
      @janewainaina9890 Před 3 lety

      @person is right

  • @dingdong1a_
    @dingdong1a_ Před rokem +4

    I'm tired of pretending to be strong enough to deal with all my problems alone. I have a loving family and a circle of good friends. But sometimes I just feel too lonely and good for nothing without even an explainable reason. I try to keep myself distracted but then the lack of productiveness again sucks me out. Thanks for this video. Idk the thought of me not being alone makes me feel better ig?

    • @jerryled
      @jerryled Před rokem

      I understand, My situation was exactly like yours for the last 9 months. The thing that's different now is I recently cried, accepted the fact I'm broken and I'm not strong on my own and the events that happened to me last year hurt. Though my physical circumstances haven't changed yet, I feel like I'm slowly beginning to heal on the inside.

    • @dingdong1a_
      @dingdong1a_ Před rokem

      @@jerryled 2023 may heal us all. And we may stop pretending to be strong.

  • @AshaSingh-dr2fd
    @AshaSingh-dr2fd Před rokem +1

    The way you speak sounded very caring and just like a loving friend (which i don't have) make me broked into tears and the comments gave me a feeling that i am not the only one

  • @yeongweunbi
    @yeongweunbi Před 3 lety +92

    (nobody will probably see or even try to read this but i'll leave them here anyway)
    been having a really hard time these past few months. i'm barely hanging tbh. a few weeks ago, i really thought i was getting better, but as usual, i got lost again. it's honestly becoming exhausting. sometimes i feel like i'm in a never-ending loop of false hopes, impending dooms, and complete misery. no matter how much i try to step forward, life (and more often than not, myself) always finds a way to screw things up and drag me all the way back to where i started. sometimes, i feel like i'm literally losing myself to the point of becoming either numb or insane. i feel so lost and helpless to the point that i literally don't know what to do with myself and this miserable life anymore. i honestly keep thinking that i should just take my own life and all the pain away with it (though, frankly, it's been like that for 4 years so it's kind of a routine for me already - it just got significantly worse this year). luckily, this video came just right on time. psych2go somehow always knows just what i and many others need at the moment. this channel is truthfully one of the very few things that shows me there's still hope for someone like me. i know there's still a _very long_ way to go, and i'll probably get tired of trying to move forward again at some point - but maybe, _just maybe,_ after all of this, it will truly be worth it. i've been through so much after all - why would i give it all up after surviving so much already? it may seem impossible to me right now, but if there's a small chance that i'll find happiness after this, then maybe i will keep trying over and over again 'til things finally get better (and hopefully, they do).
    i genuinely wish the best for everyone else who's going through a hard time as well. i know the hardships we're experiencing are different from one another, but regardless of that, i hope we can all get through them together. even if i often deny it, I AM LOVED and SO ARE YOU. there are people who deeply cares about us so even if we think it's pointless to fight for ourselves, then let's fight for them. this is probably too hypocritical for me to say, but don't give up just yet. life has so much more to offer than this pain and conflict we're dealing with. all we have to do is be brave enough to get through them in order to truly see and experience the beauty of life. let's all fight through this together, okay?
    p.s. you will probably never see this, but thank you for all the help you have given us, psych2go. we appreciate everything you do and the sincerity behind your videos. whatever happens to me in the future, just know that i, among many other people, will always be grateful for your help. you're a beacon of hope to many people so please continue to help others with your videos. once again, from the bottom of our hearts, thank you

    • @dhwjhfjwkhikf
      @dhwjhfjwkhikf Před 3 lety +4

      i don't want to leave you alone even if I'm insignificant :(
      you can text me in ig if you want, maybe we can make company to each other
      @bici.uwu

    • @sarapecha8297
      @sarapecha8297 Před 3 lety +2

      This helped me so much, thank you.

    • @someone1877
      @someone1877 Před 3 lety +2

      Aww! You're so thoughtful! Thank u! This definately brought a smile on my face! So glad that there are people like this in the world. Thanks sweety! 😊

    • @johndouglas708
      @johndouglas708 Před 3 lety +2

      Your heart is broken but your soul is strong. If we all met you, we would love you. Peace 💚

    • @gelia5383
      @gelia5383 Před 3 lety +2

      Here is some love for you 💕💕💕😘😘😘
      Hang in there sweetheart

  • @kimberlygibson5192
    @kimberlygibson5192 Před 2 lety +69

    I feel so alone. I see everyone around me so happy with where their lives are at and I'm just sitting in my room being envious of their lives.

    • @PsychoAuthorIX
      @PsychoAuthorIX Před rokem +7

      Same. I am jealous of people who have friends tbh

    • @newkindage
      @newkindage Před rokem +4

      Everyone feels sad sometimes. No one can always be happy. Because life needs to balance. Keep searching for your calling my friend. Keep going. Don't give up if you don't believe in yourself. Because I do. I believe in you. You won't feel lost forever. Just take it one day at a time. You're going to be okay. I love you sweet soul.

    • @legendaryiguess
      @legendaryiguess Před rokem +6

      Jealousy is the main reason I feel this way also.

  • @kaede4327
    @kaede4327 Před rokem +2

    When I'm feeling lonely I want someone to talk it out. I want to talk with my family but, thinking that they will only say "wtf are u even saying do your homworks" :) and even though I want to talk it out with my friend (I only have one lol) she always come reply back and say "😢 im here for you bestie, i've been like that in the past-" then in the end I will be the one confronting her. So I dont even bother talking about my problems with her. But she's a cool person, it just feels like I've had enough. Even tho when she havw a problem she got so maaanny people to talk it out but she always pick me because I'm good at confronting ppl :'). And it just actually feels like she's out of my league to ever talk my problems with her.
    I dont know whats going on with my life anymore

  • @bloxmaker5900
    @bloxmaker5900 Před rokem

    I feel like I should be happy now that I'm figuring my life out, but I'm still not over trauma and am finally making a case for my own mental health by going to a doctor. I've just been silently suffering hoping I'll be able to ignore the constant fear and be happy. But now that I'm finally getting the chance of people listening to the darkest parts of my mind and doing something rash about it, it makes me feel like I could be living a much happier life. I don't deserve to make myself miserable from negative self talk, PTSD, or other people. Thank you for making this video.

  • @pinkforeverlove1
    @pinkforeverlove1 Před 2 lety +216

    I cried through this whole thing. She sounded like a caring friend. A loving friend. And it gave me a little hope

    • @emiln3340
      @emiln3340 Před 2 lety +2

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @shootingsmilla1239
      @shootingsmilla1239 Před 8 měsíci

      My closets friend replaced me with my ex friend, and now I don’t know who to trust anymore

  • @cannedbread9214
    @cannedbread9214 Před 3 lety +150

    I hope all of you are doing well. None of you deserve to feel sad, alone, or any negative thoughts. All of you are worth it. I know this probably doesnt help, and sometimes being told "it will get better" over and over just doesnt mean anything to you. But i really want you all to feel better. I know, life is really unfair. But we are still here. You are more strong, beautiful, talented, lovable, smart, important, and wonderful than you could ever realize. I know how you feel. When you feel alone, it feels like nobody ever has or ever will love you. Like you could leave and no one would care. Like theres no point in even living. But i can assure you that all of that is False. Lots of people love you and you will meet more people that will love you. If you were gone, tons of people would miss you. There are so many amazing things to live for. Even when it doesnt seem like it. Try to think of all the things to love. I bet you cant, because theres too many things to love to recall everything. Why dont i go over some to help you think?
    Theres eating so much candy, you feel sick, but your sitting there thinking "it was worth it". Theres the happy yet confused feelings you go through from your first crush. There are those news stories of animals getting rescued. Theres laying around enjoying yourself, knowing you dont have to do anything today. Theres finding a new tv show and getting hooked. There is beating your family at a game. There are inside jokes between you and a friend that nobody else understands. There's your favorite food that you could eat every day for weeks. Theres drinking a refreshing cold beverage after being in the hot sun. There is your favorite song that you listen to on repeat. Theres funny videos of cats and dogs. And the best thing to love about this world is YOU and the fact that you are here The universe would not be the same without you. Sometimes you forget that. Now, if you want, tell me some things you are grateful for that you thought of. It might be a good idea to think of something positive
    And i want to thank all of you. This video and every comment made me cry, knowing that im not alone, that other people are going through the same thing, and that people want people like us to be happy. It just makes me feel wonderful. I love you all and have a good day. Just remember that you are awesome. I hope i helped you smile.

    • @dusky._.milkywayim16
      @dusky._.milkywayim16 Před 3 lety +2

      I'm fat though

    • @pqwmxxa3743
      @pqwmxxa3743 Před 3 lety +2

      Thanks

    • @anakhaangelineanilesh1994
      @anakhaangelineanilesh1994 Před 3 lety

      Thank you so much. It was beautiful ❤

    • @whateverthisis1846
      @whateverthisis1846 Před 3 lety

      Thank you! I needed this. And I just wanted to ask a question if you ever see this again.
      Is it weird to think of yourself writing a will and imagining what it would say?
      I’m only asking since I get a lot of thoughts like this, similar, but none the same.

    • @keegabpshifter1907
      @keegabpshifter1907 Před 3 lety +3

      @dusky._.milkyway
      Just because your fat doesn't mean anythung, I can still enjoy all of these things and have fun, or at least have some happy memories in ur life, right?
      Sorry if this was offending or hurt feelings, if it was I didn't mean it and again, srry

  • @mikey5812
    @mikey5812 Před 2 měsíci

    I did the best i could. Came from a dysfunctional family with a domineering father. Worked my way out of it despite social anxiety. Ended up in a good job. Brought my parents on holidays and looked after them as best i could but still stood up to my father. He did not like that.My only sister did nothing, hung around my parents, had a failed marrage and when my mother died, moved into our family home to 'look after dad'. She got the house and all my fathers money. I was disinherited. I had a car crash and now can hardly walk. Im still hobbling into work and have a mortgage, 3 kids. Im in pain, im scared, i feel alone and unloved by my dead parents. I feel ive been to blame for everything. I feel alone. I have to keep going. Im 52.

  • @Mr.pheonix112
    @Mr.pheonix112 Před rokem +1

    it's 3 a.m. ..idk how to express my feelings or my thoughts but the main thing is I'm tired... literally I'm ... family problems, study pressure, overthinking, Loneliness, regret, break up pain, results tention , mental issues, health problems and Literally no one to share in this freaking world..... crying, regretting, absorbing the pain,...now i just totally fuckd up with the things....!! Idk what to do right now!! completely abandoned in a sea of nothing 💀!