Watch This If You Feel Unlovable!
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- čas přidán 15. 06. 2024
- Have you ever felt unlovable? Maybe it’s a sinking feeling in your stomach when you’re alone or whispers you can’t shake from that voice in your head. We want you to know that you are loveable and that sometimes negative thoughts have the power to overtake us and distort reality. Here are things to remember if you feel unlovable.
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It’s hard to practice self love when everyone around you seems to dislike or ignore you
Honey ik it's hard but you try your best to focus on yourself
Ignore them back and be confident and rise like a phoenix
I feel the same
After 58 years of having it proven to me over and over again that I am unlovable I’m not prepare to be hoodwinked any longer. You wouldn’t refute a scientific study after 58 years of evidence would you?
@@MsDamosmum Same, 40 years of experience.
Same 😢
Something some people doesn't understand is that it's hard to love yourself when you feel unlovable
The way I often put it is this: "If value is dictated by what someone is willing to give for it, and no one is willing to give anything to have me, then I must have no inherent value. And if no one else wants me or my life, why should I?"
true.
😮해서ㅐㅜ허ㅐㅓㅏㅐㅝ해ㅔㅙㅔ
Yes and I deal with this everyday of every second including now. 😢
Well think about why u feel unlovable, is it because u dont like something about you or because the person you like doesnt like you?
In the first case find what you don't like about you and change it, but keep in mind it will take time, for me it was 2-3 years until I became someone I was proud of.
In the second case I'd rather cut the connection with that person, go trough the grief (witch I found inevitable) and do what u like until u are ready to love again. Keep in mind time heals everything even if it doesn't seem like it in the moment.
Loving yourself is hard and takes time, but its a jurney worth embarking on.
it hurts so bad every time someone says “remember people who love and care about you” and you’ve got no one to remember..
Maybe starting with the person that told you that.
Nobody loves me. Even my parents. They only like me if they need something. I’ve cut them off so I have no one. I’m single, tried to date but most men lost interest after only a a few text messages of hi, hello, how’s your day or weekend, never into deep or meaningful conversation. That’s beyond my control. I only have God to talk too. I hope he hears my prayers before I give up.
@@SeaBee1223 "Allah is the ally of those who believe. He brings them out from darknesses into the light"
Chapter: Al -Baqarah
Verse:257
"O you who have believed, seek help through patience and prayer. Indeed, Allah is with the patient"
Chapter:Al-Baqarah
Verse:153
"And be patient, for indeed, Allah does not allow to be lost the reward of those who do good"
Chapter: Hud
Verse: 115
"Peace be upon you for what you patiently endured. And excellent is the final home."
Chapter :Ar-Rad
Verse:24
"Whatever you have will end, but what Allah has is lasting. And We will surely give those who were patient their reward according to the best of what they used to do"
Chapter: An-nahl
Verse:96
From Holy Quran
And I hope I was able to help you, even if just a little
@@SeaBee1223 So sorry to hear that and yes, God is here for you always!
Hope things are better for you now...God Bless You!
@SeaBee1223 that's exactly how I feel @Seabee1223
I started to feel unlovable when I noticed "friend groups" or really groups in general seemed better when I wasn't around. It hurts to see a conversation between others thrive when you're not in it yourself but I feel like I interrupt the vibe so I keep quiet. I'm not sure if anyone else feels this way.
I feel this way
Every single day💔
Always felt this way ever since I was a child
It's pretty much how it always goes for me
Every single day. It almost feels like your watching things from the 3rd person or there but nobody notices
"The way people treat you is not a reflection of you." This is what I needed to hear. Thank you.
It's not a reflection of you, but that is the only thing that matters!Stop lying to yourself!
@@serban8298 Huh?
@astera Also true is that people treat you the way you allow them to treat you. This is especially true with friends and family.
Me too ..
@@juneroberts5305 Agree
The feeling like you're unloved makes you feel lonely since you isolate yourself due to feeling undeserving of being loved. It makes you afraid to socialize with friends and family because you feel unworthy of hanging out with them.👍
Shut up, that's not how it is.
@@Shushkin what’s wrong?😕
The walls that we build to protect ourselves and keep others out, often just end-up locking us in.
Yes. 💙
@@Shushkin You are worthy of love, dont let your fear and self inflicted shame define who you are.
Growing up being called ugly and having people put u down constantly makes me feel unloved
Same here...
Thanks to my parents who destroyed my confidence 😊
@@user-jw5bl9iu7n That's awful.
I wish I could give you a big hug, both of you.
@@thatETTYT hug is a big thing for me...
Nobody even makes eye contact with me...
I always get surprised when someone even speaks little nicely to me
4:28 I was holding all my depressive, hurtful, traumatic and negative emotions in throughout the video, until this moment. Then suddenly I burst into tears, bawling my eyes out here.. If you are reading this, and feeling low or depressed, please know that you are not alone and it is all going to be better... :')
I find it touching that despite being in despair and depressed, you still take the time to let us know that we are not alone in this. This just goes to show what a kind and compassionate person you are. I sincerely hope that whatever it is that is bringing you down will be taken out of your life.
same here friend. I know the answer lie on the relationship with a girl but its easy to say
You promise ?? 😢
My problem is that I don't believe it.
I feel so grateful to live in a time where this channel exists.
Me too I could not imagine being brainwashed by my dad without CZcams I will not be where I am in a better life
With a bit of mindset I forgot to write that
If this channel didn't exist, I would be dead by now
Same I'm in love with this CZcams channel
I feel grateful that we were able to meet at the right time.
I just wanna give everyone in this comment section a hug :(
*Hugs* Thank you.
🤗
Hugs🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗for everyone ♥️♥️♥️
@jyoti kumari np^^🌺
🤧 sorry I Cant
I’ve always felt unlovable, lonely. I’ve always seen myself as the lonely girl of the crowd. Because most people I loved, started to leave me by myself, and with no one else around me. This video helped me a bit, thanks for the help!
love you!
❤❤❤
Can you give your insta I'd
No matter how much i listen to this, i cant believe what they say is not just crap. Nothing makes me believe that i am loveable anymore.
Same
Same
Same
@@ashnicole9354 time heals that, really, now this comment from a year ago made me think how dumb i was to ever think it. Yes true, sometimes you really feel like that, but time heals
It's ok if nobody loves .love yourself be enough for you just think that people who don't love are idiots they just don't know how amazing you are have strong mentality I don't think you need anybody opinion upon you that how you are and how you have to be . If nobody is asking you ask yourself
As a child when you've always felt like nobody actually wants you and you're just a burden but you've always wanted to be loved 💔 now as a grown up your emotions are messed up.. You're afraid to trust people.. afraid to lose people.. Afraid to talk to people😂😂
😅💙💙💙💙
Saaame :(
I feel you :((
Yes I was the same since I grew up only with my short-tempered mother and was bullied in school. I suffered from depression for years because I felt unworthy, ugly and stupid, like a waste of space. When my husband left me, I just wanted to kill myself. But I put so much effort into loving myself, being proud, telling me I'm pretty even on my worst days and forgiving my past and recent mistakes. I've still got way to go but I tell you, it's such a better life. :D
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Psych2go is my best friend, they just don't know it yet
lol
Yes they do! Otherwise, they wouldn't make videos for us ☺
She
That's A FACT!!!!
Same
"Your flaws Don't define you" this line makes me calm now😌
Same
@@L0velyEla 🥺💜
Growing up thru middle school and high school I was often excluded from a lot of things, almost never invited anyhere, girls never talked to me (they always talked to my OLD friends) it just made me feel unwanted and made me question my whole appearance and question myself “like what’s wrong with me?!?” And now at 21 I see a lot of people my age falling in love and it looks nice and cool but I just can’t seem to start dating bc I feel so unworthy of love I just can’t see it happening to me I can’t see anybody falling in love with me I just can’t. Like I feel like people are disgusted by the way I look. So it’s just me and my dogs...
There’s a person out here for you man. I say you start just start working on loving yourself and be grateful. Then the only people you need in life will come just be patient. ❤️
@@chief8559 Dude don't have such thoughts! It's actually not funny to say to someone who is actually depressed. You are only encouraging him.
@@chief8559 it’s seeming more and more reasonable for me
@@Leydrich For me it did that for past year, right now I'm starting to plan it.
@@chief8559 czcams.com/video/gY1gnPpv3Zk/video.html
Why is it so hard for me to love myself? I am so tired of feeling so empty and alone.
start with music that you like,
Same here
@@DonovanAenslaed wow, this is good. Thanks.
You're not alone. I struggle with it too
@@amandaadrienne837 but you have no idea how lovable you might be in someone else's eyes !
It's not that I feel unlovable. It's more that if my loved ones need help or are feeling down, there are other people they'd rather turn to. I always say "I'm here if you need me". But whenever they do need someone it's never me. My friends do love me, they just don't need me. Maybe that hurts a little more than feeling unlovable?
There's another side to that. I was always the person people did turn to and, after a while, it felt like I was only valuable to them for what I could do for them and that they didn't really love or respect me for myself. Not to mention that I became burned out from helping others ahead of myself. These days, I try to remember that it doesn't mean anything about me one way or another whether people come to me for help or not. My value is intrinsic and unique, as is yours.
Interesting. I have the opposite problem. My loved ones will turn to me for help, talk, advice, guidance, assistance. But, following that....crickets. If I am not in touch with them to help them, they do not reach out to me. I am learning that I need to help myself first, it's ok to say no to loved ones asking for guidance, and to not expect "loved ones" to like you. That last one may sound nutty, but I think my loved ones love me, but there's little evidence that will ever translate to their spending time or energy with/for me. That just needs to be okay.
I understand where you're coming from. Balance is key, of course. It's nice to be the person people reach out to but it can be burdening if that's all they come to you for (usually this becomes the case). Work on yourself tremendously and set such an example that people do want to come to you. When this ensuites, be brave enough to set boundaries early on and stick to them.
My boundary is not allowing individuals to come to me with problems we've already spoken about. Your words are precious and if someone chooses to not listen to you but keeps complaining, they are not worthy of your help/advice
@@dolphin68ray I’m suffering this side currently. People turn to me when they need me. WHEN THEY NEED ME. When I need them, I become a inconvenience, like a ad on a interesting video. The thing is value and meaning are both intrinsic, yet what’s intrinsic somewhere along the lines became influenced by the outside world. And rediscovering it was always intrinsic and that the story I was telling myself was what was being hijacked by what I wanted from people. I guess I suffer my expectations to control the uncontrolled by being useful. I just have to see understand what I have control over and what I don’t and try to get my needs met with the information I’m getting from what’s hurting and making me feel lonely
Your comment really put my feelings into words. Since it was basically a one-way support system I felt as if i was just using them without beeing able to give back. The other comments in here really helped shining light on this topic from a different angle.
I guess my takeaway here is that if your friends enjoy spending time with you and do that reasonably often but choose not to involve you in emotional topics that does not mean they don't value your friendship. At the end of the day, a friendship has personal gains on both sides. For you it might be a crutch to sometimes lean on in hard times but for them, you are a person they appreciate to be around and just have fun with. So don't beat yourself up about that. They will either come to you when they think they/you are ready and if not, you can appreciate the fact that they love you for who you are, and not as an emotional outlet.
As someone who's been abused my whole life and is the family scapegoat, I often feel unlovable. All the time. Gonna save this vid for those times. Thank you!
just know that u were never second choice for God. He loves u so much and is waiting for you to come to Him with open arms.
It hurts when you feel unloved right? Yeah I know. It hurts when you don’t like yourself anymore, it hurts when you don’t have true friends, it hurts when you are not the first option to anyone, it hurts. It just hurts but it’s okay. Let’s give each other a virtual hug 😊❤️🥺🥺
I love you ❤️❤️ here's a tight hug 🤗🤗
I know how it feels
💜same to u!!!!
I just feel like my friends arent my friends anymore :(
More positivity to u ♥
Psych2go: "do you struggle with self love?"
Me: "what's self love?"
ME TOO
Its something everyone else has, that we didnt seem to get! LOL We been cheated!
Same :(:(:(
SAME OH MA GOD
Same lol
For anyone who feels like this and other videos doesn't help, like nothing will ever help: it's ok that you don't get better immediatly after watching this. The good thing about our situation is that we've already accomplished a lot by trying to figure ourselves out.
You may need to watch such videos a 100 times, until you see improvement. And that's ok, just don't stop.
It is also ok to feel down about you future from time to time. You won't feel like this forever. Hope this helps you ♥
Thank you for being here for those who have a chance to have a better existence. I'm 3 decades older, but for the younger, listen up ! Wish I had heard this when 18.
“Your flaws don’t define you”
Me, with not a single positive thing about me: Don’t do that. Don’t give me hope.
Same here buddy
Can I deduce a few? Tell me when I'm wrong:
1. You're humble
2. You wish good things for people around you
3. You can look inside to improve
4. You try your damnedest and when you fall sometimes, you get up and try to improve yourself again
5. You're caring
Even if you aren't, you deserve love and big hugs. Hang in there!
sometimes I feel like that too, but remember that you do have good qualities (: sometimes we just can't see them
Same :(
We are on the same boat...
me, feeling unloved
*slowly clicks*
lol same
So sorry 🥺
Hope you feel better with some endless number of virtual hugs ⊂((・▽・))⊃
Dude same
@@confuseddotcom
@Furrymation :P
@@adritabasu8790 thank you :D *virtual hugs you back*
all the videos of this channel are so good. the voice of the narrator is so much healing. it feels like someone is listening and talking to me. and giving me warm hug. thank you
I swear everytime I'm having a hard day this channel comes up with the perfect video for my situation, much love!
I constantly live in my imagination. It hurts to know that some of the best feelings and memories I have are the ones that happened in my head .
This hurts. I’m like that too. Some of the people I feel so close to aren’t even real. They are in my screen and my head.
That shit is so true dude 'I relate so much (if you read this comment pls comment back 'I wanna talk to you)
You're not alone it's same for me as well 😔😔
@@anjanachaudhary272 I know
You are beautiful and young. If you feel like that now that you have many opportunities... You are still in time to develop social skills. You have many opportunities everyday. Do it before it's too late. Don't run away from people and take advantage of the situation.
1. Love blossoms when you start loving yourself 0:54
2. Your brain latches on to negativity 1:34
3. Your flaws don't define you 2:12
4. Your mind is a great storyteller 2:52
5. Romatic relationships don't determine your worth or value 3:34
6. The way people treat you is not a reflection of you 4:24
I hope I could help :)
Thanks! ^^
How is this 4 days ago ._.
Welp, cant overcome #1 guess im truly unlovable
@@benthemother3fan884 EY NO
@@benthemother3fan884 I dont know how to help you but please try :(
This video made me cry a few times. Recently I've been under a lot of stress and pressure, so I my temper has been kinda short. I know that's not good at all and I'm praying and working on it. Nevertheless, it has happened enough to make me ashamed. But the encouragement in this video has helped so much. Reminding me that we are all imperfect and also the way a certain person treated me to cause me to get angry was not my fault. It's not my fault that they don't love and care for me the way I deserve. Thank you! I thank God for you.
Thanks for this, I've been experiencing an extreme distaste for myself as of late at the realisation that in all my past relationships I was being used as a means to get closer to someone else who they really wanted. It's been extremely crushing and has made me question my self worth numerous times. Thank you for putting this video out, it helped me somewhat.
been single for a while now. im in my mid 20s and all my friends are able to find someone easily. it does take a toll on you when you see people being able to live ur dream
Hi, we're on the same page lol
Try being single since birth :)
@@elizabethwakefield7003 been there, done that. 33 and never had a relationship, except for a couple of flings that lasted one or two weeks because she got bored of me fast. I'm at a point in life where people usually have found the right person. Almost all of my friends are in a relationship. But I never found even a wrong one, so seeing everyone around me having had so much experience makes me feel like there's something extremely wrong with me. Like I'm a defective product. I have to say though that I never put too much effort into finding someone. That's because I'm terrified of approaching and because there's tons of better options than me everywhere, so why should any girl be interested in me? It's gotten to a point where if I see a couple when I'm out of home, I strongly envy them because they have something I never had the joy to experience.
I feel u man. It seems like everyone around me finds someone but I can’t even though I’ve worked on myself and got in shape, and I take care of myself and have a good job but it doesn’t matter still, idk what my problem is
@@jacobdevries3567 I feel that. I do everything. Sport, diet, pretty makeup, pretty clothes... And I'm usually happy on my own and quite content with who and how I am. But then there are nights where I just cry, because I wish I knew what a relationship feels like. And I'm no even talking adult fun. Or an actual long-term relationship. I'd be just fine with half an hour of cuddeling and feeling loved. But it's just not happening. And I don't know why. I'm Pan for gods sake, so beeing picky isn't the issue, if you're nice and maybe funny and take a shower regularly you tick all the boxes, that's how low my bar is. And still I'm alone why all my friends had several relationships over time while also having a wayyyy higher bar and also less self-love.
This means there must be sth wrong with me right? Is it just because I'm an introvert and shy?
I HATE being ALONE.
Did you know that God loves you. You've probably heard that before but He really does. Did you know that even if you were the only person on earth Jesus would still come to die for you. You're wonderfully and fearfully made by Him that means that He carefully and distinctively made you. He cares for you and loves you and wants to have a relationship with you. Even if nobody like you or you have nobody at the moment you can have God and God is so gracious He will bring people who truly care for you to you. Believe Him, accept Him, trust Him. Praying for you Chadwick
i love being alone because i just cry and feel like no one loves me
@@cmr_77time and place. Read the room
@@Sjood-qs8ol he's just tryna help
@@cmr_77 Jesus is not a human
how can he love us when we can't love him 😭?
''Just love yourself bro'',it's easy to say that when you have a support network,but when you have literally nobody that cares about you it's impossible.
True :(
Agreed 😔
if you have online friends it might still work
Yea I know my parents love me and my family but I just feel like I annoy them and they always get mad at me for walking into the room or talking to them or asking them if they wanna do something I feel like they just don’t want me there sometimes, and that I am annoying, even though they say that they love me
Lately, I've been feeling down on myself and started to think that I am selfish and just a monster and that I was a jerk, but you guys telling me that I am human and we all make mistakes sometimes and we all are so growing really means a lot to me thank you very much. it's really helped me and now I know we all are human and we all make mistakes and it's never too late to start a new and whoever is feeling the same or may be reading this just know that you are loved, and we are all human and you're all unique, and it's never too late start again. It's okay to make mistakes. We are all so beautiful no matter what and it's okay to feel sad and down and normal to feel this way. Whatever you're going through gives me that it'll be okay, and I believe in you and I'm always here for you all many hugs and wonderful wishes to you all never give up.
This was beautiful. Thank you so much for the beautiful reminder ❤️
I always feel like crying because I feel like nobody loves me. 😞
Why can't anyone see that I'm not perfect and that I mess up sometimes?
If people can’t see that you mess up sometimes and you aren’t perfect then you don’t deserve them. We’re humans and humans make mistakes, everybody does we can’t help it. If people can’t realize that then I say get rid of them
@@ghstbys9189 yeah, you're right. Thanks!
You may not be perfect but I'm sure you are an amazing person
@@niamhs6042 thanks. Really appreciate it.
GOD LOVES YOU!!!We Love You All!!!
The moment yall said, "You're lovable." I started crying. This channel is amazing.
I’m not lovable
@@IrobtheCheaksLilBro I am sure you are
@@IrobtheCheaksLilBro same
@@IrobtheCheaksLilBro You are, you don't know it but you are
Same
Aside from the positive feeling that you gave me through this video, your voice is very refreshing and healing.
Thank you for making this video… I have depression and I have been having some tough times and everything is not going well. And what's worse is that I found that I don't actually have anyone to talk to or share my feelings with. I feel so lonely and pathetic cause none of my loved ones seems to care about what I feel or what I say, not even my family or friends. Sometimes I just feel so pathetic for not being loved, I know I should love myself but what if I am the only person who love me? I just want to be loved and cared about, but I am not sure if I am asking too much.
What makes you think your loved ones don't care about you? Have they told you that or do they show you with their actions?
U're so relatable when you say this
I know how you feel, man. I've felt that way for years.
Why does my chest feel painful when I feel alone? It's kinda hard to describe, or it's like that sinking feeling?
maybe ur scared when ur alone, i think it might be a scared feeling? hope this helps a little
Same :(
Oh i get you, it feels like somebody dropped my heart in water and i feel myself sinking, it is really a bad experience, and worse is that i almost experience it daily.
Mine more of a lonely feeling..I..guess I'm just feel like I need to love someone or be love by them to feel like..I exist or am needed..but these things take time and just as long we learn to 💗ourself I think that's most important..but there are some days..I get that lonely feeling..but it will be hang in there everyone and just enjoy being yourself.💗💖💕🌼🌸..am sorry i hope this helps a bit tho.😌🌸
I feel that too but i think it was more because i used to hit myself in the chest
“To practice self-love try writing down things you love about yourself and people in your life who love you”. And what if my self-esteem is so low that I just can’t find anything I love about myself? Not to mention people who love me, I just feel that they don’t exist and probably won’t be existing. People “love” me only when they need something from me and then they just disappear :(
:((( Hugs.
ME
I feel the exact same way. I can think of maybe 10 good things about myself.
This is so relatable..
I know this may come late and i dont know you but let me just say somethings, because maybe at least one of them is true. Its harder to find the cool and positive in yourself than others.
Maybe you:
Have a beatifull voice,
An interesting hair color,
Wonderfull eyes,
Maybe you can play an instrument,
Or are good with children or animals,
Maybe you are super smart about a supject like anime, biologie or idk.,
Maybe you make a cut esound when you sneeze...
Even if they dont sound that special they are positives.
Just watched it, after being crying. And made feel better. Thanks a lot ❤❤
Thank you for the last part. You might not even know how much you needed to hear something just until you do hear it. Thanks and I really love this channel, it's a real safe space❤
just this coming up on made me cry. How do people that don't even know me know me so well?
Yes they always make the best videos at the right time. Honestly it’s kinda creepy...
Because you are human and we are more alike than different. Take care of yourself friend. ❤
you're not alone :))
@@yuldelarapa6051 true. I'm here in South Africa and yet can relate to strangers out there.
Trying to raise my head when I am actually lonely and unloved is the main challenge of my life. I am perfectly aware I am facing a tsunami with my bare hands and I have no rational reason to think that my life will improve anytime soon (also because I am basically self-taught since I cannot afford to pay a psychotherapist). Despite everything I feel grateful to live in an era where internet allows me to find useful articles, blogs, videos, etc... "psych2go" is included naturally. That's it. I just wanted to say your hard work is really appreciated.
P.S. Sorry if my english is not the best, I'm not a native speaker. Greetings from Belgium
Are you Muslim?
@@alimunnaharsetu9415 I'm an atheist
@@Nabil_El_Mahfoudi --- Oh, I see!!! Then I did a mistake. Actually, your name looked more ARABIC type than DUTCH type. I am sorry as I assumed the wrong thought. Thank you very much for answering to me.
And your health insurance doesn't pay a psychotherapist? cuz in Germany they do
Your english is very good. I couldn't even tell you weren't a native speaker, other than the fact you write more formally than most native English speakers. - Love, an aspiring English teacher
Thank you for the great video! So relatable and helpful :) I hope you can make stickers or journals with these characters.
This video defines how I've felt ever since school started back up, hopalong...I nearly cried in class today when someone said this in exact words "Wow...you really have no one don't you?" During class all I do in my spare time is sit down and well...nothing else...its very lonely and now that people are even starting to say that about me is...heartbreaking...
Don’t let those people affect you. You are unique and you’ll not be alone. Try to find people that understand and appreciate you. I understand it’s hard, don’t give up.
Same I have no friends in school except maybe this 1 person in this one class
The only friend you really need is your self. So start being a real friend to yourself . Which means loving yourself in spite of what others may think of you because, just as this video states, no one knows the real you.The sensitive, sweet, caring person that you are inside. So just know this about yourself and it doesn’t matter what others think. I can tell you are a worthwhile person. 👍😉
You have to develoo your unique voice..be it stories, poem. Music or art..u have to learn how to express urself.. humans don't just communicate with spoken words. Find yours and do it . The right people will flock to you boy...do not worry . I have been there and got out of it
I feel you...one of my relatives out of nowhere asked "what's wrong with you". I was dumbfounded and didn't know how to answer that. He said that in such a teasing tone or maybe I just felt that. He even said " half of your mind in always somewhere else" and then let out a little laugh like he made the biggest joke ever.
"single for a while"; yeah, try decades. It's not just negative thoughts, it's a fact: never been, never will be!
Exactly, I'm single for 10 years now, it feels like I wasn't made for romantic relationships, I'm so sad 😢
☹️
@@bonda3rd150 that's literally the worst advice
@@bonda3rd150 It's fine to be nice, but empty platitudes that mean nothing add to the despair
Same here,it doesn't mean we are not worthy of love
Thank you for this….. I was in the start of a panic attack feeling alone and lonely from a bad break up where he said some things and a lot of stuff in my life has just been making me feel worthless like all my efforts and work have been for nothing just to be still stuck in the same situation for years….I struggle with self-deletion tendencies and have been really really working on myself or at least trying to but it’s hard to keep going when you feel alone and no progress, I searched for anything on the Internet to curb the bad thoughts and stop the cry and listening to this really did help a bit.❤
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I am so grateful for this video! I’m aromantic, and everyone around me acts like it’s a bad thing, so I’m so glad that they called out the fact being single doesn’t mean you’re not lovable. ❤️❤️❤️
The one I often forget, and it makes so much sense to hear others say it: "No one is entitled, for any reason, to treat you badly."
This person’s voice is like a warm hug 😌
The warm hug we all desperately need but won't actually receive.
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Just an actress used to lure you into this bs psych lecture.
This channel has gotten me through dark times. Much love
I’m so grateful to have a source of inspiration and motivation to help me get through tough times
if i “love myself” i feel selfish
Yeah I feel the same sometimes too😅😓
Dont feel selfish fell proud
Yes, and I feel like nobody will like me if I focus on myself.
It's all a question of good balance:
If you feel self love, you feel confident in yourself and in your capacity to tackle any life event you can experience.
But if you feel too much self love, you become narcissistic and self centered, which reflects negatively on you.
i was raised to think this way, maybe self-love isnt selfish
I just need *one* friend who i can trust to and tell my problems whenever i feel sad but i dont have anyone i can share my problems to
And that makes me sad that i have no friends and i think to myself "Am I that unloveable that people dont want to be friends with me"
That's not your problem. People are just more superficial and self-centered these days thanks to social media. "Likes," "Subscribes" and "Shares" and viral worth inflate people's egos. So it's not your fault that no one wants to listen to your problems, it's just that everybody these days are too into themselves to care about other people.
@@elsongs oh i didnt even know i commented this
Kinda awkward lmao but ty for ur comment
Yes I want to same thing too.
i have some friends that i think i can trust but i’m just really scared to talk to them about how i feel cause i just think that they will make fun of me or they just wont care or something
I’ll be your friend. I have Instagram and am nice to a lot of people :) I too feel the exact same way. Idk what’s wrong with me that people hate so much. All I wanna do is be nice to someone and them be nice to me
Thank you so much! Your videos help me so much
a lot of what you said made so much sense to me and made me realize that I need to get rid of the negative feelings and love myself as I am
I'm grateful this channel exists. I truly am. If I could, I'd give each and every person that works on this channel behind the scenes a big hug because I just feel so incomplete. You all are shedding light as to why I feel these emotions. And let's be honest. We could all use a hug every once in awhile. 😊
I agree 🤗
I ain't gonna lie chief, if I got a decent hug from anyone but my mom's at this point, I'll probably cry 😂
@Fenrir Who gon stop me? 🤨
You're not alone
What a timing. It’s my 21st birthday and I live in a very toxic family so I basically don’t have a birthday. At least the present that I bought myself made me feel a little better
Sonia Celine Happy Birthday!
Wish you all the best for the future.
@@17dbJohn thank you so so much!
Happy birthday 🎂 😁
@@morganator4874 thank you so much!! I appreciate you
@@avantika6077 ,Oh yes, Happy Birthday, Sonia Celine !!😇💖🌹🦋
I just want to tell you that your videos is a part of my day ❤ thank you for creating an amazing support for everyone like me who had struggled from mental health issues for years ❤ i love your channel and your videos so much .. thank you where ever you were right now !!!😊😊😊
I love ur channel u help to remind me of facts I already know about myself but periodically need to be reminded of ! Thank you for all you do and stay safe!❤
Yes the way people treat you is actually a reflection of them.
The second one hit the hardest for me.
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@@limitless7807 well except me i lost my feeling for love........
I’ve made too many damn mistakes in my life. As a teenager I f**ked up so much that I don’t think it’s even fixable. I was such a bad kid even before my teen years. I acted out because I hated my life and myself so I took it out on everything and everyone else.
I just love the lies you told me, thank you so much!
My grandad just passed away a few hours ago..I love him and miss him so much
I'm so sorry for your loss
I'm so sorry for your loss
M so sorry for your loss 💔
may he rest in peace, and i'm sorry for your loss stay strong ❤
May he rest in peace..
When all my crushes don’t reciprocate, 😞 but it doesn’t define who I am.
I recently had to go no contact with my bio family. I don’t have a partner, though all my abusive exes all do. I have been consistently mentally, physically and emotionally abused by many people, including the ones I had loved… it has taken me years, decades even, to reach a point where I am strong enough to love myself. Even after reaching that point I still have moments where I’m in a group of friends and I’m the only single person, or I like someone and then they ghost me or decide when it starts getting serious that they’re gonna bail out, and I think “there must be something wrong with me. I must be unlovable.”
Thanks for making this video. It helped me shut that voice up. You are right. Being abused doesn’t say anything about you. Being single doesn’t mean you are incapable of love or that you are unworthy of it.
Thank you ❤❤❤
This channel help me so much, in every moment when i feel sad or bad i watch this channel, IT makes magic
When I start feeling unlovable and lonely my brain tries so hard to convince myself that it's true and it turns into this massive complicated thing that I feel like I can't get out of... I like this video because it's so simple and short and it makes me feel like my worries aren't as deep (or real) as I feel that they are
I have that same problem and brain really takes negative bias and runs with it. This video is exactly what I need to break the cycle.
I get that. Fighting against thoughts is usually difficult because we approach it the wrong way. We just try to get rid of thoughts and that is just impossible. However we can transform them slowly so they become more positive and less overwhelming. Don't worry, you're fine and I love you even though I don't know you lol
To the ones who are watching this
I love you all...be strong be happy ❤😘
Ok 😐
Number #5 and #6 hits so hard. Thank God for this video
This channel saves me from depression.
Thank you!!
the timing of releasing this video scared me a bit because i was just telling a friend how i dont deserve to be loved. thanks psych2go for being here.
Love is the purest feeling that stems from the soul and is instinctively pure of human nature, this video is about signs someone really loves you 💛
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This is one of the channels I come to when I'm a sobbing mess and having breakdowns. Just your voice is enough to calm me a little inside. Thank you for helping me and so many ppl.
All I feel is shame, guilt, and self-loathing. I have been sober for over 30 years and I have nothing to show for it. I'm poor and unlovable. At 60, I've accomplished nothing. None of my dreams, not even the small ones, have come true. My family despises me. None of life's milestones have come my way. Didn't graduate from college, never married, no children, no career, no significant other, never traveled. Nothing but crappy apartments, beater cars, ratty clothes. There is no joy, beauty, or hope in my life. At my age there isn't anything good on the horizon, as the horizon is severely diminished. If I don't muster the courage to kill myself, I'm certain I will rot away in some state-run nursing home. I will die unloved and unmourned.
Sooo sooo true . Thank you. I needed this
Those last two points really hit close to home. Seems like I'm always fighting to have the same chance society gets with dating and then as much love as some express toward me, I'm constantly disliked for my age or general difficulty in a short conversation. Really just don't feel like I belong here sometimes.
Ever since my breakup, I’ve been scared that no one will ever love me again. :( that relationship was the only time I’ve ever felt love in my life, and I don’t know how to love myself. I’m so stressed.
I haven’t even been on one relationship lol
@@FirstLast-ut2bk well if there’s one thing I would tell you, it’s that what’s yours will always find you. Maybe you have to just wait :)
@Abigail I'm in the same situation as you, went through a break up with someone who told me lies from the very start. When I found out and confronted him he became verbally abusive and threatened me. I'm not good with self love anyway and even find it hard to give myself a pamper day as I feel like I'm not worthy of it. Or I shouldn't wear all my nice perfumes because there not ment for but I like them. I hope you'll be ok. Stay strong. I hope there's gentlemen out there somewhere.
Same:(( he cheated on me. I really really really loved him. I don't understand why things just don't go well for me. It hurts a lot. I feel very hard to love, I feel that maybe I should convince myself that I don't want or need to be loved and hugged and kissed, and just be alone. It's been 6 months and I'm scared for my sanity lol I've been crying every day since that day
After my breakup, I thought I was a hard one to be loved. But in due course seeing girls in my circle who are harder than me, have found their guys and are happily together. This makes me feel unlovable. It's been 8 since my last break-up. And guys approach me for just time pass companionship and nobody ever wanted me for life.
Thank you, especially reason #6, I'm healing a lot from my past by going through a lot, and I needed such reassurance.
Cheers to everyone on the path of healing, love and hugs to you all 💝💝💝🌟💟
Thank you, the last point brought me to tears here 20 years old and at work. I had been feeling so down, everytime someone left me out wondering what's wrong with me and dissecting every part of myself. Convincing myself I deserved getting yelled at and deserved abuse from my dad. Thinking I deserved to get bullied for being quiet and trying to "fix" myself by putting myself down and feeling completely useless. The last point meant alot and changed the way I think about all these things.
”You don't need alot of friends, you just need the good ones.”
-XXXTENTATION
Rest in piece😭❤️
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@@mintyminxduo your sentence is worst than my life.
@@Crocshurr indeed
@@mintyminxduo lmao I was just joking sorry
Thing 1: No matter what happens, Minecraft will still love you
I- ✨yes✨
Yes you helped me so much
Amen. You'll always have the villagers
Yeah
Yes.
The video was great, and I always feel like this and I try my best to change my mindset that I am loveable and worthy.
This is just what I needed to hear thank you!
I love this channel so much. Tbh, I’ve been feeling alone and unlovable for the past couple of years. Now that I’ve been out of school for a few months now, it’s gotten better and worse.
Anyway, my point is that watching this channel has put everything in a better perspective in how I’m feeling. I can better understand what it is that I’m feeling, and know that I’m not alone. Thank you, Psych2Go. Much love ❤️
Thanks, I was feeling very alone. This helped a lot.
Love is the purest feeling that stems from the soul and is instinctively pure of human nature, this video is about signs someone really loves you 💛
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I don't know u but go watch the one that says how to deal with loneliness and read the longest comment.
I loved this video so much! Thank you ❤
Sometimes ur the only thing that helps be feel better and for that I’m grateful 💗 I hope u have someone that is there for u when ur down u deserve that
I'm so happy to watch this, I literally cried! Thank you so much for your support and helping us to understand that life isn't that complicated
You got an Angel's voice!
You can just heal hearts with your voice alone❤️
Love is the purest feeling that stems from the soul and is instinctively pure of human nature, this video is about signs someone really loves you 💛
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Thank you… I needed this. My sister makes me feel like I’m not loved at all. But, now I know I’m not alone, because i have family and friends…
you have no idea how much this has helped me thank you so much espieally about getting help with family. they had no clue
Thank you from the bottom of my heart and the depths of my soul for posting this. I really needed to hear this. Number six was exactly how I was feeling put into words. I can't thank you all enough.
#1: Love blossoms when you start loving yourself (0:57)
#2: Your brain latches onto negativity (1:34)
#3: Your flaws don't define you (2:13)
#4: Your mind is a great storyteller (2:53)
#5: Romantic relationships don't determine your worth or value (3:35)
#6: The way people treat you is not a reflection of you (4:25)
hope you all have a good day!
Thank you.
Excellent video! Love this channel ❤
Thank you. You people are angels
Thank you Psych to Go for making me feel so much better after a huge mental breakdown. I love you guys ❤️
"Romantic relationships do not determine your worth or your value" This actually needs to be told to some people in relationships. I have known so many people who are nice single then when together suddenly certain people are not good enough for them and they spend a lot more time criticising and complaining about others then they ever did before.