How Do I Find The Right Person For Me?
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- čas přidán 19. 09. 2018
- If you're looking for your soulmate, this video is a must-watch. Sadhguru offers some much need clarity on this sticky topic!
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“The first thing to see is ‘Am I the Right Person?’ “ So true. Great words of wisdom
But then you won't know because there is no such thing as a Right Person.
Everyone in this world isn't perfect
Thanks for tgat sharp cut keen view
I will recommend you to this powerful man who help me bring back my ex husband back within 24hours and Loved me More than ever am so grateful to him and he can help you to get a soulmate
@@loyaroki285 a
I want sadhguru to be my grandpa 😍❤
Hahaha 😂😂
Ha ha ..I want to be a guru for surguru
😛😂😛😂
@@Trader.Kamalakkannan hahahahaha nonsence
@@ayushnair1236 what u find nonsense in this!!
how he laughs at his own jokes XD love you sadhguru
Swag😎😎
Naaah, kids are laughing too, but in a less expressive way, out of modesty.
Same for me
😂😂😂
You need 1000 births to understand that
If Sadhguru were a student, he would answer a multiple choice question and then explain his answer by writing an essay.
🤣🤣🤣 i am student and this is relateable 🤣🤣🤣
But he would be only student to get full marks in an essay😂
hahaha.. true! and teacher will give him essay question marks!! haha
I have to listen to this once every week so i dont mess her up with my "unrealistic" expectations ! 😂🙏
Edit: 27 Jan 2021: Wow.. had no idea this comment would have blown up this much.. perhaps i have not watched it every week but i certainly have been looking at "am i being right person" every now and then..
For those curious ! - yes , infact it so happens that i am getting married to her next week! :)
Edit: 17 Feb 2022: We just celebrated our 1 year wedding anniversary! And We spent so much quality time together and traveled to mountains and south and doing yoga together. And the question of "Am I being the right person for her?" is very much alive.. And the love I receive from her, I can safely say, she is keeping that question alive as well! Cheers to everyone! See you all in a year or 2 or 10! :)
haahahaahah! Likewise! :)))))
enhance d period of listening 4m once a week 2 say, daily. Within a short period u come to realize what is 'realistic'. remainder is mere expectations 4m u r soul mate/ Gf. Then do a combination of listening & meditative practise, this will eradicate d balance expectations. With expectations gone d way it ought 2 b. unrealistic material desires may also dwindle. Finally u find that u r d original being, d self, peaceful, powerful, fearlessetc. bodily asscociated demonistic features will go out of the stadium for a huge 6.
Relatable!
Santhanam Sridharan lol this !!!
...said a wise man.
“There is no right person on this planet, if you put your heart into sth, sth may become wonderful”
It's all relative, guys. Don't settle for extremes. There are wrong persons for you. Even if you put your heart into them, it wouldn't lead to anything beautiful. Don't waste your precious life with a terrible mismatch when you could have made a real difference to someone else.
@@TheJenniferKK yaaas
Amazing
@@TheJenniferKK Beautifully said!💕
@@TheJenniferKK exactly I was wondering and no one was saying . I wasted so much of my precious time for someone who just moved on with someone else .
It may sound silly at first, but after this video I feel so much relieved and content. Life isn't about finding that perfect "one and only", it's about living to the full and making sure you evolve. Good things will find a way to come to you. I am happy to finally understand this
The thing is that relationships exist from an emotional to a soul level for helping you evolve more as a life on this planet. You are already complete. Soul love does not mean that there is an exact copy of you, it just means you love that person for who he or she is.
He’s so right... the less family get involved the better!
Because of this comment, I understood what he meant. Thank you
Yes!
Family and friends 🙄🙄🙄🙄
True. And a people who rely on their family for everything, I avoid.
‘There is no right person that you should keep on waiting for yourself. Be the right person. Be the wonderful person. Be the happy person that everybody wants to be with you, then there’s a choice’
Quoted this for myself to remind me everytime what I have to do when I get needy emotionally.
🙏🏾🙏🏾thank you
Thank you sadhguru.
NAMASTE ❤🙏💙
bravo ,brave brother ,great thinking ,cgo ahead ,keep it up.
You are so right
"God made one more person just for you ... nowadays every two years he is making one more person just for you" 😂🤣🤣
Sadhguru we love you ❤️🔥
❤😂
The soul is your mate n i.e soulmate .end of story 😇
U cannot differentiate soul from the u so it cannot be ur soul mate soul is u
@@jaybaragade3373 soul is ur mate it means u r ur mate ok ur friend is ur soul .thats it.
Somehow,true..😑
Nice combo 👍
Not a satisfying answer
We search outside because we are insufficient. Try yoga to make your selves sufficient🙏 Sadhguru 😇
So true.. Self Sufficiency needs striving ❤️🙏
For me, a soul mate is not someone who walks into your life whenever you needed them, or the ones only give you laughter, nor the ones that makes you happy every now and then, but someone, someone who is there when you are sad, when you are down and when you are having the most difficult times of your life but they will just be there until you pick yourself up. I wish one day I would tell the one I love, tell her that, "Thank you for having me in your life; because you are here, so I am here.
😊😢
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I like that!
I agree
And thats what we mean by Soulmates not that we expect the other to be perfect
And some if us find much it later not at 20 good so
Many of us are raised well and live with our Parents and are taught values we are not all Running around
My Parents were "Soul mates"
😭😭😭😭
For me sadhguru is a source of inspiration and knowledge . Whatever he talks about and the way he talks about is full of positive vibes !!! you wont even get bored listening him .... love from Honkong guruji !!
Very true
Right? Theres not even a music at the background to keep you hooked to the vid but still, you want to stay as long as it goes... This dudes great
Make gurujii famous in ur area.....and find blessing for ur peoole
It's very easy for sadguru to bring back the lost smile on my face
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"Am I the right person?" I will ask this question to me everyday
Best comment on here♡
What he said is beautifully explained in detail in his book Life and Death in one breathe.
Thank you sadhguru for making my day !
How is the book?? I only read inner engineering and its fantastic.. I would love to buy this book stated by u.. Actually every book written by Sadhguru would be fantastic..
Shivangi You are beautiful
Hieee
Thankyou for this comment shivangi.
looks like a lot of these guys think you're their soul mate.
"if you put your heart into something, that something becomes wonderful." enough said. :-D
For me a soulmate or a compatible partner is someone you can respect and appreciate as a person. And he/she accepts and respects you as you are. Both should have their own space to grow into what they want to. It is a process of give and take. But before looking for a soulmate one needs to know your own self and what really makes you happy.
There is no soul mate
juan oleee i beg the different
juan oleee there is twin flame tho
true
It is always easier said than done
"Am I the right person"
Most valuable words
This man has changed my life in a positive way. I'm always amazed at how much wisdom Sadhguru possess.
Two perfect people can't be together so long. They will be separated themselves.. sometimes and somewhere we need a imperfection to balance each..!!
You cant generalize it. You are saying it based on your experience of life.
Very true. If our partners were perfect, we'd subconsciously feel that we have nothing to contribute, that they don't need us. And we'd start looking for or dreaming of someone who'd need us, because that way we'd know our life served a purpose.
I wasn’t planning on writing this but reading some of the comments made we want to do this. I am letting the universe take all the negative energy around me and replace it with positive energy. If you are reading this I wish the same for you
We never found right person we only find better person 😊
Wow... "There is no right person on this planet"!!! Stunned by this basic reality. Sadhguru🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💐
Truely no one is there even we also ...
@@lakshmiprasanna4906 hello friend
I always was brainwashed into thinking there is someone who will match with what I am. I now realise that I don't necessarily need anyone else.
Now I'm happy by myself.
Everything we need is within ourself.
We are the source of creation. Just look into yourself and understand your soul
instead of finding a mate for it.
Love to Sadhguru. Love to sweet beautifull Bharat. From México 🏵️💜🏵️
Gracias, amigo :)
Greetings to you too 🙏🙏
Sergio Chavez Give him an Ole!
n welcomes from us dear..
"If you invest a deep sense of involvement, something wonderful may happen. it's because of your involvement."
You are making life more easier and beautiful. I'm a relaxed persion and becoming more stable day by day.
💙💙
@@rockybalboa1814 hey don't insult him. Sadhguru teaches practically everything not according to the religions. Atleast this person opened his mind to see it. That's the biggest step he ever took.
Hats of to you bro !!!
This was so well explained for all the hype about "Soulmates" Be your own soulmate first and foremost.........!
A tremendous smile with tears in the eyes rolling down the face 😍
Sadhguruuu 😍
How can a person be a pro in every thing😱🧡
He is just amazing🌸🌸
After becoming a complete person yourself. The choice is still important. you cannot just choose any nasty fellow and think that "I will put my heart and soul in it to make it wonderful." That is pretty unrealistic.
There may not be any "soulmate" so to speak. But there is always a person who is a "True Friend and Confidant" and there is the person who is just there to drag you down psychologically without any understanding.
And it is only rational to put your energies into the first kind of person. Then I don't know about a "Soul" but you can definitely end up with a good mate and have a life time partnership.
Regards.
Nice thinking.......😊😊
On point!
Very well said!
Wrong. Looks like you missed the whole point of Sadhguru's talk. The whole concept of "nasty", "drag you down", etc are constructs within you. No one can drag you down unless you let them. Besides, he also says that if you work on yourself first, perfecting your own sense of joy, good things will automatically be drawn to you. This makes sense, because as the old saying goes, "What we dislike about others or find nasty in them is actually what we hate in ourselves". 🙂
Janta Janardhan That is just ignorance. The world doesn’t work like that. Period. To think that other people can’t drag you down is absolutely ignorant. Have you ever heard of an abusive relationship? And to think that if you do good, good things will come to you is simply magical thinking. No, you cannot control the universe; bad things can happen to anyone. That being said, the more you know and respect yourself, the better your decisions will be, thus perhaps “bringing” good things into your life.
His laughter in and of itself points to his wisdom.
he is really so sorted...everything is just so peaceful around this man .
I am proud to be his disciple
Sadhguru. U r an amazing person. I was so broken mentally, emotionally but by hearing ur words I m so blessed and happy and feeling myself free from everything..
long live Sadhguru!
I can't believe Sadhguru has never experienced love, that is your true souldmate
I believe that what should be similar between two people who are in a relationships are their values ( key elements of Life) : empathy, sense of justice, respect, humility.. to name a few. A foundation for a wholesome, sustainable partnership.
I also believe the same thing. The core values should be very similar. That way, the foundation for the bond would be strong.
265 dislikes by those people who believed in soul mate..😂😂😂
they are so un spiritualized inst so?
What's about the people who loves at first sight and think about made of each other .
Only spiritual person can understand & believe in soulmates.....ordinary people can't understand about thisss..... It's a great experience of true love which comes from heart deeply.....
@@nivishanova1140 indeed thats the point.....whenever nobody suffers ,..never understand its existance in soul.
Nice u explained.
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I come from eastern part of Africa and this message has helped me a lot so have all the rest of your videos..GOD bless you abundantly
I have an opinion that i want to express and share with you all in the comments.
Guru said that its good to be with someone who is different from you. But i think that, on the long run, something that keeps the relationship going till the end of the time is actually someone who is as much as same as you. The Pros of differences are that at the beggining you are experiencing something new and you are excited. Cons is that after some time all of that excitement fades away and you are stuck with someone who you don't understand and vice versa. You don't get along anymore, you don't share the same interest and you definitely don't have the similar mindset. All of the details about them that you found exciting is no longer there and it becomes to bug you. They say "differences attract each other" but differences have a different paths and destiny. They say that you can learn from differences but thats not true. If you are working on yourself everyday you will be better than your different other and you will learn nothing from them if they are not working on themselves. The best way is to GROW with someone similar to you because you will grow in the same way. And as i said, differences will grow in opposite way.
Thank you.
Thanks Bro
Sadguru gives speeches in a way which no one could give ever. Great respect to him🙏
Everytime when i hear sadhguru his advice i felt..he embrace me with a wide open arm...i wish you alot sadhguro..gobless and god gives you more and more and more strength.takecare always
The notification came on the right time! I needed this!! What a coincidence! Thank you Sadhguru.🙏 Felt like "Yes! This is what I wanted; the whole explanation was for me."
The best one till now !!!
we need a sadhguru in every family
Thinking that there is one perfect person or soulmate is silly. The problem with that is we are all imperfect and just trying our best to make it through this life. For a great relationship it takes two people who are willing to admit that they both have imperfections. Nothing in life is perfect, we need challenges, otherwise it would get kinda boring.
Om namha Shiva
Jai Sadhguru
Great wisdom
Ohh sadhguru, u really must have saved and changed millions of life right now on earth 🌍❤️ thanks sadhguru for making my life is wonderful 😊 beautiful ❤️😍
I remember Chandler from F.R.I.E.N.D.S. once got into thinking about Monica having a soulmate Don but her reply to Chandler was heart touching, “We fell in love and we work hard at our relationship. Some Days we work even harder."
It was their involvement with each other that made their relationship going great.
Thank You Sadhguru. ☺️
I was thinking about Mondler too
@@monikabarman4283 😂😂
You yourself are the real soulmate....!!
In this entire world, souls anyways never “mate”, this’ a requirement of the Physical Being. If one introspects into the soul and is able to understand himself and the purpose of life - he’s found the “Soulmate = Solemate”
Perfectly described by Sadhguru - you won’t be able to handle another of your kind....
My thoughts on soulmates:
You are born complete and there are no missing parts that you need to seek in your life. We often lose our way believing we are incomplete till we find this soulmate. When we die our mind, body and soul remains on earth and with the person we love but our soul will return to its creator. Seek the connection with him to be complete. God is your soulmate.
Whichever questions has been ask to sadhguru , he always gives satisfactory answer to those question and you get convinced with those answer , that's why I love to watch Sadhgurus speech 🙂🙂
Sadhguru is brimmed up with consciousness
He speaks light into the universe. ❤️
I say be your O-W-N- Soulmate first!!
I love this guys voice!! So calming n chill
Sir...........I am feeling great that I am finding a great mentor like u ....
He looks like a young person pretending to be old lol
Wah wah well said
Sooo truee
Same thought
Think soo
Yes I thought many times lol
*Nobody is like you sadhguru*
Probably you ar not ,but all of them liking him a lot
Funny... everybody is unique... nobody is like you too..
everybody likes him😎
My gf said we sre soul mates.. I told her the samr answer but better...i guess im mkre advanced thsn sad gur
Then someone should try me hahaha
It’s the difference that keeps tangled..... BEAUTIFUL
Just found this person...it was great listening to you...there definitely is no right person...we can only work on and build a relationship..it all depends on the effort
Priceless knowledge thank you Sadhguru 🙏
The whole concept of "compatibility" is an internal construct. No one can drag you down or raise you up unless you let them. Besides, if you work on yourself first, perfecting your own sense of joy, good things will automatically be drawn to you. This makes sense, because as the old saying goes, "What we dislike about others or find nasty in them is actually what we hate in ourselves". 🙂
Compatibility is not just about whether someone (tries to) drag you down or lift you up. It's about sharing common goals and values. It's about making the most of your life and talents by picking someone to whom you can make a real difference, given his/her strengths and weaknesses.
Ancora che parli stai zitto
@@TheJenniferKK Actually, the whole point that Sadhguru is trying to make, especially in some of his other videos, is that you share common values with not just every other human, but all other life on the planet. You DO NOT make the most of your life by "picking" the right person - you make the most of it by enhancing YOUR OWN consciousness. In an ideal world, the perfect human being could find a "soulmate" in his greatest enemy as well. Again, the answer lies WITHIN, not without.
@@JuntaJanardhan No. One doesn't exclude the other. Answers lie everywhere. And you can definitely make the most of your life by choosing the person you can be of most service to.
@@TheJenniferKK _"One doesn't exclude the other. "_
It may not exclude the other, but one is definitely a precondition for the other. You have to perfect (or at least enhance) yourself first before trying to be of "service" to anyone else.
"_Answers lie everywhere."_
Wrong. All the answers le within you, since you're a microcosm of the universe.
_"choosing the person you can be of most service to"_
Firstly, you don't need to be someone's soulmate in order to be "of most service to". If you're so inclined, you can choose to be of service to everyone around you equally well. Sadhguru says to not love one person, but to be loving to all - that is true inclusiveness.
Secondly, looking for that one person who you can be of most service too seems like a recipe for a disastrous co-dependent relationship. A soulmate is not someone who needs you or you need to be with, but rather a meeting of equals.
Ii seems rather apparent that you've learnt very little from what Sadhguru has said in his numerous lectures, since these are pretty much among his central teachings. Makes me wonder what you're doing here listening to his videos if you don't even intend on following the path he's laid out.
I personally have a smile on my face ,such logical thoughts you have
thank you for your wise words🙏❤🙏with respect,appreciation and love
Hello
1:40 - 4:00 Just a reminder for myself when I come back to this video to listen to the best advice on finding the right person. It's you. It's me. I have so much to work on. And I want someone who notices me because I am so lonely. But I need to focus on myself.
Short and to the point yet very loaded. Sadhguru is ultimate when it comes to clarity
Love is something guru is thinking while hes explaining what actually soul mate is....
Even the humour is so fascinating.🙏
I was always confused about my career and if it’s right for me and if I’m going in the right direction, now I know I just need to put my heart into it
You can’t do that easily, it’s not -
if you put your heart into something you love it . It’s absolute bs, which says you can love anything if you try. It’s only temporary and you’ll soon realize you’ve made a mistake will be not happy. So it’s not if you put your heart into something you love it but it’s if your heart desires/cherishes something you’ll love it. And if you do what your “heart loves” you’ll be happy. Stop listening to everything that comes your way on internet and carefully choose the carrier path that brings joy in your life. Peace ✌🏼
I luv sathguru , I'm addicted to him , his knowledge just blow my mind
Thank you!!! Love listening to
you Mr.Sadhguru!♥️
I am leaving a comment here so that whenever someone likes my comment . A notification pop up and will get an opportunity to watch it again. And question myself that AM I A RIGHT PERSON?🤪
Are you now?
I love him too the core
I love how much of a realist he is
No mumbo jumbo just telling it like it is
Sadhguru is a kind of person "Full of Life"....
Huge Respect Sadhguru Ji.... I get lots of Solutions because of your Guidance.....you are not like other typical Robotic persons....You are the true definition of "Humanity"🙏...
Sadhguru 🙏 This has changed my view of looking at life. I feel myself fortunate that I born in this era when we have mystic like you !
Hello
@@user-li3fe7wh2v hi
@@nishitpanchal9536 Its seems all is okay my friend
Am maria the spell caster at your service
How's your family,
How's your business going
How's life really my dear
Like to talk about it
Distance its not an excuse my friend
Don't say,I have tried bet didn't went well,
It's time to let go that pain my dear
Message me on WhatsApp
Be happy first then you won't mind so much about the other person. They are just a mirror for you anyway. You will always be happy and just love them unconditionally.
So beautifully answered. What a great masterpiece
so eye opening 🙏 love to listen to him 🙌🙏❤️
He has amazing way of explaining things.
Lol yeah not hurtful words💯❤️👌
Wisdom Speaks 😊🙏❤
So true . No right person . You become that right person 💃🏼
Wow I'm just blown away. I bow to you Sir. Much love and respect 💕
This man is extraordinary. I can listen to him all day.
I am about to get engaged to a girl whose looks i didn't like. I was skeptic about her but this video has completely changed my opinion. Now i won't have a problem accepting her.
How are you guys going?
I dont recommend when u dont like
If she is not that good looking but acceptable by your heart n if she is good by heart n nature then u should definitely proceed... Looks don't just only matter...
A beautiful person with rude behavior is much uglier than a person with average but caring nature.... 😊
@@sanyiakhan2516 true, mam
I had a problem on this and for you sadguru ji ,now it's solved.Thank you so much ❤❤❤
I would like to thanks to sadhguru ji.. He has great intellectual knowledge to answer everything. We all time get inspiration from him.. Whenever we listen to him we never get bored.. We are really lucky to get this man in our present life.
Thanks!
OMG... Entire video is full of precious knowledge!!!
Just speechless...
My Guru, Sadhguru🙏🏻☺️
"The uncle is always bitching in these kind of matters." AHAHAHAHAHAA
Tony Cipriani pitching
Pitch in
Pitching in
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I don't think he said bitching 🤣🤣
Any topic just right to the point n crystal clear!! 😍
Sadhguru has the perfect answer for every questions asked,,
Hiiii Sadhguru ji
Lesson : One needs to work on getting better as an individual and learn to be happy and content with themselves. That is the most attractive quality. Do not expect someone else to make you happy.
He is a fantastic storyteller!
Loving Yourself is the answer 💜
Namaste 😊 🙏
Right now you just changed my whole perception of how my partner should be!! And it's totally logical 👏👏
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