Why I'm practicing Celibacy Forever ..

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  • @tiffanywhitman9372
    @tiffanywhitman9372 Před 3 lety +1926

    Celibate for three years here. Casual sex brings about confused energy because you pick up other people’s energy in a way that is meant to be intimate.

    • @missalmond
      @missalmond Před 3 lety +28

      That part!

    • @Machelle3200
      @Machelle3200 Před 3 lety +99

      Exactly! I have NO interest in having relations again unless it's with my Soulmate.

    • @msboricua4ever
      @msboricua4ever Před 3 lety +17

      Senait Ashenafi well you can have many soulmates and they don’t even have to be a human, it can be a animal lmao. It can also be a friend, not necessarily a lover either.

    • @muhammadkhawarizminazimudd7283
      @muhammadkhawarizminazimudd7283 Před 3 lety +4

      Yeah, I support you.

    • @jessykahayaana5575
      @jessykahayaana5575 Před 3 lety +19

      I agree. I cut off my casual relationship(s).

  • @farfetched9296
    @farfetched9296 Před 3 lety +1880

    Not having sex is GOLDEN. We're honestly not missing out on nothing besides drama, soul ties, and stds....another fact is you'll be more careful in choosing ppl, places, and things that's better aligned to you🙂

    • @CosmicEremite
      @CosmicEremite Před 3 lety +81

      I totally agree! Engaginin sex disturbs my balance and peace. It's draining. There's more worries. I can't with it and I prefer celibacy...it feels so much healthier for me.

    • @farfetched9296
      @farfetched9296 Před 3 lety +41

      @@CosmicEremite nice name....I agree. Without sex the energy is redirected to more important things

    • @MsIAmAnAmazingBeing
      @MsIAmAnAmazingBeing Před 3 lety +6

      Right!

    • @meliking1780
      @meliking1780 Před 3 lety +5

      YESS 🙏🏿🙌🏿

    • @ilmys1925
      @ilmys1925 Před 3 lety +12

      I agree with everything you said except STDs. Contagious disease is a myth; you get “STDs” from sacral chakra issues and stress, mainly

  • @Ichbinrafa
    @Ichbinrafa Před 3 lety +1683

    In a hyper sexual time like this we need more people like you

    • @IamRocque
      @IamRocque Před 3 lety +66

      Hypersexuality has already been present for centuries now you just see it in plain sight.

    • @morgenthau5986
      @morgenthau5986 Před 3 lety +8

      We need you also my friend.

    • @katice3
      @katice3 Před 3 lety +32

      hyper sexual? people are having less sex than ever

    • @poopbutt6241
      @poopbutt6241 Před 3 lety +17

      Must be only the United States because people in japan aren’t having sex or babies like that. It’s actually bad

    • @gotcha9983
      @gotcha9983 Před 3 lety

      We all need a break.

  • @Machelle3200
    @Machelle3200 Před 3 lety +675

    You literally LOOK Celibate. You have that energy about yourself. You look peaceful and connected to Source! Celibacy is POWER.

  • @MikelGCinema
    @MikelGCinema Před 3 lety +271

    Celibacy for 5 years, zero contact with women, concentrated on my career as an artist and enjoying ALL the energy.

  • @Underhills
    @Underhills Před 2 měsíci +14

    13 years of celibacy has made me understand I'm better off without intimate physical relationships. Feeling better than ever. Strong and free. It's for life.

  • @razaakeniola
    @razaakeniola Před 3 lety +1485

    This resonates. Earlier this year I made the decision to stop watching porn and practice healing sexual shame/trauma. I am seeing changes in how I feel and how I focus and I’m grateful to have let it go. 🙏🏾 bless

  • @art.bae.hannah8196
    @art.bae.hannah8196 Před 3 lety +675

    I say go for it!!! I am a 28 year old female virgin and I am happy loving my singleness.I look forward to health relationships and can't wait to explore my religion as well.

  • @thricegreat9988
    @thricegreat9988 Před 3 lety +365

    Hmm... This is perplexing for me to digest. Growing up in the hood and being in the streets lust arrogance and pride are practiced religiously. From the music tv social media and even just seeing a billboard lust is being promoted. I'm seeing comments of people going 10 YEARS celibate. We get bombarded by lust so much you almost feel lame and inferior for not having sex. Great topic very self reflective and inspiring I'm feeling the peaceful vibes ✌

    • @Breaktimewithbree
      @Breaktimewithbree Před 3 lety +16

      That’s really insightful, I think people should talk about this more.

    • @embrassersonombre
      @embrassersonombre Před 3 lety +20

      We have to be counterintuitive in todays world... I mean follow our intuition but not follow the nonsense that’s around us. Quite a challenge! And I think a few of us are actually chosen for that

    • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
      @sunshinesunflowerz1647 Před 3 lety +9

      Doing the opposite to what we see out in the world: it’s hard to do with outside stimuli via peer pressure from “friends” and family but it’s worth it.

    • @its_pouring_reign5422
      @its_pouring_reign5422 Před 3 lety +8

      We weren't made to fit in. We are made to stand out!

    • @christinedozier2154
      @christinedozier2154 Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you for being open minded and sharing your perspective

  • @EZENS.
    @EZENS. Před 3 lety +710

    Though I am a woman and maybe it’s considered a whole different thing
    I can say that - I have Been celibate for 6years (consecutively)
    No sexual interactions , no masturbation..
    And even though I am certainly a very sensual being.. (even inhaling is a sensual act)
    Celibacy has felt so wonderful
    And in no way restrictive .
    As a woman I’ve experienced just how very much I’ve been objected to the lust of men
    And as flattering as it may seem to some women..
    As beautiful and deep sexuality can be as well
    intimacy starts with our transparency to spirit
    And truly honoring each other - beyond compulsive notions.. that is romantic .
    And not only that
    It allows us to cultivate friendships
    Where depth and sincerity are at the core
    .
    Thank you
    Beautiful you
    this is one very special sharing
    and also quite a surprising video... . . .
    may your voice inspire the men of today’s world
    Thank you thank you thank you

    • @SarahEvansCunningham23
      @SarahEvansCunningham23 Před 3 lety +17

      So beautifully spoken

    • @kaywinter5821
      @kaywinter5821 Před 3 lety +10

      Beautiful!!!!💜💜💜💜💜

    • @AsapTwig
      @AsapTwig Před 3 lety +5

      🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @Frija_the_goddess
      @Frija_the_goddess Před 3 lety +5

      Love this❤❤

    • @mocti8737
      @mocti8737 Před 3 lety +44

      In the 7th year you are fully cleansed of all past partners energies. Can cut karmic ties as well. Every 7 years you are a new being. So no foreign energies in your system but self are there to copy. A return to innocence of self.

  • @antiherojourney6344
    @antiherojourney6344 Před 3 lety +441

    COVID made my last year of celibacy soo much easy. Almost a cheat code. Now I’m hooked, and overprotective of the energy atm.

  • @jamisedenari2449
    @jamisedenari2449 Před 3 lety +43

    Celibacy is great. Been going on five years. Lust is a trap.

  • @Tinkerbell91280
    @Tinkerbell91280 Před 3 lety +188

    Ive been celibate for about 6 years straight now. My reason is because I’m walking my journey with GOD and following his word. So I’ll remain that way until marriage. Self discipline is a blessing .

  • @sii9423
    @sii9423 Před 3 lety +277

    I like how people who practice Celibacy literally look like their own species of human. A different breed. I need to discipline myself in all aspects of my life but that would definitely ground me even more to start practicing celibacy.

    • @danyelleorr-mcneil4711
      @danyelleorr-mcneil4711 Před 3 lety +11

      Interesting... What do you mean, "look like their own species of human"?

    • @kunle9
      @kunle9 Před 3 lety +25

      @@AO-qg4dk I'm very choosy with who I want to engage with. It's so easy to disqualify people cause you can sense what they will bring to your life before it goes too far. Most people are negative, needy, and not fulfilled and want to pass that energy to you. Celibacy does make this process easier but it all comes down to discipline in my opinion.

    • @gotcha9983
      @gotcha9983 Před 3 lety +4

      Yes

    • @danyelleorr-mcneil4711
      @danyelleorr-mcneil4711 Před 3 lety +12

      @@AO-qg4dk Aaaah..... So what I've been think and feeling is right☺️ Speaking of my own experiences, since I've started doing the work of self-awareness, I've started attracting individuals to me without any effort on my part, and they all tell me the same thing: "🤔 You're different....in a good way" and I thought it had something to do with my energy shift and you just confirmed it😉

    • @urfavweapon719
      @urfavweapon719 Před 3 lety +4

      @@danyelleorr-mcneil4711 They just glow.

  • @SarahEvansCunningham23
    @SarahEvansCunningham23 Před 3 lety +388

    Love seeing a brotha speak about understanding of HIS SACRED SEXUALITY. Coming from a man makes it so much more powerful. Youre truly the divine masculine

    • @graceandgratitude9256
      @graceandgratitude9256 Před 3 lety +7

      Yesssss!!!💛💛💛 It's so sacred to SEE!!!🙏🏽

    • @deveraux1
      @deveraux1 Před 3 lety +10

      Where are the other men like him? We need more of this in the world!

    • @KShipsAnalysis
      @KShipsAnalysis Před 3 lety

      Yess

    • @anonymous-cx7ng
      @anonymous-cx7ng Před 2 lety

      Why it’s more powerful because it’s a man? You sound sexist 😑

  • @avrillouis110
    @avrillouis110 Před 3 lety +69

    9 months celibate and it has saved my life and you just look at sex totally different. I love the freedom. I love and respect myself so much more!

    • @plutoneptune
      @plutoneptune Před 5 měsíci

      9 months is too less. It should be whole life.

    • @abduwalimuse7482
      @abduwalimuse7482 Před 2 měsíci

      I agree. I’ve been pure my entire life at 18 yrs old and plan to stay that way for the rest of my life! Celibacy for life

  • @FaceOfTheCity.StPete
    @FaceOfTheCity.StPete Před 3 lety +90

    After being sexually active since I was 17, I began practicing celibacy in my early 30's. The first run was about 1 year, the second was 3. It gave me so much insight into my motivations and tendencies in relationships as well as how to read the intentions of others. A lot of healing takes place when you give your body, mind, and spirit the space to discover what true alignment means for you. It gives you a stronger and clearer sense of where your energetic field ends and another begins.

  • @ExpressivelyYannaMarie
    @ExpressivelyYannaMarie Před 3 lety +125

    I've been celibate since December 2019 and its been the most clarifying change I've ever implicated - its really awoken me to myself

    • @Jasmyne444
      @Jasmyne444 Před 3 lety +2

      Congrats sis 💕🌸☺️

    • @plutoneptune
      @plutoneptune Před 5 měsíci

      Celibacy starts at birth and continues till death

  • @LanaiahTaylor
    @LanaiahTaylor Před 3 lety +628

    I’ve been celibate for a year now, waiting for my husband.❤️

    • @Zlist1994
      @Zlist1994 Před 3 lety +21

      On my way 😁

    • @KatieAJ
      @KatieAJ Před 3 lety +71

      @@BearerofWisdom What if she does?

    • @blessedfavor3299
      @blessedfavor3299 Před 3 lety +52

      Ladies protect your heart and do it for you and GOD. I was celibate got married and was completely broken his used GOD and prayed mimic what I wanted. We had two children and was told I was used for a Green Card. It shattered me. Don’t let anyone take your peace.

    • @Truthbeing888
      @Truthbeing888 Před 3 lety +6

      You still have to do the inner work.

    • @kbrenaetv
      @kbrenaetv Před 3 lety +1

      yes, 💕

  • @deidrafrazier278
    @deidrafrazier278 Před 3 lety +202

    What a relief you are. The dirty energy I caught from a sex addict took my vitality to a new low. I aged years in 5 months; smh. I met someone new recently; we haven't even talked about sex. We just enjoy each other's company. I feel blessed. It's very replenishing and leaves us both energized in our own goals.

    • @nyat5413
      @nyat5413 Před 3 lety +25

      Good for you! I was with someone who had no control over his sexual energy even when I told him I didn’t want to have sex he would still try and it literally made me sick and turned me off to him.

    • @deidrafrazier278
      @deidrafrazier278 Před 3 lety +33

      @@nyat5413 You know, the sex addict and I weren't in his addiction; it's all the spirits that he must have caught before we dated. When we were intimate, afterwords - I just felt like I had all these unexplainable and dark emotions. It wasn't something I'd ever experienced. I felt drained and empty. It was so strange. As I got more details about his past, I understood the 'sickening' nausea that I used to get afterwards. It was a mess. Never again. Dirty spirit 'd ain't for me.

    • @baddiezone
      @baddiezone Před 3 lety +31

      @@nyat5413 same a man who can’t control his sex drive is a turn off , low vibration.

    • @KaliKali-hv9bt
      @KaliKali-hv9bt Před 3 lety +14

      @@baddiezone exactly. GROSS. Especially the ones who think sleeping with a bunch of women is something to be proud of.

    • @baddiezone
      @baddiezone Před 3 lety +12

      @Kali Kali yes so FREAKING GROSS , why are you so proud to be ran through??? I feel bad for people who are not trying to self-heal or elevate themselves spiritually. because in all honesty half of the world is starting to realize how “ valuable “ we are mentally, physically and spiritually ... I wish I can meet the other half in my city because I’m always coming around guys that are “ sex” Feins they can’t sit around me without trying to be inside me 🙄. I’m sorry but whenever I meet someone who can’t control their sexual appetite I feel like they need therapy and to look inside themselves internally in a spiritual way 🤷🏾‍♀️🗣

  • @Melisamonet
    @Melisamonet Před 3 lety +45

    I have been Celibate for 2 years now, all my energy is going into self healing and sharing that healing with the world 🌎 ✨ 💖

  • @GrimFemme
    @GrimFemme Před 3 lety +173

    I think at some point in my early 20's (I'm 27 now), I convinced myself that I needed to be sexually desirable to men to have true worth. And I just spiraled into this horrible pattern that attached ALL of my self worth to it. It was miserable. I was miserable. Until I forced myself to admit that despite becoming the object I thought I needed to be, the fulfillment I thought it would give me never appeared. It was a lie. And it hurt to know I'd been living the lie. So I stopped. The men I involved myself with, I basically said "I'm sorry, but I'm moving on to a different part of my life, and I wish you luck with yours". And that was it. And I haven't sought that sexual approval since 2019. I turned inward and had to ask myself, "okay, so now that you're done asking others how they feel about you, how do YOU feel about you? What do YOU enjoy? Who are you, really?" Now, it's up and down, and that's just life. But I can tell you, I don't miss what I was doing before. Celibacy has been something of a gift to me, and when the time comes and I know it's truly right, it will change. But right now I know it's what I need to do to help me.

    • @honeysucklelanes
      @honeysucklelanes Před 3 lety

      Thank YOU

    • @jamesbra4410
      @jamesbra4410 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes you need to feel in control of yourself. It takes a lot of willpower but if you perfect it then you can reject sex and intimacy. I love the feeling it gives me to reject a woman and my sexual urges. I feel in control and the rejection and hatred directed towards me only strengthens my resolve.

    • @laurenalyssa1793
      @laurenalyssa1793 Před 3 lety +4

      I completely agree !! so much of my self worth was contingent on how i was viewed as a sexual object. im so ready to be over that 😭

    • @Jackie1111
      @Jackie1111 Před 3 lety +1

      Yess

    • @justin9489
      @justin9489 Před 3 lety +1

      Glad you woke up. Welcome to earth.

  • @Jayy717
    @Jayy717 Před 3 lety +183

    i’m 22 and i’m starting my journey today.

    • @jjay6432
      @jjay6432 Před 3 lety +13

      Wow what a big step at a young age much respect 🙏 I started when I turned 30 I'm now 36 and trust it really shifts your perspective and deepens everything.☯️

    • @savant9482
      @savant9482 Před 3 lety +1

      Congrats brother 🙏🏽

    • @RelMexLive
      @RelMexLive Před 3 lety +2

      I’m 17

    • @bfree4830
      @bfree4830 Před 3 lety +7

      I started at 22! You got this, wishing you a happy and fulfilled journey :)

    • @sister2mysoul
      @sister2mysoul Před 3 lety

      You got this! 💯❤

  • @tammya5403
    @tammya5403 Před 3 lety +172

    I’m so glad you mentioned being careful with using celibacy as protection against others. For someone that is healing from sexual trauma, it’s such an easy trap to fall into. Thank you 💕

    • @tqt252
      @tqt252 Před 3 lety +9

      Same, I don't know how to.not be protective and let others in

    • @snoozyq9576
      @snoozyq9576 Před 3 lety +2

      Yea I feel like I'm doing that to be honest it's hard to tell the difference sometimes

  • @missiemaya
    @missiemaya Před 3 lety +57

    I was like, hold up "FOREVER!?" hahah. I was celibate for 5 years but I think the reasons were more religious and less personal. Now, I am not consciously celibate, I am just choosing to Not to have sex until I meet someone that I feel brings amazing energy and feel of safety to my life. Now, it's from a place of valuing myself and valuing my energy space and not wanting just any old body to enter into it.

  • @shroomgoblin2639
    @shroomgoblin2639 Před 3 lety +41

    I tried this with a girl and she wouldn’t listen to how I was feeling. We’re broken up now but I’ve been a lot better in both mental in body. Honestly your words are so true keep up the positivity :)

    • @DanSung2021
      @DanSung2021 Před 3 lety +2

      She doesn’t deserve you. Poor girl

    • @plutoneptune
      @plutoneptune Před 5 měsíci

      Don't have girls. Be alone and free

  • @thebibafrequency1
    @thebibafrequency1 Před 3 lety +16

    It's fundamental to my essence to go in. Being single and staying single for years was the most powerful force in my life.. I found all the answers i was looking for.. 0 distraction 0 disturbances 0 noise
    Just pure bliss
    Many people hide in relationships due to fear of being alone or abandonment issues.
    When you have spent along periods alone you know that your next relationship with be because you desire. The person and not a projected fix or distortion

  • @firebellybella
    @firebellybella Před 3 lety +41

    Transmuting and channeling that powerful sexual energy into creativity / remembering we are powerful creators ✨

  • @cyber6sapien
    @cyber6sapien Před 3 lety +589

    Not surprising since you look exactly how I would imagine Jesus looked like in real life.

    • @Nokss87
      @Nokss87 Před 3 lety +34

      Lol I'm thinking the same thing 😅

    • @TH-cq7bj
      @TH-cq7bj Před 3 lety +12

      Amen brother. Although, Jesus' physical description is in the Bible

    • @babiegirl444
      @babiegirl444 Před 3 lety +4

      😂😂

    • @DivineTQ
      @DivineTQ Před 3 lety +54

      @@TH-cq7bj ok it's more similar to this look than a white man they try to portray..

    • @LedePat
      @LedePat Před 3 lety +11

      Crazy I looked at him and thought that

  • @sassebaybe7603
    @sassebaybe7603 Před 3 lety +32

    I've been celibate 7 years now. I had a (ex)friend make fun of me for it but I just tell those who know I am celibate that the clarity that comes from it is worth more than the short lived pleasure otherwise. 💖

    • @turismoconmaria6833
      @turismoconmaria6833 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Yo también. La última vez que tuve relaciones sexuales fue cuando tenía 35 años. Ahora tengo 43

  • @SpiderBRidin
    @SpiderBRidin Před 3 lety +13

    In my spiritual journey, it was never a plan to let go of as much as I have; giving up alcohol and cannabis, giving up meat and focusing on a more plant-based diet, and practicing celibacy. Once opening up my heart and spirit to the positivity of abstinence from temptation, my chakras aligned, my pineal gland was expanded, and my kundalini was awakened... ALL which I had NEVER knew as much about until going through it! I practiced celibacy for over 9 months, ended it once, and now it has been over 6 months since I have felt the urge to break it. The quality of my life has improved so much, I almost forget I’m currently going through a divorce! Sending blessings of love, light, and support to ALL who need it in their growth! ❤️

  • @annstewart4542
    @annstewart4542 Před 3 lety +17

    The act of intimacy is an exchange of energies. Don't give it away people. Some folk more cautious as to who they will allow to drive their car than who try will lay next to.

  • @imgroovytarot
    @imgroovytarot Před 3 lety +142

    As a 24 year old young woman, I am starting today. My last “relationship” had me horrrrible in my head. Negative thoughts. Asking “why.” Thinking, the sex is great and I’m a great woman. What’s wrong with me? Why doesn’t he want me? ..... I had to stop that. Honestly.. I know I’m wonderful when it comes to sex, and that’s exactly why I’ll be starting today. I can’t give out my energy anymore. I have to make sure I’m wanted for ME and NOT what I can do.

    • @KenwayDACR
      @KenwayDACR Před 3 lety +7

      Celibacy also means no masturbation

    • @imgroovytarot
      @imgroovytarot Před 3 lety +8

      @@KenwayDACR I think I’m good with just the no sex.

    • @KenwayDACR
      @KenwayDACR Před 3 lety +10

      @@imgroovytarot you have no idea how bad masturbation is for the male as well as the female body.
      You are free to do what you want but i really advice you to learn more about (true monk-mode)-pmo-celibacy.
      The moment you realise the benefits and the importance of this practise you will be among the greatest women that are alive at this moment.
      The ancient indian scriptures have talked about this true form of celibacy (called brahmacharya) for many thousands of years.
      Semen (veerya) in the male body.
      Femine fluids ( raj) in the female body.
      And the sapta dhatu process.
      Learn about this sister, for your own sake.
      Just google the following:
      "How to practise brahmacharya as a woman/female"
      And enjoy your journey towards the best version of yourself!!!
      May god bless your soul with wisdom and shakti!
      Jay shree Ram, Hari Ohm!

    • @imgroovytarot
      @imgroovytarot Před 3 lety +4

      @@KenwayDACR thanks but I’m good with not just having sex

    • @KenwayDACR
      @KenwayDACR Před 3 lety +3

      @@imgroovytarot so be it

  • @spottheoddity
    @spottheoddity Před 3 lety +40

    Celibacy brings prosperity. However, theres a difference between prosperity and abundance much love family

  • @maiaautumne2167
    @maiaautumne2167 Před 3 lety +22

    I’ve been practising celibacy for 3 years now and i feel more connected to myself than ever, energised and have been healing from trauma. I’ve gotten rid of toxic friends, family and behaviours - it’s been wonderful. . I intend to continue for the foreseeable future. I will know when the time is right to stop.

  • @JesusFreakVII
    @JesusFreakVII Před 11 měsíci +24

    I am celibate like Jesus Christ. I have one son and that's all I want. Thank you for this video. Physical sex is good for nothing except for having children. Spiritual love is where it's at! Thanks!

    • @plutoneptune
      @plutoneptune Před 11 měsíci

      How did you have a son if you're a celibate?? LIAR!!

    • @plutoneptune
      @plutoneptune Před 5 měsíci

      If you have a child then you are not celibate. Unless the child was adopted.

    • @plutoneptune
      @plutoneptune Před 5 měsíci

      Liar

    • @plutoneptune
      @plutoneptune Před 5 měsíci

      Celibacy should be for whole life

    • @MikeV8652
      @MikeV8652 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@plutoneptune He didn't claim to have always been celibate, but rather that he is now, and he can be going forward.

  • @fungh0u1
    @fungh0u1 Před 3 lety +18

    i never even gave any thought to the idea of celibacy before this, but framing it as a mindful, intentional practice of reclaiming your sexual and creative energy makes it sound so empowering, especially as a woman who can feel crushed under male gaze. thank u

  • @reubenbulko
    @reubenbulko Před 3 lety +42

    My longest streak is 104 days, I can’t imagine how much more grounded and present and clear my energy would have been had I gone longer. Currently on day 6.

  • @ladyhaze7016
    @ladyhaze7016 Před 2 lety +6

    Starting this journey! Sex work has made me realize how much I need to take this step….it has also made me realize that I’m asexual! I’m using sex to meet financial needs/desires and it has certainly caused me to pivot. This line of work is destroying me spiritually! There’s just so much to unpack. Thanks for this.

  • @KenyaMicheall
    @KenyaMicheall Před 3 lety +37

    Can we be friends?? Man, I swear I need more beautiful people like you in my life. Thank you for this amazing video. ❣️

  • @exploringauthenticity5350
    @exploringauthenticity5350 Před 3 lety +18

    YESSSSSS! I thought I was the only human who noticed how powerful and interesting celibacy is. It created so much healing, confidence, and manifestation for me. I love this idea of implementing it as a practice! 🙏🏽✨

  • @HealThyLivingQueen
    @HealThyLivingQueen Před 3 lety +21

    This last year I was just LED to start taking my celibacy practice very seriously. Others don’t understand it, but it’s not for them to understand. We all have a purpose of course, but personally, I know my purpose in this world has been and still is out of this world. Blessings to you all ❤️

  • @ItsDanielMendez
    @ItsDanielMendez Před 2 lety +17

    I remember when I went celibate for about a month earlier this year and I finally hooked up with this amazing girl but the moment I released, I went into shock and started tearing up. Luckily it was dark and she didn’t notice but I felt like my soul left my body and I was left empty. It was a horrible feeling, was out of it for the next week or so. It was so weird.

  • @staydiligent7325
    @staydiligent7325 Před 3 lety +52

    Celibacy been so hard for me but life’s been easier I’ll run through task like it’s nothing.

  • @TheSolitary1
    @TheSolitary1 Před 3 lety +13

    I'm going thru a Spiritual Awakening and it's interesting how clean eating, zero digital/noise pollution and Celibacy all fell in line with it.

  • @kenyavictory2498
    @kenyavictory2498 Před 3 lety +9

    Yes I totally believe in celibacy, I'm in that process over a year now and I have grown leaps and bounds!!! I'm gonna keep it up.

  • @OpalAuras
    @OpalAuras Před 3 lety +7

    have been celibate three times now, first time for a year and a half, second for a year and now a few months in on my third time now and i can truly say i grow so much in every way when i do this each time but especially spiritually. i hope everyone tries it at least once in their life. this is such a great thing to talk about thank you for making this and sharing it 🧡

  • @symphonyonsax5553
    @symphonyonsax5553 Před 3 lety +26

    It's crazy I'm seeing this now just as I decided 2 weeks ago to go celibate for a while. This video was definitely confirmation for me. Since I've made the decision, I've been so creative. Working on my music, practicing everyday 🎷, writing etc. I was really depressed and my house was a mess, I wasn't cooking any meals, and for the last few days I've been trying to clean and I've been cooking for me and my children, and i'm learning to love myself.

  • @savonlento7544
    @savonlento7544 Před 3 lety +42

    Bro this video couldn’t have came at a better time. Been trying to be celibate within my relationship lately but unsuccessful. This gave me confirmation to go right back into mastering my energy and conquer my demons! Appreciate you Hindz!

    • @HINDZSIGHT
      @HINDZSIGHT  Před 3 lety +6

      love bro , good 2 hear🙏🏾🤍

  • @CosmicEremite
    @CosmicEremite Před 3 lety +93

    I love this video! I'm 36 and have practiced celibacy on and off since my early 20's. I LOVE being celibate and I feel so much more inner peace when I practice it. My longest stretch was 3 years. I'm currently in a relationship and was celibate for 2 years prior, and I absolutely want to go back to being celibate. Idk how my partner will feel, but I don't want sex anymore. I crave the peace and freedom I get from celibacy. Sex is not a need for me, and I find it draining and anxiety inducing and I would honestly rather not have it.

    • @meditation4632
      @meditation4632 Před 3 lety +16

      Exactly, celibacy is for people who don't need or want sex. period. Thank you for being honest because a lot of people are on here being very naive.

    • @cvg1999
      @cvg1999 Před 3 lety +11

      Talk to them. If they’re right for you, they’ll understand. If they’re not, the Universe still has your perfect match out there. Please never feel afraid or ashamed of speaking your truth and of being who you are.
      Trust yourself. Trust your intuition. It’ll lead you to your right path.
      Much love 🌎🌈💗

    • @angelacrowe5575
      @angelacrowe5575 Před rokem +4

      I feel the exact same. So much peace when you're not trying to be sexual with people you don't love. It doesn't seem natural .

    • @Rolandesperspective
      @Rolandesperspective Před rokem +2

      i wonder why you find it draining and anxiety inducing..there might be something there?

    • @JaredLaswell
      @JaredLaswell Před rokem +2

      Do not fear losing a relationship. Sexuality is a pretty big one when it comes to finding a match. If you value the relationship that much, and they do, maybe you can practice an on off again sexual relationship. But be up front, open, and honest. That means everything.

  • @kirstythompson9271
    @kirstythompson9271 Před rokem +7

    I've always known I was asexual as I've never really lusted over anyone or wanted relationships. I'm definitely going to continue celibacy. Thanks for this video ! :)

    • @hamilton9651
      @hamilton9651 Před rokem

      I may be there as well. I just no longer desire sex of any kind and want to be celibate always.

  • @keke4261
    @keke4261 Před 3 lety +9

    I’m 23, and i started a week ago when i found your channel. I just got out of a toxic relationship and i need to gain all that self
    Love that I’ve lost in that relationship. I love you! Keep it up! I listen your podcasts every morning & night for now on. I’m loving your energy

  • @EasyBreezie
    @EasyBreezie Před 3 lety +297

    This is inspiring

  • @idream_spawns_7068
    @idream_spawns_7068 Před 3 lety +8

    My CZcams feed is pretty much all motivational, chakra frequencies sounds and instrumental beats at this point and the CZcams algorithm connected me with your content. Winning

  • @felixdelgado1893
    @felixdelgado1893 Před 3 lety +4

    I’m so happy you are shedding light on this. As an Orthodox Christian and a former Benedictine monk, I can attest that celibacy is the vehicle to the virtue of chastity. Chastity helps us to remain pure of heart and connected with God. Thank you for talking about this especially in the midst of a hyper sexual generation. God bless 🙏🏽
    Lord have mercy on us and keep us by Thy grace!

  • @LakeishaSantasha
    @LakeishaSantasha Před 3 lety +13

    it's crazy that I found your channel at this point in my life, I'm right there. I've tried 3 times to be celibate for a year, this is my first successful attempt, really enjoying it

  • @THEWRITERSTELEVISION
    @THEWRITERSTELEVISION Před 2 lety +6

    Celibate for four years now and love every bit of it. Just explained to someone who was trying to date me for sex and I had to break it down why I choose not too and in a flash he was gone. My energy is clean and pure and I intend on only sharing it with someone who gets it. My body is my temple and it is made to cherish with a special someone not just anybody. One day I will end it when the right man comes.

  • @StephanieV5
    @StephanieV5 Před 3 lety +11

    CZcams recommended this, being celibate is a great thing, good to hear your point of view

  • @whatcanisayflur
    @whatcanisayflur Před 3 lety +1

    This is beautiful. I wasn't sure what to expect from the title but it made so much sense. Thank you for the inspiration. Celibacy is a new consideration for my spiritual journey now.

  • @wellness4lyfe105
    @wellness4lyfe105 Před 3 lety +1

    Yessir!!! Getting in tune with myself is key. I love the practice of celibacy. It feels very good to feel whole and complete within myself

  • @tumelolethule9542
    @tumelolethule9542 Před 3 lety +3

    I'm so happy you touched on fear because for the past 2years I think I have been very hesitant of allowing myself to form relationships with other people. After my last relationship had ended in 2017, I started a self love, discovery journey that basically peaked in 2020 but in those years as I came to learn more things about myself and unlearn them I noticed a wall going up more than before I started this journey. I've recently felt the urge to explore and step out of that zone and listening to you made me realize that I used my journey to protect myself from the world. You're amazing 🙏🙏🌻

  • @deegray87
    @deegray87 Před 3 lety +8

    Since I've been celibate for 3 years I haven't been thinking of been with anyone on sexual level im not bothered.i wanna tune into myself and im on a healing journey. I'm focusing on spirituality and hopefully one day I will connect with someone on that level .I dont drink alcohol like I use to. My body rejects it.

  • @joannacardoso1115
    @joannacardoso1115 Před 3 lety +1

    Dealing with mental health issues. Most of us are. Your videos stop me in my tracks. When my mind can’t stop spinning and I can’t sit myself down, the atmosphere you create in your videos takes me straight out of that chaotic state and it brings about a new sense of urgency for my soul; one of peace and a need for tea. Lol. I was spiraling already this morning but now here I am making myself a soothing cup of tea, feeling soul-fed... your voice forces me out of that dreadful, stressed-out state. Thank you. Thank you for your creations here on CZcams and wherever else you are blessing others with your presence and positive messages!

  • @TeddyBearFarmer
    @TeddyBearFarmer Před 3 lety +4

    I love this video! I have practiced celibacy on and off throughout my lifetime it’s good to know I’m not the only one. 🥰

  • @JadeAshly
    @JadeAshly Před 2 lety +19

    I’ve always valued celibacy, but it seems so hard to meet someone who’s not expecting intimacy after a couple dates. It’s become quite annoying actually 😅 seems like kindness isn’t true because it isn’t coming without that expectation

    • @mirabai1977
      @mirabai1977 Před rokem +1

      I´m searching the same type of person like you,and i consider it difficult just like you.Just keep searching and believe and you will find someone.If i find someone celibate for life i will walue her very much..

  • @dystanysam9896
    @dystanysam9896 Před 3 lety +7

    I’ve been ,Celibate forever since I can remember . it’s was a promise I’ve made to my mother & God .who’s went through it as a young mother at sixteen so I didn’t wanted her to feel the same hurt again. It’s been blessing I’m now 28 still I’m ppl still make fun of me , some would try to tasted me . I don’t break promise. I know I’m an emotional person if I did give it up especially so young.

    • @dystanysam9896
      @dystanysam9896 Před 3 lety

      @@BearerofWisdom Sometimes , its do be hard I had to talked to God by listing to him made me stop .

  • @sachawilliams4360
    @sachawilliams4360 Před 3 lety +2

    New subscriber! The tool of celibacy is beautiful. I love all the benefits that come with choosing & practicing celibacy for a period of time. The clarity of mind, spiritual and emotional stability...it really does enhance every aspect of life. Ty for sharing 🙏🏽

  • @souluvlai
    @souluvlai Před 3 lety +6

    Sex is healing AND celibacy is healing!!!!
    I’m so glad you shared this wisdom!

  • @ssweetheart_labelle
    @ssweetheart_labelle Před 3 lety +18

    Thank you for this ❤️❤️❤️

  • @halycon4923
    @halycon4923 Před 2 lety +8

    I'll be completely honest, I was introduced to things like porn early on (through peers)
    It really had a negative impact on my mindset, I seeked out toxic objectifying relationships,
    I won't say porn is necessarily like this for everyone but in my experience it really messed up my life.
    I am so happy I've decided to go celibate (Not necessarily indefinitely, more like I'd make love with someone who I have a deep connection with in future,
    and if that never happens that's okay too, I am happy and that's what matters to me). I used to be so lustful and addicted to thinking about sex, from a mix of hormones
    and unhealthy sex exposure (An unrealistic, toxic look at the world of sex through porn).
    In the end I started as a curiosity to test out a new lifestyle, now I really want to dedicate to it and I'm currently succeeding.

  • @indiahackle6123
    @indiahackle6123 Před 3 lety +2

    I've never heard of celibacy as an energy practice- this is so freeing. Thank you!

  • @theegoldenlotusreflections

    You’ve visited me a few times in my dreams, since I came I across your channel a few weeks ago. The context of the dreams were quite interesting, but I feel it was my subconscious way of getting me to pay attention to you. The words and experiences you have shared with us through your videos has surely helped me along my journey. I’ll admit at first, I wasn’t sold when watching whatever video it was I saw of yours first😂 But as I continued, things began to resonate more and more. But now listening to your inspiring celibacy journey solidifies for me the divine lead me here. I know for a fact CZcamss algorithm isn’t all that great! Much blessing and love to you Hindz, thank you💛💛

  • @TheMiinouk
    @TheMiinouk Před 3 lety +3

    Celibacy helped me get my power back and literally clean my energy. ✨🙏

  • @Jenajenna7778
    @Jenajenna7778 Před 2 lety +3

    Celibete for 4 years. I have been in a very toxic relationship and I needed to heal.
    In the past 2 years of celibacy gave me a strong spiritual and enlightening awakening .

  • @beckalee7942
    @beckalee7942 Před 3 lety +2

    Yessss i totally love this omg... ive done 4 years now, now going on a year onwards again!!! It helps so much to bring all your focus and energy back in n help you be humble... and enrichen your relationship with yourself...

  • @danpartridge8584
    @danpartridge8584 Před rokem +1

    I haven't been intimate since college. A little over 10 years at this point -- not even because I was actively trying anything out. Life just happened. I aligned myself with work, caring for my Mom (who passed in 2018 after a long illness), and not making a big deal out of dating. I love talking to those people who advise me that love will find me when I least expect it. I tell them that I haven't been expecting it for over a decade and then I watch the color drain from their faces 🤣 be well. Have fun 🤘 Life is what you make of it.

  • @alisad.811
    @alisad.811 Před 3 lety +5

    I don't know which I love more... Being Single or Being Celibate. Practicing the two, until I meet my match, gives me so much peace of mind. I keep preaching about how I love being single, but I think you made me realize that it's actually the celibacy that I am so in tune with. THANKS!!!

  • @wandadrees6384
    @wandadrees6384 Před 3 lety +4

    With my journey of celibacy ; my other relationships( my adult children , friends, extended family) have become deeper, stronger . I appreciate the ease and find joy in them

  • @ameerap.5604
    @ameerap.5604 Před 3 lety +2

    It takes a lot of discipline but what doesn't! I'm very happy to hear that this journey has helped you; love your talks! Peace and blessings

  • @empowerlovegrow
    @empowerlovegrow Před 3 lety +2

    I’m celibate and the practice can teach you soooo much about yourself! Trying loving and honoring all of you! Thanks for the share! 💓✨

  • @derjer
    @derjer Před 3 lety +7

    Wow, dearest brother Hindz. Every expression here is so grounded, balanced, centered. Beginning this journey with current lover starting today. Going to sit down with him and view this together and check in on a schematic to deepen Our Love Levels beyond just the lustful and physical. You are gift to so many blossoming lives. May you experience a rich abundance in reciprocation.

  • @IAMANART
    @IAMANART Před 3 lety +3

    Big man ting bredda it's a blessing to have this kind of content ... upfullness#hindsight

  • @sophi-2049
    @sophi-2049 Před 3 lety +2

    I am 26 years old and a virgin. Never had a relationship or even a want for one. Thought I was a homosexual for a while because of my lack of attractions but I never had a real desire for anyones company other than myself to this day.
    I know that there is a potential that I will find a pure and true love in my life, but I know for a fact that if that is not my life path to have a relationship then I will be more than happy with that path also. I was born very weary of the world and so I’ve shut myself away from the beauty of it sometimes but Gods love is my ultimate relationship and goal for my life so I will do whatever he wants me to do so that I can serve him and his highest purpose for me

    • @susuperstar
      @susuperstar Před 3 lety +1

      same!! i’m also 26 and a virgin and i found celibacy and how people react to it very interesting because i don’t experience sexual attraction so it’s not really important to me...
      until this day some people in my family think i’m lesbian because they think i’m not interested in men... when in fact i’m not interested in having sex with anybody lol
      have you ever heard about asexual spectrum? or aromantic people? maybe u could identify with it :)

    • @sophi-2049
      @sophi-2049 Před 3 lety +2

      @@susuperstar thank you so much for your comment Suelen :)

  • @kozywithkoat4358
    @kozywithkoat4358 Před 3 lety

    Beautifully put from start to finish.

  • @ronminor3029
    @ronminor3029 Před 3 lety +21

    Yoooo! So grateful to have found you. Been Celibate twice. First time was 8 months and now I’m on 3 years. This time, I’m learning to not be fearful of meeting new women and also just being honest with the gents in my life about not pursuing sex with other women as I have been so protective of my energy and also enjoy the aloneness of the journey. All the best with your journey. One love 👌🏽❤️

    • @HINDZSIGHT
      @HINDZSIGHT  Před 3 lety +1

      one love 🙏🏾 blessings to the journey

  • @AwkMind
    @AwkMind Před 3 lety +4

    I was directed to this channel somehow, everything you talk about resonates.. Thank you. Celibate 5 months in. Committed to stay that way all year long.

  • @christinastevenson9595
    @christinastevenson9595 Před 3 lety +2

    Your energy has drawn me to you and I truly needed to hear this. Although I have practiced celebacy due to distance in a relationship, it's not for the right reasons. My sensuality has been a strong part of who I am, but not everything that I am. Thank you for expanding my vision. 🙏🦋

  • @londonmakalah3548
    @londonmakalah3548 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you I’ve been doing this for myself and I’m starting to understand myself more. I am learning to listen to my higher spirit and choose from there. It’s to see that there is someone explaining all the emotions and energy that’s come along with this. Thank you 😊

  • @ChiefIcyBlack
    @ChiefIcyBlack Před 3 lety +8

    I decided upon Brahmacharya a couple days ago for the goal of Yoga. I watched your Pt1 and 2 just yesterday and now you drop this. I only need to see the signs once. I appreciate you 🤲🏾🙏🏾

  • @NIXOV
    @NIXOV Před 3 lety +4

    Love the wisdom you are sharing, much respect to your journey king, happy to find like-minded beings! #LOVE

  • @cocoalampkins8838
    @cocoalampkins8838 Před 3 lety +1

    I can relate. I have been celibate for 4.5 years. I became aware of my Spiritual Journey on 12.31.18. This has been the most rewarding experience. I have healed so much and expanded so much. Like you said the focus is totally on connecting with my higher self and evolving. I am totally open to a balanced connection and I just flow and allow the experiences to arrive by remaining balanced and grounded. Your channel is so refreshing. I am so glad I found it and subscribed. You keep us engaged. TY. Namaste Beautiful Soul. 💜

  • @oraliesanchez945
    @oraliesanchez945 Před 3 lety

    💜 your honesty about this truly helps. Celibacy is the way to go but thank you for mentioning the fear part didn't recognize it.

  • @Crossfoxcoon
    @Crossfoxcoon Před 3 lety +2

    You've got such a smooth vibe! You're like a modern-day chill-hop brahmachari. Respects! 👊🕉🧡

  • @jamilawilliams4969
    @jamilawilliams4969 Před 3 lety +3

    Thanks for sharing, this is really helping me with celibacy.

  • @agaa3971
    @agaa3971 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Amazing!! You just put it into words so beautifully. Grateful to listen to a man talking about this so eloquently 🙏

  • @bossmamiillc24
    @bossmamiillc24 Před 3 lety +1

    This video is so inspiring & helpful while I’m on my own celibacy journey 🧘🏾‍♀️

  • @roehennix7839
    @roehennix7839 Před 3 lety +3

    the timing of finding this video is so unreal.thank u. counting today as day one.. wish me luck

  • @immanuel7776
    @immanuel7776 Před 3 lety +4

    cudos homie, you have took this thing into a whole different lvl

  • @sadedada1378
    @sadedada1378 Před 3 lety

    😍Love that you’re always referring to higher self.🙏🏾

  • @Empre55
    @Empre55 Před 3 lety

    Celibacy is truly powerful. Grief threw me into celibacy. I needed this video as confirmation for my journey so namasté bro'. 🤗