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Good energy coming through. In love with this
HINDZ, Thank you so so much for the video today and this has really open my mind. Can you please make a video about compatibility please?
Thanks for listening my problems and being with me on my growth journey and helping me.❤
Love you☘❤
Eat like you love yourself.
Move like you love love yourself.
Speak like you love yourself.
Act like you love yourself.
So simple but I really needed that
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Very profound
@@user-vx9yp7ch3e your name is 1 1 and you replied 1 min ago which allowed me to see 1 1 1... Thanks for that!!
@@LateBloomer1111 im happy we made that connection! Truthfully appreciate it 💛🤍
“Real attraction is spiritual, mental, and physical. Not just one of the three.”
Well said 🙌🥰
Amen
How are you “mentally” attracted to someone? Like how they think ? Explain ? Same question with “spiritual”
@@lebronjames7041 I'd say attraction is alignment with another so, mental, spiritual and physical alignment equals attraction
ICEEEE COLLLLLDDDDD JTTTTT💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
''you understand'' is the most calming thing he says
I’m like yes yes I do you get it 😭
I agree!!
Be the person you would want to be in a relationship with. Healthy eating, positive attitude, integrity, being generous, helping others, being friendly etc.
I think it’s wrong to expect one person to check all the boxes for you. That’s why it’s important to nourish our friendships, family, and different kinds of relationships
agreed
So true. It's not someone else's responsibility to show up a certain way for you, even if it feels personal or not so great. It's a reality of all relationships and dynamics
This is a great point
Very true. It’s so important to develop our own authentic selves, work on our weaknesses and address past trauma to be able to live contently before even thinking about a romantic relationship... because lord knows that person will hold up that mirror to you and if you’re not ready to look at the reflection then you better get ready! I like the analogy that you need to be a fully functioning car and your partner is the added extras... the heated leather seats, the built in sat nav... but you, as the car, are enough to get you from A to B. The extras are just a sprinkle of luxury, comfort and enjoyment.
@@d26s10 i love this
Last night I wrote out my beliefs around love. Any that I found to be hurtful I re-framed to be helpful. One of my beliefs was: its hard to find someone compatible. I re-framed it to say, "its not my job to find people like me, the universe will do that, my responsibility is to hold a steady vibration of authenticity to self."
Powerful
Amazing! Thank you for this!👍🏼
Yesss !!!
Around my way, the congregations would say "Word!" 😆
Great
Solitude is a beautiful thing. Once u truly learn to accept that u are alone and be totally at peace with it then u won’t feel lonely. Loneliness is the fear of being alone, u are resisting. Don’t resist and accept that in this moment u have urself and that is okay. Accept what is and everything else will flow.
Beautifully said, I live that way in solitude and I'm never lonely. Be in harmony with your self and practice self love 💘
It is hard!!
@@cris_here very! but we can do this Cris
Beautifully said
@@sphinxkitty4951 thank you friend 💛
“I always say it’s important to just trust everybody. Trust someone will love you. Trust they will make a mistake. Trust that they have the ability to hurt you. You understand. Everybody is a human being and everybody has the ability to play all these different emotions.”
affirmation for finding love : the person i seek is seeking me, i now dissolve any boundaries standing between us
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This is powerful. I said it and I heard a voice say “go look in the mirror” 😂 I think I need to work on myself more 😂
Thank u for sharing
Love this!! ❤
Single gang where y'all at?!
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Riiiight!!!🙌🏾💗😊🌻😊💗🙌🏾
Gang gang
Me☠️
iIm here! hopefully not for long
I dont care what anyone tells me this man has become my best friend and im finna have myself some nice tea and an a pep talk everyday😂
Why I just found him like a week ago 😔 I believe that the universe connected us and I LOVE IT HERE🤗
Saaaame❤🎉
Being alone has a power very few people can handle -Steven Aitchison.
“You’ll never be happy if you love others, but don’t love yourself. True love begins with self-love.”
“You may be hurt if you love too much, but you will live in misery if you love too little.” From Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill.
I'm literally reading that book rn
Looks like im in constant misery 😞
@@skizzler1232 Only if you continue to tell yourself that. As within so without.
@@user-qo6pt9ll5i nah I've been hurt too much because of loving too much so I choose constant cold depression :(
@@user-qo6pt9ll5i not saying that I like it because I don't. I mean who would but...being too open is dangerouz
Lots of people are alone for a long time & they don’t work on themselves while in solitude...
"lust is a depleting force, Love is a filling force" 🎯
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ This right here 🔥
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Every person you’re in a relationship with is a teacher 🙏🏽
Yes absolutely.
So true.
That and if you don't learn your lessons they will keep be presented in different people and experiences.
Very true, everyone is a mirror
careful with that one luv
I felt so alone in my relationship and kinda lost myself. Got depressed after it ended too. So glad I’m doing good now and happily single 😁
Happening to me right now. :( I lost myself. 7,5 years
@@sophiezett7560 same situation with me, I spent 8 years with him. Breakups are never fun, but it is especially heartbreaking with a long-term relationship where your way of life was so intertwined with theirs. Sending love your way ❤
@@Goodnoodl Sending love your way too. :) I hope you find yourself again. ❤️ I'm still with him. Just have to stop doing the mistakes I made all these years. Mostly my own fault that I don't have any friends anymore. (for example.) All the best!
I’m on my journey of letting go of that situation ship with my ex and I tried to give it my all and I did my best but I can’t keep draining myself over it and it takes up way too much space in my head
@@danielagomez7014 how are you doing now? I feel the exact same way. I had to let go because it just wasn’t going to work.
One thing I truly understood in my last relationship was that, the way we love the other person, is how we want to be loved. It speaks tons on your love-language. How someone loves you, tells you how they want to be loved. This is so important. And if someone is treating you badly, on some level they believe they deserve that themselves. For sure won't be always the case, nothing ever is. But for my case, it was a humongous eye opener. Taught me so much.
Damn... Deep right there
“Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward.” 😌🙌🏽
Ok that’s fire🥶🔥
THIS HERE💯
I like that... 🙂
I don’t get it? How do I move forward by letting go of monkey bars
love this
HARDEST LIFE LESSONS PEOPLE HAVE LEARNED IN THEIR LIVES
1. Not everybody like you but doesn’t mean everyone dislikes you.
2. Not all things will work out the way you planned.
3. Sometimes they just don’t love you back....And most of the time it has nothing to do with you. You’re not worthless because someone you loved doesn’t love you back.
4. No matter how much you love the person if they aren’t right for you then you should leave.
5. Listen to the people who tell you what you don’t want to hear
6. Don’t take people for granted. You never know when they could be gone. You never know how much they man to you until they’re gone.
7. That sometimes being courageous is going to bed and saying “I I’ll try again tomorrow.”
8. Family isn’t always family. Sometimes family is never family. Your family are the people you care for and who care for you. Your family could be your close friends or your pets, anyone.
Powerful and I needed to “hear” this
All points already experienced on my own... Nicely summarised, you went through it all, didn't you..
🙏🏾 peace and love 💕 this comment is everything ✨
word 💯
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I’ve been single for 4 years and I’m finally feeling this need for a romantic partner. I’m just allowing life to happen and the universe will make it happen in divine timing.
dont trust in the universe too much. itll hurt you
Not true… “universe” actually you mean GOD. Who created the universe? Anyway, you been single for 4 years but have you worked on yourself for your future partner? Or have you been sleeping around looking for potential candidates to be your “romantic partner” ?
Just the truthful question without filter. Feeling bad is actually good. Its gives your mind, body and spirt the ability to change. When your happy , you don’t want change because your comfortable. Life is what it is. Good and bad go hand and hand
Don’t get distracted with person after person after person. Get together with yourself, heal, love yourself, forgive yourself, and accept the fact that you are always learning and evolving. Be better, build yourself, get to a point where you are in peace with yourself so you can be in peace with THAT person. 🤍
in order to be fully loved by someone, you must first fully love yourself & accept yourself as you are. this is when you begin to attract authentic people that love you for you
yes 🤍 I do believe this is super important but I do want to point out we don't have to be PERFECT n 100% loving ourself to attract someone.. Some people will lead us into more self love as well through their reflection.
I vibe with this so much. For the first time in my life I'm comfortable being single. I spent my 20's jumping from relationship to relationship. Always depending on someone else for security, love and comfort, but never knowing how to take care of myself. I realized recently that I was in "love" for the wrong reasons and that I would never be able to be a good partner to someone because I didn't yet have a good relationship with myself. So finally, I am solo dolo, and loving it. I'm working on myself everyday to build a foundation of confidence, independence and strength. Maybe one day I'll meet my "perfect" person but in the meantime I'm loving my peace and quiet, alone.
I don't feel like we should think of relationships as forever. That's a lot of pressure, I try to enjoy the now, the adventure, our season, the learning lesson💫
I completely agree with this. People I date will sometimes ask if I see this is going somewhere and I’m just like why can’t we just enjoy the now and not put too much pressure on it. It will work out if it’s supposed to work out.
How does one do that though, I really want to learn! I always get attached too fast too easy Md heartbreaks are around the corner 😭😭😭😭
I wouldn't say have a relationship that is forever but I am upfront about wanting a serious relationship.
TRUTH IS relationships aren’t easy, however every person is an experience to get back to your higher self. As you date different people or in different relationships you are always experiencing a new state of awareness in yourself 💓 don’t worry your person is here but first you must heal to attract healed people
Absolutely 💯🙌
Please can I get this on a shirt or mug ????😊 You literally just broke it down in simplest terms
I agree wholeheartedly!
Wow... This describes exactly what I've dealt with. When I was with this narcissist I went through hell. However, it made me grow more into my spirituality and heal myself. Now my self-love is through the roof after going through that. It's all a journey.* 💕
Wow! 'you must heal to attract healed people', that phrase really touched me, you are completely right
i always compare love relationships to breathing. when we are in a relationship, we give (exhale). when we are single again, we give to ourselves (inhale) if you go from relationship to relationship, we keep exhaling, eventually we'll be drained emotionally. we need to take time in between relationships to inhale, to give to ourselves, to work on ourselves. you need both. and if you don't take that time to inhale, you'll keep having the same relationships, over and over bc we haven't healed yet, we haven't had time to figure out what didn't work in the last one, we didn't learn or grow. you need the inhale just as much as you need to exhale
Love this.
@lynnmiller wow, beautifully said!
Beautifully written
Everything that is for you will come to you effortlessly, when you finally let go of all fears and doubt.
“The idea of marriage spawns out of love.” Personally, this resonated with me so much. I was so happy being single and never thought I would ever want to get married (and I never expected anyone to fill that void). Now, after being in a healthy, loving relationship for a little over 3 years, the want for marriage has grown. I still don’t expect my partner to fill a “void” but I see marriage as being exciting and a sort of reward for the love we’ve grown together.
Love will find you when you’re not looking for it friends. Just move through it & it’ll always come back to you! Happy Sunday lovelies 🤗♥️✨
true♥️
@@oliviaaivilo333 wishing you an abundance of love on your journey! ♥️✨
I never feel alone when reading the comments on your videos.
I am not the only person here who is struggling to let love in again. Not the only one who is learning and growing from trauma. It is when knowing this that I feel that I will get through it all. Won’t be the first or the last to be crying on the floor heart broken. And I won’t be the last wishing for that forever person. It’s what we all experience in the collective. Patience and strength is what I rely on.
Sending some beautiful healing experiences :))
❤❤❤ you’re not alone 😊
You’re blessed 😇
Going through it bad yall. I just went through a break up we were together almost 8 yrs. I needed this, i need to get to know and love myself. Looking for new hobbies and things todo and keep myself busy. Thanks so much fo this Hindz 🕉
Same. Over 2000 days together and now we both pursue different paths. It's been incredibly therapeutic for me to document this experience, the grief, the Love, the pain, the beauty of it all, and the power of your Self. It's a spiral we walk - there will be times we come back to a similar place with a different perspective, perhaps a different pain or appreciation as our Life continues... Writing, video diary, audio notes, art, dance, movement, music (the song, Lateralus, by TOOL articulates the spiral beautifully) tea, sunshine, nature. . . take what you need and find the peace that comes from getting to know this new version of your Self. Like Hindz said, you won't get "over it" but you will get "through it." You got this!
To all those out there listening to this gem! You are loved. I got mad love for you too! I will most likely never meet you, but I support the fck outta you. Go hard!! Love yourself
Taking it step by step! Much Love back from one soul to another 🤗
Thank you 🙏
You can’t give someone what you don’t have yourself! Fall in love with yourself first💙🙏
sending lots of love and light to everyone reading this!
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And you too
Have a beautiful day ❤️
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Don’t take life so seriously. As long as you move with positivity, pure intentions, balance, and joy you will be alright. At the end of the day the more you overthink something the more stress and anxiety you are putting on the situation. Love the Channel and your view points keep speaking your mind man.
I've been singe and comfortable on my own for so long it is hard to imagine giving that up. Got to be something special!
This could not have come at a more perfect time
Definitely got my cup of tea!! Mad love for this channel 🙌🏾
ayeee love it
I love when you said to trust everyone, trust the good & bad & put nothing past anyone bc the one you think that’ll never hurt you could mess you over
I was so lucky to find my person at 15, we parted for 23 years and now back together 5 years. Giving grace to myself after asking lots of mistakes and learning what fits for me has been a big part of the journey to love myself.
I'm physically emotionally and massively spiritualy connected to my partner, he never fails to support me in all I do. I'm so greatful for every moment I get with him. 🥰
Does anyone else get so much more calm everytime he says “you understand?” I love it
Was like this was manifested, i was just thinking about relationships in LA, definitely needed this
maybee 😌♥️
I like how you put that, happy with where you are and being single yet open to that special person coming into your life
Coming to your videos always provides such a healing energy! Thank you HINDZ ✨
learning to be your own source of love and nourishment when single is so important. Thank u for sharing !!
When HINDZ says we grab some tea, we grab some T! ✨
Your voice and raspberry tea have been calming me down these last few weeks. Thank you for being you. 💚
the tea is scalding thank u 💓 I love your videos!!
Always such deep talks on your channel! I'm tapping in with a cup of fresh dark roast coffee brewed in a Chemex and a cranberry muffin
Purest form of love is the one that you have with yourself .... the external will find and appreciate you and it'll be genuine. Whether it works out or not its okay.
loved this so much, thank you. i’m really grateful i discovered your channel today!
you've become my "replacement" for music hindz! i always put a video of yours playing while im cooking or just doing something. such good company and feels like a friend giving me advice! thank you so much for making my days a lil bit more magical
Defining and embodying that divine masculine right here. Thank you for setting this example❤️
thank you 😌🤍 I wanna do a video on divine masculinity soon
@@HINDZSIGHT please do, you radiate it beautifully and sincerely.
Going through a breakup of a 2 and a half years relationship right now... Thanks for making this video.
Same. It’s self-love time now after ignoring myself to please others for so long
@@ailynnmckae1130 Good luck on your journey!
Sending healing vibes your way :))
same it's slowly getting better and easier hope it does for you too
@@ailynnmckae1130 so true ❤️
Your videos are so healing. Thank you for your perspectives.
Thank you for your love and wisdom, Hindz. You are such a kind spirit and I feel blessed having found your channel and being able to listen and shout a big yeeeeeeeeessssss! to what you share 💛
1 year ago I knew my relationship was over. This video....this was what I needed to hear to finally let go completely. Thank you. 🙏🙏🙏
Keep focusing on what you love doing and naturally radiating some of the infinite love within you constantly, and you will attract love into your life :)
To who Evers reading this, (I know everyone says this, but I seriously am talking to you specifically.)
He/she is out there, right now, doing his/her thing. Probably wondering when your going to pop up in their life. :)
Just keep flowing with the process, trust your heart, trust your soul, and be the most authentic version of yourself that you can be. Cos you got it all within you brother/sister, all the love you may be seeking externally, is all already yours :) you just gotta tune into it :)) it’s here, it’s always been here, and it always will be here. It’s eternal. Love is the only truth. Love is your truth.
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Solitude is so beautiful... healing is beautiful, in all aspects. It opens your eyes to so many things about yourself. It makes it easier to see through the bs and for those who are truly for your soul. 💗
I love your content so much, it's such a breath of fresh air and your vibe is so calming. Thank you for being here!
I haven’t been watching lately and I’ve been OFF. Thank you hindz for always being here. I’m catching up today.
Thank you for teaching me the vital differences between Chemistry and compatibility. I’m just coming out of a relationship where our chemistry was amazing, but she wasn’t willing to make those sacrifices to keep us compatible because she was going off to college and didn’t want to try long distance. This video helped me a lot! Thank you hindz 🙏❤️
This video is exactly what I needed right now. I stumbled across your channel a few weeks ago & you’ve helped me heal. Thank you for being my friend hindz♥️
Thank you Hindz for always making my calm calmer, love you💗💗 😌🥰💗💗
Your voice is so calming my King. I have forgiven all of my ex's and myself. I am now in a place of continuously growing and healing, this allows me to attract and manifest the one who is meant for me. I'm actually drinking some lemon and ginger tea as I watch this...Thank you!🙏🏽💜✨
I’m drinking someeee honey chai turmeric tea 🫖 ✨ also I cried while watching this. Thank you for being an awesome human being.
I learn a new thing with every video of yours! Thank you for this, you're truly amazing! Sending you all my light and love! ♥
Thank you, so much for this message!!! The way you eloquently talked about life, live,and relationships was magical. Blessings to you!
I pray everyone finds true peace and happiness. We all deserve it ❤️
This is right on time , I’m in the forgiveness stage forgiveness of myself and exes it definitely is like grieving someone because I’m never going back and I also am taking my power back I love love too I’ll never give up on that 💛
me too ❤
Me too 💙
So soothing...your energy and message is so soothing. I totally agree about not jumping from one thing to the next.
I love your energy, your advice and voice. So calming✨🙏🏼
HINDZ you deserve the growth of your channel and this community. BLESSINGS 💚
thank u!! appreciate you tuning in and being here 😌🤍
I have the chills at how insightful you are!!! Big props sir!!
you've been getting me through this life shit , thank you ... never stop doing what you do !! its a vibetingggg
I just ended a 2 year relationship a week ago and I needed this video. You are such an amazing, radiant soul and thank you for sharing that with the world. 💙
Same here but a little over a month ago now. I wish you healing! 💖
@@roslenev Same here dear! I hope you're doing well 🥰
I got my coffee instead of tea but it’s still a vibe ting 🙏
Thank you again Hindz, coming in with more loving truths. I believe every relationship we experience is there to teach us, help us grow, and help us figure out what we want out of relationships. They're never a waste of time when they don't work out.
I always make myself a cup of tea before I watch 🍵 it’s a vibe 💛🦋
Ended my 6 year relationship this weekend and this video was so comforting. Thank you, Hindz. Big love
Hey may I ask why your breaking up after 6 years?
@@bluemicks1 Found out he was subscribed to girls' OnlyFans in our local area lol. Yep, total waste of my time.
@@normajeane507 I’m glad you got rid of that dead weight, onwards and upwards ❤️
@@333lookz That is so kind of you to say, thank you my dear :-)
I have been grieving over my last love for a very long time. She had a very big impact on my life. The other night I went to bed sad, depressed and I felt lost. I had about a dozen dreams. One dream stood out the most to me. I was walking through the woods and leopard jumps out and it surprises me. It starts to circle around me and growl. My first instinct was to run so I ran. As I’m running I look back and I see the leopard jump and pounce on me. Right before it hits me it disappears and I wake up. I feel the dream was a realization for me. I feel the leopard represented my fears, the feelings I cannot seem to let go of. Me trying to escape my true self. It was almost like a wake up call for me. I feel like I’m ready to start my life journey to find my true self. My happiness. My peace.
Hell yeah Mike! I’ve been going through something similar and it ain’t easy healing but we got this dude! Stay positive and best wishes on your journey to come!
I have no idea how you always do it, but you're literally able to pinpoint so so so much and it makes me feel so connected
your videos calm me down so much. i feel like I am having a conversation with a friend who is teaching me a lot of nice stuff. Keep going, much love xoxo
I’ve had the problem, healed from my past and went into a new relationship but then got wrecked hard. You can give someone all your love but if they haven’t healed themselves before they’ll maybe hurt you and you find yourself wondering why are they doing this? But yeah... it all starts making sense... thank you Hindz ❤️🙏🏻
Their is so much SHAME for me if I give my body to a man and the relationship doesn’t work out . I am hypersensitive about body count. I am learning to wait . Your words on lust versus love is very helpful
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watching this on a Sunday morning while drinking green tea. such vibes. thank you. 💚
i rly needed to hear this, its easy to feel that bc 1 year had passed ive "fully healed" but it is so true that theres always so much more to heal and to grow
does anyone else feel like they have multiple personalities so you gotta find someone compatible with all of them 👁️👄👁️
Chemistry is the reactions that happen between two people. Compatibility is how well those reactions work together,
today i had lemon tea! this was a vibe, thank you
thank you from the bottom of my heart for this video. i'm going through a tough time with a breakup and your words, truth and spirit are invaluable
its so satisfying when he says 'ya understand?'
You are worth yourself loving all of you and then loving the ones around you. I also have love for my fur babies proud 4 legged mom lol 🐎💛🐾
I can't tell you how much I needed to find you in this moment. Thank you
I love your energy. Watching your video is like having a real conversation with you. Please keep making more videos
i thought i met with my soulmate. He broke up with me, everything was falling apart. Then i watched this video, thank you hindz. i realize what love is, what experiencing is. i can see rn, i feel much better
For me, love has always been something I want the most & simultaneously fear the most. I have deeply ingrained fear of men & being cheated on but it’s something I’m working on. You can’t control what your partner ends up doing but you can decide to try your best to pick a good partner, & you can decide how you react if the relationship ends/goes south. Sometimes things aren’t meant to be forever and I’m learning to be okay with that.
I have that same fear with women. You can really work on it though. Mine is worse because I don't just fear cheating but more innocent flirting behind my back as well. I'm doing my best to change that perception I have.