Can you get YOUR EX back If they are dating some new?

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Komentáře • 232

  • @sirg-had8821
    @sirg-had8821 Před 8 měsíci +31

    F**k 'em.
    They're either using the new person as a rebound, or you were the rebound.
    Block all contact with the wretched animals
    And give yourself the closure.

  • @johnachtemichuk9832
    @johnachtemichuk9832 Před rokem +145

    I just picked this random video of yours but your helped me completely get my girlfriend back and to really understand and appreciate me different ! Thank you so much. I love her and she is in my life again.

    • @Trueblue03
      @Trueblue03 Před rokem +16

      Congratulations tu you man best wishes to you both 👍🏾

    • @Wittylee8828
      @Wittylee8828 Před rokem +14

      Don't mess it up again please

    • @blacademic
      @blacademic  Před rokem +18

      Thank you for being here! 🤞🏿

    • @N.ireland
      @N.ireland Před rokem +4

      Congratulations to you Man 💪

    • @patriciaromero1989
      @patriciaromero1989 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@blacademic hi, I’ve been watching your videos and my situation is different, I broke up with my ex boyfriend and after I broke with him he started dating my friend and he moved in with her in a month and they are engaged now and he said he loves her but I’m still in love with him and want him back and I regret broiling up with them and we were together for 6 years together and living together and they been together for like 9 months. I’m having a very hard time. Please help me. Please

  • @hjb1199
    @hjb1199 Před rokem +105

    But why do you want to date your ex who's been dating another person while you were in a very dark place and they come back to you when that failed?....put your dignity first.
    Just move on to someone better

  • @thenamshana
    @thenamshana Před rokem +5

    I listen to others CZcamsrs, but bro. You keep things easy, simple and real. Thanks bro.

  • @ariellethomas-be1qz
    @ariellethomas-be1qz Před rokem +82

    Sometimes I have to rewatch this videos and remember not to let the fearful thoughts take over. My ex is in a rebound relationship and she’s already said she’s in love with them. Fucking hurts but I’m trying to stay the course. You’re awesome coach???

    • @markieb9369
      @markieb9369 Před rokem +7

      Our situation is similar

    • @emojiman2947
      @emojiman2947 Před rokem +15

      @@markieb9369 i’m in this situation too she got with the guy one day after we broke up

    • @br4vetrave1er
      @br4vetrave1er Před rokem +15

      same shit guys. fucking hurts, but she said she's happy, and honestly i'm glad she is. but damn, hurts so much

    • @k.c9002
      @k.c9002 Před rokem

      Update?

    • @ariellethomas-be1qz
      @ariellethomas-be1qz Před rokem +1

      @@k.c9002 did a coaching call with coach back in March, Even though he didn’t think my ex and her rebound would last to this day I can only assume they did. I’ve kept in no contact for about 6 months now, and I feel a hell of a lot better.!!

  • @MetalionMusic
    @MetalionMusic Před měsícem +2

    Hey! Just wanted to reach out and say that I really needed to hear this right now. Thank you for reminding me that the best thing I can do for me right now is to focus on myself and be the best me I can be, thank you for reminding me that my ex will take notice, especially since we have friends in common and a similar social circle, and thank you for mentioning what they are doing now is likely a rebound, it definitely fits those hallmarks. You helped me to see that it is a win-win. If working on myself means that they feel like they missed out and there's another chance, we were deeply in love and I would love for that chance, but if they don't want that, I become a better man and can share that with a woman who will be grateful to have me in their life. Much love, peace, and respect to you!

  • @thomesc6214
    @thomesc6214 Před rokem +7

    This guy is brilliant. Him and Coach Lee.

  • @abhishekalandkar1537
    @abhishekalandkar1537 Před rokem +7

    Bro , bro , bro , coach blac , you earn my respect !

  • @patsalazar2916
    @patsalazar2916 Před rokem +6

    Thanks for this! I heard he’s dating someone new so this was very helpful. Thanks 😊

  • @greytheprofessional7413
    @greytheprofessional7413 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Thank you, this is exactly what I needed to hear

  • @cmnzn674
    @cmnzn674 Před rokem +2

    Love this content. 😊

  • @najmahabrahams856
    @najmahabrahams856 Před rokem +5

    Awesome advise 👌 walked away from a 8& half years situationship 💪🏻
    Even changed his name to EX” in my contact list… you rock coach Black .., thanks so much for all you do ✨🎁🦋

    • @blacademic
      @blacademic  Před rokem +3

      Thank you so much for supporting and for being here

  • @Mkxo.
    @Mkxo. Před rokem +1

    Tysmmm for this!!🙏🏻♥️

  • @JulianDee
    @JulianDee Před 2 měsíci

    Thanks for the wise words brother

  • @martirmartinez7943
    @martirmartinez7943 Před rokem +15

    Hey coach blac, I been seeing your videos and this video hit me pretty good and explained a lot, my ex gf of 4 years left me for another man and with in weeks started dating another man and that hit me bad, she even once told me that “she is happy, and treats her great and better then me” that burned me up that was four months ago. I barely speak at all just here and there because we share a Daughter together but since then I have worked on myself, I lost 67 lbs in four months, bulking up my body and I just finished nursing school. The break up was so hard because the mother of kids left me out of the blue and for another guy within months and I didn’t even go to my graduation because i was really down.
    Since seeing your videos and subscribing to it I have gotten a lot of motivation and explanation and I want to say thank you coach. The no contact is hard because we do share a daughter but I do not invest myself anymore in her or what she does and I focus solely on myself and my daughter. I am a ER Nurse now

    • @FavoriteOtumu
      @FavoriteOtumu Před 9 měsíci

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    • @FavoriteOtumu
      @FavoriteOtumu Před 9 měsíci

      Hello 🖕friend, 🖕I recommend this great woman who fixed my relationship in 24 hours, now my partner is back and more committed after many years of separation and breakup, she can help you too...♠️♠️♠️♠️

    • @keithbrown2425
      @keithbrown2425 Před 6 měsíci

      Did she ever try coming back

  • @EagleEye88
    @EagleEye88 Před rokem +24

    The best thing to do immediately after the split is go Zero Dark Thirty. Disappear, go ghost on her, hit the gym and start bodybuilding. Keep a high protein diet, grab some powerful supplements, and fortify your body. Get busy staying positive around other positive minded people in the gym, and start talking to other women. The gym is full of hot women and they will definitely notice you. Save money, make more, spit game to other women you meet in public, get numbers, set dates, and stay on the grind. If you follow these procedures, you won’t care what your ex is doing. To move on faster, don’t be viewing her social media or contacting anyone she knows. Stay in the new routines and make this a fresh start. This is exactly what I did when my ex cheated and left me for some other guy.

    • @EagleEye88
      @EagleEye88 Před rokem

      @@johndemario8173 this happened back in November and no I haven’t heard a word. I haven’t said anything, and I’ve been a ghost. Personally I couldn’t get involved with her again considering the circumstances of cheating, so it doesn’t matter if I hear anything from her again.

    • @joshp146
      @joshp146 Před rokem

      True . I’ve done all this , went on dates & hooked up with many diff girls , maybe about 6 or 7 girls , but they’re just not the same as my ex . We had a really good connection & so much in common .
      It’s been a year and a half & been a year since we last had any contact . I’ve detatched from her , but thinking about just reaching out to her

    • @FavoriteOtumu
      @FavoriteOtumu Před 9 měsíci

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    • @FavoriteOtumu
      @FavoriteOtumu Před 9 měsíci

      Hello 🖕friend, 🖕I recommend this great woman who fixed my relationship in 24 hours, now my partner is back and more committed after many years of separation and breakup, she can help you too...♠️♠️♠️♠️.

  • @sreach93
    @sreach93 Před 6 měsíci +3

    The rebound is the knight in shining armour or princess who needs rescuing. The concept of a rebound was planted when they were 6 years old reading fairytale books. They've just carried it into adulthood. The rebound is a fairytale in their mind.

  • @atudaveta7317
    @atudaveta7317 Před rokem +2

    Bro the best advice ever 🎉
    Really appreciate your channel ❤… stay blessed

    • @FavoriteOtumu
      @FavoriteOtumu Před 9 měsíci

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    • @FavoriteOtumu
      @FavoriteOtumu Před 9 měsíci

      Hello 🖕friend, 🖕I recommend this great woman who fixed my relationship in 24 hours, now my partner is back and more committed after many years of separation and breakup, she can help you too...♠️♠️♠️♠️

  • @ronaldtarup6
    @ronaldtarup6 Před rokem +1

    Thankyou so much coach this video mean so much to me!

    • @FavoriteOtumu
      @FavoriteOtumu Před 9 měsíci

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  • @veeyalafaapae798
    @veeyalafaapae798 Před 17 hodinami

    I love you.

  • @Shadow-sl8wj
    @Shadow-sl8wj Před rokem +7

    🐾 I wish him well. Just stay away from me. BCZ I have nothing to do with him anymore.

  • @georgethomas9869
    @georgethomas9869 Před měsícem

    Thank you brother i let you know the result.. ❤️🙂

  • @daynastubbs929
    @daynastubbs929 Před rokem +30

    The only thing i dont agree with is the time it takes to heal after a break up. I was only with mine for a year and a half, but it was amazing from beginning to end. The healing is based on if you were emotionally, spiritually, mentally and physically invested. If you were invested in all of these areas, there is no telling how long it will take. ✌️

    • @FavoriteOtumu
      @FavoriteOtumu Před 9 měsíci

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  • @Ellael98
    @Ellael98 Před rokem +12

    1 month for every year is completely unrealistic. I’d say 3 months per year AT LEAST.

    • @FavoriteOtumu
      @FavoriteOtumu Před 9 měsíci

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    • @FavoriteOtumu
      @FavoriteOtumu Před 9 měsíci

      Hello 🖕friend, 🖕I recommend this great woman who fixed my relationship in 24 hours, now my partner is back and more committed after many years of separation and breakup, she can help you too...♠️♠️♠️♠️

  • @user-eo7zf8se8d
    @user-eo7zf8se8d Před 7 měsíci

    coach i'm confused! can you elaborate something for me plz? it's about the formula you said, a month for every year... i was with my ex for a year and a half before she broke up with me, so what you are suggesting is that she can move on and heal completely in a matter of 1 month??! is that even possible? specially in my case,she was a dismissive avoidant so she was completely shut down in that first month! so her first reaction to my no-contact strategy was about 1.5 month after the break up, and in the 2nd month she got into a new relationship, up to now which is month 3 , i was operating based on the assumption that it is a rebound relationship but what you are suggesting is that this is a valid and genuine relationship? am i correct??

  • @Trex7124
    @Trex7124 Před 14 dny

    I found out today.
    I said everything I had to say via text. At the end I said I will, "forget him".

  • @lolzmellabear3830
    @lolzmellabear3830 Před 6 měsíci

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @linalina22277
    @linalina22277 Před rokem +4

    Now my ex contacts me every week since we broke up in October 😮 huh ! Do you think he is having second thoughts

  • @alex96610
    @alex96610 Před 4 měsíci +1

    My girl and I broke up 6 months to the day, we broke up on 9/11 of all days and last night I got a call that she was with another guy at a bar. Then I found out she did not go home, she arrived the next day. My heart dropped and all the anxiety and emotions came back. We were together 8 years and she never stayed the night because her parents would not let her, now since we've been broken up, she stays out every weekend, god knows where. I have no control nor say over this, I know I need to move on but damn, it just hurts. I want this pain to go away.

  • @ericawhite9430
    @ericawhite9430 Před rokem +3

    For me I'm so tired of men who chase me,and get me, I tell them from the door, I don't want to hear about an ex,constantly especially one from 10 or 20 yrs,ago,nobody deserves that,period it's abusive 😤 ,so if this is the case like me,don't take them back,they still stuck and in love with an ex,you have no chance on a future with them,because they still stuck in the past and that person has their heart,period they will never truly love you,let them go,and I did,so if he ever comes back and I know he will, I have moved on,thank goodness and anyone in that situation should too.

    • @FavoriteOtumu
      @FavoriteOtumu Před 9 měsíci

      Hello 🖕friend, 🖕I recommend this great woman who fixed my relationship in 24 hours, now my partner is back and more committed after many years of separation and breakup, she can help you too...♠️♠️♠️♠️

  • @boscomichne
    @boscomichne Před 6 měsíci

    thank you !!!!

    • @DestinyAjagbu
      @DestinyAjagbu Před 2 měsíci

      I was browsing the app and got some psychic prophecies about you. Are you still in love with someone who you think doesn't love you?

    • @DestinyAjagbu
      @DestinyAjagbu Před 2 měsíci

      He will help you.

  • @rasoolzakee3082
    @rasoolzakee3082 Před 29 dny

    Can the same principles work on a friend with benefits I was in a friend with benefits situation with the girl and I ruined the relationship and I want her back

  • @MrDustbunny90
    @MrDustbunny90 Před 7 měsíci

    I pray I can get mine sir

  • @Lexo593
    @Lexo593 Před 5 měsíci +2

    What if she's posting this new person and going out with them for a couple of months but they aren't official? Is that not a rebound?

  • @HOUSEOFPRAYERSMINISTRY-bj3kw

    Wow I actually read that book lol

  • @gloriaJ_wong
    @gloriaJ_wong Před rokem

    M literally heartbroken cz the person who was obsessed with me found a new one n left me.5yrs together but he says she’s just a frend.We don’t talk no more,begged him but He said he doesn’t want me anymore.M literally heartbroken 😢

  • @briathorne9585
    @briathorne9585 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Me and my ex officially split in April 2022 bc he told me he wanted to focus on himself which I knew was an excuse to talk to someone else. There was sometime where we didn’t talk as much but he still kept in touch and would text me but it wasn’t as consistent as before. He would also text me out of no where accusing me of talking to other people. He would also text me but would avoid trying to see me. But I recently found out that he talked to someone in June 2022 and got them pregnant and I found out in May 2023 when the baby was born. So he’s been texting me the whole time he was with someone while they were pregnant and I feel so hurt. I even seen him after he told me they didn’t work out. I kind of feel like I’m back up and I feel like he really wants to be with her bc they have a child together but still wants to hold on to me in some type of way. I don’t deserve that and idk what to do. I think about this everyday and it is really bothering me.

    • @soniya503
      @soniya503 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Focus on your life leave that jerk

  • @HealWithJess32
    @HealWithJess32 Před rokem +1

    What if this was a baddd situation my ex said we will never be together that she doesn’t want me or even sex from me

  • @jenniferarzadon2525
    @jenniferarzadon2525 Před rokem +1

    I really appreciate you couch i love your topic po thank you po gid bless you po❤️🙏🏽

    • @FavoriteOtumu
      @FavoriteOtumu Před 9 měsíci

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    • @FavoriteOtumu
      @FavoriteOtumu Před 9 měsíci

      Hello 🖕friend, 🖕I recommend this great woman who fixed my relationship in 24 hours, now my partner is back and more committed after many years of separation and breakup, she can help you too...♠️♠️♠️♠️.

  • @lisamichele6892
    @lisamichele6892 Před 7 měsíci

    Just curious, how could my ex be watching me and seeing a difference in me when we are both blocked from all of each others’ social media, and I don’t run into him.

  • @piersonperez4005
    @piersonperez4005 Před měsícem

    Honestly I lost mine. She came out the blue. We first dated back in hs but I did screwed up and she never wanted to talk to me again. Back in 2019 she came back after I got out of a bad break up and I was afraid to love her due to how bad my break up left me. Yea I did screwed up she didn't talk to me until she reached out for closure. We then hung out last year but she only finds me as a friend. I cut her off after I saw she started dating someone new few months down the line. I wanted to love her I did just I was still lost and I wished I did something different to avoid this issue

  • @linaespinazo1579
    @linaespinazo1579 Před 11 dny

    we have 3 kids my wife cheated on me will no contact and improving my self bring my wife back if they are hanging the person who they used to cheated on me ?

  • @morpheus3190
    @morpheus3190 Před 8 měsíci

    I found out by accident that she has been dating someone new. I do not think I want her back now and could ever forgive her? I feel like she monkey branched on me and lied about the other person when she broke up. I am in no contact forever…. 5 years down the drain.

  • @IsraelIpi-fp9py
    @IsraelIpi-fp9py Před 5 měsíci

    This is my situation. We've been married for 7years.. She wanted space and I gave space but we still seeing each other until a few days ago she is with someone new living together. What does this really mean

  • @Kaimerah
    @Kaimerah Před 9 měsíci

    Well she’s not dating someone new, but they’re having a little flirtatious fling….. granted my over reaction over something has pushed her toward the other guy a bit more but she does wanna spend time with me and stuff again. We were together for 4 years and it was about 4 months before she started talking to this person BUT, again she wants to stay in contact with me and pre me blowing up over sumn, she was still trying to hang with me, still sending me pictures of herself etc

  • @JesusHernandez-jh4by
    @JesusHernandez-jh4by Před 11 dny

    I have a question. I was in a relationship for three years and after 11 months he’s dating someone. Is there a chance he might come back?

  • @timothyhergert4199
    @timothyhergert4199 Před 15 dny

    I got blocked by my ex on everything even my number lol she dated someone new quickly apparently. People just gotta come to the realization that they will never come back. Just move on, they don’t ever comeback. They get a richer guy or whatever and they ain’t going to leave that situation.

  • @clarkpatrick123
    @clarkpatrick123 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 17 years just before Christmas she told me she don’t want to be with me then I found out she started seeing someone in the 2nd week in January but she still talks to me and I still go around the house because we have twins together but when I try and bring it up she shoots me down she goes hot then cold please someone give me advice please my heart is broke as I have been fully faithful and never done her wrong

  • @ivydune4185
    @ivydune4185 Před 8 měsíci

    I have a question: his new girlfriend (who also works with us) is checking all my stories on ig. She’s like the first viewer as soon as I post it. And I rarely post anything. She knows me, so she’s not seeing who is ex was. She actually befriended me before they were dating just to control what was going on between us)
    What can be the reason for her IG behavior.

  • @SAITEJA-vj6sg
    @SAITEJA-vj6sg Před rokem

    Bro 2 months back my ex dumped me and started dating another guy as you said iam working upon me ✌️

    • @FavoriteOtumu
      @FavoriteOtumu Před 9 měsíci

      Hello 🖕friend, 🖕I recommend this great woman who fixed my relationship in 24 hours, now my partner is back and more committed after many years of separation and breakup, she can help you too...♠️♠️♠️♠️.

  • @KimberlyJohnson-fc3do
    @KimberlyJohnson-fc3do Před rokem +2

    What if he ghosted you behind two years and with someone else and it’s been six months and I have still not gotten over it.
    I am in no contact but he is still is not reaching out

  • @balkee42
    @balkee42 Před měsícem

    What if your ex broke it off cuz u had super long relationship and never got engaged with her? Then started dating a dude a few months later? Any hope for me or did i blow it

  • @asi7850
    @asi7850 Před 4 měsíci

    My ex brokeup with me 4 month before.&started a relationship with a guy and she ended that within 1 week.after 1 month she started other relationship with other guy whom she only know 10 days.and after 2 month he cheated her with other girl and before leaving he badly physically abused her.after 1 month he again came back before 1 week and he asked apologoand she again gone to him..I don’t know what to do..I never did no contact..I was there these 4 months all days..help me..

  • @AntwhaleNearfar
    @AntwhaleNearfar Před rokem +1

    You forgot the one in someone new.

  • @nonenone6884
    @nonenone6884 Před rokem +3

    Is been a month and she was Across the street. Next. At my store then in a restaurant seating across from me. Everytime I see her she's closer but doesn't talk

    • @FavoriteOtumu
      @FavoriteOtumu Před 9 měsíci

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    • @FavoriteOtumu
      @FavoriteOtumu Před 9 měsíci

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  • @rudronildas3704
    @rudronildas3704 Před měsícem

    My ex is dating someone after 15 days of break up and me and my ex were in a relationship for 2 years..... will she ever come back to me?

  • @lorddarin3943
    @lorddarin3943 Před rokem +1

    We have been in a relationship for two years, we broke up on November, and told me that she just wants to develop herself and work on her psychs, but in January she told me that she is talking to a new guy and she lost her feelings for me and we had strong conflict because of that and then she blocked me everywhere, what do you think, is it reboundry relationship and will she come back if I applied no contact rule?

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  • @princhipessa1969
    @princhipessa1969 Před 8 měsíci +2

    I actually left my ex this time due to very toxic controlling behaviors. I loved her for over 12+ years so I seriously doubt any newbie will tolerate her BS. I’m not proud that I did but she’ll destroy her new relationship without a doubt.

    • @cmockingjay7265
      @cmockingjay7265 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Same here. Was with her 14 years, caught her cheating with a coworker and said enough. Monkey branching and dysfunction don’t work well together.

    • @princhipessa1969
      @princhipessa1969 Před 8 měsíci

      @@cmockingjay7265 no, it certainly doesn’t. New Person will discover that soon enough.

  • @zsp_0334
    @zsp_0334 Před rokem +1

    When she choose a girl ??

  • @bethelodutusin-ih2rw
    @bethelodutusin-ih2rw Před 10 měsíci

    so painful

  • @terryjohnson261
    @terryjohnson261 Před 4 měsíci +1

    What if they had someone before it was over? He was still stringing me along until I came by and saw her there

    • @annemarie7203
      @annemarie7203 Před měsícem

      This happened to me too 😔 our situationship of 8 months ended and he’s already seeing someone new just a week after. He was so unfair and strung me along for his own benefit and kept me as an option

  • @ishamina.athirah
    @ishamina.athirah Před rokem +1

    Hi coach, as always your advice and your videos are very helpful. I have a question. I'm in the middle of a divorce and custody battle. My husband has left me for a very young girl, and I had recently found out that he has been having an affair with her for 3 years now. That is a long time to be with someone, so that can't just be a rebound. Do you think that there is something special between them or is it just the beginning of their "puppy love" phase that eventually won't last?

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  • @ariellethomas-be1qz
    @ariellethomas-be1qz Před 5 měsíci

    Actually I’ve had zero contact with her I mean zero! A friend told me she was engaged. it’s been a year now I’ve moved on..

  • @Ohthats.twan5
    @Ohthats.twan5 Před rokem +3

    Mind dating someone new I’m hurting bad but tryan get her off my mind time to work on myself

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  • @Pleasuremachine100
    @Pleasuremachine100 Před měsícem

    Do you really want to

  • @susananavarrete2801
    @susananavarrete2801 Před rokem +4

    What if he waited about a year to start dating someone else coach?
    But yes, I’m working on myself (it was a 10 year relationship with them btw)

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  • @dollanbosire-du1sx
    @dollanbosire-du1sx Před rokem

    Hello coach,our relationship lasted for only 6 months and he dumped me,he called me me after 4months and we went out together drank and had fun we went in his house we spent a night on the same bed but I refused to have sex with him he sorted me and he stopped talking to me again is he going to come back or that's the end?😊

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  • @maccoronetswoop6937
    @maccoronetswoop6937 Před měsícem

    My ex got over me within 2days she is with a new guy I can’t believe this 😂

  • @clairecatton1332
    @clairecatton1332 Před 3 měsíci

    Ex took 3 weeks to get over me but I have to see him 6 times a week because he has our baby 3 nights it kills me every single time I see him 😢

  • @MrJuliendeLoin
    @MrJuliendeLoin Před rokem +3

    No your studies about the time to heal after a break up is wrong, the real number is 30%. Basically, 6 years relationship, you need 2 years to heal 100%.
    I mean healing 3 years relationship in 3 months is kind of absurde to me.

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  • @jwhiteking
    @jwhiteking Před 10 měsíci +3

    I have reconcile with my wife, but she is not yet sexually attracted, though will plan on living together next year jenuary....but how do I revive her sexual feeling for me

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  • @davemaurer7341
    @davemaurer7341 Před 6 měsíci

    Unless they are dissmissive avoidants. .

  • @babyluvjr
    @babyluvjr Před rokem +1

    So are they ONLY watching u on social media? What if u dont have social media? Like me, i dont use social media

    • @thecongo8505
      @thecongo8505 Před rokem +1

      Then, let them find you … don’t go to them. The farther you are from them, the more attractive you will be

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    @denniseperez6158 Před rokem +1

    I have been talking to this guy for one year, he was the one contacting me and calling 3 or 4 times a day, he said is not looking for anybody. Is been 2 months he is acting very distant, i need your help. Please

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  • @julianhenry8141
    @julianhenry8141 Před 10 měsíci +1

    My ex and I went NC for a few months as they lied to me a lot and I couldn't deal with it. I went NC for 3 months and we dated three years and talked to him to make amends since I felt over it. Genuinely we had a good convo after NC. He apologized to me and we had a great talk about being open and missing each other. He's got someone but he's unhappy by the sound of it and the guy crashes at his place. He compared me to him in terms of living and just vibes and he said he misses me a lot and he argues with the new guy a lot (it's only been 5 months) I told him I'd give him space but he said he was going to make things smoother on his side before we talk. If he mentioned he wanted to break up with the guy if they got into one more fight... How's the situation looking coach? Or to anyone?

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  • @LhakpaDrukpa
    @LhakpaDrukpa Před 10 měsíci +2

    After that i was deeply hurt,lost and in pain .......i couldn't eat well.....its been now three 3 days without contact with my ex ........i did what i could .......coach is there any chance she is going to come back to me

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    • @unluckydreamer1156
      @unluckydreamer1156 Před 22 dny

      What happened

  • @Naural2024
    @Naural2024 Před rokem +2

    Hello we broke up he blocked me I see he moved on. I did send my last text message.

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  • @pawel3241
    @pawel3241 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I had a relationship over 7 years. Its been 2 years and still not over them. 7 months? No, that's not true. She betrayed my trust and had an affair. Cant ever accept her back yet cannot stop thinking about the good times.

    • @JulianDee
      @JulianDee Před 2 měsíci

      That's rough man can't imagine what's it's doing to your head I've recently come out of my first real relationship she had blocked me and started dating someone else I've been obsessing about it recently but trying to move on stay strong brother

    • @pawel3241
      @pawel3241 Před 2 měsíci

      @JulianDee she has been attempting to reach out to me. I keep it brief. I have noticed she mirrors me a lot. If I say something she will respond in a very similar way. She has shown yo have a lot of narcassit traits, I'm just shocked how I ignored all the signs. Love really is blind.

    • @JulianDee
      @JulianDee Před 2 měsíci

      @pawel3241 Yeah very different to what I'm experiencing but I feel for you don't know what to do for the best I'm trying to look at the negatives and trying to reinvent myself still miss her terribly though stay strong bro will only make you a stronger person in the long run

    • @pawel3241
      @pawel3241 Před 2 měsíci

      @JulianDee it's been 1.5 years now. I'm doing much better. Even if she would beg, I would never take her back. Once a woman leaves you for another man. You know she was never meant to be in your life. No matter how much we thought they would be. She also apologized for what she did and said if it was reversed, she couldn't imagine how she would feel. She at least apologized for hurting me. But I take it with a grain of salt.

    • @JulianDee
      @JulianDee Před 2 měsíci

      @@pawel3241 yeah she left me for someone else I could have done more in our relationship but I did more than she gave me credit for when I confessed my love for her she blocked me so I wrote her a letter trying to get some closure she returned it ripped up this is my first heartbeat at 31 I was an emotional wreck still healing everyone in the comments are talking negatively about there exes but it isn't in my nature to be hateful despite what's she's done to me I must have really hurt her unintentionally I still love her I'm staying true to I am which is always seeing the best in people thanks for sharing your experiences mate it's comforting knowing I'm not alone ❤

  • @nathanielsalalac5037
    @nathanielsalalac5037 Před 11 měsíci +3

    I'm just a rebound for her and she found someone new again. Will she come back to me

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      @shanrickruiz2245 Před 7 měsíci

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  • @Jdub1981
    @Jdub1981 Před rokem +1

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    If I think I was a rebound relationship, can I get her back too?

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  • @ericawhite9430
    @ericawhite9430 Před rokem +6

    Why would you even put yourself through that,once they cheat they never stop seeing the other person 🤔, period people learn a break up is gods way of protecting you, if you go back and they hurt u even worse, that's on you,

    • @beats-by-skrill8925
      @beats-by-skrill8925 Před rokem +1

      A rebound relationship isn't cheating. You have the two confused. Now cheating on the other hand is a whole different story.

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    • @biggerthanhiphop7641
      @biggerthanhiphop7641 Před 9 měsíci

      ​​@@beats-by-skrill8925when a person is in a full blown relationship 1 week later . 9 out of 10 times they were already seeing the person when they was with you..that's cheating

  • @HealWithJess32
    @HealWithJess32 Před rokem +2

    What if they did deal with their emotions

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  • @marcuselliottsr
    @marcuselliottsr Před rokem +2

    What if you aren't the ex they go back too

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  • @gettemdmoney1039
    @gettemdmoney1039 Před rokem +3

    I want my ex back

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  • @Ericgodisgood
    @Ericgodisgood Před rokem +1

    You can not get your ex back if she blocked your number in Facebook in Instagram so this not true

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  • @del_0221
    @del_0221 Před 5 měsíci

    Does all this work even if im the one that hurt him which caused the break up? Like obviously it wasnt intensional but like how do i get him back if he's hurt by me? I'm working on those mistakes too tho

    • @del_0221
      @del_0221 Před 5 měsíci

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  • @lufuno3956
    @lufuno3956 Před rokem +1

    I find my ex sleeping with someone else and we have daughter and she has moved out with has new boyfriend she's doesn't want to talk to me anymore

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  • @GiorgosYfa
    @GiorgosYfa Před 2 dny

    1 year relationship. 7 months since break up. 4 months nc. She's finally dating again. She's with a guy from what i hear. Idc serious or not. I know she isn't coming back. She stands by her words. Meanwhile i didn't stop crying for 4 months straight. I feel like when my parents die i won't cry for so long. 7 months and counting. I still cry sometimes. I still find everyone else unattractive. I still can't get a boner. Idk what i need to do. It's like i don't want to help myself anymore.

    • @GiorgosYfa
      @GiorgosYfa Před 2 dny

      So it didn't take 1 month only to get over it. To neither of us. But she's finally free. I'm not tho. I'm still hoping.

  • @DT-kl7uf
    @DT-kl7uf Před 10 měsíci

    just wanted to add some responses to help your agolrhythem....At this point I dont want this chick back

  • @pimpindistress101
    @pimpindistress101 Před rokem +2

    Dated someone for 7 months and everything was going good. Sex was on point anytime I wanted it. We went out all the time doing things together like concerts at casino and all that. She owned a two-family home and one day her tenant moved out then she told me she was stressed out cuz of her financial situation so I backed off to give her her space cuz she was starting to treat me a little distant so I figured let me back off. She breadcrumbed me every now and then just stopped completely. We never argued and always got along really good before this happened. She did she did have an ex that she was with for 10 and engaged although I never asked how long she was single beforehand. I'm just wondering if maybe she went back to her ex and if I still have a chance. We were seeing each other on the regular for about 7 months. It's been about 4 months I haven't heard from her and I've been sticking to no contact

    • @robertswift6101
      @robertswift6101 Před rokem

      tough situation to be in since she didnt reach out

    • @pimpindistress101
      @pimpindistress101 Před rokem +1

      @@robertswift6101 I have a feeling she went back to her ex, if anything in our last conversation I told her I would like to see her and talk to her but because she's going through something because she said she was stressed out I basically said I'll let her be so can figure things out, but I'm there for her if she needs me or when she figures things out. So I basically left the ball in her court. So I didn't come off as clingy or needy. Who knows maybe one day she'll reach out from out the blue

    • @robertswift6101
      @robertswift6101 Před rokem

      @@pimpindistress101 yes,,leave it at that til she reaches out,,,i went no contact and my ex is reaching out to me now after 6 years smh

    • @pimpindistress101
      @pimpindistress101 Před rokem

      @@robertswift6101 wow that's a long time. I figure even though it's been a couple months I figured if I reach out even just to say hi if she doesn't respond then I'll feel like an idiot and even if she does respond cuz I'm the one that did the reaching out she's going to think that she has me right when she wants me that's why I'd rather her reach out when or if she's ready

    • @kasiab4247
      @kasiab4247 Před rokem +2

      @pimpindistress101 why playing mind games!Just message her for God's sake!Youve got nothing to lose at this point!She might be happy to hear from you and if she doesn't reply then you'll finally be able to move on instead of thinking "what if" till the rest of your life...