7 Things I Wish I Knew In My 20s

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  • čas přidán 1. 06. 2024
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    Your 20s are a crucial decade of your life, where a lot of the decisions you make, both good and bad, can impact and snowball into the rest of your life. As I’m about to turn 30, I wanted to share with you 7 things that I wish I knew earlier in my 20s, that can hopefully help some of you on your journey.
    Timestamps:
    0:00 - Intro
    1:02 - Everybody is lost
    2:22 - Do more things that give you imposter syndrome
    3:10 - Don’t follow the crowd
    4:30 - Invest in yourself
    6:25 - Skillshare
    7:45 - Nobody cares
    8:54 - Hard choices, easy life. Easy choices, hard life.
    9:40 - Your 20s are a tiny portion of life
    10:33 - Outro
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Komentáře • 255

  • @thkhoa8805
    @thkhoa8805 Před 4 měsíci +553

    The bad news is you're on your own, but the cool news is you're on your own

    • @nataSweet129
      @nataSweet129 Před 4 měsíci +8

      is that a Taylor Swift quote?

    • @tdot415
      @tdot415 Před 4 měsíci +6

      Yes once you get used to idea of being on your own, life gets clearer and your achievements feel bigger cause they’re truly your own

    • @rod5943
      @rod5943 Před 4 měsíci +2

      The bad news is that you’re on your own and the bad news is that everybody around you has something to say about what you’re doing wrong. To that I say: There is no path, so walk wherever you feel like going and improve on things YOU feel you should improve on.

    • @audrey06lee05
      @audrey06lee05 Před 3 měsíci

      Taylor 🥰🥰

  • @hecl0980
    @hecl0980 Před 4 měsíci +40

    I'm turning 20 in just over 8 months, and this video really helped. Starting this year, I'm prioritising my health and working out, my passion for music and the trombone (I'm applying for a year in the military band) and my growing passion for fashion and political science (the latter of which i would like to make a career in). Thanks for the video, Tim! I'm certain this won't be the last time I watch it

    • @user-ki4xw2rb8q
      @user-ki4xw2rb8q Před měsícem +1

      So you just turned 19, and you are already thinking about turning 20

  • @joshuakim2341
    @joshuakim2341 Před 4 měsíci +13

    As someone who just recently turned 29 this past year thank you Tim for the advice! I really needed to hear the last one!

  • @Deciverse
    @Deciverse Před 4 měsíci +5

    Probably one of the most grounded "what I wish I knew" videos that I've seen personally. Love your style and editing touches in your vids too and this one was no exception. Good work man

  • @david3601bulls
    @david3601bulls Před 4 měsíci

    Tim, loved the video. Your style of content has always been super inspiring.

  • @hayden4279
    @hayden4279 Před 4 měsíci +1

    As per usual, phenomenal inspiring stuff!

  • @nicollastessan
    @nicollastessan Před 27 dny

    I love It! Thanks Tim!

  • @HarryHas
    @HarryHas Před 4 měsíci +3

    The videos are looking amazing, Tim. 🔥

  • @daniel_stupid
    @daniel_stupid Před 4 měsíci +3

    thank you for this video!!!

  • @ronharrodjr
    @ronharrodjr Před 4 měsíci

    I love this video. This calmed me tremendously.

  • @Zyw0o.o
    @Zyw0o.o Před 4 měsíci

    More content like this man pls, listening to u is a pleasure🙏

  • @prashantmalyala
    @prashantmalyala Před 4 měsíci +1

    A lot of creators will make videos about this kind of 20s life advice stuff, but this is probably one of the best distillations of it that I’ve seen.
    Never understood the attachment random internet people have to creators until my friend intro’d me to your channel, at first just for the fashion content. Thanks, Tim.

  • @vobang7161
    @vobang7161 Před 4 měsíci

    i really love this video, thanks for sharing

  • @zedd2133
    @zedd2133 Před měsícem

    Thank you so much, Tim. Help a lot

  • @abdoundiaye8112
    @abdoundiaye8112 Před 4 měsíci

    Probably your best video ever, thank you tim ⭐️

  • @YenNguyen-gh1ov
    @YenNguyen-gh1ov Před 3 měsíci

    Thanks a lot, I'm 21 and I'm feeling lost most of the time, your video is treasurable to me. Thank you!

  • @bibosteinmuller3431
    @bibosteinmuller3431 Před měsícem

    Great video! Very helpful

  • @Otijames
    @Otijames Před 4 měsíci +1

    loved this!

  • @jonathanbennett8065
    @jonathanbennett8065 Před 4 měsíci

    Very dope video, Tim. Thank you very much!

  • @mistamop
    @mistamop Před 4 měsíci +37

    This video really helped me. As a 26 year old who still lives at home and has a ton of student debt, it’s really easy for me to feel like I’m falling behind and recently had a severe panic attack because of it. I now have the motivation to really try and change my circumstances. Thanks Tim :)

  • @oohlala6636
    @oohlala6636 Před 4 měsíci

    From Brazil! So good advices thank you so much

  • @PoorlyUtilized
    @PoorlyUtilized Před 4 měsíci +6

    Do more of these every once in awhile, maybe do a list of book suggestions

  • @mjvlogstudio2632
    @mjvlogstudio2632 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you!! i needed this!, 😢❤😊

  • @yashieratiullaofficial6620
    @yashieratiullaofficial6620 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Such a legend. Aye, thank you for this 👌

  • @Training_NRFIT
    @Training_NRFIT Před 4 měsíci

    Thanks for this 😊

  • @boldi365
    @boldi365 Před měsícem

    A very awesome video, i like that format too!

  • @Xo.trash.7
    @Xo.trash.7 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Dawg, im so glad you exist. This shit all genuinely made me feel better, i went through a really bad breakup a few days ago and i really needed to see this

    • @futureow6043
      @futureow6043 Před měsícem

      Hope you are feeling a bit better already! The pain will go away, trust me :)

  • @user-kg2tf4lg5r
    @user-kg2tf4lg5r Před 4 měsíci

    I completely agree with the invest in yourself concept.

  • @sahebalikhan
    @sahebalikhan Před 4 měsíci

    Love it bro

  • @msl3940
    @msl3940 Před 4 měsíci +1

    love this ❤

  • @___Moody
    @___Moody Před 4 měsíci

    Love this vid of yours, unique

  • @jaydeegabrillo1840
    @jaydeegabrillo1840 Před 4 měsíci +20

    Been following you since I was in college and I especially agree that not caring about what others think is top 1 on my list that I regret. I enjoy life a lot better now that I am true to myself. I am in my mid 20s and married with child. A lot of responsibilities on my end but still managing to take A LOT OF RISKS. Things have been working out pretty good lately but I'm not stopping here and will do more not only for myself this time but for my family as well.

    • @JustMattyEntertainment
      @JustMattyEntertainment Před 4 měsíci

      I'm in a similar position, I have a child under 1 so I'd love to hear the kind of risks you're taking as I'm feeling a little slumped!

    • @jaydeegabrillo1840
      @jaydeegabrillo1840 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I was laid off and had plenty of bills to pay and I didn't know what to do. I was desperate to find a source of income. After getting laid off I invested the money I saved over the years and created a small business (keep in my mind that I had mouths to feed as I am a breadwinner). I, of course, found a better job with better pay. The small business has been readying me and my wife to open a new business. I had a lot of help along the way but it has changed the way my mind works. I don't want to get in deep with it but I hope this will help you. I'm still trying to build a better life so I can only speak for my experience.

  • @feline6623
    @feline6623 Před 4 měsíci

    Awesome truths, awesome animations!

  • @venzroiabella4259
    @venzroiabella4259 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you Tim

  • @monkeyhigh6416
    @monkeyhigh6416 Před 4 měsíci

    I really enjoyed this video👍

  • @taranjeetsingh4587
    @taranjeetsingh4587 Před 4 měsíci

    Thankyou, sir!! Respect 🫡

  • @seanmalroy
    @seanmalroy Před 4 měsíci +1

    Oh man I’m in my 50s and I’m taking notes. Great vid!

  • @wayveofficial
    @wayveofficial Před 4 měsíci

    needed this

  • @jontaelincolne-lomax2884
    @jontaelincolne-lomax2884 Před 4 měsíci

    Fantastic video

  • @Arc4kEdits
    @Arc4kEdits Před 3 měsíci +2

    9:17 Wise words, Im defnetly going to rember that sentence

  • @yjp4929
    @yjp4929 Před 4 měsíci

    Well said

  • @ianmoran8760
    @ianmoran8760 Před 4 měsíci +80

    As someone who's about to enter college, I love these life advice videos that you've made. Thank you Tim!

  • @zakirkhatri2902
    @zakirkhatri2902 Před 4 měsíci

    thank you so much you save me life. I enjoy more present

  • @marcosebastianelli3903
    @marcosebastianelli3903 Před 4 měsíci

    Very cool video bro, love it❤

  • @tonypizza260
    @tonypizza260 Před 4 měsíci

    thank you tim

  • @RymndDxtr
    @RymndDxtr Před 3 měsíci

    👍 nice thank you Tim

  • @danielrocha8820
    @danielrocha8820 Před 4 měsíci

    Great video

  • @yoelmorales208
    @yoelmorales208 Před 18 dny

    This video is a gem

  • @tabaandy843
    @tabaandy843 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you brother

  • @majgajsek7818
    @majgajsek7818 Před měsícem

    Thank you

  • @KyawMingNaing
    @KyawMingNaing Před 4 měsíci +1

    It's very helpful

  • @naujoxx
    @naujoxx Před měsícem

    Very great Video brother! Love from Germany

  • @TheRockyge
    @TheRockyge Před 4 měsíci

    Despite other CZcamsrs, your video are getting better in quality and also more interesting week by week!
    You are like a good Italian wine Tim 🍷😉

  • @bartellacreative1968
    @bartellacreative1968 Před 4 měsíci

    Amazing vid ! As the Rock says ..One day, or day one 💪

  • @mikeguci168
    @mikeguci168 Před 2 měsíci

    THANK YOU VERY MUCH

  • @murarirajan1860
    @murarirajan1860 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Fresh into my 20s!!! Excited and scared! Thanks for the video mate! Super useful ❤

  • @documentaireparade4542
    @documentaireparade4542 Před 4 měsíci

    Tim that watch is lit 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @thisistotallyfine
    @thisistotallyfine Před 4 měsíci +5

    Watching this in my 30s

    • @huismus111
      @huismus111 Před 3 měsíci

      looking at your pfp, I wouldn't say your 20's went that well

  • @bbbbbbb303
    @bbbbbbb303 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much for sharing, Tim!

  • @jerikhowijaya8844
    @jerikhowijaya8844 Před 4 měsíci

    Inspiring

  • @Isagiyochi395
    @Isagiyochi395 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I just graduated as an electrical engineer at the age of 22. I’m very into fashion and am gonna build a brand called asad alex (based off of my Arabic and American name). My goal is to flip the world upside down and change it for the better. I’ve noticed that everything seems to have become so degenerate and over the past few years I have become more religious and changed my ways. This video is proof that I will accomplish my goals and so everyone that sees this comment I want you to know that I will achieve my goals inshallah and you can achieve whatever you want in this world if you put in the work and dream big enough.

  • @rzm17
    @rzm17 Před 4 měsíci

    I love you so much, Tim. Thank you for being a great role model!

  • @Epiphany1714
    @Epiphany1714 Před 4 měsíci

    I LOVE YOU TIM!!! I really needed this, your a great mentor for us

  • @coviloku7104
    @coviloku7104 Před 8 dny

    I like this mindset.

  • @charles2395
    @charles2395 Před měsícem +38

    I'm so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed my life forever,hoping to retire next year.. Investment should always be on any creative man's heart for success in life.

    • @wilsonrichard440
      @wilsonrichard440 Před měsícem

      Thanks for the advice! I'm new to financial planning and wasn't sure where to start. Any tips on finding a reliable financial adviser or resource to guide beginners?

    • @findingpath8362
      @findingpath8362 Před měsícem

      As a beginner, it's essential for you to have a mentor that is verified by finra and SEC to keep you accountable. I'm guided by a widely known financial consultant Stacey Macken

    • @AIIG-zd5dx
      @AIIG-zd5dx Před měsícem

      Wow, I'm supprised Stacey Macken is being mention here. I started off with 5K.... Now with massive portfolio highly recommended...

    • @robertgreg6009
      @robertgreg6009 Před měsícem

      This Woman has really change the life of many people from different countries and am a testimony of her trading platform

    • @nissan38p69
      @nissan38p69 Před měsícem

      I met Stacey Macken at a conference in 2018 and we have been working together ever since.

  • @romedelrosario4915
    @romedelrosario4915 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you tim! this was very timely. I Hope you make more content like this

  • @soumodeepmete5718
    @soumodeepmete5718 Před 4 měsíci

    thank you

  • @Joselitty
    @Joselitty Před 4 měsíci

    Love this, thanks Tim 🙌🏽

  • @tyhuynh1852
    @tyhuynh1852 Před 3 měsíci

    Yo idk what day it happened but happy birthday man!!

  • @BenjaminTJames
    @BenjaminTJames Před 4 měsíci +2

    Always enjoy a life advice video, Tim. I'd also say that although it's good to think of your future self, it's important not to end up sacrificing your present self to it; life's too short not to cut yourself some slack in the moment!

  • @RyuuOmaroGD
    @RyuuOmaroGD Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you.

  • @IamnotJokic
    @IamnotJokic Před 4 měsíci +2

    That smooth transition into an ad-read 😂 kudos bro

  • @Addypro99
    @Addypro99 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Thank You Tim I’m turning 21 in feb and life had started to take its toll on me thinking i am 21 and i have nothing together, hence , I had started running From problems . Harder choices are just harder to commit cause doing the right thing is often harder than doing the right thing

  • @leehurst172
    @leehurst172 Před 3 měsíci

    That element of "you're right on time" hit in just the right way❤️

  • @mazinmusthafa3319
    @mazinmusthafa3319 Před 4 měsíci

    I saw you from canary wharf today…you looked great😍

  • @liveahappylife1
    @liveahappylife1 Před 3 měsíci

    Hey Tim, just want to say I appreciate your video! Question: do you use any supplements for your hair? Im not sure if you know anything about hair loss

  • @kovlangovender3299
    @kovlangovender3299 Před 4 měsíci

    What an inspiring video. Thank you 😊

  • @SRawsonH
    @SRawsonH Před 4 měsíci +1

    Great video Tim 👌🏻 Could you do an update on your tattoos, loving the new pieces ☺️

  • @Ghubby
    @Ghubby Před 4 měsíci

    This is awesome and the editing is just perfect!

  • @laurasantana233
    @laurasantana233 Před 4 měsíci

    I‘m feeling inspired, thank you ;)
    I would like to see more videos, like this on you channel 😊

  • @kingj7003
    @kingj7003 Před 4 měsíci +1

    this video came at the perfect time, i was stuck in a spiral just yesterday about the position i am in my life right now, not knowing exactly what i am doing with my life and this helped me gain a huge perspective so thank you for this video :)

  • @EionTamayo
    @EionTamayo Před 4 měsíci

    Great video Tim, awesome to know what kind of camera you have too. Clean shots📸

  • @Stellsenbrown
    @Stellsenbrown Před 4 měsíci

    Learned a lot in this 10min.
    Thank you❤

  • @alexvetkin5410
    @alexvetkin5410 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you very much for this little enlightment☺

  • @benkelly-7625
    @benkelly-7625 Před 4 měsíci

    This was a really good video! I’ve seen some inspiration videos here and there, mostly just bs and went in one ear out the other, but this was actually really good!! It was more meaningful since you gave things another way to look at it!! Especially the mindset of how I want my future self to be proud of what I’ve done in my 20s. This is by far the most useful yt video I have seen in a LONG time!!

  • @somebody_55
    @somebody_55 Před 4 měsíci

    Appreciate it

  • @qrvt.
    @qrvt. Před 4 měsíci

    Love this type of content, keep it up 🔥

  • @Alex-Estilo
    @Alex-Estilo Před 4 měsíci

    Thanks a lot.

  • @Fasthebaker
    @Fasthebaker Před 4 měsíci

    I've missed this type of CZcams videos

  • @wintheingioo4100
    @wintheingioo4100 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I needed this so bad. Thanks a lot Tim ❤

  • @henniaabdelillah9513
    @henniaabdelillah9513 Před 4 měsíci

    I need this

  • @GonzaloGalvez-ub4dd
    @GonzaloGalvez-ub4dd Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thanks so much Tim for this video. You are a mayor source of inspiration for me and I am pretty sure for most of your followers, and this goes way beyond fashion. A good reminder like this is always appreciated, but most of all, needed. We should create some sort of support and experience sharing community among your followers, where we can take on challenges and other activities. If this has been already made, pls let me know. Would love to join

  • @mahdiakbar7731
    @mahdiakbar7731 Před 4 měsíci

    I really enjoyed. Keep it up❤

  • @Jem07drie
    @Jem07drie Před 4 měsíci

    Thanks for this video, I know a lot of people including me struggling with the comparing thing, and I needed this. I wish you a wonderful 30th birthday Tim!

  • @osariemenoriakhi
    @osariemenoriakhi Před 4 měsíci

    Wow Tim you just gave me a reset, this video is indeed needed .

  • @OCLex
    @OCLex Před 4 měsíci +1

    just finished the shuttle art of not givin' a f*ck ..mindset and life changing.

  • @_ockayl
    @_ockayl Před 3 měsíci

    more content like this!

  • @Slowzy4K
    @Slowzy4K Před 4 měsíci +1

    Amazing video now somethings make sens.

  • @DomicDrift
    @DomicDrift Před 4 měsíci

    I've watched a dozen self-improvement videos, and this video might not be about that but it was still easily the most helpful. Thank you so much Tim! God bless you.

  • @Chreeseburger
    @Chreeseburger Před 4 měsíci

    We need another tattoo tour video!!