And whats in it for marriage? She can come into it with nothing, fool around, take half your wealth, get alimony, destroy your life. I used to be s traditional guy and believe in marriage but not in the west. The laws are stacked against men 100%
u gotta already hav an established connection with the girl. the “friendzone” is where everyone starts technically, but as soon as you know they like you, you’re not gonna end up in jail and can start flirting in a NOT creepy way.
“You think we put on our best outfit, full face of makeup, and cute heels so you won’t notice us”. Haha. Yes. Yes, that’s exactly what we think because that’s what we are told day in and day out. “I don’t dress for men. I dress for me to feel good. “. Hahaha
My ex hit me with that all the time, yet would still ask my opinion about what to wear… Then when she started cheating, she would still ask me how she looked to impress the new dude who was cheating his girl who he had a kid with
tbh as girl I don't buy that shit either. yes we do feel cute ourselves but no one would dress up and lock themselves in a room because they did it all for themselves. Some part of it makes us feel good but yes it's good when ppl notice it, like anyone lol. So I just hope ppl accept this sooner
That crap is so dumb 😂 If I'm not interested in anyone, I dress for others, and try to give people the best impression of me. If I'm interested in a guy, I'm dressing for him.
I had a girl tell me once she was also talking to someone else. She told me that he gave her more attention than me as well. I knew what she was doing, she was trying to get me to try harder and show more interest. I took a step back and was like well, I work and I have priorities, the time I do get I have to manage. I encouraged her to keep talking to the other guy since he offered her more of what she wanted. A few weeks later, he already got him some and was done with her. She came running to me thinking I’d be her hero. Asking me to send nudes and showing all kinds of interest. Put yourself first fellas, no one will make you happier than you can make yourself. Find your joys in life and set yourself up for success. Pick the woman you want and that treats you like you deserve.
@@AMC08no bro,.it doesn't suck at all, you need to work out that mentality. If she doesn't fit your framework it doesn't mean "it sucks for me", it just mean she does not fit your framework and you just move on more than happy knowing you saved time and resources
This is 100% dependent upon if the woman is attracted to the man or not. If your advances are wanted, they are treated as such. If not, you're open to anything from disdain to accusations of violence. Nope. I advise my sons to be very careful around women these days. Just trying to get a date can get you labeled as something that can ruin your life.
I was on a detail at a church, and there was a video of a man with his belt undone around a group of kids. Everyone except the detail jumped to conclusions. Upon further investigation, we found the man had just forgotten to buckle his belt correctly and aimlessly wondered through the wrong door to a nearby exit. He was in view of the cameras near the kids for all of 2 seconds, and everyone was ready to label him a pedophile. People are so ready for everyone to be a bad person and to label them as such. Personally, I have way to much to lose to take a chance on love anymore. I'll lose everything even with something as small as a harassment charge. I had a really good-looking girl today ask me if I was going to frisk her. Lol I literally deadpanned her with a no as I wasn't trying to catch a case. I could see it now. Officer arrested for sexual harassment/abuse of power.
i know it seems daunting these days but i promise you, if you are taking care of your body and generally acting like a man, the right girl will show up
@@richardparsley2538 I've been happily divorced for 25 years. I haven't been in a relationship for 8 years. I'm content. Life is good. Being alone is way better than putting up with someone else's bull.
@@murphsviews you're not wrong, you don't USUALLY end up in jail. But just as a the risks being 1 in 6 doesn't make Russian Roulette an enticing idea, the notion of jail time (however low the risk) is a REAL mood-killer for a lot of dudes. There are VERY few women worth that dice-toss.
@@DFX2KX throughout history getting with a woman has carried inherent risks. Back in tribal days for example if you pulled the wrong reign you could be killed, or kicked out of the tribe, etc. So it’s always been the case that those who are strong and brave get to pass on their genes, while those who are weak and cowardly and scared generally do not. Choice is yours as to which one you will be.
@@murphsviewscool story; except it’s not true. There is no serious anthropological study that would prove what you’re saying in any way. Also, even if it was true, with today’s American women it is just not worth the risk most of the time. It’s like if you had to play Russian roulette twice - first time to get the girl, second time when you are dating her (cuz she can reveal herself to be crazy, cheating, self-entitled etc.); but the second time, you got 5 bullets out of 6 in your revolver. So, yeah… just not worth the risk and the effort for most men.
the issue is a lot of these "timid" men werent always timid and they did the "manly" thing and it backfired so they crawled into a box and said nope not trying that again
Most men aren’t scared they just have no idea what they’re doing they don’t teach this type of shit, most men who have ever gotten advice in women it’s always been be polite, open doors and be respectful
This right here is truth. Women expect men to know everything without any training. Other men spout advice as if we didn’t pay attention to the teacher on it. It frustrates me so.
@@Walking_W1 Here’s an answer: in a nutshell, chemistry is just mirroring. It’s a basic human instinct to reciprocate an emotion or certain gestures from another person. If you’re in your head too much, instinct goes out the window. In order to have things go in the right direction, you have to either demonstrate the emotion you want to elicit or reciprocate when they do the same. The rest is timing and just decent conversation.
No it’s not. You just have to develop some social skills. The problem is that you guys refuse to come out from behind your screens and are afraid of your own shadows.
@@kellygreeniiAbsolutely not true. Maybe you are not the type of person who makes it impossible for guys but there are thousands upon thousands of videos out there of guys approaching respectfully and taking no for an answer gracefully who get blasted online and offline for no reason whatsoever. Very easy to find. We aren't the problem. SOME guys are, but even respectful, we'll socially adjusted guys are getting horrid responses these days and to pretend that's not true is denial.
@@Strafeyy One, I AM a guy…and I have approached women and been humiliated in ways FAR worse than being put on blast on CZcams. YOU CANT CONTROL WHAT OTHER PEOPLE DO…SO STOP TRYING. If you approached respectfully, and her reaction is to try to humiliate you? All she showing is her own brokenness. Someone insulting you can only hurt you if YOU care what she thinks of you…and YOU are afraid that what she’s saying is true. Otherwise it’s like listening to a toddler throw a tantrum and scream “I hate you!” Everyone within earshot is going to know which one has the problem. The issue here is that we have a generation of men who want rewards without risk and without effort. You are unwilling to get out there and get your nose bloodied by women in ways that are necessary to meet and attract women IRL. Dating apps and DMs are just too seductive, and they’ve become a replacement (a lousy one) for game.
Awe she is so cute saying feminism is the problem but then quickly transitions to being mens’ fault for “not being masculine.” Its not that men are lacking masculinity, it’s the fact that the modern woman has become extremely masculine
Because that’s the only side of the equation men have any control over. And as a guy in his 50s? Yes, many of you ARE lacking masculinity and are afraid of your own shadows in social interactions. You have severed learned the skills that other generations of men learned in interacting with women face to face. It is partially our fault because we failed you as fathers. But it’s also your fault for being unwilling to summon the courage necessary to get out there and learn.
The difference between a welcome touch and physical assault seems to be whether SHE thinks you are attractive. The difference between a welcome compliment and sexual harassment works the same way.
Correct. There's no way for the man to act appropriately, since "appropriately" exists entirely within her head, and subject to her hormonal emotions and lack of accountability.
I am a nice guy by nature and I refuse to be anything other than my best authentic self just to win the interest of a woman. If they've no interest in getting to know me, in a chance encounter, it's their loss.
I understand the message and I won't disagree with it, but from a man's perspective, this is how you get accused of harassment or being creepy. Women usually want these things from men that they are already attracted to, and someone that they have no interest in doing the same thing will not have the desired effect. It's not that most men can't do these things, it's just that we want to make absolutely sure that she's going to be open to it before we do it. #metoo really did change things for a lot of men, but the worst thing it did was tell us that what women want us to, how they want us to act, can also be what gets us into major trouble. Not only that, but most men don't want to have their name and face plastered all over social media for being one of "those guys". It's always easier to be the woman telling men what you want, while other women are telling men that the exact same thing you said is not acceptable, then it is to be the man where it's almost a toss up. Get the signals wrong, you could be in a world of hurt, and since women don't usually make the first move, I believe they lack the empathy to understand this.
Yes. Off topic. Okay, so I'm not blocked. CZcams just couldn't handle my comment on the last video. It wasn't like it was mean. Much at least. I was just defending weeaboos everywhere. Weeaboos are people too. Equal rights for weeaboos everywhere!
Those men are also the ones ending up in jail falsely accused or get half their stuff taken or ridiculed on tiktok or getting called creepy or humiliated publicly or cancelled online..... Nah I rather stay single, not worth it honestly.
@@bradh6185 It's not rare. It's just not publicized on a worldwide scale. But it happens every day, everywhere. Handled in a local context. Put your ear closer to those in management or other positions of authority, and you'll quickly realize how common they are.
um i mean it kind depends though does it not touching a women before getting to know her you know kinda totally not ok. also she doesnt give you any instructions she lit said act like a man whats that mean?
@@devincase3091 Oh I know what the point was. I’ve spent my life watching all the men in my life bend over backward for the attention and love of women only to be emotionally and financially destroyed. Men need to stop giving women what they want just because they’re women.
As usual, she has the best intentions, and I want to believe that she is right, but we are the ones that may be social and legal destroy by a woman that did not find us attractive.. You are right, but at end it doesn't change the fact, that we don't read minds, and we are experts in misinterpretation of women.
Haven't been to jail in a while. May take her up on the advice. Can't help but wonder what kind of charges the courts will make up. Will it be Felony intimidation or PFMA this time? 🤔
Easy for you to say! After all women can say anything and get away with it. Believe it or not, I had a friend who was pointed to by a woman he never met who walked into a bar with a policeman in tow, and the next thing he knew was that he was being arrested. This was a college town in Pennsylvania, and he was doing his PhD. He couldn't even find a lawyer to represent him in that town, and finally got a lawyer from New York who also had a Pennsylvania license. So, no, thank you -- I'll keep away from women even if anyone wants to label me as "broken", "not being manly", or whatever insult anyone can find. Totally fine with me.
Good advice. I try to live by the art of not giving a f*ck what people think about me but it doesn't work every day unfortunately because I do care if I'm being honest with myself.
Current Society.. Don't approach at gym Don't approach at work Don't approach at store Don't approach at really anywhere unless you have iron confidence and look like thor. 😀
just approach women looking like you just got out of prison, tell her you have two different baby mamas and live with your ex, but you've got dope in your pocket and you'd love to smoke with her.
Lady, i appreciate the positive vibes youre trying to send our way. I do. Most Dudes just aint got it in them to accept it. Lifes hurt us in specific ways, and that makes trust tough. Tldr: We are, unfortunately, the scars of every previous partner that we got trying to find the open and accepting final partner we havent found.
Just be yourself. If either the man or the woman is not doing this, the relationship is dead before it starts. Everyone is so fake these days that just doing this one thing impresses everyone.
@@scary5455 and how many do you know who are happily married for over 10 years by taking up a fake persona and acting every day with the relationships' foundation being stragetic mindgames?
My turning point was a comment I posted where I asked a woman if I would appear like a creep writing compliments to a lady. She answered: "don't make yourself so f*cking small, man. Are you a creep? Hell no! So what do you care about?" This woke me up a while ago
I saw a man get shamed recently for commenting that an influencer was hot. She screen shotted it and posted it thanking all the people “defending” her. And it wasn’t even a blatantly sexual disrespectful comment it was “when the photographer is hotter than the model”
But WHY! has feminism destroyed the confidence of men? That is a key question. And part of that answer is that it has allowed some jealous girls to put said confident men into literal prison. Ladies, if you want confident men again, you will have to put some effort in first (and not in an outfit and makeup and shoes) but in convincing the man that you are mentally stable enough that won't fear prison by offending you.
This is easy to say when your reputation isn’t at risk of being destroyed by simply approaching women. The risk to reward ratio is so far skewed, it’s easier not to approach
Not necessarily, you could go out with a woman and think there is a mutual connection but she is just there for the food! Then it’s weird and she will call you or make you feel creepy and you are left confused and pissed off.
@@bornaghadamzan2223 Thank you. People really underestimate how often women do things like this on purpose. It sounds terrible, but it's really true that misogyny exists for a reason. Women will try to burn you at the stake for pointing this out, but there are a lot of women out there who do things that actually create misogyny in other people. But we have to apologize for that? That's the world we live in.
@@barrysoetorro9123 so true. I had the manager of my gym call me and say some girl was uncomfortable around me but she was the one that kept following me all over the gym. Then she kept hitting on me after the manager called me. So I said I'm getting a lawyer and suing this POS place if it ever happens again I know the judge. She was gone the next week
If some get offended, it’s their problem. Not mine. We shouldn’t be responsible of how others react. I hope you are safe, Bill, and thank you for the short. Blessings.
Say that to the police while getting arrested for allegedly SA-ing her, getting cancelled and getting kicked out from your job and stuff because she felt like you were a creep. In the past, if someone was offended it was their problem, nowadays it's the person's problem who offended them. The best example is "George not found" a Minecraft CZcamsr, it wasn't his fault.
@@Incorporeal_Ghost Correct. That’s why we all got to be very careful when someone says accusations. It could be true, and it could not be true. Watch your back. 🤟🏾
acting like a man is literally being alone. we've done it our entire existence. from the beginning of time we used to hunt for days or weeks alone or with a small group of men. we would come back to camp, where the women and children were and feed them our catch, then right back out on our own. Men were never social or emotional creatures until recently. And this pull to make us social and emotional is driving me insane and pushing me further away from society.
@@treznor6992 Men were definitely more emotional in the past. It's just that they harmonized with their emotions and weren't controlled by them. But they definitely had emotions. Bro, being a psychopath is not masculine.
I was on a date 2 days ago and I made the opposite mistake: I was teasing her a lot, laughing a lot with her, touching, etc but I forgot to ask deep questions about her life, what she likes to do, etc. Basically we small talked and teased each other for an hour and half but at the end of the date I felt the vibe that she wasn’t trusting me enough to be open for a kiss
If there's really no need to be that way around women, what messaging should we offer the men who feel demanded to be that way by women, especially in light of the women who do demand it, or the men who even feel ashamed or afraid of stepping out of that shell? And how should that message be delivered? Are you aware that there are women who bully men over this? And that some of those women know the harm they are doing when they do so?
@@nathanmstroud Simple. Don’t give a rats ass what women think about your game. You’re confidence and demeanor is yours and yours alone. Don’t let nobody take that from you, remember that.
nothing wrong with being timid, right? it's like my one defining character trait. I'll live how i want. see what happens from there. I am NOT changing how i act naturally to attract people
Got it, so I should aim to come off as timid. That way I don't get stuck with one of these women one day. Good luck to those of you who decide to roll the dice
What im hearing is risk being taken to court by one of two types of women, the butterfly who gets offended by everything and thinks all men are psychopathic child molesters, or the women that knows she can get away with it and wants to sue for the money. Even if the chances of this are low, i am not taking the chance.
This is terrible advice when there is no jail time for false accusations even a women changing her mind about if she likes you or not can turn into a rape allegation and even if proven false how much is it going to cost you in court costs or solicitor costs and when proven false what is the likelyhood she gets jail time.
And then when you give her a compliment, when she doesn't like you because you're not 6ft and earning 100k, she calls the cops and has you arrested for attempted rape.
@eoghanmaloney9561 "why dont men approach me". This is why. Even if you are 6ft and make 100k you never know if she is looking for a million, and if so, you're now a creep and a stalker.
I no longer fear women. I have solved the equation. See guys I know what I was lacking, what I wanted from a relationship with a woman. Took a long time, but I solved it. It sounds stupid but the answer is simple. I wanted to be loved. And here is the solution, make yourself whole. No with a woman, a dog, or a Porsche. You must come to a level that you can say "I love ." Repeat that affirmation every day, multiple times a day, for however long it takes until it is a truth in your life. When it is, you don't need/want a woman to destroy the peace you have found in yourself.
Nah, I fucking hate my life. I live in a capitalistic hellscape from which there is no reprieve. The worst part is, its my own damn fault, which, stands to reason that its unlikely to ever change. I knocked some absolute HEINOUS bitch up when I was young and dumb because she was the first chick to offer up some pussy, and that was the first of a chain of mistakes I continue to make. No matter what I choose it's ALWAYS the wrong answer. Choose to pass up a job offer so you can 'get this promotion' boom, you get passed over. Accept a job offer that gives you real world experience, and boom, can't finish college working 70 hours a week. Accept this new job, boom 6 months into the highest paying job you've ever had that you moved you're whole family across the state for and boom, laid off. Move across the state again to stay with her parents since you can't afford the house you had (thanks to getting laid off from company cutbacks) and boom, no jobs to be found. Finally find a job. Move up, still not enough to get your own place, get a call to move back where you came from, take the job, get the pay raise, boom 6 months in they cancel the contract that was supposed to be open for 5 years. It's getting long, but lets just say, that continues for several more years. No matter which option I pick, it's ALWAYS the wrong one. So no, I don't "love me". I fucking hate me, and this shithole life I have made for myself. If I had it all to do over again, I fucking wouldn't. Let's just call it a life early and see what comes after this shit, because so far this ain't it and I'd rather just be DONE.
The women that are out here aren’t throwing on the heels and make up though, they’re putting in 0 effort and expecting the man to carry them and the relationship.
Ya I just going be myself and if people or especially ladies don’t like it I am fond being single the rest of my life. I don’t need to be fake to impress people. Just need someone to accept me being me 😊
Men, change your height, body, bank account and facial features before attempting.... I repeat... Change your height, body, bank account and facial features before attempting.
They are going to keep doing that as long as it holds power over men. They know it does. It's a manipulation tool. So, you either have to counter it, or you have to submit to it.
Billie, I get what you are trying to do. You are trying to give a pep talk to men that being masculine is good, okay, and even necessary in today's society. I agree, myself, but you have an uphill battle to fight here after the tables have been set here longer than you have lived. And there are chemical forces at play here that are not addressed. Guys, the 1% men have the confidence to tell the girl she looks hot and not care what happens. That is what Billie is saying here. I get it, the MeToo stuff was the magnum opus of female empowerment. It said to all men that they won't take the actions of an underhanded few men per capita, and many have chosen to expand that to a larger portion of the populace, if not all men. But there has to be some chemistry. She wants to feel desired. And if you don't lay that card on the table, she's going to fold and leave the table. I agree, it's not fair that we also typically have to play the provision card, the protection card, and the kindness card before they have to play any cards at all, but that is not the point Billie is discussing here. She is literally saying that you have to present to her the clear signal that you are physically into her. And, Billie, here is where I hijack your advice and lay out a slightly different roadmap. See, I believe that hookup culture has absolutely hosed a lot of things, relationship-wise. And the women we are seeing on social media and at parties and bars are in no way interested in making it stop. So we men need to do it. And that is going to hurt the feelings of quite a few girls who put on a cute outfit, got the face covered in paint, and wore the shoes that make their butt look nice. We, as men, need to stop backing up and letting every last woman tell us what to do and who to be. We tried it for the last 40+ years, and this is where we are. No more sex on the first few dates. Respect your time and money for the value it has, and give neither to women who won't reciprocate. Be proud of the things you are proud of. It's okay. If a girl does not like what you like, you weren't going to be a good fit anyway. Be men again. Be willing to set healthy boundaries and learn to calmly and firmly advocate for them. No, ma'am, I am not going to buy you a drink for you to take it and scamper off to show your friends you are cute enough to not need your wallet. You will give me the pleasure of conversation with you in exchange, or you will buy your own drink. Oh? You don't owe me your attention? True. I agree. And I don't owe you my wallet. A good woman wants a man like this because he demonstrates principles. Which, honestly, we men really *ought* to have anyway.
Truly, Billie needs a male interpreter. One like you. Because she has some good points, however, she doesn't quite speak our language. This was phrased perfectly where my masculine brain can understand it, and you just helped me understand what I need to do exactly to fix the one issue I've had, that I just realized I created, over the last few years. I wanted to get "clean" and stop having my relationships jump into the physical within the first couple of months. So, I stopped complimenting a woman on their looks and tried to establish an emotional connection. Since then, I've never had a single date. Planty of interest from women. But no date. Fortunately, the one I never asked out is the one that I want, and whenever I go to her work. I catch her staring at me like a velociraptor stares at a Tbone steak. Lol Thanks for that clarification. I have been scratching my head for the last 5 years why I was so successful in the dating world for my teens and 20s, but not at the height of my career, physique, and agency as a male. You just answered it.
Beware that saying “start acting like a man” it’s confrontational, what am I acting like if it’s not like a man? Imagine now, if I said to you, start acting like a woman! wtf
It's a matter of knowing what's appropriate when establishing a connection. As in know the kind of person you're talking to. Pay attention to tone, body language, and what they say while how they act. It's also good to keep what you do and say based on how comfortable each person is.
The real question that's in need of an answer is, "How do I act like a man?" The problem young men up to men in their 30s face today is a lot of women say they want a man, but they really don't. This is a huge confidence destroyer. As men, we're taught to always be kind, so we take that to mean we're supposed to embrace being timid. We're both supposed to get mad or step beyond our boundaries. The truth is that our parents' generations have made a lot of us too scared to say the wrong thing, apologize for being offensive in any manner and put everyone's needs before our own. It's a trap that we're raised into and then our friends and families say stuff like "Why don't you have any respect for yourself?" when we were raised to not have respect for ourselves and a well to achieve our desires. It's possible to break, but it's extremely difficult, especially the older you get. Take it from a saved cultist who's nearly 30 and still struggles to get the attention of women despite the many failed attempts. It's possible, but only with a complete system reboot.
As men we should not have to change ourselves just so woman will maybe give us a little effort it’s sad that this chick thinks she knows what’s best for us when she’s never been in our shoes
Don't forget guys she is talking about guys over 6 ft, 6 pack, 6 figure income, and a 6 or higher on the attractive scale. If you are none of those, you are a freak, creep, geek. The only response you will get is an eye roll or an insult. If the girl is not rude, you will always hear you're not my type.
True, 90% of women are sharing the top 10 % of men as well and the women don't seem to mind at all. They happily place themselves into harems.. It's an evil world we live in.
This is why I focus on getting power instead. There's too much work that needs to be done to obtain a relationship. However, power is there for the taking .
Men could just be elegant and not seem like they want her the first time they meet her. It takes time for woman to take confidence with you because they're actually afraid that you're just a sexual predator. It is as simple as "she will say no, till you can demonstrate the opposite".
Hm, strange, if a man is affraid that a woman might exploit him, he is the problem If a woman is afraid that a man might exploit her, he is the problem Also, "men could just be elegant" whilst lots of women dress like 304s...
Here’s an idea ladies, if you are interested in a guy, Tell him.
Women hate this trick
Love how she blames Feminism because she doesn't wanna do that lol
Wouldn't even work for me anymore. I would instantly suspect them of something. Something is afoot if that happens.
Life's to short to play these types of games.
@@squeezerdsqueezerd2427
Still would suck, even if life was too long.
“Not afraid of saying risky things”
- ends up in jail
Thats what i thought. Im not taking that risk.
Real
And whats in it for marriage? She can come into it with nothing, fool around, take half your wealth, get alimony, destroy your life. I used to be s traditional guy and believe in marriage but not in the west. The laws are stacked against men 100%
Legit me
u gotta already hav an established connection with the girl. the “friendzone” is where everyone starts technically, but as soon as you know they like you, you’re not gonna end up in jail and can start flirting in a NOT creepy way.
“You think we put on our best outfit, full face of makeup, and cute heels so you won’t notice us”.
Haha. Yes. Yes, that’s exactly what we think because that’s what we are told day in and day out.
“I don’t dress for men. I dress for me to feel good. “. Hahaha
LITERALLY THIS!
Yep that's what they are constantly saying.
My ex hit me with that all the time, yet would still ask my opinion about what to wear…
Then when she started cheating, she would still ask me how she looked to impress the new dude who was cheating his girl who he had a kid with
tbh as girl I don't buy that shit either. yes we do feel cute ourselves but no one would dress up and lock themselves in a room because they did it all for themselves. Some part of it makes us feel good but yes it's good when ppl notice it, like anyone lol. So I just hope ppl accept this sooner
That crap is so dumb 😂 If I'm not interested in anyone, I dress for others, and try to give people the best impression of me. If I'm interested in a guy, I'm dressing for him.
*1 Hour Later* -- thousands of men have just lost their jobs, and some of them are in jail
No one said to touch her in those spots yet!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Never take dating advice from women
While good riddance, they coalesce and become a social phenomenon.
This ain't a rom com, man. But I did find that funny.
I had a girl tell me once she was also talking to someone else. She told me that he gave her more attention than me as well. I knew what she was doing, she was trying to get me to try harder and show more interest. I took a step back and was like well, I work and I have priorities, the time I do get I have to manage. I encouraged her to keep talking to the other guy since he offered her more of what she wanted. A few weeks later, he already got him some and was done with her. She came running to me thinking I’d be her hero. Asking me to send nudes and showing all kinds of interest. Put yourself first fellas, no one will make you happier than you can make yourself. Find your joys in life and set yourself up for success. Pick the woman you want and that treats you like you deserve.
Wisely said, embrace the masculinity, but not to impress a girl or anything, just for personal growth, and the right woman will arrive in time 😎
Love that comment KING !
yikes that sucks for you but also is good since you stuck up for yourself and it worked out
@@AMC08no bro,.it doesn't suck at all, you need to work out that mentality. If she doesn't fit your framework it doesn't mean "it sucks for me", it just mean she does not fit your framework and you just move on more than happy knowing you saved time and resources
@@luisdiegocrwell said the youngin still has some learning to do
This is 100% dependent upon if the woman is attracted to the man or not. If your advances are wanted, they are treated as such. If not, you're open to anything from disdain to accusations of violence. Nope. I advise my sons to be very careful around women these days. Just trying to get a date can get you labeled as something that can ruin your life.
I was on a detail at a church, and there was a video of a man with his belt undone around a group of kids. Everyone except the detail jumped to conclusions. Upon further investigation, we found the man had just forgotten to buckle his belt correctly and aimlessly wondered through the wrong door to a nearby exit. He was in view of the cameras near the kids for all of 2 seconds, and everyone was ready to label him a pedophile.
People are so ready for everyone to be a bad person and to label them as such. Personally, I have way to much to lose to take a chance on love anymore. I'll lose everything even with something as small as a harassment charge. I had a really good-looking girl today ask me if I was going to frisk her. Lol I literally deadpanned her with a no as I wasn't trying to catch a case. I could see it now. Officer arrested for sexual harassment/abuse of power.
Exactly. This is the part women always leave out
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generally when you are super masculine the woman will be attracted to you
i know it seems daunting these days but i promise you, if you are taking care of your body and generally acting like a man, the right girl will show up
Instruction unclear i have to go to court next thursday.
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yep. this one
Honestly, the penalty for making a mistake is so high we don't care anymore. We'd rather stay single.
that's an excuse and you will not enjoy living in the hole your digging for yourself
@richardparsley2538 oh yeah, cause I choose to suffer.
@@richardparsley2538 And it's the truth.
@@richardparsley2538 I've been happily divorced for 25 years.
I haven't been in a relationship for 8 years.
I'm content.
Life is good.
Being alone is way better than putting up with someone else's bull.
Honestly though, ofc nothing personal for any women out there but i think most average men just don't really care anymore.
I'm not afraid of offending a woman. I am afraid having me kicked out of the gym, or my job. One strike and your out kinda stuff.
Says the one who isn't facing jail time for misunderstandings.
Doesn’t mean she’s wrong. And let’s be real here, jail time is exceptionally unlikely, so you’re drama-queening here.
@@murphsviews go simp somewhere else.
@@murphsviews you're not wrong, you don't USUALLY end up in jail.
But just as a the risks being 1 in 6 doesn't make Russian Roulette an enticing idea, the notion of jail time (however low the risk) is a REAL mood-killer for a lot of dudes.
There are VERY few women worth that dice-toss.
@@DFX2KX throughout history getting with a woman has carried inherent risks. Back in tribal days for example if you pulled the wrong reign you could be killed, or kicked out of the tribe, etc. So it’s always been the case that those who are strong and brave get to pass on their genes, while those who are weak and cowardly and scared generally do not.
Choice is yours as to which one you will be.
@@murphsviewscool story; except it’s not true.
There is no serious anthropological study that would prove what you’re saying in any way.
Also, even if it was true, with today’s American women it is just not worth the risk most of the time. It’s like if you had to play Russian roulette twice - first time to get the girl, second time when you are dating her (cuz she can reveal herself to be crazy, cheating, self-entitled etc.); but the second time, you got 5 bullets out of 6 in your revolver. So, yeah… just not worth the risk and the effort for most men.
the issue is a lot of these "timid" men werent always timid and they did the "manly" thing and it backfired so they crawled into a box and said nope not trying that again
I love how she's saying that it's mens' fault that women have created the environment we have adapted to. 😏
I don't think she's saying that. How we got here is irrelevant to the point she's making.
She's very much not. You control your own behavior.
You are correct OP. That's why this video hits stinky.
Talk about blaming the victim.
@SirPhysics is true, but when a woman wants to lie it'll ruin your life.
Great instructions! I needed some input for my "Getting cancelled any% speedrun".
In Germany, a white woman got cancelled for having dreadlocks if you need more tips.
Most men aren’t scared they just have no idea what they’re doing they don’t teach this type of shit, most men who have ever gotten advice in women it’s always been be polite, open doors and be respectful
This
This right here is truth. Women expect men to know everything without any training. Other men spout advice as if we didn’t pay attention to the teacher on it. It frustrates me so.
Ikr, then you Just stand there w her. Confused wtf to do to feel more chemistry
@@Walking_W1 Here’s an answer: in a nutshell, chemistry is just mirroring. It’s a basic human instinct to reciprocate an emotion or certain gestures from another person. If you’re in your head too much, instinct goes out the window. In order to have things go in the right direction, you have to either demonstrate the emotion you want to elicit or reciprocate when they do the same. The rest is timing and just decent conversation.
No. there is an element of ear in the back of their head. Especially with today's women. None of which seem traditional.
Doing what she recommends is likely to destroy your life. Lose your job, face criminal charges of harrassment, become ostacized by society.
Man that’s the sad truth she saying in a perfect world
Right. This is horrible advice. Plus she’s not dressing like that for a guy, but for herself.
No it’s not. You just have to develop some social skills. The problem is that you guys refuse to come out from behind your screens and are afraid of your own shadows.
@@kellygreeniiAbsolutely not true. Maybe you are not the type of person who makes it impossible for guys but there are thousands upon thousands of videos out there of guys approaching respectfully and taking no for an answer gracefully who get blasted online and offline for no reason whatsoever. Very easy to find. We aren't the problem. SOME guys are, but even respectful, we'll socially adjusted guys are getting horrid responses these days and to pretend that's not true is denial.
@@Strafeyy One, I AM a guy…and I have approached women and been humiliated in ways FAR worse than being put on blast on CZcams. YOU CANT CONTROL WHAT OTHER PEOPLE DO…SO STOP TRYING.
If you approached respectfully, and her reaction is to try to humiliate you? All she showing is her own brokenness. Someone insulting you can only hurt you if YOU care what she thinks of you…and YOU are afraid that what she’s saying is true.
Otherwise it’s like listening to a toddler throw a tantrum and scream “I hate you!” Everyone within earshot is going to know which one has the problem.
The issue here is that we have a generation of men who want rewards without risk and without effort. You are unwilling to get out there and get your nose bloodied by women in ways that are necessary to meet and attract women IRL. Dating apps and DMs are just too seductive, and they’ve become a replacement (a lousy one) for game.
Awe she is so cute saying feminism is the problem but then quickly transitions to being mens’ fault for “not being masculine.”
Its not that men are lacking masculinity, it’s the fact that the modern woman has become extremely masculine
You my sir are spitting straight facts
Chameleon ;) But what are we doing commenting on A video of A Fish telling us how to catch Fish?
Because that’s the only side of the equation men have any control over.
And as a guy in his 50s? Yes, many of you ARE lacking masculinity and are afraid of your own shadows in social interactions. You have severed learned the skills that other generations of men learned in interacting with women face to face.
It is partially our fault because we failed you as fathers. But it’s also your fault for being unwilling to summon the courage necessary to get out there and learn.
As a man you should know it always has been your fault/responsibility even before fminsts exploded.
Nailed it.
The difference between a welcome touch and physical assault seems to be whether SHE thinks you are attractive. The difference between a welcome compliment and sexual harassment works the same way.
Correct. There's no way for the man to act appropriately, since "appropriately" exists entirely within her head, and subject to her hormonal emotions and lack of accountability.
Befriend her and feel the situation out first.
Well you have to feel the vibe in order to know which one to do, not just blindly bite into it like an autistic fucko
I am a nice guy by nature and I refuse to be anything other than my best authentic self just to win the interest of a woman. If they've no interest in getting to know me, in a chance encounter, it's their loss.
I understand the message and I won't disagree with it, but from a man's perspective, this is how you get accused of harassment or being creepy. Women usually want these things from men that they are already attracted to, and someone that they have no interest in doing the same thing will not have the desired effect. It's not that most men can't do these things, it's just that we want to make absolutely sure that she's going to be open to it before we do it. #metoo really did change things for a lot of men, but the worst thing it did was tell us that what women want us to, how they want us to act, can also be what gets us into major trouble.
Not only that, but most men don't want to have their name and face plastered all over social media for being one of "those guys". It's always easier to be the woman telling men what you want, while other women are telling men that the exact same thing you said is not acceptable, then it is to be the man where it's almost a toss up. Get the signals wrong, you could be in a world of hurt, and since women don't usually make the first move, I believe they lack the empathy to understand this.
instructions unclear, now im in jail for harassment
And then get arrested for assault/stalking/improper conduct.
Damned if you do, damned if you don’t
😂😂
That never happens... 🙄
Ohhh, the things people write on the internet... so ridiculous.
Hey cal, you might wanna get to know the girl first before touching her 😅😂
Yes.
Off topic. Okay, so I'm not blocked. CZcams just couldn't handle my comment on the last video. It wasn't like it was mean. Much at least. I was just defending weeaboos everywhere. Weeaboos are people too. Equal rights for weeaboos everywhere!
Those men are also the ones ending up in jail falsely accused or get half their stuff taken or ridiculed on tiktok or getting called creepy or humiliated publicly or cancelled online.....
Nah I rather stay single, not worth it honestly.
It's rare. But when it gets spread around on media, we assume it's the norm.
@@bradh6185 Divorce is not rare it's over 50% so that makes it the majority .
@@bradh6185
It's not rare. It's just not publicized on a worldwide scale. But it happens every day, everywhere. Handled in a local context. Put your ear closer to those in management or other positions of authority, and you'll quickly realize how common they are.
um i mean it kind depends though does it not touching a women before getting to know her you know kinda totally not ok. also she doesnt give you any instructions she lit said act like a man whats that mean?
I’ll wait for women to step up and start making an effort. Then I’ll “dazzle them with masculinity”.
That’s exactly the point lil bro… you really don’t get it
Women never make much of an effort. Good luck with that. Guys always have to do 90% of the work. lol
Ladies like being the prize.
@@devincase3091 Oh I know what the point was. I’ve spent my life watching all the men in my life bend over backward for the attention and love of women only to be emotionally and financially destroyed. Men need to stop giving women what they want just because they’re women.
You are weakest link GOODBYE
You step up first and act. Take risks and act. That makes you a man. F*ck them if they react badly
As usual, she has the best intentions, and I want to believe that she is right, but we are the ones that may be social and legal destroy by a woman that did not find us attractive.. You are right, but at end it doesn't change the fact, that we don't read minds, and we are experts in misinterpretation of women.
Haven't been to jail in a while. May take her up on the advice. Can't help but wonder what kind of charges the courts will make up. Will it be Felony intimidation or PFMA this time? 🤔
With a hugh enough luck stat, only attemted Rape
Yeaaaaaa, tell it to the judge lady.
It isn't just about offending a woman, they have shown that they are more than willing to end your life for being ugly
"Solution? Simple! Do things that'll get you labeled as a predator, fired from your job, and in a courtroom!"
Fixed it for you.
Lol. And if you’re ugly and you touch her you will be arrested. Good luck gentlemen.
Never happened, literally ever lol. Get out more often instead of potato dwelling on that monitor.
Easy for you to say! After all women can say anything and get away with it. Believe it or not, I had a friend who was pointed to by a woman he never met who walked into a bar with a policeman in tow, and the next thing he knew was that he was being arrested. This was a college town in Pennsylvania, and he was doing his PhD. He couldn't even find a lawyer to represent him in that town, and finally got a lawyer from New York who also had a Pennsylvania license. So, no, thank you -- I'll keep away from women even if anyone wants to label me as "broken", "not being manly", or whatever insult anyone can find. Totally fine with me.
Physical touch? That got me thrown out & blacklisted. You gotta be kidding
This lady tryna get some mofos sent to jail
Instructions clear, but now I'm on America's most wanted 😢
This advice will land you in court.
Good advice. I try to live by the art of not giving a f*ck what people think about me but it doesn't work every day unfortunately because I do care if I'm being honest with myself.
Instructions unclear, my court date is next week.
Current Society..
Don't approach at gym
Don't approach at work
Don't approach at store
Don't approach at really anywhere unless you have iron confidence and look like thor.
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just approach women looking like you just got out of prison, tell her you have two different baby mamas and live with your ex, but you've got dope in your pocket and you'd love to smoke with her.
Also current society: "Why won't anyone approach me?"
I could care less what women think.
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Sigma 😎
You could?
me either, they don't really like men anyway
@@troymurphy6531 Don't try to understand women. Women understand women and they hate each other.
Lady, i appreciate the positive vibes youre trying to send our way. I do. Most Dudes just aint got it in them to accept it. Lifes hurt us in specific ways, and that makes trust tough.
Tldr: We are, unfortunately, the scars of every previous partner that we got trying to find the open and accepting final partner we havent found.
Great advice! I'll just wait for the police to come and tell me what I'll be getting acussed of.
Just be yourself. If either the man or the woman is not doing this, the relationship is dead before it starts. Everyone is so fake these days that just doing this one thing impresses everyone.
I know of 40 year old virgins who have tried that
It's not always enough and it doesn't always work fam. Maybe hear out what incels actually say
@@scary5455 and how many do you know who are happily married for over 10 years by taking up a fake persona and acting every day with the relationships' foundation being stragetic mindgames?
My turning point was a comment I posted where I asked a woman if I would appear like a creep writing compliments to a lady. She answered: "don't make yourself so f*cking small, man. Are you a creep? Hell no! So what do you care about?" This woke me up a while ago
I saw a man get shamed recently for commenting that an influencer was hot. She screen shotted it and posted it thanking all the people “defending” her. And it wasn’t even a blatantly sexual disrespectful comment it was “when the photographer is hotter than the model”
You're a creep if she's not attracted to you... Otherwise it's okay
But WHY! has feminism destroyed the confidence of men? That is a key question. And part of that answer is that it has allowed some jealous girls to put said confident men into literal prison.
Ladies, if you want confident men again, you will have to put some effort in first (and not in an outfit and makeup and shoes) but in convincing the man that you are mentally stable enough that won't fear prison by offending you.
This is easy to say when your reputation isn’t at risk of being destroyed by simply approaching women. The risk to reward ratio is so far skewed, it’s easier not to approach
She’s right.
It’s only “weird” when she already lost attraction or never was attracted.
Not necessarily, you could go out with a woman and think there is a mutual connection but she is just there for the food!
Then it’s weird and she will call you or make you feel creepy and you are left confused and pissed off.
@@bornaghadamzan2223 Thank you. People really underestimate how often women do things like this on purpose. It sounds terrible, but it's really true that misogyny exists for a reason. Women will try to burn you at the stake for pointing this out, but there are a lot of women out there who do things that actually create misogyny in other people. But we have to apologize for that? That's the world we live in.
And there's no way to know that until your in jail
@@barrysoetorro9123 so true. I had the manager of my gym call me and say some girl was uncomfortable around me but she was the one that kept following me all over the gym. Then she kept hitting on me after the manager called me. So I said I'm getting a lawyer and suing this POS place if it ever happens again I know the judge. She was gone the next week
If some get offended, it’s their problem. Not mine. We shouldn’t be responsible of how others react. I hope you are safe, Bill, and thank you for the short. Blessings.
Correct
And that is the right answer
Agreed
Say that to the police while getting arrested for allegedly SA-ing her, getting cancelled and getting kicked out from your job and stuff because she felt like you were a creep.
In the past, if someone was offended it was their problem, nowadays it's the person's problem who offended them.
The best example is "George not found" a Minecraft CZcamsr, it wasn't his fault.
@@Incorporeal_Ghost Correct. That’s why we all got to be very careful when someone says accusations. It could be true, and it could not be true. Watch your back. 🤟🏾
And THAT'S the Kind of message that I needed at 6am before going to the Uni. Thank You!!😎😄
I bought a segz doll, perfect for my needs and never answers back
Man I feel this. Cheaper and less headache.
I started acting like a man. MGTOW man. And it’s great! Biggest benefit is PEACE! 😀
acting like a man is literally being alone. we've done it our entire existence. from the beginning of time we used to hunt for days or weeks alone or with a small group of men. we would come back to camp, where the women and children were and feed them our catch, then right back out on our own. Men were never social or emotional creatures until recently. And this pull to make us social and emotional is driving me insane and pushing me further away from society.
@@treznor6992 Men were definitely more emotional in the past. It's just that they harmonized with their emotions and weren't controlled by them.
But they definitely had emotions. Bro, being a psychopath is not masculine.
She is correct. There’s no need to be so overly kind polite and timid around women. Instead, try being funny, authentic and charismatic within reason.
I was on a date 2 days ago and I made the opposite mistake:
I was teasing her a lot, laughing a lot with her, touching, etc but I forgot to ask deep questions about her life, what she likes to do, etc.
Basically we small talked and teased each other for an hour and half but at the end of the date I felt the vibe that she wasn’t trusting me enough to be open for a kiss
If there's really no need to be that way around women, what messaging should we offer the men who feel demanded to be that way by women, especially in light of the women who do demand it, or the men who even feel ashamed or afraid of stepping out of that shell? And how should that message be delivered? Are you aware that there are women who bully men over this? And that some of those women know the harm they are doing when they do so?
@@nathanmstroud Simple. Don’t give a rats ass what women think about your game. You’re confidence and demeanor is yours and yours alone. Don’t let nobody take that from you, remember that.
"Within reason"= if you're reasonably attractive which can completely flip during her menstrual cycle.
@@ilikeyt5053 Because you got stuck at the initial stage. You have to build up to a kiss. Building sexual tension is a skill just like the bantering.
You cant commit to someone whose feeling change every 15 minutes
They will be annoyed and resentful
Bros, save yourself from an humbling experience and don’t approach women 😂🙌
nothing wrong with being timid, right? it's like my one defining character trait. I'll live how i want. see what happens from there. I am NOT changing how i act naturally to attract people
Ah yes, the good ol’ “just man up”
We are not "afraid of being creepy", we are "afraid of being labelled creepy"!
I get blocked by their beta moderators everytime I speak and I always speak my mind.
And then we take that step and get accused of rape.
Got it, so I should aim to come off as timid. That way I don't get stuck with one of these women one day.
Good luck to those of you who decide to roll the dice
What im hearing is risk being taken to court by one of two types of women, the butterfly who gets offended by everything and thinks all men are psychopathic child molesters, or the women that knows she can get away with it and wants to sue for the money. Even if the chances of this are low, i am not taking the chance.
This is terrible advice when there is no jail time for false accusations even a women changing her mind about if she likes you or not can turn into a rape allegation and even if proven false how much is it going to cost you in court costs or solicitor costs and when proven false what is the likelyhood she gets jail time.
Exactly.
And then when you give her a compliment, when she doesn't like you because you're not 6ft and earning 100k, she calls the cops and has you arrested for attempted rape.
Why are you complimenting women who don’t like you?
@eoghanmaloney9561 "why dont men approach me". This is why. Even if you are 6ft and make 100k you never know if she is looking for a million, and if so, you're now a creep and a stalker.
@@morganoox3838 why would you want a woman who only wants millionares(
@@eoghanmaloney9561 And the guy is supposed to know those things before approaching HOW, exactly?
@@mastick5106 yall are so stuck in this self victimization it’s crazy.
My basic advice is, just be yourself if she liked or not it doesn't matter juts be yourself and be confident
"Nice guys finish last." Still holds true.
I no longer fear women. I have solved the equation. See guys I know what I was lacking, what I wanted from a relationship with a woman. Took a long time, but I solved it. It sounds stupid but the answer is simple. I wanted to be loved. And here is the solution, make yourself whole. No with a woman, a dog, or a Porsche. You must come to a level that you can say "I love ." Repeat that affirmation every day, multiple times a day, for however long it takes until it is a truth in your life. When it is, you don't need/want a woman to destroy the peace you have found in yourself.
This is life changing advice
Nah, I fucking hate my life. I live in a capitalistic hellscape from which there is no reprieve. The worst part is, its my own damn fault, which, stands to reason that its unlikely to ever change. I knocked some absolute HEINOUS bitch up when I was young and dumb because she was the first chick to offer up some pussy, and that was the first of a chain of mistakes I continue to make. No matter what I choose it's ALWAYS the wrong answer. Choose to pass up a job offer so you can 'get this promotion' boom, you get passed over. Accept a job offer that gives you real world experience, and boom, can't finish college working 70 hours a week. Accept this new job, boom 6 months into the highest paying job you've ever had that you moved you're whole family across the state for and boom, laid off. Move across the state again to stay with her parents since you can't afford the house you had (thanks to getting laid off from company cutbacks) and boom, no jobs to be found. Finally find a job. Move up, still not enough to get your own place, get a call to move back where you came from, take the job, get the pay raise, boom 6 months in they cancel the contract that was supposed to be open for 5 years.
It's getting long, but lets just say, that continues for several more years. No matter which option I pick, it's ALWAYS the wrong one. So no, I don't "love me". I fucking hate me, and this shithole life I have made for myself. If I had it all to do over again, I fucking wouldn't. Let's just call it a life early and see what comes after this shit, because so far this ain't it and I'd rather just be DONE.
@@barrysoetorro9123 LOL LOL LOL Good one!!!
The women that are out here aren’t throwing on the heels and make up though, they’re putting in 0 effort and expecting the man to carry them and the relationship.
Why should they even wear makeup? You can make effort unrelated from looks.
Oh man I'm nowhere near as messed up as the things she just said and I still get the no spark text lol
Ya I just going be myself and if people or especially ladies don’t like it I am fond being single the rest of my life. I don’t need to be fake to impress people. Just need someone to accept me being me 😊
@@barrysoetorro9123 ya that is about right because the women in my age group isn’t children they mostly moms.
It just seems as if it isn't worth it.
Men, change your height, body, bank account and facial features before attempting.... I repeat... Change your height, body, bank account and facial features before attempting.
Walk away guys. Ignore these walking liabilities.
A man that is authentic will never fear saying something that he truly means
And how to avoid being called a creep or a sexual predator? 🤔
They are going to keep doing that as long as it holds power over men. They know it does. It's a manipulation tool. So, you either have to counter it, or you have to submit to it.
@@DavidFrost9992 shame
Easy. Don't date leftists. It's not hard at all to guess where traditional girls would be vs where modern girls would be.
Be called that way and dont f*cking care, man
you can't control it, so stop worrying about it, if a woman likes you she won't view you as that 🙄
Billie, I get what you are trying to do. You are trying to give a pep talk to men that being masculine is good, okay, and even necessary in today's society. I agree, myself, but you have an uphill battle to fight here after the tables have been set here longer than you have lived. And there are chemical forces at play here that are not addressed.
Guys, the 1% men have the confidence to tell the girl she looks hot and not care what happens. That is what Billie is saying here. I get it, the MeToo stuff was the magnum opus of female empowerment. It said to all men that they won't take the actions of an underhanded few men per capita, and many have chosen to expand that to a larger portion of the populace, if not all men.
But there has to be some chemistry. She wants to feel desired. And if you don't lay that card on the table, she's going to fold and leave the table. I agree, it's not fair that we also typically have to play the provision card, the protection card, and the kindness card before they have to play any cards at all, but that is not the point Billie is discussing here. She is literally saying that you have to present to her the clear signal that you are physically into her.
And, Billie, here is where I hijack your advice and lay out a slightly different roadmap. See, I believe that hookup culture has absolutely hosed a lot of things, relationship-wise. And the women we are seeing on social media and at parties and bars are in no way interested in making it stop. So we men need to do it. And that is going to hurt the feelings of quite a few girls who put on a cute outfit, got the face covered in paint, and wore the shoes that make their butt look nice. We, as men, need to stop backing up and letting every last woman tell us what to do and who to be. We tried it for the last 40+ years, and this is where we are. No more sex on the first few dates. Respect your time and money for the value it has, and give neither to women who won't reciprocate. Be proud of the things you are proud of. It's okay. If a girl does not like what you like, you weren't going to be a good fit anyway.
Be men again. Be willing to set healthy boundaries and learn to calmly and firmly advocate for them. No, ma'am, I am not going to buy you a drink for you to take it and scamper off to show your friends you are cute enough to not need your wallet. You will give me the pleasure of conversation with you in exchange, or you will buy your own drink. Oh? You don't owe me your attention? True. I agree. And I don't owe you my wallet.
A good woman wants a man like this because he demonstrates principles. Which, honestly, we men really *ought* to have anyway.
Truly, Billie needs a male interpreter. One like you. Because she has some good points, however, she doesn't quite speak our language. This was phrased perfectly where my masculine brain can understand it, and you just helped me understand what I need to do exactly to fix the one issue I've had, that I just realized I created, over the last few years. I wanted to get "clean" and stop having my relationships jump into the physical within the first couple of months. So, I stopped complimenting a woman on their looks and tried to establish an emotional connection. Since then, I've never had a single date. Planty of interest from women. But no date.
Fortunately, the one I never asked out is the one that I want, and whenever I go to her work. I catch her staring at me like a velociraptor stares at a Tbone steak. Lol
Thanks for that clarification. I have been scratching my head for the last 5 years why I was so successful in the dating world for my teens and 20s, but not at the height of my career, physique, and agency as a male. You just answered it.
I think youre missing the point. Men arent approaching girls because they have 0% to confidence. They have 100% desire to stay out of jail
"don't be afraid to establish physical touch"
*Immediately sent to jail*
You can be kind and interesting, it doesn’t have to be one or the other. A woman that has value seeks both.
tried it, got a restraining order 1 week later
Beware that saying “start acting like a man” it’s confrontational, what am I acting like if it’s not like a man?
Imagine now, if I said to you, start acting like a woman! wtf
As one of the guys that got shit on through my entire teenage years for being too forward I don’t know what to tell you.
It's a matter of knowing what's appropriate when establishing a connection. As in know the kind of person you're talking to. Pay attention to tone, body language, and what they say while how they act. It's also good to keep what you do and say based on how comfortable each person is.
And say GOODBYE to your PEACE.
Yeah no not gonna touch her because she's gonna call me creepy and I know a guy who had the police called up on him cuz he did something like this.
I just cant stop seeing her in Lady Ballers. Lol
The real question that's in need of an answer is, "How do I act like a man?"
The problem young men up to men in their 30s face today is a lot of women say they want a man, but they really don't. This is a huge confidence destroyer.
As men, we're taught to always be kind, so we take that to mean we're supposed to embrace being timid. We're both supposed to get mad or step beyond our boundaries.
The truth is that our parents' generations have made a lot of us too scared to say the wrong thing, apologize for being offensive in any manner and put everyone's needs before our own. It's a trap that we're raised into and then our friends and families say stuff like "Why don't you have any respect for yourself?" when we were raised to not have respect for ourselves and a well to achieve our desires.
It's possible to break, but it's extremely difficult, especially the older you get.
Take it from a saved cultist who's nearly 30 and still struggles to get the attention of women despite the many failed attempts. It's possible, but only with a complete system reboot.
THIS. Preach.
This is actually good advice. A normal woman wants a MAN. Not a little boy. More guys need to hear this.
Yea and as soon as you be a man these are the same woman calling them toxic masculinity. CRAZY how delusional these woman giving advice are.
Mediocre, not effective enough, as I just stated above.
Bullshit. They only want a ‘real man’ once they’re 32 and have been pumped and dumped by dozens of bad boys.
True, but she must have a burning desire for you .
The problem is, and this becomes even clearer when you watch her other videos, her idea of "acting like a man" is just being toxic as fuck lol
“Throwing timidness out the window” only works if she finds you attractive
You’re right on all things you said. Unfortunately modern society is no longer a safe place to play the game.
As men we should not have to change ourselves just so woman will maybe give us a little effort it’s sad that this chick thinks she knows what’s best for us when she’s never been in our shoes
Yeah right, see yall in jail
Brothers .
And also they put make up
On “just cuz they feel like it today” lmao
Thanks. Needed to hear the second part
Yeah guys, just stop being timid. Why haven't you thought about that before?
I am an aggressive men. Let me live alone women. Otherwise I'll get scary. 😂😂
Being a stereotypical emotionally violent man is not something to brag about but go off sis.
Don't forget guys she is talking about guys over 6 ft, 6 pack, 6 figure income, and a 6 or higher on the attractive scale. If you are none of those, you are a freak, creep, geek. The only response you will get is an eye roll or an insult. If the girl is not rude, you will always hear you're not my type.
True, 90% of women are sharing the top 10 % of men as well and the women don't seem to mind at all. They happily place themselves into harems..
It's an evil world we live in.
I'm forwarding this to my colleagues in construction. 😂👍🏻
Even at work if it’s not about work I’m not interested, I just chill with the boys 👌🏽👌🏽👍🏽👍🏽
This is why I focus on getting power instead. There's too much work that needs to be done to obtain a relationship. However, power is there for the taking .
Men could just be elegant and not seem like they want her the first time they meet her.
It takes time for woman to take confidence with you because they're actually afraid that you're just a sexual predator.
It is as simple as "she will say no, till you can demonstrate the opposite".
Hm, strange, if a man is affraid that a woman might exploit him, he is the problem
If a woman is afraid that a man might exploit her, he is the problem
Also, "men could just be elegant" whilst lots of women dress like 304s...
Yeah I was with a girl and she initiated. It was awesome and gave me more confidence. Why don’t more women do that?
I'm going to embrace my masculinity, by doing my own thing.
It also helps to take a shower, get a haircut, shave, dress well, employ social etiquette ( read some books) .
@@barrysoetorro9123 dude what’s the problem? I didn’t say be a simp.
A woman who actually understands herself. How rare
Close, but I doubt that's what she is.