Haleh Banani | Marriage Counseling Question 1: How Do You Forgive In A Marriage?
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Haleh Banani has a Masters in Clinical Psychology with 25 years of experience working with couples and individuals. She was a featured expert on Al-Jazeera international, Huda TV, Islamic Open University, Mercy Mission, Al-Qalam Institute, and Bayinnah TV. She received her ijaza for the recitation of the Quran in Egypt and was the first female to host a program for Al-Fajr TV called "With Haleh". She has been happily married tabarakAllah for 25 years with 3 kids ages 22, 19 & 17.
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About Haleh Banani, M.A. Clinical Psychology - Faith-Based Counselor
As a Muslim mental health professional, Haleh Banani has practiced Islamically-integrated counseling since 1998 helping thousands of Muslim families worldwide in crisis situations overcome emotional and relationship obstacles by empowering them with proven, psychological methods sheâs developed within the Quran and sunnah.
A faith-based mental health professional, mental health advocate, host of her own T.V. show âWith Halehâ appearing on Al-Jazeerah and Huda TV (call in expert) with Sheikh Mohammad Salah. An international speaker and writer fueled with the passion to spread optimism, revolutionize Islamic characteristics with the aim to strengthen the family unit and improve the overall quality of the Muslim household.
She has a thriving private practice with a two month wait mashaâAllah. She has gained a stellar reputation for achieving amazing results by using fast and effective methods that restore relationships, save marriages, build strong families, heal emotions and rebuild self-esteem.
Founder of several online programs:
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Sheâs very grateful for receiving her ijaza for the recitation of the Quran in Egypt alhamdulillah in 2012. Her biggest accomplishment is being happily married mashaâAllah tabarakAllah for 24 years with her best friend Abdelmajeed Muriby and raising 3 amazing children mashaAllah Amir, Kareem and Layla ages 22, 19 & 17. Her and her husband have raised exemplary children who are carrying on the mission to contribute to the community by giving khutbahs, teaching Quran classes and being business owners mashaâAllah tabarakAllah.
Her work has been endorsed by Dr. Omar Suleiman, Dr. Yasir Qadhi, Mufti Menk, Dr. Waleed Basyouni, Sh. Mohammad Salah and many more faith-leaders, psychiatrists and mental health professionals. Alhamdullilah
My partner doesn't let me tell him when I'm hurt, even when I tell him in a kind way. He never apologizes. Never! It's difficult.
I get a very similar response and top my spouse reaction is like I'm being mean or hurting her in some way and then she gets emotional, I just don't know what to do as I then never say something for a long time or try to forget about it and it effects my mental state seriously, any advice?
This sister is amazing Allah humma Baarik. Allah bless her and aid her upon Sirattul Mustaqeem. Aameen
Asa sister,
some brothers are so stubborn in their nature they don't want to change for anyone and I understand wife expects from her husband to show care towards her which makes her happy and satied but I think for some husband's it's just humiliating act. we should take care of eachother for ALLAH's sake as we all have to return to HIM and answerable to HIM.
THANKS sister for sharing your knowledge with us.
JAZAKALLAH KHAIR
Noor Far i totally agree with u...
sooo beautiful subhanAllah!!! It also applies to friendships! :)
It's hard when the husband doesn't understand, even after discussing. I'm the type of person who likes to try and resolve things there and then but my husband thinks I'm just moaning!! He doesn't understand me and my emotions! What would I do in this situation?
Jasmina F how are you
Salaam sister! great video
Halal Eritrean how are you
Thanks
Allah humma Baarik. Allah bless u sister
I agree totally. I have been through hurtful situations and my husband have not wanted to talk about the situation or see the situation from my side and just as you say, I still felt hurt years later.
I have so many hurtful events in my three years marriage.... and now when we are separated many things from the past comes to the surface...he never wanted to resolve the issues and admitted his wrongdoings...i was putting so much effort in this relationship and now i stopped... when I talked to him last time i said many things when how he hurt me and abuse me ...he couldn't handle it he don't know what to do ....
Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm truly sorry to hear about the pain you've endured in your marriage. It's incredibly difficult when past issues resurface and remain unresolved. It's important to take care of your well-being and seek support during this challenging time.
I recommend exploring the Banani Method, which has helped many individuals in similar situations. Working on yourself can sometimes lead to positive changes in your relationship dynamics. If you'd like more personalized support, we offer one-on-one and group sessions with Banani Method trained coaches. You can find more information at halehbanani.com.
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15 yrs married yet many problems still, lot of arguments and myself not able to stop anger issues even studying about anger from sunnah.
Insha'Allah you can learn to communicate effectively without anger.
@@haleh_banani Alhamdulillah its under control but still get angry allah hu mustaan and has led to be taking anti- depressions medicine
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Easier said that done!
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please continue .. " Jazakum Allahu Khaira :) "
It's easy to forgive but what if the same thing keeping happenings, people don't change they grew up n some don't how do we deal with them
Salam, I been married for 3yrs and after I discovered many bad things about my husband, he's gambling, and cheating, and I got pregnant and he's not happy about that, because he told me his family want him to have a kids with the woman fr his country now he asking me to divorce because his family want him to married soon to that girl they found for him, abd I feel so bad and hurt till I I miscarriage and he didn't show up in the hospital, the hard part is he borrowed money from me and he now I want to get back the money but he said he will pay me after his wedding, abd I felt he just using me and I want to curse him and I know it's harram but I'm just only human what should I do know sister, I don't want to feel angry for the rest of my life because of what he did but its hard for me to forgive him
I am not a person of sweet tounge and a person of reality which can lead to spikes of critisim from wife which lead to fruatrution and later anger & I have used past issues and bought up
Insha'Allah you can learn to become a little sweeter by following the example of our prophet (peace and salat upon him
asalamualaikum sister, I hope you are well, jazaakallah khair for the valuable content. I wanted to ask if you have any videos in regard to pre marriage counselling.
I need that too. I'm a new subie
Salaam pls pray for me as my personal life scattered she think that husband love and daughter love is nothing then her own family as she don't want to continue relationship pls pray for me
I'm sorry to hear that, stay patient and strong
My husband talk less like hmm,ya,no.then how come to clean up daily emotions.
Assalamu alaikum, i'm so Sorry to hear that. I'm praying for you this Ramadan. Please download this guide to help you get started restoring your relationship, insha'Allah courses.halehbanani.com/7-gems-to-save-marriages
Why is this question been addressed only from women perspective? He didn't get it.. it can be other way round too..what about that situation..?
Assalamu alaikum Asif Shaikh, Thank you for your feedback. It is essential to be just and fair when approaching any marital challenge... I assure you this video was not meant to be a comprehensive answer, however the vast majority of the people who consume my content are women and many times I do cater to them. Since, we can only change ourselves or our behaviours to positively influence our spouse and improve our relationships, it is only prudent to focus on what brings value to the view. Many videos I produce do focus on improving the marriage skills in men...you can search and find my videos on my website or facebook.com/islampsychology. Here is a pdf you can download to get an idea of my approach, insha'Allah courses.halehbanani.com/7-gems-to-save-marriages
biggest problem is ai am the Hisband and shid see outside the box so to say but unfortunly I have so much frustrution and anger bold up tht it comes out on wife Allah Hu Mustaan
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Marriage is an regret, marriage is important for a women not for men !
You're All over the place. What the heck are you talking about??????!