How To Save Your Marriage! Mufti Menk
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In this Jummah (Friday’s sermon) lecture #MuftiMenk points out some crucial matters why #Marriage #breaks and he gives some practical tips to save marriage as remedies for uprooting the problems in marriages.
"Number one: When You'Re Not Prepared To Sacrifice For Your Spouse. Number One: When You'Re Not Prepared To Stand Up For Your Spouse: Number One When You Do Not Protect Your Spouse, Notice I Said Three Things; All Of Them Are Number One. You Notice "? @muftimenkofficial
Ismail Musa Menk was born in Harare, Zimbabwe. He is a student of knowledge trying to disseminate the Deen in the current age.
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The sad part about all this is that the mother in law doesen't even realize how they are a Dictator is breaking their sons marriage! They take it easy that the daughter in law is doing and adjusting to Everything and take it for granted untill they cross the limits of Allah and when she finally speaks up, their son who was spoiled by his parents from the beginning, takes the mothers/fathers side and has no brain to protect and stand up for his own wife, be just and a guardian. Narssistic behaviour, mental illness is a big problem in society, which can lead to divorce, because of crazy behaviour and giving no thoughts of what the result of it may be. May Allah never let this happen to any women. Ameen Ya rabbul alameen. Great Lecture Mufti Menk. MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU. AMEEN
😢💔 I am suffering from all this. Pray for my marriage and that I unite with my husband. Ameen
Due to family politics and misunderstandings my marriage is over and it is not bearable at all. Every second I die with all those thoughts. Some people neva understand that they have to slightly change their behavior and routine. His parents could save our relationship but now ego is much more important than relationship. Every time , every mistake is at my side they are free of all their daughters are right. Sisters I have no feelings to live anymore
@@mariamsaeed7228 I understand, have sabr sister, I am going through a very tough time also, trying to be patient for now.
@@ummiammarachowdhury7816 jazak Allah sister....may Allah ease ur life ameen
I truly agree with you Jazakallah my sister , Alhamdulillah Allahu Akbar
My God I am so happy there is someone to talk about the subject about the rights of women
I have had lots of issues
I have daughters I I really fear for them
I pray they have a good life
MAN PARENT'S DESTORY THE LIFE OF HIS SPOUSE SAD RELAITY OF NOWDAYS😪😭
My father in love broke 💔 my marriage after 8 years 😢 marriage in this day some they are no care about son and daughter in low very sad
So true.
My talaq just 2 days before im shattered.im yatim,i have no one at this world. Plz make duaa for me,i
I am sorry. May Allah give you Sabr Amen.
May ALLAH grant you something better than what has taken away from you
Aameen
Please make Dua for me that my marriage with my husband will be saved & repaired, so we can live happily married again. Ameen
Inshallah it will ok soon
May allah make it easy for you and get you through this difficult time
InshaAllah...
Amin ya rabba alamin
Ameen
U tell it as it is, people don't take marriage seriously. Give up too easily. 👏🇦🇺
Mufti Menk is a amazing motivational speaker.
He is a spiritual speaker..
Sometimes it's much better to be single... You don't have to deal with a lot of BS that we all face on daily basis....
This is true
Hundred percent with you on this comment
Grass is always greener on the other side
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Correct, marriage is so overrated now
I really needed this right now. You would think during Ramadan people would walk the straight path with precision....I am a mother that suffers greatly simply because I am American revert for over 20 years! I never make my children choice between me or their spouses, me or their father, me or their inlaws..When Mufti mentioned holidays, I started crying, I spend my alone as they celebrate together and it hurts.....I give it to Allah every prayers ...my prayer rug is wet with tears. But I trust Allah plans. Sometimes Allah takes toxic people from your life when you cant do it ourselves. Forgive me if I said something wrong but this hit me very hard! JazakAllahKheir
I’m bearing this from past 10 years... bt one thing for sure this has brought me closer to Allah... allhamdullillah...
Man's parents don't care about son's spouse nor his life.
Sadly to say, that is very true.
Tish Bish true
I dont agree. I think when we dont love God automatically we cannot love anyone. Be it our own children or even our own selves.
That's not true for everyone. And some love goes because one or the other spouse doesn't know how to grow up or give their spouse quality time. Or maybe doesn't show enough love, or is always busy doing something other than being with their spouse...
Agree
May-Allah bless u Mufti Menk and grant u jannah , u r doing such a wonderful job , may-Allah reward u Ameen, i love u for the sake of Allah
ameen may Allah guide us all and take us to jannah in shaa Allah
Kursum Abubakar Amiin
Aameen!
@@kursumabubakar1927 Aameen
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maa shallah, I love dis man so much, how I wish to invite him with honour as my special guest on my wedding day inshallah, may u live long
Subhanallah my husband was a good man and he always guide me for everything and help me to change more and praise to allah 💑 jazzakallahu khair mufti menk 😭
Testimony. I was a cleaner in a company and my wife left me for another man and things was very tight with me financially until i met the spiritual healing spell. who turn my life around for good. he make me a manager of the company where i was working as a cleaner and bring back my ex wife within 24 hours and now I'm wealthy living with my lovely wife. contact him through. drpaulspellcaster@yahoo.com cell line +2347013291233 reach him if you have any painful problem
@@nelsonramonn u mean black magic... If so then let me tell u that it is not permissible
@@nelsonramonn Fear God, you'll be questioned for guiding people to magicians. Enjoy your short stay on earth, but prepare yourself for the next life
@@nelsonramonn Allahuma najinaa
👩AISHA SAID I AM NINE. MOHAMMED👴SAID IT'S FINE😋😋
All these three reasons defines what I am going through right now.
Oh god he is soooo genuine....very authentic speech
Yeah... He is a true muslim
God*
Subhan Allah
Very beautiful speech
Subhan Allah
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Subhan Allah ! You bring peace in lives sheikh❣️ thankyu😢
My ex husband never protect me😔 I pray n hope that ALLAH send me a BETTER SPOUSE in THE FUTURE ,,,,, IN SYAA ALLAH 😇 AAMIIN YAA ROBBAL'ALAMIIN
where are you my FUTURE HUSBAND 🤭 I'm RIGHT HERE WAITING FOR U to come to PROPOSE n MARRYING ME in REAL LIFE😊are U lost somewhere else 🤭
Ha ha ha
Hhhhhhh, may Allah help you
I am glad he's your ex, someone with a brain and self respect,May Allah grant you the husband of your dreams
Sacrifices should be mutual.... For a successful marriage life..
sacrifice means?... Suicide 🥺?
@@tanvirfakir5833 Not suicide.
I agree. I have sacrificed a lot to accommodate my husbands wants and dreams and he has achieved. Now I pray he reciprocates by maybe not sacrificing but paying forward his gratitude and compromising as well as contributing back to that which I want for our lives to be better. I pray for our hearts to become one again
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U explain sooo well with love with heart but probably people's of this days they will never understand
👩AISHA SAID I AM NINE. MOHAMMED👴SAID IT'S FINE😋😋
I love how hes straight to point.
Mufti Menk mashallah all your lectures are well absorbed by my mind and heart. Jazakallah Alkhair.
Subhan Allah
mufti menk always surprise me by saying things dats very true about real life. even I hv gone through all such circumstances .Alhamdulillah my husband s very understanding so I am out of it n now Masha Allah Vry happy
Thahir Pasha tabarakaAllah sister allhamdulillah!
Thahir Pasha my husband is a piece of shit!
👩AISHA SAID I AM NINE. MOHAMMED👴SAID IT'S FINE😋😋..
Make dua for me i think my marriage is over but im trying to save it :'(
Im so down and depress because of my marriage life...
I need your prayers...
If you are down,then do what's best for you and pray about it .Allah gave us a brain
May Allah Subhana Watalla grant you janna
GOod lecture indeed,
May Allah bless yOu!!
May god bless you . I love to hear your preach you are so blessed by god chosen one from last two days I hear your Gods speech I sleep so late at night till 2:30 am. Thank you so much for making us understanding what we all have to do in our daily life . Amen
God*
story of my life!!!!
Zahra A It really hurts. I understand. :_( Worst, if you're being fitna.
Wow every point u picked so correctly Masha Allah you have great understanding level Allah bless you alot dua from my heart loves u alot
May Allah grant you good health and long life so that you continue to let us know about Islam
I’m hearing an Islamic speech in life now , heard loads n loads but it’s perfect speech subhanallah 😍 I feel now I’m hearing 1st time may Allah bless u
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Salaam Alaikum Mufti Menk. True speaking. Many are speaking with a split tongue and One Eye. Many wisdom in this. Thank you for sharing your knowledge. Praise the Lord of the worlds every day. Alhamdolilah
MashAllaah beautiful speeches Mr Menk Mufti May Allaah bless us all with family's ameeeeen
Good one
Mashaallah Sheekh mufti allah yaxfiduka amiin
May Allah ease my difficulties n give love respect, n trust in me n my husband ameeen.
Tasmiya Nadeem YA RABB Al Amin
That wonderful my brother you are really given the souls what they need may Allah richly bless you
Ameen
My mother in law she always hurt me by saying wrong words and wen I say something so later on she cries that she started first...and at that moment I feel very shocked.my husband starts fighting with me.what to do???
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Mashallah Thanks for give The lesson to all muslim my allah bless u more and more and your family.. Inshaa allah ameen yah rabb..
Mar sha Allah , you the best
i am 9 mnth pregnant ...i am really going through tough time bcz my mother in law hates when my husband spend time with me.iam in my home for delivery and she is not allowing my husband to come and see me exept for routine check up..so i cried the whole day .....i dont know how i find a solution ...plz pray for me....
May ALLAH bless u and all of us sister... Ur husband should balance between u and his mother... It is not permissible for him to leave u alone in such a pain
Pray for her to become good to you and Talk to your husband nicely about it, if he Loves you he will think about it if he do not love you you have other way to get rid of this problem. Insha Allah.
Make duah to allah and love your mother and father in law and watch the husband will love you and the in-laws ganna give their heart. Trust me you sacrifice a little you gain more which most girls dont realise.
INSHA ALLAH EVERYTHING BECOME ALRIGHT AMEEN
Bless u
May Allah add you more power as you work for him.
the creater of you ....may bless ...
Very well said thank you brother
Thanks alot may Allah bless you always. Insha allah
God bless you
Mashallah ur words💕
Masha Allah nice i love mufti menk please make dua for me my wife kids all reunite and have a happy family life
11 things to do on Friday
1. shower ghusl
2. Cleaning teeth with miswak
3. Going to the mosque on foot
4. Applying perfume
5. Wear clean and dress good
6. Reading Surah al kahf
7. Siting close to the imam and listening proper to the khutba
8. Reaching masjid early
9. Making lots of dua
10. Min 100 Tasbeeh
11. Making 2 counts of sadaqa at the masjid or making someone to do it
And if you comment this you will earn sadaqa jaraiya for who Apply’s and uses these things to do
Subhan Allah
Sooo true
Brother you are so helpful to listen to. Thank Allah we will all stay strong no matter the circumstances for He knows our limits and won’t test us beyond what He knows we can handle. He is the Most High
Very good lecture
Al humdulilah .... 🙂
Jazakallah khyr
Good advice dear Muft Menk
May ALLAH blessing you
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I badly need Dua for my marriage. There is A LOT of anger in my husband and he is very verbally abusive to me and then tells me I should tolerate him because he doesn’t mean what he says when he’s angry. But my mind and heart can’t justify this. It feels like he does not love me at all or even care one bit about how his behavior makes me feel completely broken. Then he turns around and blames me for HIS words and behavior. Tells me I shouldn’t have angered him. I don’t want to lose him. Allah gave us each other for a reason. But I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m hurting so so so badly at his hands and he knew the pain I’ve experienced at the hands of other humans and promised me I would never ever feel this way with him. But honestly I feel like his abuse has been far worse than any other I’ve experienced. How can I possibly make our marriage better again? What more am I to do and tolerate to stay with this man Allah meant for me? Please help!
Use your brain? If your girlfriend did that to you,would you still be friends with her? Are some of you women that desperate to stay in marriage? Go and seek a marriage therapist,and Islamic one ,do that and see ,but if it's not working out,please use your head
@@purplelove3666 I think this is a very rude reply when you consider what Islam says about marriage.
Jazakallahu khair
Please make dua for my estranged wife. I pray that she sees clearly how we both let the Devil in our ears. I’m now realizing and doing the hard work to get my marriage (that I destroyed) back into the grace of Allah. I pray for the day she also breaks from the whispers of Shaytan. Everything on Allah’s time.
This is so great Mufti Menk!
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Good advice Sheikh ,be blessed
mansha Allah so beautiful
Amina Amina
Salam Alaykum Brothers & Sister. I am going through such a test that some days I feel like I can't take it anymore. Please make dua for me and my family. I love my wife and children don't want to lose them. The Shaytan is trying to break my life. If you reading this please make due for me & my family.
Insha Allah all your worries disappear soon. Ameen
Subhan Allah
Nice said may bless us
My husband hassan mehtar
He introduced me with a girl who he love & she rejected him and he come to me he knows that I will be hurt but he still asked me quations did she say anything did she asked anything? Seriously mufti menk how could he even I can't sleep well tonight can't eat can't stay without thinking it's not because is anger 💔 is because I love my husband he takes so naturally , but if he see am watching BTS he gets angry and before marriage I was cool & lots of friends but I don't have anyone Alhamdulillah
I wish I could see you and ask ur advise in person Mofti Menk 😥😥😥
Mashaallah,,tabaraqallah, I wanna ask you something about my situation with my husband?,,
I made biggest mistake marrying my husband. I married him to please my parents I thought I’d fall In love with him eventually but where married 15 years and I really respect him but I don’t love him . And I am so miserable with him . Cause I’m just not attracted to him never was . I feel so so so bad for it . I’ve tried so hard to be love him but I don’t like his personality.
Sister, I respect yu for your sabr
Enshallah things get better
Be close to Alllah, pray hard and Allah we solve your problem my dear ziz
I was married for 8 years and I felt same when I hit 5 years mark so I try for 3 more years, then I realized we not get anywhere I made decision to tell her my feelings. and now we divorce she is happy moved on and I moved on now I'm married and happy maybe you should tell him your feelings and see where you end up
No one should marry against his/ her will.... It may cost a life time punishment...... May ALLAH ALMIGHTY guide us all
Please help me ... Pray for me I'm so sadness my marriage not happy .. I'm trying to save for my kids but why still he cheated me many times ... Please help me
May Allah bring solution to your problem ameen now and forever
I feel you..
Insha allah please dont leave your husband im a broken husband myself and i dont wish that on anyone pray for him forgive him show him the light mufti menk is trying to show us tell him why your forgiving him and what you expect of him wallahi if i had the chance i will do anything for my wife and kids back i cant eat or sleep walahi i cant remember the last time i had a good sleep i miss my wife and kids so so much im finding it imposible to live without them please make dua for us please
@@sabeeliqbal6844 sorry how u now we the same situation
I’m making dua for you and all who are suffering in this situation. May your trials be an expiation for your sins and a means for entry into Jannatul Firdous, dear sister. Ameen🌸
MashaAllah
Mashallah sheikh is fair if we only follow and act according to the diin . Everyone will have happy life.
I wish I could listen this video little early
But my marriage was broken 4 months before
nice lecture baarakallah lak
Why don’t you just live separately from your parents? I simply can’t imagine living with your parents under the same roof with your wife and kids and even your brothers and sisters who aren’t married... I never read the Koran, but in Holy Scriptures it is said that Genesis 2:24
Verse Concepts
For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh.
Masha Allah
Asalaamu Alaikum Mufti Saab 👌
Well said
Love u sheikh
Good speech
God help me! Samething i suffered with
It's the little things that make marriage worth it. It's also the little things that break them apart
Thank you so much Menk ji, sometimes my goose bumps can be seen - what you say is already in my heart and have experienced this too. Married and yet not married - aap samjhe?
I listen to your lectures I tried to tell my husband too but there was nothing positive. I am the only child. Please pray for me.
Is there written "Bangladesh" :O
He visited this country ???
So save what you wanna so much for your life. .
Subhanllah Subhanllah
MOHAMMAD FALSE PROPHET💯✅
Mashallah
parents must stop meddling in marriages. Basically if your parents are unhappy with eachother they become possessive of the children, even when these are grown up and forge their own relationships.
Alhumdillah ✨💚✨
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Come on women, be Smart your mission is not to war with .......rather focus on the Deen and Love Allah know Him believe me Everything will be in your hand, insha Allah
Alhumdillah
Subhana Allah 🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻
May Allah Save the Love
Guide the Couples for the Reall love. .Sincerity Love. .
Guide my Allah mans and womans for Pure Love. .
Ameem Ameem Ameem
Syurga for husband still with his mother. Syurga for wife still with her husband. Give and take, understanding, respect, and grateful is very important. Sharing, caring, loving, giving, forgiving.
Yess yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss yessaass.... ameeeeeeeeennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
I had toxic spouse this is why i never bothered to fight back. She never made any efforts she wanted divorce .
As Salamu Alaykum 🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲
Assallamalekum
Please can you elaborate what about the daughter inlaws who disrespects the in laws disobeys their husband do everything which is out of islam
Can someone please tell me why my husband is spending more time at his sisters twenty years after our wedding I kind of accepted him being close to his family now that the kids are big I thought we would do things together but that's not happening I'm only included in family gatherings or attending family weddings I feel this is just to show others we live under one roof but hardly have a conversation.what should I do
M Ikhlaq What do you want to do sister? Have you spoken to him regarding how he is towards you and how you feel?
M Ikhlaq I had the same situation. I gave up on the marriage but not on myself. Divorced him and now I’m so happy! Finally got relief!
Pray for him and In Sha Allah he will change for better
@@innawewe do u have kids
Now a days aftr seeing others married lyfs all the girls max will decide not to get married evn for one time..bcpz that wil b the bad exp for the entire lyf which i am facing...bcoz they dont like my way of behaviour n attitude n don't like their back bitching about me....Allah should take me out of all this hell...