How To Make Your Spouse Happy Part 1 - Mufti Menk

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Komentáře • 322

  • @mutoniauxillia4681
    @mutoniauxillia4681 Před 4 lety +214

    I am a Christian but I love his preaching Godbless u ,u change our lives

    • @retroman9164
      @retroman9164 Před 3 lety +4

      Same

    • @A.B1999
      @A.B1999 Před 3 lety +8

      May you have a great life brother🤲🏼❤️ from muslim to christian

    • @laithfaouri8804
      @laithfaouri8804 Před 2 lety +1

      I do the same I’m Muslim and I like listening to TD Jakes he’s really good.

    • @rajabrajab3560
      @rajabrajab3560 Před 2 lety

      Welcome to Islam religion

    • @TeeshaMoney
      @TeeshaMoney Před 2 lety

      Me too ❤️

  • @christinbaxter
    @christinbaxter Před 5 lety +307

    I'm a Christian but I just love listening to Mufti!

  • @TeeshaMoney
    @TeeshaMoney Před 2 lety +91

    I’m Christian, and I listen to your lessons almost everyday

  • @diamykidsspecialcookerysho4729

    I'm a Christian. I love these preach... it helps me alot in my life... thank you 😊 💓

  • @stephanieduff5589
    @stephanieduff5589 Před 3 lety +34

    I see the previous comments and just want to say I am a Catholic and love to listen to him. I have listened for years. He speaks of praying. And being grateful to. God for the good things and the bad things.He speaks of kindness and patience. Set a good example for your children. What is there not to like about Mr. Menk.

  • @sitimariam8713
    @sitimariam8713 Před 3 lety +25

    When you love because of Allah, do everything in the name of Allah, inshaAllah your life will be happy. We are only lending Allah's creations. May everyone who's reading this be blessed inshaAllah ❣️

  • @abdulhamidabdullahi3711
    @abdulhamidabdullahi3711 Před 5 lety +53

    Sir when I listen to you I used to be happy,when I am sad
    Sir you are like a father to me I love you sir

    • @samsardar
      @samsardar Před 4 lety +3

      He is our Daddy. .so cute your comment 😍😍
      Masha Allah

    • @joharahasif
      @joharahasif Před 2 lety

      subhanAllah

    • @GangMY
      @GangMY Před 2 lety

      Me too

  • @shellzrahman6422
    @shellzrahman6422 Před 4 lety +46

    I love the balance between the knowledge of the current affairs and the Deen. His manner imof speaking really hits home with the current youth of muslims. Mad respect for him. May Allah bless you Ameen

  • @saplamga3178
    @saplamga3178 Před 2 lety +20

    Mashallah, He talks straightforwardly. His speech is soothing.

  • @ibrahimsk.official
    @ibrahimsk.official Před rokem +9

    This speech must be translated in many languages. I wish I could make my society know this whole concept. 😢😢😢
    Very true

  • @azraazra1927
    @azraazra1927 Před 2 lety +29

    In my house we consult every morning as a family and divide all responsibilities and chores. It makes things much easier. Doesn’t take 5 minutes to divide the chores. and the day becomes much easier alhamdhulillah

  • @riaa2794
    @riaa2794 Před rokem +19

    Mufti is the best, he made me realise I am lost in this world. Listening to him made me return to my old self praying everyday and treating people with respect. Watched the tone of my voice while speaking specially when im talking with my mum

    • @LovelyBrownBear-cm4ju
      @LovelyBrownBear-cm4ju Před 5 měsíci

      Asalamualykum waramatullah wabarakatu sis, im gonna let u in on a secret, we are all lost even us old wise people 😂😂 may Allah guide us all

  • @TheQueenyla
    @TheQueenyla Před 5 lety +80

    Hes is so funny 😂. If the phone does not recognize you, you have a problem...🤣🤣🤣

  • @rafatumohammed9324
    @rafatumohammed9324 Před 5 lety +122

    Maa shaa Allah I pray and wish my husband will learn from u

    • @TheBiaush
      @TheBiaush Před 5 lety +1

      In sha Allah.

    • @niceadvices3204
      @niceadvices3204 Před 4 lety +1

      Ameen

    • @noormuzamil9850
      @noormuzamil9850 Před rokem

      Ameen

    • @rlaila58
      @rlaila58 Před měsícem

      He's talking about when speaking to your spouse, my husband doesn't even speak let alone acknowledge my feelings and sacrifice

  • @randomvideos_658
    @randomvideos_658 Před 5 lety +42

    What a wonderful man and husband he is, mashallah

  • @msardar8674
    @msardar8674 Před rokem +10

    When I was sad, listen your lectures it's bring happiness for me.

  • @sali8312
    @sali8312 Před 3 lety +25

    Ya Allah, please forgive my sins. I treated my wife so badly and I neglected her. We have 2 lovely daughters together , my wife left recently because of my foul behaviour, i miss them all. Please forgive me for treating her badly and I promise to you Allah that I will treat my family better. InshaAllah, Ameen

    • @LovelyBrownBear-cm4ju
      @LovelyBrownBear-cm4ju Před 5 měsíci +1

      Mashallah brother, some men never see how bad atleast you admit it which is extremely hard, may Allah guide us all and actions speak louder then words. Inshallah your wife will forgive you. Marriage is the hard and nobody is perfect.❤❤❤

  • @fzkhan1421
    @fzkhan1421 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Ya Allah esa naik deen ki tableegh krny wala. Sunnat pr chlny wala. Seht mnd, khush ikhlaq , lambi zindagi wala saleh byty nimat ki darkhwast krti hu.

  • @muhammedcham5877
    @muhammedcham5877 Před 2 lety +15

    I’m 22 years old just married but this guy have thought me about married more than I’ve ever know mashallah may God bless and protect him

    • @LovelyBrownBear-cm4ju
      @LovelyBrownBear-cm4ju Před 5 měsíci

      Barak Allahu fik brother, marriage is not easy but it is a blessing mashallah. ❤❤❤

  • @novaheads
    @novaheads Před 5 lety +14

    Love this mans character

  • @estelleassala4525
    @estelleassala4525 Před 5 lety +30

    Calling a grown woman what? Baby?🤣🤣🤣
    I love you man. Yes tell them!

  • @msmikaelhumble6403
    @msmikaelhumble6403 Před 5 lety +37

    i can’t wait to get married 🙏🏽

    • @usernotintheaccount4449
      @usernotintheaccount4449 Před 4 lety

      Ameen just Mack sure is the right person, and watch your words May Allah bless you.

    • @thefallenshuriken607
      @thefallenshuriken607 Před 4 lety +4

      May Allah grant you a good spouse if you still aren't married

    • @Twochain
      @Twochain Před 3 lety

      I want to get married too

  • @TheQueenyla
    @TheQueenyla Před 5 lety +31

    Watching you and taking your advices from Germany 🇩🇪.

  • @AnotidaGwenzi-vo9vw
    @AnotidaGwenzi-vo9vw Před 6 měsíci +2

    I'm a christian but love your teaching

  • @ajjillo6214
    @ajjillo6214 Před 3 lety +9

    Dr Mufti Menk is inspirational for all mankind around the globe and he inspires me and motivates every single day. May Allah swt bless him and his family and grant them al janaatul fardous.

  • @chooseyourself4821
    @chooseyourself4821 Před 3 lety +7

    I could listen to this sheikh years and years 😂🥰❤️ I love it so much how he explains everything in ways we all can understand. Masha Allah may Allah bless him and forgive us all .☺️🙏

  • @maviyemasallar
    @maviyemasallar Před rokem +3

    I quit Islam about 6 years ago but love to listen to you Mufti 🙏🙏

    • @purplelove3666
      @purplelove3666 Před rokem +8

      May Allah guide you back sister❤

    • @LovelyBrownBear-cm4ju
      @LovelyBrownBear-cm4ju Před 5 měsíci +1

      May Allah guide us all, you are still Muslim sister, we still love you. ❤❤

  • @rootsandculture819
    @rootsandculture819 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Such a refreshing talk. All couples should listen to this. Thank you

  • @katr1340
    @katr1340 Před 3 lety +1

    May Allah grant mufti menk jannatul Firdous.... Your lectures are needed for the harsh world who hold Quran and abuse women... جزاك الله خير

  • @sabeen7794
    @sabeen7794 Před rokem +1

    mufti menk is my favorite mashaAllah he is amazing, always talks about rights of spouses in the best way, how beautiful is islam.

  • @umairplays4322
    @umairplays4322 Před rokem +2

    Mashaa Allah my mum keep smiling everytime she's watching you listening your lectures. Alhamdulillah ♥️.

  • @azzatamano2826
    @azzatamano2826 Před 5 lety +12

    Mashallah! Great lecture. I hope husbands heard this lecture and learn, follow and practice it, especially on the aspects of shouting and using abusive words even in front of the children. Thank you so much for sharing. Thanks Mufti Menk, Jazakallahu khairan.

  • @sharaspeaker2396
    @sharaspeaker2396 Před 11 měsíci

    When i listen muftimenk i change my self his preaching helps me alot

  • @ahamadismail3295
    @ahamadismail3295 Před 10 měsíci +1

    May Allah continue to bless and protect mufti Menk for his good work

  • @lee-annohlson7786
    @lee-annohlson7786 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Me to... I just love he's talks. Ohhhh... But I'm no longer Christian. Embraced islam last week.❤

  • @jenniferalmahmood849
    @jenniferalmahmood849 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you fir being sooo good to all of us . God bless you

  • @Two_bros3141
    @Two_bros3141 Před 2 lety +3

    Mufti Menk is an OG❣️ I just love him

  • @Mohamed-ln6vn
    @Mohamed-ln6vn Před 5 lety +5

    Allah is the GREATEST. Sheik Mufti, we would like to see you again in Sierra Leone even though I will miss it because am now in the USA... We love you in Sierra Leone... May ALLAH bless you more.

  • @mahweenibadkhot1313
    @mahweenibadkhot1313 Před 5 lety +8

    Masha Allah ..
    Very true
    Really inspiring.
    Jazak Allah khair for sharing

  • @inshasonaullah2477
    @inshasonaullah2477 Před 5 lety +6

    Alhamdullila sheikh u help us a lot.... May Allah will grant u immense sawab

  • @abdulqaharusman7341
    @abdulqaharusman7341 Před 4 lety +6

    Mufti Menk is really really awesome.
    Jazakhallahu Khairan.

  • @hamdanbabivlogs9915
    @hamdanbabivlogs9915 Před 3 lety +2

    I start loving to listen ur preaching..I love the way u preaching ,very interesting.

  • @mss4346
    @mss4346 Před rokem +1

    مشاء الله this lecture is valid for all spouses in the universe that is said it shows how strong Islam is in including all problems of day to day but above all the solutions to it...subhan Allah

  • @InousazuhiyRatuNtani-uu4ms
    @InousazuhiyRatuNtani-uu4ms Před měsícem

    When I listen to you sometime I cry your preaching is wonderful

  • @Karinasmg
    @Karinasmg Před 2 lety +1

    Menk be goin in on everyone and be upfront ! that’s right let us know ! Alhamdulillah words of wisdom ! Allahumma Barik! 💯

  • @jaasyek6386
    @jaasyek6386 Před 5 lety +3

    SubahanaAllaah what a brilliant speech sheik, may Allaah bless u . Your talking manner is very easy to convincing..may Allaah grant u health and longevity. Aameen.

  • @ramonakaisar2769
    @ramonakaisar2769 Před 5 lety +2

    Subhanallah, a very powerful lectures and reminders. Jazakallahu khairan Sir

  • @ayeshakhan6605
    @ayeshakhan6605 Před 5 lety +6

    Everytime he speaks about marriage, i relate to every word of his. Be it about the inlaws about abuse or whatever. Tears flow without knowing. Many of us relate to what he says and know where we ourselves are wrong.. May Allah swt grant him Jannat and help us build a healthy relationship between our spouse.. aameen

    • @sundusk9594
      @sundusk9594 Před 5 lety

      Salaam Sister you are sooooooo true. Mashallah

    • @ayeshakhan6605
      @ayeshakhan6605 Před 5 lety

      @@sundusk9594 walaikum-assalaam.. keep me in your dua.. InshaAllah

  • @clarity7830
    @clarity7830 Před 5 lety +5

    Mashallah I love your lectures you make it amusing but still make a point to mention what needs to be said.

  • @sonuash8650
    @sonuash8650 Před 4 lety +1

    Maa sha Allah Allah protect u mufti ameen

  • @sagalmohammed5721
    @sagalmohammed5721 Před 5 lety +5

    Mashallah best sheikh ever I love you from the button of my heart may Allah protect you His always happy person Mashallah 😊 ❤️❤️❤️always helps me your powerful lecturers Mashallah May Allah grant us all jannah 🤲🏾🤲🏾

  • @AzaliyaSan
    @AzaliyaSan Před rokem +1

    Dearest Mufti Menk 🤍May Allah bless you for your reminders for us💚

  • @audreynichols634
    @audreynichols634 Před 5 lety +6

    Thank you for this advise.

  • @AbcDef-jh7rw
    @AbcDef-jh7rw Před měsícem

    The amount of christians in here appreciating brother menk could make you thimk this is a churchs preach lol. Mashallah. May Allah almighty guide these people.

  • @zahraaabdallah8273
    @zahraaabdallah8273 Před 5 lety +3

    Billahi very true. SubhaanALLAH

  • @zorinakhan2128
    @zorinakhan2128 Před 2 lety +3

    Beautiful speech ....on point ...may Allah bless u and family mufti menk may Allah bless u with long life good health and strength Ameen

  • @sekhraheman8861
    @sekhraheman8861 Před rokem +2

    You are bright light to Guide us... I learnt lot...

  • @jenniferalmahmood849
    @jenniferalmahmood849 Před 2 lety +5

    Thank you my dear brother fir your great words and advise . I'm an American and seen how much our sister tries to make husband happy 😊 so they should understand women body can't look perfect because of giving birth work cooking and they need a little love 💕 from Thier husband . Thanks to God I'm very blessed being married to my husband . Amen

  • @saratunrayo8433
    @saratunrayo8433 Před 3 lety +2

    Mashaa Allah ! May Almighty Allah bless you 🙏.

  • @maryamahmed3409
    @maryamahmed3409 Před 2 lety +3

    Great message MashAllah

  • @ibrahimmarufat917
    @ibrahimmarufat917 Před 5 lety +8

    MashaAllah
    May Almighty Allah rewards you more. Ameen

  • @samsardar8005
    @samsardar8005 Před 4 lety +4

    My eyes want close for sleep but i listening Dr Menk

    • @samsardar
      @samsardar Před 4 lety

      Is True i listening Dr Menk until my eyes close for my sleep. .

  • @zaynabladidi6586
    @zaynabladidi6586 Před rokem +1

    Jazakallahu Khairan for d Knowledge impacted

  • @suadmohammed2964
    @suadmohammed2964 Před 5 lety +1

    May Allah reward you sheikh

  • @ghaniasohail
    @ghaniasohail Před 7 měsíci

    JazakAllah Mufti Menk ❤

  • @mgaysha
    @mgaysha Před 10 měsíci

    Excellent words and examples... Masha allah

  • @keamoussaoui13
    @keamoussaoui13 Před 2 lety +4

    Who's hating this? The message really must have been speaking to them and it was just too much truth. Thank God these brothers are willing to speak and say what most of the local imaams won't say!

  • @hopenofear2127
    @hopenofear2127 Před 5 lety +2

    Mashallah, I only wish you spoke weeks before so ears would have heard . Thank you though.

  • @hassaneyounoussa232
    @hassaneyounoussa232 Před 4 lety +2

    Mashaa Allah mufti ismail menk may almighty Allah bess u for ever teachings us all goodness well full of clear understandings may almighty Allah grant you the highest paradise ( ameen )

  • @shinlee9348
    @shinlee9348 Před 5 lety +5

    allah grant u health and long live soo u teach us more about islam.. 🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲

  • @jamalwilliams1792
    @jamalwilliams1792 Před rokem +3

    Ahahahaha! I weak, mufti menk have jokes yes, masha Allah. But he is very very very good when giving lectures and life lessons. May Allah make it easy for him and his families and us all and grant us all with jannah tul firdaus ameen.

  • @user-oi6mb6kg6l
    @user-oi6mb6kg6l Před 9 měsíci

    Mufti Menk throuwn,,,a beautiful words to the audience 😮, Aameen🙏🙏 TQ✌🇲🇾

  • @AbuTaher-eh4jq
    @AbuTaher-eh4jq Před 10 měsíci +1

    Excellent discussion, may Almighty Allah bless your life, faith and sustenance. From Bangladesh.

  • @Mibrahim82
    @Mibrahim82 Před 5 lety +4

    10000% relatable

  • @amjadqazi1817
    @amjadqazi1817 Před 5 lety +9

    Shekh I would like to tell you that I am Indian and our culture is such that it's almost impossible for us to say "allow your children to stay in separate home" Oooooo ......big bomb blast ! But alhamdulillah my in lows are very kind and helpful. They allow us to do things within the limit alhadulillah. I don't have kids but they never complain for it in fact they pray for us. may Allah except there and our dua and grant us children ameen. Insha Allah I will try and make effort to be good wife,good mom, and good mother in low. Jazak allahu kherunn for Such a great explanation.

  • @zahraaabdallah8273
    @zahraaabdallah8273 Před 5 lety

    SubhaanALLAH. So true. Masha ALLAH. Allahu Akbar. Ameen. JazaakALLAHU Khairaljazaa Ya sheikh.

  • @ekermmuktar724
    @ekermmuktar724 Před 5 lety

    mashaa Allah masha Allah welcome my brother 💕

  • @FawadZakai
    @FawadZakai Před rokem +1

    Thank you Mufti Menk for this topic. Where is Part 2?

  • @bgdjul3620
    @bgdjul3620 Před 10 měsíci

    He says better things than my religion says i should do...May you be blessed

  • @zahraaabdallah8273
    @zahraaabdallah8273 Před 5 lety +2

    Masha ALLAH

  • @kingroyal6471
    @kingroyal6471 Před 3 lety +1

    AHUMDUALLAH MAY ALLAH BLESS US ALL WITH GOODNESS LOVE AND JOY AMEEN

  • @msmikaelhumble6403
    @msmikaelhumble6403 Před 5 lety +2

    thank you so much for being inspirational

  • @shaan808929166
    @shaan808929166 Před 3 lety +6

    Those who are going to get married be like , yes I am going to be so good to my spouse, I am going to do that and this...!!! Hold on guys, you never know what kind of a person is about to come in your life...!!! So all you need to do is keep all this in your mind and know each other and then implement it in your life In a way which the other person could feel it, respect and never ever expect any thing in return ...leave it to Allah and be the best version of yours...!! be prepared

  • @issiakamouritala8893
    @issiakamouritala8893 Před rokem

    ALHUMDULILLAH YA USTAZ

  • @queenhurera5237
    @queenhurera5237 Před 2 měsíci

    MASHA’ALLAH not only does he teach us but he does it with lot of live and fun ways he makes me smile and laugh out loud he’s just awesome 👏 MAY ALLAH MAKE IT EASY FOR EVERYONE 🤲🏾

  • @sobiech6564
    @sobiech6564 Před 5 lety +1

    Ma shaa Allah

  • @muskansiddikee2171
    @muskansiddikee2171 Před 5 lety +10

    21:33 little Firon I bursted out laughing, as an Indian this is so true

    • @mansoorsalim4454
      @mansoorsalim4454 Před 4 lety +1

      I hope everyone take class or learn how to live A life
      After marriage and or
      Before marriage

  • @rubinaluhar786
    @rubinaluhar786 Před 4 měsíci

    This creation is an absolute legend 😅😅😅😅 subhanallah. He said “babea “😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mariah5687
    @mariah5687 Před 5 lety +40

    I want to make my Allah very happy with me. I think my Allah sad with me.
    Because mistakes..sins
    Plz my Allah forgive ours mistakes and sins
    Please..forgive ours mistakes
    Give me a stronger heart
    Ameen Ameen Ameen

    • @tamuadow8789
      @tamuadow8789 Před 5 lety +4

      Exactly may Allah ease us

    • @sundusk9594
      @sundusk9594 Před 5 lety +5

      Salaam sister, we all have commited sins at some point, but however Allah is the forgiver, subhanallah, and when we repent and learn that weve commited mistakes and its time to change, Allah will forgive us and guide us, In sha allah. May Allah the gracious lord of mercy forgive you too and gude you. Ameeeeen.

    • @wiznles80
      @wiznles80 Před 5 lety +3

      @ABDUL BASIT thank you for that comment, I really needed to read that because i was feeling the same way

    • @mariah5687
      @mariah5687 Před 5 lety +2

      @@wiznles80 my comments was very good to you..every days is a new day to learn

    • @wiznles80
      @wiznles80 Před 5 lety +3

      @@mariah5687 Yes it truly was and you are so so very true, May Allah continue to guide us, and May Allah continue to bless us all .

  • @Juteooo
    @Juteooo Před 8 měsíci

    🌈THANK YOU SCHOLAR MENK! for the great advice .. and most importantly it is the kindness, RESPECT and HUMOR you put into it. Allah give help you like you help others 🙏🌈🌈🙏

  • @TheEnigma7111
    @TheEnigma7111 Před rokem

    love Mufti..boss

  • @mansoorsalim4454
    @mansoorsalim4454 Před 4 lety +1

    Everyone should learn
    How to live A life
    After marriage and
    Before marriage
    We follow society

  • @Coco-bb9zy
    @Coco-bb9zy Před 5 lety +1

    tq very much. May Allah bless you. and I hope the man who want to marry me watching and taking your advices. Aameen

  • @zainabnaizar4466
    @zainabnaizar4466 Před 4 měsíci

    I am from Sri Lanka...pls visit again we would like to meet you😊...you are my motivator may Allah bless you always ❤

  • @shameeharizan6694
    @shameeharizan6694 Před 2 lety +2

    May all Muslims understand the law 🙂

  • @sakeenahroberts07
    @sakeenahroberts07 Před 2 lety +1

    Just came here to say: hour video about making your spouse happy no it’s only a part 1? That’s how you know it’s legit

  • @tariqansariansari5306
    @tariqansariansari5306 Před 5 lety +2

    Mashallah

  • @fatmamartin5233
    @fatmamartin5233 Před 5 lety

    Ameen ALLAH. Jazaak ALLAHU khair aljazaa

  • @user-br2mq4gs4p
    @user-br2mq4gs4p Před 11 měsíci

    Mashallah✨

  • @HumaKausar-wc1zg
    @HumaKausar-wc1zg Před 2 měsíci

    May Allah guide us all 🤲