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  • @theallloving
    @theallloving  Před 6 lety +448

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    • @m.samsudeen952
      @m.samsudeen952 Před 6 lety +11

      Fans of Mufti Menk .masha Allah.

    • @happyheart1526
      @happyheart1526 Před 6 lety +6

      Fans of Mufti Menk
      subhan Allah....Allah bless all of us...

    • @sharingiscaring4974
      @sharingiscaring4974 Před 6 lety +9

      Fans of Mufti Menk mashallah! Mashallah what a man mufti menk is ..how happy he might have kept his wife and children ...

    • @dijadija5171
      @dijadija5171 Před 6 lety +3

      Is there any way to meet Mufti Menk ?

    • @KhalidKhan-mk3ck
      @KhalidKhan-mk3ck Před 6 lety +3

      Fans of Mufti Menk vhh

  • @jacquelinesequeirahejazeen7655

    After marrying my husband I started learning about Islam as he made me convert to Islam, I realised that Islam is a beautiful, enriching religion, but soon after few months things changed. My in-laws and my husband changed and became so mean and I kept quoting Islamic verses to them about their behaviour, but this only seemed to aggravate all of them even more. It looks more like Islam teaches us one way of life but some of us mulsims follow something else. It's because of people like this that Muslims everywhere r classified in bad ways. If all Muslims followed the real way, the right path of Allah Thaala, the world would be a better place to live in.

    • @dali338
      @dali338 Před 5 lety +131

      Jacqueline Hejazeen
      Islam is perfect , Muslims are not

    • @saimafaisal4126
      @saimafaisal4126 Před 5 lety +108

      Sister i m really sorry to hear your story first as a woman and secondly as a muslim .may God help you

    • @mounirartists7409
      @mounirartists7409 Před 5 lety +18

      Jacqueline Hejazeen don't worry my god he will help you

    • @abdulrahiman9347
      @abdulrahiman9347 Před 5 lety +48

      Jacqueline - you're one of the most blessed , I hope you're more close to Allah than ever

    • @oneesebutt9552
      @oneesebutt9552 Před 5 lety +25

      Sister may Allah bless you and give guidance to others.

  • @tmcicchiello1152
    @tmcicchiello1152 Před 4 lety +236

    I'm Catholic but I think all of the stuff he is saying is great ^ thank you and happy Ramadan to all

  • @Angelo-vn9mr
    @Angelo-vn9mr Před 2 lety +2

    I adore how Islam holds women and wives in such great respect.

  • @MAWUTJOK
    @MAWUTJOK Před 6 lety +954

    I have watched a lot of his videos on facebook and here on youtube. This guy deserves a gold medal for he is changing the globe into a better world. I am not a Muslim but I love your messages. Your words are making changes in the society.

  • @mariamwibowo7213
    @mariamwibowo7213 Před 4 lety +21

    I am a christian by birth until i have grown.I got married to a muslim guy few months ago and as expected i was transformed into Muslim.I had love the religion and the teachings itself as im doing self nourishing but it frustrate me sometimes that my husband who have been a muslim since birth is someone i cannot rely on when it comes to teachings of the Quran.He only knows his right which makes me so sad of this relationship.Honestly i feel sad that i have known islam through him as i cannot see good image of Islam from him but Alhamdulillah Allah made me feel better by sustaining me with courage and patience.Thank you for this helpful videos aswell as im learning alot.

  • @halenahandbasket
    @halenahandbasket Před rokem +10

    "The time that we spend with our family is an act of worship." ❤

  • @chryslerfernando276
    @chryslerfernando276 Před 6 lety +290

    I am not a muslim in religion and in faith but I like the way you preach good news from almighty God. May God bless you and protects you and your family. Thank you Mufti Menk

    • @uganda5222
      @uganda5222 Před 5 lety +2

      Ameen ya rabbi

    • @danishcoolkhan
      @danishcoolkhan Před 4 lety +2

      Peace be upon you. 😊 👍🏿

    • @FatmaMohamed-ym1rc
      @FatmaMohamed-ym1rc Před 4 lety +1

      Wellcome dear this religion belongs all the mankind not only islam

    • @thelifeofrauf491
      @thelifeofrauf491 Před 4 lety

      CHRYSLER FERNANDO Amen 🙌🏾

    • @haramtakingsecretwivesinis7728
      @haramtakingsecretwivesinis7728 Před 2 lety +2

      The only part of Islam men following is polygamy marriages nowadays, rest of the Deen don't matter to them!... First, the Qur'an does not give men the blanket right to have more than one wife. Polygamy is not a right, but a responsibility to ensure social justice for orphans. What Allah has granted is in fact a restriction on an existing practice of that time when men could marry as many wives as they wanted.
      Second, because polygamy is not a right, Allah placed conditions on its practice. There is an overriding concern for justice in this short verse, and conditions are set to ensure that justice is done.
      Condition A: Polygyny is permitted within the context of war and orphans. It is permitted only if the men fear they would not be able to deal justly with the orphans.
      Condition B: The man who wants to be polygynous must have the capacity to be fair and just to all his wives. The verse is a call for just conduct towards women, not a right for men to fulfill their alleged lustful desires or their egos. And just treatment here means more than a man's financial capacity to support more than one wife: He must be fair in all ways, including in the time, support, and companionship he provides to his wives and children.
      Condition C: If the man fears he cannot deal justly with all his wives, then Allah advocates that he should marry only one as this will ensure equality. This is explicitly stated in the verse.

  • @amiecham38
    @amiecham38 Před 5 lety +242

    Wow my X husband needs to hear this. I divorced him after 12yrs of marriage because of such but I thank Allah for blessing me with the best husband now I am more than the word happy with him. I love u Allah all praises to u.

    • @takemypainaway9517
      @takemypainaway9517 Před 5 lety +3

      Salaam sister-wow, 12 years?! How long were you a single wome until you found your new husband? And did you have kids with your first husband? I am very happy for you sister. How did you find the strength to leave? Did he divorce you or you asked for it? Please respond. Thanks sis.

    • @mounirartists7409
      @mounirartists7409 Před 5 lety

      Amie Cham god bless you

    • @bestgamerbro5061
      @bestgamerbro5061 Před 5 lety +4

      I have got some situation in my life but I don't know what to do its been 10 years of my marriage still not happy with him we have 2 kids even kids are not happy with his behaviour..

    • @daudtariq4919
      @daudtariq4919 Před 4 lety

      @@bestgamerbro5061 Plz try to manage with your husband , take advice from salah Mufti and do Sabar for the sake of your children

    • @bestgamerbro5061
      @bestgamerbro5061 Před 4 lety +7

      @@daudtariq4919 As-Salaam-Alaikum thanks for replying .. it's been 10 years I am doing sabar it's really hard to deal with him we don't have understanding at all I really feel suffocated in this relationship now I don't know what to do ? Obviously you're not going to like it when your husband swearing at you and using really really bad language obviously you're not going to take it everybody need their self-respect.. he doesn't know anything about the Dean he doesn't keep fast he he doesn't read Namaz . If a person know little bit about Islam he would respect everyone ..

  • @renn9392
    @renn9392 Před 6 lety +382

    I sent this to the family group chat, and now my dad is telling at me, telling me that I am a disrespectful child. 😂😂😂

    • @renn9392
      @renn9392 Před 6 lety +9

      Yelling*

    • @fatemajazeeel8492
      @fatemajazeeel8492 Před 5 lety +12

      Omg I just done the same 😂😂

    • @drkowsar
      @drkowsar Před 5 lety +44

      You know why he is mad because now he knows that its one of major sin to give importance materialistic things over family.Now He cant say to Allah on the Judgment Day that He didnt know..
      You have forwarded a knowledge which his eyes will give witness on the judgement day even if he will try to make excuses.

    • @amiecham38
      @amiecham38 Před 5 lety +12

      Lol that’s so funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣 May Allah help us all

    • @adembasou
      @adembasou Před 5 lety +22

      You did right, answer him that Mufti Menk said that Parents should let the Children voice their Opinion, and not behave like Hooligans toward their Children!! Yes Children need Discipline and Guidance and Structure but also Loving and Gentle Ears and Understanding.

  • @umhassan8394
    @umhassan8394 Před 6 lety +332

    If we fight with my husband after a few minutes or hours he make me feel okay or his telling me a story about quran or propet after that my heart will be more happy when he telling me about islamic coz he don't want to see me a sad or mad or angry sometimes :( so thanks to allah bcoz he give me a man who teach me to be a good person and also I love him much what ever happened 😭🌿

  • @Womanking2237
    @Womanking2237 Před 4 lety +24

    I converted to Islam in 2016 and in 2018 I met my husband to be and he loves and adore me and I am blessed that Allah have given me a wonderful husband and blessed man I am thankful for him and now it’s 2020 and we are blessed with life ❤️❤️💋

    • @allahm-ast3mnlywlatstbdlny164
      @allahm-ast3mnlywlatstbdlny164 Před 3 lety +1

      allahm-ast3mnly wlatstbdlny
      May allah grant u the highest of heavens without judgement and through all doors
      CAn you change your pic so u don’t take sins inshallah No point getting sins for something as small as this

    • @chrishansenisapatofile5746
      @chrishansenisapatofile5746 Před rokem +1

      I know Jesse Lolo when he wanted to 5uk you off.

    • @Fatima-Kauthar
      @Fatima-Kauthar Před rokem

      Alhamdulilah may Allah bless you sister

  • @DGITECH
    @DGITECH Před 4 lety +8

    Am not a Muslim am a Christian but I watch Mufti teachings every morning & night before sleeping it nourishes my soul. Be blessed 🙏

  • @yassul2067
    @yassul2067 Před 4 lety +17

    I love my wife so much and my baby boy. May Allah swt protect our marriages and loved ones and keep our imaan and deen stronger everyday Ameen x

  • @saiqhai9968
    @saiqhai9968 Před 6 lety +209

    This feels so personal to me. I feel as if he's talking about my marriage. Husband gives priority to everyone and everything over me and my children. I feel so frustrated I want to leave him.
    Never wants to spend time with us unless it's in front of the TV watching a movie, every day! !.
    Mufti menk bless you for highlighting such issues. Your lectures are so relatable to modern life and young people can really learn from you because your way of explaining is unique. May Allha protect you.❤

    • @mommom5788
      @mommom5788 Před 5 lety

      It's not funny bro

    • @goldenamana3174
      @goldenamana3174 Před 5 lety +5

      You're not alone and it depresses me

    • @verdash9832
      @verdash9832 Před 5 lety

      May Allah make it easy for you sister

    • @NK-fh4sw
      @NK-fh4sw Před 4 lety +3

      Same problem 😪

    • @goldenamana3174
      @goldenamana3174 Před 4 lety +12

      May Allah give us subra, men have abandoned their responsibilities and they want women who are financially stable so they can take care of them. The fear of Allah has taken off from their hearts

  • @hafsahussein365
    @hafsahussein365 Před 6 lety +144

    May Allah blessed every Muslim man with a pious Muslim wife and every Muslim woman with a pious Muslim man, Ameen

  • @chuckmaddison2924
    @chuckmaddison2924 Před 4 lety +7

    I am not Islamic, we see two side's of Islam that which fills the news. And this, this is real Islam. What you say is so true. God bless you.

  • @minariaz532
    @minariaz532 Před 5 lety +61

    I think i need to send this to my husband and mother in law !!!

  • @pixyknox787
    @pixyknox787 Před 4 lety +8

    I am not a Muslim but a Catholic and somehow I just came across this video. I watched this to the end and I just wanted to say that I really liked how you talk about the women in this video and that they are special and important and as I woman I appreciate this teaching. Thank you for sharing this. I have a very lovely husband but I believe that this video should be watched by many men, not just Muslim men! :) May God be with you and your families. We are all one in God. God bless.

  • @user-du3dh7xj1x
    @user-du3dh7xj1x Před 6 měsíci +2

    MAY ALLAH PROTECT US

  • @user-kp7lb4yu7q
    @user-kp7lb4yu7q Před 9 měsíci +1

    Im not even muslim but i find myself listening to your wisdom a lot .

  • @EgyptianPricess
    @EgyptianPricess Před 6 lety +207

    I always doubt there great guys out there but then I hear mufti menk sermon and ya Allah find good things I should look for in a spouse

  • @Mojosfire
    @Mojosfire Před 5 lety +32

    Wow, I'm impressed, your words really make me think. It brought tears to my eyes! Thank you! I'm a Christian American, but this is so true what you say, and a powerful message no matter what religion a person has. I just had a discussion yesterday about not being on the internet too much with my daughter, who likes to talk with her friends from school, and I told her, it's better to have a connection with them in real not over a computer. We are becoming a society of where we are losing our humanity, and addicted to technology, which is why I try to make most of my time every day to spend away from my phone and the internet all together.

    • @Mojosfire
      @Mojosfire Před 3 lety

      @Aisha Noor I have been with my man for years, and we are married. He's not like that at all. He does not abuse me. I have the freedom to do what I want, even go out at night and hang out with some of my lady friends, because he trusts me, and knows I'd never cheat on him, and I trust him the same and he can go out with his friends, because it's called "Trust." He will call me when he's with them, because he will be missing me, and can't wait to come spend time with me, because that's how real love makes you feel. If he was after a green card, he could of done that years ago and left me, but we took things very slow, and not just hop into a relationship right away. We were strictly friends for three years, before we come together in a relationship. You're just prejudice, and you're generalizing. Do you know every single Arabian Muslim man in world personally?? If you don't, and I know you don't, then shut the heck up, your ignorance is showing. Don't take your hate and disgust out on every Muslim man, just because you hooked up with the wrong guy, and if you haven't been in a relationship with one, then you've been watching stereotyping hate videos that favor your deep rooted racism!

    • @user-ow8vd1bo2z
      @user-ow8vd1bo2z Před 3 lety

      @@Mojosfire with all respect to you sister kindly watch on CZcams ef dawah, sc dawah, the Muslim metaphysician channel videos regarding christianity, Islam etc

  • @meru7591
    @meru7591 Před rokem +1

    Only Allah has all wonderful qualities... all for a reason

  • @suzanaberisha1849
    @suzanaberisha1849 Před 6 lety +62

    i love when you speak soooo good about this, wifes/womens need more help about marriage 😢

    • @naveedansaar9566
      @naveedansaar9566 Před 3 lety +3

      Really

    • @allahm-ast3mnlywlatstbdlny164
      @allahm-ast3mnlywlatstbdlny164 Před 3 lety +1

      May allah grant u the highest of heavens without judgement and through all doors
      CAn you change your pic so u don’t take sins inshallah No point getting sins for something as small as this

  • @ThriveSquad
    @ThriveSquad Před 4 lety +13

    You've got to respect Mufti Menk, he always manages to convey inconvenient truth about our brothers and sister in order to help the ummah. May Allah bless you for all your good work, Mufti Menk. Big Respect!

  • @goodflowh
    @goodflowh Před 5 lety +34

    There are men who would rather have their wife get attention from someone else so the husband can point fingers at her as if she is a sinner and he is pious.

  • @user-xb6oo5ol5q
    @user-xb6oo5ol5q Před 24 dny +1

    Ma Sha Allah ❤ proud to be a Muslim 😊

  • @UMERATH
    @UMERATH Před 4 lety +10

    subhan allah this should be mandatory to listen to all couples before marriage

  • @namuwengelillianmuiri6722

    Am not Muslim but MoftiMenk ,I like your messages. Allah bless you.

  • @juratele
    @juratele Před 2 lety +7

    I am truly amazed how Mufti Menk knows our deepest problems and sufferings, especially women feelings, and how he responds to it sensitively and describes all accurately. It touches soul. Thank you so much 🧡

  • @farhanakhan5093
    @farhanakhan5093 Před 5 lety +23

    My fiance...😍 ..he is like this... Im so glad to have him in my life.... He is so cherish....he makes me happy everyday... He is the one who take me close to allah and shows me good path....he makes me laugh everyday evertime....he respect me and my family.... After 5 months we both are going to get married alhamdullilah.... Please pray for us....we get so much of love and respect from each other till eternity... And live a better 😍 give us blessings 😊

    • @redlilly2584
      @redlilly2584 Před 4 lety

      Farhana Khan I wish divorce on u instead.

    • @blackbangali4067
      @blackbangali4067 Před 4 lety

      @@redlilly2584 why?

    • @SamPatel-xd5rc
      @SamPatel-xd5rc Před 4 lety

      He would have thought you of ur dp is prohibited in Islam

    • @farhanakhan5093
      @farhanakhan5093 Před 4 lety +1

      @@redlilly2584 i don't care... People what think about me... I know me and my man are happy in our relationship....and we have so strong bonding and much love with the blessings of allah and other good people....i don't need silly opinions and wish like u... ur cmnt shows what type of person u are....definitely u must be a relationship spoiler... U can't give blessings but atleast don't give bad wishes... And u r not greater than allah... He is the one who creates pairs... So just keep calm and do ur wrk...

    • @Minha13sep
      @Minha13sep Před 4 lety +2

      @@farhanakhan5093 exactly before marriage every men react like angel as u describe about your fiance. my fiance was also like that now he's my husband after 6 years i know what i'm facing till now . i shocked how he change his self

  • @Sayemabd
    @Sayemabd Před 6 lety +112

    May Allah bless Mufti Menk for this beautiful speech!

    • @nabihamahmood3064
      @nabihamahmood3064 Před 5 lety +1

      Most of ur speeches make me cry allhumdulillah all that u are and have said are all true.. may Allah talla give u barak aameen

    • @kadijaecolburn1961
      @kadijaecolburn1961 Před 4 lety

      Ahmeen ya Rabb

  • @anamariapalade5053
    @anamariapalade5053 Před 6 lety +49

    May Allah SWT make life easier for all married women and bring them joy in their lives. Amen ya rabb

  • @ajokeakanke
    @ajokeakanke Před 5 lety +10

    Thanks for this video sheikh, my husband does all you mentioned, doesn't give attention to me and the kids, on the internet all the time, no time for the family, come home every night , even on weekend, few hours spent with kids, he roar like a lion, he has no compassion and mercy for the kids. He's so mean ,harsh and unjust. He beat kids up at any slight mistake, he beat me too even when I tried to explain his mistake to him. All he wanted his food and sex. He's not loving, no affection, no soul. I work for him like a slave. I just hate him ,everyday I curse the day I met him. Hopefully Allah help me to break off from him soon. 12 years of marriage what a waste

    • @lildum6988
      @lildum6988 Před 2 lety

      Hope you are able to take divorce without much hardship inshallah Allah will reward you with better times

    • @shaikhasherief3225
      @shaikhasherief3225 Před rokem

      Did u get out from that rotten relationship?

    • @ajokeakanke
      @ajokeakanke Před rokem +1

      Alhamdulilah, we aren't together anymore. I left 2 years ago and am now back in my country to take care of my sick parents and unfortunately my mother passed away last year. Pls help me make dua for her. I am more than happy to serve my parents with love n happiness than to stay in an abusive relationship that nearly took away my life. Alhamdulilah, he has moved on to marry another woman and I couldn't be happier to learn the news early this year
      Am happier I left in peace than to die in pieces

    • @AnshuMI2021
      @AnshuMI2021 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@ajokeakanke🤲🏻

  • @swidiqhamza2333
    @swidiqhamza2333 Před 6 lety +7

    my Allah make us true muslims Yarabbi

  • @oulaycamara4085
    @oulaycamara4085 Před 4 lety +2

    Machaalla God bless mufti menk.

  • @omershaikh6792
    @omershaikh6792 Před 6 lety +195

    All men are supposed to listen to this and think about it how will they feel if their women does the same thing to them how they treat their wife

    • @adembasou
      @adembasou Před 5 lety +1

      Ameen.

    • @medinahmulumba6704
      @medinahmulumba6704 Před 4 lety +1

      I wish my future husband sees it

    • @nomorejunkmalemateuk2009
      @nomorejunkmalemateuk2009 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes men but women also need to

    • @samshah7628
      @samshah7628 Před 3 lety

      Or how if the son-in law treat your daughter badly

    • @omershaikh6792
      @omershaikh6792 Před 3 lety +1

      @@samshah7628 personally I will say. That is between wife and husband.
      No one is suppose to interfere in between their matters
      If required. Unbiased third person who is not directly emotionally related to the husband and wife should counsel them. And try to know exactly problem is happening.
      See we cannot know if the daughter is creating the problem and then son in law is getting agitated because of that. Or son in law is itself a bad person. First try to know what is the reason behind everything. Don't come to any conclusion just by hearing one side story.
      And ask Allah in your duas to get everything alright for them. There is nothing powerful then asking dua and praying haajat salat and tahajjud

  • @mrskhamismussa9754
    @mrskhamismussa9754 Před 5 lety +25

    How can a person stretch out his/her thumb to press a "DISLIKE" button yet this is the best video in the entire universe!!!!!!! Will never get tired of watching your videos coz they inspire me a lot

  • @ShahidKhan-sl7nb
    @ShahidKhan-sl7nb Před 2 lety +1

    Sallallahu Ala MUHAMMAD....... Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam,,,

  • @badmashkhan4925
    @badmashkhan4925 Před 6 lety +97

    wow this was the best speech i have ever heard of a muslim .

  • @ummuameen
    @ummuameen Před 3 lety +6

    Include a dear sister in your dua who is going through hard time in her marriage. May Allah guide our men to the right path, especially Nigerian northern husbands who have less regards for their wives.

  • @nontokozorajput2323
    @nontokozorajput2323 Před 6 lety +65

    My husband have to watch this

  • @ShahidKhan-sl7nb
    @ShahidKhan-sl7nb Před 2 lety +2

    Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah....

  • @ceesah32
    @ceesah32 Před 4 lety +1

    Abaraka Sheikh Mufti Menk

  • @decoded777
    @decoded777 Před 3 lety +53

    My husband is so irresponsible and rude I’m newly married and he is divorcing me nw .. just tht I cried and fought to spend time with him. Pls pray for justice plssss ...

    • @queenkkd8121
      @queenkkd8121 Před 3 lety +10

      Sister be strong he doesn't deserve your love. God will give you better husband don't be sad. You are beautiful and amazing and focus on your life 💗

    • @overwatchpotg9783
      @overwatchpotg9783 Před 3 lety +1

      Not advising you this from Islamic POV but as a wisdom. You cannot fight for something that is not yours, and I am saying this in general, not just his time. It is wrong to spend time elsewhere but with your family but at the same time look at things from his point of view. This could be his immaturity but his act of irresponsibility and rudeness could be because you may appear controlling to him. Think of all relations in your life like a sand in your palm, the harder you make a fist, faster it will escape from your grasp.

    • @CyaneNile
      @CyaneNile Před 3 lety

      May Allah unite you and increase your love ❤️

    • @overwatchpotg9783
      @overwatchpotg9783 Před 3 lety

      @@Penn.obsessed Not sure if you understood my comment or not but I mentioned that it is wrong to spend time elsewhere. Also, I never justified his actions but only asked OP to try to look at things from her husband's prospective. There is always a cause and it's effect. Rather than blaming it all on one party and blindly expecting for a change, it's better to understand the root of problem. If one's husband or father is like that, what is the reason? You cannot confront someone and ask for a reason because that's when people get defensive. If your father spends more time with his friends then probably he wasn't ready to have kids and still wants to have freedom rather than responsibility, but that's not for me to figure out.

    • @maaariyaammzaheer8699
      @maaariyaammzaheer8699 Před 3 lety

      Are you ok ?

  • @dindaanis2113
    @dindaanis2113 Před 5 lety +13

    Some people not ready to be parent..but already have children..That is true.. may Allah help all of us..💖💖💖

  • @oliviananyange9995
    @oliviananyange9995 Před 4 lety +2

    Love u sheik.respect from Uganda the pearl of Africa

  • @aubreyguevara5370
    @aubreyguevara5370 Před 4 lety +2

    I am not a Muslim.,,but I fallow this Man., his mindset was accepted by God's law Godbless you Sir may Almighty God in heaven continue to enlighten your soul so that you can give good advice and motivation to others....

  • @lostinjesslalaland
    @lostinjesslalaland Před 6 lety +91

    This has me in tears as it’s very relatable 🌻

  • @yasmeenjannah1649
    @yasmeenjannah1649 Před 6 lety +29

    maa shaa Allah how I wish to find this kind of husband knows how to respect his wife and giving her her rights.

    • @asamqureshi8491
      @asamqureshi8491 Před 6 lety

      Yasmeen Jannah .......
      INSHA-ALLAH TALLAH.
      I PRAY THAT YOU FIND A WONDERFUL MAN IN LIFE.
      AMEEN 🙏🕋🙏

    • @Islamic_masail
      @Islamic_masail Před 5 lety

      It depends on your deeds. May Allah give you a good husband. Ameen

    • @amisashmohamed8760
      @amisashmohamed8760 Před 5 lety

      Me too

  • @irhamaryam7239
    @irhamaryam7239 Před 6 lety +37

    my mother in law feels happy when her sons querl with their wives...they even cant sit with them when they cm home as they all are in army ... smtimes I feel I should quit.. bt I also strongly believe that ALLAH will do better for us ... that lecture z great

    • @Saima.MalikPTI
      @Saima.MalikPTI Před 6 lety +8

      irha maryam same here...she played and took her son two years back ...mother has very strongly given rights by Islam but Islam gave preference to wife and husband for each other. If wife refuse to life with mother in law due to her insulting nature. Islam says to husband and a son to manage the responsibilities and manage the seperate places for both.

    • @antadoukoure3733
      @antadoukoure3733 Před 6 lety

      Mashallah

    • @manhajmowlid991
      @manhajmowlid991 Před 6 lety

      irha maryam æ

    • @naveeedd
      @naveeedd Před 5 lety

      Saima is right.

  • @sheilamalsada2477
    @sheilamalsada2477 Před 4 lety +1

    thank you maria cruz im from philliphines

  • @s.talukdar9544
    @s.talukdar9544 Před 6 lety +628

    My husband is the best husband in the world

    • @nouriamerza5843
      @nouriamerza5843 Před 6 lety +64

      Sanaya Naz mashallah your lucky woman may Allah SWT continue bless your marriage ameen

    • @papatyagulgurbetci6670
      @papatyagulgurbetci6670 Před 6 lety +17

      Sanaya Naz Masallah sister but don’t say everyone people has bad looking!!I’m married almost 21 years elhamdulillah 👍🏻

    • @08039434926
      @08039434926 Před 6 lety +10

      you are lucky.Thank Allah

    • @saiqhai9968
      @saiqhai9968 Před 6 lety +12

      halima yahaya muhammad may he always stay good to your.
      Some are not as lucky as you! !

    • @missmarah2490
      @missmarah2490 Před 6 lety +13

      Lucky you.May God continue to bless Ur union.

  • @abulua
    @abulua Před 4 lety +7

    I have just spent 14mins of my time watching and listening to this very important message over the internet!

  • @abdulvaresamiri4598
    @abdulvaresamiri4598 Před 6 lety +24

    May Allah grant him Janat Al Fedous

  • @abdulmoez1272
    @abdulmoez1272 Před 5 lety +120

    Any 17 years old boy watching this for her feature wife?

    • @salamvisitmychannel3672
      @salamvisitmychannel3672 Před 5 lety +19

      Lol I'm 19 but I started watching when I was 17😂 I'm watching for my future wife as well, are you?

    • @hussainfawzer
      @hussainfawzer Před 5 lety +14

      Insha allah you’ll be a good husband...
      May Allah guide you towards that

    • @kohaynoor9111
      @kohaynoor9111 Před 4 lety +4

      May Allah pak bless u all... Ameen

    • @zuhairzafar1649
      @zuhairzafar1649 Před 4 lety +10

      Yes, i'm 17 and watching alhamdulillah listening to islamic lectures since i was 14

    • @oemadam
      @oemadam Před 4 lety +4

      AlhamduliLlah Allah barek fikum

  • @tepuawaitanga-o-te-aokarah2619

    أحب زوجي كثيراً ، والكلمات لا يمكن أن تصف الشعور الذي أكنه له ، امتناني لربنا سبحانه وتعالى ، الحمد لله رب العالمين.

    • @shonazef7351
      @shonazef7351 Před 5 lety

      Te Puawaitanga-O-Te-Ao Karahina qoule ma sha Allah e5te

  • @sheenaali1493
    @sheenaali1493 Před 6 lety +108

    Awesome lecture by an Awesome Scholar, Subhan Allah

  • @arielo7171
    @arielo7171 Před 3 lety

    That is how I grew up....my parents always have and still do choose tv over real family time.....they call family time eating together in front of the TV. Obviously I grew up to choose family over tv.....and I converted to Islam at 17 and had alot of unanswered questions that was probably due to my parents choosing tv Instead of answering me or saying we don't know...alhamdullilah I got islam its a much better life. If you visit the middle east you learn that you don't even need tv to have fun and a real life. You just need others and Allah.

  • @nepalijayathungeshah8324
    @nepalijayathungeshah8324 Před 3 lety +2

    I was crying when I watch this video. Islam ☪️ is so meaningful and so beautiful religion. SubhanAllah!!!!
    Sir mufti menk may Allah bless you always

  • @muslimgirl7202
    @muslimgirl7202 Před 6 lety +81

    Mashallah wt a beautiful lecture i was crying so much whn i lessn t ths

  • @iftyqadz6461
    @iftyqadz6461 Před 5 lety +5

    I wish I had come across this before. Cherish and be happy and enjoy the company of your spouses n children . U know never know when u cross the line and it's all gone. I make dua for everyone.

  • @kaishaarabson1922
    @kaishaarabson1922 Před 3 lety +2

    I pray both men and women listen to this carefully and learn the best out of it . Marriage is meant to be enjoy not endure.May Allah help us all.

  • @Alisa-oo6nt
    @Alisa-oo6nt Před 3 lety +1

    Jazak Allah khair brother mufti menk

  • @rosacolbert1014
    @rosacolbert1014 Před 5 lety +12

    This is very enlightening. You must spend time with your family. And build your family realationship there are people out here that will any and everything to pull you apart. Just remember like i do so often . My husband is my king and i his queen . Believe none of what you hear and half of what you see. Marriage is very sacred. AHUMDILLILAH Thank You ALLAH. FOR MY HUSBAND. BLESS MY FAMILY ON BOTH SIDES. BLESS MY HUSBAND AND I WITH MANY OF FRUIT. AMEEN

  • @sukaipenn8810
    @sukaipenn8810 Před 3 lety +3

    Peace and Blessings 🤲🏻🤲🏻

  • @makeupdiva08
    @makeupdiva08 Před 4 lety +1

    All men need to listen to this and his parents and his siblings too. And the world would become very beautiful

  • @aishacute7412
    @aishacute7412 Před 3 lety +2

    Masha Allah

  • @rizniyayoosuff2691
    @rizniyayoosuff2691 Před 6 lety +5

    Really proud to be a woman in Islam even if i do not get a Salih husband but expecting to get all from aahira..thank u sir for the wonderful speech.

  • @blueicesheeba
    @blueicesheeba Před 5 lety +2

    Mufti is straightforward person he doesn't beat around the bush straight to the point don't oppress anyone whether its your wife or anybody.

  • @ladymasaka9175
    @ladymasaka9175 Před 5 lety +5

    Mufti menk is from Allah to us lnshallah wow wow

  • @audreynichols634
    @audreynichols634 Před 5 lety +4

    I totally believe that! There's a American expression, if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all! 💙

  • @hussainfawzer
    @hussainfawzer Před 5 lety +7

    10:28 - 10:38
    This is the best thing I’ve heard today ❤️❤️❤️

  • @krupas2812
    @krupas2812 Před 5 lety +9

    Best speech. You are doing a great job.

  • @rukhsanatanzeem9049
    @rukhsanatanzeem9049 Před 4 lety +1

    Excellent and true speech

  • @sarahghulam6671
    @sarahghulam6671 Před 6 lety +86

    😢😢😢In sha allah my husband changed in the name of allah 😢😢😢I love him but I'll keep crying ..

    • @Doobd6
      @Doobd6 Před 6 lety +4

      Sarah Ghulam did he change? I m doing dua

    • @salifusillah125
      @salifusillah125 Před 5 lety +2

      Sorry

    • @fatimamacauley7362
      @fatimamacauley7362 Před 5 lety +2

      Keep praying it will be ok

    • @user-vi3nh1jg1n
      @user-vi3nh1jg1n Před 5 lety +4

      Mi boy friend he is islim i found he cheating with other grl whn i ask to him he ddnt want to talk about it and he is cheating with. Many grl so i dnt trust him i lv him very much. Wht can i do?

    • @riverandthesea8428
      @riverandthesea8428 Před 5 lety +11

      @@user-vi3nh1jg1n leave him move on it's my personal request to you sister , you are not in love with him you are addicted to him, May God bless you

  • @nmnm7168
    @nmnm7168 Před 6 lety +15

    I wil nver ever stop watching and listening to his messages.he's wise Ma-shaa-Allah

  • @roxanne4752
    @roxanne4752 Před 6 lety +25

    OMG..soo truly said
    this is what happened nowadays everywhere.. seriously
    if it possible you should go in every country where there are such kind of husbands to show them the right way to leave with their wife
    Masha Allah you are doing a very good work.. God bless you

    • @sunnyhanif7496
      @sunnyhanif7496 Před 6 lety +2

      rouk natsu unfortunately the men that need to hear this type of advise won't be the ones attending :(

    • @umar9174
      @umar9174 Před 3 lety

      A lot of woman do this too.

  • @zamzamunique3164
    @zamzamunique3164 Před 3 lety +1

    ‘’Many parents are not fit to be parents’’ i felt this part

  • @surayaaminuyounusa3250
    @surayaaminuyounusa3250 Před 4 lety +1

    Ameen Ameen thanks may Allah bless you

  • @chernohmarah2230
    @chernohmarah2230 Před 5 lety +7

    I appreciate Allah for making me a loving wife and may Allah bless my husband 🙏❤️ and family
    Ma Sha Allah

  • @originalmeron
    @originalmeron Před 6 lety +5

    so true & beautiful a reality check.... we now are living in a world where time and wickedness has made it easy for father's to walk away and mother's to play both roles.. yet our children are growing up in this madd world in a broken home... we need to do better.
    Thank you

  • @elizabethsorola2201
    @elizabethsorola2201 Před rokem +1

    2/14/2023
    I wish everyone a
    Happy Valentine's day!!
    🌬🎉🎈🎊🎊🎈🎈🎈🎉🎈🎈🎊🎈🎈🎈🎊🎊🎈🎈🎉🎉🎉🎉🎊🎊
    We must have courage to
    Speak out and defend our
    Own dignity because as
    Woman we are worthy.
    We gave birth to men and
    We shall be respected and loved.
    God bless us all with
    Justice.

  • @etohakim3229
    @etohakim3229 Před 4 lety +1

    Masha Allah shek mufti

  • @ArshidyMohamed
    @ArshidyMohamed Před 5 lety +9

    Alhamdulillah may Allah bless my husband he always make sure he make as happy 😊 me and our children Alhamdulillah

    • @daudtariq4919
      @daudtariq4919 Před 4 lety

      Assalam o Alaikum i want to marry with any poor needy RELIGIOUS OR ALIMA lady OR ATLEAST WHO LOVE TO FOllOW LAWS OF ISLAM, no jahaz or etc required with thanks, belong from KARACHI, my real year of birth is 1986 and having good job and also starting new business plz pray, if there is any in your link plz contact whatsapp preference given to educated and religious lady

    • @shagaffaridi1530
      @shagaffaridi1530 Před 4 lety

      Masha Allah

  • @rezgaroba3523
    @rezgaroba3523 Před 2 lety +3

    MAA SHAA ALLAH, what a Golden Remainder.May Allah rewards you.

  • @nourata.5893
    @nourata.5893 Před 4 lety +1

    So many people need to watch this I’m only 17 and completely agree 💕

  • @raynabinteeaziza3145
    @raynabinteeaziza3145 Před 4 lety +1

    Mufti menk are very right

  • @mohammadmeet2793
    @mohammadmeet2793 Před 6 lety +39

    Mashallah may allah agreed the efforts of mufti menk saab

  • @windasafriend
    @windasafriend Před 3 lety +4

    This is so beautiful. I am crying.

  • @zaidanesia9127
    @zaidanesia9127 Před 2 lety +1

    Be blessed Sheikh I like your lectures and I wish all men listen plus attending your lectures.

    • @gamegod36
      @gamegod36 Před rokem +1

      Check your grammar you backward.

  • @fiddystanly7150
    @fiddystanly7150 Před 4 lety

    This reminds me of my story. My father spend his time outside. U will only find him at home in the morning seeping after salatul fajir. He always u should not weak him up so we are all afraid of him . But when he is with friends children is deferent. I need help about my father. Even now am married . But my dad I respect him and follow him because of Allah. I don't Allah's punishment if not I will never look for my father because of what he made me go through

  • @beyondeyes6682
    @beyondeyes6682 Před 4 lety +3

    Give your love to your children when they needed, Give them appreciation and applause when needed , don't be late to regret your mistakes.. May Allah bless us with a good heart to love our children...

  • @daljitbrar9749
    @daljitbrar9749 Před 6 lety +4

    Found this video today don't have words to say Thank you.

  • @ajasuclothing
    @ajasuclothing Před 2 lety

    This are the words of wisdom...
    This is the basic problem in our society and the globe as a whole

  • @shahabro5475
    @shahabro5475 Před 4 lety +1

    Allah bless you molvi saHAb

  • @QueencutyZazu
    @QueencutyZazu Před 6 lety +21

    May Allah guide us all in the right path. Subhan'Allah.

  • @mamiesharrieffmissmamiepla5717

    May Allah bless you always, I have learned so much from you over the years that has made me better than I was with comedy marsha Allah I got it thank you

  • @saudatusesay6048
    @saudatusesay6048 Před 6 lety +2

    Allahu Akbar great lectures