Homeless Couple-Roman and Jessi
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- čas přidán 29. 06. 2020
- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Jessi and Roman, a young couple living in the streets of Los Angeles.
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"crystal meth killed our child but that's irrelevant..." -. - nah mate it's very relevant.
i thought he meant childhood
WTF❓❗😡
He only meant cause he’s focused on the present with his new lady being pregnant
It was irrelevant to the context and mindset he has.
Didn’t he say it was with a prior girlfriend
*Damn... I started off my CZcams journey watching "How to cook Carne Asada". One hour later Im watching this!*
Lol!!
That's a signal to go vegan.
@@artherself-alinenobre6901 YES!!!! and SI! LOL
Damn...me too
I was looking up "How to tell if a friend is on meth" This came on afterwards
There is a beautiful life waiting for u I’m a recovering heroin addict I have 8 yrs clean I’m 47 I came from the streets of Baltimore now I have my license a car and my own little 1 bedroom house that I love so much. I have no friends I go to work and come home to my 2 cats and my dog and when I’m home I don’t want to leave lol because I love it so much. It will be the hardest thing you will ever do getting clean but once u do it is the greatest feeling. Just the other day I thought of how when I was on the streets I used to people watch the normal people I would see wishing to have their “NORMAL” life having a car a home a job to go to everyday people who look forward to seeing u, I’m that person I always wanted to be now. I love you both and I wish u both Peace ❤️
He’s a company owner. Of course. And a rapper. And a computer whiz. And a director. And an astronaut. And an Indian chief.
He directed Wild Boys, obviously
Lol 😂
Haha yes!! And he’s been able to do all of this while being in jail…
SHE'S the only one who totally believes him.
And a homeless bumb that has nothing to offer.
Her addiction to HIM may be worse than the drug itself in this case.. This is textbook codependency . 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I was just thinking the same. It would be awful to be in love with him. So chaotic😢
Bingo!! This is one unhealthy relationship that seems destined for more trauma! This poor child had no real opportunity to even express herself. He literally stated that “he speaks for her.” Scary!!
I agree
Absolutely. She’s looking at him for approval before saying anything. He claims he often speaks for her. You can tell he’s controlling just by the body language. She needs to accept help for the codependency
Caroline Murray agreed!
When he called her his Harley Quinn I knew it was going to be bad
Omg so much this. It was such a clusterfuck of lies. As soon as he opened his mouth I was disgusted.
There’s so much to unpack, but it’s prob better idea just to burn the suitcase tbh. Maybe Jessie would have a chance.
Literally lol
What is with guys like this and the Joker? They always love the Joker...
I mean everyone calls me flame was a red flag
You all are so judgemental it's disgusting....
This gave me extreme anxiety.
People who have been through this type of relationship know exactly what's happening here.
What is happening here?
@@Beatdown.Babylon what's going on?
Ive been thru a lot and dont see Whats happening, he seem to genuinely be concerned for her feelings if your trying to insinuate otherwise
Yeah it's called dealing with the trauma of dem streets when sometimes people try to lay claim over your life. When that stops being traumatic it's too late.
Yes! I was in a relationship like this. 10 years later and 6 off the dope and he still tries to contact me. Nearly broke my jaw, numerous bruises and the emotional abuse/control even worse. I’m thankful to be alive.
Would love to hear Jesse have her own individual interview 💜
Not gonna happen. She's petrified of the thought that he'll see her private interview.
same
I know her- she’s lost
They just posted an update of her.
@@esotericleighput up missing poster now.
This was the weirdest and cringest interview I have seen so far.
This video is grossing me out.
I KNOW RIGHT??!! HOW SAD TO BRING A BABY INTO THIS WORLD WHEN THEY ARE BOTH SO FU
Pretty sure I get the point. It was just one of my observations but ok
Agreed
Ashley Lightsey - If this Guy can find a Wife, there’s hope for me yet !
I hope the pregnancy test was a false positive for everyones sake.
He wanted to say the meth killed one baby already I’m lost !!!
She isn’t really pregnant
@@stylisttattedlife3355 how do you know? Are you just guessing?
Stylisttattedlife 33 are you guessing? i hope you are right 🙏
Unfortunately there is no such thing as a false positive, only false negatives 😯
he’s so unbelievably controlling moving her face and telling her what to say and speaking for her. she can definitely do it herself, he’s trying to make sure she’s saying the right thing. i’m very worried about her and i hope she can get out of this relationship.
Absolutely correct 💯 This dude is toxic and she would be better off without him
I'm a husband and father and can honestly say this dude doesn't need a girlfriend or a child,he needs to figure out who he is himself,he's a very lost soul and if he is seeking guidance he needs to shut up and listen,him trying to guide her is like the blind leading the blind,she should start walking and not look back,this dude is depressing to be around,most women I know don't like a whiny man acting like an attention seeking baby.
There have been many difficult stories to listen to here but this one is by far the hardest. My heart aches for both of them.
This is one of the interviews that you want to see a 6 month update.
Yes I would love to see her at home with her family and baby and that guy gone!
@@morgan-paijejackson1902 or at least at planned parenthood. good lord
6 months my ass 6 days
You take after your auntie
It’s been 5 already I agree
When he said “I have no idea what I’m talking about” that was the only real thing I heard during that whole interview.
His baby talk is annoying they both need help! Broken people
The only truthful thing he said. What an idiot....
He was not born like this, dudes.
@@Adrian-vy5vn of course not, that’s years and years of trauma, drug abuse and bad choices.
Weed actually fries your brain lmao and people act like it has no effects.
Its hard seeing Jessie being so involved with taking care of his every need. Wiping his nose. Giving him his tissue back SOON as he wipes his nose. You can tell her entire childhood revolved around reading the room and body language to try and have some control and it has become her main focus and actual purpose in life.
Their high, jesses high is zoning on roman.
your comment really taught me something about myself. (You can tell her entire childhood revolved around reading the room and body language to try and have some control and it has become her main focus and actual purpose in life)
@w.urlitzer1869 I hope that something good comes of this realization for you. I too have this problem to a degree so I understand the struggle
I wish them both and their baby well. They're going through it. It looks like you caught them on an extremely emotional and raw day. They remind me of the movie candy. I hope they both make it through this storm, and that this baby is freed from the chains of addiction, abuse, and homelessness. I hope their child is never touched by it once born.
"I don't know what the F I'm talking about" is the only true thing he said.
Jack Burton word
As he said he doesn’t know how to express himself
Judgment is easy to do behind a screen huh
@@iRise2Ruin lol I just quoted what he said
Yes Sir
This has me in tears. I worked in salons with Jessie and her mom. She is a sweet girl and an amazing colorist! If you read these comments PRAY that she can get away from this guy, get sober and raise this baby with the help of her loving parents. We are praying for you to have enough strength to leave him Jessie! You can don’t! You are smart and strong and so loved! 🙏🙏🙏
I hope she gets away and home to her family. This was hard to watch and I don't know her. Thinking of you and her family x
So is he a bad influence? Like is he the enabler and provider of drugs? Obviously I got a bad vibe from him, not because he seems dangerous but he seems reckless behavior wise. Plus he killed his child and blames it on meth. I wouldn't let this guy walk my dog.
Wow.. this is so sad..
Since you know her personally I was curious, it sounded like she had a decent father, so why such awful taste in guys?! I mean how can she be so hopelessly devoted and hanging on this guy's every (untrue) word when everyone else listening to him can right away see right through this guy's bs.... Drugs must really cloud people's perception or something cuz dang look at this complete nutsack, his ridiculously dumb face tatts are pretty much a neon sign that reads run to any normal, nice girl who grew up with a dad YOU WOULD THINK...Not trying to judge anyone just was wondering how someone could be so lost
I will pray for her though.
As an ex-victim of domestic violences I'm pretty sûre that this guy is really DANGEROUS . He speaks for her all the tine, she's juste kind of afraid and admirative at the same time
Esp when he said he punched her dad for arguing with him to turn down his music like tf dude you were living in his house and I would be annoyed too if someone played loud music and neighbors would complain as well.
At one point she was stroking his fingers and he told her to stop because of his sunburn.
You're not an ex victim. You're a survivor and you're tremendous.
Stay Awesome and Frosty! Take care.
Dangerous, yes...just average things push his buttons. Perfect example was like around 14:00 when interviewer brought up that his mom had died, and Roman is the one who mentioned that earlier, so then naturally the interviewer would feel it's a topic on the table...then when the interviewer brings it up at 14:00 to go into it, that pushes his buttons...it kinda languishes 20 or 30 seconds to AT 14:27, Roman is still reeling internally as if that was out of bounds, from being asked if she died, the interviewer moves on of "So you..." at 14:27 but right then there's a flash of anger/rage/evil in Romans head slightly down toward the interviewer. So 14:26/14:27 if u pause, that's a look of pure evil within...it was go-time for Roman, as in go at the interviewer physically was what was in his mind, all over just being asked about his mom.
Whose here 2023 to see why Roman got so much hate in the comments
Can you start interviewing family members of the drug addicts/homeless people? I would like to know their perspective.
Priscilla Valencia yesssss id love to hear from them.
I agree, that would be great
Well I did see a comment from his brother on his FB page. It was quite telling. Jess is a decent girl n should go home
Im sure CPS waiting on that
Priscilla Valencia why do you need to valid these guys story?
To any girl that’s dating a guy that thinks he’s an artist in the rap business.. get the hell out now
That is the truth.
Delusions of grandeur!
My husband raps. Has since he was 10. He loves it but had no dream of being famous or anything.
Omg that’s the damn truth right there!!
YES.
Dude beats her, the way she quick says “sorry sorry I’m sorry” to him after she says something and they way she half braces herself on instinct is chilling. On the flip side dudes a master of every trade
Covering you both and your baby in prayers! I’m so sorry you’ve both experienced so much trauma & am sooooo proud of y’all getting clean for your baby! God is only a prayer away, he has big plans for all of you!!!! Love y’all! I believe in you! You’re both worth it! 💯🙏🏻🪢♥️
Everything about this couple made me uncomfortable.. I’ll leave it at that.
Same made my skin crawl
@@ameliajade5967 ya they are lying
Very cringey.. he won’t let her talk & when he does she’s afraid to
I agree, this conversation made my head spin. All over the place. I pray that they can get help, but that is ultimately up to them. She is always looking at him for approval, his grip has her hypnotized. I fear for the life of her and her unborn child.
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I don’t like how he speaks for her and controls the conversation. I’ve noticed that when Mark interviews couples, the man does the majority of the talking, and the woman is more meek in communicating. He said “no, were not using drugs” quick as hell. Stevie wonder can see they are knee deep in their addiction.
“Chelsey Clinton” : Body language is everything. The way she keeps her eyes on him and keep rubbing his arm and holding his hand is very telling. He’s abusive, he has the power in that relationship. He’s been done wrong in his other relationships she’s his angel and a whole bunch of other psychological codependency nonsense.
She chose him🤷🏾♂️ life is full of choices.
@@GetTheeBehindMe23 He also tried 2 encourage her 2 open up. U can see how broken he is, n her also. Their relationship mayb not as perfect as yours, or other's, but u don't have 2 b so critical n only point out the negative. They both n sme love.
Christina Thom : He encouraged her to tell her story?? Yet, he finished HER story. He punched her elderly dad in the face? Oh yeah he’s a great guy... no I really mean that. He seems sincere one moment then the next he’s contradicting exactly what he said a few minutes earlier. Him : “My mother died” Mark: Did you mother died? Him: That’s personal. I still believe he’s a good guy but no relationship that is centered on drugs is a good one. With his emotional state “Just 2 hours ago I was on my knees screaming to god” and drugs mixed in? Let’s just say he’s not the best version of himself. I wish them both the very best.
except for that drunk older couple lol they were so cute and she was so chatty!
Just watched Jessi's solo interview and wow... This guy is definitely killing her. I hope she finds the strength to get out of this hell of a relationship before it's too late.
She made me cry bc she was crying! I feel sorry for her 😢. I hope their baby survives and thrives and that they both get the help they need!
it's always these dudes you see crying on their women and constantly acting like they're damaged and need support etc. who are beating the woman and controlling her behind closed doors.
For someone who got out of an abusive relationship that’s exactly how it is. They cry and play the victim and behind doors he beat me even pregnant.
What doors ? They’re homeless nothing is holding her back
@@tylerhansen8278 lmfaoo
@@tylerhansen8278 😭😭😭😭
This is 100% how my extremely abusive and alcoholic ex husband was. Constantly crying, playing victim and acting like he was hurting, always leaning on me but behind closed doors he was the most psychotic and abusive person.
Meanwhile I’m a 30 yr old nurse afraid to bring a child into this world because of fears of not being an adequate parent.. strange..
Mid 30’s professional ... same
My house isn’t big enough. I work too much. Can I afford college? Will I make the right decisions? Did I learn enough from my parents? I could go and on... and the anxieties I have about being a GOOD parent.. not just a womb.
Same. I'm 32, 2 n 1/2 more years of school, work full time and I feel I'm not ready yet.
literally the plot of Idiocracy
Do you woman want a cookie or a trophy??
All those things are very good questions to ask yourself but if you keep thinking you can't never will typically mother's always want to Make way for their childrenwhat's the biggest grossing God can never give you
He deserves an Oscar for this performance
I know right he is far gone with the drugs having baby with Jesse is scary. Control freak I hope she gets help I can tell she is so sweet beautiful. I pray for her.
I pray for both of them
More like a razzie
Shouldn’t have filmed and showed this. It’s fucking madness personified.
@@drewwhy5541 People need to see this. This is life, and life can be madness personified, and it also can be beautiful. You can take it all in and learn from it.
I met this dude out in palm desert CA,he's a good dude he's very honest and very respectful.keep up the good work in progress god bless u both...you gave me a RED JBL SPEAKER...I BEEN INSIDE UR TENT IN THOUSAND PALM...THATS THE LAST TIME I SAW U...STAY SAFE MY BOY..AND CONGRATS...YOU BOTH ARE IN MY PRAYERS..
This is the most uncomfortable thing I have watched in a long time. This human is so fragmented he barely has his soul still attached.
Yes, I was more uncomfortable watching this that the gay sex addict guy (Philip...aka Mr. Snapback)
This guy is completely shot out
Yeah, these two are in a codependent relationship. He sounds quite deranged. Drugs are the devil's plaything
It's so sad and just ... goodness. Fragmented is completely the correct word!
You said that so well. 🙏.
"I act like I have it all figured out but I don't." BRUH, literally NO ONE thinks you have it all figured out.
Which is why he said he acts that way .. he didnt say he convinces people that he does lol what
I was like, WTF who could possibly believe he has it ALL TOGETHER? Damn
He's sober in this shit hole if they stay they might not make it. Pray young man
I can’t listen to this dude. Seriously 🤦🏻♀️
😂😂😂😂 you got me here
Jessie go home and live a clean life, you are loved. This young man needs to go through a come full circle healing process and need help. Prayers always. We are all just human and pray for a better future for both of you.
This dude is out of his mind. I feel awful for her cuz clearly he controls every word she says. She barely was able to talk without him interrupting. He thinks he's helping her but he's hurting her in the long run. I'll pray for both of them. 🙏
“I don’t know wtf I’m talking about.” Only thing he said that I believed.
You’re too privileged to have any compassion 😑 smh
@@rochelle5882 it’s to not “too” and was I talking TO you? It’s the world wide internet of opinion troll somebody else
@@johnnyking238 it’s the heartlessness for me 🥱
Dude in this video is a huge baby and needs to grow up. Can’t believe she’s dumb enough to fall for his obvious bs.
@@rochelle5882 if you feel bad for these people you dumb as hell. You can’t help anybody that won’t help themselves. He threw his life away when he got all those scribbles tattooed on his face like an idiot. Play stupid games you win stupid rewards.
This guy is playing with the interviewer, nothing he is saying is real, the girl's silence and total focus on him is scary.
Can’t be that focused finding ways to cheat on him, she’s probably scared if that baby isn’t his the ramifications from a crazy person.
you're assuming. Stop assuming
@@77confusedzombie77 You are so right, it is assumption, I am trying so hard to stop , thanks for the reminder.
@@janealivekickin5302 that was cool...never seen someone own up and appreciate the call out... Nice😉
@@janealivekickin5302 😂😂😂😂😂😂. You are himble and funny!
"Everyone calls me Flame"
" _Flame_ ? Ehh... Yeah so where'd you grow up, Roman?"
Mark is a straight up chad lmfao was shutting this dude down the whole time
"As soon as you start thinking, everything fails. But if you weren't thinking, you were just relaxing and being, the being that we are supposed to be, then you know we'd be free."
He spoke so much without saying anything at all. His brain is FRIED. He needs true psychological help and treatment. She needs to get out. You can see and tell that she isn't too far deep in yet and she needs to get out while she can. I think she wants to.
You’re so right, “ he spoke so much without saying anything at all” that killed me😂 it’s very sad what these people are doing to their lives 🤦🏻♀️
@@Hellokatie77 It is very sad! Part of me always feels terrible and wants to help them, but sometimes they don't always want help unfortunately. That's the hard part.
@@ash_marie13 So true... He made no sense at all.
He is most likely beyond treatment. He appears to be a narcissistic abuser. They’re just as bad off the drugs.
@@hillarybillary21 I have to agree with you on that one.
He’s face looks like a middle school desk.
Hahahahaha hahahahahaha
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😅
😂😂😂😂🤦🏽♀️
Had comments early,the Whitaker family is truly pure emotion. From the frozen praire of South Dakota ❤ ✨
He’s literally trying not to smile when he says he forgives her for cheating. He loves having that to hold over her.
You’re an idiot
Good point.
"her father and I, we didn't get along" man, fucking shocking lmao
He punched him in the face, because he was treating him like a bitch 😂
Bc of the loud music 😂
Lol right
Lmao so shockinh
So shocking*
Interview Jessie without him, please.
Tattoo face would never allow that to happen:
I would love to see that also
Yes I need a follow up on Jessie. I'm afraid for her. I feel like deep down she knows he's bad for her. Her body language says everything.
@MrPitjoey I don't think that's where the worry is; money is money, these are human beings we're talking about. Think about that next time.
We all have a story, some worse than others but at the end of the day we make our own choices on how we want to live our lives. My mother never knew her dad and her mother was never in the picture and she put herself through school by working since 14 and never made an excuse about her childhood and always has a positive outlook in life.
I am senting out my prayers to them and hope god turns their paths out for greater good . I think they both deserve a 2nd chance for comfortable life . They both are trying hard to do what’s right . I can sense that .
Coming from a drug addict for 15 years and started from age 14, they are high as hell. I don’t think he is cruel to her but they are going through some shit, high and scared. When he said idk what I’m talking about and im scared it was the most honest thing he said. He can’t swallow properly because when you are geeked it effects your swallowing and his nose won’t stop running. He has many signs of just getting high and being scared. I wish the best for both of them!
Great insight. I feel for them 💔
So glad to see your comment.
Why the Hell does that happen w/the nose???
@@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 If he snorted something like cocaine, meth, heroine etc.
Thanks for the insight!!!!
Roman looks like he was the first to pass out at a party
Lol! For sure
Probably because it looks like someone drew on his face
LOL
😂😂😂😂😖
🤣🤣🤣
He said the most truth when he broke down and said he doesn't even know what he's talking about. I respect that
I only got to the 7th minute and I can tell that she's in a abusive relationship...my father was one to my mom and you just learn those things. Hope her and the baby are safe...
Their conversation is weird and sketchy...I’m so confused right now
Same! I'm SO CONFUSED!
same, it’s an odd thing how ppl who are hurting and struggling come together and struggle together, but i understand it
This is really hard to follow and I'm having trouble believing this whole thing.
So basically he was lying about most stuff up until 15:32, she was from what it seems was raped or molested as a child. And she has a problem with finding a sense of security (why she’s with that bum). He’s a tweaker (meth addict) she take heroin, that explains his emotional outbursts, jitters and constant fiddling. He pretty much explained at the end that he played her into getting pimped when they were homeless and he feels guilty cause he could have done something about it. In reality he knows he’s going nowhere fast and he’s take her with him.
This guy has a freemason compass on his neck and a satanic pentagram on his face 🤔🤔so I figure alot of his trauma could be caused by that and the things they are involved in like black magic, rituals and many more sickening things especially if his mother was involved in Hollywood. You can see he's really confused and something isn't right and that is probably the reason why , I hope he gets help and I'll pray for him.
"I don't do drugs, but sometimes I go into the bathroom and do things.....its none of your business" he literally believes that if he says "I dont wanna talk about it" or "its none of your business" then we have no idea what hes up to.
Like wow denial of truth
😭😭
He said he goes in there to do his music, beats, bla, bla, bla BLA.........
Either way......I agree he's definitely doped up & is a drug free lie.
That part was awesome💀
He's been fried on meth, obviously. Denial is big with tweakers; they think they are fooling people. I don't think so.
This is so deep. I’ll have to watch this over and over again.
my heart...I know her. we grew up together. I grew up in Westlake Village. thank you for sharing their story. hi jessie. i love you and I'm so sorry this is happening.- if you see this I think we went to conejo together.
"I usually speak for her." The ignorance in this one is tooooo much
He said that, claiming to know exaclty how she feels through a spiritual connection which is ridiculous. I dont think he said that because hes controlling. I think he said that because hes crazy and probably really thinks he knows everything about her through something spiritual which is absurd
Hes borderline as fck! 🙄
@@Adultory Agreed!!!
i like how a person who is not homeless is criticizing a homeless person like you would knoe their world
Sr. Concizion I like how one can easily excuse such ignorance and toxic behavior. He is his own worst enemy and she's his slave. I like how u validate taking advantage of the mentally incapable. Dudes a piece of shit, and I've been homeless buddy. People don't get a "pass".
I wouldn't trust him as far as I could piss.
James lmaooooo
L o l
Damn that’s generous lol
Loool 😂
I can smell it right now!!
Loved this video, there hearts are on a plate for us to enjoy, it’s so sad that this is what we use for entertainment, one persons pain is another persons joy,
Jessie, do you put any of your hair/cosmetology stuff on IG or anywhere? I’d love to see it. I can see you’ve got a lot of creativity.
He called her his Harley Quinn... you know everything is just going to go downhill after that 😂
😭😭
Lmao😂😂😂 That's definitely a major red flag
Ryan Leroux10 🤣🤣🤣🤣💯
🤣😂 chad's will be chad's
I know he didn't hear the rest of what they call him. FLAMING IDIOT
They way he glossed over "blag blah I killed my kid, did 5 years in prison & now I have my beautiful wife."
Damn girl, I'd be running as far away from him as possible.
No you wouldn’t. I’ve met more women with total trainwrecks of men than anything else.
i thought he said that the baby died bc the mom was doung crystal meth. i definitely agree she should get as far away from him as possible but i dont think he killed his child
@@user-nu6ij5lh2u that's exactly what I heard...
He didn’t say he killed his kid he said the mother killed the kid via addiction. A addict is suppose to run from a forgiving addict?
Did he not say the mother did it?
You two are rockstars. I hope you do not/did not listen to the negative comments in this thread. Those people have never walked a day in your shoes or felt the way you have felt. Therefore their opinions are invalid. It is not your fault that you care and love too much. It is not your fault that you were not taught the proper ways to deal with life stressors. It's not your fault that you attempted to self medicate because you didn't want to bother others. It's not your fault that the drugs you were using were not properly regulated and you were taught proper dosage. But god damn, you guys are starting to do the work to better yourselves and to become the best versions of yourselves. Keep up the good hard work! You are on your own paths and doing what is right for you. Stay positive and true to yourselves!
You work has made me love people again.
To say that your child died and everything happened for a reason is really disturbing.
He has that pentagram..I feel like this guy is possessed probably ritually sacrificed his child sad
Peter that is exactly what Catholicism teaches...
@@vladimiravrcic Vladimira you are absolutely correct and that is equally disturbing.
Coping mechanism
But everything does happen for a reason... even the death of a child... there’s a lesson to learn from everything you go thru... God probably called that baby home so it doesn’t suffer on Earth with addict parents
This guy is a sociopath. Someone needs to help that woman get out ASAP.
I bet when he sees these comments he’s going to complain to Marc.
Sue's Journey Or worst case, take it out on the poor girl and blame her for the comment😞
Caine SaintClair
Sounds like you need more life experience. Or not, and carry on ignorant.
And go straight to another "sociopath" if she's still abusing drugs
Na he's a narcissist
I live in Tucson and he’s not lying about the gangs and human trafficking out here. It’s terrifying and when he said they tried to keep him in that hotel room I felt his fear. Stuff like that happens every day out here and more and more people are moving here, it’s going to get a lot worse.
This is what city life is all about, twisted and coerced to provide this finished product.
idk but I got a feeling that he’s very controlling & manipulative
Watch 12-40-12:45 the way she apologized left me uneasy like maybe he's abusive.
Very controlling
@Iam Notafan yip! Nail on the head there ☝️
This was one of the most uncomfortable things I’ve watched in a really long time.
Omg yes!! It started getting bad for me when he kept lifting her face up
I think about this video from time to time - it is one of the saddest on here - please can we have an update about Jessie
I like them both I wish them the very best and I hope they both catch a break in life love and best wishes from Australia
I would really like to see her back without him.
Hahahaha...yeah the guy sends out vibes
@Niterain problaly aint gonna happen...you know how women are..
Having a baby with him.what a joke
@Niterain couldnt think of a worst idea...but hey...romance,he completes her
very needed
Same
She’s so lost and he’s so high. He’s the only one that understands what he’s saying. Poor poor souls. Extremely sad...
I feel more sorry for the baby he killed due to drug use and the kid on the way. He is high as a kite.
I agree
I typically have lots of empathy for people in a rough situation. Not so in this case.. something beyond drugs going on.. that’s the impression I got
She’s high af too
And you have weeve at least hers is real
I relate so much to Jessie. I have been in very similar relationships. Undeniable codependency going on here. Roman isn’t necessarily a bad guy or a narcissist, but he is definitely very sick, and the urge to caretaker a person like that, especially when you feel you’ve had a “privileged” upbringing and opportunities that perhaps the partner has not, can be completely overwhelming. The abnormal becomes normal and we make excuses for unacceptable behaviors, and it is so difficult to walk away because you feel like you understand the other individual more than other people and you can help them and don’t wan to see them suffering and you put your own needs on the back burner in order to try to help them. Then you constantly do the perpetrator, victim, rescuer dance…. It’s exhausting and, in my experience, more difficult to find freedom from than substances. Praying for both of you. Roman does look/seem a lot better in the update interview… recovery isn’t linear and it’s a journey with many obstacles…. hopefully he’s on his way to finding some light. God bless
Follow up for Jessie especially would be appreciated. It would be good if you had a database for "call backs" when needed .
This was the weirdest thing, because it wasn't like most of the interviews. That guy is living in a lala land that he created for himself.
That's what meth does to you :( my dad has been a drug addict off and on long before I was even born.... I'm 29 now, he's in his mid 50's and the drugs have messed his mind up so bad he lives on the streets trying to convince everyone including my siblings and I that he's gods prophet and was put on this earth to save everyone from satin who he thinks is my mom ......my heart breaks everyday all day because it's all I can think about to yet theres nothing I can say or do to help him
@@Thebigdogg123 sorry to hear that. Break the cycle I did. Continue to encourage other. I hope you have the best life!
If he lives in his head and believe it to the core, later on everything will manifest in the 3D. Everything is what you push out. As within, so with out.. as above, so below..😮
His mum actually was an actress and his aunt is a photographer.
@@Morgan.iiiviix unfortunately a lot of people won't understand what you just said, nor do they have any interest in the generative principle (G).
This guy is a narcissist, controlling & manipulative. She needs to stay far away from him, this relationship is toxic.
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Change like he is being supportive and Encouraging her to tell the story you can tell he doesn’t want to speak he wants me to speak for self
Yes. I hope she can get away.
The problem is that these types not only don't know how to stay away from each other, but they attract each other. You see it everywhere.
He is like my ex exact the same way its dangerous I am glad I survived and I am alive
Is there an update on these two couples, I like to know where there lives are at now.
Hope they both turned there lives around for the better.
When he said he usually does the speaking for her, I knew we were listening to a classic domestic violence case.
Yes especially when he said he PUNCHED her father like it was nothing... Violence is imbedded in their relationship
@@angeee8542 there's many world's within this world when your surrounded by violence as a child the normalisation process takes place
Same.
No I don't think so. Their body language towards each other is strange.
@@skittles191919 I really hope that this is the only thing you and your husband share in common with this couple....
He just referred to his dead child as “Irrelevant” 😩
Boy oh boy.......i know😠😠😠
it wasn't even a child it was probably a child in the way she's pregnant now lol like 2 days since conception. but i think he just meant he needs to move on from it and not have it be the focus of his life.
The past situation with his previous pregnant girlfriend is what was irrelevant. Not the baby itself >__
AlmaDeLuz You said that like it makes a difference ...Anything pertaining to ur dead child isn’t irrelevant
mermaidyoshi not the same girl
It’s so sad she can’t speak about her life without crying I hope she gets into therapy it will be a great outlet to help her open up
@ 1:01 “my grandfather is a capital venturist” LMAO YOU MEAN VENTURE CAPITALIST????
😂😂😂🤦🏻♂️
That guy is something else. He's an attention seeker and seems to love playing victim.
Something is super sketch about that kid. He wouldn’t let her complete her thoughts. He’s completely controlling her. It’s really unfortunate because she could have a chance away from him. I didn’t believe anything he said. I google whatever made up production company he said he owned....nothing. Don’t buy for a second his mom was/is an actress. Definitely don’t believe he’s only smoking weed. Just an odd interview and he’s def a mind fuck to her. When he said he forgave her dad?!?! For what?? Letting you stay in his open and having house rules he needed to enforce because you didn’t respect him. Then you punch him?!?! No way would anyone in their right mind stay with someone like that. His grip on that poor girl is terrible. Would like an interview with her WITHOUT that kid.
Yeah, her father is letting him live there and he had the nerve to punch him? Wow!
my thoughts exactly
Agree, and I hope we get to hear something from her without him.
He also hasn’t been incarcerated for the last five years bc he has pics on the outside on fb from 17 18 and 19 lol
@@tlowery2074 do any of you understand schizophrenia,? good grief,the judgment.
oh my god… shes from the same city as i am. Its weird how much harder that hits, especially because i could’ve been in the same type of thing if i didnt get clean. bless her soul
The most genuine part was when he admitted that he was lost and tired, and tired of being lost. Heartbreaking! I pray everyone finds their own way.
I'm a rapper, an editor, a butcher, a baker, a candlestick maker
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@@fcukugimmeausername theres a chance she slept with Prince, homie bedded thousands.
LMFAO!!!!!!! Now that's funny!
This might be my top five best CZcams comments I've ever seen 😆 🤣
but not a drug addict parasite on society. oh no
Am I the only one who heard him say “ended up killing my kid and did 5 years in prison” (1:40)
No, but he also speaks in rambling run-on sentences and it’s not really clear if the two are related. If the baby died because the mother was injecting meth he sold her, he could’ve gotten a death by delivery charge I suppose.
I heard it. 👍🏼
He most definitely did say that!!!!
listen to what he was saying, he was talking about the girl, then he went to prison, then she killed the child by smoking meth.
@Pangolin Steak & Bat Gravy i mean, we don't know anything about the kid? she could have died before she was born
WOW! I'm lost for words.
Honest Question: When you say you’ll edit a portion out, is it a pacifying statement or is there intent that is occasionally forgotten?
He will always use that you-cheated-on-me-and-I-forgave-you line to keep her submissive. Poor lady.
the eye contact he made when he said that.. . chills
He's had to cry for her forgiveness, etc etc. I'm sure he's beat her.
Plus, she's not cheating when he's locked up unless they're married.
He doesn't own her!
@@LisaPFrampton I agree with you on some but if your in a committed relationship even if they are locked up its not ok to cheat but these two are toxic for each other
it should be illegal for them to have kids
I kinda agree. Its gonna suck for the kid
It certainly should. No child should be born into this.
It definitely should. The kid will be just like them in 20 years if its even able to live that long of a lifetime
This baby will have no chance to have anything approaching a normal life. He or she will be on the street by the time they are in their teens. Thats if they survive.
Yep absolutely. The kid will have a horrible painful life and will most likely end up like this in 20 years, have their own kid, and the cycle will continue. It's not fair at all to bring a child into this situation.
This made me uneasy from the start, reminds me so much of my past relationships the body language, the overwhelming manipulation, everything. 🤢 I'd love a follow up & hopefully separate interviews
They're both codependent & strung out. I'm watching his solo interview rn but had to pop over & see this one after his comments
Jessie, go live with your parents and take care of that baby.
True... I think she can do more better than him... I Hope also he can stop using drogs but he seems so into in that life who the only thing in the morning is how can I have my dose of drugs..if she left him I think she can live really better, even if i know she is using drugs but something in my Mind tell me she can live a better life without him, but I really Hope both can stay really far from drugs
L Marie
So true that’s a narcissist and yes I had one of them and been through this too but I got out of it thanx to my family and my son
Thank God he didn’t turn me into a junkie I got away when I realise he was an addict
But she’s too deep now she’s been hypnotised he won’t let her go and she’s addicted to him
Facts 👏🏽
They need to just pay women to get on birth control it’s cheaper then bringing a child into this world under these circumstances. I’m not saying a child can’t change someone because a baby can.... but More often the child ends up having a life of suffering or a life without their parents.
@Jebbar Watson -- since when has that advice ever worked?! So do YOU only have sex for procreation?
Marty Sugarman holy crap dude. She is saying that there should be free and easily accessible birth control.
It’s hard to access that stuff on the streets, keep it around and take it at the right time.
Offering free birth control helps prevent as many kids form being born addicted to drugs, to parents who cannot keep them. It’s stressful for the addicted parents who desperately want to pull it together for the kids, but the addiction is just to deep and strong.
It’s much easier to offer birth control to people before they get pregnant so it’s a non issue. Things like IUDs that can be implanted and can last for months at a time, etc.
Whoops just realized I totally misunderstood. Sorry man
@@skateranddancer my comment was towards jabbar watson, not sure how to spell the name.
I agree with you and with the original poster. But the other comment said, "if you dnt want kids, dnt have sex. " and that birth control is bad for your body.
Pay a woman that doesn't have any regard for her life to be on birth control 🤔...
1st: who will pay them to be on birth control (the "tax payers")
2nd: What guarantees are there that they will comply.
3rd: How/who do you expect to manage that.
How about maybe doing what they do to "feral cats, capture them and neuter/spay them" but not in that sense,... more humainly. Give them the option to want to get the procedure done ofcourse always offering the reversible type, people change and maybe some day when they get their life together they may want to have a family, then they can pay to get it reversed... that I don't mind as a tax payer to pay (one time offer), but a daily/monthly birth control... I don't see that working.
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Man...
Thanks.
I feel this 😢.... hope you guys are doing well...💚
As a recovering meth addict myself, this whole conversation was from the mouth of someone who has been up for a few days and his brain was literally shorting out. He thinks he was making sense because when your that high and been awake for so long and your body is extremely malnourished that's the results right there.
Exactly
What is meth like? I’ve never even seen it before. I was into pills pretty bad, but never meth.
sergio pena haven’t touched meth in almost a year but just imagine a time you felt extremely good & multiply that feeling times 10 but imagine it lasting for hours & add feeling super horny to the mix of extreme euphoria! Don’t ever touch that drug ! I went from snorting it just like coke to smoking that garbage !
_vicolicious_gambino INSTAGRAM oxy made me feel the same way. Not for hours though. I have to admit though, as good as it made me feel, it’ll never compare to how good I felt that first morning when I woke up and was sober. Congrats on your sobriety.
sergio pena I truly appreciate it buddy !🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻