Episode 6: What if your husband isn't interested in intimacy?

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Komentáře • 24

  • @ricdavid7476
    @ricdavid7476 Před 5 lety +12

    Wow that's all I can say. I am a 65 year old Brit gentile . I have never ever heard such wisdom truly only from God. The Christian teachings I have heard over the last 12 years are like kindergarden compared to this. Wow Is all I can say. My wife is returning from a 3 week trip this coming Tuesday and I will put all these teachings into practice when she returns. Thank you very very much Rabbi thank you for sharing these difficult topics in videos on line and I know it is a hackneyed term but your videos have transformed my life and the way I view God and the way I view my marriage . All this In the space of 3 days extraordinary.

  • @DaysFlyBy007
    @DaysFlyBy007 Před 6 lety +5

    I have a long Jewish ancestry but I have no knowledge of Judaism, I was raised Lutheran and then Baptist and I'm pretty agnostic now as an adult...nonetheless, I'm fascinated by his lectures, I sit down to listen to one and suddenly it's 3 hours later, lol.

  • @myopinon74
    @myopinon74 Před 5 lety +4

    Best advice on every level. Take notes. Have courage.

  • @milakomova1020
    @milakomova1020 Před 5 lety +3

    Bravo Rabbi! Bravo!!!!!
    What a wisdom!

  • @deborahgarcia8669
    @deborahgarcia8669 Před 5 lety +3

    My husband doesn’t even come near me It hurts he didn’t talk to me he shuts things down just like a roommate 🙏 please

    • @nr1785
      @nr1785 Před 4 lety +3

      He’s probably looking at pornography. It kills a marriage.

    • @ArtisticlyAlexis
      @ArtisticlyAlexis Před 2 lety

      @@nr1785 That's an assumption. There are lots of reasons men pull away besides being into porn.

  • @stellaercolani3810
    @stellaercolani3810 Před 5 lety +1

    Ppl scoff oat my believe in a soulmate, yet I believe. You so eloquently underlined the concept.

  • @laurac904
    @laurac904 Před 5 lety +2

    Rabbi you are so right!

  • @bettinamunchberg662
    @bettinamunchberg662 Před 5 lety +1

    Great lesson!

  • @humblebrag
    @humblebrag Před 6 lety +1

    Brilliant

  • @jolasky2630
    @jolasky2630 Před 5 lety +1

    Again so so true!

  • @nirmalan5590
    @nirmalan5590 Před 5 lety

    I would say, wow, what a great man he must be!

  • @gretchenm5400
    @gretchenm5400 Před 4 lety +1

    Sooo.....all my husband wants to do in the bedroom is watch tv. Any talk of removing it is a huge blow out.

    • @beegood1215
      @beegood1215 Před 4 lety

      So you leave the room, sleep somewhere else.

    • @gretchenm5400
      @gretchenm5400 Před 4 lety +1

      @@beegood1215 what an awful idea. Unlike the recommended solution by the good Rabbi of seperate bedrooms I actually enjoy sleeping next to my husband. It is one of joys of being married for me. It makes me feel safe and protected to know he is there deep in the night.
      Not only that it is OUR time to focus on US! I not only love my hubsand...I like him as well. I look forward to our bedtime chats.
      Since leaving my comment I have drawn a hardline in the sand a moved the tv out of our room and forbade its presence there ever again.
      Come to find out he never knew just how much our little bedtime chats meant to me nor how much I looked forward to them. He was amazed and more than a little flattered.
      The lesson I learned that vulnerable communication is the key. When I bared my soul to him instead of just nagging or stuffing my feelings it had a profound impact on both of us.

  • @georgehazzard3149
    @georgehazzard3149 Před 3 lety

    It very sad for me because my husband like and love no good movie than me but if i say, i like to divorce because he doesn't like me than plenty wife at no good movie, he said NO! Than i just wondering maybe that's why my name doesn't change yet to his name because it just temporary to adopted the blind one if wants to real change or not. Sad for me that i am only object because my husband loves only no good movie than me, and I'm not ashamed to says it so that our flesh and blood sisters and brothers childrens cannot find someone don't likes and love them to make them sad too. But it good for me to see how my flesh and blood sisters husband's start to love, protect and care for their wife and children than before, and even their childrens start to take care, loves and protect their wife gives and children too by seeing the sad example of mine if how sad they see how my husband like no good movie than me. Sometimes wanted to complaint but don't know why i was used to example for sad life, I have had in my marriage. I just said to myself, only GOD put us together and only HIM CAN separate us, doesn't matter how long because I already married. Doesn't matter what is the example but was except and marry, so problem and sad is for only me to see and experience because I rush to marry someone doesn't like and wants me but make me as an object only, hmmmmmmm!

  • @keondre7179
    @keondre7179 Před 6 lety

    You know you aren’t a descendant of Abraham, Issac, or Jacob ?

  • @paspoman6069
    @paspoman6069 Před 6 lety

    i dont have a wife

  • @paspoman6069
    @paspoman6069 Před 6 lety

    i dont have a whife

  • @DaddysDollxo
    @DaddysDollxo Před 6 lety +1

    I want a divorce bc of this.