Elliot Page couldn't imagine telling his own story - here's why he's sharing it now

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  • čas přidán 25. 06. 2023
  • Elliot Page sits down with Tom Power to talk about his new memoir, Pageboy. He tells us how writing his story helped him heal from years of having to hide his true self, about his experience navigating the pressures of the industry, and what brings him joy now that he’s living openly as a trans man.
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  • @littlebigknits
    @littlebigknits Před 11 měsíci +57

    Fabulous interview again Tom!! Considering the comments, it’s clear to see the uphill battle that people from the trans community have to face.

    • @repinuj
      @repinuj Před 11 měsíci +9

      CZcams comments are just a cesspool.

    • @glennhankins6927
      @glennhankins6927 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@repinuj The trans community is a cesspool. The rest of us are just trying to live our lives without every square inch
      of the world covered in pride flags.....an entire month dedicated exclusively to pride (no other group in society is this privileged)

    • @nolanchill
      @nolanchill Před 10 měsíci +6

      Fully regret reading the comments. This is a great interview.

    • @glennhankins6927
      @glennhankins6927 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@nolanchill Tom Power is so cringe, I can't listen to him for 1 minute. Perfect for CBC though, Tom replaced the other CBC creep
      Jian Ghomeshi, who was fired for beating women. CBC freakshow.

  • @lynnnoonan628
    @lynnnoonan628 Před 8 měsíci +10

    Thanks Elliot. Read your book and many more trans stories. You are very honest about how your trans experience is not the universal trans story, particularly because of your success and financial situation. That still does not mean you did not struggle and suffer finding your authentic self. It just hilights how much harder it is for others not as fortunate as you. So glad you are happier and less ashamed now. For those people commenting that you look unhappy or sad, they do not realize thst of course its difficult to relive the difficult parts of your journey. Its generous of you to share your story.

  • @OsirisMalkovich
    @OsirisMalkovich Před 11 měsíci +36

    Thanks for being a beacon in these dark times, brother.

  • @theriemannbreaker8174
    @theriemannbreaker8174 Před 11 měsíci +9

    Luv you Elliot 💙💖🤍💖💙

  • @valebadel2208
    @valebadel2208 Před 11 měsíci +66

    How can a person who is sharing a story about "triumph," overcoming shame, and being now joyous can look so depressed and defeated. This says so much about the current society we are living in.

    • @galinageorgieva8554
      @galinageorgieva8554 Před 11 měsíci +5

      Or it is saying something about that person. I mean, I've been working on my own psychological problems for years and I still have work to do.

    • @nimrodgrrrl
      @nimrodgrrrl Před 11 měsíci +29

      I think he’s just a bit more shy and introverted than your typical actor. He’s not performing, and he’s being incredibly honest and vulnerable here. When you assume…

    • @knives5964
      @knives5964 Před 11 měsíci +9

      ​@@nimrodgrrrlYeah, i mean from most of his movie I've seen, he's himself on screen, always looks like he's going through shit and is shy as hell. Even said so he has always been shy.

    • @antun88
      @antun88 Před 11 měsíci +12

      Because he completely mutilated his body. No person in their right mind would go so far. But society is encouraging this behavior. Just look at the comments here.
      While it is definitely courageous to change your appearance and become your authentic self, at some point a person should be encouraged to accept their body as it is.

    • @user-og2wt3le4j
      @user-og2wt3le4j Před 11 měsíci +16

      That shows transgender people's problems are not solved solely by undergoing hormone treatment, surgery and transition. Many transgendered persons suffer from mental health and substance abuse issues before and after transition. Some are also suicidal.

  • @cynthiagordon6087
    @cynthiagordon6087 Před rokem +22

    An amazing interview.

  • @jillian1399
    @jillian1399 Před rokem +26

    Lovely conversation!

  • @douglasstruthers8307
    @douglasstruthers8307 Před 10 měsíci +16

    A thoughtful interview. Elliot is truly a man of courage and integrity.

  • @robbrien8506
    @robbrien8506 Před rokem +8

    Tom just said he doesn't like heights. I can certainly see why he wouldn't be thrilled with the seating arrangement here. I guess he had to keep looking straight ahead and not let the right eye waiver.

    • @robbrien8506
      @robbrien8506 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@Grubbly10 Tom's a he. Adjust your reflexive knee-jerk bot responses.

    • @johnlittle3430
      @johnlittle3430 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Won't SOMEONE think of Tom Power and his trauma?!?!!!!?!!??!

  • @annew8365
    @annew8365 Před rokem +32

    Thank you, Elliot, for sharing your story and helping me understand your trans and queer experience. I am so happy that you feel joy in your body and your experience. May you continue to shed any shame you feel (which should not be yours, by the way). You are a hero to me for the courage you continue to show on your path to becoming authentic. May your book bring hope to other transgender people and help others to understand and respect the LGBTQ+ community. ❤ I send you a big hug!

  • @lc360
    @lc360 Před rokem +18

    Woah! Haven't watched yet but I know this is gonna be a great combination of people to see in conversation :)

    • @lc360
      @lc360 Před rokem +14

      A really insightful interview. I hope anybody coming to this video in bad faith can stop for a sec and think "am I really listening to this person or am I coming in with my own baggage?". Nitpicking someone's mannerisms and how happy/unhappy someone "seems" in a conversation about their years of trauma in hollywood.. feels driven by anger and a refusal to empathise. I hope this sort of behaviour dies down soon and the conspiracy theorists and satanic panic people find something better to do with their time.

    • @ItsBugsy
      @ItsBugsy Před rokem +4

      @@lc360 Elliot, is that you?

  • @shelbseroo
    @shelbseroo Před 11 měsíci +30

    thanks for your vulnerability and openness Elliot - and Tom, lovely interview as always :)

  • @gabriellef3351
    @gabriellef3351 Před rokem +31

    Nice to hear elliot speak. Missed him

    • @Schnoz42069
      @Schnoz42069 Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@Grubbly10Sex and gender are different things bigot

    • @gabriellef3351
      @gabriellef3351 Před 11 měsíci +3

      Hearing a lot of folks being waaay too concerned about someone they don't even know's name change. Pretty weird.

    • @kevinhutchins4222
      @kevinhutchins4222 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@gabriellef3351
      Yes. Why be concerned about the truth. That's so 1950's. 🙄

    • @gabriellef3351
      @gabriellef3351 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@glennhankins6927 but why does anyone care? Does it make any difference in anyone's life what anyone calls themself? We're using alternate names here and now. It's fine. It looks like a weird thing to kick up dust over.

  • @lynnnoonan628
    @lynnnoonan628 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Best of luck in the future.

  • @leeanngonneville-jm7ru
    @leeanngonneville-jm7ru Před 9 měsíci +4

    honestly i’ve never really liked watching long interviews, but will gladly do so for elliot page. i send you love elliot❤️

  • @rl7012
    @rl7012 Před 11 měsíci +8

    I was born with the wrong head. I went to a shrink he told me......do not adjust your mind....there is a fault in reality.!

  • @Genie519
    @Genie519 Před rokem +24

    His truth is beautiful and will help many feel not alone.

    • @MissRubiness
      @MissRubiness Před 11 měsíci +3

      There is so much hurt and sadness in those eyes and energy. Should have gotten emotional help and deep therapy instead of encouraging changing genders to solve issues, which most definitely doesn't seem to have solved much. Still seems so unhappy. I feel sad listening to the energy.

  • @vinniekrieg5441
    @vinniekrieg5441 Před rokem +32

    Elliot is a wonderful human being, especially now that he is his authentic self. You only live once and should be who you are.

    • @psalms2358
      @psalms2358 Před rokem +2

      But you don't live forever.

    • @vinniekrieg5441
      @vinniekrieg5441 Před rokem +5

      @@psalms2358 Exactly so don't waste it with compromise.

    • @22lyric
      @22lyric Před rokem +12

      Except that you CAN'T "authenticly" change your gender!

    • @OsirisMalkovich
      @OsirisMalkovich Před 11 měsíci +8

      ​@psalms2358 the damage was done when he was living a lie, being who people expected him to be instead of being himself. He may never overcome that fully, but his current form is a manifestation of healing, and he's still getting better every day.

    • @psalms2358
      @psalms2358 Před 11 měsíci

      @@OsirisMalkovich she needs Christ. She is in a living hell.

  • @user-og2wt3le4j
    @user-og2wt3le4j Před 11 měsíci +4

    Has anyone here watched the 2009 film Whip It?

  • @hawsrulebegin7768
    @hawsrulebegin7768 Před 11 měsíci +4

    I’ve not followed his story until just now when I saw a clip of her promoting Inception on the jonathon Ross show and discovering what’s happened since then. If all this makes him happy then we shouldn’t judge. Simple as that. If it’s not making him happy then the conversation needs to be had about the big changes that people are making. It’s an unknown new world that’s happening and as yet nobody knows about long term mental or physical developments. But wish him all the best and hope happiness is achieved.

  • @ItsBugsy
    @ItsBugsy Před rokem +46

    Seems super happy...

  • @LiamJohnson247
    @LiamJohnson247 Před rokem +10

    His voice is well deep now

  • @ri260
    @ri260 Před 11 měsíci +4

  • @emmablack583
    @emmablack583 Před 11 měsíci +73

    Why on earth does he look so depressed, where's the trans joy that's he's talking about?

    • @lc360
      @lc360 Před 11 měsíci +33

      He's discussing serious topics

    • @emmablack583
      @emmablack583 Před 11 měsíci +12

      @@lc360 the eyes doesn't look happy. I heard he was abused in Hollywood and he was SA victim

    • @lc360
      @lc360 Před 11 měsíci +10

      ​@@emmablack583it feels like you're coming in already deciding how someone feels despite all signs pointing otherwise.

    • @jazzlander3594
      @jazzlander3594 Před 11 měsíci

      Probably because of all the anti trans rhetoric and legislation banning healthcare for children, bathroom bills, etc etc

    • @majorghoul9017
      @majorghoul9017 Před 11 měsíci +4

      He's likely tired of all the attention he's been getting

  • @benitoclawson3743
    @benitoclawson3743 Před 11 měsíci

    🙂 P R O M O S M

  • @joannapaw4040
    @joannapaw4040 Před 11 měsíci +16

    It doesn't look like his behavior is a result of transphobia or any external issues, he seems uncomfortable with himself. He is speaking to people who support him, and yet sounds like breaking down. Where is the joy? I believe transition can be good for some people, but here something is off.

  • @Guardian__Angel
    @Guardian__Angel Před 11 měsíci +51

    Sadly, he looks tense and unhappy even after finding his "authentic self."

    • @sugarcoat4
      @sugarcoat4 Před 11 měsíci +24

      transphobia still exists still so you shouldn't act surprised

    • @Guardian__Angel
      @Guardian__Angel Před 11 měsíci +24

      @@sugarcoat4 Blaming others is the laziest thing to do.

    • @Grubbly10
      @Grubbly10 Před 11 měsíci +8

      @@sugarcoat4it doesn’t exist

    • @sugarcoat4
      @sugarcoat4 Před 11 měsíci +10

      @@Guardian__Angel great logic yes. we should def blame the shooting victim for hurting not the shooter

    • @Guardian__Angel
      @Guardian__Angel Před 11 měsíci +12

      @@sugarcoat4 So you're saying that no matter what, it's always society's fault. In other words, whatever you do, make sure you blame it on society. 🤭🤭🤭

  • @user-di8hm2jl2u
    @user-di8hm2jl2u Před 11 měsíci +23

    I really see regret and sadness. People have locked this person in this new identity and its sad.

  • @ForestBeans
    @ForestBeans Před 11 měsíci +11

    I love these transphobes that sought out and watched an interview with a trans person. 😂

  • @22lyric
    @22lyric Před rokem +3

    When people need fodder for a bokk, OR interviews, we need to take it with agrain of salt!

  • @lucky2516
    @lucky2516 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Did anyone found you attackers yet? 😂

    • @BurtTurbo
      @BurtTurbo Před 11 měsíci +1

      Have you leaned to write a coherent question yet?

  • @fl260
    @fl260 Před rokem +14

    People misgendering Elliot Page are the same kind of people who criticize gender reassignment surgeries for kids 😡

    • @-Only.Facts-
      @-Only.Facts- Před 11 měsíci +1

      How dare you all misgender Elliot! He is a dude with tight little p*ssy!

    • @emmablack583
      @emmablack583 Před 11 měsíci +22

      Same people who wouldn't give alcohol to kids 😤😤

    • @Schnoz42069
      @Schnoz42069 Před 11 měsíci +12

      Children shouldn't get GRS or hormones. I say this an an ally

    • @nodescriptionavailable3842
      @nodescriptionavailable3842 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @Schnoz42069 I'd guess atleast 90% of the lgbtq community agrees but they aren't on TV much

    • @fl260
      @fl260 Před 11 měsíci

      @@nodescriptionavailable3842 Exactly! These people probably don't even worship Joe Biden 🤬

  • @riase
    @riase Před 11 měsíci +8

    Ok but why do you need to come out? You can live your authentic self without announcing it to the world, no?

  • @zutalors960
    @zutalors960 Před 11 měsíci +12

    More lies to spread for attention?

  • @tinfoilhatter
    @tinfoilhatter Před rokem +1

    in reality, i think, we're all just a buncha oldsters that are both male and female, but it does us practic'ly no good, ha ha

  • @pepryan2183
    @pepryan2183 Před 11 měsíci +5

    What are the lies about trans lives? Constantly alluded to; always assumed.

  • @remixandkaraoke
    @remixandkaraoke Před 11 měsíci +12

    UNSUBSCRIBED!

  • @Xxelviroxx
    @Xxelviroxx Před 11 měsíci +23

    Porr Elliot. looks miserable, tired, sick and sad.

  • @gerhitchman
    @gerhitchman Před 11 měsíci +21

    He seems so sad...

    • @OsirisMalkovich
      @OsirisMalkovich Před 11 měsíci +12

      Life is getting harder for trans people. In the US there are groups trying to drive us out of public spaces altogether. Elliot is a high profile trans person, making him a target of that nonsensical hate all too often. _Of course_ he seems sad.

    • @martymcfly8731
      @martymcfly8731 Před 11 měsíci +9

      @@OsirisMalkovichhow dare they not let biological men into women’s sports and bathrooms.

    • @OsirisMalkovich
      @OsirisMalkovich Před 11 měsíci +9

      @@martymcfly8731 Stop pretending you care about women's sports.

    • @Guardian__Angel
      @Guardian__Angel Před 11 měsíci +15

      ​@@OsirisMalkovich How about another, much more plausible explanation? That his issues were much more serious and ran much deeper, so his surgery did little to resolve them?

    • @OsirisMalkovich
      @OsirisMalkovich Před 11 měsíci +6

      ​@@Guardian__Angel I'm describing conditions and situations that _actually exist_ while you are _assuming_ the mental state of a person you _do not know._ In what way is that "much more plausible?"