Marzia's 'Facial Asymmetry' | Surgeon Reacts
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Surgeon reacts to Marzia being 'Ashamed' of Part of Her Face due to asymmetry. Dr. Linkov explains how asymmetry is perceived as more beautiful as proven by conducted studies (check for links below). As covered in the @Inside Edition : "PewDiePie’s wife Marzia opened up about her insecurities on Instagram, revealing the right side of her face that she says she was “ashamed” of."
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Beauty is harmony not perfection.
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i really like the way you put it and its so true!
beautiful
@Julie Plummer beauty is important in a person's life but doesn't have to be an aesthetic thing. Death can be beautiful
@Julie Plummer Gotta love them neurones
Another thing to note: We're used to seeing our own faces in the mirror, so when it's flipped, the asymmetry becomes twice as bad to us as other people see it. Don't fret over it!
Thank you!!:)
yeah you only look flipped in camera:) that's why you always look better in mirrors. so if u feel like u look better in the mirror then that's how other ppl see u
Great point!
FACT.
@@mitskilover4life thanks I needed this
I hate when people claim to not notice something obvious on someone at an attempt to make them feel better, but i've followed marzia for around 5 years and legitimately never noticed. Also i can't believe inside edition managed to leech an entire news piece off of "pewdiepie's wife's" face
I love to watch you on any Pewd's related videos💕 and talking about faces, yours is so pretty!
same here. i’ve followed her since like 2014 and never noticed it. just always thought she was beautiful!
Alex 👁
I did notice she never really shows her right part of her face but i do the same so i thought it's normal lol
Honestly I’ve never noticed it before this video.
Asymmetry is the reason we prefer the way we look in a mirror compared to a photo. We get used to one side of asymmetry and when it flips our brain kinda freaks out as if something happened to our face.
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i hate looking in the mirror and photos equally
I rely to that
@@Immortal_BP me too.
I like looking in the spoon
This is wild to me because I’ve always thought Marzia was so incredibly beautiful. Like so so jealous of her!
A little asymmetry don’t make someone ugly, shes gorgeous, but maybe someone commented on her face and then she got obsessed about it, theres always trolls and mean people trying to bring other people down
This! Helped open my eyes more about body dysmorphia. 'Cause we all see how gorgeous she is but she sees (saw?) flaws. I sure miss her channel
that's body dysmorphia for ya. it's wild how much it can affect someone's perception of themselves.
She is gorgeous, but I’m sure you are too!
An indicator that goes to show that asymmetry is just as beautiful =]
I used to be extremely insecure about my asymmetrical jaw and thought I couldn't be pretty because of it but then I noticed Marzia's asymmetry and it really made me feel better because if she can be so beautiful with it then so can I.
Yes!
Same here :) But I noticed Tyler Posey's chin asymmetry and I think that it gives him so much character
Yes. You just have to nail every other facial marker. Easy... :D
People shouldn't get so in their heads about this. Peyton List and Kat Graham are in front of camera all the time with their asymmetrical features. And people still find them beautiful
Exactly 🙌🏼💗
Not all symmetrical faces are attractive and not all assymetrical faces are unattractive. Harmony makes beauty
you're right
I didn't think there were symmetrical faces.
The whole point was there are no symmetrical faces
@@roseharvey2664there are people who have faces that are close to being symmetrical. Look at that pic of beyonce he used
I used to only take left side or leaning Selfies as well. I find my face incredibly asymmetrical and distracting, my eyes and nose especially. I’ve mostly got over it, there are other more pressing matters to cry over at the age of 35, like massive under eye hollows and the beginnings of sagging cheeks. Ugh!
Since the moment I knew about Marzia's existence, I was flabbergasted by how gorgeous she is and became kinda jealous. I've never realized that she has an asymmetrical face, I just saw her face as ''omg WHY is she so stunning''.
I'm glad she is starting to embrace her beauty more instead of fixating on the ''less perfect'' points.
Same. Same. Same! I was so confused by the title
Same, she looks like a model or something
Like first thing I thought when I saw her was “wow she really is beautiful”
Marzia has an ethereal beauty, I hadn’t noticed her asymmetry. I’m glad she’s finding more peace within and sharing with us. Personally, I’ve found with time, I don’t care as much about such fine-tuned details. I still care about my appearance, I’m just not hyper-focused on it anymore!
@@youheartmel I agree!
@@AngelBien well we never know if she edited her pictures :/
As an artist, I can confirm that assymetry is beautiful and a normality. If you try drawing a perfectly symmetrical face it comes out as unnatural, weird and uncanny even
Yeah uncanny valley
Yeah, when someone uses the mirror tool to draw faces you instantly notice it
It's creepy when they show symmetrical version eg Beyonce
The asymmetrical study is flawed. The brain detects the weird lighting and this it looks weird. A photoshop copy of the other side does not make a more symmetrical 3d model
But that could also be due to the uncanny-ness of a perfectly symmetrical facial expression. I think if a perfectly symmetrical human did exist, its not like their face would constantly be a mirror image on both sides, because they would have a facial expression. They would just look very beautiful.
I appreciate that you didn't use the term "PewDiePie's wife" in the title to talk about Marzia, she's really earned her own popularity and fan base :) nice video!
A majority of her popularity comes from pewdiepie but I agree she shouldn’t be called pewdiepie’s wife she’s her own person
I don't think she would accomplished that much without his fame 🤷♀️
@@Bllairy yet she managed to makr a name on her own so it's only right to refer her as her own name, not as "pewdiepie's wife"
Pewdiepie is the only reason I even know her
@@Bllairy but who cares? It’s a different brand. People that watched her videos regularly didn’t WATCH HER because she’s affiliated with felix, they were simply introduced to her content because of him. The views she pulled regularly were because people enjoyed her content.
It’s very comforting when you struggle with facial asymmetry….and a professional in the field says “it’s NORMAL! And more attractive to the brain!”
This is what the young girls of this generation need to hear, before they all deform their faces trying to be “PERFECT” by societies standards
Marzia is drop dead gorgeous. Her asymmetrical facial features are unique and it makes her special because she's not you vogue type beautiful face out there.
I really appreciate how as a facial plastic surgeon you are actually promoting body positivity and self acceptance of ones self rather than doing what so many other surgeons do, pick out imperfections to fix. I have been so self conscious about my nose, side profile. after a the cartilage at the tip was damaged during a karate tournament. As I live in the UK the NHS won't repair it as it's considered cosmetic. For me it both, as I can't breath out my right nostril due to a deviated septum, which the ENT consultant did offer to fix, but not my tip. This video has definitely helped me re think my nose. I am what I am. I would love my old nose back but it's not as bad I think it is. Us humans project way too much negativity onto ourselves. Thanks again for a great video. Love your content. Also think you are beautiful 😁
Thanks!
@@drgarylinkov You are most welcome. Love your content.
As a registered nurse, In critical care I really enjoy how you break things down and explain things in detail. Very educational. Makes me consider doing my nurse prescribing course so I can learn about cosmetic practice and provide treatment. I have a fairly good knowledge base of facial anatomy; however I need to learn more though before I even think about becoming an Aesthetic nurse.
I’m in the Uk and have had two septorhino’s on the nhs. The second was a revision. It’s very possible to do but you have to fight for it.
My story is slightly different, I broke my nose as a child and drs refused to operate as I was too young, then I also had to wait for jaw surgery due to an underbite which they won’t operate until at least 21 (as the bones continue to develop into your mid/late 20’s). I was told there’s no point doing the nose until the jaws were done as the jaw surgery would affect the nasal area.
But once I had the jaw surgery I pushed at every followup that I needed the rhino because I couldn’t breathe. Sure I wanted an aesthetic difference (but at that point I hadn’t breathed through my nose for years so I didn’t know what I was missing, I just wanted it to look nicer). Then after the first rhino I ‘got greedy’ since the symmetry hadn’t improved significantly (but by then I could breathe perfectly) so I insisted it didn’t look right.
Once they operate and create an aesthetic difference they take on responsibility if you become disillusioned/ ‘traumatised’ by the change. They need you to be happy with the results/ have realistic expectations.
The reason I mention this is because it’s something they don’t tell you- getting your septum fixed will often change the ‘cosmetic’ appearance of your nose, it could become bigger or narrower etc. So the surgeon will most often have to make slight aesthetic adjustments, and if they’re nice/ like their job/ have some compassion, they will happily make changes that you politely request (within reason) -like I had a slight ‘hump’ shaved down.
At the end of the day it’s being done by a surgeon with aesthetic training alongside reconstructive, who does cosmetic procedures often, they’re not going to walk out of a consult without finding out from you personally what the issue is and whether you’re prepared for the possibility of an aesthetic change, where you can insert “this ___ also bothers me, is there anything that can be done?”.
I know it sounds manipulative but there’s no other way to get nhs help without being overly dramatic about your symptoms. Tell your gp, dentist, whoever, and insist on a referral. As someone who hated their nose (it was an ugly useless object) and now can breathe with a closed mouth I cannot stress how amazing it is to actually breathe through your nose, it changes your posture, your fitness, the way you talk, the list goes on.
Fight for yourself, good luck.
@@ahumanaperson Good idea. I wonder if such strategy could work in my country.
I've watched a lot of your videos now, and you always come off as empathic and non judgemental. Those traits are depicted fairly rarely online... Love your channel, thanks for making videos.
Thank you!
I like that about him, too! You can tell he is genuinely intelligent, not just in his field of medical expertise. Understands the complexities of the world and human lives. Most of the time, there is no absolute good or bad, wrong or right. Things are not black an white, there is gradation and that's where it gets complicated to make the fitting decision and you need to look into the details and specificity of the situation.
Dr. Gary is a gem !
I’m a new subscriber. I really like your channel. You have a great chill demeanor and I enjoy listening to you. As for asymmetry, for years I couldn’t get my glasses to lay straight on my face, and it dawned on me that one of my ears is slightly higher than the other ! The optometrist always adjusts the correctly, but any sunglasses or readers I buy off the shelf I have a problem with.
This has to be the best surgeon I’ve came across. You know how they always come off as “better than everyone else”? I love the down to earth and humbleness of this human. Thank you!
On a side note his symmetry is pretty damn perfect 😂
ever since i first saw marzia my jaw literally dropped; she’s just so gorgeous
Ever since I first saw Marzia, I noticed her asymmetry. Having said that, she’s still so so so beautiful.
The best medicine to help with asymmetric face is to accept it and embrace it 😌
Strangely, I've never been able to notice it.
To be honest it makes me feel better about mine because she is so absolutely beautiful.
yeah me too, until I found out she had several rhinoplasties and has used fillers a lot. She looks nothing like her real self anymore, she hasn't embraced anything
@@johnhomie609 has she ever spoken about it? i don’t see any videos about it
@@johnhomie609 she had a rhinoplasty to fix her deviated septum which caused her breathing issues, and the fillers were (I believe) for her top lip to balance it out with her lower lip (since her top lip was thinner) cause she had insecurities about it. She's pretty much had no other work done aside from that...and she was always transparent about it in her videos. When she talked about her rhinoplasty, they offered to do work on the shape of her nose but she declined and just fixed the septum. If you look at old photos of her compared to photos now her face looks pretty much the same. The only difference is how she does her make up and her teeth because she had Invisalign
I've always been insecure. So, even though I don't have TikTok, the symmetrical face trend still came under my radar. That trend was a huge blow to my confidence. Ouch. The sad thing is, I know that most beauty standards are stupid but I just can't help myself. Videos like this sort of help me feel better about myself so I appreciate you for making it.
Love ur ryo pfp :))
Things like that are only what you notice since you are so used to seing your reflection of your face. Other people are used to seeing your real face and would prefer it. So if you are about to send someone a selfie, you should really send them a picture of your face but flipped to the version you don't like. If you send them the "mirror" face, then they would see the face they are not used to, like you do when you see your "real" face. But in reality, even that difference is not that big merely because of the fact that they are not you. They don't see your face all the time on their phones, in mirrors and in reflections like you do. Your brain compensates for all the imperfections and asymmetries, so when you see an image of your face that is different, those imperfections are hugely exaggerated to you. But for other people, it's not a big deal.
u can change ur face natrually if u do mewing look up on youtube
I never knew I had an asymmetrical face until I did that challenge 😂
I remember that trend, but if I remember correctly it was disproven, because the focal point of the the front camera makes your face look different and that the closest thing to what you actually look like is the mirror. So no need to be insecure friend.
As a girl w an extremely unsymmetrical face which I was extremely self conscious about, I always considered Marzia one of the most beautiful people I have ever seen! She’s genuinely so pretty, comes to show that our insecurities are in our head
I've always thought Marzia was stunning, but this goes to show that even the most beautiful have the same insecurities. I've begun to really adore striking features on people. I used to hate my own nose so much I would tear up just looking in the mirror. I still don't like myself very much, but maybe one day.
“But maybe one day”
I can't see the asymmetry that Marzia is describing. By how much it bothered her it sounds more like body dysmorphic disorder than anything else.
AGREE
it didn't really showed in the photos she posted but i believe it's mostly because of her nose, she had a nose surgery because it was hard for her to breath, and i believe after that it ended up a bit croked, she made a video about it many years ago but i believe she deleted it. This can only be noticed if you see her from the front but she only takes profile pics. None the less she is a beautiful woman and i hope she makes peace with herself.
really? I noticed it right away. She is honestly beautiful and the asymmetry is like a cute quirk, specifically her smile and jaw.
pay attention to her nose and lips and jaw, they are unsymmetrical, i have noticed this from a long time ago its just people dont talk about it because its rude
Yes deffinitely, but me personaly I can't. My face looks awful.
*cries in asymmatrical jawline*
Botox can help if that's caused by you clenching or chewing on one side. It's a really thing to get done but costs $500ish
Same here 😭 funny thing is I usually find it attractive in other people but when i see myself I hate it so fkn much
me too lol
Me too
My left side is bigger than right and it's disgusting 😵
Same girl
i cant recommend this more, its so assuring comforting and im sure a lot of people should hear ur words. Thank you so much!
This is a great video. Influencers on social media usually portray their face as perfectly symmetrical so it’s always made me quite insecure. Having people like Mariza present on such platforms is really important and really helps. I loved hearing your thoughts on this. Loved it !
What scares me more is that social media is absent mindedly promoting symmetry equals beautiful. Especially that inverted filter in tiktok. A lot of people are getting sad seeing their face inverted which is normal. It's so sad.
Bro i literaly look like shrek with that filter
Stop blaming a tool, you are just misleading yourself and make false conclusions. It is not about Tiktok or whatever, it is about human nature.
I love drawing faces, so I often love to study pictures of peoples faces. People are beautiful! :) The asymmetry is often the things I like, and make people unique. I used to be self-conscious of my own features, but then I grew to appreciate them as I noticed how pretty much everyone has asymmetry. Marzia has a lovely face.
Same, I used to fight the asymmetry in my drawings till I learned to see the charm and beauty in them. A perfectly symmetrical drawing or person can be pretty but ultimately to me, it’s just not interesting and you can’t truly see the beauty and uniqueness through their features when they’re mirrored perfectly. And also I’m lazy so what comes out comes out lmao
Thank you so much for your education on the naturalness of facial asymmetry, Dr. Linkov! And for posting links to the journal articles.
Getting this kind of information from a doctor is gold, thank you :)
You literally put all my worries away when you were listing out the normal facial features such as higher eyebrows + eyes, uneven lips, muscles pulling more on one side and especially the one abt one cheek being more fuller since I notice that about my face.
same here
I used to watch her CZcams videos. Her face wasn’t crazy asymmetric but her nose was noticeably crooked. I think she wrote a blog about. If I remember correctly she had surgery (non cosmetic) which left it crooked and her traumatized. She got it fixed a couple years ago. It’s nice to know what studies show that some asymmetry is preferred. Wish more people know and realize that
Nope, she had a deviated septum fixed. Her nose was already crooked and she specifically asked the surgeon to try and keep her natural nose shape as much as possible which is why it was still crooked after and ultimately after healing the visual changes were pretty minor. There was no nose surgery before this and no trauma. A re-upload of her original video about the surgery is up on youtube.
No. There is no such a thing as "preferred asymmetry" Perfectly symmetric faces are always the most optimal.
@@onlygameplay134 Perfect symmetry looks robotic and creepy. He literally talked about it in the video, read the articles he linked down in the description.
@@onlygameplay134 I appreciate some asymmetry here and there actually
@@dimitrischronis146 Good for you...
When Marzia made her Instagram post about this I finally felt less alone. If one of the most beautiful women I've seen is insecure about half her face like I am, it's probably not as glaring to other people as it is me. I still struggle but Marzia genuinely helped me.
This really helped me deal with some facial insecurities. Thank you so much!
This is seriously such a lovely video, this is the first surgeon that I’ve seen who is so down to earth and doesn’t strive or advertise with perfection. Makes me feel so much better about myself because I feel like I’m a whole different person on my left side.
u can do mewing look on youtube it might help in your situation
And yet, we saw nothing on Marzia's asymmetry. Still, Gary's content here is valuable on the subject.
It was more about the way she felt about her situation and facial asymmetry in general.
@@drgarylinkov Absolutely. Ultimately, that was the point on one's own perceptions.
She only showed one side of her face on this picture so its not possible to perceive any asymmetry. I do believe she had work done though because if you look at her older pictures you can tell something’s off. Not saying there’s anything wrong with getting work done btw.
@@drgarylinkov I actually really respect the fact that you talked about how she felt and normalised the situation, instead of taking a head on photo of her and breaking down what parts were the most Asymmetrical and how this could be dealt with like I've seen with other surgeons online. The former is really important knowledge, especially for young people who are really struggling with their self image due to unrealistic standards, and the latter is not really helpful for anyone and would only be upsetting for Marzia if she saw it, and others who are also concerned about Asymmetry.
Great video.
@@TheAngelgirl7 She had a nose job (apparently because she couldn't breathe properly). I don't know if she had anything else done.
What a gentle commentary, thank you for that.
I cannot thank you enough for posting this video!!! So positive encouraging to hear 🥰🥰🥰
I really like the way you are stressing what is normal because it gets difficult to discern what is normal when you are constantly seeing images of people who seem to be so perfect and so much more attractive than you (in media and stuff)
If you can't see the asymmetry, its more prominent at her mouth, so when she smiles, it a bit crooked to one side (a bit similar to Tyler Posey's) . Regardless of that, she's still very beautiful and shouldn't be embarrassed about it.
This video hit so close to me because just like Marzia and many others I too am conscious about my right profile of the face. Your advice on this asymmetrical aspect of human anatomy really felt something my ears wanted to hear.
I think it's amazing how the face can come in so many shapes & forms. I have slightly different eye shapes but I've learned to love it as I grew up. Coming across Marzia actually helped me come to terms with my facial features so I'm glad she likes them more now than before.
Marzia is the prettiest girl I've ever seen.....like, she looks better than all the symmetrical looking faces. I'm not comparing her for the sake of comparingz I'm saying asymmetry is beautiful
right, i adore her so much.
I have to agree with you.
Agreed! Marzia is extremely beautiful.
Marzia was my favourite content creator on the platform. I'm sad she doesn't make content anymore. I actually found Pewds through watching Marzia. I always thought she looks beautiful and has great facial features. But I understand seeing your flaws in a more obvious way because we (well some people) are more critical of the self than to others.
Same man, I was so confused with the title of this video, she seemed kinda perfect face-wise
so what kind of content she makes? Another fake celebrity like Paris Hilton?
Your videos always help me with my insecurities and I always feel confident about myself at the end.
I always hated my bumpy nose, it’s not bad but always been one of my insecurities. But now I feel confident with my natural nose.
I want to say thank you! 🙏🙏
this made me feel a little better about my asymetries, thank you
I kind of wish I never noticed my facial asymmetry 🙈🙈 because it’s been so difficult to ignore it ever since. However as you pointed out, if I make a mirror image of either side of my face...it’s worse than what my asymmetrical face looks like altogether. One side definitely looks better tho 🙈 so I really get what Marzia must be going through. I hope we all just learn to love ourselves 💜
u can make it more even if u do mewing look on youtube
@@timadams2371 mewing only works when you're below the age of 20
I love how she opened up about having these insecurities. I used to be so obsessed with my own asymmetrical face, but with age and time have come to not really mind at all. Hearing this from Marzia will help a lot of people, I know. And, she's absolutely stunning from both angles!
You made me feel a lot better about my asymmetrical eyes and brows, honestly it bothered me for years but hearing it being normal from a plastic surgeon was a wake up call. My face is awesome, I really need to stop picking myself apart like that.
I think she’s so beautiful and it’s so sad that all the opinions that have been mean and cruel because of her visibility… truly touched her and threw her off. She’s a beautiful soul 🖤
As a mom of 3 who just turned 40 I’m happy that I have embraced my physical appearance with kindness and feel as though I look younger than I did in my 20’s. Quitting smoking, limiting alcohol, and using sunscreen are complete game changers at ANY age!
Wonderful!
I actually always noticed her asymmetry, but it just makes her unique!
Yeah. She's still beautiful
This is what I needed. Thank you so much for your words.
🙏🙏
This was such a kind and doctorly response...
I’m really glad you talked about how sometimes on one side your smile can kinda pull more on one side than the other side. I’ve never really heard anyone mention it and its refreshing to actually hear someone talk about it
It blows my mind how much people worry about things that other people never even notice. I hope they find some peace and can learn to love their uniqueness.
I dont even understand why people have to make a comment about it. I have an insecurity with my ears thanks to some assholes that made fun of me in school. And sadly since then i can't wear ponytails. So I feel for this girl that probably this insecurity wasn't a big deal before but now you has to live with it
@@Stephaniacat Since you're struggling with ear issues, I'd like to volunteer my unfiltered opinion on ears. Most of the time, I do not even consider people's ears, with very few exceptions. Former US president Barack Obama has some massive ears and I've noticed on very rare occasion someone with excessive wax buildup to the point where it was visible, but otherwise I don't even notice people's ears. I have NEVER, not ONCE, seen someone in a ponytail and been like, _Whoa, that's such a bad look. They really should not have shown their ears to the world today._ Just wanted to share. Hope this helps in some way.
This was really soothing and comforting to watch. Thanks. ☺️
Thanks so much for this video. I’ve always been self conscious of my assymmetry in my face, I had heard somewhere perfect symmetry is the most beautiful. I needed to see and hear the truth.
I remember Mariah Carey having major insecurities about this issue, she used to hang her hair over one side of her face.
Off topic, but you're really rocking the bald look. My partner suffers from alopecia areata at times of extreme stress, but only in patches on his beard and head. I've seen firsthand how hard it can be to have your appearance alter like that in ways that are out of your control; I just wanted to say that I really admire the way you're handling it with grace and openness.
Bald men are really hot imo. Stop stigmatizing looks people!!
@@agstinacueva1673 I agree, bald men are hot.
Hey, Samyuktha Diaries here on CZcams has a lot of effective recipes for homemade remedies related to hair issues if you want to check them out :)
The timing on this video feels almost like fate! I had noticed my mouth was asymmetrical and it was beginning to bother me because I heard it said that symmetry was the key to being attractive. This gets rid of those worries!
You explain so beautifully I wish we had teachers like you❤️❤️❤️ keep making videos❤️
How thoughtful and nice. Good job my dude
''symmetry is not everything" he says with a perfectly symmetrical face himself. I see you Dr. Gary
his eyes are slightly asymmetrical. it's funny how we don't see it in other people but see it in ourselves
His face is not symmetrical, which is rlly good, completely symmetrical faces are unsettling as hell imo
Were you not listening….
@@jc_3679 yeah, most people won't even notice most of your asymmetries unless you point them out, and even then they will be like "It's not a big deal". We are our harshest critics.
Take an image of him looking straight at the camera and then reflect the left side. Then try the right side.
I'm so glad that I found this video, bc I've been struggling with the same as Marzia's insecuritie, so thank you so much, u are a great human ❤️
I clicked on the video expecting something like criticizing her, or what would an expert do to "repair" her, and ending feeling bad about myself, but it was totally the opposite, thank you for making people feel better with ourselves and for saying that its completely normal and nothing to be ashamed of, ily ❤️
My pleasure!
Absolutely symmetrical faces have that "uncanny valley" effect to them, they somehow look terrifying.
But I can understand her, when it seems to you like your face is too asymmetrical, you feel insecure about it. I myself have poor facial symmetry, it's especially obvious in the ID pics, and it is frustrating sometimes.
I have every single asymmetry that you mentioned starting 3:34 up to the muscles causing asymmetry in 4:11😂
More than asymmetry I would describe it as "personality". Something that makes you look more friendly or human, or whose facial expressions are easier to relate to. To me Marzia is one of the most beautiful girls I've seen on the internet, whenever she posts pictures on Instagram I'm just starstruck by her beauty as well as her style. I hope she can battle her insecurities - especially because with her, there really is no reason to worry. The lenghts she went to "hide" the asymmetry on her face sounded like she had one eye on her cheekbone and the other on her forehead lol I think her insecurities stem from the inside rather than the outside. I understand what she feels like but I also think she has absolutely no reason to worry lol
This video brought me a lot of comfort.. I always worried about how unsymmetrical my face was. The left side of my lip is not as full as the other and one of my eyes look more slanted. I thought this was something to be ashamed of but now I’m realizing it’s normal. Thank you :)
Thank you Dr Gary great listening to you.
Your such a nice humble Dr sending blessings your way Doc!!!
One of my eyes/eyebrow is higher than the other. I'm self conscious about it. Maybe I'm just too hard on myself and others don't really notice it? Good video Doc!
Same my right eyebrow is a bit higher than my left one. I asked my brother about this and he said he didn’t noticed it until I pointed it out. I would say don’t worry about it, because most of the time people don’t even notice it! For example look at Bradley cooper, he has the most asymmetrical face in Hollywood and he is still attractive (same with Paul McCartney)
Almost everybody's is. Don't worry!
One of my eye sits way higher than the other to the point that several people in my life have pointed it out spontaneously. The symmetrical face trend on tik tok with the reverse filter has made me even more self conscious about it. When I first tried it, I thought there was a distorting effect on the flipped image and when I came to realize it’s just the way my face looks it made me feel so depressed. Since it comes from my bone structure (my eye sockets are misaligned) I don’t think there’s anything I can even do about it surgically.
That being said, I’ve noticed Marzia’s asymmetry from day 1 but it never made me think of her as less beautiful. I’m trying to extend myself the same grace though it can be very difficult.
Yes please extend yourself the same grace!!
This video makes me feel so much better.
Thank you for making this video to speak about this topic. It’s very reassuring to know that it is normal to be asymmetrical ❤
I think it's beautiful how we can look a little different from different angles. Means people won't get bored of seeing the same thing.. just like our personalities our face has different sides to it each side offering a different insight a different amazing look 💖❣
Great video Dr. Gary! I have a pretty asymmetrical face myself (more asymmetrical than most) and I never had an insecurity until getting a consultation from a maxillofacial surgeon. He told me that facial symmetry equated to beauty and that he could give be "better" results with double jaw surgery. It sounded horrific so I didn't go through with it, and now I'm so glad I didn't! More doctors and surgeons should aspire to be like you and seek to give advice that's in the patient's best interest, not instill insecurity in hopes of them scheduling a procedure.
If you see her straight on while she's speaking it's primarily her smile where you can see the asymmetry however, her smile is charming and she's a pretty woman so I never thought of the asymmetry as a negative. It's simply an objective and individual part of her look. But we all know it only takes one or two unkind comments to plant an insidious seed of doubt in our minds.
Nice seeing this video. Lately I've been bothered with my facial assymmetry. I see myself as normal in the mirror but whenever it's flipped I notice the asymmetries and it bothers me becausd that's how people actually see me... It's nice knowing other people don't really notice the details like you yourself do.
I never thought about facial symmetry until I had bell's palsy. Thankfully I healed after a month but I think anyone who had it can relate to now being hyperfixated on your facial symmetry - both worried that things didn't fully heal and that we might suddenly get it again.
THE MARIO BIT KILLED ME
I noticed Marzia's asymmetrical features, but I never thought they made her less attractive. In fact I thought her smile was so unique and beautiful! She also made me feel better about my asymmetrical features because I used to tear myself apart whenever I saw pictures of myself because I thought my face was grotesquely asymmetrical. I'm shocked that she would ever be ashamed! She's so pretty!
Thank you! This genuinely made me feel better about my own asymmetry! ✨
I honestly NEVER look at a person and think “wow, their face is asymmetrical”. I just don’t notice it whatsoever. So don’t worry about asymmetry! People probably don’t even see it and if they do, they usually won’t even think it necessarily makes you less attractive anyway. If they do, they’re the abnormal ones.
She used to have a deviated septum. She got it corrected so she could breath better when asleep. I wonder how much of her perception of having a lopsided face came from that.
this guy is so chill
I like your approach very much. You seem a very honest and genuine doctor and person. Thanks for embracing non “perfection” thanks
I love Marzia! It's part of her brand to have that beautiful crooked smile. I made a portrait of her years ago and that was something that's unique to her. I am happy for her to have this revelation for her.
Thank you for this information. I've always been so embarrassed of my face being so asymmetrical so thank you
Wow, so glad I saw this video! I’m the same with Marzia, more insecure about my right side of my face and always noticed the differences. This video made me feel much more comfortable about it!
You dont know how much I NEEDED this!! 💗💗💗 i feel so much better :’>>>
Literally everyone has an asymmetrical face.. You're still very beautiful tho.. I have an asymmetrical jaw and hate it sometimes but most people still think I'm beautiful.. Sometimes beauty isn't perfect.. Doesn't have to be..
Loved this video! Ethical and empathetic, and with such an important message.
Thank you for this reflection and the original articles... I'll give them a look, it's a interesting topic!
Dr. Linkov, your content is superb.
Thank you for showing all those examples of normal assymetry. I have some assymetry to my face and I've been self-conscious of it before.
I like you Gary. You're probably the first cosmetic surgeon that has basically said "hey, asymmetry is ok, and this things are fine and normal". (something along those lines).
I like how you came across, very empathetic and not trying to destroy someone's looks, like I've seen from every other cosmetic surgeons before (and I've been watching cosmetic reality shows/videos since I was 12 y/o, believe me when i say you're the first one) but instead trying to make them feel good about who they are.
I like you. please, don't lose that empathetic trait, it'll set you apart in this career.
I'm not from the States, cause otherwise I'd love to have an appointment with you.
I’m so glad I found this video. I used to stare at myself for long periods of time lifting up one side of my face or wearing my hair to one side to distract from the asymmetry I have. That’s why my picture is sideways because I thought it was too noticeable if I kept it right side up.
Marzia is one of my fav human beings she's gorgeous, talented, super nice , she's perfectly amazing , i truly respect/love her and wish her all the best in her life ❤️❤️❤️
Its actually nice to see someone talk about how embarrassing it can feel and all the wild hoops you jump through to hide half your face. I have a weird asymmetricaly angled jaw that I always cover with my hair. I basically have no jawline on one side😬 I just got filler for the first time last week tho and I feel a lot better but its still pretty noticeable that my face has a weird angle going on
The sound of your voice is so soothing 🥴 anyways what an interesting topic to address! it makes me feel a lot better about my uneven eyebrows :) i had an accident as a child and the scar tissue slightly elevated one eyebrow so ive always been self conchas (conscious) about it 😭 ive trained to rest my face a certain way so its not as noticeable but marizia is absolutely right... ITS EXHAUSTING 😭 thanks for the video 💖
This channel helps me love myself
I love yt videos like this that address issues that aren't even at the forefront of our minds culturally. For a long time during my teenage years to early 20's I was unhappy with my nose my teeth and the overall asymmetry of my face. I turned 30 this year... and I guess I'm lucky because as time has gone on I have felt more and more secure with my appearance, to the point that i barely even think about it. Strangely enough I think that's largely due to the fact that our Society has become so obsessed by it that it had the opposite effect on me and completely disillusioned me to the obsession with looks. For whatever reason I became way more focused with the internal aspects of myself, as opposed to the external. Maybe I'm just lucky, as a lot of the things we're influenced by choose us... versus us choosing them. But the way that I think of it is in the grand scheme of life, how big of a problem is my nose. Insignificant isn't a big enough word to explain it. Not to delegitimize the people who really struggle with their appearance, because I know that struggle. That struggle is real and can be utterly heartbreaking. But in my estimation, a lot of people out there just need somebody to tell them that they're beautiful, as corny as it sounds, we all really are.