I tried dating apps for serious relationships | dating horror stories, my profile, app comparisons

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  • čas přidán 15. 01. 2022
  • I hope you enjoy this video on my real life experience using dating apps! Let me know if you've ever used dating apps and have any stories to share~
    Please like and subscribe if you haven't already, and leave a comment on what videos you'd like to see from me in the future :)
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    0:35 Why I started using dating apps
    2:53 Dating app comparison
    8:00 Dating profile
    11:28 Real reactions to my dating profile
    15:48 Matching & dating
    19:12 Dating horror stories
    21:49 Dating app pros & cons
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Komentáře • 84

  • @CastleXm
    @CastleXm Před 2 lety +118

    Thank you for sharing this. I am reaching my mid 20s and have never dated anyone- I have just preferred to be alone. However, this has resulted in me being afraid to even explore anything with anyone. I love your review and the way that you are genuinely looking for something serious. This has given be a little boost in confidence and I am considering trying a dating app now :)

    • @YooJin
      @YooJin  Před 2 lety +14

      This was me too during my 3-4 year dating hiatus! I think it’s good to get yourself out there and figure out what you like when you’re comfortable doing so :) best of luck!

    • @inactiveuser555
      @inactiveuser555 Před rokem +3

      There’s a holy GOD in Heaven, Who created you and I for His glory, but our sins have separated us from Him. the wages of sin is DEATH, but the FREE Gift of GOD is eternal life in CHRIST the LORD. CHRIST died for our sins and was raised to life for our justification. repent, stop living in sin, and believe in the Gospel.

    • @Blonderellas
      @Blonderellas Před rokem +2

      Same

    • @Blonderellas
      @Blonderellas Před rokem

      @@inactiveuser555 calm thy self

  • @therightkindofpen
    @therightkindofpen Před 2 lety +17

    Thanks for sharing the real life responses. Listing your matches in a chart is the level of organization I aspire towards!

    • @inactiveuser555
      @inactiveuser555 Před rokem

      There’s a holy GOD in Heaven, Who created you and I for His glory, but our sins have separated us from Him. the wages of sin is DEATH, but the FREE Gift of GOD is eternal life in CHRIST the LORD. CHRIST died for our sins and was raised to life for our justification. repent, stop living in sin, and believe in the Gospel.

  • @musicuniverse1356
    @musicuniverse1356 Před rokem +32

    I enjoyed your video. As a 38 year-old male, I found Bumble to be the best. I matched with a lot of women my age on there (37-41). Tinder is the worst app. I didn’t get any matches there. I’ve also found for me as a man, it is more productive to wait for women to like me first as opposed to me swiping through a thousand profiles.

    • @joshuaqwertyx
      @joshuaqwertyx Před 7 měsíci +1

      🤣😭

    • @BrianWaller-qe7gr
      @BrianWaller-qe7gr Před 4 měsíci

      Most guys like 80-85% can create a profile and come back in a week and have very few females that swiped on them. Only the hot chads will get swipes

  • @lewistian7975
    @lewistian7975 Před 2 lety +4

    wow, love that sketch-looking selfie in the intro~

  • @fakrbob4099
    @fakrbob4099 Před rokem +5

    Thank you. This calmed a lot of my anxiety around dating in grad school

  • @kollective3608
    @kollective3608 Před 2 lety +17

    We are the same person!! I do pro and cons list for the men I date and keep notes too. I’m a christian too and didn’t love Upward unfortunately but hinge is definitely the better option!

  • @pallavi_hehe
    @pallavi_hehe Před 2 lety +7

    Loved it !! so interesting and fun.. such a mood lifter.. loved your honesty..

    • @pallavi_hehe
      @pallavi_hehe Před 2 lety +1

      ily and loved the pros cons list with straight lines drawn

  • @kannot1
    @kannot1 Před 2 lety +5

    About the thin eyebrows: castor oil is fantastic! I shaved off my eyebrows & applied castor oil everyday - in 2 weeks they grew back! 👀💕

  • @JonathanGarcia-ud2de
    @JonathanGarcia-ud2de Před rokem

    Thank you Ella's Life for posting & sharing this video. I have learned alot from this video & I look forward to reviewing the video again to learn more.

  • @Sirg17x
    @Sirg17x Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thanks for your perspective. You seem down to earth and I could relate to what you are using the apps for goal wise. I still am not sure how I feel about dating apps as I was in a long term relationship before they really took off, but I am trying to learn what I can. That long term relationship ended roughly 4 months ago now. I know that I may at some point choose to use an app or two in conjunction with trying to naturally find someone. I think its also important to keep in mind that you take time to heal after longer more involved relationships as you want to present your best self when searching for a relationship. Presenting your unhealed self can be off-putting or land you in a relationship that is only grounded in trauma which can be shaky and toxic as a foundation.

  • @faith.92048
    @faith.92048 Před rokem +5

    I love this video online dating is super hard but once you find the right person it is totally
    worth it. I also keep notes about guys too and even write letters to them during the process of trying to move on so don't worry. You will find the right guy one day it just takes time.

    • @Kitty-Cattie
      @Kitty-Cattie Před rokem

      Oh wow this is a really good idea. I love it

  • @m1r__
    @m1r__ Před rokem +4

    I don't need dating apps cause I'm already in a relationship, but Hinge would probably be the best because it has nationality and ethnicity filters, so its easy to keep out the crazies

  • @EjAmongansTV20009831
    @EjAmongansTV20009831 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank's for sharing your dating experience.and I've learned so much

  • @cupcake125
    @cupcake125 Před 2 lety +13

    this was interesting! thanks for sharing :)) I never dared to try dating apps and have never dated anyone. i'm just too afraid somehow :( also becuase some ppl ik used dating apps to prank others, which i think rly isn't very nice

    • @YooJin
      @YooJin  Před 2 lety +2

      Yeah, you have to be careful! Thankfully it’s a bit easier to figure out whether people are telling the truth or not these days because we have the internet :)

  • @sophybirm9827
    @sophybirm9827 Před rokem +5

    Oh No! I wanted to hear more about the professor at the end of your video! please, Part 2 perhaps?

  • @mabuhaydxstitchamateurradi6351

    Thanks for sharing your dating experience 👍

  • @clauaome25
    @clauaome25 Před rokem

    Really liked your video!!

  • @SK-kk3fm
    @SK-kk3fm Před 5 měsíci

    I'm also a grad student in the US but my english is like intermediate so I am kind of worried about maybe people would not date with me if I use the apps. and also I am not sure how I can let them know I am not fluent but still can have somewhat conversation in my profile.

  • @H_K08
    @H_K08 Před 2 lety +2

    Love your video 😘😘

  • @juannahmae
    @juannahmae Před 2 lety +2

    I've learn many things on this vlog again

  • @by_Reshma
    @by_Reshma Před 2 lety +2

    Early Bird here ✨

  • @antaraanisa4221
    @antaraanisa4221 Před 2 lety +1

    You're so pretty ❤️ and tell yoora to post videos she literally disappeared after her last one🤡

  • @mohamedmenni5802
    @mohamedmenni5802 Před rokem

    Hello from new york i realy like the way you do this videos 😊

  • @harniesjourney
    @harniesjourney Před 2 lety +1

    Is new to me this hinge site I will try this I been also in different dating site but now I cannot open anymore coz I forgot the password your so nice. Alot of man like you there sissy but it's hard to prove it if they really a nice man we just becaredul in dating I will try this also. I am sure lot of man wants in this dating site

  • @wakakakawaka
    @wakakakawaka Před 2 lety

    Hi yoojin 🖐️😊 I've have just subscribed. I just wanted to know what app or software do you use to edit ur videos?

    • @YooJin
      @YooJin  Před rokem

      I use Final Cut Pro!

  • @moniquerussell5117
    @moniquerussell5117 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Hey where r u now and have u met anyone since this video?

  • @OFWLutongPinoyinCanada

    Great sharing, just be patience of someone who will come on your way and probably your partner in life.

  • @jasmingarcia152
    @jasmingarcia152 Před 2 měsíci

    I loved how informative this video was. As someone who is striving towards marriage, dating apps are beyond frightening. Did you pay for any of these apps services? If so, what was the cost?

  • @marcopolo2418
    @marcopolo2418 Před rokem +2

    I used to do very well on MeetMe. I didn't pay any money and didn't do any live videos. An I did great. Unfortunately nowadays MeetMe has gotten way way WAY worse.

  • @user-pu2hf2cs2c
    @user-pu2hf2cs2c Před 2 lety +4

    와 오늘 영상 너무 재미있었어욬ㅋㅋㅋ 요즘 한국도 데이트앱이 엄청 활성화 되고 있는 상황이거든요 ㅎㅎ 역시 연애에 관련된 수다가 제일 재미있는게 맞나봐요😏

  • @gsjdndnndns1818
    @gsjdndnndns1818 Před 2 lety +3

    Both of them talk the same way ..... By the way, love your content!!!

  • @happystress9903
    @happystress9903 Před 2 lety +13

    우와 이런 거 공유해주신 거 흥미로워요 ㅎㅎ 뭔가 한국에서는 아직도 데이팅앱에 대해서 가볍게 생각하는 경우가 많은데(사실 저도 그렇게 생각하구 ㅋㅋ) 외국은 확실히 다양한 수요에 맞는 데이팅 앱들이 많네요 ㅎㅎ

    • @inactiveuser555
      @inactiveuser555 Před rokem

      There’s a holy GOD in Heaven, Who created you and I for His glory, but our sins have separated us from Him. the wages of sin is DEATH, but the FREE Gift of GOD is eternal life in CHRIST the LORD. CHRIST died for our sins and was raised to life for our justification. repent, stop living in sin, and believe in the Gospel.

    • @mysterio5837
      @mysterio5837 Před rokem

      한국은 친구들 통해서 소개팅 부모님들 통해서 소개팅 등등 많아서 기회가 많죠. 외국은 소개팅 문화가 안되있어서 온라인 어플이 유일하다고 봐요

  • @andrewvasquez573
    @andrewvasquez573 Před rokem

    I’d have to say wow your just like me. You said you don’t like texting I’m the same way and your old school like me and rather meet someone face to face in person just like me. I hate texting maybe it’s just me

  • @vivacaciouslilyvlogs9366

    Thank you for sharing never knew this

  • @kadamatv2363
    @kadamatv2363 Před rokem

    Am single who is serious

  • @TanjaTHEAwesome
    @TanjaTHEAwesome Před 2 lety +6

    Really sorry you had that shitty racist date and I hope you have far better ones. I can totally relate to the lists thing xD I make pros and cons lists for a lot of things and it really helps. Also I thought at first with meeting up and not texting back and forth as like a scary bold move but you have such a good point, like you have no idea who they are pretending to be in texts vs. when you meet them. I was thinking of trying Bumble and doing virtual dates first as it seems a lot safer and then you get to really get a feeling for the person vs. texting back and forth. What'd you think?

  • @user-ve5wx6sw8h
    @user-ve5wx6sw8h Před 2 lety

    Wow thanks
    I gave the information about dating app.
    Korean's dating app itself doesn't recognize it.
    I think exactly abroad is different
    Today I subscribed.I will come often .

  • @paulchen355
    @paulchen355 Před 6 měsíci

    Her voice ❤

    • @paulchen355
      @paulchen355 Před 6 měsíci

      Jeez, PhD student at Stanford. I was very impressed by the way she speaks. Her education explains all that😂😂

  • @ratulnabiriyad3759
    @ratulnabiriyad3759 Před rokem +1

    hi

  • @Police-Officer-Fan-Club
    @Police-Officer-Fan-Club Před 2 měsíci

    I have never used dating apps because they were after my time and I quit online dating after a few months of trying. I felt like I was playing a slot machine every time. On the left, we have weirdos/losers. In the middle, it's all a bunch of aimless conversations that go nowhere or we were just trolling each other. On the right, we have dick pics...😒
    One time, I even had a married man ask me to have sex with him because his wife wouldn't put out! 😆
    I don't know why dating sites can't just be normal, or is it because the concept of online dating is NOT normal? 🤔

  • @mochimochi03
    @mochimochi03 Před 2 lety +2

    💝💝💝💝💝💝

  • @_tumemanques
    @_tumemanques Před 2 lety +3

    하하 저도 코로나 때문에 만나는 사람이 정말 줄었어요
    ㅋㅋ 영상 너무 재밌어요!!!!! 🤩
    ( 인종차별 .. 최악이네요 ...)

  • @andrewvasquez573
    @andrewvasquez573 Před rokem

    Thank you thank you thank you wow I’m the same way about texting you can’t tex in a relationship you have to get out there and meet face to face and if the one your talking to says well I’d rather tex then simply say ya goodbye. And find a guy like me who’s old school and still remember the old ways pro met before the internet and get out there and talk to people and make a spark

  • @namitpiriya
    @namitpiriya Před rokem

    Make a book so you can read it later. Stanford people.

  • @rail7646
    @rail7646 Před 6 měsíci

    choice paralysis everywhere nowadays

  • @mushroomt0p
    @mushroomt0p Před 2 lety +2

    Eyebrows lol. I’m attracted to beards!

  • @sangkayabuda
    @sangkayabuda Před rokem

    New friend 😊

  • @davidoster9055
    @davidoster9055 Před rokem

    Going through this, I just don't see how this is really the best way to connect with a person from a picture and a lame prompt and a cheesy one-liner. Of course, you're going to consistently yield bad results.

  • @ChuloWorld
    @ChuloWorld Před rokem

    I feel too black for non blacks and not black enough around black ppl. And that’s why I’m in isolation

  • @rose_7094
    @rose_7094 Před 2 lety

    I don't understand, is it possible to add an Arabic translation?😭💗💗

    • @newstar7681
      @newstar7681 Před rokem

      تتكلم عن تطبيق مواعده اللي كلها كذابين

  • @ryankeshet5820
    @ryankeshet5820 Před rokem +3

    About the date you went on, you're right that it was pretty F'ed up that he faked being a true CEO. But he was also kinda right about racism. It's not true that it doesn't exist (so if he said that, he's wrong), but it's definitely blown out of proportion by institutions and big tech/social media. Also, what rights don't black people that you were fighting for? Just curious...

    • @FrederikEngelmand
      @FrederikEngelmand Před 11 měsíci

      That's what i thought. I think he has had too many dates where he had to defend himself over not being a BLM. but he prob came off too strong. And the way she said white male.... Ugh.

  • @solgae
    @solgae Před rokem

    영상 잘 보았습니다 듣고싶은 영상입니다 감사합니다

  • @dbsk7545
    @dbsk7545 Před 2 lety +2

    holy shit that racist dude had me dying. i hope he had some nice thick eyebrows at least

  • @danielsurvivor1372
    @danielsurvivor1372 Před rokem

    0:08 If he's a schizo? He's a keeper 😂.
    Ok I was joking but man was that dude funny, how did he even come to such a wrong conclusion?